Middle Class Parents Ka Sabse Bada Darr
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Very true
I have a child saying to parent,that I can not spoil my present life of waiting for your property ,which I may get after 30-40 years
My case: Unfortunately yes, parents want my entire salary but they are not interested in giving their property. They never told this to me when I married on a low income to the girl they selected for me. They needed a free worker not a bahu. Please people, just think before you marry. First ask the parents for inheritance first before getting married, otherwise you will suffer. You can’t travel, buy a car or enjoy your life. Just work and provide insurance for their properties which you will get when you are 50 years old. What is the use. Half your life is OVER! I know few people will blame me for being selfish but times have changed where entire family cannot depend on 1 person’s income.
Omg... It's an eye opener for all😮😮😮😮
I can understand, all the best, brother /Sir
Very sorry to hear your story. Please stop giving them money and instead, move away with your wife or else they'll ruin your married life too.
It’s the truth of our society
You are not selfish
This is pain point for 100s of people
I can relate to your story.. believe me I know the pain you are going through..
Agar hum last 30-35 sal ki movies ya serials dekhe to inhone hi parents ki mentality aisi banayi hai. Ek bhi film ya serial me next generation ki side se dikhayi nahi hai.
Right... That old dialogue ki "Maa Baap hamesha bacche ke liye sahi decision lete hain". They should be careful that nobody is perfect
Super true that
True.we grew up watching shows where they say Maa baap Bhagwan Hai. I never used mind of my own when my parents said anything . But I feel now we should assert ourselves whenever required. Family should be a place where everyone respect one another . Elders should respect young ones too , be sensitive towards their feelings , listen to their ideas and treat them with equality. Otherwise our society will continue to remain like this .
Baag baan movie ka jyada asar hua h
Not all parents are selfless. Many can be manipulative and destroy their own children so that they can forever maintain control over them.
All are selfish may be except 1 or 2
arent you selfish , everyone is selfish , so called LOVE is also being selfish in polite way, samjho@@arpanmadrecha946
Super true
Neither are all children well mannered, caring or loving towards their parents.
@@Amy_zz as you sow so shall you reap. Children treat parents according to sanskaars parents give to their children. Children see husband wife fight each other day and night so they Loose respect
I literally had tears when I listened to this. My father is generally a nice human but in social gatherings he would start boasting of his properties. In last 10 years since I graduated he would always tell me that my all property is for you. While this made me feel good initially I realized in 10 years that he would say same to all relatives (not just my siblings). Luckily I never took any money from him and never eyed his money. I realize that he used to say this just to make himself feel great before others. I am now living away from him in Australia. I sometimes feel bad why I am living so far. But then I convince myself that I need to build my own wealth because I have no confidence how much wealth I would get once he distributes among others. I cannot take risk of leaving my job and locate my house near him.
Any parent reading this - I request not to boast of your wealth before your grown up kids and frankly tell them how much wealth you would be distributing.
आपने बिल्कुल सच कहा है पर ये सुनकर कोई सुधरता नहीं है। किसी को कोई realization नहीं होती है। इसकी वजह है ऐसे parents ने अपनी पूरी जिंदगी दूसरों को use करके ही गुजारी होती है और हमेशा ऐसे ही जीना चाहते हैं। फ़र्क सिर्फ़ ये होता है कि पहले किसी और को use करते थे, अब बेटा बहु मिल गए हैं, ऐश करने के लिए।
Mere baap ka paisa mere surgery ke kaam nahi aaya
Ab leke kya karu unka paisa / property.
Bhad me jaaye wo property/ paisa.
My parents lost their chance to show love / care / support to me in my worst phase of life ( sade sati ).
No physical/financial/mental support for bringing up my children ( their grand children ) , no physical/financial/mental support even to purchase flat , no physical/financial/mental support during my life threatening medical problem.
Still i will not give up to hold their hands in their last phase of life.
Thanks to my parents for making me/my wife strong enough to survive on our own.
Don't worry, do what you feel is right. Help them in their old age, if you feel so.....someone treated us bad doesn't mean we 'should' treat them bad. You seem to be a good human being.......I personally believe that you get what you give. Inspite of receiving negativity you are positive, something good will happen in your life.
@@amrutakalenaik Actually I should not have discussed these things publicly but this was the first video / time where he has discussed the other side of the issue.
I couldn't resist my self.
Society should know the other way arround with the example.
Gng through same...stay strong bhai
I totally get this
The biggest fear parents should have is
1. Their child doesn't commit suicide. Be a support system for the children.
2. Their children shouldn't be dependent on them for life. Raise them well.
3. They must get good life partner. There is nothing on the planet worse than a bad life partner. It drains your childs hope and aspirations. There is no worse fate. Even a prisoner hopes of getting out of prison but there is no escape from a bad marriage.
4. Property: what is the use of your property if your children cant enjoy it?? Let them have the fruits of your labour why else did u become parents?? They carry you in their blood. Dont be so selfish.
Awesome ❤
🙏🙏
@@intention.defintion for your
Q. No. 1...nope life partner is not a responsibility of parents but it must be a fear that their child gets a bad one. I hope with your attractive name u must have read about the theories like a mother grooms her son to get a bride like herself and they are often told to be kind lovable sweet and not narcissistic to their son..likewise the father influences the choices of girls in their future husband. Even then should it not be a fear parents have that their child leads a bad life due to a life partner????
Your q no. 2 was already responded in my point no.2 still pray tell me if parents have property then who should enjoy it after they are dead??
@@intention.defintion for more explanation, there are theories which explain that if a mother treats her child badly the child never gers to understand what should be the normal behaviour and later chooses worse life partner same way if father of a girl is weak and simp she never understands what a strong and confident man is like and eventually her choice in men becomes bad. Exceptions are everywhere.
Very well said.
We live in Australia, we moved out when we got married. Best decision. My toxic narcissistic in-laws said we could never afford our house. We proved them wrong, didn’t take a single dollar from them, we build our home and fully paid off mortgage by 40. Best feeling not to depend on in-laws and parents.
I blame the colleges for jacking up tuition
Parents didn't made me do job even if i got selected in IBM. They didn't let me marry with a likable boy. They gave threat of suicide. I was young(24) so got scared. They indulged me in arrange mrrige system. They had no clue of boys n their families. Many years they wasted. Now i am 31. They made me directionless. Now they say do job anywhere. Marry anyone. I mean..WHAT THE HELL. For their own safe side..they themselves did my insults and even talked about my character to all relatives taki baat ab un pr na aaye ki ab tk shadi ni kr paye. Toh hmre hi bacho mai prob. h. They said this..to all relatives about me..n about my brother too
Leave ur toxic and manipulative parents asap.. Ur still not late.. There are many men who are bachelor in their 30s..and find a job. Stop treating parents as gods. They chose to bring u to this world.. U didn't asked for it. All the best.
please emotionally and physically distance yourself from them.
@@Crispr_cas9th Yes u r absolutely right🙏 i m going to do that VERY SOON🙏
@@nothanks0009 Yes emotionally i have now. Now its time for physically also. Thank you so much🙏🙏
So relatable true story
My parents dont have a penny in assets, but want power like they hold crores
😂😂😂
Unique Parents 😂😂
Same here
This is case with my in laws
AAG Video..
1. Biggest Dar felt by Parents: Kids will take away all their property
2. What should be their biggest Dar: When kids say that their property is irrelevant. Lot of people are suffering through this problem. Please try to not reach this stage
3. As a solution, asset restructuring should be done together as a family
4. It is the best case scenario if your kids are able to use your property, rather than someone else
Chalo kisi ne toh bola ....80% gharo m ye problem h... Aur bacche bolte nhi kyuki samaj toh unko hi galat bolega without logic...Main solution h ki elderlies ko busy rehna chahiye anyhow....not into being cctv n criticise n be narcist
गुरुजी तुसी ग्रेट हो.
आप सच में मेरे लिए सु-संस्कृत नवीन भारत के निर्माता हो.
जो आप बताते हो, उस जैसी घटनाएं मुझे अपने आसपास हुई हुई या होती हुई दिखाई देती हैं.
आपका ज्ञान में अपने जीवन मे प्रयोग करके, अन्य कि गलतियों से बचने के प्रयास में जुटा रहता हूँ. ❤
Sahi baat hai ab kya hi bolu Guruji app ko toh pata hi h north Indian parents inse nai jit sakte. No 1 Clearity giver you’re 👍🏻
Sir your videos help us to to explain these sensitive topics to our parents even if we don't share your videos directly."Thanks" is a pity word to recognize your contribution towards society,you are changing 'Generations'.
100 % ugly truth of society
Respect to you sir for recognizing , and being brave to point out the fact.
These pain points are very hard to solve
Good efforts 👏🏻
You expressed my thoughts👍
My thoughts too!
यहां कमेंट पढ़कर तो लग रहा है की अधिकांश लोग ही हमारे समाज में अपने मां बाप से पीड़ित हैं😢
Totally agree with you Guruji.
Hum log ussi category me he... Sab inheritance ki moh Maya chhodo or apani line jyada lambi karo. Jab Pani sar k upar se chala jata hai to aise decision lene padte hai. Humne ab hamare bachho ko akele raise karana sikh liya hai without dada dadi's help(monetory + physical + psychology). Ek or baat, jab hum log apna rasta bana rahe hoge, tab bhagwan khud hamari help karne ayege or hamari line lambi karne me hamara sath dege. (Personal experience)
Baapre baap... Guruji humare society ke nas nas se waakeef hai yaar!!! 👏👏👏
Bohot sare parents kabhi bhi khush nahi hote unke liye kuch bhi karo aur kuch parents ko apne baccho se bhi jalan hote hai
सच है। मेरे पिता को मुझसे जलन रही। जब भी पड़ोसी, रिश्तेदार, उनके जाननेवाले सब भाई बहनों में मेरी तारीफ करते। बहुत टॉर्चर किया। बहुत ताने। कई साल dep की दवा खाई। Now more than 50, पर अब भी नही छोड़ते।
सारे त्याग का फल एक बहुत प्यारा जीवनसाथी। इसी से खुश हूं।
Yes you are right ....parents have higher expectations but lesser sesnce of reality
My father took a risky biased decision but it helped my only brother to develop his business. Though I was left out in inheritance, I thought magnanimously 😊just to retain my brother’s affection forever. Moreover my hardworking husband keeps me happy too. I too worked as a corporate lawyer and earned good salary 😊All is well when one of the siblings just let things go
This is wrong of parents to do. Only help one child, and women “happily” agreeing. It’s about the principle. No one need fall out.
Han guruji, ekdum sach bat he! My In laws inspite of having pension , are financially dependent on us not helping us to manage home and want to save all their money as savings or want to spend it as they like, but they want to stay with us so that we will take care of all their financial and other needs. We are struggling because of this situation as no saving are left with us. They are hanging a carrot by saying we will leave all these properties and money as inheritance 😅
Yes, and your brother's wife would also be thinking same for your parents somewhere else in this world.
In Bengali affluent middle class , parents actually take pride that their sons and daughters are living far from them in Bengaluru Hyderabad Pune or abroad. The value of relation is dying or died. So let it be. In many towns, I see playing grounds are empty, grass covered and lot of Pharma stores in the locality .
Agree
Achha hai na. You know how tough it is to open business in Bengal? Or even Jharkhand? Or find good jobs?
Yahi to criticism hai na humari? Entrepreneur nahi hai...achhe jobs nahi hai... labour class ke hai... baat baat me protest karte hain sab apne man me neta bane hue hai...
Jab sahi kar rahe hai, fir bhi problem?
Every middle class think same
Because there is nothing left in Kolkata to prosper . Young Bengali Engineers and doctors are moving to Us , Canada , Australia , New Delhi , Hyderabad etc . Very sad reality of our state .
Don't traps in parents property.
They will destroy your whole life
I have seen parents full on ego, want daughter in law to work as free ki naukrani and never supported the son enough, so that he doesn't become too much independent and they get the FREE KI SEVA from daughter in law...
Because of my bad parents my wife failed so many cases like dowry and domestic violence against my parents so now they are ready to give all to my wife
बहुत ही अच्छे विचार और बहुत ही अच्छे तरीके से समझाया गया समझने वाले जरूर कुछ ना कुछ तो जरूर पा gae। Big salute n Dhanyabad. सुन के मजा आ गया as यूजुअल
Guruji! I am 26M living alone in Mumbai & purposely away from my parents; near my office's location precisely because "Ek ahsaan krna ki mujh p koi ehsaan mt karna" & "hell with you". They put me under intense pressure & humiliation consistently that I figured out my way , through long hours of hard work & luck in combination , and I became somewhat rich & now know how to survive & make money without them. And they still don't care at all & I know they never will.
What do you do?
tujhe ye banane le liye hi qo sab kiya hoga parents ne..agar tujhe sab kuch pehle de diya jata to aaj ye nahi banta ..
36 ki umar ye sab bolna tab apne aap hekdi nikal jayegi.
In this scenario south Indians are very clear after got married they immediately make nuclear family, until and unless very emergency for parents. But in case of north Indians i found they left their wife with parents even they are working away from home just for parents sewa. what is this i dont know. yes if they are very needy then it is ok. they just keep as a tradional to do sewa for parents.
बहुत सही कह्ते हें आप। मुझे ऐसी कोइ दिक्कत नहीं पर मैने ये सीखा कि आगे अपने children से कैसा व्यवहार करना हैं। अपनी की मेहनत को unper अहसान नहीं बताना
True sirji maine to bol dia papa ko aapko dada ji itni property de gaye hame kab doge.. papa ka reaction dekhne wala tha.. 😂
Yaha to parents ko bass Salary chaiye....jisse hum youngster apni youth spend karke laate hain orr unhe apni life enjoy karni hai even they are selling ancestral property for their enjoyment.aapki baate dil ko chhoo jaati Hain Sir...
Parents isliye to baccha paida karte Hain ki wo unko free ka naukar mile. Sex ka bhi maza liya aur Naukar bhi mil gya. Unko bahut faida hai
Amit ji you are great and please keep on sharing such videos.
I am 44 yrs old and i can relate to your videos a lot
May pakistan sey hon aap ney jo ye midelclass wali series ker rahen han ye bohat best ha asi koi baat pakistan maen nahi ker raha aap ney midle class ka maen masla hall ker rahen ha. aap ka shukrya.
Children dont have to give their salary to middle class parents. They should build up own assets with own efforts. Live separately if you have the means.
India me parents ko parents nhi bhagwaan banne ki aadat hai, are pehle acche parents to ban jaao, bihar me to parents education par invest hi isilye karte hai taaki shaadi me dahej lenge 😢
Its fact
Bilkul sahi. Either dahej or lifelong pension from kids. They dont see their own financial mismanagement and dont live with discipline. Bas sab kuchh chahiye. After blowing money on nonsense, they tell that their children are bad for not giving money to them
Is dahej ke pressure ki wajh se parents love marriage nhi karne dete ki dahej nhi milega, or dusre cast me bhi nhi krne dete,
Raymond's the Complete Man. 😂
Please make a complete video🎥 on this topic Sir.
Kya baat hai sir, kya baat hai...
Bilkul sahi kaha aapne.
Yehi mera mindset ban gaya hai 8-10 mahino se.
Tab se main mere parents aur in laws ko unki life enjoy karne ki salaah aur encouragement deta hu.
Unka Mann bhi busy, kalesh... Never coming so easy
Already said to parents, "not interested, take it with you" 😊
👏👏👏👏👍👍🙏🙏
I have suffered a lot in the hands of my mother. Now she is 85 and she expects me to give her service without her love or affection or her money which she grabbed by selling my father's property.
Har ghar mein Ambani,adani ki baatein hoti hai lekin baccha agar business k liye paise maang le toh muh phool jata hai..
Pehle job kar paise jodh le phir kar lena, bhai 22 saal se toh insaan paise kamana chalu karta hai , 28 tak shadi 30 saal mein insaan maa baap ki aur dekhta hai ki kuch madad mil jaye akhir duniya mein bhagwan ke baad maa baap ka toh sahara hai toh iska phayda udtha ke dhamki dete hai tu apna ghar le le humne bhi toh khud kiya hai...
Mere ghar wale toh jaan much k badua dete hai ki kahin aage na badh jaye or saath mein rehte hue bhi jaan bhuj k kaam atkate hai, khud mera baap business karta hai or mujhe bolta hai tu job kar
Sir, kisi ko aapke jaisa too smjha nahin payenge lekin jb sixty plus honge to बातों का ध्यान रख के बच्चों को जरूर खुश रखेंगे
What a video Amit Ji .. true clarity and courage on your part to discuss it .. awesome
Dhanyavaad uncleji, bhut sahi baat hai. par hum yeh video mommy papa se share nahi kar sakte. Kode padenge.
Kode padenge😂😂😂
What a coincidence, i am 31 years old working professional,still unmarried. I am facing same problem. I even had a fight with my parents yesterday on this same issue, they always want to control me.this video was a eye opener for me.
jab tera bacha hoga tab hekdi nikal jayegi
I am also asking my mom about restructuring of corpus in bank after retiriment,..but not accetpting...bank wale fayda leke insurance chipka diya..mom ko....4- 5; saal ho gaye....but now i just ..shut down...no more convincing...Happy with 2+1 family staying away from hometown ,,,,
India is full of toxic parents. We should discuss about this serious topic openly about this dark topics instead of faltu andhbhakti. No more hypocrisy
You can't change mentality of old generation so only solution to this problem is not marrying
Difference Art of leaving and living. Living with family/joy/ kindness/help to others and leaving ego/narrow mindness/ toxicity etc/ bad relationship.
Gautam Singhania se jyada ye “Bagban” movie ne jyada bigada hai parents ko.
TOO GOOD, 100% True
If I start writing on the wall, I fear the great wall of china will be insufficient. You have hit on the center of the head of nail. BTW I am not in my 30s or 40s. I am 50 & seeing this since my birth. I just laugh off this behavior now.
Don't know if you have time to read comments.
Extremely well said.Why parents give guilt and convey this guilt generation after generation really we don't know why .....keep it up!!
I think parents in india need accept truth that the moments they had kids their property is no longer theirs
They aren't parents they are wolves who wil snatch and eat their own! Be careful! Absolutely perfect video!
Bhai sahab sab kuch imaandari se acha karne ki koshish karo... Fir bhi bete ko failure dikhana... Uski patni bacho ko sunana... Just ki sab kuch unke control m rahe... Kya zarurat h control ki...jiyo air jeene do...
Sahi baat h khali dimaag mat rakho..
Kya hum galat nhi kar sakte par nhi apne Hume paala h..
Ye dar laagmi hai, jab aapke saath pura youth generation hai, to dar kis baat ka, sahi baat hai, agar parents children ki samay invest nahi karengein, to bachche bhi bewakoof nahi hai, ki jo time reinvest karein. This is a really informative video.
Society is Grateful to such people who brings wisdom nuggets. 👏
What a subject you selected.. exactly true.... some (60/.) parents only interested in their properties instead of their children
Sir wonderful. Super topics. What you talk happens in every home but no one talks. Sir complimenting you on topics and the way you speak. regards, I'm a fauji and now a lawyer. Will follow ur footsteps in times to come.
Maa baap bhi dada dadi ko chod ker chale gaye the.
Ab kudh bahu ki seva mangta hai
Tab saas se bag gaye the ab sub apne hisab se chahiye.
Per ground pe khel ke rule badal chuke hai
Jabse apko sunna band Kiya hai
Tabse jindagi bhauth khushnuma chal rHi hai😊
U are great..although the parents who got a lot of in inheritance become soo arrogant towards thier own children..
Thanks sir! I thought I am thinking in the wrong direction.
Same scenario is going on with my parents. I have simply given up hope. I don't want their property or money. Rakh lo apne paas. Jitna kamaunga, ussi se jee lunga. Bohot aleeshaan ghar na sahi lekin 1 decent ghar mein rahe hi lunga~
They simply want that I live according to their rules and regulations, which would have been okay with me but the trouble is that their ways are outdated and I am reaching nowhere by following their advice. Instead, I am shooting myself in the foot.
Society has always told to worship parents like Gods. So very late we realise that they are life destroyers and biggest gossipers. It would be best to live separately. They r sitting just to see death
Sir par bahut bache parents ki kamai khate hai apne savings krte hai aur phir daughter in law inlaws ke sath naukari se bhi ganda bartav krti hai unki insult krti hai aur beta chup chap dekhta rahta hai usko sirf apni married life bachane hoti hai parents se koi matlab nhi hota plz us par bhi vide banaye seriously sir kuch mother in law's bahut achi hoti hai sir iss par bhi video banao
मां बाप की सेवा का फर्ज और कर्ज तो सोने बेटे बेटी पर होता है।
लड़की ने तो अपना घर, नाम पहचान मां पिता छोड़ कर already आप पर एहसान किया होता। अगर वो सब छोड़ कर नही आती तो आपके बेटे को जाना पड़ता।
बेटे को बचपन से सेवा सिखाइए। बहु कर दे तो एहसान, नही तो कोई बात नही।
और बेटे को सेवा नही सीखा सकते, तो उसे विदा कीजिए, और बेटी को घर रखिए, घर जमाई ढूंढिए। सेवा की कोई दिक्कत नही होगी। B
पर लोग बेटे की कमाई के लालच में बेटे को रखते हैं और बेटी भेजते हैं, यहां भी कलेश और वहां भी।
गंदी प्रथा है।
Same exactly like mine , my parents wants to give my money to them,, because unhone muje padha likha k itna bda kiyaa h ...
Or na hi mere marriage k liye bhi ek penny dene ka bolte h
Sir m apke video kuch dino se dekh rha hu aur alg hi level ka mental peace mila h. Cheeze smjh Ane lgi h gussa km hua h life ko duniya ki nhi khudki nazro se dekhna chalu kiya h, sahi m settle hona kya hota h ye pta lga h, being a Brahmin m already religious hu pr astrology ki value aur smjh apse ayi h, life m career k alaya kuch nhi dikhta tha ab sb dikhne lga h, shadi na krne ka decision leliya tha usko bhi change Kiya h, arrange marriage m looks best chahiye the heroine jese isiliye kbse reject krrha tha rishte usko bhi dekhne ka naya nazariya aur approach diya h apne, m 1 lakh + kamaleta hu Aram se toh sochta tha aage Jake aur hi earn krunga toh housewife chahiye thi, apne btaya ladkiyo ka bhi life purpose in career aur khudki earning honi chahiye taki woh aage Jake age m sad na feel kre aur fir apnko bhi na bura lge, papa n bhot bada ghr bnaya hua h idhr jodhpur m aur mera aage ka kaam Mumbai m h toh sochta tha rent krlunga akela rehna h thoda bhot theek flat m kaam chljaega, ab jb ek ek krkr saare topics pr clarity mili h tb sb clearly dikhrha h ki ha bhai shadi bhi karni padegi ghr Lena padega aj nhi toh kl aur kl ko Umar bhi badjaegi ldki bhi fir usi age ki milegi, kharcha tb aur bhi badhjaega aur jbtk baki log sath Wale biwi bacho k sath ready honge tb hum log start krenge ye toh bhot bada disadvantage hojata life m. Sir ji ek topic shadi se related mere mn m bhi aya hoske toh isko apne videos m bolkr ap logo ko aur jldi shadi k liye mana skte h.
Ldka aur ldki dono ko hi ek age k baad mentally aur physically ek dusre ki jarurat padhne lgjati h, shadi ki jgh relationship m ana chalu krdete h... Fir ek k baad dusra dusre k baad teersa dono hi ese krte reh rhe h... Ap kisi aur k life partner ko mental trauma de rhe ho physically use bhi kr rhe ho aur same apke partner k sath koi aur kr rha h..... Bolne m meko bhi ajeeb lgrha h esi baat aj ki generation m bolke pr esa kyu krrhe h hum log aur fir jb 28-30 k hoke shadi krenge sb tbtk apne aur apke life partner n jawani kisi aur k naam krdi..... Sunne m lgskta h ki sirf physical ki trf ja rha hu m pr esa nhi h.... Insan apne 20-30 years ki age m mentally physically timewise aur thoda bhot financially apne peak age m hota h .... Woh time apne pyaar aur ladhai ki kisi aur logo se... Ghumne gye kisi aur k sath trips pr, Cafe restaurant sb trh k cuisine kahi kisi k try kiye, memories apki kahi aur bni Hui h aur ek sath nhi multiple k sath fir hr smy kisi na kisi ka kuch na kuch acha yaad ata rehta h iske time ye acha tha woh ese dhyan rkhti thi woh wali ese gifts deti thi woh wali ko roj milna hota tha aur apne present se khush nhi reh paenge future m kisi na kisi reason se. Aur jb itne logo pr itne trh k efforts kr chuke honge tb apne partner k liye kya kroge? Icha hi nhi rahegi vese wali jese pehle thi... Jese gulab ka fool dete h na kisi ko toh ldke ko pehli 1-2 gf tk toh bhot value rehti us gulab ki ki m use gulab de rha hu pyaar ka ijhaar kr rha hu usko bhi bhot acha lgta h Mera bf mere liye rose laya h.. shuru shuru m mene dekha h log kayi saal sambhal kr bhi rkhte h un cheezo ko aur jese jese partner change hote h lgta ki h yr jese koi formality si h na Dene Wale ko value Rahi na lene wale ko. Samay k sath relationship m jitni bhi valueable cheeze h jinse pyaar ka ehsas hota rehta h lambe samay k liye un cheezo ki value khtm hone lgjati h jese jese partner bdlte rahoge.. lamba comment hogya h sir ji agr apne padha h toh like krkr batana mujhe ki ha tumhara comment pdhliya h mene aur meri baat ka koi sense lga apko toh ap comment ka reply krkr bhi batana ki ha sahi bolrhe ho.
Bhai maine pura padha hai. Pahli baat to bhai mujhe lagta hai, ki message ke bajaye tu khud video banakr upload karde. Tumhari generation logically and mentally relate aasani se karegi 😊. I am going to reach 35 and glad to hear your thoughts, also staying outside hometown.
Really love your videos and gets educated on the dark sides of the life and even if someone has inside feelings can't put them into words. 🙏
Sir your videos are very good for society and provide different perspectives. Generally, younger people are blamed for any wrong, but older ones are also responsible for the same.
Duniya me dil ki baat sirf hamare guru ji hi smjhte hai
U great guru ji sach me hmare grand father ne b aise socha hota after father death bhu se unki bnti nhi ti.dada ne chk k sari property maid ko de di....and grandsons se rishta khtm krdiya
Really true. We are facing the same problem from last ९ years. But parents don't want to understand anything
I recently searched, these parents are suffering from NPD (narcissist personality disorder). They need a talk therapy but they will never take it because of their ego.
Excellent topic. Much needed.
excellent topic guruji, thank you sirji...
This might be your greatest video. Great insights
Crystal clear thoughts. This is kind of awakening in social and intellectual life.
Apka yah video mere ankho me aansu la diye , lag raha hai jaise mere jindagi ke panne khol rahe hai Aap. Prnam Guruji.
Sangwan ji nice video. Jindgi ki hakikat 70saal me samjh aati he. Children ki jarurat padti he. Aur padegi hi. Children ko paise ki hakikat samjhanye but rob markar nahi. Baki to sub unka hi he aur unhe hi dein. Wo sewa karien ya na karein. Children ko to ajadi chahiye hi paise doge to lalch to he but pratrna koi nahi sahan karte aajkal garob parents k bichche bhi.bina paise k rah lete he majdoori karke as I obesrve.
Bull's eye, a most important topic in real life. Somebody had to say this and say it clear and loud with confidence. You did it Guruji. Thanks for this, it'll help many of us stuck in such situations.
You are very right about Parents using money to abuse their children and try and keep them dependent. It happens in myriad forms. Parents should learn how to Parent first. It's sad.
धन्यवाद सर ,यह सच्चाई है।majority में ऐसा ही है। संस्कार, मानसिकता प्रमुख है।आप द्वारा दिए गए संदेश गूढ़ हैं जिन्हें गहराई से समझना होगा और सभी माता पिता मिथ्या लालच से उपजे दुख को समझ सकेंगे। धन्यवाद 🙏
Bilkul sahi baat h uncle ji thank you 🙏 ithna sab bolne k liye bahut himmat chahiye
If you are earning and others are not earning in the family and if you give your earnings to parents then there be a day parents will handover your earnings to the member who is not earning / does not work enough. He / She will spend their life on your earnings and you will have to suffer.
My MIL did this. Gave more than 1 Cr rs, total of my husbands earnings to younger brothers. And still was giving it all. And after my marriage, they got so disturbed and tried to create rift btw us. Sensing that I asked my hubby to leave job.😂 As i was satisfied by my little earnings and was able to manage. A lot of chaos and fights followed when suddenly their ATM became jobless.
Finally after all disclosures to my Bhole husband, I am happy with my him, where they were all poisoning him that I will leave him after one or two years 😂 Husband ki job छुड़वाने से सब मस्त हो गया 😂
Personally they made him literally bankrupt, literally not even 50 thousand rs.
But by gods grace I had made a house, so we could manage in little earnings together. We had married in 40s. Now 8 yrs of peaceful togetherness, touchwood.
RAGA concept " Wealth redistribution "
Very sensitive topic... But true...Thanks a lot for sharing your views
Lot of respect. No one is talking about major issues like these. Lot of children are suffering.
Every line is true and relatable.
Sir your video should go viral. You speak the truth and dark side of the society which nobody speaks about! These older generation are really gone very toxic (with an exception of very few). And we must openly talk about such issues. These toxic parents create nuisance and are very rondumal as you say!
See the comments ... all to protect you...
And incase anyone bothers you... tell us... we shall handle them!
Ego for anything achieved may cause... Hindrance. Nice guidance.
Laugh out loud moment at the Shayari. Not going to say what it was. Experience it to believe it. 😂❤
You stole my heart.
I like the way you present such sensitive topics. Surely, gyan darshan hai...especially for people who don't have such helping angels around their vicinity to help with life lessons..🙏🙏
Sir you are a true observer... Bilkul sahi observe karke samjhaate ho relationships pe aap.
Mere father me aisa koi dar nahi wo roj partadit karte hai 😢aur as such aisi koi bahut jyada property bhi nahi hai 5bhk jaisa ek ghar hai bas 😢
राजन भाई ये भी सबको नशीब नही होता खुष रहो😊
Its true!!
In my consultation, i do get people go through hell and emotional rollercoaster
Nailed it. Making a virtue of a necessity is the best line. 👏👏👏👏✔️✔️✔️✔️
HATS OFF GURUJI !! 🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀🥀
Guruji =Practical Reformer/Anaylist In Today's Society And Family 👍
You are 100℅right sir. Keep going. Telling the truth and reality.
Guruji .... I am also from gurgaon.... Hatts off to your.... Problems faced by young generation Today..... Raymond's....