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We are girl's side. They ask the salary of the girl but when we ask them their salary they be like " Is salary everything?" And act as if humne unke bete ki kidney maang li 😂. When you cant answer the question then please dont ask the question.
aise me kabhi shadi mat karna. ladki ko shift karraya jata hai. apna ghar chhodte hi ladki beghar si ho jati hai. aap nahi chahenge ki mushkil hone par aapki beti vrindavan mein paayi jaaye.
First you should have answered the salary question yourself then proceeded to ask the boy's salary . Do you respond to someone by asking their name if they ask you your name first ?
1. A concerning trend in the Marriage market: Marriages are being called off after Roka/Engagement, leading to lot of self-doubts in boys and girls 2. Lot of assumptions are being taken which are leading to these issues. It is better to ask all your doubts/questions before doing engagement 3. All these doubts can be cleared before marriage with Pre-Marital Consultation. It helps in identifying those red flags before engagement itself 4. Do not go for a long engagement period, Engagement and marriage need to be closer. A long engagement period leads to even more misunderstanding
Point 4: Quickly get married because engagement won't last long and then stay together with the person who wanted to leave you in the first place! Lolwa
When i was getting marriage proposals, i met a guy who said that he wont keep a maid for basic works like cleaning and dishwashing. As per him, i could do those instesd of gym or yoga 😂That was a big red flag for me. Just to note my salary was almost equal to him at that time too.😅 So girls n boys, identify the red flags as soon as you can, before moving forward.
Most marriages are failing when women is working. The house is left on maid servants. Basically the house has no meaning when both the spouse are out of the house. Division of responsibilities has to be understood
By being an earning woman they change the definition of marriage. The problem has already started for such women. I have seen when later in married life of such women if the husband loses his job these women desert him. Also they don’t share the tasks that a men handles but they want to absolve themselves from their core responsibilities.
1. A new trend is emerging in the marriage market wherein marriage is being called off after roka/engagement due to misunderstandings. 2. A lot of preassumptions between both parties before engagement creates conflict after engagement and hence, marriage is called off. 3. To solve this problem pre-marital counselling is the best possible solution wherein all the assumptions should be cleared between both the parties so that everyone is on the same page. 4. Also, there should be minimal gap possible between engagement and marriage as lot of time between both events can create unnecessary misunderstandings.
Legalize a prenuptial agreement. Marriage is no more a sacrosanct relationship in this immoral age of kaliyuga. Before marriage all terms and conditions should be cleared. A person should only take the risk to an extent that he or she can handle.
@@chandrabhushan8597 nope, in developed economies as soon as women started gaining independence divorce rates start sky rocketing. No one can stop this trend to repeat in India too.
Very interesting topic. This has been happening since twenty years in South. Too many breakups after betrothals and divorces too. Even the parents are helpless. Thank you guruji 🙏
In South we say subhasya seegram.. as quickly as possible. Earlier they would even get a Mangal Sutra of some one who had celebrated 60 who would loan one for occasion..
Sir I am a working woman posted in Jaipur. My husband is working nd living in Delhi. And I am living with my parents in their house in Jaipur itself. I asked my husband before marriage that I will live here in Jaipur, he agreed and said it’s your Choice at that time. My parents have no issues and they are very supportive in every aspect of live on the other hand My in-laws are living 70km from Jaipur in a small town. My in-laws want to leave small town and want to live with me in Jaipur in a rental house. There lifestyle is very poor and they want to live with the lifestyle I am having. My husband keeps on asking me to leave my parents and live separately. But I don’t want to live with my in-laws as they can’t even speak hindi and do not support us financially. They don’t want to spend single penny on us but on their younger son. My husband has already made house for them there and has given all the facilities to them yet they keep asking him to make me live separately and do there seva. I have no support from my husband as well. Please suggest.
Bhgwaan ki kripa se ese hi rishte se meri bahan bach gai ur uski sagai shadi kuch nhi hui thi, Ur aapke is case mai I will say only one thing - Meri best wishes aapke saath hai, ur bhgwaan apko khush rkhega 🙏🙏🙏
If in-laws r not toxit then u sud live and do that sewa as I'm also doing despite being a government officer.. But my in-laws are a bit aggressive also so.. I have warned my husband to tell them not to forget their limit. But i will continue to do all the sewa and little house hold stuff also It's better to hire some house help in case they are not supportive
@@smritimishra5948 aap logo ki kya mazboori hai ki aap log job hone ke baavjood even aapki toh government job hai iske baavjood in laws se itna pressure mai rhte hoooooo 🤔🤔🤔 I mean you have job so you can live your life by your own choice and can leave your in laws.
Ofcourse engagement/roka sochh samajh ke karni chahiye but still i would say that shaadi aur engagement ke beech me time zaroori hai taaki still agar kuch baaten nazar aati hain jo baad me problems create karren better hai ki engagement break karro than divorce and sometimes children have to suffer too
Namaste sir Ab vo samay aa gaya hai,ki sab kuch written me ho,hum sir kitni hi bhavnao ki ,bhrose ki baat kar len,jab baat bigadni hoti h,to sare sanskar ,pyar mahobbat,Dil ke rishte share rah jaate hain. Aaj ki date me ye ek bahut gambheer samasya ban chuki hai,aur sabhi dare hue hain,perents bhi ladka ladki bhi
I like your content Sir. You teach us to become straightforward and think clearly. Thankyou. I will do your courses in March. Please keep the workshops in March, April, May. Kids exams will be over. We can learn with sukoon
I feel guilty after rejecting a girl for better one. Can you guide how to deal with this emotion? Also, after being cheated in past in money matters how to control anger? Kindly guide.
Sir you please collaborate with some IT company and bring matrimony app where your jyotish analysis and pre-mariatal counselling is included. Make it paid no issues but it will be very much helpful for parents.
Aajkal logo ko second thoughts bahut rehte isliye ye trend chal raha hai. Boy and girl might like each other but sometimes other people influence them into believing that they made the wrong choice. Its sad as many people are living miserable lives due to loneliness, it will be a huge thing in coming decades
Why independent & well educated man and woman are still opting for old ways of finding life partner ? If you're so empowered why are you dependent on parents for your life's important decisions. At the top middle class youngest claim that they are well to do independent working professionals but otherwise "le mummy nahi manege yaar"😂
My whole hearted empathy with you. Only way to deal is working towards financial independence and having very strong boundaries.Wish you freedom and happiness !
एक बात बोल दे रहा हूँ, कोई धरती पे परफेक्ट पैदा नहीं हुआ, कमी तो कुछ मिलेगी कहीं भी रिश्ता करो। बस दोनों प्राणी में इतना बूटा हो कि, जो भी कमी दिखे जिसमें भी, उसको सुधारनें की ताकत रखें। न कि कमी दिखते ही भागने को तैयार रहें। आजकल परफेक्ट बनना/ बनाना कोई नहीं चाहता, बस सबको रेडीमेड परफेक्ट रिश्ता चाहिए। और इतनी ताकत/संयम न हो, तो कृपया शादी ब्याह से दूर रहो और "My life my rules" वाला लेबल चिपका के माथे पे घूमते रहो। ये सबके बस की बात नहीं है।
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There are many incidents where before marriage or post engagements, girls have taken advantage of innocent boys and extracted lot of money and disappear or broke the relationships. this is becoming huge trouble
Some reasons I would like to mention: 1. Late marriage leads to complicated pregnancies. The pregnancy gets very complicated with age. So, people then do not go for kids at all 2. When kids are done in late 30s, then by the time the kids become adult, the parent is in 60s. It becomes difficult for the parents to provide any support to the kids. 3. She can get a better partner if she will marry on time. When marriage is done late, it becomes difficult to find a suitable partner
Sir The people who says including groom that ki "dahej Hum aapse nhi lenge because we like your girl " What does that says about the mentality?? Should one accept such rishta if all.other aspects according to your counselling are on point?? Please guide
It is a very good thing that the other Pre Marital Counseling aspects are on point. If the answers to those questions are satisfactory, then you can go ahead with the decision. Regarding their mindset about money, if the responses to the below 3 questions are satisfactory, then should not be an issue: 1. How much spending will be done in the marriage? 2. Will boy-girl be living separately than the parents? 3. Does boy have any outstanding loans in his name? From these questions, you will understand if they are in NEED of money.
Yea uncle kya pakka tey hai 😅 khud ka promotion Aise krte hai ki inn sey gyani aur koi nhi bakchodi pelo tho ajatey hai aur hum dekhtey hai ki aise bhi paise kmatey hai log 😅
Sir ek topic hai me chahti hn ap ispr video bnayen agr apko relevant lagy to. The topic is "treating people according to their Auhda (position)". Or ye cheez offices ya businesses me ho to understable hai wahan ek heirarchy follow krna banta bhi hai but yahi cheez gharon me family culture ka hissa banti jarhi hai even in this modern time. I request you to kindly make a video on what is your take on it , kya apko lgta hai esa horha hai ya nh ? Qk mene to apny aas pas bht note kiya hai is cheez ko , also do share solutions k is cheez se deal kesy kiya jaye k jb apka suggestion sirf isliye thukra dya jaye k ap choty hn chahy wo barhiya suggestion hi q na ho. Thank you.
Mere circle k almost 99.9% ladke have been in relationship, it's very common these days , they are sensible people and i don't see any problem when a male and female get into relationship , Indian mardo ko reality check chahiye , jab tm harishchandra nhi ho toh tm sati savitri kis angle se chaah rhe
Now WOMEN should refuse to Leave their own Homes, Comfort zones, Parents and Name n Identity on marriage. Now men should do all these sacrifices and should go to girl's house and take her surname. घरों के बहुत सारे झगड़े खत्म हो जायेंगे।
@@gauravsinghrajawat9939 अच्छा करती हैं। सबको करना चाहिए। एक तो विदा होके अनजाने घर में जाए, फिर अनजाने लोगों में रहकर दिन भर अपना दिमाग और जिंदगी खराब करे, तो उससे अच्छा है कि शादी के अगले दिन नही उसी दिन अलग हो जाए।
I will have to disagree with you here. There are many things our spouses do which are disagreeable to us, but we adjust and go on together because there is love and friendship built up between the husband and wife. Before marriage, when two strangers ask each other a ton of questions it Will never lead to marriage. Some important questions should be asked but more important is to judge the other persons overall temperament and how they behave with family, friends and colleagues etc.
True, but spouses do things for each other out of love and maturity. Many people don't have enough maturity to understand and live by this, and "may" develop the trait later. So a basic check to understand if value system is aligned is of paramount importance. Value system is basically if both parties have aligned views and beliefs.
Before marriage, questions need to be asked. Assume kar k aap poori jindagi 1 partner k saath nahi chal sakte. Aap expect kar rahe ho xyz aur nikal jaaye abc. Honesty k bina no relation can succeed.
Dikkat ye hai ki logo ke haath me Paisa aate hi log baukhla jaate hai India abhi transition phase me hai isliye abhi kisi ko ye samajh nhi aa rha ki Paisa jyada jaruri hai ya khushiya Sab lage pade hai chuha daud me, log Paisa kama rhe hai expectations badha rhe hai expectations meet nhi ho pa rhi hai to roka Tod de rhe hai shaadi ho ja rhi hai to divorce file kar rhe hai Paisa police vakeel or judge ki jeb me ja rha hai nyay vyavastha ke naam par Kama aadmi rhe hai expectations aadmi ki hai mje police vakeel or judge le rhe hai Lage raho aise hi expectations ke chakkar me apne aap ko khokhla karne paise se bhi or emotionally bhi
Meri aise ladke se mulakat hui thi his dad called off his engagement coz this guy had got engaged to this girl that his parents fixed for him but he discovered she was hyper....what was worse this guy told me he never had seen the girl but were family frens... and well when i asked him what do u mean by hyper did she break u away ftom parents or spend ur cash or what? Kuch nahi bola yeh ladka i was massively pissed off coz of his suspicious talk imagine if i had married his is a joint family bas he could just tag the wife some adjective family will just mentally torture was my sentiment... i mean who marries without seeing just coz parents decide found it fishy that pissed me off very secretive And the guy is still single at 42 yrs he has a problem with every girl apparently ...by the way guruji the guy has shani surya conjunct in 7th house very suffocating chap
Guruji, 6-month ka trial is better than shaadi ke baad divorce ho. India mein bina engagement ke ladki-ladke ko ijazat hi nahin hai ghoomne ki, which makes sense too. Pre-martial mein agar koi jhuth bol rha hai to woh yeh 6-months ke trial period mein pta chl jaega. Engagement tutna ya rocca tutne mein koi leagal formalities nahin hai aur market se chupa skte hain. But divorce ko chupa nahin skte guruji.
Aadmi machine hai robot nhi, Tumhare khud ke ghar vaale nhi bta sakte ki tum agle pal me kya bolne vaale ho To dusra insaan kaha se anumaan laga lega Jaise tumhare ghar vaale samjha bujha ke compromise karte hai vaise hi tumhe bhi samjha bujha ke compromise karke kaam chalana hoga
Ladkiya live in relationship me rehti hai, aur shaadi ke liye dusre ladke ko ha bol deti hai , bina bf ko bataye , fhir engagement hone ke baad uska bf call karke batata hai ladke ko , ki tu shadi mat kar humara affair hai
आ हा हा हा.... अब ये बदलेंगी नियम जी, पूर्वज, पुराण, ग्रंथ, वेद तो सब चुतियापा था जहाँ से ये नियम बने, कुछ ज्यादा ही शिक्षा मिल गयी है लगता है,कि खुले विचार तो सुने थे, विचार तो अब खुल के उधड़ भी गए हैं, "लड़की ही क्यों" 😂
@@bohemiansoul584 @samtiwari751 पितृसत्तात्मक समाज संपत्ति बटोर कर रखने की लालच पर ही तो टिका हुआ है, और शास्त्र बनाए उसे टिकाए रखने को। बेटे को बाप की और बाप को बेटे की आगे की कमाई की। और बेटियां कमाती नहीं थी तो उनको बोझ समझ के भेज देते हैं। कानून ने हक तो दे दिया है संपत्ति में, पर आसान फिर भी नही। बेहतर हो कि बेटियां भी अब शादी में घर बार नाम का त्याग न करने पर अड़ जाएं। आसान नहीं, पर करना होगा।
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We are girl's side. They ask the salary of the girl but when we ask them their salary they be like " Is salary everything?" And act as if humne unke bete ki kidney maang li 😂. When you cant answer the question then please dont ask the question.
aise me kabhi shadi mat karna.
ladki ko shift karraya jata hai. apna ghar chhodte hi ladki beghar si ho jati hai.
aap nahi chahenge ki mushkil hone par aapki beti vrindavan mein paayi jaaye.
First you should have answered the salary question yourself then proceeded to ask the boy's salary . Do you respond to someone by asking their name if they ask you your name first ?
@@ameya7723 where did I say that we don't answer to salary question? Of course we tell them but when we ask them they won't answer the question.
1. A concerning trend in the Marriage market: Marriages are being called off after Roka/Engagement, leading to lot of self-doubts in boys and girls
2. Lot of assumptions are being taken which are leading to these issues. It is better to ask all your doubts/questions before doing engagement
3. All these doubts can be cleared before marriage with Pre-Marital Consultation. It helps in identifying those red flags before engagement itself
4. Do not go for a long engagement period, Engagement and marriage need to be closer. A long engagement period leads to even more misunderstanding
Point 4: Quickly get married because engagement won't last long and then stay together with the person who wanted to leave you in the first place! Lolwa
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सारांश:
१. मंगनी से पहले कंसल्टेशन, ( learn pre-wedding consultation from Sango sir)
२. चट मंगनी पट ब्याह।
(ब्याह में दोनों की जीत या दोनो की हार)
When i was getting marriage proposals, i met a guy who said that he wont keep a maid for basic works like cleaning and dishwashing. As per him, i could do those instesd of gym or yoga 😂That was a big red flag for me. Just to note my salary was almost equal to him at that time too.😅
So girls n boys, identify the red flags as soon as you can, before moving forward.
@@FromProfessor asi bhi hoti h..😃
Women getting marriage proposals is the problem. Then they play the market to their advantage
Most marriages are failing when women is working. The house is left on maid servants. Basically the house has no meaning when both the spouse are out of the house. Division of responsibilities has to be understood
By being an earning woman they change the definition of marriage. The problem has already started for such women. I have seen when later in married life of such women if the husband loses his job these women desert him. Also they don’t share the tasks that a men handles but they want to absolve themselves from their core responsibilities.
Ask whether he is going to gym and lift any weights for you around the house.
Sahi baat note karne k liye " shaadi mai koi shaana ya ded shaana nhi hota, ya toh dono party jeetti hai ya fir dono haarte hai" kya baat hai guruji.
just wait till you get involved legally
and you will see how biased laws are....and husband are bound to lose
1. A new trend is emerging in the marriage market wherein marriage is being called off after roka/engagement due to misunderstandings.
2. A lot of preassumptions between both parties before engagement creates conflict after engagement and hence, marriage is called off.
3. To solve this problem pre-marital counselling is the best possible solution wherein all the assumptions should be cleared between both the parties so that everyone is on the same page.
4. Also, there should be minimal gap possible between engagement and marriage as lot of time between both events can create unnecessary misunderstandings.
Hardcore practical advice.
Legalize a prenuptial agreement. Marriage is no more a sacrosanct relationship in this immoral age of kaliyuga. Before marriage all terms and conditions should be cleared. A person should only take the risk to an extent that he or she can handle.
marriage was never a sacrosanct relationship. It was always a social contract.
@@shreygupta1675No it was earlier.If it really wasn't than the institution would have ceased to exist long back.
@@chandrabhushan8597 nope, in developed economies as soon as women started gaining independence divorce rates start sky rocketing. No one can stop this trend to repeat in India too.
@@chandrabhushan8597 Because women tolerated.
If marriages were sancrosanct, why men married many? With whose money R Light areas flourished?
Woh sacrosanct wala part hame chutiya banaane ke liye tha
guruji chote cities mei economy kaise kaam krti hai vo video aap bole the upload karoge.please guruji is par video banaiye.Thank you.
Bahut interesting aur useful topic.
Yes sir, very valid points.
Absolutely right
Very interesting topic. This has been happening since twenty years in South. Too many breakups after betrothals and divorces too. Even the parents are helpless. Thank you guruji 🙏
Thank you so much🙏😇
Now days in India marriage is burden of lifetime EMI for Men 🥺
Because girls exception r gone sky high with gender biased laws😢
In South we say subhasya seegram.. as quickly as possible.
Earlier they would even get a Mangal Sutra of some one who had celebrated 60 who would loan one for occasion..
Thank you sir 🙏🙏
100% agreement with you
Sir I am a working woman posted in Jaipur. My husband is working nd living in Delhi. And I am living with my parents in their house in Jaipur itself. I asked my husband before marriage that I will live here in Jaipur, he agreed and said it’s your Choice at that time. My parents have no issues and they are very supportive in every aspect of live on the other hand My in-laws are living 70km from Jaipur in a small town. My in-laws want to leave small town and want to live with me in Jaipur in a rental house. There lifestyle is very poor and they want to live with the lifestyle I am having. My husband keeps on asking me to leave my parents and live separately. But I don’t want to live with my in-laws as they can’t even speak hindi and do not support us financially. They don’t want to spend single penny on us but on their younger son. My husband has already made house for them there and has given all the facilities to them yet they keep asking him to make me live separately and do there seva. I have no support from my husband as well. Please suggest.
That's what he is saying u shud have asked these things before marriage
In future your daughter in law say same things mark my word "same"
Bhgwaan ki kripa se ese hi rishte se meri bahan bach gai ur uski sagai shadi kuch nhi hui thi,
Ur aapke is case mai I will say only one thing -
Meri best wishes aapke saath hai, ur bhgwaan apko khush rkhega 🙏🙏🙏
If in-laws r not toxit then u sud live and do that sewa as I'm also doing despite being a government officer.. But my in-laws are a bit aggressive also so.. I have warned my husband to tell them not to forget their limit. But i will continue to do all the sewa and little house hold stuff also
It's better to hire some house help in case they are not supportive
@@smritimishra5948 aap logo ki kya mazboori hai ki aap log job hone ke baavjood even aapki toh government job hai iske baavjood in laws se itna pressure mai rhte hoooooo 🤔🤔🤔
I mean you have job so you can live your life by your own choice and can leave your in laws.
Valid point
Ofcourse engagement/roka sochh samajh ke karni chahiye but still i would say that shaadi aur engagement ke beech me time zaroori hai taaki still agar kuch baaten nazar aati hain jo baad me problems create karren better hai ki engagement break karro than divorce and sometimes children have to suffer too
Excellent video
Namaste sir
Ab vo samay aa gaya hai,ki sab kuch written me ho,hum sir kitni hi bhavnao ki ,bhrose ki baat kar len,jab baat bigadni hoti h,to sare sanskar ,pyar mahobbat,Dil ke rishte share rah jaate hain.
Aaj ki date me ye ek bahut gambheer samasya ban chuki hai,aur sabhi dare hue hain,perents bhi ladka ladki bhi
exactly
Its also a wonderful knowledge class 🎉
I like your content Sir. You teach us to become straightforward and think clearly. Thankyou. I will do your courses in March. Please keep the workshops in March, April, May. Kids exams will be over. We can learn with sukoon
Fact is individually existence is getting more common and people feel like things are very simple throughout life and they don't need any supporting
My cousin brother broke his engagement because he was saying he was not getting sexually attracted to his prospective partner
tere bhai ka affair hoga jise vo attached hoga
उसको रशियन चाहिए होगी
@@bohemiansoul584 arey family would have been happy if he said Russian but he is saying he is having thoughts regarding his sexuality
💀💀@@princeofheaven19
@@princeofheaven19ye bhi bahut ho raha hai
I feel guilty after rejecting a girl for better one. Can you guide how to deal with this emotion? Also, after being cheated in past in money matters how to control anger? Kindly guide.
You are feeling guilty after rejecting a woman. R u mad or what. What's your profession
@@OptimusPrime-eu1si such men think they can bring a slave for house but then realise they can't. 😂😂
@@ifinditinteresting.8709 reject as many women as you can if you can do that.
Need of the hour …sir plz make more such videos on social topics ….this wil help society …esp those who don’t hav resources …
Lol help society or help women 😂😂
Please make a video on single girl child nd how they manage their own parents finances after marriage
Should be covered by Sir.
I am in real estate webinar group but when I tried to like your this video the video disappear I think I done something wrong 🙏🙏
Very true!
Sir you please collaborate with some IT company and bring matrimony app where your jyotish analysis and pre-mariatal counselling is included. Make it paid no issues but it will be very much helpful for parents.
Aajkal logo ko second thoughts bahut rehte isliye ye trend chal raha hai.
Boy and girl might like each other but sometimes other people influence them into believing that they made the wrong choice.
Its sad as many people are living miserable lives due to loneliness, it will be a huge thing in coming decades
this is true indeed..
Please make a video on premarital sex
Good
Good idea
Why independent & well educated man and woman are still opting for old ways of finding life partner ?
If you're so empowered why are you dependent on parents for your life's important decisions.
At the top middle class youngest claim that they are well to do independent working professionals but otherwise
"le mummy nahi manege yaar"😂
Great Guruji.'Pyaar mein ya dono haarte hain,ya Dono jeette hain'.
Kachche kaun dhoyega ladke ke....😂😂😂😂
Aur agar Aisa samaj ho Jaye ki kachhche kaun dhoyega ladki ke
Aaj k time me kaunsi ladki dhoyegi pehle hi bol do apne apne kapde khud dho lo atkeast undergarments
Good people are atleast talking about it ❤.
Because of social media, marriages are becoming too expensive
Excellent info as usual sir. Please do video on how housewives without financial independence can deal with Narcissistic family🥲
My whole hearted empathy with you. Only way to deal is working towards financial independence and having very strong boundaries.Wish you freedom and happiness !
Bas ek hi rasta hai,
Start working outside.
I can understand your feelings my sister.
Is pre marriage consultation available in Premium membership?
He is a master, I also seen some marriages getting canceled after engagement and sex after engagement is getting common.
Common Man-Common Sense=Break of relationship, break of roka, break of engagement.
(Common Woman + @vikasthareja7050) - Common Sense = 👆 This
Aisa hi hota aya hai hamare rajvansh mein😂😂😂
एक बात बोल दे रहा हूँ, कोई धरती पे परफेक्ट पैदा नहीं हुआ, कमी तो कुछ मिलेगी कहीं भी रिश्ता करो। बस दोनों प्राणी में इतना बूटा हो कि, जो भी कमी दिखे जिसमें भी, उसको सुधारनें की ताकत रखें। न कि कमी दिखते ही भागने को तैयार रहें। आजकल परफेक्ट बनना/ बनाना कोई नहीं चाहता, बस सबको रेडीमेड परफेक्ट रिश्ता चाहिए। और इतनी ताकत/संयम न हो, तो कृपया शादी ब्याह से दूर रहो और "My life my rules" वाला लेबल चिपका के माथे पे घूमते रहो। ये सबके बस की बात नहीं है।
Are pre marital consultants available in major cities ... How to avail their services. Please provide info of this too
There is a channel "Your Life Matters". That lady provides consultation in tricity and everywhere online and she is fantastic..a sociologist herself
What’s your org code to start your app ?
Sir happiness course kab shuru hoga next ??
Buy link not working for ios
Good
Shadi kabhi bhi assumption may nahi karni chaaiye.
Sir respect aapk k liy
Problem ye hi shadiyan hoti h sirf.
👇🏻
VIVAH hone band hogye h bus itni si baat hai👇🏻
Sawal:- Shadiyan ka prayayvachi kya h ?
Uttar:- Trade fair of insanes 😂🔥💯✅
Hi
Itni magarmari isliye hi log acharya Prashant ke waha chetna jagane jata he
मैं भी 😂
Sawal puchhne par bhi log jhhoot bol dete hain aapse. They will agree , but once sgadi is done all their promises are gone.
Ye talak vaali situation hai, jhut par rishte nhi tikte
Lekin ladka pahle hi bta de us par baat chal rhi hai
There are many incidents where before marriage or post engagements, girls have taken advantage of innocent boys and extracted lot of money and disappear or broke the relationships. this is becoming huge trouble
777 fees heh sir
Sir mere ghar me bhi aise hi ek shadi tuti h
Pyaar aur dilon key rishtey mohabbat sey chalthey hai aur common sense sey chalthey hai
Even after pre Martial consulting ppl change after marriage
Daughter ko time per shaadi ke liye manaana hai
Guruji please iske liye reasons de dijiye
Some reasons I would like to mention:
1. Late marriage leads to complicated pregnancies. The pregnancy gets very complicated with age. So, people then do not go for kids at all
2. When kids are done in late 30s, then by the time the kids become adult, the parent is in 60s. It becomes difficult for the parents to provide any support to the kids.
3. She can get a better partner if she will marry on time. When marriage is done late, it becomes difficult to find a suitable partner
उसके लिए घर दामाद ढूंढिए। क्यूं लड़की पर ही हमेशा घर, मां बाप, नाम छोड़ने का प्रेशर हो?
@@ninanani4085 come back to reality.
My money has debited from account but not able to see the video
Pre-wedding shoot bhi ek reason hai aaj kal
Kaise bhai ?
Sir
The people who says including groom that ki "dahej Hum aapse nhi lenge because we like your girl "
What does that says about the mentality??
Should one accept such rishta if all.other aspects according to your counselling are on point??
Please guide
It is a very good thing that the other Pre Marital Counseling aspects are on point. If the answers to those questions are satisfactory, then you can go ahead with the decision.
Regarding their mindset about money, if the responses to the below 3 questions are satisfactory, then should not be an issue:
1. How much spending will be done in the marriage?
2. Will boy-girl be living separately than the parents?
3. Does boy have any outstanding loans in his name?
From these questions, you will understand if they are in NEED of money.
mein to dahej nhi lunga but apni beti ko to ek fortuner de hi sakte hai mein ring bhi nhi lunga but apne damad ko ek diamond ring to de hi sakte hai
वो जितना भी देंगे,उनकी बच्ची को उतने में ही खुश रखेंगे 😂😂😂😂
It’s sad, present generation is unable to trust and form good marital relations
it is not trust rather it is judiciary 498a and bns 69 read them it is suicide for man so marriage is dangerous for man.
Engajmeet and marriage time lamba hai toea acha hi hai saare raj khol jaate hai
Esme problen kya hai... engagement tuti hai na marraige thodi na.
Yea uncle kya pakka tey hai 😅 khud ka promotion Aise krte hai ki inn sey gyani aur koi nhi bakchodi pelo tho ajatey hai aur hum dekhtey hai ki aise bhi paise kmatey hai log 😅
Sir ek topic hai me chahti hn ap ispr video bnayen agr apko relevant lagy to. The topic is "treating people according to their Auhda (position)". Or ye cheez offices ya businesses me ho to understable hai wahan ek heirarchy follow krna banta bhi hai but yahi cheez gharon me family culture ka hissa banti jarhi hai even in this modern time. I request you to kindly make a video on what is your take on it , kya apko lgta hai esa horha hai ya nh ? Qk mene to apny aas pas bht note kiya hai is cheez ko , also do share solutions k is cheez se deal kesy kiya jaye k jb apka suggestion sirf isliye thukra dya jaye k ap choty hn chahy wo barhiya suggestion hi q na ho. Thank you.
Sir ji caste not , father retirement status wrongly told
Boy in states
House on loan
What we do ?
It's a red flag
Sir yeh bataeyey hum middle class hai but kya bahut high class bahu laani chahiyey?
Thoughts me high class, sanskaar me high class hoto thik
Varna nhi
The content is becoming repetitive now. 😇 We would highly appreciate if we are provided with unique and out of the box content.
Aaj Kal ke ladies ko shaadi se pehle bahot logo k sath sone ki aadat ho gayi hai. Jab ye baate saamne aati hai to engagement tooti hi gi
In sab cheezo ke barre mein uncle kuch nahi bollenge
Not every girl my friend. Saare ladies aisi nahi hoti. I disagree. This is a complex topic. We can't generalize.
Kyu Bhai ladke Kam hain kya is mamle me??
@@thegreatone6931 it's a different thing for men
Mere circle k almost 99.9% ladke have been in relationship, it's very common these days , they are sensible people and i don't see any problem when a male and female get into relationship , Indian mardo ko reality check chahiye , jab tm harishchandra nhi ho toh tm sati savitri kis angle se chaah rhe
Sir, i have purchased the course however i still can't access get access the video
Connect whatsapp 9810448818.
yqthl is org code for i phone users
Now WOMEN should refuse to Leave their own Homes, Comfort zones, Parents and Name n Identity on marriage. Now men should do all these sacrifices and should go to girl's house and take her surname.
घरों के बहुत सारे झगड़े खत्म हो जायेंगे।
Then don't marry
Shadi ke dusre din alag ho jati hai. Wo jamane chale gaye, seva to bhul hi jao. Turant hi alag ghar chahiye.
@@gauravsinghrajawat9939 अच्छा करती हैं। सबको करना चाहिए। एक तो विदा होके अनजाने घर में जाए, फिर अनजाने लोगों में रहकर दिन भर अपना दिमाग और जिंदगी खराब करे, तो उससे अच्छा है कि शादी के अगले दिन नही उसी दिन अलग हो जाए।
@@gauravsinghrajawat9939 rightly said turant hi boss ban jaati hain
@@gauravsinghrajawat9939 bahut achcha. Aisa hi hona chahiye
Mazak banaadiyaa hai emotions kaa
I have paid sir
Not able to connect with u
Sapno ka ghar😂
I will have to disagree with you here. There are many things our spouses do which are disagreeable to us, but we adjust and go on together because there is love and friendship built up between the husband and wife. Before marriage, when two strangers ask each other a ton of questions it Will never lead to marriage. Some important questions should be asked but more important is to judge the other persons overall temperament and how they behave with family, friends and colleagues etc.
Didi ye spouse ki nhi would be spouse ki baat ho ri hai.
Apne video pura nhi dekha shayad
True, but spouses do things for each other out of love and maturity. Many people don't have enough maturity to understand and live by this, and "may" develop the trait later. So a basic check to understand if value system is aligned is of paramount importance. Value system is basically if both parties have aligned views and beliefs.
You can not expect others to think or be like you. All couples are not the same.
Before marriage, questions need to be asked. Assume kar k aap poori jindagi 1 partner k saath nahi chal sakte.
Aap expect kar rahe ho xyz aur nikal jaaye abc. Honesty k bina no relation can succeed.
Correct
Jisne respect karna Sikh liya samne vaale ka vo nibha lega or jo nhi kar paaya vo nhi nibha payega
Ek samay aayega ki ye itna aam ho jayega ki kisiko isme kuchh galat nahi lagega
Dikkat ye hai ki logo ke haath me Paisa aate hi log baukhla jaate hai
India abhi transition phase me hai isliye abhi kisi ko ye samajh nhi aa rha ki Paisa jyada jaruri hai ya khushiya
Sab lage pade hai chuha daud me, log Paisa kama rhe hai expectations badha rhe hai expectations meet nhi ho pa rhi hai to roka Tod de rhe hai shaadi ho ja rhi hai to divorce file kar rhe hai
Paisa police vakeel or judge ki jeb me ja rha hai nyay vyavastha ke naam par
Kama aadmi rhe hai expectations aadmi ki hai mje police vakeel or judge le rhe hai
Lage raho aise hi expectations ke chakkar me apne aap ko khokhla karne paise se bhi or emotionally bhi
Meri aise ladke se mulakat hui thi his dad called off his engagement coz this guy had got engaged to this girl that his parents fixed for him but he discovered she was hyper....what was worse this guy told me he never had seen the girl but were family frens... and well when i asked him what do u mean by hyper did she break u away ftom parents or spend ur cash or what? Kuch nahi bola yeh ladka i was massively pissed off coz of his suspicious talk imagine if i had married his is a joint family bas he could just tag the wife some adjective family will just mentally torture was my sentiment... i mean who marries without seeing just coz parents decide found it fishy that pissed me off very secretive
And the guy is still single at 42 yrs he has a problem with every girl apparently ...by the way guruji the guy has shani surya conjunct in 7th house very suffocating chap
आट्टा-साठा शादी ब्याह पर आपका क्या Conclusion है गुरुजी कुछ तो clarification दिजिए ‼️🙏
Bilkul nahi honi chahiye.....dono parties ek dusrae ko blackmail karti rahegi.....aur ek dusrae ki life mein ghusen rahi gi
Guruji, 6-month ka trial is better than shaadi ke baad divorce ho. India mein bina engagement ke ladki-ladke ko ijazat hi nahin hai ghoomne ki, which makes sense too. Pre-martial mein agar koi jhuth bol rha hai to woh yeh 6-months ke trial period mein pta chl jaega. Engagement tutna ya rocca tutne mein koi leagal formalities nahin hai aur market se chupa skte hain. But divorce ko chupa nahin skte guruji.
Sahi swal kacche Kuan wash karega
Pre engagement mein sab promises kar bhi de. Par baad mein mukar jaye toh ghanta koi kuch kar lega
Aadmi machine hai robot nhi,
Tumhare khud ke ghar vaale nhi bta sakte ki tum agle pal me kya bolne vaale ho
To dusra insaan kaha se anumaan laga lega
Jaise tumhare ghar vaale samjha bujha ke compromise karte hai vaise hi tumhe bhi samjha bujha ke compromise karke kaam chalana hoga
Youth are having lot of self doubt. Trust is lacking
You beat about the bush. Aapke lambe lecture me content bahut kam hota hai.
कूद के अंगूठी क्यों पहना रहे हो 😂
This video is to promote his paid video 😂😂😂😂😂
accha he na pehle toot jati he
Ladkiya live in relationship me rehti hai, aur shaadi ke liye dusre ladke ko ha bol deti hai , bina bf ko bataye , fhir engagement hone ke baad uska bf call karke batata hai ladke ko , ki tu shadi mat kar humara affair hai
agree....
Correct baji hui
😮 जितने ज्यादा चोंचले, उतने ज्यादा खतरे
Sir aajkal ladki bol rahi hai ki parents wali city me rahungi, paisa unko dungi kamakar.
लड़की ही क्यों हमेशा घर छोड़े, नाम छोड़े, मां बाप छोड़े, ये सामाजिक जबरदस्ती है ही क्यों? कभी लड़का भी तो ये sacrifices करे।
आ हा हा हा.... अब ये बदलेंगी नियम जी, पूर्वज, पुराण, ग्रंथ, वेद तो सब चुतियापा था जहाँ से ये नियम बने, कुछ ज्यादा ही शिक्षा मिल गयी है लगता है,कि खुले विचार तो सुने थे, विचार तो अब खुल के उधड़ भी गए हैं, "लड़की ही क्यों" 😂
@@bohemiansoul584 @samtiwari751 पितृसत्तात्मक समाज संपत्ति बटोर कर रखने की लालच पर ही तो टिका हुआ है, और शास्त्र बनाए उसे टिकाए रखने को। बेटे को बाप की और बाप को बेटे की आगे की कमाई की।
और बेटियां कमाती नहीं थी तो उनको बोझ समझ के भेज देते हैं।
कानून ने हक तो दे दिया है संपत्ति में, पर आसान फिर भी नही। बेहतर हो कि बेटियां भी अब शादी में घर बार नाम का त्याग न करने पर अड़ जाएं। आसान नहीं, पर करना होगा।
@@bohemiansoul584 Feminism ka asar ho rha hai...
Bhaga na fir
Shaadi to investment ho gyi h..time spend kro fr todke alimony le lo
Dear sir
I made payment of 777 rs to get. Your pre marital counseling session.
Shared a reenahot also to your number.but didn't get any reply from you
Pls help
Bhai, video ki access mili?
Paid 799 , but unable to Watch the video , please help , telegram number is not working
Pls connect whatsapp 9289886158
@rajulyadav5382 did it work for you. I'm facing the same issue