I'm 31 And Have No Friends (Emotional I'm Sorry)
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Yo... I just got here by Aba and Preach. Honestly I didn't see it there cause I wanted to watch the original and properly react with my own thoughts. Thank you for sharing this. No I'm not a subscriber and I have no idea what your content is but I will find out soon XD
That been said I want to shar emy piece with you as well.
I am from Mexico, 36 years old and married. When I was around 12 ish I was bullied for 5 years at my school. There was no "rejected" section. Even those "loosers" would mess with me as well so... you can imagine. Back then my aunt (Father's sister) was married to an American. Most amazing guy ever. Unfortunately around this month after thanksgiving and such he took his life due to his own demons. My grades were also going down so my parents took me to therapy. While I explained this so called "professional" basically told my parents that I wasn't able to take the blame of my own actions and would blame everyone else instead. lol. So now my only safe place which was my homw turned as well into hell. Not that they did anything bad to me but simply thought i was just lazy and irresponsible.
A few days I'm pretty sure during those years I really just wanted to end it all. But the grief that me and my family went through loosing my uncle would remind me what I would cause to all of them. The only reason I'm brething right now is because of him. Then I told my parents. Earned the courage to let them know the type of looser I was. They took it on the best way possible and changed me to another school. But ofc I was at high school at that point. All those things I didn't live younger I was experiencing them. Even having a girlfriend. Took me again into the wrong direcion not focusing on school and just... living and having fun.
That made me think that those who decide to end it all are just cowards. How dead wrong I was.
So it could have been no more than 2 years ago I trully understood. I also cried. Realizing that my uncle didn't end it cause he was a coward. He did it to save my life in a way. For that I am thankful. Today I only have 2 best friends and ofc my wife. I have been betrayed by others. I have learned the bad way that as much as you offer sometimes people don't appreciate it. Hope you don't need to learn that but please remember it is is a possibility and yet you are not alone. There is always someone new. There is always a new experience. And there is also always a new downfall.
Someone once said "tears are the heart's sweat" and it's very true. Cause it just simplifies how much your heart can work for you and eventually just has to express it on one way or another.
Big hughs from Mexico. And stay strong my dude.
Good luck.
Imma come back to this comment a year from now to see how I’m doing
Man I don’t believe you for a second, you have friends come on.
@@sleepisthecousinofdeath7395
How come?
@@rainynight6334 because he’s cappping
"i got married and she became my best friend and then one day she just didn't want to be my friend anymore" that shit hurt my heart man
I know my heart sank
That line hit hard man.
this just happened to me and it really sucks.
I mean it happens. I mean, I was on the other end of it with a girl I dated for 8 years. She was planning out our lives together and the reality is, I had just been carrying on because I didn't want to hurt her, I should have broke up with her years ago. When she started saying we need to seriously discuss marriage, that's when I said that's it. That was the step I couldn't take.
Yeah, i relate to that situation, i am living it.
Stay strong..
I prefer to be alone, but I hate feeling lonely. It's not the loneliness that kills you, its the thought that no one cares about you and that you'll be forgotten.
This .. 🥺
Bruh cmon stop making me cry.
That doesnt bother me in the slightest tbh haha everyone will be forgotten one day.
Thats part of it for me too. I used to have so many friends but honestly I feel like I've already been forgotten since I've moved so much. Now I'm just in a pure loneliness where I feel like I forget how to make friends. Friendship online seems to be a "Friendship" only when they feel like it. I'm probably guilty of that too because I like my space to do what I want but at times I want someone to do things with but only when im in the mood.
@@TheBloggme For the most part I don't mind it either, and you could sure as hell survive school without any friends. But in the real world, you'll 100% need them, and that's no joke. I don't care how introverted, resclusive, or "doomed" you think you are, you're gonna need friends at some point in your life. If you're working a day job or following a career, or even just simply going to Uni, I couldn't stress how crucial it is to help you keep up with the days of stress and inevitable anxiety. Being forgotten or not cared about can be the most painful thing in the world if given the proper circumstance.
28 years old. No friends, never had a girlfriend. I have a job thank God for that. Gives me a reason to wake up in the morning. No life outside of work. But its a life I guess.
I know a guy who rode his bicycle from home (western Europe) to China. Took him about one year.
Im married now with kids so this isn't in it for me but if I were you that's what I'd do. He said it cost him about 5 grand, not including the bike and flight back. So say with 10k you can do that and have an enormously adventurous, enriching experience.
Life goes by quick, and you can always get another mediocre job and apt. Trust me, I've been there. I know from experience. Don't let life pass you by.
I'd like to be ur friend!
❤️
You’re still young. Get out there and see if you like some people. You’ll be surprised how often you’ll prefer the company of a couple people and even your own company.
24 and in the same spot. I acutally had a good amount of friends before covid but I slowly lost them all over the years for many reasons, but it didnt have to be that way and it's my fault. I hope you're doing well man. You need to put yourself out there and fix this problem as soon as possible because it will only get more difficult to make friends as you get older. If you're in this situation, then you've already hit the bottom and it can only go up from here. Any win, even small talking to a new person is a huge win.
You're not alone,I'm exactly the same. I'm 32 tomorrow and I have no friends,travel alone,do everything alone. Sit in on the weekends alone while everyone is out with friends having fun and I just sit in over thinking about all my school friends married,with kids,out at the weekends just living they're lives. It's a horrible existence,dont know how to change it
Wow! Definitely sounds like me. Maybe one of these days if I see a lady like you alone. I'll just go over to ask to spend the rest of the day with. 🙏🏿
@@banginzaza I know how you feel,its horrible isn't it. We will be ok though,just makes us more independent I think. I'm happy being an independent woman but does get lonely especially when the summer and Christmas or you're birthday comes around and you spend it alone every year. It's so depressing. I'm hoping you find happiness soon 💜
I’ll be your friend
@@sophielouise4551 You're absolutely right 💙
@@sophielouise4551Male, 29 years old, virgin and lonely af in a foreign country. It's a fucking horror of life. Everything is made even worse by the fact that time passes very quickly, nothing changes from day to day, and as we age, the chances of meeting someone decrease. I really feel like I'm cursed.
I'm 42 and I don't have any friends. I buried my mom, dad, grandad, brother and uncle from age 9-13. I lost so many people in my life and I don't want to lose any more. I play video games to numb the pain and act as a distraction, but I want to have friends to play games with.
Go out. Go to swim, Go to the gym, join any sport group, join any club, adopt dog/ cat and meet new people. Don’t waste time alone with games.
@@LawZist Sorry but that's pretty ignorant. Nowadays people can play with others online. Plenty of genuine, deep relationships have been started just through gaming.
Jesus man Jesus is the permanent friend. Seek in spirit.
@@angelduran717 did you not understand you cant be friends with dead people
The first reply is very ignorant, definitely play video games, it helps so so much. Although I do agree you should go out on walks, bike rides and maybe get a dog! I just recently lost the most important person in my life, my grandfather. It’s been hard but being distracted, learning new things and focusing on my own progress is the only thing that helps.
It’s so hard to make friends after high school
It's more hard to make friends after college. When you start to dive into workforce, you will face allot of toxicity and deceitfulness
Only if you suck at being social, you just need a hobby and the ability to be alone
true
It’s actually way easier to make friends after Highschool. People mature after Highschool and I struggled to make friends in Highschool because everyone was so immature and I matured faster than everyone. I made so many more friends in my first semester of college than all four years of High school put together
@@apostolalin8765 yup yup true. That’s what happened to me
I'm nearly 59. This platform was not available for my generation. We hashed it out the best we could over beers and just dealt with our problems alone mostly. My wife and I already had 3 kids before the internet became a thing. You can really reach a lot of people with your content and make new friends as you've shown here. Everyone needs a friend. They are hard to find and even harder to keep. Your raw emotions will always make you stand out. Best of luck to you in all that you do.
I’m 39 and I grew up without social media and I’m thankful for that. When we got bored we would call friends or go to their house .. we had to make things happen whereas todays young people can just watch CZcams and twitch all day . More young people need to just start going outside more often.. they spend more time watching other people live than living themselves
@@brianmeen2158 The internet's a double-edged sword, every day it saves some and kills others. Unfortunately no easy solution.
@@brianmeen2158 Being single gives us the full freedom to get right with GOD, to build into existence once lost relationship, between GOD and creation, between PARENT and child.
1 Corinthians Chapter 7 KJV
32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord:
33 But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
35 And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.
this world presents love as lust, and if you`re not always touched, then you are not loved = lies and fear propaganda. All of it because the MK ULTRA PROJECTS from masons.
John 15:13 KJV Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.
And being ALONE (not on your own) does bring forth sober mind.
What I have witness in my short life so far is, souls get together for money and because they are bored and the 3th reason is, the pressure of peers and older generations. “People around me repeated daily, get married and have children and move out, so I did. Am I happily living after? NO, i`m bitter, angry, sad, broken, in fear, heavy leaden, in darkness, always in somewhat contests with people around me, who has something better, something more and so on…, I succumbed to the fear of the opinions about my life of others, thats the hurtful truth.”
KJV Bible says;
Matthew 6:31
Therefore take no thought, saying, What shall we eat? or, What shall we drink? or, Wherewithal shall we be clothed?
Luke 12:22
And he said unto his disciples, Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat; neither for the body, what ye shall put on.
Matthew 6:25
Therefore I say unto you, Take no thought for your life, what ye shall eat, or what ye shall drink; nor yet for your body, what ye shall put on. Is not the life more than meat, and the body than raiment?
This is why I try to be kind to as many people as I can. This right here. You never know what people are going through. Yet there are slimeballs that will go online and purposely shew hate to others for no reason not knowing how much it detrimentally damages others. I pray for you man
@Logan Floor {UTTP} great example
same. i do my best to be neutral and kind to anyone. despite if their being rude and the such. you never know the story behind them, you know? unless its like, in the extreme scenerios.
The haters who do that shit are the real losers
Amen brother, being kind to people and doing good things for people in need is what this world needs.
you come to the internet not expecting a dumpster fire that's on you dog. FYI no one's mental problems are anyone else's if they are that bad it's THEIR responsibility to stay away from toxic places NOT every one else's.
Someone get this man a beer, a pizza and a hug. In that order.
You might want the hug before the beer... Could get weird.
@@DarkSalarian what happens after the beer, stays after the beer
Yea,he needs a hug:(
Agreed!
What about a beer pizza hug?
I'd rather die a loner than live surrounded by fake friends.
Agreed
@FuckOuttaHere I fail to see how that is edgy. If anything I see another human being expressing he/she wants a genuine connection rather than playing a character (or entertaining one) like many (including myself) do.
Why do human beings backbite other human beings, is it worth having friends that backbite and gossip about others, sometimes being surrounded by people like this is not worth it.
@FuckOuttaHere facts
This sounds like a coping mechanism. If all of your friends turned out to be fake, you have to consider the problem may not lie with them. The odds of having all or most of your friends turn out to be fake is slim to none. More likely than not it’s not even intentional at all, but a misinterpretation of a relationship that never truly was reciprocal. Or, in other words, they were never your friends to begin with.
Most people I know who feel the way you do got there because they realized they didn’t mean as much to their friends as their friends meant to them. It can be easy to invest in a relationship without ever realizing your investment doesn’t automatically mean the other party feels the same...
im 39, and will be 40 in a small handful of months. i have no friends. i go to work and come home. day in, day out. every week. many days get very hard to not jump off a tall building
Hey man u doing okay? I’m sure being 40 isn’t easy but there’s always other people out there in the same boat. Just be out there and you’ll find them.
Hey how you doing now buddy?
I am 43 and I do not have any friends... And I DO NOT WANT THEM. Friendship is overrated.
I'm a disabled dad. No friends. This video hits.
F man
wishing the very best for you bro
Get a gaming console bro me and my friends will game with you anytime you’re free
Hey friend :)
i had "friends" when i was 24, but when my car broke down... i found out they weren't my friends... you get my point
Yes your learning g at a young age. Your friends are in your wallet. Washington, Hamilton, Lincoln.
I had friends then I got married then I had kids now they’re gone
@@Andreasplace if anything you'd have more friends by having a kid
@@coryleblanc they are but they for sure can’t relate past Roblox and 7th grade math
@@Andreasplace no, you can make friends with other parents
* hugs * I’m so sorry, man. Thank you for opening up, sharing, and being vulnerable with us.
I’m 35 and I’m kind of in the same boat. I’m lonely as fuck and have severe depression and social anxiety. I’m overweight and more introverted and serious. I have no actual friends, or people in my life that I would consider “friends.” I have a handful of acquaintances and co-workers, but no one that genuinely likes me, cares about me, or wants to include or hang out with me. And other than my mother, I have no other family safety net that I can trust, rely on, or communicate with. Other than my mother, no one checks in on me. I’ve actually been placed on suicide watch.
This year, I decided to do something about it. I’m getting in shape and have lost 40 ibs so far. I’m working on learning to be more outgoing, social, and funny (even if it’s just a mask). I’m seeing a therapist and I’m taking medication. And I’m learning to be comfortable being a lone wolf and not caring about others approval. Supposedly, the right people will come eventually.
How are you now? I hope you have become better in all the things you mentioned💟😸
I feel this as a woman, many women are soooo bad at prioritizing friendships, it seems once you get to a certain age people are ONLY invested in their romantic partner but life is about balance! The only friends I really have apart from my best friend are male and as such there are limitations to our friendship that wouldn't exist with some good female friends, but it's like as soon as they find their partner they disappear :( I think there is a general disrespect to friendships when in my opinion they are the most important and fulfilling relationships (at least for someone like me from a 'bad' family background, friendships mean everything to me! Which is why it's so upsetting that it's hard to find/keep)
I’m a girl and I haven’t had girl friends in years..I had a toxic friend for a while but couldn’t handle it anymore so had to cut ties..the loneliness kills me 💔
I could spend hours writing with my best friend and she spent her free time always with me. She has a boyfriend now and all the things she did with me she does with him now. I barely see her now :( i would never to that to any of my friends because there should be a helathy balance for friends and partner in your life but it is what it is. I found 2 girl friends i can meet up with anytime (they are single😂)
You’re not a “bitch” for crying bro your room is a vibe my friend. Take care of yourself.
Exactly!!!
Yeah at least hes not a prisoner of approval of others
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He really is tho. Choosing to not go out and make friends then crying about it. Is the weakest thing ive seen.
I don't have any friends either. None. I talk to noone and i play with noone. Do I care? No. Because i learned to cook, work on my body and started studying psychology. Stop. Crying. You. Child.
@@JoeMama-mg5dk I agree and disagree everybody has a different mind. Depression for one can play a huge factor. That and anxiety so I'ma assume if it was that easy he would be able to open up. Just depends some may need medication to function better.
I have “friends” but I don’t have “friends”. My only “real friend” is my blood younger brother. and that’s ok. I love my brother.
Word! With my bro it’s like hanging out with myself
That's the best! I have 3 siblings and they are my friends too.
Yeah my older brother is my only real friend. I agree. I like hanging out with people for like an hour, then in my head I’m just planning an escape route and how to get home as quickly as possible lmao.
My sister died in 2017. We didn't really hang out (she had a family going on and shit, I wasnt like her first concern, still we saw each other often enough), but GOD DAMN, I'll never get over losing her! 💔
IF YOU'VE GOT A BROTHER OR A SISTER GO TELL THEM YOU LOVE THEM! RIGHT NOW! If you're not on talking terms or some shit like that, work it out before its too late!
@@johndough2902 I am in the same situation, hang out with my bro, chill with other ppl max of 2 hours, then I want to escape home.
Hello from Japan! I am totally new here, and thank you so much for such a beautiful story. I feel like I have no friends and that is how I came to this video! In fact, I have a few close friends but we do not hang out anymore. Your story touched me, and sharing your story and being able to be emotional like this means that you are a brave man. Thanks again!
You are a great dude with a big heart man. I'm relatively new to your content but I am here for good. Keep being real Cody, you the shit my dude.
I have no friends and being alone is heartbreaking. I got no one to game with and I remember having so many friends to game and have a social life with and now life happened and reading this comment sections. I realized how much of a chronic issue it is.
Xbox or Ps4 my dude ?
Same here man I still have some on FB messenger from hometown I see extremely rarely. I guess I struggled to keep up with everyone else. I am divorced in 20s after dating a girl for 6 years and divorce after 1 year of marriage that probs didn't help LOL. Just know you aren't alone!
It’s hell when you truly don’t and annoying when people say they don’t when they really do and another thing many people don’t understand is that having no friends in childhood is way more traumatizing than drifting apart from friends in adulthood
I've been gaming with the same group of guys for like a decade and we all met through a hockey message board and never actually met eachother in person until 5 years after we started gaming together.
If I had the consoles everyone else has I’d add you. But I only play on the switch 😟
I've been out of high school for 5 years and it's crazy how everyone you hung out with slowly fades away, not because you have problems with them but because everyone moves on. I guess it's just life
Just wait till you’ve been out of school for 2 decades. The only people you’ll even know anymore are your coworkers and if they’re not your age or they don’t like you then you pretty much have no one
Well during your youth the word friend just means ppl who know your name. But at the time you think they'll help you in need but reality is they are just ppl who just know your name.
Lifestyle change is a big factor I find. I don't hang out with drinkers or drug addicts by choice because my wife isn't a drinker or drug addict. I used to have loads of friends in high school but their lifestyle isn't my cup of tea.
@@NickJaime true as god 🙏
@@NickJaime very deep meaning 👍👍
Have a beautiful day
I LOVEEEE the spirit Cody! I'm 45yo with NOOOOOOO friends. I actually don't keep a phone because noone calls me. It's a VERY lonely life😢 I'm so glad you found the people who were looking for a friend like you.❤
This made me cry like a 9 year old girl. What a beautiful story. I can't relate personally as I've never felt this way, but it truly breaks my heart to know there's people out there without friends. I knew 4 young men who took their own lives by the time I was 21. I really hope your video finds the people who need it most.
I am only 23 and feel this. Work, sleep, work, sleep. Lost my mom in Februrary from cancer. Never realized how lonely this world is.
stay strong!
Same thing about working and sleeping. Its super easy to forget what the good stuff is when you do that for a while without anyone around. We can get through it man.
I'm 26, and when I was like 22 or 23, I still had a group of friends and a girlfriend, which was super weird, because I was always closed off, introverted and stuff, so I guess you could say I got lucky? But I didn't. They turned out to all be toxic people who didn't appreciate me or respect my choices, she ended up cheating on me and just leaving as soon as I found out, for another man, literally the dude she told me not to worry about. And this was right before Covid started. I don't remember having 5 genuine social interactions since then. It's just work and sleep. I try to fill up my time with hobbies like reading, drawing, building model kits, collecting comics and action figures, working out, playing video-games, hanging out with my family... But sometimes I can't even do that. I don't have the strength or the willpower to keep on going. It's so hard when you have no one to share your experiences with, to be excited about something together.
But that just makes me wonder, what is it that I'm looking for? Is it people to actually build relationships with? Or is it just someone to compliment my existence and my life?
We all know how you feel.
Having a small number of true friends will always be better than being surrounded by a large amount of fake friends 💯
That's very true, the smaller the circle the stronger the bonds.
@@skydonkey9515 I've learned that over the years in the hard way but I wouldn't trade the lessons learned for anything else
I gots 5.
Until you realize the true friends were fake as well.
I got no friends either and I could care less. I lost faith in people a long long time ago. I am alone but I am not lonely.
I just wanted to say thank you! You have no idea how many people you helped by opening up on CZcams and showing emotion. People need to see that its not just them and there are others in this world and feel the same way and to know there is hope there is help and when you hit rock bottom don’t give up! You telling people you we’re ready to end it but didn’t you persevered and had your prayers answered you saved lives tell people your struggles and how much you were hurting
Awww 🥺 I know this is an older video but thanks for sharing. I think a lot of people can resonate including myself. I'm 31 now, a weirdo introvert, still single, suck at keeping up with messages and realised last year I only had a few friends I could count on which was getting me down. I had lost some but got out there more and made new ones. I'm a believer in the right people will find you and I'm glad I found the youtube community too. Your videos help me on the bad days ❤
Why are you single? You're pretty. I'm single because women constantly think I'm ugly : /
@@Paul-82 thank you :) Honestly I think I either have very high standards or just can't find decent guys in my city or both 😅 are they actually telling you you're ugly or is that an assumption you have? I'm sure they don't think that!
@@kimbo2710I'm 14, even though I'm slim, I get made fun of my brown skin, cuz I'm asian. I got used to this...
Lets be friendss im a loner too
Don't Worry Everything be good naturally. ❣❣
It makes me feel a little "better" knowing that I'm not the only person having no friends as an adult
Same I’m also 30
*hugs*
Same and I'm 27. I'm so glad I found this video I feel less alone.
Same & just recently turned 45😳
Same. I'm 33 not married, no kids, no siblings, no friends.
"She didn't want to be my friend anymore" ...that cut deep fam 😔
The most redpilled part is your wife is NOT your best friend
Yea,that cut me deep like it sounded like she wasn't a real friend at all:(
True, that hurt for real...
(Also Sidenote: Interesting track design sir. Just thought I'd mention.)
@@KeyJayHD thank you!
Her loss!
Hey dude you're not alone! Just keep your head up and keep yourself busy and stay in the present! I've been through similar and came through the bad times by looking inward and realizing things will get better but you gotta believe and stay positive and be comfortable with yourself! Take care and be well.
I have spent so much of my life have no fiends with suck awkward social skills and always being misunderstood, so thank you for sharing this video! It gave me at least some solace.
Don't Worry Maam everything will be fine.❣❣❣
Amazing video man. My editor brought this to my attention. thanks for sharing Cody.
Rich you are my internet friend as well as someone with some disabilities and unable to drive a car due to seizures you Camelot331and many are my friends at heart and I hope to meet you guys one Day in the future keep up the fun content you create
hey rich!
Rich from Review Tech USA
Let’s get into it
Anything to keep the grift going. Am I right Rich?
No one talks about how hard it is to make friends as an adult. They need to talk about that when you are younger so people put more effort into long term friendships.
It is a challenge...but it's harder to just not try and live a life without social connections...sure some will be in your life for a season.. but some people will stay in your life...
The former friends I had were lame..
So I'm not sad that they're gone . I'm a different person..I have interactions with others, but I try to keep my expectations low with people all the while putting myself out there and try to connect with people.
What helps me is my faith in God..
I do have a desire for connecting with others, yet I know I would be disappointing to me..
But I know that those who are supposed to be my friends and acquaintances will be there for me..
basically impossible.
@@rauldelarosa2768 yes faith in God is a big connector for me; most important one living the life. Being honest helps too.
I've heard people warn me about this when I was younger, I just never thought it would happen to me..
Oh god it’s the worst! I have 0 friends and don’t think it will change anytime soon.
Omg nooo!!!! I’m honestly the same way!! All of the amazing people don’t have friends, because everyone sucks. I watch your videos everyday man! You’re not alone!!!
Yeah, bro I feel this. I’ve totally given up, and don’t really have hope for a change. But I’m glad you “got out” man.
As a youtuber you probably don't realize that you are the person ppl connect with when they feel lonely and complete strangers feel a close social connection when they watch your videos
You are correct with your words, but there is a big difference being CAMELOT331 and the people who watch his content. You mean well with your words, and that can be appreciated. CAMELOT331 is connecting with you through a virtual online world. But who is connecting with CAMELOT331? No one! Comments on this channel are not considered connections. They are just opinions.
It may be time for CAMELOT331 to slow down this channel to get out more and spend time with people in public so that he can start getting back in touch with himself and who he is, instead of being online constantly transmitting all this depressing news about what is happening in the retail and corporate world!
@@talk2azs @OffTheRails Some psychologists may argue that helping others with your similar issues can provide you with great relief. When I'm feeling down I might forget how important I am to someone else, and being reminded that something I've said made a difference for someone else, really inspires me. He read the testimony of another person who was on the trip and I think this inspired him too. Sometimes loneliness perpetuates because you get sucked into yourself and being reminded that you're not alone in feeling lonely is helpful. He also said that it was helpful to him to be reminded that other ppl were in the same boat. It depends on the person but it is really important for most ppl to feel like they are contributing to the world and to focus on what they are grateful for.
I think he is doing great work in exposing these companies and I have stopped funding almost all the businesses he's reported on. I see his reporting as positive and helpful, as he's a voice for those people who feel like they don't have one.
@@trillstina Well said Pisces! I did not mean for my comment to be taken out of any context. I agree CAMELOT331 is doing a great job here, but I am looking at the issue from the other side of the screen. I just think that with all the work he is doing by making other people feel better about themselves, by broadcasting the truth about what is really happening in the retail and corporate world, I think CAMELOT331 is starting to lose touch with his personal mental health! This is what I am seeing and reading into what CAMELOT331 is saying here!
All I am really trying to say here is that if CAMELOT331's mental health starts failing, he can't be here much longer for those who need to hear his words.
This is NOT about us and our needs here. This is about CAMELOT331 as well! And if your words to him helped him in any way, then you have done your good deed for the day and you should be given credit for your kind words.
I completely agree with your assessment. You’ve made many new friends because of the videos you make.
True
The older I get (I’m 26), the more I realized I was “friends” with fake people who didn’t care about me at all. I realize I am content spending my spare time fishing, away from all the noise and bullshit 🎣.
Fishing is extremely therapeutic I do that a lot when I feel lonely
@@chiclids Yes, indeed! I enjoy every time I go, even when I don't catch anything. I think almost everyone feels lonely because friends come and go constantly. I'm not sure how old you are, but that's the consensus I've gotten from different people in their 20s and 30s. This is apart from the "fake" friends I mentioned.
This year I moved to a new country, with the hopes and dreams of starting a new life and meeting new exciting people. But at the age of 26, it has become increasingly difficult to make real friends to the point this has to be the loneliest I have ever felt.
Still not used to being by myself, and it's definitely a struggle considering I have never been comfortable in my own skin.. but I'm working towards learning how to enjoy being by myself.
@@cheesybish9920 I understand how you feel! I also have moved around thinking it would be a better situation to make friends, and it hasn’t. Like I know of many people that are peers. Meaning they know me, will talk to me whenever I see them, but they will never see how I’m doing, never meet up with me, and so therefore, are not my friends. It’s like people either don’t want to be friends anymore or have a hard time with communication today. It’s ridiculous.
Out of all the hundreds of "friends" I had on facebook, only 1 of them kept in contact when I announced I was deleting my account.
Someone recently reacted to this so I came to watch in its entirety. You are brave for speaking on this. I am elated that you are not alone. Thank you for this video!
"I leanred that they were my real friends", I was so worried it was going the other way because you so emotional. Grats, truly glad you getting some wins. Best video for a long time.
Don’t you dare apologising for crying and letting your heart out in this. It takes real courage and strength to acknowledge pain and use it to educate people. Thank you and I wish you the very best.
My life is pain
@@alphawolf8503 oh
@@philcollinslover56705 :(
@@alphawolf8503 💀
@@SUPERNOVA0360 💀
Well, I'm 63 and retired without any friends or family.
You still have plenty of time to find a friend.
I still have some hope to find a friend before I die.
Don't give up. You're a very good person.
Where do you live?
my brother you are still young at any age!!
Try to go places where's other people doing things that you like maybe swimming or something like that, U hope you find someone. Good luck
I'm in the same boat. Too hard to meet someone my age that isn't nuts, nosey, cheap, drunk, or a pest,or a mooch.
Try to go to church 1 you will find people your age & 2 they often are excited to see you and want to get to know you. I know you may not be religious but church is honestly the easiest way to make friends no matter the age
I feel you. Turning 30 in three days. I have no friends... none. I haven't gotten a text from anyone in almost 10 years. I don't have someone to talk to, I don't have someone to kick it with, I don't get messages on social media. I don't have a girlfriend or any girls talking to me, I don't have a worthwhile job, I feel pretty worthless to be honest. I don't think anyone would bat an eye if I disappeared. I've been holding it together for almost a decade of being alone everyday, but in the past couple days the loneliness has hit me like a ton of bricks. For the first time in a decade I truly do feel alone. Just another birthday and just another year by myself.
same, 32 soon, no friends, no actual skills to be productive, only small time job for few hours delivering papers at night aka no social interactions at all, sit in front of my pc all day watching random shit and feeling bad, trying to live more healthy and exercise more these last few weeks but that just makes it even harder, I dont want many friends at all as I usually like being on my own but some days I wish I had at least 1 or 2 or a significant other but I feel like I dont even know where to find actual friends or meet new people, never liked going outside to parties or such and gaming is just not fun anymore, everytime I play something I feel this strange pressure that nothing matters anyway because I just waste more time doing nothing, watching twitch streams and joining random discords just to find out I have no social skills anymore and Im too scared to even say anything there, hoping that by losing some weight and such I would gain more confidence but not sure about that either so probably wont happen. I just know theres other people like you who feel the same and that just proves to me that Im not alone in my struggles, even If I dont know you. Ill bookmark this vid to reply to this comment in a Month, lets see if something changes.
@@Jacdxxand?
Gosh thats so beautiful to see the happiness of this man that he has friends. Got me crying due to the fact there so many struggling with loneliness and social anxiety to the point they have no friends at all. It's refreshing to watch this🙏
There are so many lonely people in this world but no one knows how to find each other
Exactly, you're worried that reaching out will confirm your suspicions that you truly are alone
@Logan Roof Up your troll game my man
@Logan Roof fudge off from here mate
Very true. Are you from Detroit?
It's so fucking true it hurts
“I’m just a big ole fat bitch” is one of the best lines I’ve ever heard
He's adorable and I'm not even gay
Haha I found it funny but I'm not laughing at him
I'm handsome but the world hates me
@@trock4523 I can’t help that I’m popular
First of your videos I’ve ever seen. Many thanks for sharing. I’m 71 and no friends, just me and my little dog. I’ve now subscribed to your channel.
when you cried, i saw that little boy you mentiond in the beginning. and this is the point.... The adult shell that we live in is not the true version of us. im soo glad that you had met those people and that you've finally found your tribe. i relate to you a 1000% 🙏🏽💥
ok your humour at the end was hilarious. ended on a light note. great guy.
I had never realized how real internet friends can be. You talk every night for hours, year after year, and it never really clicked for me. And before our meetup was planned after years of talking, one of our good discord friends committed suicide. And never getting to see him in person, or go to his funeral because of the distant really hit hard. It made me realized that the important parts of a friendship, communication and connection, can happen even on the internet. Its a beautiful thing
I really don't mean to be mean but how the hell do you find out they commited suicide? My curiosity is selfish sorry
@@ararix3722 no problem! We actually started to get nervous after not hearing from him in a week, and his best friend went through his contacts and discord to notify all his friends
@@StarTrekBro is his best friend ok? Jesus he took it upon himself to tell you all what a nice guy
@Death Frost he's a good nan then, BTW is the game still active and alive?
@@StarTrekBro that's heartbreaking to hear
Being alone isn't the worst thing in life, being around people who make you feel alone is
That hit, very true
Amen 👍
Robin Williams quote its so true
I feel this way in social situations, I much prefer my own company.
Other people cause anxiety it's rarely the person's who has anxieties fault
I saw you mentioned this on Nick’s show tonight and wanted to view it. Well, it’s warming to see you be humble and your heartfelt feelings of gratitude 💜 on your sleeve also the appreciation.
Good on you ✊🏼. Humble and Kindness goes along way. Take Care🙂.
This guy it's literally making me physically sick. He needs to grow up and be a man, he obviously needs serious psychiatric intervention because this guy it's seriously depressed or seriously mentally ill...
Sometimes a person has thousands of friends and just has not met them yet, thank you for the courage to put yourself out there and tell people how you feel and what you are going through
I am 45 and have ZERO friends and alone 90% of the time. You are doing just fine. Keep up the great work.
I am 24 and have zero friends, I go to park in the evening to feel positive energy of Happy people especially kids, but I feel inside that people do see me as that "Alone awkward guy". The other day, I was eating at McDonald's alone and everyone was staring at me, I just realized later that they saw me as someone awkward
@@exoticindiaa don’t feel awkward bro I’m about to turn 25 and have like 3 friends and I haven’t seen them in months. I spend my weekends at home cause I’m not about that party life anymore. A man that can be alone and find happiness in his purpose and/or hobbies is a dangerous man. I get why it might hurt or feel weird to be “alone” but you’re not. And go to the gym! I promise you’ll fall in love with it and bring some real happiness to your life.
@@braesidebikes4344 I think you need to check yourself and get your priorities in line. Your family loves you and that’s enough. Since when are you supposed to measure your happiness on wether people are there or not ? Someone’s gotta be real with you bud. Find your happiness in your passion, in being healthy and helping those who are in need. Snap out of it. You’re better than that.
@@exoticindiaa why were they staring at u? Jesus people are just weird.
@@HELLISH43 society just thinks that way sadly
Being lonely in general isn't that hard in my opinion. The hard part is being reminded that other people have friends and get more easily while you get rejected or at least not invited.
This. You nailed it. Btw, nice Manowar avatar!
This is my life😢
real
When I would watch shows like Top Gear and 4wd Action, I always thought that I watched these shows because I liked cars. But really I was watching it because they had a brotherhood and I didn´t.
Comparison is the thief of joy
Yeah I can honestly say I just turned 31 and once I had turned 29 my group just diminished completely. We all moved away, but we still were connected through social media and group chats, but it's the inevitable and if you look at their lives today, nothing has really changed besides the fact that they don't really want to interact with you anymore, not even causally. I'm glad I saw this video, I kept feel like I'm missing something and not understanding the trend. But it's whatever at this point. I tried my best to reach out, interact and maintain a good and healthy relationship, but if that's how they are then screw them. Worse apart about this all is I also feel like my siblings and relatives are the same way and when I look at my parents circle they're folks still interact and chill from time to time. But I like I said, it sucks, but it is what it is.... I appreciate your video and I'm glad you found a relatable group of people that you can call friends.
Thank you for sharing your story. It takes strength to talk so openly. You're a true warrior
No friends is better than having "friends" secretly against you
But it's not like you must choose between these 2 options. You can have good friends.
I don't have good friends though
@@Cassofalltrades If you keep trying I'm sure you'll find some. :) Don't give up.
@@alittax It’s emotionally exhausting
@@BarelyNoticeable I don't know you, but maybe you're saying that because you don't have enough practice making friends and maintaining relationships. This is a skill, after all. At first everything is difficult, but if you keep an open mind (open to how you could improve your interactions, etc) and you keep trying, you'll get the hang of it! :) Even kids can learn to become friends.
Friendships should be fulfilling (the opposite of "exhausting" as you said), so maybe you're not trying with the right people, or you're not trying properly. True friendships are well worth it. If I were you I'd read "How to Be a Friend: An Ancient Guide to True Friendship" by Cicero. He was one of the greatest speakers who has ever lived and also a famous philosopher, and he wrote this letter to his best friend. Maybe you'll like it. :)
This is a guy putting his heart on his sleeve ❤️
Very late to the party but don't dunk on him for just being him!
Never had but a couple actual friends ever. Like 3 or four maybe. Nobody cares about anyone but themselves by and large nowadays. At 38 I have no family left that are still alive and willing to help me or even talk with me much. I have a single real friend, maybe two good acquaintances. Wait until you're closer to 40. Then you'll start to feel really awful as your body starts to hurt. While your uncle's and aunts, grandparents and parents all die around you. When the half assed attempts become harder and harder to achieve. 05:40 isn't the dead inside pain i was promised. It's a lament. It's a recollection of a better time. It isn't a lack of hope. It isn't despair.
@@mateo7813 I'm 44, went through absolute hell when I was in an extremely bad place, if I can overcome it fucking you all can!
Never ever give up, there will always be some there to tap on your shoulder and ask if your ok! You never give up mate ❤️
Bro, I have to get back to school this year, would you donate to me in my btc wallet..
@@mateo7813 What you said in your comment is almost my exact situation even down to things starting to hurt. I’m going to be 39 in a couple of months and unbelievably, I’m dealing with early osteoarthritis. I lament the passing of happier times where I had a few people to share and enjoy things with, some human company and the feeling of life and possibilities, of hope.
L + ratio + didn’t ask + bozo
god I love this so much! it's heartwarming af that these people have shown up for you and your realisation that they were your real friends. I f love that. you are clearly worth a damn my friend! sending big love.
So happy for you man - what an incredible video. Just so raw and full of good emotion. Proud of you, happy for you and wishing you the best brotha! Cheers!!
I'm 17 and have no friends, both online and real life. It's miserable, especially seeing others my age with loads of friends. It's honestly triggering tbh, because seeing them have fun, makes me realize on how much I've missed out on, and what I'm currently missing out on. It hurts.
Bro ur still young get out there communication is key go to a bowling alley or skating rink you'll meet new people
You're not alone. I'm your age and in the same situation, same feelings. I lack social skills and it brought a years long depression, which worsened my situation.
If you're lonely, please work on your mental and overall health, because it will only increase your confidence and consequently your chances of meeting new people.
I'm 19 and something that I'm trying to work on is realizing that my life doesn't have to fit in the model of a regular teenage life I've seen on tv or can see my classmates have. I'm different and others may look at me weird but at the end of the day I'm the most important person in my little world and i don't need to be like others. Little happiness like silly talks with my mom or small talks with my neighbors is ok, life is supposed to be easy, i shouldn't force myself to be like others and torture myself thinking I'm missing out. The only thing you should worry about is to be in a good place mentally and the rest will come easy. Don't stress it.
Pretty much the same here
FRIEND IS OPTIMUS PRIME 🛐🛐🛐
People don’t realize the profound effect we have on those around us. A simple gesture can keep someone alive. Treat every encounter as if it’s the last time you’ll see that person, be kind.
Good comment, Made me think
I recently learned that some people lack the "inner monologue" that others have. Meaning some people have a voice in their head that they use to actively think while others don’t. Part of me thinks the ones that don’t have the voice are incredibly common because people who are like that have stated that they don’t do much self-reflection or really think about how or why things are. They just kind of accept what they see and feel at the moment in relation to what’s right in front of them. There are way too many people who have a clear disregard for others that it actually blows my mind sometimes.
Hell, I’ve tried to start complimenting people on things in the games I play and most of my compliments are met with immediate toxicity and negativity. I just want to make people feel good about something they did.
"makes people feels important"
-Dale Carnegie
@@babyhoho6745 it’s not something you do very much of is it
Smile at people.
You deserve MANY friends. You seem like a great dude!!
Don't be sorry for showing your true feelings. Great video--thanks for sharing!!
“ she became my best friend, then she didn’t want to be my friend anymore” that hurt
She was fake
She belong to the streets
💔
He treated her like she was his mom most likely. Women aren't built to be your emotional support. There's a reason men aren't supposed to cry and show emotions. If you want to get cheated on, tell a woman your issues. She'll try to find other men to release the pressure really quick.
Women aren't built for this. The only time you get to cry is when your arm is slashed and even then you have 3 seconds then you put on a straight face.
Sorry guys, it's just the way it is. Refuse the feminisation of men, this isn't attractive. Courage bros.
@@Krullerized You've been single most your life.
I started speaking to an elderly man at work a few days ago and he said something to me that changed my life forever he said “ you sound like a young man who is on the verge of being being successful and you don’t have anyone to share it with” and that really affected my world view. The same as this video.
I think the world isolates those destined for greatness, right before the bang
This made zero sense..
Bro me af I started making so much money from investing but in order to invest alot of money I had to work 60 hours a week so I aways told my friends I couldn't hang and I didn't have time for a gf but now that I'm making alot of money I have no one to enjoy it with
@@musicpro7278 yeaaahh bro, that shit is real, bit that's life and that's our choices. Now that you have the money, just focus on getting a gilrfriend and hope she's not with you only because of your money. Try getting a girl that is just as hard working as you!
Great vid yeppers I remember going around thinking I’m alone. It’s when you meet up with people you realize how alone we all are together. It kinda gets worse when ya get home and it’s empty and there’s nothing at home. There’s nothing inside to give to an empty house. Makes ya wanna get out there more and welcome those equal loners and welcome them into your home and welcome then inside
I never realised how much I'd value this community. When the days are long and lonely I know I can listen to you, Ethan, Cecil, Shane and Jon Malin and life doesn't seem so bad anymore. Thank you 😊
You’re not alone man. I’m 25 and have no friends. Never had a girlfriend or had sex before. I was athletic when I was in high school but after I graduated depression, anxiety and laziness set in and I gained over 100 pounds.
Depression and anxiety are such a bastards, im dealing with them, but i know you are a cool dude, and we will overcome this.
Power man, the sky is your limit
Same bro, but I'm only 20.
It will get better my man
I'm 26 here and have no friends either. Mostly due to moving around from my parents divorcing and a house foreclosure. That happened in high school and I eventually lost contact with everyone. Then the depression, anxiety, self doubt, and laziness kicked in during my early 20s..none of that helps. Just letting you know you're not alone.
@Cat 123 You're not wrong either. I started hiking about 5 days a week a year and a half ago. I have lost 40 pounds with no strict dieting. When I hike I feel my anxiety melt away especially when it's sunny outside. It's also great for depression. There are so many benefits to exercise.
I’m 36 and have no friends or a family of my own. I drown myself in work on purpose to not have to deal with that reality. Ugh this made me cry so much.
God is with you
Oddly enough I met a guy in a youtube live chat room ..... living with him now. he's amazing. whatever we end up being im sure we'll be great friends, i hope for the rest of our lives. two lonely 38 year olds ...now cherishing eachothers company, and we already watched all the same stuff on youtube and he even got me into some new stuff we bond over it ! not saying we will get married or anything but just to have this nice connection at this age where i had just resigned to being alone. caught me off guard. he's a great person. good luck all
Moral of the story here is CZcams can connect you to people in a positive way. Just being in the same comments section as somebody highly increase the compatibility rate I would imagine..
I just came across this video and i dont know you and have never even watched your content but i thank you from soul to soul thank you for expressing your emotions fully. That takes power and it is appreciated.
I dont have friends anymore. I find myself wanting to play games with people then i realize i have NO ONE
Discord community’s have plenty of people
@@Wild_Productions it’s not the same
@@organizedopinions8068 what do you mean it’s not the same?
Making friends is a good thing no matter what. If there’s a discord full of people who are willing to be a potential friend, then I’d take it.
@@redranger807 cool for you, it’s not the same to me.
@@organizedopinions8068 you poor soul. i'll play games with you lol
“Got married and she became my best friend. In 2016, she didn’t want to be my friend anymore.” 😩😩
Ik that low key broke me
Time stamp?
@@darcezillious like 2:00
That sucks. I know that feeling. It really blows.
Low key kinda just how dating is
I salute you for posting this video. This video will help others feeling the same way, and that alone has power. 💪
This is the first time I'm watching this. I don't talk in chat much but I feel a sense of belonging here too. You've helped a lot of people, Cam.
I'm almost 30. Grew up a loser. Still a loser. Still overweight. Just out of a almost 10 year relationship. But got a very few close friends. I'll be your friend too
The best advice for you is to focus on yourself. Do what’s something what you want to do.
You're a winner in my book. Losers don't give someone a decade of their life for the hell of it. Takes someone with dedication.
Don’t give up man, you can do it if you put discipline and positive attitude towards it but you have to become disciplined on getting your weight down, once you dominate your brainmeats you can do almost anything
just wanted to say--have you thought about getting counselling?? i understand completely (i think) but would love for your self esteem to be higher too and not calling yourself a loser. i feel like i am weird combination. i think i am a loser. but i also have enough self esteem to say i dont need someone to do bad with- i can do bad on my own. but other times i think also-- hey maybe im not so bad after wall-- im not an alcoholic, i dont do drugs, i wasnt a teenage pregnancy statistic, i dont have tons of kids from different daddies....whatever stigma you can think of i guess as far as those. But lets see--- i didnt finish college-- i STILL dont know what i want to be when i grow up (i want to do something that i love but still support the lifestyle i want- which is not a rich lifestyle either) my daughter and i live in a house my mom owns, she helps out will bills- she bought my last two cars....im not stupid, but i think emotionally immature alot of times...i just dont care about alot of shit. i am overweight- again not caring right now other than for my daughter...i dont know how to express how i feel like a loser too-- i certainly dont look at my circumstances and say- oh she's successful...i wanna be like her.....i dont get in trouble with the law-- i have my daughter to worry about but i have done stupid shit before her....dont know if this makes sense....your still young. i am 46 i just hope you can learn from me.
First of all, NEVER EVER call yourself a loser. If you do that you will start believing it. And if you believe it, you will program yourself into a huge state of depression! This is something you DO NOT want in your life! Also it does not matter if you are overweight. You MUST STOP calling yourself that as well! You also do not need those words programming yourself into depression. Lets take a look at some facts here. I am in my early 50's now to let you know that I know what I am talking about!
1> You stated you just got out of a 10 year relationship that started when you were 19, seeing how you are almost 30. We as people in our society are still immature kids in our 20's. We change so much that we do not even realize it! I went through the same exact thing in my 20's. Yes, it sucks, but do what I did and just tell yourself these words: "SHIT HAPPENS!"
2> You are just about to start your adult life and have so much to learn about the world and yourself. It's a new chapter you are starting. Embrace it, learn from it, and most importantly, just enjoy the ride. "Things always change! They never stay the same!" This is a line from the lyrics of the song "Life, Love, and Laughter" by Donavan Frankenreiter which was released in 2008. Here is the link if you want to take a listen:
www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j&q=&esrc=s&source=web&cd=&cad=rja&uact=8&ved=2ahUKEwjx1vuYt_7vAhVrleAKHcN0AAIQtwIwBHoECAYQAw&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D8Y-upHLOv48&usg=AOvVaw1Rtk3J-_eUhDNV1LQVz4cI
3> When you get into your 40's, you will realize how stupid and immature you actually were in your 20's. LOL. You will learn even more about yourself than you would ever have realized!
As stated above. Sit back and enjoy the ride. ALWAYS love yourself first. You will run into people on your journey that will try to bring you down. Think of these as little challenges that will get thrown at you. The way to deflect that is to always stay positive about yourself and no one will ever take you down. If there is something you don't like about yourself, only you will know how to change that. If you decide to make those changes, enjoy that ride as well!
Dude I'm 37 and I'm not sure I've ever truly had friends.
22 year old here and I’m the same. Been a loner since Birth ha!
i have a lot of friend groups but i always feel that im just a side friend. they would plan and hangout without inviting me and when we are talkingg they are so close with each other. i will definitely find my soulmate one day and i know you guys will.
You know me to I've always been just that friend that they talk to because they have nobody else and once they start talking to their other friends I am just there lonely and forgotten and when I left it was as if I was never there because nobody cared and nobody remembered about me...
You haven't. I am 44 and had millions of "friends" up til about 28 years old....maybe 35....but now...not ONE keeps in touch. Not one. Zero. ZERO! I am not married and have no kids....the truth is you are alone and we are tested to battle earth alone just like the inscription on the tombstone of Orson Welles...we are born alone...we live alone...we die alone. Truth is sometimes very very harsh.
22 year old just had internet friends back in 2015-17 and since then no friends no one to hangout with
Saw this on a reaction video from Aba n Peach and thought wow awesome you were so honest and vulnerable!
I was scared clicking on this video because i saw it would be emotionnal and i was affraid of the comments that people could have posted… but actually, i feel better now that i see that people care and support you. Thanks for your courage to share this. ❤
I'm 29 years old and the more time I spend on this world,the more I realize that most people don't have real close friends. Real friend won't let you behind when it's convinent to them.
True. Indeed,so very true.
@@yangyangkittykat3 thank you man that's nice off you
@@armin38822 It sucks but the reality is. People have so many friends in high school and college because your kinda forced to in a way. Your placed with all this strangers for long times of your life. You have to make friends. In the real world however no one forces you into a room with strangers( except for in your job). And since it doesn't matter if your a teen, child, or adult. Approaching a stranger is always uncomfortable and therefore few bother.
Then the double whammy of the fact that being an adult with a family is very time and energy consuming. It's no wonder most people only have about a handful of friends by their late thirties. And that number just keeps dwindling.
Jesus will be your best friend closer then a brother
@@bloodwashedsaint how would you know if jesus is your friend?
Lets be honest. Even around "family and friends" you on your own.
I agree, basically no one will have your back
Most definitely. You're in this world alone pretty much.
Depends but i feel yall
Depends in what kind of family and friends you have😏.
True
I hear you bud, keep plugging! It's great to hear this commentary and admirable you were this open emotionally, rock on!
Good on you brother, takes a lot to be open like that. you are a brave soul and a good person, and you have a great future ahead of you, if you want it! God Bless you man!
We're with you dude. Every single person in this comment section is just a friend you haven't met yet.
The trolls certainly aren't with him but most of us support him
Truth.
i'm 19 and i don't have friends either, sometimes i'm fine but then when i see others having a good time and enjoying their selves i feel alone and sad even depressed
Work on urself, it’s better that ur alone than around snakes.
I'm in the same position. When i see friends having fun i feel like i'm missing out lots of fun but i am also too much of an introvert to make friends.
@@noworries2418 that ending was really surprising lol
@@sodapop7531 💀💀💀
@@noworries2418 i stutter talking to anyone,
I'm 33 and have no friends too so i feel you
This is a touching video. I'm so glad that things worked out for you.
“Being alone has a power that very few people can handle.” -Steven Aitchison
@ImVynn yes it’s like we’re not alone we have social media and can talk to strangers but we still feel alone. I remember my grandma would visit all her friends individually every Sunday and drop off goodies and have teas with them. I wish I had a friend like my granny. Who wasn’t bringing drama or mess but just stop in say hi and show love.
They say the great men of history always stood alone, but they were also very miserable
Having no friends is basically worse than being a chronic smoker
In fact, the negative effects and the toll loneliness has on your mental health is so severe that it can be equated to smoking 15 cigarettes daily, meaning it has the same amount of life-shortening potency as those 15 cigarettes
Learning to be alone and loving oneself isn’t just enough on its own, in my opinion
The key to happiness is BOTH having a quality genuine social circle AND learning to be with oneself
You need both of them
Cause being alone is just impossible for us humans, we’re probably the most social creatures to ever walk this Earth
@@relaxingsoundsforpeaceands3509 Try being happy for those people on Insta instead of jealous.
Then i dont want this superpower 😑
I am losing that power at 45 years of age because it starts to get VERY BORING BEING ALONE!!!
For anybody out there that is living day to day without any “friends”, please stay positive. There are soooo many people out there searching for the same thing you are.
I really suck at socializing and because I’ve ‘been alone’ for so long it’s like I manipulated myself into thinking I’m ok living life like this…but it’s super lonely for me personally. I want to have hope that it will change but it doesn’t feel like it’s in the cards for me sometimes. I’m happy I seen this comment. Very encouraging 💕
@@brewalls2301 i literally done the same thing my whole life too, tellimg myself i don't need any friends, i like being alone, i don't like ppl that much etc etc. But deep down i really would like to know more ppl to talk and hang out with bcuz the loneliness and boredom definitely being hitting hard sometimes 😭😭😭
Ever since i started college ive been alot more social than i ever been but still have alot of moments where I would like to be social at the moment but just too shy and awkward to do so, i hate it 😩
@@niya4670 I'm starting college this year and I'm hoping i'll make friends in college ;_;
Couldn't say it better myself.
@@0rye06 I've started college last year and it hasn't gone well for me 😣😣 I hope you're able to find friends. All I can say is try to become friends with anyone you can as quickly as possible because once some months go everyone will have found their group of friends and you'll be left alone. That's what happened to me. Now I have no one to hang out with and I'm pretty lonely but just barely hanging by.
I went through periods of my life with no friends, with a ton of friends, all over the map. The worst period though was a time when I had fake friends. Sometimes no friends may be better than shitty friends is what I've experienced. Shitty friends or family can really mess u up if you trust them. Now I don't want to open up no more. All love young man times will change.
Just want to say your really brave in talking about not having friends I’m really happy to know that now you do have friends and that your getting better as well I would feel really homered to call you my friend as well and I mean that from the bottom of my heart your a cool guy.
I'm 24 and I relate to this so much. The only reason I'm still around is my mom.
My mother and my dog for me
Me too. As soon she‘s dead, so am i.
Reach out to somebody, anybody, really. Reach out to me.
Same dude, the only reason I am here sometimes is because I don't want to hurt anyone in my family, and I'm not all that close to them. At least, it doesn't feel that way.
Things will get better, don't worry!
You are awesome bro 🙏🏿
Totally agreed,
How about you go ultra instinct mom and drop a new video cuz I’ve been waiting patiently bro bro
Nice to see you here
Oh wow howieazy hey dude
I know
It makes sense that your friends are through youtube, since thats where you put your energy and time. You are brave for expressing your true feelings.
The older you get, the smaller your group of friends get.
If you are smart.
True....life happens
Not true if you didn't have friends growing up and you never really had any through adulthood.
@@ashleyzrubek6404 Their are exceptions to many things.....
That small group evolve from friends to family
I’m 68 and in all those years the people I thought were my friends turned their backs on me. I’ve never known why. I don’t mind being alone. But I do mind being lonely. I have no one to talk to, to hang out with, or eat a meal with. So glad I have my cat.
Awwhh that’s really tough, glad you have your cat!! Love my two kitties, animals are the best! Cheering you on
I love you cotton.
My God that is really tough man. My heart goes out to you
@@beatriceroosmark9796 thanks so much
@@ecomm7048 thank you. You must be truly kind soul.
First of all , I am proud of you for being vulnerable because it’s not easy to say you didn’t have friends. I have been there also. Everyone gets lonely at times. You have to try to take control of thoughts when that happens because in reality not Eve is going to be your friend forever. But with patience and prayer you will find people who care about you. 😊
real
Big hugs to you from Ontario Canada! You are handsome, articulate and have a great southern accent. We've all felt alone at times and it can be hard to deal with, please hang in there and know there are people who care.