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Maybe we should have a system that doesn't annihilate the man in a divorce.
That's an audacious idea
I have an idea. Let people get a divorce but only get paid what they actually put into the relationship. If you want access to someone's resources, stay in the relationship. If you want out and away from them, then should be an option for people.
But you don't need half the assets or alimony.
All facts. Wouldnât these ideas be great.
It makes sense, like I once said, whoever wants my money has to put up with me.
No fault divorce shouldn't even be a thing. I believe in vows so in my opinion divorce shouldn't even be a thing.
41, divorced for 3 years, ex cheated and left, raising my boys on my own. They're the only purpose I have
Don't set your life up like this moving forward. There is a whole life process that you are choosing to ignore. All those things you listed are accessories to your life process. You can get engaged and explore something way more fulfilling than all of that limited entangling drama.
I relate to this video and with both comments. Cheers to you Sir for raising men. I also agree with the second comment. My sons were my strength and focus during the BS too. After university was over for them I realized I didnât have much of a personal life. Carpe Diem gentlemen.
you keep going sir, show them the same strength you expect them to have and they'll make you the proudest man around
Don't give up man. Your boys need you, and you don't know what will happen tomorrow.
Become the fucking warrior of your family brođŻ
âMen should talk about their feelings more â
Only to be told man up, get over it, who cares, grown a pair and so on
Or for those feelings to be used against in an argument in the most vile way. I donât despise women but I am horrified what they would say if I let them in on some of the deeper issues in my life, so Iâll be the ârockâ but fuck me if Iâm not afraid of having to open up and be vulnerable. And if they donât use it in an argument theyâll get the âickâ after seeing me weak so then itâs all down hill from there. Woof buddy
Exactly, men need to stop giving other men that advice, it's bad for their health and leads to... this (what the videos referring to)
People as a society should talk about their feelings and communicate more, ...and if you choose to hold it in, then whatever happens is on you also .......you and you only/alone controls what happens/happened ..
Women decide who they will marry, and as the public divorces prove, will lie and steal to get what they want if they loose interest... whatever happens, the blood is on the women for the damage they caused.
@@reneford7409 right. When that happened to me I told myself I wouldnât try it again except for the few people I can count on. Hopefully guys out there can get people they can rely on
yea sadly a 12gauge shell are much cheaper than an alimony and 18years of extortion masked as child support
alimony needs to stop NOW. If the woman gets to keep the lifestyle she's accustomed to, then the ex husband should still be able to smash whenever he wants because that's the lifestyle that HE became accustomed to at one point.
Iâd put anything I had down in a will too be given to my kids when they turn 18 with a letter explaining that their mother is the reason they donât have a father
Almost every woman I know, that started their own business, did so by misusing the child support.
If it's that bad just leave the country. I'd be sitting on a beach in Vietnam or something, it's not worth debt slavery for decades.
I prolly sound insane but Iâd never pay that shit. Want me to be there? Iâm game. Just the money? Go earn it yourself.
Maybe the courts should STOP FAVORING WOMEN IN EVERY SINGLE CASE!!!!
âŠand the women that caused it just says âsee a told you he was a looserâ feel no remorse whatsoever
That would require women to have the capacity to realize they are not perfect and can be wrong. Accountability is women's kryptonite.
Loser. Not loose er. Anyway my guy stay in
Please don't put all women in this because its not the truth for all women..
â@@user-rr6fy5tt3zNot all, not all - but most.
True. They won't waste a thought after a man killed himself. Never.
Ban divorce payments
Not to mention the men that do end up opening up about their vulnerabilities, trusting that their spouse/girlfriend will be there for him, then she either leaves him over it, or ends up weaponizing that vulnerability against him later.
Yep, those are the actual outcomes. It is pure fantasy for a man to expect sympathy. The wag gap is a myth, but the empathy gap is real enough to kill people.
It's called find someone who's loyal, not because she's "pretty" ...now I know why statistics say, "females mentally mature faster than males"...đđ
Or talking shit about him to her girlfriends
100%
@@brentongrinsted3525 100% false
After 40 AND DIVOCRED, a reoccurring theme. A guy gets worked over in divorce court at 45 and his life is severely crippled, there's not enough time left to recover, and they know this.
Sure there is time if you come whatever you have left and dissappear. Flee the countries which have corrupted both marriage and divorce through feminism. Find a woman who respects marriage for life.
@@landen99 I'm all for the passport bros, if they can find happiness, I'm happy for them.
So, here's the reality; you're 45, divorced with kids that you pay CS on. You've been severely injured financially in divorce court and the plan is to leave your children, that you pay CS on, for a foreign country, where you likely don't speak the language, you will undoubtably make less money for the last 20 good years of your life.
That doesn't sound like a plan to me, that sounds like doubling down on stupidity.
This is such a bullshit way to look at life. Life is what you make it.
@@LeahBreHappy Lol. I wouldn't expect anything less from your ilk.
Perception is reality, until reality comes calling.
@LeahBreHappy for a women, yes. Unfortunately, for most men, life is what you manage to survive, and many don't.
46, widowed, single father.
He's got a point.
True happiness is found within, nobody can make you happy.
@@LeahBreHappy live with the absence of light.
When you are alone and cold in the dark. Happy does not come easy.
Today's world, she said I'd find someone. I laughed.
You're amazing, stay strong brother. We are behind you and alongside you. Keep your head up, you are loved by your fellow brothers.
Jesus christ is the way
@@mrb3ardwn386 Jesus is merely our brother from another mother.
After all we are all God's children.
When men talk about their feelings women use that as fuel for attacks against the men's character.
That's actually what men do to other men, hints why they go to women to tell them their feelings because a woman is understanding and nurturing...
Men view "feelings" as weak, hints why they criticize women for being caring or nurturing, ...it's not women who criticize men, it's men who criticize other men ...because if you say it's a women, then why don't men go to their friends and tell them their feelings ...because they know their friends will make fun of them for it....that's why they go to women to tell them their opinions or feelings in the first place
@@reneford7409Actually thatâs completely false. It has been scientifically proven that women end up less attracted to a man if he shows emotion.
@@reneford7409 in what world are u living in?
Women in my life are much harder on me than my friends
@@jazzyjake99 actually what you said is false, I did research and it said, "scientific fact that women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear"...
If the red pill movement wasnât such a thing and shame wasnât coming back, half of these girls would be giggling about this right now. Because I remember thatâs what they used to do when this was first brought up
It's true. Same here.
The Redpill movement is achieving quite a lot. Women are running away from men now. Before hearing what men are thinking, women had all these romantic Disney land fantasies about men, now they know better than to dream.
@@THEINDIFFERENTMILLIPEDE never forget
â@@jonathantaylor7167
Good Men Will Have The Last Laugh.
Never forget
None of them women heard what he just said because they don't give a fck.
4 kids, cheating ex, divorced me in hospital when I had a stroke. Recovering alone, I wished it would have taken me, wanted to delete my self. Hard path to come back from.đą
You're not alone bro.
Find something that makes you smile, makes you feel good. For me, it was a puppy that needed rescuing. So... we kind of rescued each other.
Stay strong my friend.
Dont give up, dont give in! Life is worth living, and you are worth being alive.
Also you have a good taste when it comes to music.
Iâm so sorry to hear that đ„ș Iâm sending u love and hugs đđ»
Iâm sorry that you chose poorly. Seriously, I hope life gets better for you.
Scared of to have kids or commit fully to a woman because the stories of wives leaving and cheating after multiple years being married. After watching plenty of women cheat. Weather it was with me, on me or even another guy. I just canât truly love a woman because I canât find myself to even trust them even if theyâre good women. I know what i heard and saw from a mass majority of women. And only see the dark side of femininity in women. So when a woman show actual genuine interest in me and starts to ask for relationship. I start to think of all the messed up things i saw women do to not only me but other guys as well. Then i ghost them or cut all access to those women. Due to the fact that i donât want any of those problems that comes with modern dating. At the age of 22 i gave up completely on relationships and love and i already accepted the fact that I was going to die alone. But im not depressed about it, its not like im missing out on anything. Im only missing out on ending up as one of the guys who got divorced in the worst way possible telling guys to avoid marriage.
And the women donât care one bit
Men criticize other men more than women, men apparently didn't care if they let them go down that road đ€Šââïžđ€·ââïž...
â@@reneford7409some women really suck
Yup, they just jump to the next safety branch đż
Why should they care its not about them so it doesn't mean anything the truth is most modern women are just selfish but are quick to cry if it's them in trouble
@@reneford7409 men value critique. Men seek out criticism not validation. Itâs the difference between men and women.
If there was a test of 100 questions and a man got 97/100, he would want to discuss the 3 he got wrong. This would become his focus so he would improve.
If a woman got 97/100, she would want to discuss the 97 she got right and how the 3 she got wrong were not her fault.
This concept goes into every single aspect of life.
A man would see a therapist to solve a problem and women would see a therapist to validate how she is right
A man goes to the gym to improve where he is failing, a woman goes for attention of her current state
"the worst war's will be at home."
-Sun Tzu
The Art of War
"HAKUNA MATATA"
-Timon & Pumbaa
@@Kingshock I said Sun Tzu because everythough he wrote the book. This was real quote that stood out the most for me.
@@chicofromph33nix64 By the way they debunked the chem trail like 12 years ago. So you're video had been debunked.
" do it harder, Faster"
- Debbie does Dallas xxx
If it wasnât for my kids, I wouldnât be here anymore.
Robin Williams deleted himself because his x left him and financially ruined him in the divorce. This stuff has real life consequences for real people.
It was also right after his failed revival. I forget the name of the show but he and Sara Michelle Gellar ran a father daughter ad agency or something. It completely bombed and had to be a huge blow to his ego.
I thought he committed suicide.
You all should probably go and look at his autopsy. Because a lot of people, including some of his family believe that he did not commit suicide. That someone killed him.
It's hard to kill yourself by hanging when you have a gash on the back of your head as well as other bodily injuries.
I thought Disney faked his suicide so they could finally sell Aladdin toys
Not true. Contrary to popular belief he didnât end himself as the result of depression or mental instability resulting from life circumstances. He had a literal brain disease that impaired his grasp on reality and led to his self deletion. This is well known at this point and documented all over the place. A simple google search will fill you in. Stop spreading bs stories.
"...women most affected."
SMH
So yes ladies you are the cause in most scenarios
I cannot believe that. Women are the cause of men's self deletion?
Nope, anyone could easily delete themselves and blame it on everyone.... ultimately happiness is a choice and if you aren't happy and want to die that's an internal mental problem that needs to be fixed. You can have the whole world and still be unhappy. I know because my ex husband had the world and was still unhappy. I was so happy to be his wife and was so happy to be in a big house with him and our two kids and he still hated himself and hated me. I left him because he chose to continue to live in misery and to mistreat me. So in that case if he chose to delete that would be my fault?!? No!!!! He needs to go get help and figure out why he's so miserable and what he can do daily to stop feeling so sad about life.
@@LeahBreHappy Fair I understand your point but doesnât defeat my point though
@@montellsmith829 yes it does, only you cause your life to be the way it is. Nobody causes anyone to off themselves.
@@LeahBreHappy okay, so lets take your house, your kids, your reputation, your job "I'll tell them you raped me". Just smile and find happiness within.
we are not on the news, that's why he is talking about it
A noose he said. The thing you tie around your neck. Derp Derp.
â@NationViolation derp deep yourself. The news media talks about trans and women found due to suicide but ignore males.
True! This must change!
He said noose bud.
@wiseGUY1288 bud take a moment and think. When trans or women commit suicide there are times it is on the news. When was the last time you saw on the news about a male committing suicide? Last one I can think of was Robin Williams
And if we ever try to talk to someone we are seen as weak, or give girls Icks, or people just donât care enough to listen. No matter wut we do itâs just gonna end bad.
100% I struggle with suicidal thoughts every day
Jesus Christ is the only cure for that bro.
I used to feel hopelessness, pain and sadness everyday until I sincerely BEGGED Jesus Christ to save me. He answered me.
Now I'm unstoppable in Christ.
You can be unstoppable in Christ as well.
I ask you join me in serving the Almighty.
What do you have to lose?
That's not women's fault that's a mental health issue and you need to seek answers. â€
â@@LeahBreHappynobody said it's women's fault , it's the failure in government policy that pushes men to that conclusion. It's a systematic issue.
@@josephg9819 it's a mental health issue, there's millions of people that experience had things and hard relationships and abuse, etc and they do not off themselves. People are 100% responsible for their own life choices.
Go help/serve others. I found losing myself in helping others helped considerably
It's not just nowhere to turn to, it's that men are severely punished by women later on down the road for sharing any emotions or for showing any weakness. It's sexism at its finest.
Saw a depressing comment from a nurse who works in an nursing home. The most lonely men are not the ones who never got married, but the married ones as their family never comes to visit. Even their wives don't come to visit.
Right and thereâs no possibility that they were terrible men in their younger years or that they chose poorly đ
Itâs always gotta be someone elseâs fault.
@@hillarybillary21 And there is it, its always the men's fault.
@@hillarybillary21 Wow that is what you got out of it haha. Evil ladies you are wow. Unreal. Soulless demon.
@@hillarybillary21 I just love whenever I see a comment from a woman deflecting accountability and blaming a man. Can't ever let men express their issues without getting defensive. Just sad
@@hillarybillary21 I'd say I hope YOUR husband reads your comment but we all know YOU don't have one of those!
I almost self deleted myself numerous times within the last couple years due to those same reasons. Lost my family, only have a few friends, had no hope for the future, had no one to really talk to, etc. I'm now 37. Luckily I've been able to find some new hope and have continued on. Keep your heads up forgotten kings!
You found hope, faith and happiness from within! You are strong. Congrats!đ
Yes I wish more people talked about this subject. Seems like they'll talk about women but they'll never talk about the men
In the midst of "it's so over", I found there was, within me, an invincible "we're so back".
We donât end up in a noose. We just learned that women have all the power in the courts and refuse to be taken for suckers again. I have my dog. And my radio. And I am happy.
Bro don't lie to.yourself, no man wants to be alone with a radio and a dog, talk to your buddies, go to church do something new and you'll get better results brother.
Don't forget phone to watch good movies
Jesus christ is alive and IS GOD. God is infinite power ready to fix anyone's life who willingly calls for him to enter his heart . Your eternity matters
â@@marov8already130I feel him. I'm not alone but i often wished i was
@@marov8already130 yeah but don't get married and hold the leverage, then she will behave. Otherwise she wont
I get this for men without family, it makes sense when you don't see any purpose that you just feel like a hamster on a wheel.
Family is irrelevant.
@@seandendinger6771 It depends on the person. But I wouldn't delete myself while my parents, who I have a good relationship with, were still alive. I have an understanding of the struggle, though.
â@@seandendinger6771people who deleted themselves, especially when they know there are people out there who care for them, are downright selfish
Add to it the fact that as a man, no one cares about you or your emotions, and that makes it even more ridiculous that they ask us to express them, it even causes us more problems.
As I said, men criticize other men, hints why men turn to women to express their feelings because women are more caring and nurturing ....this is also another reason why men don't express their feelings to their friends because their friends will probably just make fun of them, instead of understanding....
â@@reneford7409people are evil
@@reneford7409 Yet many men will tell you it's the women that give them the hardest time when they open up, not other men.
@@death826able and normally they say that for something so simple, like if a girl rejects them ...and no one is obligated to go out with someone, let them choose who's right for them or who they wanna be with
"Men have no problems", was what male rights advocates were told when they went before UK parliament to ask govt to do more to help men.
I want the government involved in my life as little as possible. Anything given can be taken away. Looking for handouts takes as much effort as earning an honest living. Relying on handouts is a woman's tactic.
@eamoncrawford what handouts? Lol A White man caucus wouldn't be a handout, it could be a political group that would force real change.
@@eamoncrawford it's not about earning an "honest living", it's about "surviving"..... Not so much hand out, as a helping hand up..... The "man up" strategy is tried and tested, it failed miserably for too many.
â@@Mr_G_in_Albathis is exactly why there shouldn't be laws and we should be living like animals in the wild ..."surviving" ...
@@Mr_G_in_Alba it did not fail, it worked. We have abandoned it in recent times and that is the cause of our misery. No one knows how to man up anymore
Lost my good friend and neighbor at 43 because of this. Had a little girl and he told me before he deleted: "You don't know what I have to live with".... Let that sink in.... I miss him!
The thing is he made his choices, it's not the people in his life that MADE him delete. He chose to delete instead of seek mental help. Poor guy. There's a better way to live đą
â@@LeahBreHappythere is nothing an outside "help" can do to fix it. It's as nonsensical as saying outside forces made him do it. They're both wrong. Therapy, and drugs and anything else do not work very well and are not a sure thing to fix the issues. Saying it's all his choice is just blaming the dead guy, and you think it's okay to say outside intervention would fix him but you say that it's impossible that outside intervention is what caused him mental distress in the first place. It's much easier to destroy someone's mind from the outside than to fix it.
@@benjaminolsen2381 no I said he needs to seek mental help to figure out why he feels so miserable that he wants to OFF himself. We are always 100% responsible for our choices are we not? Make it make sense.
â@@benjaminolsen2381 Just ignore this bot. Literally saw them on every other comment trying to downplay the issue
@@LeahBreHappy How dare you claim to know what he went through, please stop being a self-righteous narcissist and learn to be silent.
Pandemic shutdowns destroyed my small business and lost everything, home , girlfriend left . It's hard but we must soldier on. Keep your head up gents
Always.
Just like women do when they lose everything, keep going
@@reneford7409 did you miss the entire point of this video? Women have a support system in place in all areas of civilized society when they lose , fail or fuck up.. courts, government systems, friends, family, neighbors etc.. Most men do not have anyone to turn to. Not friends,not family, definitely not government or courts. No one.
Stop trolling you are terrible at it
@@reneford7409 women never lose everything until they have to sleep alone.
Man. I feel this. Iâm 32. Non supportive current relationship, gf makes as much as I do, pays none of the bills, expects $2500 bags for her birthday and anniversaries but complains when she buys dinnerâŠ.
Ex wife kidnapped our daughter after disappearing for 6 years and I raised our little girl all by myself. The courts then said thatâs ok and gave her full custody and since sheâs in Japan I have 0 rights except my slavery to send money thatâs enforced by men with guns. (Remember Walter Scott)
Iâm a pediatric hospice nurse. I can care for others children and have them pass away in my arms but only be a pocketbook for my ex wife in relation to my own daughter.
All I wanted was a farm and a family growing up. All I have is my work 80-100 hours a week. At least helping those kids maybe the world will end up a little brighter. Iâm sure without my job having purpose I would have moved on from this world.
God bless each of you my friends who keep holding on one more day. Even if no one else in the world cares about you, I do. Just one more day. One more fishing trip. One more beer with a friend. Your strength helps the rest of us in the hole as well.
Please donât give up.
My girlfriend left me and took my daughter with me this is the second time this happens to me for a while I just felt like getting it over with I felt like I had no purpose since all I focus was to provide and be a family man.
But I did whatever I could to keep myself here now she's begging to come back I got to see my daughter but I'm not sure if I really want her mom back I Can't get the gut feeling that she messed around with other dudes even though she says it was only dates.
I'm praying to God for patience so I can find the right woman and not Rush in And fall for someone because I'm lonely or my lust.
Be patient brothers it's not worth it.
The saddest thingâŠ
The suicide hotline put you on hold.
They do?! That is fucking sickening! I understand that there are others but, come on!!
These are realities that women cant grasp no use explainin it. They live on easy mode theyll sense that you want to be heard and theyll make themselves appear worried and distraught but inside theyre thinking about what purse she wants next. Dont waste your energy
There was a couple years back in England where a man went before a committee in Parliament advocating for Menâs Recognition Day since there is a Womanâs Recognition Day. Sounds fair, and equal doesnât it? As he listed issues men face including men suicide, a feminist Labour MP openly laughed, she said âSeeing as I am the only woman on this committee,â and blocked his request until he gave her 50% women in Parliament.
She should have been immediately kicked out for that remark
No man had the stones to put her in her place with some logic? Pathetic Britain, Australia, New Zealand, Canada.
There's no repercussions since men don't have groups that advocate for their own group interests. Just like indigenous Europeans don't have any groups that advocate for their own interests.
Labour MP Jess Phillips. She also claimed "men have no problems", and then mustered a cross party coalition to block men and boys being given equal privileges to women and girls in regards rights and political representation .... we still dont have a minister for men, despite having had a minister for women since the 1980's
@benjaminolsen2381 it's not that they don't have them, it's that they're literally not allowed under the law.
God forbid children are in the equation. More than likely the system will give them to the mother, the father will pay out the nose to support them until theyâre 18, and if heâs lucky he MIGHT get visitation rights on the weekend. Meanwhile mom is telling the kids what a deadbeat he is the whole time, turning the kids against him. Iâve seen it happen again and again and again and again and again. Itâs pure evil.
Never EVER enter a contract with someone who is financially incentivized to break it.
Yup. My mother did that after kidnapping us and used the courts to get away with it
Your friends chose poorly based on sex, age, and hotness and their wives were of poor content of character. You canât choose poorly and expect there to be no consequences. Good luck â€
@@hillarybillary21 why don't you go tell that to women instead of bashing men
@@hillarybillary21 there is no operating manual in life and if there was and you didn't bother to read it ,then your words ring true
@@hillarybillary21 To make a comment like that is a reflection of poor character in and of itself. Sorry, champ.
I hate how yt censors these words it makes it sound well not as bad as it is. đą
Blows my mind.
I was financially ruined by divorce and child support. I can't make any income from working a job. I live with my parents. I don't want to live. I have no future and don't care about anything.
Stay strong, things will get better â€ïž
you need to snap out of that.. NEVER EVER EVER THINK THERE IS NO HOPE , NEVER
@@chriswilkins2643 How? Everything just gets more expensive. People only care about money. I can't go anywhere or do anything without money. Women only want men with money. Nothing gets better. I don't know how to think differently when society says otherwise.
@@tonightinareacode309 Have you no job
I bind the spirits of oppression & depression in yeshuas holy name, I command them to go & not return. Father I pray for healing if the wounded spirit & make a better way for this person in yeshuas holy name. Prayed this over myself for a yr every day until I was set free
Child support = extortion
Even worse if the kid isnt even yours. Paternity fraud should end in felony for the cheater and the one made the bastard.
Get a vasectomy...?
@@nadedjadannevik6272 castrate yourself because many women are evil? Victim blame much?
Facts ive been so depressed for so long i pray to god ever day to help me get throu the day
Father I pray for deliverance from spirits of oppression & depression. I command them to go in yeshuas holy name
It looks like you have a friend in your picture who needs you.
Hereâs the thing we rarely hear of a woman deleting themselves from existence due to the things men go through, because women can always replace a man and move on from that and be ok to a degree. But as a man we tend to throw up barriers and seclude ourselves as a form of protection and we get seen as weak or distant and miserable and then not wanted, so deleting is the easiest way out.
RIP Norah Vincent, she was a real one; everyone should give her documentary a watch.
You realize there are women who get graped and deleted themselves because a man, and that's far worse than whatever a woman does to a male, and if you delete yourself just because a woman leaves you, ...you probably need to see a therapist or get some mental help
You realize there are women who get graped and deleted themselves because a man, and that's far worse than whatever a woman does to a male, and if you delete yourself just because a woman leaves you, ...you probably need to see a therapist or get some mental help
Also there are women who get abused by men and delete themselves because of that which is far worse than someone just leaving you
ââ@@reneford7409 poor few women... Since you can't help both groups simultaneously, because of women, I would glad to help 10 men rather than 1 woman
Jason David Frank, known for being the Green Ranger on the Power Rangers franchise is a perfect example. He was 49.
When the state corrupts both marriage and divorce, everyone suffers terribly.
But know that there is always a way out if you flee such corrupt states and dissappear to a state and woman who values marriage properly.
I read somewhere recently that in Netherlands 20,000+ committed Euthanasia. It's. Not. A. Joke
Euthanasia is murder.
That's because it's legal. In Florida if you even mention wanting to end it they'll lock you up and if you weren't before you will be after. Supposedly a free country but only for the rich.
The worst thing you can do is talk to her about your feelings. She'll see you as weak or toxic. You can be a little open, but never too much.
Not to mention that a man that shares is feelings is often ridiculed and the woman will use his vulnerabilities against him.
I think about it every day more and more. I really want to give up. The only thing that keeps me from doing it is my beautiful daughters.
I'm 48 and a widower. The current dating market is absolutely appalling. I will probably end up, if not ending by my own hand, dying alone. I have accepted that. It's not that big of a deal. At least then I will be with my wife and son.
I was older than you and felt exactly the same. Start doing some reading and searching online. There are places in the world where older fairly poor men can live an awesome life. They DO exist and you Can have an awesome future
@@richmann8230 Taiwan
@@richmann8230 I'm very poor. Hand to mouth poor.
Yup. Im 40 with no woman or kids. Alive for practly no reason. Its pretty gay.
No reason? Make a reason. Women and children are not the only cause to live. There are many ways you can enjoy life even if youâre single and no kids. I play music, go to concerts, hang with some friends once in a while. Watch sports, play games, do whatever.
Head to the Phillipines or Thailand etc for a holiday. You'll start enjoying life immediately.
@@jazzyjake99 I appreciate what you're trying to say. But that's what I do. The problem is I need somebody to share these things with.
It's not depression. It's lack of hope
"Deleting" themselves? Men aren't computer files. CZcams is ridiculous if you have to say that or "unalive" to not get demonetized or censored.
I figured this out before I had a family, THERE IS NO POINT TO LIFE
Blame diivorce laws.
We're not deleting ourselves, we're just busy painting...
In my experience, women will always say show your emotions and share your worries, and then they use that against you by saying, go and cry little boy, be a man, funny
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that's literally why they insist so hard that men should share their inner most fears and secrets.
it's not to bring y'all closer,or whatever bs lie girls be saying.
it's solely to have a weapon in their arsenal, and when it's time to fight, all that stuff is coming out.
im telling you, as a female, there's 0 benefit to being vulnerable with your girl.
don't fall for that trap......
They literally do it to get ammunition that they can use against you whenever they like. It is deliberate, and they know exactly what they are doing. Never open up to a woman. If you go to therapy, and your counselor is a woman, professionally demand a male counselor. He will serve you better anyways.
My experience has been the opposite.
Iâve seen this happened so many times, Women donât understand that men are humans too itâs truly disgusting how they treat men.
yeah they are opposite, ie. counterintuative
One foot in front of the other. Every day
Single and i wont pay ever
Single and celibate gentleman
I thought he was a (devout) Christian and waiting for the right girl to marry?
@@kevindurand3237 I don't know about him. I have no clue who he is. I am a devote Christian and I do this for the glory of God, after I caught my wife cheating with multiple men, when I was fighting as a Canadian infantry soldier in afghanistan. God has massively blesses me since then.
@@kevindurand3237Devout Christian stays in celibacy his whole life
I would possit the argument that it should be "When men see no way forward, they choose instead, to end the journey".
Using terms like âDeleting themselfâ further trivialize this problem.
Married and divorced 3 times
Cheated on all 3 times
Lost everything Iâve had 3 times
What this man is saying is more than true.
I often find myself thinking about deleting myself.
The only thing that keeps me from doing so is my 80yr old parents.
When theyâre gone I donât know what after that
Jesus loves you bro.Turn to Him.He promises to never leave us or forsake us. It takes faith but He even supplies that!
I have to say that I feel this way I'm 49 years old divorced the wife has the kids they don't speak to me anymore she cheated on me so therefore I'm the bad guy lost a house inflation is crushing me because I live on one income it's a decent income but it's just enough to get by it used to be a lot of money I can't date because I have to work so much I have no retirement savings and I will likely be homeless when I can't do physical labor anymore so somebody tell me why I shouldn't off myself?
Cut the bills out that you donât need. Do you pay for cable? Hulu? Netflix? Get rid of the shit you donât need. Youâll learn to live without it and enjoy life in other ways.
Is house renovations what you do?
Iâm sorry. All I can advise is donât kill yourself. At least donât kill yourself quickly. Kill yourself in a protracted manner that takes decades to perform. Thatâs what Iâve been doing. Same destination except Iâm taking a longer route. My wife died 7 years ago. Daughters in college. Iâm helping my elderly parents. Very little pleasure in things (anhedonia). To make things worse, Iâm a Dallas Cowboys fan. Aside from family, my absence would go unnoticed. Thatâs not unique. You could try cosplaying as the Hamburglar. That might be funny. Good luck!
@@WarPrinceAndrew yes and I will only be able to do that about ten more years provided that I do not get sick in my 50s. Which seems to be what happens to men who have been in construction for 30 years.
@@bpdubb I don't have any of that stuff I just got rid of internet because I couldn't afford that and n car insurance at the same time. I paid for the basic necessities rent, electric, what's left of the car payment, the water bill, food fuel and basic life expenses like hygiene products clothes when I need them just very basic life I don't go out I don't party I don't drink I don't do drugs I just work I'm pretty much all the time at work or sleeping it's just me and the dog
There are little to no resources (or not known/ad) to dad suffering post partum. So when I found out a friend of my friend was a new dad, and he was lowkey sad about being financially tight. I bought him the stuff he wanted and my friend and I put together a "dont be sad package" for him.
We need to take care of each other, regardless of race and sex and sexuality.
Thus is a waste of breath. They do not care if men unalive themselves.
Men, stay strong! Don't be violent or rude, just refuse to play their games. Stay away from women, don't get married and don't have kids that will be used as weapons against you. Don't interact, don't live with them and protect yourselves against false allegations which will rise. Stay strong, brothers of different mothers!
I'll do as I please with them
These men need to seek Jesus.
They need to seek love within! God is love
@LeahBreHappy But Jesus saves, then shows you how to love yourself and everyone else.
Haha, seeking an imaginary friend won't help.... What about the 3000+ other gods, will they help too? đđđ Grow up, your fantasy is just that....
@@Truthseed313 disagree, love saves.
@DAFUQUK there is only one God and I've met him
They say eventually talk about their feelings more.But when they do it is used against.
When I worked in security, I would talk to homeless men every now and then before they had to leave, the majority of them said they became homeless after a nasty divorce.
This is one of the reasons I'm extremely hesitant to get married.
I know 3 men in the past year who deleted themselves up here in Canada..all below 40 yrs old
The literal second you show vulnerability or weakness, she will either leave or cheat. Cry in front of her? Sickness in the hospital? Lose your job for a few months? She gone.
God bless this brother for pointing out the obvious and truth
"just talk about your feelings" "well, you're not a strong man, so I am leaving you for a stronger man"
the amount of respect a man loses for sharing what bothers him are to much.
Once men realize that they truly ARE NOT loved by the people who matter the most to them, there really is no desire to go on after that.
There's a solution to this problem, but this site won't allow me to say what it is.
Thatâs so true I remember when I was 36 and planned on buying life insurance so my kids would have some money when I died and after about a month I was gonna âaccidentallyâ dieâŠâŠ Iâm glad someone walked into my life and changed my mind
I'm a 37 year male who's been thru there share of trauma, and I know how hard it is thinking you've got no one to turn to, I've done some healing which has made me be able to be vulnerable for my friends allowing them to open up and Just listen to them and thats all they needed, someone to just hold space for them with no judgement. I'm so grateful đ
I never delete myself, I just back space a lot.
Im over 41 but fellas dont delete yourself. The best is yet to come!!! I promise.
And after he said all that, they still don't care
Keep going bro their light at the end of the tunnel this hard time is your training day for you to cherish the things to come
Yea I've said this multiple times but NO ONE LISTENS
Get help from a professional, they will listen.
â@@LeahBreHappySure they take whatever little money you have left and listen but more often than not it won't help because talking about how much your life sucks won't change the fact you are broke and that the system is working against you for the sole reason of you being a man.
A man who talks about his feelings will experience true loneliness.
After my divorce, I realized my existence troubled her, so I resolved to not make her happy.
Never considered suicide in nearly four decades till she left our marriage and took the kids. Iâm past the worst of it, thankfully, and seeing the kids at least regularly now, but this is a very real problem heâs talking about here.
GUYS: DONT DO THIS. IF IT'S THAT BAD, JUST GIVE YOURSELF OVER TO SERVING OTHERS.
Ex wifes are not reason to end your life.
thus is all too common. the laws in Australia HAVE to change to prevent men losing everything in a break up.
the most hurt comes from those who are loved most... and hence, we have to be more careful about the enemy within
This is the most home hitting observation I've ever heard. đ
I understand why they have to use terms like "deleted" or "unalived". It makes it more palatable for people. But it shouldn't be made to feel censored or lighter than what it is. People, men specifically, are killing themselves. Thats the truth. And the quicker people understand the gravity of the situation, then perhaps the quicker we can help these men.
Laws need to be equal when divorce happens, and not favour the woman all the time, especially if she is was the one who cheated.
Why do relationships break down... because men open up đ
Had a "social worker" tell me to pull the trigger. Cold world.
Does anyone else have chest pains and that brightens their day?
Yeah i think about it weekly. Wishing next week will be better, but it never gets better.
A male friend once said, I wanted to end it but realised thats what they wanted. Now I live for myself, have little interest in doing what society wants from men.