What to text a girl who stopped responding to you
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- čas přidán 30. 06. 2024
- In this video I talk about what to do and send when a girl is not responding to you. I tell you the last resort message to send and give you some examples where this has actually worked.
0:36 Relax
1:53 Its just a text message
2:38 How are you texting her?
3:33 Be present on Social Media
4:03 What to actually send
5:05 Most likely to respond text
5:40 Last resort message
6:30 When to move on
7:28 When has this worked?
9:26 Be wary of these kinds of girls
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My favorite quote ever that helps me out when i get ghosted: "remember guys, no matter how beautiful she is, somewhere out there, there is a guy who is tired of her shit."
🤣🤣🤣thank you
Really needed that I feel like she is being distant
That quote is inspired by a quote from Alfie, the 2004 film with Jude Law. It goes like this: "Whenever you meet a beautiful woman, just remember somewhere there's a man who's sick of shagging her."
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That guy is me 😚
Doesn't really help tbh
Took your advice and started texting 5 other girls... they stopped responding too...
Try another 20. You might get atleast one?
Maybe your talking to the wrong girls....i had that issue
NorekXtreme take the hint.
It can be a handful, like NPCs bots.
Message your mum and tell her you love her
What to text a girl if she's stopped responding to you: Nothing, absolutely nothing. Do not push things. It's on her to answer at that point, and if she doesn't, that's it. Don't be thirsty, don't be a simp, an don't waste your time.
You drop this 👑
Yeah 😇🔥✨. Bro I screenshot your comment . I learn something.. I don't text her from tomorrow....
The waste thing to do is waste your time
If she ghosted you but gets back to in the future as if nothing happened -- do not take her back. Answer her calmly and kindly, but inform her that when you did not hear back from her, you moved on. Wish her well and block her.
Gentlemen, she gets ONE chance. ONE!
no she has to explain herself so we can get feedback to improve otherwise how else are we going to improve we might encounter the same encounter again with the next woman. i'm sick of society allowing women to get away with so much.
If she doesn’t text you back... go on with your life, your life is too precious to worry over a girl. Nobody is bad at texting in today’s society, if the girl likes you she’ll take her time to reply and tell you that she was busy or something. Just move on if she doesn’t text back, simple.
Prezzly Vang I’m gonna have to go with this guys advice , screw it im moving on 🤷🏽♂️ o well
tekno_terror Then talk to her, don’t be afraid to confront her about it. You guys are in a relationship after all. You guys are suppose to communicate and work things out when something is not right. And if she’s not seeing it or is ignoring it? Then obviously something’s up. But how you approach it is the real question. Don’t just come out straight forward being like “Aye wtf is going on why you not texting back!” That’s a very unsettling way of asking her about it, you might even scare her off and make her uncomfortable. In the end, it all comes down to how you approach it.
tekno_terror I mean at this point there’s only two things you can do. One, you stay and see where things turn out if you really want. Two, just leave. I don’t entirely know your situation, but we’re in quarantine. There should be no excuse for her to not wanna talk to you unless she’s a nurse working on the front lines fighting corona or is cheating on you or whatever. So if you wanna stay and see where things turn out? That’s gonna be really hard when you love someone who isn’t giving you the same energy. If not then just leave. I know this sounds ironic, but if you truly love someone let them go. And if they truly love you then they’ll come runnin back. If it were me? From my experience when a girl is actin up or changed, don’t chase her. Chasing a girl when they’re not feeling you anymore is only gonna tempt them to push you away more.
@@Youstoopidahh do you use instagram ? Need to talk to you
Girls are never busy
If she isn’t responding you... give all glory to God
Perfect
Yessir.. Jesus is king
@@TheGamerLycan PORSCHE-King of the auto- bahn..
BASED.
Best
If she doesn't respond back then cut her off. She's not worth all that chasing. And if she flakes twice drop her I agree though.
I don't know if I would consider sending two text messages spaced apart as "chasing" but I see where you're coming from.
Yeah lol. Like if she doesn't respond after two text messages that's when I ghost them. Most of the time they eventually find a way to reach out. Keep up the good work bro. I'mma subscribe to your channel
Wait. I already did lol.
@@illusionalfilms3792 Awesome man great to have you
@@illusionalfilms3792 that's the honest truth as much as they stay on there phone females see every text they know what there doing when they don't respond no need to chase after the 2nd or 3rd text just delete
Basically what you need to do is.... Nothing
Bro, if she can't find 30 seconds of at least every 2h to text, she ain't worth your time and effort. Period.
Even if she works she can txt at least 1 or twice a day to txt u .
@Freddie Boom Boom Washington I don't care if she is the ceo of a large company, u ALWAYS make time for someone you are interested in. Would you ever NOT text or forget to text someone u r interested? If ur answer is yes, then u r not interested enough ...that is the same reason she is not responding
Love the grb 💪🇭🇷
If she doesn’t respond move on and text someone else who will .. simple
Exactly
Its not just that. Your texts should be about setting up a date. Not for chatting
You already got validated getting her number on the streets/dating app/social media. So you can ask for a date to see how you both like echothers in real life
Guys who go into chatting mode in texts is a huge mistake. Never do that.
Also take your time to text. And send as less texts as possible. Dont be that guy who send her 4 consecutives unanswered texts and respond in the following 3 minutes. This turn them off a lot!
@@mathewvanostin7118 that's a big turn off for any woman.. dudes that do this have no care in themselves
Edward Liao 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽
Mathew Van Ostin the thing is I asked her... And she just kept making excuses....
If she has such a low interest in you that she does not put the minimum effort to even reply to your message, why bother with her at all! Have some self respect guys. Don't double text!
I put on my sunglasses because I was staring directly into the sun during this video
What brand is your sunglasses 😎
Here’s what you text. Nothing... Moving on and spend your valuable time and $$$ on someone who deserves you!
Perhaps the most important takeaway from this video is that being ghosted and abandoned for no apparent reason happens to good-looking and perfectly personable guys like him, too. That’s an incredibly important thing to realise for us less attractive guys - _being treated poorly isn’t always your fault_
So youre saying bad looks are my Bad ??
@@Jackbennedy It's a proven scientific fact that 97% of sentences that start with "So you're saying..." are complete non-sequiturs.
I just hope after I lose another 40 pounds, girls will be more interested in me and quit losing interest after awhile.
@@Jackbennedy 😂😂😂😂😂
@@JuicyLeek So youre saying i talk smack ?
I was dating a woman for 3 months, everything was going great. Then she became distant and takes hours or days to reply to my texts, guess it¡s time to move on..... Too bad, I was becoming attached to this woman. It's crazy how fast women can change their mind.....
she changer her mind because you got too attached and women wanna be the attached ones lol
Well, I mean, my feelings for her were developing, but i never showed her a "needy" attitude......
POOR YOU :(
@@Darkplasmax I now refuse to play a game that I will never win
In my case she kept going back to her ex only interested in me when they weren't getting along. Fucked up
You’re a real one bro. You and your business deserve only success. I wish you happiness and all the riches of life
If she stops texting you, move on. Women play the mind games and she will text multiple people except you. And she'll text people you know to add insult to injury. Ignore her and leave it as is.
I was sitting next to one of the women that would take hours to respond to me. & then I see her responding to whom ever on the spot back & forth
If she doesn’t respond that means she has low to medium interest. Find someone else or you will be wasting your time and money.
That's my biggest problem . I worry about one girl way to much . I always felt like I was doing something wrong talking to a few girls at once lol
Until a girl is committed to you, you owe her nothing
Women are always talking to multiple men. The thing is if a woman knows that other women are interested in you then she will like you more
Yeah things happen but, one thing I've learned is when someone actually wants to talk to you they will.
The real problem is the existence of texting, I remember back when cell phones were just starting everyone was hanging out all the time cause social media or texting weren’t around!
This guy knows what he’s talking about 🙌🏼👌🏼
I'm 31 and I've realized my dating game and all round game has gone down the drain for atleast the past 3 years now, I haven't got that super confidence I use to have in my early 20's, obviously I don't go out much, and have not been looking after my body, and always seem to delay my purpose, but in the past few weeks I'm slowly starting to change my mentality towards looking after myself and really going after my purpose, just need to be consistent and persistent, and hopefully when all these pandemic restrictions are lifted, I would like to start going out and really putting myself back on the scene again as I am a single guy, and don't act like one at the moment, but I'm going to be positive and renovate myself again.
You're a legend, thanks a lot for the effort put into this. Wish you best in 2021
I like this man, he told us the right things to do
I like you bro you are straight up no sugar coating anything 👌🏻
ahhh the magic number in the like count. hope nobody likes this comment
@@prothymos sorry bruh
You know, this is very solid advice. I will have to agree with your account of this subject.
Im glad u shared ur own personal experiences. Its better to hear real life experiences from people. Maybe u can do youtube live and get ppl to talk to u on the phone about their dating experience n get ur feedback
I don't use text message. I talk only. And I call only once. This is my way of living.
Good advice
Great video. "People don't change as much as you think they will." Solid advice and im sorry but this holds particularly true with women. Once they hit about 20, THAT'S who they are.
Right on the bat, thanks man ! I'm doing the same thing, texting some funny stuff, jokes, but i'm sending them once like three days, trying to show her what she losses, if she losses me, and in the meantime i'm texting and seeing another girls. Wish you the best ! Salutations from Romania ! +1 subscriber.
This guys is gold boys, keeping it real telling it how it is 👊🏽
Seems like a good guy, but encouraging you to double and triple text is weak behavior
Finally I find someone with useful content even If Um late ,thanks homie
I ain’t ever heard of anybody say happy Monday
Happy Monday
Sad Friday
Brokeback Wednesday
If she doesn’t respond have some respect for yourself and move on bro there’s billions of girls. Women can’t respect you if you don’t respect yourself.
Bro, so I have something that I learned from Simple Pickup years ago. If the girl doesn’t tell you to fuck off, you keep trying. Of course minimally and never to a point of annoying her, but I literally just said “hey what’s up” every two weeks over a 6 month period.... she would respond 1/3 of the time. the conversations had substance and she seemed interested when we did text. I was still doing my own thing and hanging out with other girls, but this one I had been trying to sleep with for 6 months finally hit me up randomly one night and just asked what I was doing. I said “you if you come over tonight lol”. She responded “see you in a few” and it was an awesome night. Lloyd’s advice is key though. Don’t stress if they don’t immediately get back to you.
Very rarely is a girl going to tell you to fuck off. They want you to take the hint by silence. Stop acting like a creepy stalker. Have some self respect
Problem for most of the guys is .. there aren’t enough options ... getting a response from a girl is once in a blue moon .. just from one girl .. it’s like ... a fisherman waiting for hrs and hrs wth his fishing rod with a bait in the lake .. waiting for that one fish to get trapped .. so more the wait .. more the desperation .. subconsciously .. and to add to the agony ..this is the one and only option at a time ..
If a female stopped responding to your text message.
Check your last message sent and make sure it’s a text that can easily be responded to, if it’s a question leave it at that. If it’s you just simply answering a question or a full response and that’s it, reply back with a follow up question or just something funny etc
(if a couple hours has passed or more, then it’s too late. Try again tomorrow and start off the conversation new)
If the text is easily to reply to and she ignored it/doesn’t reply back?
Move on. Life is too short to stay stuck on a female. 50/50 she’ll hit you up with in a week asking you what’s up either way.
What defines be easy or hard to respond too? Lol if someone finds something difficult to respond to and cant keep a convo flowing then they have poor communication and that will come to surface down the road. No thanks!
Ur making a point bcos someone like me won't respond to hi or what
@@Pma686usually, if there's no question then they may not bother responding because they "don't know what to say.."
@@acharich so conversations only stay intact because of questions? Lol what kind of convo is solely based on questions?
This is honestly retarded fuck her I will show that bitch how much I loved her.
this guy speaks the truth!!!
I think it’s pretty common sense, if she don’t reply it’s clear u shouldn’t waste anytime on her!
This channel and him deserve much more subs
This guy gives the best advice, and 9 times out of 10 his answer is the Same "you need to move on" and that is 9 out of 10 times the best thing you can do as a guy, and once you understand that, dating becomes much easier
In this day and age its not worth to text her again. Only deal with high interest women. Dating is time & money consuming, why chase someone who already shows u there is low to no return on investment.
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Man I agree with you, when you sum it all up if it works or not it's your time and money in the investment, for the most part.
Happy monday!
Some great points Lloyd
I actually really appreciate that this doesn't try and convince you "this will work!" like all the ads and other bullshit artists. Life doesn't work the way they try and sell you on it. Women are not a monolith. Sometimes shit works, sometimes it doesn't
“She didn’t respond to happy monday...😑” lmao you’re one my favorite channels, keep up the high quality work!
Haha thanks homie. Trying to keep it up
@@TheSingleGuy I was actually thinking about that when you said that "happy monday" shit and wondered how I would respond to that..well you actually can by sending a giphy back that mondays suck or something funny , or it´s your day off from work etc ...But yeah Mondays if your working are never "happy" lol
@@Proposal12 💀💀💀
If she regularly takes a long time to respond or doesnt respond at all she is just not that interested. Why deal with low interest women? Its not worth it.
She's high value
When the sunglasses come on the dawg comes outta him. Love the videos keep em coming
Really glad I found your channel man! Appreciated listening and subbed!!
That happy Monday part took me out 😭
Fr that shit was hilarious
Hey man, so I’ve been watching your videos for a while now and it has helped me soo much in communication with women and how to get more confident. You have helped me overcome my anxiety and I can’t thank you enough for that. I would like to know if you have any ways of helping you, like Pateron or CZcams subscription or something like that where I can help you to make more videos. Lemme know 😁👍
I make all my money through coaching clients. So if you're interested in that hit me up! I just don't know if a patreon is the right move for me at this point but I will be coming out with an audiobook and products soon so be on the look out for that. Glad I could help you buddy!
Right to the point! “Done, se acabó “
I love your channel man great advice no bullshit
If she doesn’t respond ‘fine I’ll just continue seeing the other 2/3 girls whilst I was still seeing you’ watch her ego get destroyed after feeling like shit.
"Happy Monday!" 🤣🤣🤣
Always on point Bro!! Thanx for the Advice 😎🤘
Thanks homie!
I do this all the time mate your advice is solid some times people are just busy women are normally thinking the same things guys are.
The over-exposure is strong with this one..
Great content though
Andy Carroll? Thanks for your advice :D
😂😤😂
Excellent advice. Thanks for helping me navigate my weird crush's brain.
@ 2:50 that face palm though is priceless LMFAO
"Happy Monday" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Hey I’m dropping you. I’m def stealing that line 😂😂
She Responding me After 15 day 😂😂😂
3 days and she hasn't responded, damn bhai 🙄
Such great advise 💯
Love your channel bro already. This is my second video can't wait to check out thw rest.
Haha thanks man. There's a lot to check out!
@@TheSingleGuy Sick bro. Looking forward to checking it all out!
Thank You great content ☝️❤️✌️😊🦁👊
thanks homie
Today I'm just going to change my number. Easier for me to move on and find people that actually care and want to know me.
So Happy Monday!
You're a doctor of all the dating problems
Why do girls have to be so goddang complicated
It all started with eve eating the the apple
Not Complicated if you have a big wallet
Umm, I'm getting the same bs from guys too sooo
@@itsDjjayy yea same question
Watch that mouth man I got them soap hands 😂😂
Why would you continue trying to text a woman who stopped responding to you? Delete her number. In fact, block her number so she can't reach you four months later when the princess has the audacity to think that she can walk back into your life as if nothing happened.
This happened to me. A girl messaged me back as soon as i was finally over her
@@johnclark8637 I hope you didn't answer her!
@@David-lx4yb I did unfortunately
@@johnclark8637 Uhhhhgggg...! Bad, bad, bad! Don't contact her again.
@@David-lx4yb Haha I don't plan on it
Awesome content, man!!
Great stuff Bro!!!
If a girl doesn’t wanna talk to you she should say I don’t want to talk to you anymore and not ignore you thats so annoying
I used to like this girl like 2 years ago , I mean I had a crazy kinda crush on her and even approached her first. At first she replied to my texts , but just after a couple of days , she started to ignore my texts or replied to those like after 8-12 hrs even tho she was online all day. One day I just had enough and said to myself that just let her f off. I deleted her number , muted her social media. Ofcousrse it was hard to stop thinking about her even after that , but eventually I was over that phase in like 2 months. I stopped thinking about her completely. Now two years later when I think about that moment , it just makes me laugh at myself .
Nothing to really laugh at, you did GREAT. If you wouod have kept pursuing her, now that would be something to laugh at in embarrassments
Yeah I’m in the same spot myself haha. It’s actually super hard for me considering she works in the building next door (I work in a store) but don’t regret trying🤷🏽♂️
Great advice bro!!!! God bless 🙏🙏
Needed this bro 🤙🏽
It’s alright messaging someone else until 2-3 come through and you have to decide, its a loose loose situation
Texting is devoid of emotion, true intent and meaning, and inflection. Btw, "Happy Monday" is nothing more than a greeting. It doesn't require a response, but it's just nice to know they are thinking of you.
Glad I subscribed to this channel 👍
Helped a fuck ton, thanks. I think i needed to hear someone else say its time to move on.
If she doesn't respond I just continue to watch Netflix
can i send a good moring text
Darth Maul no
That's why she doesn't respond in the first place.
@@Fit_soldier that's definitely not dark side energy
@@weyjosh5213 that’s simp energy right there
Just give them a good bye and block. Tell them it was nice knowing you but its time to say goodbye. The girls get their egos on top when you insist too much. When you give them too much importance. The reason she stopped responding after sexting with you senselessly just because of a quarrel is probably because she found the gold she was looking for in someone else.
Smh
Great job sectioning the video!
Best channel in the youtube
Fellas now we send off the “Hoping the Corona didn’t catch you?”
Definitely using this one lol
A+ = “This is so us, me doing all the talking and you sitting there looking cute”
Bro... you're a genius
excellent videos mate.
The western world problem is there women , in Africa our women doesn't give us problem
In America most girls flake even if weren't born here. Hate that mentality. Most other country girls (not cowgirl types) barely flake.
Well, Western women might give you blue balls but at least they won't give you AIDS, eh buddy?
😃😃😃😃😁😁😉😉😉🙈
Social media is becoming big in Africa so I think it’s an African problem as well. I talk to some relatives in Nigeria.
@@liverturcxdanpavs Actually some African women wouldn’t give AIDS and probably eat lots of organic food.
if she hasn’t responded, impress her by a phone call . the are you alive text can come off as controlling, especially thru text. pick up the phone and call, if you get vm leave a nice one if she doesn’t call back it’s done, drop her and move on
PREACH BRO!!!!
Great advice mate
I try, i fail, i move on im a simple dude
Dudes: it's the "one strike you're out" rule.
Send text or ask her out.
No response or a lame excuse for not accepting the invitation?
Move on!
You have a new subscriber 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Happy Monday!
I tried the hey I think I’m pregnant text message 😂
We were talking yesterday etc and today I texted her a “Good Morning😄” like a normal person and she ghosted me I mean WTF? It’s not like I asked a nude pic or something....what’s wrong with girls nowadays? You are polite you are interested in what they have to say, you want to learn more about them (what they like, hobbies etc) only to read your message and never text back. And talking to multiple girls? What is this? So you are saying talk with multiple girls etc and if the one that you really want likes you back and everything works out then what happens to the other girls who started to like you? You reject them or ghost them? Then you ain’t better than the girl who ghosted you!
True
Don’t hate the players , hate how the game is played .
Agreed. Ghosting sucks whether you’re the victim or initiate it. Easier said than done but I think ppl should just be honest when they find themselves in this situation. It might be awkward but just reject them gently and respectfully. It’s always gonna be a little awkward but would be much less so if the norm was just to be up front.
Happy Monday 😆😆😆😆
I call BS….If I keep texting a woman and she don’t respond she is ignoring me,people look at there phone way to much not to see your message..it only take five seconds to respond to a message
Ikr