VLOG: what I eat in a day ( deep chats on loneliness + re-designing my apartment )

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    Hey friends and welcome🌞 to this vlog + what I eat in a day! It always makes me happy to film these, I get to be my weirdo self, have deep chats and cook✨ I appreciate your support more than you know. And if you struggle with loneliness, I see you, I feel you and I hope you learn to tap into the divine energy around you💛
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Komentáře • 78

  • @juliaayers111
    @juliaayers111  Před měsícem +1

    If you like deeper conversations listen to my podcast! 🌸 www.youtube.com/@dualityoflifepodcast/videos

  • @x_ivaa
    @x_ivaa Před měsícem +15

    "the desire to have alone time but when i'm alone i feel lonely". i really feel that with u julia.

    • @tammycockerham7122
      @tammycockerham7122 Před měsícem +2

      I’ve been alone for years be happy in yourself…. If your relationship is a healthy one … it’s good to have someone alone time

  • @sascha.k90
    @sascha.k90 Před měsícem +17

    ...and then the man comes home, sits on the couch, looks directly at a wall and just asks himself why?😅😂 You're so funny,cute and authentic 😊 thanks for being yourself 🌻☀️

  • @IIrisIsland
    @IIrisIsland Před měsícem +11

    Julia- There is a beauty in learning how to be alone. You are WHOLE without anyone or anything else. There is of course a comfort in community ❤, and we find peace in our partners ( when they are meant for us) but true beauty lies in loving yourself. Please continue to have as many experiences in life as YOU choose- I am sure you have learned so much about yourself as you have traveled through life and that's how it should be. Without all of your past experiences.... you wouldn't know yourself as well as you do. You wouldn't know what your boundaries are if they have never been crossed.
    Whoever is judging you- for lack of a better word, F them.

  • @thegreengoddess8850
    @thegreengoddess8850 Před měsícem +6

    I disagree with your thoughts on loneliness. I have had partners in the same room all the time and have been lonely so it has nothing to do with a person there or not.
    I advise you to get hobbies and do things you are proud of that take up your time. When you are alone, it feels so nice to have time to think and not have to think about or cater to others. When you do things for yourself and enjoy yourself and who you created, you will never feel lonely. I am turning 52 in May and have just learned to prioritize myself in the last 6 years or so, my own needs and create the life I want, have my own goals to achieve and in my case I was easily distracted by other people’s goals or whatever. Now, I am the priority and have no time for others. I am too busy making up for lost time and men are mostly a distraction.
    A while back you were talking about wanting your own homestead or place of your own. You should focus on that and accomplish your goals. Time flies and if you spend your money and time doing other things, you may find that you never achieve what was important to you.

  • @feliciabourque
    @feliciabourque Před měsícem +10

    Watching her move the couch was giving me friends vibes. Please tell me at least one person knows what I'm talking about.

  • @haleyshea8068
    @haleyshea8068 Před měsícem +9

    I think it's so normal to feel afraid of being alone! To counter the people saying you "are constantly in relationships" you are also ending them if they feel wrong! That's the self confidence that will only build as you age. Don't sweat it, just follow your heart.

  • @clairebear1318
    @clairebear1318 Před měsícem +5

    YOU ARE WORHTY AND LOVEABLE AND ENOUGH my sweet girly. :)

  • @Kleigh8484
    @Kleigh8484 Před měsícem +6

    Humans' number one need is connection and without it, we can feel all the physical and emotional sensations of loneliness. This is different from being "alone" as social connection is only one aspect of this need... it is connection in a more general sense... with others, yourself, the world around you, the universe. Each of those elements is hugely important. We have an inner healing intelligence where we have everything we need inside of us to heal exactly what we need to heal at any point in time... if we listen to it, stay present, and go within. You are doing amazing at this. It just takes time. Move towards that loneliness and listen to what it is teaching you and guiding you towards. You have so many people in awe of your vulnerability, authenticity and capacity to shine brightness even amongst your times of shadow. Hold on to that x

    • @juliaayers111
      @juliaayers111  Před měsícem +1

      Wow thank you so much for these kind words, I felt so much love and wisdom form this💛

  • @bethwaldren3303
    @bethwaldren3303 Před měsícem +7

    What about setting up your yoga space where you put the couch??

  • @GlitterySawa
    @GlitterySawa Před měsícem +5

    I struggle with being alone. Your videos always cheer me up and i am always excited for them and i am always happy when i see a New Duality of Life Episode. I would be super excited to do Yoga, i'm a beginner but building confidence watching a youtuber i'm familiar would be good.

  • @anarodrigueztabares2093
    @anarodrigueztabares2093 Před měsícem +2

    I love how easy it comes to your mind the different food combinations of your meals, thanks for your content, you make me happy

    • @juliaayers111
      @juliaayers111  Před měsícem

      So grateful to share! Thank you for your support💛😋

  • @carolynshane295
    @carolynshane295 Před měsícem +1

    Thank you for speaking on loneliness. I have been feeling lonely for many years now, to be honest, even while making acquaintances with others over time. Its comforting to know I’m not the only one. So I’m not alone after all lol 🙏🏻

  • @littleangels85
    @littleangels85 Před měsícem +1

    I couldn't imagine traveling around the world alone. You're so strong and brave ❤

  • @elluc1510
    @elluc1510 Před měsícem +3

    In my 20s ididnt want to be lonely and I ended up with bad choices I had no luck 😅 but what I want to say is have patience is the KEY ❤you deserve only the best❤

  • @user-mf1il2jg6n
    @user-mf1il2jg6n Před 3 dny +1

    Sending love and light from USA💫💕🤙🏾🌎

  • @GishGetsFit
    @GishGetsFit Před měsícem

    I find so much value in being able to be alone. Being alone with our thoughts is not always easy. Just taking time to reset and just be, is really beneficial to me.

  • @Lexdala
    @Lexdala Před měsícem +1

    You are the kindest young woman ik on whole of social Media. Dont let bad people get to you. NOBODY is "perfect", at the end we we r all human and thats PERFECT. Stay as you are love, as long as you can make yourself happy- thats all what matters❤

  • @emmanorrbyandersson699
    @emmanorrbyandersson699 Před měsícem +1

    Wow this brought me on a roller coaster! Stressed when you were hungry and started cleaning the fridge instead of eating hahah, cried with you when you read your thoughts, laughed so hard when you rearranged your furniture. I think this video really aligned with me today. Thank you!

    • @juliaayers111
      @juliaayers111  Před měsícem

      Awwwe!! so grateful to connect with you through my video 💛🌸🙈

  • @kaitlynngutierrez310
    @kaitlynngutierrez310 Před měsícem +1

    Oh sister, I love you much. Thank you for walking this path being the authentic version that you light. 💗

    • @juliaayers111
      @juliaayers111  Před měsícem

      This is the sweetest🥹 Thank you so much for your love, I truly appreciate it💛

  • @SaraB422
    @SaraB422 Před měsícem +1

    Sending you so much love and big hugs Julia! You are so strong, thank you for being you and sharing yourself with us. 💗🙏

  • @merlecle5638
    @merlecle5638 Před měsícem

    You spread such a good energy 🌞

  • @nyahschulte8041
    @nyahschulte8041 Před měsícem +1

    Omg I didn’t expect to cry at work today! This is exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you for sharing your experience! I relate so much right now❤️❤️

  • @zoharreshef7659
    @zoharreshef7659 Před měsícem +1

    Julia you are so wonderful 🌸 Thank you for being so honest and bringing such authenticity and vulnerability to this space. It is much needed and appreciated ❤

    • @juliaayers111
      @juliaayers111  Před měsícem

      Awe thank you for your kindness💛 I’m so grateful I get to share and every time I do it lights up my soul ✨

  • @shernellwillingham2451
    @shernellwillingham2451 Před měsícem

    Just got this book!!!! Thanks for the recommendation 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @estefaniaalvarado4367
    @estefaniaalvarado4367 Před měsícem

    I just wanted to say that you look so happy your vibe seems more paacefull Love that for you!❤

  • @rebelle5196
    @rebelle5196 Před měsícem +1

    love you so very much!!!!!

  • @mastandstars5869
    @mastandstars5869 Před měsícem +1

    You’re a beautiful soul.
    Sending love from the States 🥰

  • @rebeccadomogala1934
    @rebeccadomogala1934 Před 25 dny

    I really enjoyed this video, and your authenticity ❤ thank you

  • @snoopy.358
    @snoopy.358 Před měsícem +1

    You are a beautiful soul
    Sending Love🧡

  • @emiliaowen2387
    @emiliaowen2387 Před měsícem +3

    Im not vegan but i love trying vegan recipes and love tofu! I've tried many of ur recipes and love them!! keep it up girl!! i know youtube is hard but it makes a difference on some peoples lives! lova ya!

    • @kecrn4132
      @kecrn4132 Před měsícem +1

      Totally agree!! I’m only vegetarian, so not vegan either but her food is incredible!!

    • @annaburke8537
      @annaburke8537 Před měsícem +1

      I'm not quite vegan either but love her food so much!

  • @talia3134
    @talia3134 Před měsícem

    I love a furniture rearrange, put the couch where the two rattan chairs are, put the chairs in the nook so yoga in front of the couch.

  • @Julxx3115
    @Julxx3115 Před měsícem

    At 17:35, you reminded me of Lorelai Gilmore so much 😂🤌🏼 it was so cute!

  • @luisafernandasalcedorojas9720

    I love the videos and recipes... ❤❤❤ Te envío mucho amor eres una persona que se muestra como es y eso es muy admirable en estos tiempos... No te abrumes.. Te envío mucho cariño desde lejos un abrazo 😊😊😊

  • @claireleonie9360
    @claireleonie9360 Před měsícem

    Thank you for your words today julia ❤

  • @mazemary8360
    @mazemary8360 Před měsícem

    I have to try that sesame tofu, it looks amazing!

  • @debbiecs1964
    @debbiecs1964 Před měsícem

    Ok seriously that sandwich looks good. The concoction for the tofu is something I need to try.

    • @juliaayers111
      @juliaayers111  Před měsícem

      It was so delicious!! You have to make one ✨👏🏻💛

  • @graceboer588
    @graceboer588 Před měsícem +1

    Such a cool person! Would love to meet you sss I've watched your blogs since iPhone days lol. From cape town❤

    • @Lena.Sanftmut
      @Lena.Sanftmut Před měsícem

      yesss me too! Iphone days in a very cute, small apartment (with mice) :))

  • @vanamarkarian
    @vanamarkarian Před měsícem +1

    I appreciate & absolutely love how ur honest and real with us showing us that we’re all the same and we all feel lonely sometimes… & thank u for opening up with us and sharing ur journal… truly love u & ur content…🥰🥰🥰

  • @aminahadzic678
    @aminahadzic678 Před měsícem

    How about putting these two chairs where the couch is at the end, and bring back couch where the two chairs are 😂🤷🏼‍♀️
    Hope u have a great day and many coming friendlylike videos 😘
    Sending Love from 🇧🇦

  • @thepickyvegan
    @thepickyvegan Před měsícem

    Julia when she’s in a silly goofy mood is this video and I’m here for it

    • @juliaayers111
      @juliaayers111  Před měsícem +1

      Hahahha thank youuu! My silly goofy mood is a side of myself I love 💁🏻‍♀️✨💛

    • @thepickyvegan
      @thepickyvegan Před 29 dny

      @@juliaayers111 we love it too!

  • @courtney7108
    @courtney7108 Před měsícem

    Cut to you with the couch half way up the wall 😂😂😂 I laughed out loud

  • @annitastic
    @annitastic Před měsícem

    Julia, you are such a Sweetheart 💜! I am not subscribed to your channel for a long time, but I am happy I have found it and I like to watch your videos. I am interested in Yoga (but I think I have mentioned it before under another video) and I also like the idea not to film every yoga video outside in "beautiful nature" because that always puts a bit of frustration to my heart, because I live in a big city and have not much green around me. I live on my own for almost 18 years and I am also single for more than 15 years. Because of severe traumatization I cannot be in a relationship (for the time beeing?). So yes, I am lonely sometimes. But I learn to be my best friend and partner - that lasts for the whole life! And yes, sometimes crying is a relief 😿. Love the idea of the small tofu cubes covered with sesame seeds baked in the oven! Have to try it soon 🤗. Sending love from Germany 🥰.

  • @DevBhardwaj-bn7fx
    @DevBhardwaj-bn7fx Před měsícem

    Hii

  • @user-vn6xo2tc9r
    @user-vn6xo2tc9r Před měsícem

    I feel sooo seen!! 😍😭😭 my husband always asks me why I need to rearrange the house when I’m not feeling the best and I’m like ummm idk but how do you think the couch will look in here? 🤣🤣

    • @juliaayers111
      @juliaayers111  Před měsícem +1

      Hahahahha YES sometimes change is so refreshing 💛✨

  • @GishGetsFit
    @GishGetsFit Před měsícem

    My husband opens an orange with his teeth and it makes me physically ill to watch 😂

  • @danamoon311
    @danamoon311 Před měsícem +1

    I'm reading UNTETHERED SOUL for the 2nd time right 💯

  • @stephaniehartlyn209
    @stephaniehartlyn209 Před měsícem

    Laughing out loud. I do the same thing.

  • @luanora111
    @luanora111 Před měsícem

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    @marileigh9913 Před měsícem

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  • @lermauddechevailJohnson
    @lermauddechevailJohnson Před měsícem

    💚🙏🏾

  • @kashifkhawaja3205
    @kashifkhawaja3205 Před měsícem

    Thank you so much for sharing this great informative video. You are a very special very talented very cute very pretty very sweet stunningly beautiful innocent face God's given gorgeous woman and your all tips, ideas and skills are outstanding. Your all videos and vlogs are amazing and unique just like you. I'm so impressed and completely fascinated by your God-given extraordinary mesmerising personality. You are so special so talented so pure so original so precious, You are number one, You are the bestst among all the best, I'M wishing you alot of success and smiles in all the walks of your life, May God bless you with the best because you are the bestst among all the best, May God fulfill your all desires and wishes and Keep you smiling and healthy always,Stay blessed ❤❤❤🎉🎉😊

  • @user-gv2ru2hj4e
    @user-gv2ru2hj4e Před měsícem

    (Botho Lesoeu)Howold are you girl.

  • @debbiecs1964
    @debbiecs1964 Před měsícem

    Community is important. God created us to not be alone as He said when He created Adam then created Eve, see Genesis story. It’s not necessarily a partner but friendship like David and Jonathan, a community in God’s family.

  • @user-hz1yf4ih3y
    @user-hz1yf4ih3y Před měsícem

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