Signs she's interested over text
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- čas přidán 4. 07. 2024
- It can be tricky to know if a girl is interested in you just from exchanging messages with her, however if she is doing a lot of the things I list in this video then its extrememly likely she's interested in you.
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Women can have the highest interest in you one day only to lose it all the next. Key is to always feel good about yourself and do things you enjoy. Never take this game personally
agree, just because she replied you in a very short message it doesn't mean she's not interested, some girls just don't go over text. Just tell her directly if she wanna date or not and that's it. Don't just sit and text her
lasfinezt Lol, very true. I had a date setup after quarantine with this girl, but then I wanted to have FaceTime dates, since the actual date is gonna take longer to happen. She gave me her and after that never picked up or replied to any of my texts. Lol
Everything he mentioned happened and then I get hit from left field, keep control of yourselves
reyzuna very true that’s why it’s important not to get discouraged. Every text exchange is different. If she gives you the runaround no big deal, always have options
luke jacob I think that FaceTime chats are good and all and more personable but maybe you try a different approach with that girl. Maybe she’s shy and uncomfortable on camera. I would try sending her a simple light hearted fun text and work it slowly. It’s all about building comfort. We all move at a different pace. If you are like me and want to be fast paced(which I have had quite a few quick closes) you have to go full throttle in person. Try and get the instadate and go for the close all at once. Even if you don’t succeed that day you will have built comfort with that girl. She will appreciate your efforts most of the time and probably be asking for YOUR number.
Roman Reigns out here talking the truth!
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He had to make ends meet somehow
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*THIS IS MY YARD NOW*
“Dating couple girls” damn I can’t even get one. Hand one over
yeah and they totally dont know about each other with him making youtube contents on this topic, isnt that just a bit fishy ? dont u think ?
00utofcpt well you know these days dating is very casual so they probably wouldn’t care that much unless it’s exclusive
She responds✅ She writes a lot✅ She replies quickly✅ She listens✅ She texts first✅ She remembers what I say✅ She asks questions✅ She sends photos✅ She tells what she’s doing✅
Damn, I guess I’m handling it pretty well. Gotta set up a FaceTime date now.
A year a go I was over pursuing and being a simp which make her lose interest in me, she wouldn’t even wanna meet when I asked her to hang after not seeing her in months and she was actually the one asking about when I’d be in town!🙄 (we live in different countries). I stopped texting her for half a year and now she’s the one texting me every 4 days or so. Not over pursuing and having your own life before putting yours for someone else’s is key. Keep chat light and let her do the work to make sure she’s actually into you. When you see she starts to text you first, give short but interesting answers so she doesn’t get bored and whenever you ask something act like it’s not the big deal, if she leaves you on open don’t freak out you gotta be confident that she’ll get back to you even if its hours later and you think she already forgot what you guys where talking about, you’ll see😉, never double text unless it’s a meaningful conversation. Keep yourself busy and show her that you actually have stuff to do, so she notices you’re a valuable person with goals in life and she won’t have you her way but will have to work to get you. Leave her wonder about you by not texting her every day!. Hard work pays off even if you don’t have to do much like in this type of situation lol trust me.
I’m not love guru or anything like that hahahah just sharing some info I had to learn in the veeery hard way that might help someone in need just like I did once. I still have things to learn like how to be an ahole when I need to cuz I’m a very nice person to everyone which can be confused with “pleaser” when talking to a girl... any suggestions will be well appreciated
Congrats mate ;) Hope the date goes well
Really appreciate you bro for taking your time to share these experiencea with us✌️
💯 this is the mindset to have and we all know it, the struggle is too truly feel this way. Truly being unphased about her text back, sometimes when we are alone in our rooms it is very easy to let the negative thoughts come in. You just have to remember that we are all humans going through a constant struggle within. The quicker we accept this the quicker we can move forward. The guys out here that have the most success also have the best mental game.
lasfinezt for sure dude! it wasn’t easy to get to the state I am right now and it won’t for anyone that tries. I will always remember my old me spending hours and hours asking my self what I did “wrong” and why she didn’t answered and started acting strange. For anyone out there just be patient! If you messed up then you gotta understand that there’s a 50/50 chance she’ll be back if you learn how to be better and if she doesn’t just be happy cuz you have more time to learn all the principles so you’re 100% ready next time you meet a girl.
Sebastian Del Solar if your country is on lockdown - don't get your hopes up too much. For example, lots of women on tiktok have openly admitted in their posts that nothing's gonna happen between their quarantine pen pals once everything's over.
But there's an exception in everything, and I do wish you the best of luck with her. Just be careful that she doesn't string you along
Bonus: She's asking for your opinion
Grischa Baug... watch out, could be friendzone
as a rule, the women who I texted the least, were into me the most, and the women who I over texted, I lost.... in a nutshell, just like Corey Wayne says... texting is to set up dates, and that's it....
Not exactly. Although overtexting is definitely a problem
Yea not exactly because if you just texting to set up dates. The other guy is talking more and setting up sex.
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SJ I know all CW, but I’m telling you the more confident guy that goes after what he wants is going to get the action. You can sit back and wait,I’m going in for the kill. If I don’t get what I want boom on to the next. High value men give no fucks,we don’t care about raising interest because we have many women.
What dates are you setting up during quarantine? 🤔
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Damn man just minutes ago hahahha
I had a girl tell me: I see you are used to getting your way all the time. We kicked it for a few weeks and she disappeared. No word. I understood that some girls simply come to your life to try and beat you down for no reason.
So, don’t beat yourself up. If you are asking yourself too many questions like is she playing games, trust your guts, she’s playing games. She’s got other dudes, u ain’t the only one. Just dont CARE. Focus on yourself.
I can relate, I had this girl approach me at a bar while I was alone, bored, and on my way out. She thought i was this cute but quiet guy probably because I was solo. We texted and had a date set up but everytime I would make convo with her she would try the fuck out of me. Insulting my intelligence and shit which I got tired of and demanded respect. I told her that I wasn’t going to have her insult me period. Most guys will put up with that just to try and smash. Interactions are supposed to be fun so when that’s out the window, drop that bitch with a smile and move forward
lasfinezt word bro. Good you moved on. Stay on your purpose and nothing else
There’s a difference between dating and being exclusive
Men out there, NOFAP hard mode during the quarantine, improve yourself and then go out and show off the NEW YOU when we're all free!
Whenever a girl text first, it often starts with a "Hi" and expects us to carry the conversation 🙄
A known fact that sucks 🙆🙆
😂 you better get used to that because that’s the best you’re going to get out of a girl. If she said some detailed clever ass shit would that not freak you out a bit??🤔
Lmao
@@lasfinezt not really, cuz I've known for quite a while that those clever ass shit are what you call mind games.
Just dont take it seriously
Dude this is 100 % true. Everytime I text first I try to be as funny,witty and interesting as possible but when she texts first is like '' hey,where are you hiding ? ''
Lloyd has the right idea. Always entertain as many dating opportunities you can handle. It's the path of finding the prefect girl friend for you when your ready.
Lol he said I’m dating a couple girls, damn dude
Lol it be like that sometimes, females do it too
Casually dating, I’m sure he’s not in a serious relationship with both women at the same time
Yeah after he said that i immediatly went to the comment section
he should just stay home
thesingleguy
Great video. Short, precise and straight to the point. Good job man.
I never knew Jesus gives dating advice
He probably gives it, but first step is to built relationship with Him ;)
No that sounds dumb and corny
Honestly, Jesus is the only one who could help me.
He looks more like a Jason Mamoa without the PEDs
He does read the bible
Did this guy just say im dating a couple of girls right now.. wait what? A couple
the_barn_acle he’s a legend what do you expect
it means two or a few
did this guy just say "i'm dating"? he should be locked inside like everyone else, why is he going out with girls? stay home man
While his yt name is single guy
I love how he had to check his list before continuing...
way to enforce your credibility Lloyd
This may be more like "if she doesn't do this she is not interested, if she does, she might be interested"
You are giving advance red flag knowledge to people, you are great.
Bro when did Jason momoa started to give relationship advice?
Keep up the good videos, your killing it
Idk why but every time you said one of those points, I cracked up man. 😂
I remember that my ex never asked me questions about myself, not because she wasn't interested, she's just not used to it... Some girls just don't know how to make a conversation
Hey. I'm asian guy, from Philippines. I like that last part you inserted .
Hey Llyod, I really like your videos, man! Great advice. I was paying attention to the signs in the video, to see if this girl I like, likes me back. She does everything right in the video, except the parts where she hardly texts me first, and when we're texting, she sometimes esponds with short texts.
She text back!!!! Boom!!! Keep it simple and KNOW, its not the end of the world of shes not!!! Always progressing men!!! YOU ARE WORTHY 🤘❤🔥❤🔥
thanks men, a simple mindset is a good mindset
Everything in person is better if you can do that instead of texting then always chose that.
Needy in person > needy through texts.
Dont change your day to text a girl but just take your time sometimes to respond and then focus on continuing what you are doing
This man is a gem 💎 clutch video bro❕
great really good tips man !!!
Thanks for the tips Aquaman
Oh no you didn't hehe 🤣🤣🤣
after watching this video, these are so obvious yet when we dig into a girl we dont really see... I used to chase a girl that literally never showed much attention until i started getting with other girls, but i always fell back on her lap. Long story short, once a simp never a simp. Learned the hard way
Well in my situation she has her read receipts on (so it’s not like she read it before I sent it to think about what to say) when she replies she sends block texts and she asks me questions, but she takes hours to respond, so that’s the part that is tricky for me.
All these texting mind games and strategies; when to text, how long to text, when to respond , whether to use an emoji or not, deciphering her texts, is the exact reason I only use the phone to set dates. Good secure busy women will be good with that
I often watch some dating advice, like your site and other's thanks for some advice
Hi this question is a bit off topic but I recently what your video on places to meet girls other than bars and clubs. I found the video really helpful as I'm not too big on clubbing. However I did notice that you said that you'd slept with most of the attractive girls on your soccer team. So my question is what is the safest way to do something like that as it seems a bit risky if those girls start talking to each other. Big fan of the channel and keep up the good work 👍
Or if she’s taking too long to reply, it could be a game she’s playing with you to be petty and to act like she’s not too “needy” girls do it all the time.
In our current social climate where woman claim they're not equal to men, woman should step up and message the guys first as there job.
I've had ex send me a pic during the courting period. I've also had a ex send me pics after I reconnected with her and I screwed that up and now I have someone send me pics occasionally now
That's most people today... they don't read the whole thing, and can't think of anything to say either.
Hi Loyd!
I like your work bro it helps me a lot !
Im going on date with one girl and when we do she looks nervous not bored she accepts to go out with me.But when i text her she doesent reply to my texts and if she does it takes too long.
Do you think that i have chance with her?
Thank you in advance bro, keep going!
You don't need those signs if you never got a message
Had all this, didnt want to go out with me, and i asked her twice.
Jason Momoa out here giving dating advice
The point about if she remembers things is tricky tho. I met a girl before she barely remembers what I said. Then I thought well she was not interested. However, it turned out to be she was after I lost interest.lol
Lloyd you know good and well you're not getting a haircut. Don't lie to us. 🤫
1:42 hes dating a COUPLE girls right now
But he doesn't want to show them because the cameras are on
You always say be on yr purpose have yr own stuff going on.. how did you go about discovering yours? I feel like my dream career is related to personal development but how do that when my own desired relationship isn't there? I also let go of all my low value friends so left with none. If my purpose isn't clear and friends not there seems to make lack of a relationship even more apparent. What's your advice for this?
Ok so I'm totally confused! @ 5:45 I get this with a girl I'm currently about to go on a date this week. She doesn't really ask me how I am or what I've been doing back, or ask many questions about me. Then @ 6:08 I get this too. So you say she's interested in me and isn't at the same time? She has sent me photos without me asking and she has said that she likes me and is interested... It's really confusing.
Dating a couple of girls right now😂🔥
This girl only exchanges memes. Though there are conversations, mostly it is me initiating them. I tried ending it by going completely off with her but her sending memes on a daily basis wont stop. Hard to figure out if she in or out! 😅
I text her once a week , as we haven't talk since March 2020 as covid is to blame
Hey, idk if I’m gonna get a response but what if she texts first but you’ve been talking for sometime and haven’t really gone out on like dates cause this dumb corona virus.
I once heard a girl saying "I'm a fast replyer don't feel special " what was that about
I just met this girl. We made eye contact and smiled many times. I found her IG we texted. One thing I noticed was she replied big paragraphs and now she invited me to one of her live performances. I assume she could be interested or is just super nice.
How did it go with the girl bro?
@@WiseFoolTrading damn bro totally forgot about this...yea not so well. I was basically a backup and now she's back with her ex. Ruthless world but I'm better now that I really forgot about it.
@@endangeredmexican9644 that’s alright bro, keep working on yourself and everything happens for the best anyway :)
I actually have a problem rn as well, been speaking to this girl on insta but her replies are so dead and the convo is so dry and not because of me. I gave her the benefit of the doubt and maybe she’s just a bad texter, so I asked for her phone number so we could speak on the phone. She replies saying why do you want it? Lmaooo this girl is busting my balls man
My guy looks like that one villain that later turns good
Have most of these, except it takes her sometimes up to a day to respond, which is a big red flag tbh
just do whatever you gonna do, don't rely on this step by step like you're in a scripted act. If a person likes you it doesn't matter short or long your replies, she's going to treasure it in many ways. If she's not interested in you she will still reply to you a very long messages mostly if she feels like you're a trusted friend. The only thing you're going to discover the truth is to ask her directly if she wanna date with you or not.
Are you sure about this
Your understanding of long boarding and her understanding of long boarding are two different definitions of long boarding.
The girl that I text responded me very well as you said. We haven't met in real life. We are in different places. We can't meet in person due to this lockdown. Sometimes, she doesn't pickup when I called her. She said she was not in a mood to talk. She is introvert girl, doesn't talk much. She seems she is interested. Sometimes, I am thinking of stop talking to her. I don't know what to do.
text her your POV. you don't have to text her all the damn time if you want to talk on the phone. i do prefer to talk on the phone, especially these days. if she ain't up for it, then it's a red flag to me and i move on to someone else
know what u mean man
Bratan even if she reacts the way you describe, believe me she could just be looking for a friend(zone)
TheSingleGuy where are you from and what ethnicity are you :D
The girl i like will laugh in our conversation and she replied to my question when I asked her if she has been working and then she asked me how my holiday is that a good sign because I seem to have 2 signs but rest is not happening is this still good
Hey Lloyd, the videos are super beneficial, Appreciate the work! Being 16, I have been on my purpose with my hobbies (Fragrances, watches, finance, fitness). I've been interested in this 21 year old since I tend to go to older women. Do you think it's possible to develop a relationship? She's in the financing career that I could easily connect with. How would you be able to approach this situation where we have never talked before.
Curtis damn bro thats a huge age difference. But anything is possible dude never give up!
@@sebastiandelsolar1 If she and I were older, the age gap is acceptable. But, the life stages of a 16 and 21yo is huge. I'm not letting that affect me.
Curtis I totally get you bro. It’s good that you won’t let that affect you tho, in a couple years or three the age gap will be more than acceptable 18-23 that sounds okay
@@curtis7509 you’re an idiot if you think you have a chance that’s a women and you’re a boy
The plusses in there is because she only wants you to do something for her and when she's done getting it, good luck being on seen 24/7
All of these things happened to me when i was talking to a girl, only for it to fade away slowly and then she started ignoring, i still don't know today what the reason is, but she left me hanging with questions... i decided to give up and move on.
I will never understand how guys get hung up on a girl that doesn't even text back.
You sshould make a video about if bbn girls like guys with long hair
Well the girl im talking to now always calls me fine, hot and is always complimenting me..... and she loves my personality but sometimes i worry coz she calls me bro, dude and even once mentioned that i'm her friend....... but we r always flirting and stuff soooo does she like me???
Holy shit, she literally does everything that this dude mentioned. She does all of that stuff. So does this mean that she’s really into me????? Tbh I never text her first she always texting me first, sends me photos, asked me questions, remembers everything I say, etc. lol
Heck yeah, she was when you wrote that 6 months ago. How is it going?
I usted to text w this girl, she often replied, and sometimes ghosted me. Then came back too flirty, then ghosted me again. She used to send me lots of pictures: the places where she was, her family, etc but never sent me a selfie. Also she never ever asked me a personal question other than "so what are you doing?" Or "how've you been?". She was so confusing
So, basically if she treat me like a human being, not a garbage, she is into me? I am not reaaaally sure about this.
Does videos fall I to the foto category?
Keep getting the same girl watching all my snaps and now is one of the first to watch them. When I text her she replies immediately and on top of that loads of texts to keep it going. But I'm scared to take it to the next level as I reckon I will blow it
Go for it b
You miss 💯 % of the shots you don’t take
Ayo, Aquaman.
How can I tell when somethings *"Fishy"* in my relationship?
What if she's doing all of these?😩 Should I ask her out? Or is she just being nice man I don't know what to do...
This girl is literally confusing. We text a lot and she texts me huge paragraphs. We have good chemistry, I just don’t know. I explained my feelings to her. I mean not really, just slick like” at least you know how I feel about you” and then now it’s like we still are cool. She really doesn’t have time she’s very busy. Same with me. I think I should have made a move the day I spoke with her. We have extremely strong eye contact, I can tell she’s shy to touch me. And actually she messaged me first once. She laughs at almost everything I say, even told her mom about me. I think she’s hiding? Or I don’t know? I meant to ask how she feels about me. Should I do it through text now or should I wait til we are in person?
So this is what Roman Reigns is up too.
I've got a couple. Most recently, she went to her brothers wedding, she sent me a picture of her in her wedding outfit. She has also sent me pics of her and her kids, her daughters birthday was this past week, she sent me a pic of her daughter only on her birthday.
She sometimes text first, usually good morning. When I do text her and she doesnt respond she will text later and explain why she couldnt text at the time. No, I never ask why. Almost every text she will ask, at some point, what are you doing now?
Sometimes I think I should ask her to go for a drink. She always answers how her day was and always asks hows your'e going? I think she might be more interested than just being friends. Lastly, I said as I was leaving yesterday, I'll see ya Tuesday. She said I 'll see you then, oh, and message me if you have a minute.
Came here for girl advice. Realized I'm gay about 10 seconds into the video and no longer need the information in this video.
dude what does it mean if girl text you that she want me with her and she needs me?
Omg aqua man !!!
How freaking annoying it is when she fills every single step from this video, yet she doesnt wanna meet up
In my opinion, the only way to figure out if she is interested through texts is if she initiate it or not.
That's the first thing to look for in my opinion, not in the earliest stages, i agree on that.
There's that girl, she lost interest in me for some reasons, but i can tell u if i message her, she will answer pretty fast and ask me questions, and get interested in what i say.
But i can tell you that she is not interested, and never initiate the texting by herself.
Did not message her in almost a month, she did not too.
Hi :) i just wanted to say that I am that kind of girl that doesn't want to be too pushy and is scared to scare the man away with initiating texts or is worried that when I text a guy, he will think that he doesn't have to pursue me anymore because he already has me so maybe your girl was the same. Maybe she was just too scared that you would think that she is too much (I think that when I text a guy first, I don't know why)
@@rebelious8temptation I don't think really fit my case because she was showing interest in me too, but i missed the test when she pulled away and since... vibe has changed.
Thanks for ur advice anyway :)
What about this situ: This girl and I started texting (on tinder) and I ask her questions. She responds to everything except for when I ask her for her number. I've asked twice, and she's responded to everything- fairly quickly too- but has ignored the number question twice. What's that about? Albeit, we haven't texted a lot. But I feel like she can at least give a reason. She doesn't ask me questions either. I kind of just put her to the side, I never responded to her last message. Just feels like I'm putting more into a chat than she is.
Shes looking for attention and has no intention of meeting up bro
What should I do if she blue ticks me?
hmmm turns out she was interested in me.....for 2 weeks
Hey loyd I'm 25 years old and I'm single for 5 years, I'm texting a girl I met in a dating app but now she suddenly stop texting me, at first Im being too needy but she's into me she's texting a lot, sends pictures and even share her experiences with me. She starts not to reply immediately took hours but it has still a content not a one word or a boring reply then the following days she took days to reply and I even saw she's online in a social media but I can get a reply. I initiate conversation all the time, what to do? Please I need advise, I know she's not interested anymore but Im in a
emotional quick sand right now. Thanks!
Here is what you should do. The same advice I gave myself. First,you need to learn how to stay motivated and go forward in life even when the girl you like doesn't actually like you back. That's fine. You have to use that as fuel. The next thing you have to do is stop for a second and think about what goals you have in life. Start chasing those goals like a madman.Not for a week,a month but for years. Go on that jounrey,set goals and go after them. The path will never be as clear as you think but it will have bunch of upsn and downs. During that path you will develeope confidence and self-wroth. Once you respect yourself for what you achived in life,short-term or long-term you will learn to respect and value yourself. Thant the 3rd thing you have to do is so stop being picky. If a girl is into you ? Go with it. Don't wait around just becasue you don't think she's perfect or she's not the one. Take all the chances you can even if you just kinda like her. Date her,have sex with her... that way you will get the neccesery expirence when you get the girl you really like. And don't be affraid of rejection. Approach a woman when you can but don't take it to seriously. Go with a flow...and never,ever put a woman on the pedistal. Trust me. I'm speaking from expirence. But among everything...the most important thing is to build yousefl up. The same way we see attractive females,that's how they have to see you and the easisest way to do that..is to work on yourelf and get out of your comfort zone. No matter how down you are...the secret is always in the work.
Stay beastly.. oh wait, wrong channel 😅
This guy looks a lot like Aquaman imo
Yo aqua man is realing in the babes
what if she said me "man ,dude" like things with her messges?
All of this except she doesn't text first.
so there is this girl who told me "i want to talk about something important with you" to when i asked she said "i love you, thats what i wanted to talk about" but we didn't even had a date before that, just texting, so i answered "idk how to answer to this lol" and then she assumed i have a girlfriend, since then she never mentioned it again and all the emojis disappeared
Im single thats the fun part lmao
This was similar to me! Talk to a girl for months over similar hobbies, but I never knew how she looked like. I posted my pictures online and she saw it. Following which, she suddenly told me "I love you" a few weeks after that. I just kind of ignore what she wrote because I don't see us that way and now we only occasionally talk to catch up.
I know I have to text women these days, and I do it, but either way it's kind of a hate-hate relationship.
I really would love to travel back in time for a couple weeks to see how dating was without all the tech/texting.
couple weeks? you mean couple of decades
federico B he means travel back in time and stay there for a couple weeks
@@freddylimpster7137 yeah, I meant travel back YEARS and then stay for some weeks.
I can't make this girl to send a damn selfie and i don't know what i'm missing. Other than that i have all these ticked
Single momoa
I have an unrelated ques - how the hell did you manage to grow your hair so long?
It's called "Not cutting it"
Busy busy busy busy busy is all I hear
Is anyone else smashing during these times??
What if she’s always down to hang but doesn’t show interest in person?
Did he say he is dating a couple of girls?💀👀