गुरू जी प्रणाम, यह अब तक का सबसे गहरा वीडियो है। Thanks a ton for this video. Please make more such content. भगवान से आपके लिए एक खुशहाल और लंबी आयु की प्रार्थना है।🙏🙏
Sir, Please make video on English parenting how to communicate with their kids regarding below points 1) What is importance of studies when they are in school or learning skills at young age. 2) Why marriage is important when they will be adult? 3) Sex education not given in school so how parents should communicate with them regarding same. Yes, you are right parents should honestly tell the truth of situation. Then kids atleast believe on them may be will not follow all but will not ignore the parents also.
@@sanketmudgalkar9500 Amit sir ki videos toh hum kuch time pehle se dekh rahe hain unhone toh humse 1 saal se relation tod rakha Even inki brother sister ne bhi
Sach m bahut hi eye opener video h parents k liye. Mere in- laws ne poori life yahi attitude rakha .Meri shaadi 31.5 years pehle hui thi. Mere parents aaj tak aise hai that they only Give . But in - laws ekdum opposite. Unke behaviour k kaaran mere husband k over all personality ,mental health bahut affect hui but maine dheere dheere husband ko unconditional pyar aur care karke usase baher nikala. Mere 2 bete hai . Bade k recently shaadi hui. Abhi kal hi hum bete k ghar se wapas apne ghar aaye hai almost 1.5 yrs baad. Wahan humne hamesha yahi kosish k unko her tarah se khushi de chahe bete bahu ka tiffin pack karna ho ya bahu ka birthday celebrate. Aaj wo itne close ho gaye hai k hamare wapas aane per rone lage .Raat ko 3 baje teeno air port chhodne aaye. Mere in - laws k kaaran mere husband k nature affect hui . Isliye hum bhi bachchon ko perfect parents nahi ban sake . But kaafi hadd tak humne koshish ki. Apni life bachchon & even bahu k saamne khuli kitaab k tarah rakh di. Mere parents Only Give wali nature ke hai shayad isiliye m unki parvarish k kaaran apne pati aur bachchon ko sambhal paayi. Aapke poore video ka saar is line m laga k apne bachchon ko Interesting way m paalo Hats off sir
Haan....parents ne jaise Paala hai upbringing dee hai uska asar har aspect pe jata hai aur ye realization muje ho chuka hai....mere husband bohot difficult personality hai tabi mera aaj divorce ho rha ....Main itna humiliation nhi seh paayi aur realise hua mere SAS sasur bohot pehle hee satyanaas kr chuke hai apne bacho ka ....Maine apna beta leke divorce lena choose kiya
@@vineetagupta6030felt sorry for u dear. Aapke husband aapko support karte hai ya nahi aur aap in- laws ke saath rehte ho ya alag . In dono ka bahut impact aata h . M bhi isiliye us situation se baahar nikal paayi becoz hum alag rehte the husband ki job k kaaran . All the best to u dear ❤
So right i hv been beaten a lot by my parents even without no reason bcoz of relatives frustration, married life frustration n the result today is i hardly have any affection or emotional attachment to them, dont feel any home sickness when im away from home, in fact i njoy being away from home, just i support them by giving money n nothing else
@@ranjuhappyparyushanparvaan3287 maine decide kar liya hai mai apne baccho ko kabhi bhi discourage nhi karunga balki pyar se samjhaunga aur bataunga agr nhi mante to subconscious mind ko programme karunga
U did right. For such parents only relatives r their kids, they do whatever their relative say. Such parents never regret for wrong doings. If kids live with such parents they end up with divorce, depressed, financial loss. Parents are good but never accept wrong advice given by parents. Be happy.
Few kids have never seen such parents. I was opposite during my childhood. I was super happy when parents were out. When they came back, I used to get locked in my room so that parents don't see me. 😀 That's why I'm permanently out of the house now. 😎
@@beasty007 that's story of many kids. What we can do. That was anyways past. Ab rone se kya faayda. But what he said in this video just reminded me all those points.
My parents maintained two faces. I was under a strict control of my parents, have regret that my father didn't spend quality time with me as compared to other people. He considered me as a burden. He once said being a father of a daughter is a liability till she is married. So I married according to my choice without their knowledge.
I too had a tough childhood and teenage. I however, married as per their choice. My mother is better. She cares and doesn't expect anything in return. My father is harsh natured. Even now he doesn't like me. I felt bad until few days ago and thought of putting in more effort but now I think, no. Enough is just enough. Enough of disrespect I always had.
Uncle ji aapki baat sunkr aansu aa gaye kash ki sb aapki trh sochte aapki age bhi mere papa or sasur k jitni hai but wo kbhi itna smjh nhi pate or aap aaj ki generation ki problem ko bhut acche se smjhte ho aapke bacche kitne lucky hai!!!
I lost myself totally and emotional..I am father of only daughter and I am bringing up her in the same way as you adviced in this video..she feels me as her best friend and shares everything with me and seeks advices and makes fun of me and her mom..we parents and she enjoys every moment of being together..we are blessed to be..you touched heart of every parent..thank you sir..waiting for your life lesson videos 🙏
@@vibha-ff1eenhi vo ek gawar insaan h or kuchh nhi... Jinhone bche apni comfort k liye peda krte h ya beta isliye chahiye hota h taki sas bnkr vhan control kr ske. Ye ek cheap mentality h jiski shikar auraten bhi h.
Much grateful for your videos sir. As a parent, sometimes we end up doing the same mistakes that we hold grudgingly against our parents. Love your reminders, feels just like an elder in the family telling us ( but they don't). God bless you!
I believe Parents should love children unconditionally irrespective of their age, and it's a bliss being a parent. I have learnt a lot from my parents how not to be in life. It's their failures that made me a better person and a better parent. Thanks a lot sir! 🙏
Some parents scold their sons and daughters even after marriage. It is common for 75 yr old village man to control and scold his 40 yr old officer son mainly to control son’s income
Sir,being a parent I do all these pravchans but after seeing your video I am definitely going to change. Sir,pls make a series on parenting tips for parents in dealing with adolescents children It will help us as parents
I'm so happy and proud that my father has always been so supportive, friendly and cool with me. He's exactly the kind of parent that you are asking everyone to be like, sir.
Brilliant content. This video should be national parenting advice. Thanks for sharing this insightful masterpiece, extremely well articulated and bang on point.
I am 42 yrs old ..have two kids and although my parents are with me .. I left metro city for them just to spend time with them but I still misses my father’s warmth who rarely talks to me despite being in the same home …your last 5-10 mins video has made me cry . God bless you .. I will make sure I treat my kids in a better way than my father treated me
This is true. My best friend's parents are just like this - talk very nicely to him always. And they have a strong and healthy relationship amongst them. I have seen the kind of conversation they have amongst them, which is enriching and healthy and not like bitter preaching or mundane things as you mentioned. Great work sir!
Shi kha apne. Vaise to Mai mere baccho se bhot krib hu . Fir bhi Mai mere adult children se baat krne me , vyvhar me aur accha change laungi. Thank you
O my God! So so heart touching video. Agar sabhi parents ye sab follow kar le to hamara apne bachchon se rishta to gehra hoga hi, parivaar me hamesha mithas bani rahegi.bahut hi gehari baat kahi hai sir aapne. One more thing,aapke videos chahe kitne bade ho magar lagta hai aapko aur sunte rahe.
Sir, aapki baaton gyaan ka ek ek word itna awesome, relatable and solutions se bhara hota hai ke kitni bhi lambi video ho ek second ke liye bhi mind divert nahi hota hai. Thank you so much for making this video. Much needed.
My parents never went behind my sister and me with instructions. Rather they chose to say once and then let us learn through their actions! Now as an adult I am proud of how we turned up. I myself go and call my parents every single day.. and we talk sweetly for 2-3 and sometimes even 30 min if we have a topic. No lame talks. No faltu ki guidance 😊
Probably, one of your best videos if not the best. Thank you for making this video. A lot of depth. High level stuff but everyone can relate and easily do.
The definition of parenting is unconditional love which you have elaborated beautifully!! The only real deal without any fine prints or hidden clauses!!
Yes, I do this... what can I do for you, not for any reason, just i feel joy ...in giving...to my son...and he says u r doing so much more than i need n he feels n says that I want to do something for you...u r absolutely right...jahaj ke panchhi...pranam.
We all are products of our upbringing & are often very rigid in our actions . But a child brings a huge change in the way we think & behave . We should keep the emotions that we feel when we are with them , alive ! We are supposed to be nurturers and providers and we should never forget that ! Be there , be theirs .. that’s always been my funda 😊 And yes you have tugged at the right strings again Amit ji !
Every video feels like somebody putting words to my thoughts !! Thank you Sir for bringing so honest and real and talk about something which is so obvious but is not talked about and hence kids become bitter !!
गुरू जी प्रणाम,
यह अब तक का सबसे गहरा वीडियो है। Thanks a ton for this video. Please make more such content.
भगवान से आपके लिए एक खुशहाल और लंबी आयु की प्रार्थना है।🙏🙏
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Yes nice content, eyes opening for parents
Pp
India is not ready for this maturity level😄
Sir,
Please make video on English parenting how to communicate with their kids regarding below points
1) What is importance of studies when they are in school or learning skills at young age.
2) Why marriage is important when they will be adult?
3) Sex education not given in school so how parents should communicate with them regarding same.
Yes, you are right parents should honestly tell the truth of situation. Then kids atleast believe on them may be will not follow all but will not ignore the parents also.
Mera ghar wale mujhse naraj hogaye hai ..maine aapke videos unko dikhaye toh. But andar se sukoon mil raha hai mujhe. Feeling liberated.
Aapse toh sirf naaraj hain yahan toh sach bolne par chilla pade aur rishta hi tod diya
@@Jaahnvi442 sometimes I think to watch his videos or not ? Kalesh has increased. Too much truth is not needed maybe.
@@sanketmudgalkar9500 Amit sir ki videos toh hum kuch time pehle se dekh rahe hain unhone toh humse 1 saal se relation tod rakha Even inki brother sister ne bhi
@@sanketmudgalkar9500 mahabharat me bhi sab koi saant rahte to kalesh nahi hota par wo adharm hota. Aap dharm chuno ,anyay nahi saho. Sri krishna
@@sachinjha6333 Sahi baat hai.
Sach m bahut hi eye opener video h parents k liye. Mere in- laws ne poori life yahi attitude rakha .Meri shaadi 31.5 years pehle hui thi. Mere parents aaj tak aise hai that they only Give . But in - laws ekdum opposite. Unke behaviour k kaaran mere husband k over all personality ,mental health bahut affect hui but maine dheere dheere husband ko unconditional pyar aur care karke usase baher nikala. Mere 2 bete hai . Bade k recently shaadi hui. Abhi kal hi hum bete k ghar se wapas apne ghar aaye hai almost 1.5 yrs baad. Wahan humne hamesha yahi kosish k unko her tarah se khushi de chahe bete bahu ka tiffin pack karna ho ya bahu ka birthday celebrate. Aaj wo itne close ho gaye hai k hamare wapas aane per rone lage .Raat ko 3 baje teeno air port chhodne aaye. Mere in - laws k kaaran mere husband k nature affect hui . Isliye hum bhi bachchon ko perfect parents nahi ban sake . But kaafi hadd tak humne koshish ki. Apni life bachchon & even bahu k saamne khuli kitaab k tarah rakh di. Mere parents Only Give wali nature ke hai shayad isiliye m unki parvarish k kaaran apne pati aur bachchon ko sambhal paayi.
Aapke poore video ka saar is line m laga k apne bachchon ko Interesting way m paalo
Hats off sir
Haan....parents ne jaise Paala hai upbringing dee hai uska asar har aspect pe jata hai aur ye realization muje ho chuka hai....mere husband bohot difficult personality hai tabi mera aaj divorce ho rha ....Main itna humiliation nhi seh paayi aur realise hua mere SAS sasur bohot pehle hee satyanaas kr chuke hai apne bacho ka ....Maine apna beta leke divorce lena choose kiya
@nilinimagupta5311 ji .. I am facing same issues ..jus 29 right now .. my husband facing issue plus iss sab ka effect meri 3yr old p padh rha h
@@vineetagupta6030felt sorry for u dear. Aapke husband aapko support karte hai ya nahi aur aap in- laws ke saath rehte ho ya alag . In dono ka bahut impact aata h . M bhi isiliye us situation se baahar nikal paayi becoz hum alag rehte the husband ki job k kaaran . All the best to u dear ❤
That thing about child hitting is so true. And, if wife- beating is not ok then why should child-beating be ok. You are so right 🙏
Right....shd not hit ones kids
It should be criminal offense to beat kids . Every person, even kid is a owner of their own body . Nobody has right to touch the kid
So right i hv been beaten a lot by my parents even without no reason bcoz of relatives frustration, married life frustration n the result today is i hardly have any affection or emotional attachment to them, dont feel any home sickness when im away from home, in fact i njoy being away from home, just i support them by giving money n nothing else
Ye sahi nahi hai.kya jane hum apne bachchon ke saath itne idle rah payenge ya nahi phir hamara bhi haal yahi hoga.
@@ranjuhappyparyushanparvaan3287 maine decide kar liya hai mai apne baccho ko kabhi bhi discourage nhi karunga balki pyar se samjhaunga aur bataunga agr nhi mante to subconscious mind ko programme karunga
U did right. For such parents only relatives r their kids, they do whatever their relative say. Such parents never regret for wrong doings. If kids live with such parents they end up with divorce, depressed, financial loss. Parents are good but never accept wrong advice given by parents. Be happy.
Same here
@@ranjuhappyparyushanparvaan3287 to unko bhi to koi problem nei hai
Few kids have never seen such parents. I was opposite during my childhood. I was super happy when parents were out. When they came back, I used to get locked in my room so that parents don't see me. 😀
That's why I'm permanently out of the house now. 😎
@@beasty007 that's story of many kids. What we can do. That was anyways past. Ab rone se kya faayda. But what he said in this video just reminded me all those points.
I hope you are better now.
@@vishalpratap403 congrats that is a huge achievement on ur part I salute ur independence
Same here brother
@ vishal
Ye apne ekdam correct advice kiya hai, jyada gyan nahi dena chahiye, vo seekh lenge, jo unke kaam ka hai, unme bhi dimag hai.
Aaj toh Rula hi diya aapne Sir..😢🙏आपके "गुरु तत्व" को मेरा कोटि कोटि नमन गुरुदेव 🙏😊
My parents maintained two faces. I was under a strict control of my parents, have regret that my father didn't spend quality time with me as compared to other people. He considered me as a burden. He once said being a father of a daughter is a liability till she is married. So I married according to my choice without their knowledge.
Nice
And when they find out ?
nice
I too had a tough childhood and teenage. I however, married as per their choice. My mother is better. She cares and doesn't expect anything in return. My father is harsh natured. Even now he doesn't like me. I felt bad until few days ago and thought of putting in more effort but now I think, no. Enough is just enough. Enough of disrespect I always had.
Very sad. He thought like this.
Uncle ji aapki baat sunkr aansu aa gaye kash ki sb aapki trh sochte aapki age bhi mere papa or sasur k jitni hai but wo kbhi itna smjh nhi pate or aap aaj ki generation ki problem ko bhut acche se smjhte ho aapke bacche kitne lucky hai!!!
I lost myself totally and emotional..I am father of only daughter and I am bringing up her in the same way as you adviced in this video..she feels me as her best friend and shares everything with me and seeks advices and makes fun of me and her mom..we parents and she enjoys every moment of being together..we are blessed to be..you touched heart of every parent..thank you sir..waiting for your life lesson videos 🙏
It is also not advisable to have single child.khusiya kab misery m badal jaegi pata bhi nahi chalega.life is unpredictable.
@@ishuyadav3788why u even say that....?
@@MaviNKaurat hai bhai
Aurato ko 1 beta jarur chahiye hota hai
@@vibha-ff1eenhi vo ek gawar insaan h or kuchh nhi... Jinhone bche apni comfort k liye peda krte h ya beta isliye chahiye hota h taki sas bnkr vhan control kr ske. Ye ek cheap mentality h jiski shikar auraten bhi h.
@@ishuyadav3788behan agr marna hi ho to logon ki puri ki puri family bhi Mr jati h ek sath. Ye koi reason nhi h or bche peda krne ka.
Much grateful for your videos sir. As a parent, sometimes we end up doing the same mistakes that we hold grudgingly against our parents. Love your reminders, feels just like an elder in the family telling us ( but they don't). God bless you!
Well said
Phek do aise parents ko sale khudh ko samjh te kya hai baghwaan agar baghwaan bhi aisa karega to uski bhi naali pakad ke uska tetuya daba dena.
Sir u r blessing
Ap jaise human being bhi exist karte h
Itna suljhi hui life
Itne grateful
Thanks to you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Aap ke jaise Pita sabko mil jaaye to sab kitni khushi se apna jivan jiye!!!!!
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I believe Parents should love children unconditionally irrespective of their age, and it's a bliss being a parent. I have learnt a lot from my parents how not to be in life. It's their failures that made me a better person and a better parent.
Thanks a lot sir! 🙏
Great 😊
Only happens in dream
But aisa hota nhi hai😊
Nice❤
Same
My son just turned 5 , and I am very grateful to you for all this guidance. Thanks a lot.....
I have a 4 year old daughter sir and I'm already in tears. Thank you Sir ... Thanks a ton. Gratitude ❤️🙏🌹. An eye - opener video . Pranaam 🙏
Atleast you learnt this now when your daughter is just 4yrs old.. some people don’t even learn till their deathbed
4 y old kid:- muze kyu toda itne din😢
Mera 7 year h
Namaste 🙏 Indian parents will continue doing what they went through with their parents. They make things easy for their children to hate them
Some parents scold their sons and daughters even after marriage. It is common for 75 yr old village man to control and scold his 40 yr old officer son mainly to control son’s income
I started crying while listening to this video… so realistic 🙏🏻
Sir,being a parent I do all these pravchans but after seeing your video I am definitely going to change.
Sir,pls make a series on parenting tips for parents in dealing with adolescents children It will help us as parents
I'm so happy and proud that my father has always been so supportive, friendly and cool with me. He's exactly the kind of parent that you are asking everyone to be like, sir.
Brilliant content. This video should be national parenting advice. Thanks for sharing this insightful masterpiece, extremely well articulated and bang on point.
@4:02 Not just actions but expressions too say a thousand words..
21:22 Papa ke saath dhua dene waali Bajaj Chetak par aage baith kar saare raste horn bajate hue jaane ka bhi maza alag hee tha.
I feel so blessed to have such parents and I aspire to be one such emotionally intelligent parent.
Guess my son is just lucky 😉
बहुत ज्ञानवर्धक। बार बार सुनूंगा और खुद को अपने बच्चों से कनेक्ट करने कि कोशिश करूंगा।
Well researched and practical tips. You have the guts to say this. Very few can do this . Congratulations.
Thank you Sir
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My father is someone who asks "What shall I buy for you and your kids?".
He even asks me to share my Amazon wishlist.
You're lucky
@@talwindersingh3721 Thanks. You can also become one. Stay blessed.
Amazinggg🎉🎉🎉🎉❤😊
My father be like:- chappal se maar khayega ya hath se
You are lucky
sir you are a new age GURU.....much reqd for the 21st century......pls keep guiding us 🙏🙏
Salute you sir. Only you have the guts to say the plain truth 😂🙏
I am 42 yrs old ..have two kids and although my parents are with me .. I left metro city for them just to spend time with them but I still misses my father’s warmth who rarely talks to me despite being in the same home …your last 5-10 mins video has made me cry . God bless you .. I will make sure I treat my kids in a better way than my father treated me
Sir
Dil Jeet liya🙏🙏
I m 41 years old and very lucky, my parents always ask what they can do for me.
This is true. My best friend's parents are just like this - talk very nicely to him always. And they have a strong and healthy relationship amongst them.
I have seen the kind of conversation they have amongst them, which is enriching and healthy and not like bitter preaching or mundane things as you mentioned.
Great work sir!
Shi kha apne. Vaise to Mai mere baccho se bhot krib hu . Fir bhi
Mai mere adult children se baat krne me , vyvhar me aur accha change laungi.
Thank you
Spot on.... Thanks for a great parenting advice....
Excellent sir ... I am speechless... Thanks for reintroducing a parent to herself
I m sending this to my father 🤣
Such a wonderful video...thank you so much.
गुरु जी नमस्ते, बहुत बहुत आभार इस वीडियो के लिए
Profound. Thanks!
I feel so blessed to be born to the type of ideal parents you just described.. great video..
Wish I could show this to my own parents..
Same here... All they need is Seva
An eye opening video, दिल से शुक्रिया🍎
O my God!
So so heart touching video.
Agar sabhi parents ye sab follow kar le to hamara apne bachchon se rishta to gehra hoga hi, parivaar me hamesha mithas bani rahegi.bahut hi gehari baat kahi hai sir aapne.
One more thing,aapke videos chahe kitne bade ho magar lagta hai aapko aur sunte rahe.
Sir, aapki baaton gyaan ka ek ek word itna awesome, relatable and solutions se bhara hota hai ke kitni bhi lambi video ho ek second ke liye bhi mind divert nahi hota hai. Thank you so much for making this video. Much needed.
My parents never went behind my sister and me with instructions. Rather they chose to say once and then let us learn through their actions!
Now as an adult I am proud of how we turned up. I myself go and call my parents every single day.. and we talk sweetly for 2-3 and sometimes even 30 min if we have a topic. No lame talks. No faltu ki guidance 😊
16..min...Anmol Gyan...got tears in my eyes....Sir heartfelt thanks to you...🙏🙏🙏
I don't know why i cried listening to this 😅
Me also
Me too
Sir you r an eye opener...
True .. completely follow it.
You are exactly talking about my father, aapki video dekh ke meri Dil ki Bhadaasss nikal gayi 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for showing the right way...guruji
Simply Mind Blowing!!
Sir you are too much practical...koi mane ya na mane par apki baat mein dam hai✌️
Sir, your kids are so lucky ,aap jaise parent sabko mil jaayen to desh hi khushaal ho jaaye ,cool gaye 🙏
Probably, one of your best videos if not the best. Thank you for making this video. A lot of depth. High level stuff but everyone can relate and easily do.
Extremely thank you
Another awesome video...gem 💎💎💎. Thank you
The definition of parenting is unconditional love which you have elaborated beautifully!! The only real deal without any fine prints or hidden clauses!!
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I am thankful to have a parent like sir is explaining,🙏🙏
Pranam guruji. This is the best video I have come across ever. Thank you for opening our eyes
Aap ne tho meri aakhen he khol de thanku very much
Thnkx
Yes, I do this... what can I do for you, not for any reason, just i feel joy ...in giving...to my son...and he says u r doing so much more than i need n he feels n says that I want to do something for you...u r absolutely right...jahaj ke panchhi...pranam.
Beautiful, deep and reflective ❤
Thank you for making this videos.
We all claim to know everything as parents but in reality we have no clue.. God bless you!
🙏🙏sir aap bahut saare logon ki achi class le rhe ho, thank you so much for wisdom. keep up the good work.
Much relieved 😌!
Ultimate, sir. No words for the talk.
Very apt Sangwan Sahab
We all are products of our upbringing & are often very rigid in our actions . But a child brings a huge change in the way we think & behave . We should keep the emotions that we feel when we are with them , alive ! We are supposed to be nurturers and providers and we should never forget that ! Be there , be theirs .. that’s always been my funda 😊 And yes you have tugged at the right strings again Amit ji !
My parents are so positive. And they always ask me what you want I'm so blessed.
Thanks a lot for this post Sir.
Thank you. Reality of life.
Thanks for your priceless knowledge shared with us for good parenting ❤️
Love you Sir, Thank you so much...
Superb no words to express
Thanks a lot for your words sir, that was a generation tip for every parent. 🙏
OMG....
So Brilliant So Powerful....
Perfectly Eyes Opening Words
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You are great sir
I totally agree with you
So true ....so true....
Great guruji maan gye aapko ,, real guru ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Every video feels like somebody putting words to my thoughts !!
Thank you Sir for bringing so honest and real and talk about something which is so obvious but is not talked about and hence kids become bitter !!
Thankyou sir🙏
Great video sir thank you
Wonderful video and content. Thank you🙏🙏
All videos are always insightful..
My one of favorite videos of you....👏👏👏👏
Masterpiece👌.Amazing video Amitji
Excellent observation
Very well said
Thanks for bringing back my child 's childhood back....
Words of gold, given for free!
Best video I have ever seen.... cleared my mind which was so much sceptical.thank you so much sir
Kya khub very true & real life we r Experience In our life pranam
Omg....amazing and bang on
Guruji aap mahan ho 🙏
All videos are so true sir 👍