I'm 25 years old and never had a girlfriend.
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- čas přidán 19. 06. 2024
- My goal is provide an insightful perspective on what its like to live in the mid 20s without the experience of being in a relationship . It's taken me a long time to find the courage to make a video like this one but now I realize that my purpose is to service the world by sharing relatable and authentic experiences . Appreciate all of those who the time to hear my story and id like to hear yours next . #Myturn
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Dude I'm 30 and never been in a relationship
Everyone has their own story brother . I’m sure you have your own much like I have mine. Appreciate you for watching
I didn’t get a first girl friend till 29. Broke up with her after a year, then a few months later met the woman that would become my wife. Almost 17 years, still married and 5 kids. There’s plenty of hope for you.
I'll be 30 in September and also never had a gf
@@ForeverinSolitude-wt8mz Didn’t have a gf till I was 29. Married my second gf when I was 32. Don’t give up hope.
Im 32 and i just farted like a champ
I love how people are being more transparent on YT these days! This is some RS!!🔥💯
You're right! and honestly, there needs to be more vids like these because there's a lot of guys who suffer with this fear😞
I appreciate you for hearing me out .
@@B_W0RM88 No problem bro, I've been through it myself
@@user-ec4yw5hj3r shut up
My two cents: don't put all your eggs in one basket. Don't walk into a relationship expecting so much: people come, and people go. That's an observable fact. Some people also stay. That's also a fact. Accepting this will create a mindset of abundance. Our culture has instilled within us a Disney-like fantasy about relationships. It's done us more harm than good. Just go with the flow bro. Improve yourself, go on dates, sharpen your social skills, and in the long run you'll be good!
I appreciate you for sharing your insights brother. I completely agree and it’s something that I had to learn the hard way but I’m glad I finally did . Everything happens for a reason and life continues to move on and I’ve chosen to do the same .Thanks for hearing me out .
Actually good advice in a comment section 👍
I completely get the overthinking bro, some people seem to just naturally be good with girls, and not being like that makes me feel like I’m not worthy, so I got into a relationship that was never going to last just because I’d never had one before
The overthinking comes from not being comfortable and accepting yourself . When you learn how to love yourself , naturally others (especially the reals ones) will gravitate towards you .Thx for watching
Forget about having a girl. Friends are way way way more important.
Having a girl is a personal preference. Although it’s not my priority right now I’d like one in the future . Friends are very important and deserve to be acknowledged . Appreciate you for watching
Having girlfriends is also very emotional draining. And idk the heartbreak is really bad when u fuck it up. I have had both girlfriends and a lot of friends. Now I’m 27 I have nothing anymore due to my own mistakes I’ve made unfortunately and I would 100% say having friends is more important than having a girlfriend. Without friends how are u going to get a girl.
friends ? heh idk about that i prefer 10x more going out with girls (dates, sex)
Don’t tell another person what’s important in their life. It’s his story and his desires.
@@AminahMight it's called advice
This video deserves to blow up. Bro you are on the Right path. I seen a few of these videos that have that crybaby incel vibe but this is has that “Take control of your life” type of vibe and i love it 🔥
That means a lot brother I appreciate you and thx for watching
I needed this wake up call! I am 23 and I need to work on this. God bless!!
I appreciate you for hearing me out . God bless homie
I am 31 and I have never had a girlfriend. Being 5'3", not in the best of health and a lot of financial and professional responsibilities contributed to never having a girlfriend over the years. However, I am proud of having approached a few girls in the past even though it was terrifying. Also. I have not lost hope of finding a partner and will continue to keep working on myself and being the best version of myself. Thank you for reading my comment.
That’s the right mindset to have. Keep going.
I feel you bruh. It took me a long time to get a gf too. It's just the way of the world now. It's just harder to find girlfriends. Listen I think you will always feel inadequate but it's best to stay on your grind and money maxx
I appreciate you brother thank you. Money is an important asset to life but not everything , it more important to establish peace with yourself . Thx for watching
@@B_W0RM88 Np bro
Nice self realization dont worry love is coming you way be patient you got this!
Means a lot , I appreciate you and thx for watching
Ayo man. This video really hit me on the feels. I felt the exact same way as you b. The feeling of feeling unworthy to have a gf or to get with women. Insecure asl about myself. My fatness, My hair, My face, never liked anything about myself so I never felt worthy to get with a girl. Now I’m trying to change what I don’t like myself and start approaching women. Even if I get rejected it’s better to know I did it instead of running away. I’d regret that more.
I appreciate your honesty and I highly admire that you’re willing to pick yourself up and improve . You’re not alone brother . I appreciate you for hearing me out .
that’s being brave man. I applaud you.
This can be a wake up call to people, doesn't mean its in the cards for you to succeed
I’m also 25 and I just want to say don’t give up hope bro, I had my first girlfriend this year and it was really nice. I ended up breaking with her because of some personal stuff, but I just got out of my head and stopped overthinking. I wish I stopped being so ashamed of getting my first girlfriend late sooner. It’s really not as big of a deal as everyone makes it out to be now that I’m on the other side of the situation. Relationships are nice but ultimately the relationship you have with yourself is the most important at the end of the day.
I’ve learned recently that 25 is such a young age and unfortunately I get caught up with today’s society on what you “apparently” should have at a certain age . I agree to that idea to an extent but I now realize that everyone’s story is different and everyone’s turn comes around when they work for what they want . I haven’t put in the work so now Its my time to do so . Appreciate you for watching .
Didn’t have a girlfriend till I was 29. I beat myself up to hell from a teenager till then. When I went to a movie theater I would see a guy with his girlfriend and just watch them, just longing for what he had. 20 years later, I’ve been married for 17 years and I have 5 kids with the second woman I met. Some advice I’d give to you guys, enjoy the seasons of your life, while I do not want to go back to my single years, I wish I would have enjoyed them more instead of constantly beating myself up. Most of you men WILL find a woman and get married if that’s what you want.
And as for you B_worm, you are obviously on the right track and will get a girlfriend and married if that’s what you want.
I’ve been given this piece of advice several times. “Enjoy the single life” people would tell me . I always use to hate it when people told me that because they were always in a relationship and I always thought they couldn’t understand me . The problem wasn’t the advice obviously the issue was me not listening and trying to live life fast . I was stubborn and filled with too much envy. I had the same perspective you described, seeing people at the movies or on a date and just wondered “why can’t that be me ? ” . Ik for some it sounds cringey but that’s real life and my feelings. I appreciate you sharing your insights brother and offering your kindness to share your story .
How'd you two meet?
@@user-pl3sw5xs9s Yahoo personals. I’m also a Christian and she had the title “humble little sparrow” and i remember Christ saying in the Bible that not even a sparrow falls to the ground without God knowing. So I checked out her profile because of that. I was actually at the end of my rope and just about done with yahoo personals and I just happened to see hers.
@@user-pl3sw5xs9s Yahoo personals
You need to Read Mode One by Alan Roger Currie. He talks explicitly about fear and what men can do to overcome it. Your authenticity in this video is very refreshing.
I really appreciate the suggestion for the book . I’ve been reading a handful of self development books lately so I’ll add this one to my list for sure . I appreciate you hearing me out
Very good looking man, I looked at your profile and you are not the best looking.
Great video and message man
I appreciate you for hearing me out .
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No worries your a very handsome young man, god will be sending you that queen soon, just continue to be patient ❤
Give him a chance
@@Rollacoastertycoon.....If I wasn't 13 years older than him, I would😉
I appreciate the kind words thanks so much for saying that and dropping a sub . I trust god and timing . Im sure she’s out there .
1:10 yup this, even if the girl flat out says she likes you. I always feel this.
I hear you . But we have to humbly accept ourselves and our values. That’s how we grow as people . You’re worth it . Thanks for watching
Bruh you’re pretty handsome. Definitely more attractive than myself. I’ve had a few girlfriends but how my mind is. I self sabotage myself. Because of my past trauma, it’s pretty fucked honestly. With yourself you need to have more confidence.
I appreciate your kind words brother . It’s never too late to get started on your personal growth journey. We all make mistakes and the most important thing you can do is right your wrongs . Thx for watching .
I'm 26, and i never had a girlfriend. I've made a cold approach before she took my number down, but never called me eversince at the end regardless at least i had the guts to approach a woman. rejection is motivation. i focus on myself. I'm joining the military best decision ever made.
That’s incredible. I like your perspective on rejection being your motivation. Not everyone has that kind of mindset .
Im the same way. I live in an area in America where people are already 25 years old & married or engaged. Plus, I like being alone, have a creative imagination. Most women dont like guys that way.
Woman like a man who can be creative . They like a man who is honest with himself and others . Woman like the idea of being curious tho so it’s important not to display ALL of yourself when you first meet them.
Good pillow collection, though
Yeah I'm 31 about to be 32 and I've never had a girlfriend either. Truthfully I've given up, it just feels completely hopeless. Dating apps don't work, I can't even get one match on them, and meeting someone in person isn't exactly easy either. It legit feels hopeless.
Yeah I have a similar problem. Ive had girlfriends in the past but they just end up taking advantage of me and leaving. When I was in middle school a girl toyed with me and acted like she liked me all just to humiliate me. Being young and stupid I didnt know any better and didnt want to know any better really so I ended up falling for it only to be rejected and look like a stupid idiot. now ive been alone for years and have no idea how to even find any women to even be friends with let alone a relationship people say just approach them at a bar or something but honestly im too shy and awkward when talking to people I dont know. It really sucks
I was like you too until I hit the gym, now a days I get so many matches I pace myself and only talk to 3 women at a time. If you want women you have to become somebody who attracts them and we all know who that person is. When I was 60 pounds overweight it didn’t matter how good my personality was I was treated like I didn’t exist by women, I lost 70 pounds and got in shape and they treat me completely different now. Nothing worth having is easy
I understand where you’re coming from . For me personally, I’d say the most important thing you can do is just work on yourself. Hit the gym and become stronger both physically and mentally. Edcuate yourself and don’t get caught up in the idea of not having someone . I’d personally say delete the dating apps and go for the cold approach. I appreciate you for watching.
Dating apps are terrible. Don’t use it. I’ve used it and got some matches but then I realised it’s all based on fully outward appearance and not personality. People can literally swipe and swipe. And I guarantee 90% those are not wifey materials
You are not alone
Appreciate you
Ya 25 bro its not over at all. i would say it starts with having confidence in yourself which would mean finding your true self first. Also you shouldn’t be thinking about cold approaches at least rn thats for dudes that are perfectly fine with the wins and losses going back to the confidence thing. Just live ya life and when it comes together try to find genuine relationships. Stay up bro🫡
Appreciate you for the advice. It means a ton . I personally want to try the cold approach more because it’s an uncomfortable situation which is what I need. I’ve been so comfortable and playing it safe to a point where I’ve been held back from doing what I want. I’ll take the loss if I have to .
Plan a vacation somewhere (e.g. Las Vegas, Medellin, Bangkok, Cebu, etc.), budget how much money you would need to save and spend for that vacation, and so on like I have.
Based on my experiences, you can meet and bond with amazing people around the world.
100% the world is full of opportunity.
Thank you man stay strong im 24 every girl that i approched reject me and others i was AFRAID IM TIRED OF THIS SHIT I WANT A GIRLFRIEND
I appreciate you for watching . My advice for you is to even if this sounds cliche, is to work on yourself and don’t be afraid to take risks . Risks are essential in life because without them you’ll never know how far you can go . A girlfriend should complement your life not complete it . Be ok with who you are and I guarantee the right one will be ok with you too .
I’m 25yr old and I’m a dude, I myself and never had a girlfriend. It’s not cause of my looks, it’s just I don’t know how to show feelings in the relationship category. I just don’t see me being in one, I have trust issues to a certain extent. Deep down I’m actually happy with how I am, I feel like I’m still young and maybe one day in the future I’d catch feelings with someone. Only time will tell.
Listen brother , if you’re happy where you are right now then thats all that matters . Nothing should be forced especially relationships. I’m sure when the right one comes around you’ll know what to do . Appreciate you for watching
I know it's hard to believe because I have a family.And I've been married a long time and all that stuff, but I have had so much heartache and so If i can go back I would do it all over again.I would move to hawaii and go surfing
If I’m not mistaken I believe your advice would be to enjoy my single life for now and not rush into things. Prioritize self-improvement and don’t get caught up in the idea of having a partner . If I’m wrong feel free to correct me . I appreciate you for watching .
60 years young and I haven't had a real relationship. So I wonder why in the heck it hasn't happened to me, a kind, fun, pretty person who'd give her whole heart for someone deserving of my love and commitment.
If you don’t mind me asking, what’s one of the biggest life lessons you’ve taught yourself and what advice could you pass down to me ?
Keep your head up bro
Appreciate you brother . Thanks for watching.
Its ok man. I had my gf years before . But then I realised love is something u can’t be forced. I believe most people feel lonely and they want someone which is not wrong but often thinks it’s love. If everyone falls in love there would be no cheating. Love yourself. Work on yourself. Put yourself first, your family and God. If it meant to be then it will happen no matter what. True love is unconditional, no expectations and not conditional.
I can honestly say at only the age of 25, you have given better advice than 85% of these so called dating coaches and relationship experts.
I really appreciate that fr. I have more videos coming in the future on personal experience and life advice that I’ve seen on the sideline I’d like to give as well .
The issue with one thing you said is. Yes that person and perhaps every single person who hasn't approached you or rejected you isn't for you, but that does not inmediately imply that someone else is out there for you, sometimes you're just unlovable romantically and when you change so much of yourself to become romantically loveable you are no longer you
Well you wouldn’t change so much of yourself to the point where you are no longer unrecognizable to yourself . It’s about establishing yourself to be the best version and someone one day will appreciate that version of you and ultimately that’s wind up with the right one . I have high hopes for myself and others that love between partners is possible . Appreciate you for watching
Being attractive to women is merely a by-product of gaining value as a man, it should never be your first goal.
Start with your stile and create a more serious look for yourself.
And always keep in mind: Treat her like a celebrity, and she will treat you like a fan.
Never lead with your wallet! Never let a woman disrespect you!
And cultivate the mindset that women get invited to your life and your activities - not the other way around.
Fe. you dont invite a girlfriend to a dinner. YOU go out for dinner, and she is just invited to share this experience.
I appreciate the insight brother . I full agree with everything you said . You have to value yourself before anyone can value you . Thanks for watching and hearing me out
Just graduated and I have so many regrets
I understand. Sometimes our retreats are exactly what we need to persevere to the next stage in our life . How and when really depends on you . I appreciate you watching.
If this is true then this guy is very lucky. It means you've successfully adapted to not needing that type of attention which inevitably comes along with sometimes drama, chaos, disagreements, arguing, pregnancy tests, lying, cheating, and a whole load of things that goes with being in relationships. You don't need none of it!
I’m beginning to understand that attention is something you shouldn’t be desperate for and you should never crave validation . I understand relationships have their flaws however ,they do serve to be beneficial as well . It depends on the person .
Damn bro who did you meet?!? 😂😭
For the most part women didn’t exist in my life until my late 20s. It definitely changes you mentally but you can still end up happy later if you just keep doing you
For sure I completely agree. The idea “not having one” or “fear that you may never have one” is something that I’ve been hit with several times but I know now that it’s just me getting in my own thoughts .
You wouldn’t make your toddler start running before they can stand, then be made when they can only hold themselves up for a few seconds. Work on standing. Going up the a cashier and looking them in the eyes when you or they talk. Ask an employee where something is at a grocery store. Eye contact and maybe try to make a joke out of it or make a comment of the price for a quick bond over the hate of inflation. Say thank you for help and continue shopping. Eventually you get to a point where you can grab food at a drive thru or at a checkout counter and make a quick conversation about something that only need a response or two. Then you grab your food or bag from the cashier and just say “hey by the way your lash or eyebrow game is on point” as you smile and walk away. Don’t stay for the thank you, because it’s not about that. Don’t try to make a convo out of it, because it’s not about that. It’s about walking and getting comfortable so you can run. Eventually you get confident in your ability to speak to a lady, rejection becomes less of a worry and weight on your shoulders and you have conversation starters & jokes to create a conversation that’s enjoyable enough for her to give you her number or meet up for food so she can continue having an enjoyable conversation with you. I know this is a novel but I want to help anyone out there that’s struggling with standing up. I know what it’s like to keep falling down while those around me are running off with someone.
P.s- You are worthy and deserve love. If you didn’t think you deserved it or thought you weren’t lovable then you wouldn’t be hurting as much as you are now. You know you deserve it and you know you’re capable of giving it more than most people. Work towards self improvement and prove to yourself how much you’re willing to do in order to experience a aspect of life that you’ve dreamt of
This very true my brother and I appreciate you writing all this out and likewise for you too . You deserved to be loved and you are worthy to anyone you want to speak to . I appreciate all of this and thx for watching .
26 same here
For me it’s not really approaching. It’s that it’s always some excuse on their part. Ever since I turned 18, it’s just been years upon years of hearing the same old lame excuses. I’m 26 now and have never had anyone. It just gets old listening to the same bullshit over and over again.
If girls are making excuses every time then I would suggest being vulnerable by self-assessing yourself . There’s always improvement you can make on your part to avoid being lied to . Excuses are just illusions to the truth . They make “excuses” because, they’re seeing someone, they don’t want to be rude , or they simply don’t see themselves being romantic with you . Work on yourself and try again . Appreciate you for watching .
I don’t know how much more self improvement I can do without it seeming like trying too hard, which has been a critique made at me in the past. I actually followed and took some advice from some “dating coach” for a while some years ago and could have gotten into trouble last year. It’s hard to want to listen to anyone after that, you know? Might as well just wing it like everyone else seems to do. At least that doesn’t cost any real time or worse, money.
Just hit a glo up 2.0
That the plan. Thx for watching
bro just :
1- man up don't be scared
2- find a good girl (you gotta know how to choose)
3- treat her right, just do your best
4- i don't wanna disappoint you bro but most of the relationships ends up with breaking up (in your countries) but
where i'm from the "dating" or "having a boyfriend/ girlfriend) is not that common, we have marriage and it last long, so basically you don't have to be afraid from breaking up cuz it depedns on you and the girl, so just find the one and be the one to her, and marry her, u don't want yo kids to be bastards, right?
It’s ai bro
@@tuff4257 ?
I appreciate the honesty and insight brother . Means a lot and thx for watching .
All people are of equal value, no matter who’s a bastard or not.
@@Derokon9 I'm not saying bastards are not valuable, but being a son of a marriage is 1000× better than being a son of Adultery, and most of the times dating ends with breaking up and the children are the losers + if it's true love why wouldn't anybody marry his lover, marriage is pure
You sound like you are giving advice to people. I would not give advice to anyone unless something worked for me. You have a positive approach to life and hopefully you would be able to attract someone soon. And cold approach is the only way to find a quality person. No matter how hard it is we should always approach a girl without worrying about the consequences.
Appreciate you for watching
Im 20 and never had gf,and reason is that im ugly
You shouldn’t down play yourself like that. It doesn’t make the situation any better . Thanks for watching
Congrats! Trust me it’s… not really worth it anymore
I still want to be in a relationship one day . I can’t take one bad experience with a woman or view other toxic relationships and project that idea on to something that could be great. As of right now , I’m just focusing on myself . I appreciate you watching.
@@B_W0RM88 I’d definitely recommend focusing on yourself. Ask yourself this; Will my effort be worth it in 20 years? Regardless of if it’s in a relationship or not. What I’ve come to realize in my years is that you tend to pour decades into people with no return. Much of your life as a Man is funding some ladies lifestyle that barely wants to touch you, raising kids who eventually don’t care and HOPING if (and when) she does leave you at least get to keep your car.. or have to sell it in order to get a new place because for some reason SHE gets the house. Far more common than you think. And that’s IF you can find a woman to have a “stable” family life with and even make it that far. Good luck champ. We’ll all make it :)
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Honestly bro, I was never fearful, but for me it was cause I was solely focused on my education and career up until my age of 23 currently. I just developed a strong passion and interest for what I’m studying and a girlfriend to me at the time now seems to be a distraction. I don’t mind going on dates but a full blown girlfriend just seems like time lost pursuing my interests
Ay man that’s the best kind of mindset you can have . Don’t be distracted and stay on your path . If a GF isn’t something you want to peruse right now then that’s ok . You’ll always have that option available in the future. Appreciate you for watching .
Would love to interview you man
I’m interested to know what you have in mind ?
That might be a good thing
It’s not horrible . It’s just a part of the process
The same thing, There is a type of girl who loves appearances and money and does not care about the loyal and honest person
I get that . I’ll admit though, woman crave a man who is financially stable and one who takes care of himself physically and mentally . It’s a valid reason but it’s shouldn’t be the only one . Thanks for watching
I could give advice, but I won’t. People usually don’t take advice anyway. Good luck.
I completely understand where you’re coming from . Any advice is always welcomed though . People may not always take advice and that’s ok . Can’t hold expectations that people will take your words to heart . Appreciate you for watching
“They want a man that has a plan for them.” - B_Worm
They always do and it makes sense as a man to have a plan for them and yourself . I appreciate you for watching .
@@B_W0RM88 Solid advice. May you stay focused and thrive.
I never had a boyfriend amd imt 27..
I feel you . Ik it’s been said 100 times but I guarantee the right one is out there for you. When he comes to you, always remember to understand your values and never settle for less than you deserve . I appreciate you watching
Yo, is this just like a new thing with this Information Age generation? I feel like this is more common than any other time in history tbh. I feel like millennials and gen z are dating and having sex like half as much as previous generations
I never knew this type of content existed until a few months ago . It made me feel like I wasn’t the only one out there dealing with my own personal problems. It’s not just about dating. It’s about spreading awareness and using this platform to be both vulnerable and motivating . I don’t want my channel to be sob story. I want to speak on personal experiences, explain how I’m growing as a person and hopefully inspire others to do the same . Thanks for hearing me out .
@@B_W0RM88 You’re not alone at all bro. I’m in the same exact boat! I’m also 25 and have very little experience as well. I have dated briefly but none of the relationships lasted long. Still have my v card.
Trust me its not worth it
As of right now no, it isn’t . It’s something I want in the future and I’m sure the right one is out there for me and for you too if that’s what you want . Thx for watching
When I was 25, I didn't have a girlfriend either. Now I'm heading towards 45, and still don't have one. But I'm good, though, cause girlfriends are too expensive. 😂
I hear you . All that matters is that you’re happy where you’re at in life .
u dont want one bro trust
I do but it’s not a priority right now . I appreciate you for watching
Sweetheart you really don’t need one they’ll cause u nothing but heartache and pain and I’m not talking bout all women
I understand that. But since we’re not talking about all women I can’t say all of them will cause heart breaks. I personally find it to be necessary to experience those types of things because it’ll make you appreciate the one that’s meant for you that much more .
me too men and to be honest i don't mind
Appreciate you for watching
bruh this finna be me
Even if this is you, theres nothing to be ashamed about . Your never too late to get started somewhere. Thx for watching
I think folks gotta relax, don’t go into every relationship thinking you’re gonna get married to that chick. Allow relationships to run there course naturally, if it don’t work it don’t work it don’t work, don’t destroy yourself because it doesn’t work. Allow relationships to be fun for the moment and allow them to be lessons
Solid advice . I fully agree that not every relationship will work out . I do believe that that heartbreak can be used as a form of motivation to improve yourself and eventually get you to the person that your meant to be with .
Im 17 and never had one either😮
You still so young and truthfully speaking don’t worry about what age you are when it comes to having a girlfriend or anything in life . You have your own life experiences and story to tell at the end of the day . Be true to yourself, love yourself and understand that everything comes in time .
@@B_W0RM88 It makes me feel insecure to the point i have to lie to a girl who asked me I think if I was more desirable id have more romantic experiences but not every relationship u have is gonna make me happy I really hope it comes easy if it comes.
Don’t even fret at 17. It’s super common at 17 to have never had a girl friend. You’re completely normal.
@@jasonjones2176I’m 19 I think I realize because I’m insecure in my body.
Bruh tbh this ain’t even that crazy. You ain’t bad looking and Ik a ton of dudes that look good that never been in a relationship. Dating is just a different game for men.
I appreciate the kind words and nah it ain’t nothing crazy at all. I’m just explaining my story and spreading awareness for anyone out there who might have felt alone or came down to realization that they’ve never been in a relationships. I appreciate you watching
2 times cold approach is good. My # is 0.
It can be intimidating because you don’t know what to say . Some of the best advice I’ve heard was to treat a woman like you’ve known them for a while . It’ll establish a comfortable environment for both her and yourself .
@B_W0RM88 I could get a woman's attention initially because I'm both decently charismatic and meet look standards, but I'm culturally so different from American women, that there's no point in bothering. They all give me a shot and I blow it or just dump them first. Also, I have neurological and reoccurring substance abuse issues that always ruin any romance. Navigating prison was easier than navigating romance with American women. My good word granted me full trust and respect in prison, but it doesn't move women at all.
What you don’t have one man I’m screwed
No you’re not . It’s just about working on yourself and going after what you want . Appreciate you for watching
You could be good looking, have lots of friends and still be single. Getting into a relationship with a woman is a separate skill entirely
I’d say when you’re comfortable with yourself then she’ll come around to being comfortable with you . Yes as a man you have a role to play being the protector, provider , staying on mission, not being needy ect. But initially when you come to accept who you are in the world , the right one will come to accept you too . I appreciate you for watching
Are you good looking?
Gotta train, muscles money and charisma , get 1.k rejections 6 pack and 1 million dollars
Then you’ll be with a beautiful girl!
Going to the gym is a must . Building a better body will ultimately build a better person with the right intentions. Thx for watching
you do not need a million dollars to get a gf. ideas like this are why there are so many guys turning into incels. ya'll make it sound like you need to be some amazing godly man just to get a woman
@@shotokhan1992you do. You need to be near perfection to get a girl. It’s just that when you reveal what girls actually want in a guy it sounds bad but it’s the truth. Though I agree you don’t need millions. A good 100k we’ll do you just fine. Hell 50k as long as you look amazing.
@@DacioNerdTVSad you living like this man. You need to stop making excuses for yourself. Less than 5 percent of Americans are millionaires and there’s damn sure a lot more relationships than that.
I’m 37 I gave up I dated 17-27 had 3 bfs terrible long relationships in 10 years it was bad that I have up
I hear that. Relationships aren’t for everyone . If your happy where you are then that’s all that matters
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YOu sound like a great guy, so I'm going to give you some really good advice. If you see a young woman who needs help with something, help her. Maybe it's at work, maybe it's in a store on on public transportation -- whatever. Don't say, "Hey, I think you're real cute, would you like to go out with me?" Just approach her and offer to help her. There's nothing like it. A halo will appear over your head. You won't see it but she will. We are living in scary times now. A man who comes across as a protector, with no ulterior motive other than being of help to a woman will have a far better chance of establishing a relationship with the woman than some slick guy who just wants to get into her pants. And by the way, even if she has a boyfriend and she's happy in her relationship with him, she probably has girlfriends who'd like to meet a nice guy like you.
That means a lot and I appreciate your advice . Feel like the whole process is a lot simpler than mind makes it out to be .
Don’t get one
I’ll have one in the future . The right woman is out there . I appreciate you for watching
Not a bad looking dude. If you drop some lbs you’ll look like a papi chulo but yeah I understand dating is stressful and women these days are tricky
I appreciate you thank you .
You have more life experience and good better than having bunch bm
You should have already had a girlfriend by now it should have come naturally to you if not you know what's up
I do and now im on my personal growth journey and I will inspire others to do the same. Appreciate you for checking out the video
Maybeu dont need a gf nlg get closer to your friends bro
Establishing connections with friends is important, having a gf is just a preference but not one that I’m prioritizing right now
@@B_W0RM88 AWESOME KING
And odds are you'll be married by age 35. It'll happen.
I appreciate that . I’m sure it will
Get a skill that in demand first so you not become homeless
Thats good advice. I’ve already started to develop my skills in certain fields that suit me best. I appreciate you for watching .
try being 39
No need for comparisons. The feelings still the same I’m sure. Thanks for watching
Ill be ur gf😜
ngl super cooked
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Yeah man I’m 23 and never had a girlfriend either. It’s important people like us handle the situation this way Because I honestly believe it’s things like this that lead some men to take their own lives. I think this because I’ve been there too and I get it. Let’s take those steps bro 🦾
A lot of men unfortunately do take their own lives because of women and it’s upsetting. There’re great women out there but you have to work on yourself and become the man you want to be and be aware of who your future will be . You are worthy of someone and you’re a good dude . I appreciate you for watching brother