Derrick Jaxn Cheating: Wife, Da'Naia Jackson Responds

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  • čas přidán 28. 08. 2024
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    Chile, relationship guru, knight in shinning armor, Mr. Perfect himself, Derrick Jaxn has found himself in a pickle. Sh!t done hit the fan, and come to find out, Derrick Jaxn had been cheating on his wife. While he was out here dishing out advice, and sh!ttin' on the fellas who cheat, low and behold, he was one of them.
    The kicker is, Derrick has somehow pulled a Jedi mind trick and has gotten his wife, Da'Naia Jacskon on bored with his pr attempt to rebound, in the name of the lord. For the longest while, the general public had no earthly idea who the wife was. Come to find out, she's some religious fanatic that has all of us feeling like she'd been kidnapped and is being held hostage, in the name of Jesus. Something just isn't right about this entire situation.
    Let's discuss...
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  • @andagain21
    @andagain21 Před 3 lety +1542

    1. She's cute
    2. She'll learn.
    3. He didn't cheat because she doesn't walk around the house instagram-ready all the damn time! He cheated because he's a cheater.

    • @celly9719
      @celly9719 Před 3 lety +56

      This. Right. Here.

    • @alisayoung
      @alisayoung Před 3 lety +27

      Amen. Amen. Amen.

    • @anm3744
      @anm3744 Před 3 lety +70

      Thank you !!!!!! If Saweetie got cheated on also, then I don’t see where looks fit into it. He cheated because HE WANTED TO!!! It’s that simple. 🙅🏾‍♀️

    • @DC-ps1xf
      @DC-ps1xf Před 3 lety +20

      Men are going to do what they want. But you have to give him something to look at.... she walking around with her hair sticking up all day thats not cool fix yourself up. If not for him for her I promise she would feel better about herself.

    • @shandtelheyward8784
      @shandtelheyward8784 Před 3 lety +2

      That Dang part

  • @symayad
    @symayad Před 3 lety +1061

    A women's looks have never prevented a cheater from cheating.

    • @tangotea7192
      @tangotea7192 Před 3 lety +50

      Facts. Cheaters love cheating. It's fun and turns them on. Yet it not funny when you drop them. It's like they get a high cheating.

    • @candib7167
      @candib7167 Před 3 lety +52

      Agreed u can be the most beautiful and they will still cheat

    • @mariascreven1433
      @mariascreven1433 Před 3 lety +16

      Now that is the TRUTH!!!

    • @alisayoung
      @alisayoung Před 3 lety +88

      Ask halle berry, ask beyonce, ask saweetie, ask cardi b, ask porsha williams, ask Jennifer Lopez. They all are born instagram ready... And none are exempt from cheating. So ladies... We need to look how we are comfortable looking. We need to look gorgeous for ourselves, because it damned sure ain't "cheating protection". Looking good, tho, is cheating insurance. To make sure you can move on effortlessly.

    • @shandtelheyward8784
      @shandtelheyward8784 Před 3 lety +2

      🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

  • @poeticallycorrect1676
    @poeticallycorrect1676 Před 3 lety +3643

    Nobody is more grateful for Derrick Jaxn right now than Kirk Franklin!

    • @olympiabee
      @olympiabee Před 3 lety +500

      😂😂😂😂😂He’s an on time God. Yes He is.

    • @texaslady93761
      @texaslady93761 Před 3 lety +34

      😂😂😂

    • @LadeOla
      @LadeOla Před 3 lety +163

      Won't he do it, yaaaas God🙌🏾

    • @JuicyT68
      @JuicyT68 Před 3 lety +33

      😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Ms_Motown
      @Ms_Motown Před 3 lety +14

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @christinamills1170
    @christinamills1170 Před 3 lety +386

    She is not ugly. She has lost her spark. An unhealthy situation will have you just thinking about your problems, it’s hard to get out of your head sometimes.

    • @terrilee734
      @terrilee734 Před 3 lety +16

      So true. Been there

    • @denisegriffin4343
      @denisegriffin4343 Před 3 lety +8

      I would use this opportunity to shine...he did. He didn't cheat with one woman but multiple women as much as it hurts Move On...Start over...no worries you'll get alimony and so on and so forth...You have choices

    • @elmorab.2921
      @elmorab.2921 Před 3 lety +4

      Right she is pretty naturally. But his read is taking me TF out!

    • @vickiesanders5610
      @vickiesanders5610 Před rokem

      Yeah ok

  • @MsDrobertson522
    @MsDrobertson522 Před 3 lety +1799

    Derrick is lowkey somewhere in his car watching this video 😂😂

  • @capricorn8818
    @capricorn8818 Před 3 lety +806

    He didn't want her to dress up because he don't want a real man to jump in her dm's... He knew what he was doing.

  • @twill612
    @twill612 Před 3 lety +895

    He had the audacity to be sitting outside of one his mistresses houses 🏠 while making some of these videos too. Whew Chile! He is a complete fraud.

  • @meliiajikal
    @meliiajikal Před 3 lety +312

    I can't be the only one who does not find him attractive.

    • @karenscales5077
      @karenscales5077 Před 3 lety +23

      I don't. Never have.

    • @bwell6941
      @bwell6941 Před 3 lety +20

      🙋🏽‍♀️...not in the least

    • @laterriab
      @laterriab Před 3 lety +15

      Nope he looks slow 🤷🏽‍♀️ he’s throw back pictures he definitely wasn’t about nothing.

    • @EclecticElegance13
      @EclecticElegance13 Před 3 lety +22

      Nope!! I never did. I always felt like he was a fraud and that he was peddling BS. I’m not into that overly buff, hyper masculine look. He’s weird. I’ve always thought he was too.

    • @adoshebrewess5560
      @adoshebrewess5560 Před 3 lety +20

      Hes cute from the neck down

  • @AshaL2377L
    @AshaL2377L Před 3 lety +520

    That lady looked depressed. People saying “I understand why he did it” is perhaps the worst thing to say.

    • @Moonewitch
      @Moonewitch Před 3 lety +2

      💯💯💯💯💯

    • @deshaunx776
      @deshaunx776 Před 3 lety +5

      She looked depressed, but did you listen to her response video? Seems like that’s just how she always is.

    • @turquoiseasmrsky7716
      @turquoiseasmrsky7716 Před 3 lety +13

      @@deshaunx776 she been with him since they was super young. So she had been putting with his stuff willingly for years.

    • @chamiltonmgb
      @chamiltonmgb Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you

    • @mybelle6665
      @mybelle6665 Před 3 lety +13

      He has broken her down, and it's showing physically on her. Her I.G also has pics of her looking really glam and she looks like a totally different person. What she is displaying is a broken spirit.

  • @smilealwaysnatasha3423
    @smilealwaysnatasha3423 Před 3 lety +749

    And plenty of “bad bitches” get cheated on. Beyonce, Halle, J Lo, Cardi B,..... looks will not keep a man from cheating. He cheats because he feel he can and because he want to.

  • @de_q_de
    @de_q_de Před 3 lety +1173

    Funky, those the kind of wives they want. The ones who aren’t that “bad bitch” type so they can control and manipulate them. Meanwhile, they messing with other women.

    • @kimames3347
      @kimames3347 Před 3 lety +15

      💯

    • @19GENESE13
      @19GENESE13 Před 3 lety +83

      He was dogging out & manipulating the "bad bitches" with her same mindset too. Any woman who came to him with a bleeding heart was vulnerable and he used that to his advantage.

    • @6wardtate
      @6wardtate Před 3 lety +37

      imo his wife is a good looking female....next, all his side bitches are bad bitches that he control and manipulate lol......what the hell are you talking about smdh...

    • @de_q_de
      @de_q_de Před 3 lety +40

      @@6wardtate his side chicks aren’t the ones making videos trying to do damage control for him. I know a narcissist when I see one 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @sippingsocialite9494
      @sippingsocialite9494 Před 3 lety +6

      @@6wardtate she's talking about the actual story that is out there and not the one in your mind that has proven that his wife is being controlled and manipulated by him. If everyone can see this but you can't than just step up your discernment and assess your inability to read people so you can understand what Manipulation look like because you don't know what the hell you're talking about...FOCUS.

  • @Wall0fCatz
    @Wall0fCatz Před 3 lety +220

    She’s not unattractive she just don’t care anymore

    • @deshaunx776
      @deshaunx776 Před 3 lety +17

      Look at her older pics. Did she ever care?

    • @rubysbaby822
      @rubysbaby822 Před 3 lety +6

      DeshaunX once in a blue moon she looked decent. These people are exaggerating.

    • @Quietstorm51188
      @Quietstorm51188 Před 3 lety +6

      @@deshaunx776 😂😂😂!! Why did u throw the whole damn shady tree at her🥴🤣🥲😅

    • @ticrowell1080
      @ticrowell1080 Před 3 lety

      This part.

    • @meeksluv
      @meeksluv Před 3 lety +1

      And thats SAD!! Always care about yourself.

  • @ICHOOSERIGHTEOUSNESS
    @ICHOOSERIGHTEOUSNESS Před 3 lety +542

    A man’s wife is a reflection of him. If the wife is not shining it shows a lot about what type of man he is...

  • @bvcking1965
    @bvcking1965 Před 3 lety +407

    She is broken and being married to a narcissist isn’t helping

    • @SouthFlaCutie
      @SouthFlaCutie Před 3 lety +25

      I dated one and if it wasn’t for a really good friend, I would’ve lost my darn mind. That man wore me down mentally with the Jedi mind tricks, so I know what his wife is going through. She needs to get away from him....

    • @jordanjackson3817
      @jordanjackson3817 Před 3 lety +23

      Unfortunately, Being married to a narcissist is probably what broke the poor woman.

    • @tifipaul5686
      @tifipaul5686 Před 3 lety +4

      🎯

    • @jeannettesneed
      @jeannettesneed Před 3 lety +3

      That's who 'THEY' go for .

    • @bwell6941
      @bwell6941 Před 3 lety +8

      codependency is a hell of a drug...

  • @MedusaShowOFF
    @MedusaShowOFF Před 3 lety +491

    Its giving " i got you pregnant, so lets get married cause its the right thing to do".

    • @kathyrodriguez820
      @kathyrodriguez820 Před 3 lety +43

      You can tell he's not attracted to her.

    • @crystalcapricorn3177
      @crystalcapricorn3177 Před 3 lety +8

      🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @skylarblue6725
      @skylarblue6725 Před 3 lety +42

      They are not compatible physically, emotionally or mentally. We are all shook 😳

    • @trackgrad08
      @trackgrad08 Před 3 lety +17

      They been together since high school.

    • @itsmevivi_
      @itsmevivi_ Před 3 lety +9

      @@trackgrad08 IDK...in a post she says that they've KNOWN each other for 12yrs (I believe they've only been married since 2018), 12yrs ago would put Derrick at 19 when they met...not sure how old she was though.

  • @keesa5650
    @keesa5650 Před 3 lety +51

    There’s a strong message in this: Never look to a man to seek answer, the problem and the solution is always in the same room...

  • @LadieBelle
    @LadieBelle Před 3 lety +1345

    I clicked faster than Derrick Jaxn moving over to pander to the black Christians!

    • @JsoloMakeup
      @JsoloMakeup Před 3 lety +15

      Facts!!!

    • @PhillyMiMi215
      @PhillyMiMi215 Před 3 lety +17

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @ClowneryAtItsFinest
      @ClowneryAtItsFinest Před 3 lety +47

      U ain’t sh!t for for typing this comment 😂 I’m over here cracking up laughing 😆 so I guess we both ain’t sh!t then🤣!

    • @zainabinti5170
      @zainabinti5170 Před 3 lety +6

      😅🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣.

    • @lamarx1271
      @lamarx1271 Před 3 lety +4

      *hurt heauxs

  • @plantbasedunicorn7995
    @plantbasedunicorn7995 Před 3 lety +436

    Her looking like she did, worked just how he wanted it to. Blame the woman for getting cheated on. A cheater is a cheater. You can’t make him not cheat. You can stay or leave 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @charlieb1976
      @charlieb1976 Před 3 lety +31

      Right. Even the comments are focusing more on her.

    • @afrochick0817
      @afrochick0817 Před 3 lety +27

      Right! Blame the wife for the husband’s bad behavior. Im tired!

    • @KeepinUpWitSash
      @KeepinUpWitSash Před 3 lety +8

      It was definitely on purpose! She was supposed to look all homely like so we’d feel sorry for her

    • @ebonyr.b.1216
      @ebonyr.b.1216 Před 3 lety +4

      Definitely his idea. I mean ...

    • @lalixlili
      @lalixlili Před 3 lety +14

      The society hypocrisy. The fact people focus on her bonnet and stud appearance point out how people are disgusting. Dineva looked like a crack head on camera for years and I didn't see people trashing him down like that. People supported his way back to sobriety and healthy lifestyle. The wife is going through something tough. Showing some compassion is always nice. She said she wanted to transition at one point and she turned to God, her choice.

  • @peaceminded5512
    @peaceminded5512 Před 3 lety +447

    She has 2 kids by him and invested 14 years. I think she’s in the middle of a nervous breakdown and it makes me more mad that he is parading her in front of the cameras looking like what he put her through! She needs therapy and a fu#& em makeover.

    • @karenscales5077
      @karenscales5077 Před 3 lety +21

      Girl, let me tell you something. I dealt with this for 6 months in my marriage. I was on the verge of a nervous breakdown. So, she has had the nervous breakdown. I will never return to that place. They say never say never. Baby, never will I take back a cheater. It's been over 35 years since that happened. I have yet to stay with a cheater. That I knew of. I dont see how she is doing it. I say the cushioned lifestyle is keeping her there. She may not look wealthy. But, she is.

    • @deborahblair312
      @deborahblair312 Před 3 lety +6

      @@karenscales5077 I’ve been there too after 20 years and yes you have to look to you...

    • @user-gx5hf2fn9j
      @user-gx5hf2fn9j Před 3 lety +28

      That actually happened to my mother with my father. They were married no more than 6 years and she had two nervous breakdowns and a year later she was dead. My mother wasn’t lukewarm in the ground and he moved his mistress right in my mothers house. I’m telling you some of these men are something else!!

    • @thetransparentjerseygirl
      @thetransparentjerseygirl Před 3 lety +13

      @@karenscales5077 because he is going to use this all against her.. .im sure he will divorce her and use all these videos she making and her ig post against her to take those kids away not because he wants them but to finally destroy her!!!! (Narcissist)

    • @cocoa_bean_queen
      @cocoa_bean_queen Před 3 lety +5

      You are preaching this good day! Say it louder for folks in the back! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @cheyc2270
    @cheyc2270 Před 3 lety +92

    What I find more heartbreaking than anything is the fact that so many people criticized the wife who was hurt by all of this instead of the individual who inflicted the pain. His wife deserved so better from all sides of this unfortunate situation.

    • @miacarter8097
      @miacarter8097 Před 3 lety +4

      Exactly. I though that was cruel. Derrick is the jackass here

    • @kyaunam
      @kyaunam Před 3 lety +2

      Preach

    • @joanieblackman7128
      @joanieblackman7128 Před rokem

      So people are but god knows the true you have women ho like Dirk all the women knows he married and the jealous women want hem and want hes wife lost her maind that can of men are weak and selfish and jealous women love to help distrio hes marriage and he go for it.

  • @msdaryllgirl
    @msdaryllgirl Před 3 lety +150

    I never found him attractive and he's even less attractive now!

  • @cardion411
    @cardion411 Před 3 lety +136

    "It is the same group of women that will call into Kevin Samuels...knowing he will berate you." THAT PART!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @cola9145
    @cola9145 Před 3 lety +212

    I think that's why he let her go on there looking like that so people could say "no wonder why he cheated".

    • @MConze
      @MConze Před 3 lety +12

      Exactly!

    • @benai14
      @benai14 Před 3 lety +25

      And that’s exactly what’s happening! Much more about what’s wrong with her than holding his trash ass character and behavior accountable.

    • @northfloridatrans
      @northfloridatrans Před 3 lety +6

      Good point

    • @andreaedwards6011
      @andreaedwards6011 Před 3 lety +5

      That Part!!!

    • @TheRenegadeStarr
      @TheRenegadeStarr Před 3 lety +13

      And it’s scary people think like that to justify it

  • @snicole1022
    @snicole1022 Před 3 lety +49

    His latest mistress said he tries to break women down with his words. He definitely broke his wife. She presents herself as a classic victim of a narcissistic.

    • @kevagardner4659
      @kevagardner4659 Před rokem

      Yesssss! I truly pray that this women, is rescued and given all, that she needs to endure this season. His timing could not be worse, per the holidays....and with her children!! This dude, is a walking demonic spirit, and he will answer to the most high! I pray for this women, and hope that she can heal from the mistreatment, because NPD, is a real issue to overcome!!

    • @nicolegilbert6339
      @nicolegilbert6339 Před rokem

      Agreed

  • @keykey0905
    @keykey0905 Před 3 lety +689

    This lady is probably severely depressed. Shouldn't we show her some grace? He is the one did her wrong. It's a pain I wouldn't wish on anyone. Praying for her, not him!

    • @bkbabemg
      @bkbabemg Před 3 lety +17

      We gotta pray for both of them cus they need it

    • @shesnotsleeping6404
      @shesnotsleeping6404 Před 3 lety +40

      Grace is for those who keeps their asses off social media. When you keep posting videos you are asking for the public to respond.

    • @taiahguess3342
      @taiahguess3342 Před 3 lety +25

      She a lil crazy check ur Instagram she admitted to being assaulted and alludes to more traumatic experiences she uses religion to escape and justify her pain she’s dangerous she’s talked about having thoughts of murder

    • @dionnesmith7489
      @dionnesmith7489 Před 3 lety

      @@taiahguess3342 what’s her IG

    • @heathertea2704
      @heathertea2704 Před 3 lety +13

      @@taiahguess3342 yes.
      WORRIED for the children & hope noone is Physcially harmed behind this.😬

  • @natishaplummer7019
    @natishaplummer7019 Před 3 lety +247

    I feel bad for the wife but she needs to take her husband's advice and leave. He ain't changing.

    • @sorenadix6411
      @sorenadix6411 Před 3 lety +8

      Say it loud, for the people in the back!

    • @phillyjawn8559
      @phillyjawn8559 Před 3 lety +2

      That's a word!

    • @lizm1597
      @lizm1597 Před 3 lety +2

      Agreed, the surgeon sd he was just with Mar 18th.

    • @amab1853
      @amab1853 Před 3 lety

      @@lizm1597 exactly. I was shocked how recent she said it was

    • @KINGDOMDAUGHTER
      @KINGDOMDAUGHTER Před 3 lety

      She best heed, for we shall know them by their fruit
      And this fool telling her the truth, leave, better yet run run run, blaming God for his infidelities and justifying his actions with all the but for

  • @quaniquaepps-brown6003
    @quaniquaepps-brown6003 Před 3 lety +726

    Lord this situation is messier than a Whopper from Burger King with cheese lol 😂

    • @lakeitawilson
      @lakeitawilson Před 3 lety +59

      Ok and with extra mayo😂

    • @regbrittany1
      @regbrittany1 Před 3 lety +29

      And extra pickle and tomato!

    • @jamaicanjoyh6883
      @jamaicanjoyh6883 Před 3 lety +37

      Slapped together like they don't care💩😛

    • @babytone54
      @babytone54 Před 3 lety +18

      This visual is a beautiful representation! LOL

    • @naturaleyeam
      @naturaleyeam Před 3 lety +29

      Everything just sliding off Chile! 😆

  • @crystalrenae5807
    @crystalrenae5807 Před 3 lety +83

    Yeeeeah...he's not that fine. Actually, he's just not fine. He wasn't fine any day, but it's the bogus fade and the lip bump for me, today.

    • @user-pu7qv2ql3l
      @user-pu7qv2ql3l Před 3 lety +10

      Thank you!!’ Funky is just attractive to him. His wife is attractive, she simply wasn’t put together

    • @truthhurtz8517
      @truthhurtz8517 Před 3 lety +3

      Fine is LL Cool J in that "Headsprung" video....💯💯💯💯

    • @EyeSpyBlackAmor
      @EyeSpyBlackAmor Před 3 lety +2

      Thanks👏🏾 you

    • @gloriagrace2555
      @gloriagrace2555 Před 3 lety +1

      Lord! I can't stop looking at it.

  • @triciag7048
    @triciag7048 Před 3 lety +317

    He doesn’t care about her, just himself and his image.

  • @TanyaSuper23
    @TanyaSuper23 Před 3 lety +228

    This whole situation triggered me because I was a victim of a narcissist and he behaved in the same manner as this man. This lady friends and family need to come together and save this lady. She is BROKEN!!!

    • @KimmiTheOracle
      @KimmiTheOracle Před 3 lety +13

      Same!! I posted a video last night about this situation + my personal experience with a guy I dated in college who made me feel insecure about my entire being smh

    • @cawanamitchell6466
      @cawanamitchell6466 Před 3 lety +2

      Same here I agree

    • @Ash-zf8ir
      @Ash-zf8ir Před 3 lety +4

      Girl, same!!!!! These kind of men are everywhere! She looks like she’s suffering from CPTSD, and that solo video that she put out worries me so much. This kind of abuse can lead to self harm and I’m so worried for her and her children. That post just reeks of her gaslighted.

    • @danispeaksfinances
      @danispeaksfinances Před 3 lety +1

      Girl you and me both! I said the same thing where is her friends and family!

    • @aliciacromer7830
      @aliciacromer7830 Před 3 lety +8

      Same , and what’s crazy is I used to watch his videos to help me get over it . But who better to tell you about a narcissist than a narcissist. She has to get in-tune with herself it will take time . He probably isolated her from a lot of her friends and family they do that to control you .

  • @Omarak12
    @Omarak12 Před 3 lety +201

    “Derrick Jaxn and that No Limit Solider he call a wife”....somebody come get me off this floor!!!!😂😂😂

  • @BreenyLee
    @BreenyLee Před 3 lety +312

    After watching so many videos this is the laugh I needed, you had me rolling! But I have to agree with your sentiments.... the messenger does change the message.

  • @mutedearthvirgo
    @mutedearthvirgo Před 3 lety +202

    You need to go to her page and read her captions. this is literally a traumatized shell of a woman. She has been crying out for help for a Long time. I really encourage us to have some compassion for her.

    • @NutsNBerries
      @NutsNBerries Před 3 lety +1

      What’s her ig

    • @EclecticElegance13
      @EclecticElegance13 Před 3 lety +8

      She is! That video of her in that camo shirt has me concerned. She’s definitely traumatized and has been brainwashed. She needs some help 😕

    • @fabibibine
      @fabibibine Před 3 lety +2

      Don't know why her account isn't private 🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @getreadynow647
      @getreadynow647 Před rokem +1

      Yeah but when people tried to help her she puts curses out there. Some people honestly don't want to be told the truth

  • @blessedc4256
    @blessedc4256 Před 3 lety +245

    I think he had her looking like that so people can think “I see why he cheated”. I also think she looks checked out of reality and life as a whole.

    • @monise727
      @monise727 Před 3 lety +31

      & it’s sad b/c ppl took the bait. Instead of holding him accountable.

    • @cbutler81168
      @cbutler81168 Před 3 lety +2

      Wow! Makes sense!

    • @msbeautyboss3784
      @msbeautyboss3784 Před 3 lety

      Right!

    • @meditationwithatwist6685
      @meditationwithatwist6685 Před 3 lety

      That was my thought as well

    • @ThatDoll25
      @ThatDoll25 Před 3 lety +8

      If you look at her page, she’s quite beautiful. And she could definitely serve “bad bitch” if she wanted to. I think she’s been broken down and is so depressed she doesn’t gaf anymore

  • @starrbabbby
    @starrbabbby Před 3 lety +66

    I said this from the beginning I genuinely feel in my heart he had her looking like that on purpose so people could think no wonder he stepped out 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @ccpitts770
      @ccpitts770 Před rokem

      Very true. I completely agree. Q is right, he should've told her to put more effort into her appearance.

  • @janicecialockridge2895
    @janicecialockridge2895 Před 3 lety +114

    I want him to spend less time on social media and more time getting his wife the proper mental care she needs.

    • @lisawaters231
      @lisawaters231 Před 3 lety +1

      And she needs a makeover

    • @ondreiat6674
      @ondreiat6674 Před 3 lety +7

      @@lisawaters231 she looks how she feels. Once she heals on the inside her outside appearance will change also

    • @pn6528
      @pn6528 Před 3 lety +3

      After he gets the proper mental care he needs orrrr....?

    • @jubilantsleep
      @jubilantsleep Před 3 lety +3

      He doesn’t care about her

    • @lisawaters231
      @lisawaters231 Před 3 lety +1

      @@ondreiat6674 i hope you're right sis

  • @hannahi9355
    @hannahi9355 Před 3 lety +152

    His wife looked irritated. She probably doesn't even give af anymore. Having a trifling husband will do that to you, take the wind out of your sails. ⛵⛵

    • @hpr2008
      @hpr2008 Před 3 lety +13

      Exactly. I can see not getting dressed up as somewhat of a middle finger to him. Like, boy you messed up and are trying to save yourself. I'm not about to go get fine just to sit in front of this camera to help you. lol

    • @BuffyNoir140
      @BuffyNoir140 Před 3 lety +6

      @@hpr2008 She part of con. She mad cuz this fool husband and his britches done messed up the bag !!

    • @lonelyenchantress2172
      @lonelyenchantress2172 Před 3 lety +5

      @@BuffyNoir140 Yep they done fucked up the Church's money..in my Funky Dineva voice!! 😄💵✨

    • @user-gx5hf2fn9j
      @user-gx5hf2fn9j Před 3 lety +1

      Lonely Enchantress2 😂😂😂

  • @niknikky
    @niknikky Před 3 lety +306

    Is it me, or is Derrick just not that fine? I think he's getting points for being darkskin and muscular, but his face is not cute, IMO

    • @cristina-dk4vo
      @cristina-dk4vo Před 3 lety +46

      He's not cute at all🤷🏾‍♀️then he's so smug & arrogant

    • @denieraadams4924
      @denieraadams4924 Před 3 lety +35

      Thank you bc he’s not cute at all.

    • @Htothej20
      @Htothej20 Před 3 lety +28

      Agreed. I think he and his wife are on the same level, she just didn't get to get done up for this and is clearly depressed.

    • @CaliMisfit1921
      @CaliMisfit1921 Před 3 lety +18

      Not just you sis, not just you

    • @peabody215
      @peabody215 Před 3 lety +13

      That word cute gets thrown around to much! Unless I seeing something different with my Dam eyeballs I see nothing cute!

  • @lornagreen8961
    @lornagreen8961 Před 3 lety +36

    Even with the TRUTH he spoke, there was a arrogance about his spirit.. Spirits speak.

  • @JustSheaShea
    @JustSheaShea Před 3 lety +275

    My grandma (est. 1928) would say,
    “Give me enough 💩 and I can build you a man”

    • @ashleywatkins1380
      @ashleywatkins1380 Před 3 lety +46

      Your granny is a real one for that!

    • @sisisgrowing1279
      @sisisgrowing1279 Před 3 lety +34

      @ Shea Williams Girl! I almost choked on my ice. Give your Grandma a big hug for one of the truest statement I’ve ever heard. And I am officially asking permission to use this statement,May I please Sis?😂😂😂

    • @andreeallen3311
      @andreeallen3311 Před 3 lety +14

      Wait!!!!😂😂😂😂😂

    • @carolinelaronda4523
      @carolinelaronda4523 Před 3 lety +22

      💀 granny wasn’t lying

    • @Aquarius7999
      @Aquarius7999 Před 3 lety +11

      Amen 😂

  • @stacys.5367
    @stacys.5367 Před 3 lety +288

    The way that he was holding her hand and staring a hole in the side of her face came off controlling to me

    • @MsVee-fb6fp
      @MsVee-fb6fp Před 3 lety +4

      👍4sho

    • @lisawaters231
      @lisawaters231 Před 3 lety +1

      She could be a clone

    • @cremedelacrem4064
      @cremedelacrem4064 Před 3 lety +3

      Pure NARCISSISTIC behaviour!!

    • @kimc.5625
      @kimc.5625 Před 3 lety +3

      When he kept picking that imaginary lint off his pants when she was talking was like he was trying to say stop talking

    • @millinjefferson2895
      @millinjefferson2895 Před 3 lety +3

      @@kimc.5625 I noticed they have not made anymore videos! 🤦🏽

  • @CherryTaylor2
    @CherryTaylor2 Před 3 lety +201

    He wanted her to look a mess on camera so people would be like oh ok that’s why he cheated 📌‼️

    • @nikkinicole161
      @nikkinicole161 Před 3 lety +10

      I Agree, she not ugly just unkept

    • @ticrowell1080
      @ticrowell1080 Před 3 lety +1

      Possibly. But what the hell did SHE want?

    • @demi5378
      @demi5378 Před 3 lety +1

      That what I said. He was holding her hand to me...like he is pulling her along.

    • @danadane9794
      @danadane9794 Před 3 lety +3

      BINGO! That's EXACTLY why he brought her on live

    • @toidean633
      @toidean633 Před 3 lety +1

      @UseHerName well she wants to be I suppose 🤷 This isn't his first and it won't be his last!!!

  • @Chocolate74able
    @Chocolate74able Před 3 lety +61

    Not being funny, but this lady is sitting in her own house; she can wear what the f*ck she wants! She was just humiliated on live for the world to see and hear. I can't understand why she is being put down in all of this. Why is how she looks so important? First her man, then the world gonna disrespect her too #firstworldproblems 🙄

    • @rubysbaby822
      @rubysbaby822 Před 3 lety +18

      Once the camera came on it went beyond sitting in her house. Y’all are being willfully obtuse or just plain dense.

    • @lexiiglam817
      @lexiiglam817 Před 3 lety +5

      The girls that are Glitz and glamour get cheated on too! So talking about her looks is just tired.....late....old.....and annoying

    • @shanelwilkes345
      @shanelwilkes345 Před 3 lety +4

      Did he look a hot mess, in his house, on the camera? No, he took time to look halfway decent. He knew he wanted to make a video. Why not give your wife the head’s up so she can look decent as well? My man would never put me in the public eye looking whooped. My heart goes out to her

    • @karenwilliamston7771
      @karenwilliamston7771 Před 3 lety +1

      @Chocolate74able Thank you!!! A bet she is a good wife and a wonderful mother. Talk about that DINEVA!!!

    • @meeksluv
      @meeksluv Před 3 lety

      @@shanelwilkes345 Once Im told and AGREE to going on camera Im grown enough to fix myself up!

  • @Venomous_471
    @Venomous_471 Před 3 lety +252

    So T.I and Tiny was relieved about the Kirk Franklin scandal, Kirk Franklin is relieved about the Derrick Jaxn scandal. Lol

    • @roshaimoore
      @roshaimoore Před 3 lety +20

      Really Kirk didn't do anything that we haven't seen from a parent before!! Hell I watched a white man cuss his kids out today in Walmart 😁😁😁😁... I asked him did he need my belt🤷.... Derrick did what 60% of men do🤷.... So!! Nothing surprising here.

    • @Venomous_471
      @Venomous_471 Před 3 lety +12

      @@roshaimoore it's a joke , just say lol , a joke doesn't require answers.

    • @celly9719
      @celly9719 Před 3 lety +4

      😆🤣😂😹😆🤣😂😹😆🤣😂

    • @Tiffany_3x
      @Tiffany_3x Před 3 lety +8

      @@roshaimoore 🤣 lending/borrowing a belt! Now that's old school! 🤣

    • @musefeverfever
      @musefeverfever Před 3 lety +1

      😱🤣🤣🤣😱

  • @gab19guerin72
    @gab19guerin72 Před 3 lety +268

    He doesn’t love nor respect his wife.
    He still lying and gonna keep lying.
    She allows for this foolishness.

    • @1891neisha
      @1891neisha Před 3 lety +15

      What you allow is what will continue. Period.

    • @dougedoug2105
      @dougedoug2105 Před 3 lety +4

      Somebody send me to that wife and tell her to thank me later 😉
      Hey ladies
      Why is it that
      Men can go do us wrong
      Why is it that
      We just decide to keep holdin' on
      Why is it that
      We never seem to just have the strength to leave
      But he's got to go, he's got to go
      My man's been cheatin' on me
      Been runnin' round here with this little Tenderoni
      And don't think I haven't noticed, he's been actin' funny
      Takin' too long to call me
      And somebody told me
      That the worst thing of it all is that he gave her money
      Now how he gonna give her my ends
      That's a no, no
      My first reactions telling me he's got to go, go
      But I just ain't for sure
      Should I just let him go
      Oh I don't know
      Yeah he did me wrong
      But I love him so
      I keep holding on
      But he got to go, he got to go
      Thought he was the one
      But now I don't know
      After what he's done
      He's got to go, he's got to go
      Hey ladies
      Why is it that
      Men can go do us wrong
      Why is it that
      We just decide to keep holdin' on
      Why is it that
      We never seem to just have the strength to leave
      But he's got to go, he's got to go
      You keep rewinding it
      Stopin' it and playing yourself over again
      See I'm sick and tired of you doin' that same ol' shit
      Sick of your same routine
      Now you've got to come clean
      'Cause it's killing me
      - Hey Ladies, Destiny’s Child and
      Written by Kandi Burruss

    • @AbigailThinks
      @AbigailThinks Před 3 lety +5

      I agree, but I think some compassion is needed in situations like these. I just pray that she can cultivate a support system, but at the end of the day she is the only one who has the power to choose. We can only hope.

    • @fashionablyrude4339
      @fashionablyrude4339 Před 3 lety +4

      And his die hard followers gon stand by him even harder cause now that they know he cheats they think they gotta chance and gon be in his DM

    • @virgochild120
      @virgochild120 Před 3 lety +1

      💯

  • @oceanj.
    @oceanj. Před 3 lety +129

    Ima be saying “You see a bonnet, I see the helmet of salvation” for the next couple of years🤣🖐🏾

  • @kemosabeusmc
    @kemosabeusmc Před 3 lety +42

    Derek did say "she stepped out on me, but not with a man" everyone drove right past that part. Not me, I pulled over turned on my hazard lights and sat there for a minute.

    • @pthesmith
      @pthesmith Před 3 lety +8

      When? Where?? What video???

    • @ctsphang
      @ctsphang Před 3 lety +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ShaynieB
      @ShaynieB Před 3 lety +2

      Not the hazard lights! 💀💀💀💀

    • @ShaynieB
      @ShaynieB Před 3 lety +1

      @Darrielle Young she sure did… made a post on her IG.

  • @nea415
    @nea415 Před 3 lety +188

    This “man” recording videos speaking down on cheating men but was cheating the whole time. Uplifting women while tearing down his own wife. Chile! Anyone who still follows him is a fool

    • @blkindians7974
      @blkindians7974 Před 3 lety +5

      I think you should sit down because I have something to tell you, I read yesterday dat derrick jaxn following has gotten bigger.

    • @WenNRome
      @WenNRome Před 3 lety +12

      They still gonna follow him b/c of his aesthetic. The same women who want all this advice from being hurt, insecure etc are the same women who would be in his bed tomorrow...I guarantee you.

    • @mrspgrew
      @mrspgrew Před 3 lety +6

      If someone's boyfriend is trash, he's trash. He's not any less of a POS because Derrick cheated on his wife. That's the issue. Men are jumping for joy, women are criticizing his wife as if their husbands aren't making plans with their side pieces this weekend. I don't understand why his getting caught, makes other cheaters innocent. 🤔🤔

    • @makingyaheadache912
      @makingyaheadache912 Před 3 lety +11

      He gained over 200k followers since this foolishness broke the craziness is actually making him more popular it’s insane

    • @yourwhateverhomegirl
      @yourwhateverhomegirl Před 3 lety +5

      @@makingyaheadache912 wow that is crazy.

  • @azteca6695
    @azteca6695 Před 3 lety +264

    Well she's not the first OR last to stay with a cheating man.

    • @BITCHY1234
      @BITCHY1234 Před 3 lety +7

      Beyonce

    • @SeriouslySpeaking-nw5nh
      @SeriouslySpeaking-nw5nh Před 3 lety +10

      @@BITCHY1234 right...I don't know why people are in an uproar over this lol. 90% of people have stayed with someone they should have left years ago. Now everyone are strong love warriors lmao

    • @mrspgrew
      @mrspgrew Před 3 lety +8

      Half of the women criticizing her have cheating husbands too

  • @tiffaniacarter2217
    @tiffaniacarter2217 Před 3 lety +687

    I never got a good vibe from him and this is probably why. This woman is BROKEN, not bent, BROKEN!! This man dragged her up there looking any kind of way to help with his mess. This ain’t her fight!! Now she’s going off the rails, nobody can say different. Check on her because SHE IS NOT OKAY. Wife saying they’re good BUT the gag is his current mistress has sex with him last week, March 18 AND some of his videos is outside the mistresses house!!! The irony of it all. Smh...

    • @snuckleberrylocs
      @snuckleberrylocs Před 3 lety +11

      Damn

    • @itslatasha4726
      @itslatasha4726 Před 3 lety +45

      I’ve never paid attention to his videos and just learned his name this week. I saw a clip of his years ago and thought....oh okay. Another attention seeker. Didn’t put too ouch thought into it. So sad that his wife is so lost dazed and confused. You have to always be mindful of the company you keep, including the company you marry apparently.

    • @gennsui
      @gennsui Před 3 lety +4

      Agree 100 percent !!

    • @char90303
      @char90303 Před 3 lety +21

      Wow 😳 I hope there’s someone in the wife’s life to watch over her. He seems dangerous to her psyche.

    • @DeeLishish0991
      @DeeLishish0991 Před 3 lety +22

      and he texted the 3rd mistress AFTER their video together

  • @BSmith-yl3je
    @BSmith-yl3je Před 3 lety +75

    OWN people this is why we need a season 11 of fix my life !!! She need some help

    • @wefinnasee7067
      @wefinnasee7067 Před 3 lety +8

      Iyanla might come outta retirement just for this or I'd take a 4 part CZcams video.

    • @cheryljones2009
      @cheryljones2009 Před 3 lety +2

      I love "Iyanla, Fix My Life"!!! 🙋📺 I'm so disappointed that this is the final season....

  • @trackgrad08
    @trackgrad08 Před 3 lety +117

    It’s him commentating on his on video in 3rd person for me. He’s a real damn fool. And after allat he STILL trying sell that book.

    • @esh5168
      @esh5168 Před 3 lety +3

      Yea that was so weird him and her have issues

    • @jeannettesneed
      @jeannettesneed Před 3 lety

      Mannnnn😕❓🚪

    • @alisayoung
      @alisayoung Před 3 lety +1

      But wait... Did you listen to his commentary? He said "nothing stood out about HIM, but a lot stood out about her" and then proceeds to critique his damned wife in third person. What? Okay! He's trying to get the public to jump on her. My God what a horrible person he is

  • @aikhiemlewis1732
    @aikhiemlewis1732 Před 3 lety +176

    Tina from Mary Mary tore her husband shit up sliced his car tires and bussed out his windows, and fought her husband...She's holy and sanctified ..Da'naia girl take notes

    • @brittmar538
      @brittmar538 Před 3 lety +17

      Right! Tina bust out all them windows. I'm glad they overcame it though

    • @tootiesnax36
      @tootiesnax36 Před 3 lety +24

      She sure did, probably had Jazmine Sullivan playing in the background “ I bust the windows out your care” 😂😂🤣🤣

    • @NutsNBerries
      @NutsNBerries Před 3 lety +3

      Exactly 😂🤣😂

    • @queenyaa5043
      @queenyaa5043 Před 3 lety +8

      No. Absolutely not. Tina man on the soft side. Derrick a Cancer man who's narcissistic. If she got too smart with him I bet he'd yoke her up. My dad & bd are crazy Cancers with terrible tempers. The mistress said he hit her already. 😩

    • @aikhiemlewis1732
      @aikhiemlewis1732 Před 3 lety +1

      @@queenyaa5043 where can I read about Derricks mistress

  • @Miss_D_46
    @Miss_D_46 Před 3 lety +189

    Sis said it’s not a bonnet, it’s the helmet of salvation and the sandals of righteousness. Girl whet??

  • @deetag7621
    @deetag7621 Před 3 lety +25

    I'm confused, she doesn't deserve respect and fidelity because she don't wear makeup? She's a magnificent child of God who makes Him so proud and that's worth more than any useless man's attention.

  • @alexisfuller731
    @alexisfuller731 Před 3 lety +135

    Pretty women get cheated on everyday...her looks aren’t why he cheated...I knew he was a fraud and scammer and I want women to stop looking to men for relationship advice.

    • @c.m.2973
      @c.m.2973 Před 3 lety +14

      This! We need to stop hoping for answers from these men because half the time they aren’t self aware enough to know why they do what they do. And the other half of the time, they know why but don’t want to tell us because it’s easier to manipulate us when we’re confused.

    • @NutsNBerries
      @NutsNBerries Před 3 lety +7

      It made me wonder about all the other men who are popular on social media for relationship advice

    • @jeanp1323
      @jeanp1323 Před 3 lety

      And I'm sure he's not licensed to give advice like that. Women should start reading books on black feminism to regain their power, because you don't need to be strong when you're awoke

    • @roshaimoore
      @roshaimoore Před 3 lety

      Thank you!!!!

    • @esh5168
      @esh5168 Před 3 lety +4

      Stop looking to strangers for marital advice

  • @beemocha
    @beemocha Před 3 lety +168

    I’m proud to say I NEVER subscribed to him. There was always something disingenuous about him & I couldn’t quite put my finger on it.
    Cousin Skeeter think he slick

    • @thegodblogger3812
      @thegodblogger3812 Před 3 lety +6

      Right. He was saying all the right things to the people who wanted to believe the other person is always at fault. Didn't take me long to tune his azz out. Beware of a member of any community who claims to hold the keys to the gates.

    • @JustSheaShea
      @JustSheaShea Před 3 lety +13

      All I had to do was see that child’s carseat with no ring and no woman in his videos. If he knew so much about successful relationships where was his? 🤔

    • @lotusflower4876
      @lotusflower4876 Před 3 lety +7

      Never ever have I listened to nan one of his car therapy sessions....I can't stand men like him and Steve Harvey

    • @MConze
      @MConze Před 3 lety +3

      Exactly! Even with all his pandering, something about him was off. I figured I just wasn’t his target audience.

    • @thegodblogger3812
      @thegodblogger3812 Před 3 lety +2

      @@lotusflower4876 right. Steve Harvey is a total hustle too. Not mad that he's made money of people who need to be told what they want to here, but like you said, it was too obvious.

  • @mizzmiami3242
    @mizzmiami3242 Před 3 lety +466

    Dineva and Tasha K bout to rack up on these coins with gossip lol

    • @HairbyTamikaF
      @HairbyTamikaF Před 3 lety +20

      Righttttt I just left Tasha K page 😆

    • @Synquette
      @Synquette Před 3 lety +20

      I want them to go live together again

    • @teatamarie
      @teatamarie Před 3 lety +12

      Ew y’all listen to her 🤦🏽‍♀️ I thought I could trust y’all

    • @ShesRelatable
      @ShesRelatable Před 3 lety +1

      Banking lol

    • @Creativeambitionz_LLC
      @Creativeambitionz_LLC Před 3 lety +13

      Tasha k got a hard on for him she not letting up either 🤣

  • @genevaroddy6469
    @genevaroddy6469 Před 3 lety +21

    My heart goes out to her because if this man fooled the world just imagine what he was doing to her behind closed doors. Praying for her healing and restoration..

  • @CM-gd2cc
    @CM-gd2cc Před 3 lety +69

    Everything Derrick is doing is calculated! He intentionally got her on the camera looking like that so he could gain leverage as to why he cheated...

    • @Aquariangirl126
      @Aquariangirl126 Před 3 lety +1

      Exactly, typical narcissist move.

    • @Blubird436
      @Blubird436 Před 3 lety +5

      He would cheat on Beyoncé and Naomi Campbell too. Derrick has seen his wife at her best. He probably broke her self esteem with the cheating, narcissism, and over inflated ego. Only a weak man would use the lame excuse that it was her looks that made him cheat. With all the money she should have a stylist in the house at all costs and hours.

    • @1891neisha
      @1891neisha Před 3 lety

      She got herself on camera like that hell. Just lazy.

  • @10anewattitude
    @10anewattitude Před 3 lety +143

    Dineva I think she was forced to get online looking “comfortable “. His manipulative ass don’t want dudes sliding in her DMs telling her how beautiful she is and how she can do better.

    • @shay_biddle
      @shay_biddle Před 3 lety +23

      That’s the real gag

    • @tyeishasimone7699
      @tyeishasimone7699 Před 3 lety +23

      You beat me to the it! That’s exactly why she on camera looking like “who shot John”. He is emotionally and mentally abusive which leads me to believe that he is insecure.

    • @renatajordan2646
      @renatajordan2646 Před 3 lety +4

      Thats so true!!!!!

    • @pimpindymepiece
      @pimpindymepiece Před 3 lety +7

      This is it. He knows her face is really pretty & niggas would have been on it like white on rice

    • @PrettyINCs
      @PrettyINCs Před 3 lety +6

      I can just hear him telling her she is beautiful just the way she is. (she is). it was time to present though.

  • @safeinhim2652
    @safeinhim2652 Před 3 lety +93

    Derrick is going to play on the spiritual heartstrings of devout Christians. He will be taking the “God healed our marriage; He can do it for you” route.

    • @deshaunx776
      @deshaunx776 Před 3 lety +3

      THIS 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @taharqa332
      @taharqa332 Před 3 lety +8

      Just like Jamal Bryant, John Gray and all the other pulpit pimps who got caught out there.

    • @ShaynieB
      @ShaynieB Před 3 lety +1

      Yep, I can see it coming!

  • @LaunaLauna1
    @LaunaLauna1 Před 3 lety +55

    I definitely can’t say that he is “fine as fuck” especially not in that background pic 🤣🤣 he’s good looking but he ain’t all that honestly

    • @truthhurtz8517
      @truthhurtz8517 Před 3 lety +7

      Fine is LL Cool J in that "Headsprung" video...💯💯💯

    • @latoya1928
      @latoya1928 Před 3 lety +1

      @@truthhurtz8517 Whew, honey...... indeeeeeeeed.

    • @meeksluv
      @meeksluv Před 3 lety

      He is a very nice looking man.

  • @toriyt2714
    @toriyt2714 Před 3 lety +102

    I see why he kept her hidden. Showing her would of been exposing himself. You can always judge a relationship based on the wife’s glow.

    • @NutsNBerries
      @NutsNBerries Před 3 lety +11

      You’re right...and he was trying to explain her body language...like nah man...we see she isn’t happy there

    • @celly9719
      @celly9719 Před 3 lety

      This!

    • @toriyt2714
      @toriyt2714 Před 3 lety

      @Nina Razzo *woulda

    • @ticrowell1080
      @ticrowell1080 Před 3 lety +2

      Or lack thereof

  • @jaylacobbsgreen
    @jaylacobbsgreen Před 3 lety +343

    How FAST I virtually ran over here😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MsRelaytionships
    @MsRelaytionships Před 3 lety +92

    You had me with everything you said UNTIL you said, you see why he cheated if he had to come home to ‘that’ every night.
    Her looks has no bearing to his infidelities - he knew what she looked like when he married her, and if he wasn’t going to be faithful he should not have married her.
    And let’s not forget, ‘bad bitches’ get cheated on too.

    • @qb9359
      @qb9359 Před 3 lety +5

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

    • @kizzyrock
      @kizzyrock Před 3 lety +9

      Truth BUT we can not deny the fact that men are visual. My mama always said, keep yourself up because if he ever cheats, he can't blame it on us.

    • @nikkinicole161
      @nikkinicole161 Před 3 lety +3

      @@kizzyrock this is the statement my momma use to say also and she was married for 50 years until my dad passed

    • @kizzyrock
      @kizzyrock Před 3 lety +1

      @@nikkinicole161 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

    • @rubysbaby822
      @rubysbaby822 Před 3 lety +3

      She knew he wasnt gonna be faithful. He never was. Yet she still married him. At this point she’s a willing participant.

  • @lady23libra
    @lady23libra Před 3 lety +16

    Girl I died at “No LimitSoldier” she was a fool with that bonnet 😂😩😭

  • @DoubleAA82
    @DoubleAA82 Před 3 lety +103

    he(Derrick) had the nerve to turn off his comments...LOL!! couldn't take the heat

    • @ubabyab
      @ubabyab Před 3 lety +4

      I saw that

    • @gurtheenmcgee5897
      @gurtheenmcgee5897 Před 3 lety +2

      Can't takev the heat stay out the kitchen.

    • @kellyv.923
      @kellyv.923 Před 3 lety +6

      I was hot. I got a my sandwich. Sat down. Ready to read comments, laugh, and eat. Comments off💀

    • @jwall1620
      @jwall1620 Před 3 lety +8

      But she left hers on in IG 🧐. I pray she don’t end up on snapped

    • @DoubleAA82
      @DoubleAA82 Před 3 lety +1

      @@kellyv.923 😆

  • @camilsims8246
    @camilsims8246 Před 3 lety +147

    His wife is beautiful naturally. I can only imagine when she dresses up.

    • @ToniGirl21
      @ToniGirl21 Před 3 lety +4

      EXACTLY.. And it won't take much for the "glow-up" either.. makeup will truly "enhance" what's already there..

    • @ladydignity
      @ladydignity Před 3 lety +8

      They have pics out there with her done up, and she is even more beautiful! I agree,that she's a natural beauty! Chile, if I just got up with no makeup and threw a bonnet on my head,I wouldn't look half as beautiful as she looks!

    • @ladydignity
      @ladydignity Před 3 lety +3

      @Nina Razzo ,and she looks too young to be dressing like that! I mean you can still dress sophisticated, but still look youthful!

    • @Alpha-Angel
      @Alpha-Angel Před 3 lety +2

      Tbh when i saw her i thought she was his oldest son lol

    • @rosephillips6547
      @rosephillips6547 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes she’s is beautiful and beauty know beauty

  • @DeeLishish0991
    @DeeLishish0991 Před 3 lety +118

    He's a textbook narcissist and she's a religious fool. A toxic co-dependency relationship at its finest. He had her dress the way she did so public opinion will change. People will stop condemning him and place the blame on her for not looking like the girls he cheated on her with. Now a 3rd mistress and there is proof of her house in the background of her videos?! Disrespectful.

    • @SouthFlaCutie
      @SouthFlaCutie Před 3 lety +1

      B👏🏽I👏🏾N👏🏾G👏🏾!!!!!!!!!

    • @Braider_on_the_run
      @Braider_on_the_run Před 3 lety

      Damn,
      Break it down, why don’t you. Agreed

    • @rubysbaby822
      @rubysbaby822 Před 3 lety

      Her instagram provides all the proof we need. She’s been getting cheated on their whole relationship. They never should’ve gotten married.

  • @kenanpaints
    @kenanpaints Před 3 lety +18

    16:03 “Everything you need in this world lies within you.” that’s a word right there

  • @queenofthreeprinces854
    @queenofthreeprinces854 Před 3 lety +194

    She seems like she’s losing her mind. I’m a spiritual person but I also have common sense and I really believe she needs her family and counseling. Something isn’t right with her.

    • @tiffaniacarter2217
      @tiffaniacarter2217 Před 3 lety +23

      I was saying she’s probably there planning her escape but after her solo video with saying the bonnet is a armor or some shit... she’s lost and about to snap! She’s completely brainwashed!!!

    • @AlphabetSoup123
      @AlphabetSoup123 Před 3 lety +14

      Those IG captions are alarming. I was laughing at first, but my goodness, sis is going through! I’m concerned for the child they have.

    • @rochella27
      @rochella27 Před 3 lety +6

      When people have a mental breakdown they talk about GOD alot. I know afew people we all know how Kanye West was I think she's on meds and just dont care anymore. It's just the point she didnt do her hair we as Black Women when we get our hair done it makes us look good feel good we feel like a new person he didnt won't her looking good cause he knows them men will be in her DM like he is with them women. I going to pray for her

    • @carolinelaronda4523
      @carolinelaronda4523 Před 3 lety +10

      You don’t get to that level of dysfunction unless you came up in it . Sadly he family probably made her that way and she’s got no where to go for real help - that’s why she was a match to mr jaxn narcissist ass .

    • @thamlett379
      @thamlett379 Před 3 lety +3

      after looking at her instagram i got the feeling she was weird.

  • @n.e.w.skincare
    @n.e.w.skincare Před 3 lety +227

    He is a narcissist. He is going to be with someone he can control. His holding her hand could have been his way of controlling her and what she says. If she says the wrong thing, he squeezes her hand.

    • @sweets20062107
      @sweets20062107 Před 3 lety +10

      EXACTLY

    • @lenebrantley221
      @lenebrantley221 Před 3 lety +24

      Yes. He is most definitely controlling her. She looks like she is just there. Her eyes are empty.

    • @tymeishalovell4830
      @tymeishalovell4830 Před 3 lety +14

      Exactly..and he will continue to cheat on her until he finds another “supply” he can control and dump his wife for.

    • @moonlite1752
      @moonlite1752 Před 3 lety +5

      🗣THANK YOU!!! A malignant narcissist!

    • @kendraarnold5940
      @kendraarnold5940 Před 3 lety +4

      On point. She's his main supply. The others are just there for his enjoyment

  • @MaryThiboudeax
    @MaryThiboudeax Před 3 lety +232

    Watch them get a divorce and Derrick use her videos against her to get full custody of their kids. Then Derrick gets to say she’s crazy and regain his social media business as now the “single father”. Derrick absolutely knows what he is doing by allowing her to come online like that and continually make videos. He’s rebranding right in front of our eyes...

    • @ttopbugatti9430
      @ttopbugatti9430 Před 3 lety +5

      Well said✊🏽✊🏽

    • @brownskinlady
      @brownskinlady Před 3 lety +13

      Well damn, if he wasn't thinking that after reading your comment, he should. Thats a good strategy. He owes you money.

    • @queenyaa5043
      @queenyaa5043 Před 3 lety +25

      Poor kids cause he ain't tryna be a father frfr. He too busy chasing b!tches

    • @cannons2daleftofthem253
      @cannons2daleftofthem253 Před 3 lety +8

      BOOM 💯
      He lowkey needs to hire you on the PR, crisis management, redemption package lol. Real talk his niche following and general public would totally go for that exact plan. And watch it play out as if it happened organically.

    • @brownskinlady
      @brownskinlady Před 3 lety +2

      @@cannons2daleftofthem253 LOL, where is your username from? I see someone dramatically saying it like a performance but I can't remember who.

  • @seeme8125
    @seeme8125 Před 3 lety +8

    Q you got on your derrick jaxn outfit on. Yall twinning 😆 🤣 lol

  • @queeniegal
    @queeniegal Před 3 lety +154

    When you go on her IG she used to dress up. But over the years he broke her down and now she just doesn't care anymore. Because when she did care it didnt matter. Look at some of her posts on her IG. Very very disturbing.

    • @meloriealexandre8973
      @meloriealexandre8973 Před 3 lety +33

      I scrolled all the way to the end of her IG posts. She is a gorgeous woman and she was very confident back then, I can see it in her old pics. Yea you right he broke her down, she doesn't care anymore about her appearance. Truly a sad situation. I really hope she wakes up, divorces him so she can heal. But I feel she is too far gone to help herself. Truly sad.

    • @AbigailThinks
      @AbigailThinks Před 3 lety +30

      THIS IS IT! That is the tell-tale sign of narcissistic abuse. These people steal your whole spirit!! They literally feed off your energy!! Tasha K also said the same thing. You can see her mental demise as clear as day if you scroll through her social media. She went from looking confident and self-assured to completely unhinged. Her husband has completely broken her spirit from all his emotional mind games and gaslighting. She needs help, because getting out of those situations is hella hard even with support, and she seems to be all alone. Narcissists also hate to lose, so she will literally be in the fight for her and her children's lives. I will be praying for her indeed.

    • @Tinesha7
      @Tinesha7 Před 3 lety +13

      Her IG posts are sooooo awkward and weirdly edited and just.. cringe.

    • @5106ammieDam
      @5106ammieDam Před 3 lety +4

      AbigailThinks Excuse me? Tasha is falling apart because of her own doing. I don't know her husband, just like I do not know Tasha personally, but what was visible for anyone with eyes, is the fact that Tasha's ways were geinig to lead to her downfall. Just my opinion, not facts

    • @bridgettesweeney9809
      @bridgettesweeney9809 Před 3 lety +5

      I wonder if it was the church that broke her down. Not excusing him but if they were unequally yoked spiritually as well as in other areas she may have been stronger spiritually which put the pressure on him to do and be better. But instead, of trying to be the husband that she needed for him to be, maybe he "acted out" because he wasn't ready to submit to God but felt pressured to do so. She may have then in turn sought refuge in her faith since she had no control over him and how he chose to spend his time.
      As couples it's really important to be in the same page.

  • @globalmusicinternational7190

    Her appearance was on purpose for a distraction from him. Because now we're talking about her not him!

    • @MsHall0000
      @MsHall0000 Před 3 lety +2

      I didn’t think about that but your right.

    • @ttopbugatti9430
      @ttopbugatti9430 Před 3 lety +2

      On point😔😔

    • @legalresearch3
      @legalresearch3 Před 3 lety +3

      And perhaps he wanted us to see her look that way and feel sorry for him and say ‘I see why he cheated’. I can still see that she’s attractive.

  • @lovebeinpicky
    @lovebeinpicky Před 3 lety +107

    I'm parked on the side of the road because of this call

  • @dr.dermixgirlmd7479
    @dr.dermixgirlmd7479 Před 3 lety +6

    Not Ray Ray, Pookie, Devon, and Tremell. I can’t wit u 😂😩😵😂

  • @NoOtherRose
    @NoOtherRose Před 3 lety +141

    Damn, most of this video was aimed at the wife. I was so hoping Derrick would bear the brunt of this read. 😔

    • @Nothingatall1984
      @Nothingatall1984 Před 3 lety +3

      Right

    • @smoothie3376
      @smoothie3376 Před 3 lety +12

      Listen, a lot of us were ready to cut Derrick up.... UNTIL we met HERRR!!! I'm more mad at her than him. I just don't understand women like her. N we all know she ain't gonna leave him!!! 🤪

    • @marishajames3581
      @marishajames3581 Před 3 lety +9

      Like Dineva said, “...it ain’t your fault sis it’s his..” but she probably , because of DJ and possible abuse in her history, has a warped outlook on what it looks like to receive love and respect. There are so many women like her that are stuck and afraid to leave because they have no money, no support or no will power.

    • @lindaallder3662
      @lindaallder3662 Před 3 lety +4

      Derek easily makes himself look crazy by opening his own mouth

    • @ladyhoneybee6able
      @ladyhoneybee6able Před 3 lety

      Right

  • @MarriageAcrossCulture
    @MarriageAcrossCulture Před 3 lety +270

    Psychologically, attractive men and women will choose the “homely type” because they’re safe. The odds are, they won’t leave and no one will take them away from you.
    Secondly, attractive people notoriously deal with infidelity. Halle Berry, Janet Jackson, Demi Moore, Jennifer Aniston, Gwen Stefanie do ok and so forth.
    Hell, JayZ cheated on Beyonce and she epitomizes the Bad B persona.
    Being a “bad b!tch” won’t stop a man from abusing you.

    • @demartin975
      @demartin975 Před 3 lety +18

      Very interesting insight. I’ve always taken notice of those mismatched couples. So many 9s and 10s with 5s and 4s. Very interesting.

    • @Iam_highmaintenancebeauty
      @Iam_highmaintenancebeauty Před 3 lety +27

      Jlo, Cardi, Nikki, hell ME😂😫

    • @gabriellemccullough-hanks9644
      @gabriellemccullough-hanks9644 Před 3 lety +32

      Facts!!! Back in the mid 2000’s I worked with a guy who had a really pretty wife and he stayed in my face and the face of every moderately attractive woman at our job... Men don’t care. They like variety and they like “new” as long as it’s not you... lol

    • @sunshineflowers3320
      @sunshineflowers3320 Před 3 lety +5

      @@gabriellemccullough-hanks9644 🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @Mizanthrobe
      @Mizanthrobe Před 3 lety +22

      Thank you! It doesn’t matter at all. Every skin tone, body type, hair color, race and religion gets cheated on.

  • @miiluvjames4709
    @miiluvjames4709 Před 3 lety +54

    Called that woman a no limit soldier...Im dead 😭😭

  • @dreamcatcher7670
    @dreamcatcher7670 Před 3 lety +13

    The messed up part is he flaunted his arrogance so easily And he presented himself as a Guru but he's a whole whack job. He created an illusion.

  • @crystalellis3681
    @crystalellis3681 Před 3 lety +56

    That's what he wanted his wife to look like so people would focus on her appearance, and let people justify his reasoning for cheating. So disgusting and wrong.

    • @kevagardner4659
      @kevagardner4659 Před rokem

      Yessssss. This is a part of the triangulation, that kept, her in a submissive state, along with him reciting the Bible, and manipulating her. He, I believe saw, her weakness and that's what he actually built his brand on. This mental illness, he must have in reality, must be nothing less that a sociopath!! He is actually, a dangerous man.

  • @CradleEpiscopalian56
    @CradleEpiscopalian56 Před 3 lety +43

    I bet he grew up watching his daddy cheat on his mother. He's that kind of dude that starts an argument then leaves his wife at home for the high school reunion hookup.

  • @Yvette4944
    @Yvette4944 Před 3 lety +144

    I’m not surprised by the wife he chose, he wants someone he can control, no questions asked. A narcissist wants a submissive, do as I’m told type of partner.

    • @lenebrantley221
      @lenebrantley221 Před 3 lety +5

      That's exactly what he got.

    • @pn6528
      @pn6528 Před 3 lety +3

      With low self esteem.

    • @notjustaprettyface
      @notjustaprettyface Před 3 lety

      Omg facts 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @tuliface
    @tuliface Před 3 lety +11

    Derrick has no interest in her, he just wanted her to divorce him not for him to divorce her, so that he can claim she didn't appreciate a real man. Then he would have just began a new selling tool of " single dad" , "newly single dating" etc etc 🙄

  • @AstoldbyNicole
    @AstoldbyNicole Před 3 lety +177

    True tea, the “good guys” are the ones you need to worry about the most.

    • @lonelyenchantress2172
      @lonelyenchantress2172 Před 3 lety +11

      Exactly because those so-called players will show you exactly who they are, so there's no 2nd guessing..😉

    • @Sassysunset
      @Sassysunset Před 3 lety +3

      Any man who proclaims himself as a nice/good guy, Run, the worst. I”ll take a a upfront fuck boy before that!

  • @cierrapetty546
    @cierrapetty546 Před 3 lety +49

    Dineva singing is always my favorite part . He has a song for every situation

  • @JustBeingJae01
    @JustBeingJae01 Před 3 lety +99

    It’s The Helmet of Salvation for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @butterharris9688
    @butterharris9688 Před 3 lety +11

    The wife is most likely suffering from depression. It maybe even hard for her to get out of bed. I feel for her. Stay Strong Lady!

  • @LoneWulf278
    @LoneWulf278 Před 3 lety +141

    I’m worried about his wife. She looks like she’s going to end up on an episode of Snapped any day now. 😳

    • @pinkivy4149
      @pinkivy4149 Před 3 lety +12

      she actually said that on her IG. she said she is surprised she has not been on an ep of snapped or a doc on netflix. a lot of her posts on IG are disturbing.

    • @LoneWulf278
      @LoneWulf278 Před 3 lety +6

      @@pinkivy4149 Right. The comment she made about obsessing over the woman’s body reminded me of that movie Obsessed with Beyonce. With this situation, it’s the reverse because this time it’s the wife fixating on the side chick.

    • @lornamarie5544
      @lornamarie5544 Před 3 lety +6

      Whenever you watch these shows and they say “x was a prominent member of the church”. You know that’s murderer 🙄

    • @LoneWulf278
      @LoneWulf278 Před 3 lety +1

      @@lornamarie5544 For real.

  • @MoniqueMakesULaugH
    @MoniqueMakesULaugH Před 3 lety +105

    “Action Jaxn” is the epitome of a
    malignant narcissist 🥴🥴🥴

    • @kdeloris2225
      @kdeloris2225 Před 3 lety +5

      Girl your comment got me down for the count I am cracking up over here😂😂😂

    • @MsHall0000
      @MsHall0000 Před 3 lety +1

      That name is gonna stick to him forever 🤣🤣🤣

    • @freakEtAi21
      @freakEtAi21 Před 3 lety +1

      Action packin Jaxn

    • @sheshy2sweet
      @sheshy2sweet Před 3 lety +1

      😂🤣😂🤣

    • @celly9719
      @celly9719 Před 3 lety

      😆🤣😂😹😆🤣😂😹😆🤣😂😹😆

  • @TheMariayoungblood
    @TheMariayoungblood Před 3 lety +34

    The comments about the wife feel wrong . She didn't do anything. Cheating has nothing to do with beauty.

    • @msmelodythomas
      @msmelodythomas Před 3 lety

      Q is just telling it like it is from a man's perspective 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @shonnii6098
      @shonnii6098 Před 3 lety

      She did alot...

    • @jesusisgod4992
      @jesusisgod4992 Před 3 lety

      God loves women au natural. Are you trying to please man or God?

  • @ari_mas_cas3484
    @ari_mas_cas3484 Před 3 lety +6

    Derek looks like a grown version of that kid Amahd from Soul Food 😆😆😆😆

  • @kandakease1234
    @kandakease1234 Před 3 lety +34

    Now they calling this man Derrick " street meat" Jaxn ..🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @veldasorrentino4216
    @veldasorrentino4216 Před 3 lety +106

    He is going to claim, “Forgive me I have a sex addiction”. OMG HE IS FAKE‼️

    • @dimelachae3463
      @dimelachae3463 Před 3 lety +4

      I wouldn't be surprised, I thought that was gonna be that when she got on the camera with him

  • @tiffyw2758
    @tiffyw2758 Před 3 lety +56

    The wife is a victim of narcissist abuse. I was in a marriage with a real covert narcissist. You loose yourself. He has broken her. She needs help. The glare in her eyes tells it all.I believe he has her dressing like that. Some may not understand how demonic and horrible it is to be in that kind of situation. He probably use(in a twisted way) scriptures to justify why she should stay. He has her brain washed. Some people won't understand it but it is very real and could make you suicidal.

    • @thetransparentjerseygirl
      @thetransparentjerseygirl Před 3 lety +9

      Yessss i was married to a narcissist...it was a complete mind F#$k for 7 yrs smh...i was a shell of myself...and having suicidal thoughts and thoughts of hurting him...i had to leave!!!!

    • @shizsunshinewachira1344
      @shizsunshinewachira1344 Před 3 lety +7

      Preach!!! Got out too after 10 years saw the video and couldn't go past 1 minute i Knew exactly what i was looking at....poor lady i understand

    • @kikib7310
      @kikib7310 Před 3 lety +4

      I agree! Ppl don't understand the depth & severity of being entangled w/a narcissist! They will have you on the brink of a nervous breakdown & out here looking crazy ASF!

    • @TS-cx1ty
      @TS-cx1ty Před 3 lety +2

      Yes, I watched a video of Preach and Aba and it showed a clip of DJ saying a man will tell their woman how to dress or appear on social media for the women's benefit, (not too much, drinking etc.) so he knew what he was doing smh he knew people would have something to say

    • @kevagardner4659
      @kevagardner4659 Před rokem

      This is exactly what I just stated under someone else's comment, EXACTLY! I also believe, he is more dangerous than we have yet too see, and has a level of mental illness, going on with him. Prayers goin up for her. He may, be judged just like Kevin Samuels!!! The word states, touch not thy annointed!! Kevin Samuels went out, just like he was living.

  • @aaliyahofori8991
    @aaliyahofori8991 Před 3 lety +9

    He let his wife come out like that because he didn’t want to look bad all by himself he doesn’t care anything about that poor lady I just feel so sorry for her

  • @tonytucker1
    @tonytucker1 Před 3 lety +77

    I’ve been waiting on you like your first name was Stimulus and last name Check! Come oooooonnn in the room!