FINALLY beat Masturbation - FOR GOOD! | How and Why Christians beat masturbation
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After 4 years, I finally am able to stop masturbating and live in the freedom that God designed for me as a Christian. It took me a lot of time but if he did it for me he can do it for you!
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this was really powerful for me to watch because it is a constant battle for me but I have been trying to soak in God’s Word and testimonies and I am feeling better slowly. Praying has been difficult fir me because my mind always wanders but I will still continue to pray and my hope is that I can tune and renew my mind to the things of God and leave my passions behind. God Bless You and Thank you so much for your testimony!!
Love you girl!!!! Thanks :)
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Thank you for this video! I'm 28 years old and since I hit puberty I gratified myself. Growing up without christian values just didn't teach me that this was wrong. I also felt guilt, it also build up over time. I'm kind of on the beginning of my journey back to god but I'm shocked to the core with the wisdom that I've got so far. Thank you and god bless you!
"There is a sacrifice for every sin" wow that's a powerful idea that makes perfect sense biblically but I've never heard phrased that way before. Thank you for posting this.
Wow thank you for this video. I’ve been struggling for 12 years but I need and want freedom. God bless you ❤️
Thank-you young lady. Excellent video, I can totally relate to what you said, and I'm a man who's tried to break this sinful habit for 40 years.
I just went 3 months and slipped tonight. I don't know if I ought to sink into shame or get up and keep going. I think godly sorrow is important but also confidence to keep going and fighting the good fight.
“Tears of repentance work salvation” (I can’t find this verse for some reason). 3 months is so amazing! You were only halfway through the point of heavy temptation brother. This is the part where most Christian’s fail. It’s ok to feel grieved along with the Holy Spirit but don’t let Satan condemn you (Roman’s 8:1). Keep praying and going. One mess up means nothing. Progress is a slope
Never give up, always pursue God..go Utube: are you a good person by Living Waters
The righteous man (a right living man) fall/fail seven times... God is faithful in helping us go through the difficult times and to strengthen us when we fail.
Keep trusting and asking for his help.
My record is 205 days but I’m 2 weeks now
This was an absolute Great video you have spoken exactly what I’m going through and feel at this point in time.
I really commend you for being so young and wise and intelligent enough to recognize this true sin that is so hard to deal with. I am almost 3 times your age and I can tell you that this has been quite the struggle for me but listening to this video has given me a different perspectives so thank you for having the courage to share this because it’s something that most people feel ashamed about but yet so many people do it. It is so true what you said about the guilt that you feel doing it and the prayers don’t feel the same because you’re praying out of guilt not conviction. Anyways thank you again for sharing this I definitely am glad that I found us not necessarily by accident but God knows what I’m going through and I believe has sent this my way. God bless you and again thank you for having the courage to share this🙏🏻
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Thank you so much for the effort and sincerity put in this testimony, sister. God bless your path forever.
You look very young. Even older women such as myself struggle with the same issue. It is a constant battle. We will keep asking Jesus to help us through and he will give us the victory over all these things .We as Christians desire to walk in the spiritual and not of the carnal flesh as we want to be one in spirit with Almighty God and Jesus. Praying ,getting into his word and listening to christian songs does help. God bless you
This is something, I'm a Christian who struggled with this and still struggling because when I don't want to such that's where I find my self doing🤦♂, at first I was doing this I didn't know that it was called "masturbating" until I had a thought to ask someone to explain it for me, it's worse because it turned me to share some naked pictures with someone(just a friend)... I don't know what's next but after watching your video on how you overcame it, I believe that I can too, it is easy to be caged in that but hard to come out. May God help us to have a strong minds to overcome that. This serves also as my prayer request, that pray for me too. Thanks for helping video.
You can do all things thru Christ !! Phil 4:4
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>The one true God, the creator of heaven and earth, the one who will judge everyone is present when you do this thing. Angels and demons may be there as well.
>If you feel guilty you are guilty.
>What you are thinking about is intent. Are you really any better than someone think about underage girls (Aqualung)??
>So you don’t cheat one your wife or husband? But you really want to, based on your thoughts and actions.
>Single Christian, looking for the “Right person”? How about being the right person for someone else.
@@grace_and_purity Thank you so much for encouragement and I believe that I will not fail to overcome this, because through Him, Jesus Christ who strengthens us we win. When you pray, pray for me too. Thanks!
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God bless you and thank you for the encouragement 🙏
Keep fighting the good fight of faith in Jesus Christ name ❤️✝️🕊
Thank you for being courageous and sharing
Thank you so much for making this video. It is is such great encouragement for me. God bless you.
Thank you for this encouraging video!This is something I've struggled with for a long time and have been unable to overcome.I feel like it has definitely been an addiction for me.Thanks.
Thank you so much for this kind comment :)
Thank you for this video! You’re brave and awesome 😎
I’m battling this now. I need prayer for real. What I’ve learn so far is that it is a portal for demons to come in. And they will make there presence known. Sometimes around you or more common, through your heart. Guard your heart about all things guys. Because once exposed, it is deceived and it will be a minute for it to come back to the truth.
INCORPORATE FASTING IT HELPS A LOT TO KILL OFF LUST TRY IT YOU CAN START WITH WATER FASTING ONCE A WEEK OR 2 SPLIT DAYS IN A WEEK
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thats great praying for future temptation not thought of that - I have been stuggling with this since my beakdown
Thanks for this video! Iv been struggling with this for a long time and have been getting counseling for it and trying to read my bible all the
time and reading prayer books
I can help. I'm very much like you 20 years ago. I'm free now. Jesus helped me. I've seen him. And demons are real.
When you have thoughts of porn and masterbation around you. The stalkers of Satan is trying to seduce you and make you yo fo a ritual. I suggest this.
Speak it out loud to rebuke and bound them with the chain of holy fire. You will feel a strong force backing off. This is them. And sometimes they will manifest in dreams. Genuine repentance is very important also and your fidelity. So the healing and binding wounds will be done by the lord. And most of all the help of The holy spirit must be sent to you and dwell in you. Otherwise with your own effort it will just fail.
Many did deliverance prayers. I've seen it failed. Some were successful but few.
The devil will not just give up easily. You will be tested and so the lord will teat your fidelity also and willingness if you truly want to be out if it completely.
May the lord Jesus help you and send his holy mighty powerful angels to assist you.
You can write me here if you need counselling and prayers. I can help with that and share you things the lord teach me how to battle these forces of dark powers that is trying to destroy the community of believers..
Jesus bless you
You need the power of God to break addiction. Then grace, self discipline and carefulness to keep or sustain yourself
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Good video. I was set free in March of 2020. Masturbation and pornography completely stopped. Adult magazines and adult video websites. Praise to our Lord and Savior Christ Jesus of Nazareth, His blood, God the Father, the Holy Ghost and the word of God
Amazing testimony !!! Share it !!
@@grace_and_purity if get a chance, I have a short video on my channel Robert Tucker 5
your testimony gives strength to others and myself vry proud of your grouth in the lord and bravery
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Amen. God bless all who fight against sin
Proud of you. Let's get in touch soon. 🏴
Lol thanks for the hype man 😁 forgot you followed me haha. Hopefully will see you this summer , I’ll most likely visit CT :-)
I struggle with this. I definitely used to think in the line of “it’s normal“ but I still felt guilty and dirty afterwards. I feel I’m doing better but I have a long way to go. Please pray for me I need your prayers. Thank you for your video it does help.
Don't worry, you're not proving something, you're helping and sensitizing.
Song of Solomon, Chapter 5.
Vs 2.
I slept, but my heart was awake.
Listen! my beloved is knocking.
Vs 5.
I arose to open to my beloved,
and my hands dripped with myrrh,
my fingers with liquid myrrh,
upon the handles of the bolt.
(It is about him in between those verses.)
Something else you need to know about this girl in chapter 5.
Who is she?
Chap 1:8 “fairest among women,”
Chap 4:7 ‘You are altogether beautiful, my love; there is no flaw in you.’
Chap 5:2 “flawless”
Chap 5:9 “O fairest among women”
Chap 6:9 "... perfect,... pure,... blessed..."
Chapter 6:11 identifies her as a Shulammite. The meaning of the name is “From the verb שלם (shalem), to be or make whole or complete” - getting out of bed with her hand dripping with 'myrrh' - she was masturbating herself.
It means sexual purity includes being about to masturbate oneself.
Jesus Christ is Lord
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In my opinion, masturbation is a sin because any addiction means there is the presence of a demon. Look at James 4: 7-10. Before we resist the enemy we must submit ourselves to God. If we are masturbating and we cannot stop, we are under the compulsion of a demon. We must submit ourselves to God before we can even resist the enemy, otherwise the enemy will bring more demons back to our clean, unsubmitted, house. For me I had to realize that the rejection I have faced was the impetus for wanting to masturbate. That was the legal right allowing the demon to enter. So I had to submit my rejection to Jesus, so that He could take it away and begin to do the process of healing you talk about in your video.
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For David, define addiction!!!??? As having high sex drive or being hypersexual isn't exactly addiction!!!
And, to say so, does sure seem like every other thing is a sin in christianity, be it even anxiety, depression or even a headache!!!
@@mfky Hi Leo. An addiction is a compulsion that we cannot resist and we cannot stop doing, no matter how hard we try. An addiction could be anything. Coffee, TV, fast food, making money, Netflix, illegal drugs, prescription drugs, porn, masturbation, sexual fantasy, unforgiveness, hatred, racism, eating, drinking, laziness. The things that are considered sins in Christianity are those things that take you away from being able to worship God by contaminating you with sin. The Old Testament has hundreds of commandments by which we know what sin is and that our very being is sinful. Everyone is born into sin, considered children of Adam and Eve, the first created humans who fell from God’s Grace in the garden of Eden. The New Testament sets us free to be led by the Holy Spirit affecting our own conscience by putting our faith in Jesus Christ and his shed blood cleansing us from all of our sins and making us a new creation and children of Jesus Christ. There is no way to avoid sin. Sanctification, the process of becoming clean and pure in the eyes of God, is a lifelong process.
GOD BLESS YOU SISTER AND PLEASE KEEP THE FAITH, OUR LORD AND SAVIOR WAS ON THIS EARTH 33YEARS WITHOUT SIN, SCIENCETIST SAYS THAT HE ONLY HAD HIS MOTHER'S D.N.A , BUT HIS MOTHER WAS A VIRGIN CORRECT, LOVE YOU SISTER AND KEEP THE FAITH. POPE IVA. 🕊🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕯🕊
Awesome video, congrats! Do you have a link for the 90 day challenge video by chance?
I am currently taking the 90 day challenge and will upload a video of it :) in the description you can watch Craig’s video, the link is in there !! The challenge is described in the latter half of the video
@@grace_and_purity Thank you for your response, I really appreciate it!
May God bless you and his Spirit guide your steps 🫂🙋
@@DGSantaFe medium.com/illumination/what-porn-does-to-your-brain-and-how-to-quit-78cfd1d899bd
What made you start doing it....and also what were your triggers
It's a spirit that influences you. You have to rid yourself of that spirit of lust and it will flee. It will return in another season of your life to see if you will fall into the same temptation trap. The word of God/ Sword 🗡️ of the Spirit keeps him at bay. Amen!
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I've quit sexual sins for 8 months straight but then gave into it once again. Now I'm going to try not too once again. May God help me.
May I be curious: what sexual sins?
1 Corinthians 15:57
But thanks be to God, which giveth us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ.
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@@Mike-zy8in Romans 3:10
As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:
You have to be set free from sin in order to be a good person.
@@fightthegoodfightoffaithmi8676 I agree like Jesus said no one is good but God alone..I was just trying to share with you that video as myself, I was ignorant of my sin...Like Paul said I didnt know sin intill the Law showed me. Once we look into The Law (10 Commandments) and use it as a mirror we see our need for The Savior .He is the fulfillment of the Law
@@fightthegoodfightoffaithmi8676 Pslam 19:7
The law of the LORD is perfect, converting the soul: the testimony of the LORD is sure, making wise the simple.
@@Mike-zy8in Exactly brother Mike, I agree with you on that one before we are saved by God's Grace what are we we are the total opposite of good we are evil is what we are.
What is natural and artificial.
Your both beautiful woke queens
Peace and the love of Jesus to you all. I'm very happy to see overcomes of the carnal flesh desire. Take note . Satan will try desperately to tempt you again and again.
But now you who have the holy spirit and power of self control I suggest to crush and destroy Satan and his agent stalking you. Bound them with the Holy chains of fire, make them blind, mute, deaf and strip them of their dark powers and completely paralyze them. in Jesus holy mighty name. Amen .
Let the holy wall of fire go around you . And may the lord put a shutter to your eyes and ears and heart and soul rejecting and hating all evil that it will not enter your body. In Jesus name amen.
To those who struggle I suggest true repentance and submissions completely to our lord and God and savior Jesus .. he will not abandon you ..
Fight a good fight . Jesus is your commander and chief . He will lead and follow him. Trust him completely with your life. He never fails and he never lies. Its all worthy to give your life to him. Praise him. He is all of you. In Jesus name amen
I used to be slave to pprn and masterbation for 20 years. JESUS SET ME FREE. walking in the spirit life and assisting those people who have struggles and wanted to be free from this kind if slavery .
The holy spirit must be given to a person to fight the carnal desires of these body.
I was brought up as a Christian in the UK. The first time I did I was around 10 and I didn't feel guilty, even if I didn't know what was going on. It was only later on when I was told that it was some kind of sin did I start to feel guilty. This is what people mean when they say you don't feel naturally guilty about doing it unless you are conditioned to. Later I was told there was actually no official line on masturbation in the Church of England, some priests or scholars might say its wrong, while others let you decide. For me its natural and I don't feel guilty.
I also think its a huge waste of energy focussing so much on this when there are so many more important things you can do to help others or yourself. When you think of people starving in the world, people living in absolute misery, children without parents who have been killed in wars who are being abused or girls that are being forced into prostitution. The homeless, parents that have lost children, family members that got a cancer diagnosis, old people left on their own for years in care homes with nobody. There are so many things we can do to better ourselves, so many people to help its only when you live a super comfortable life and don't have any real suffering to deal with is anybody going to focus on if they should masturbate or not. Ok, I'm just making a point I actually think you have experienced some serious sadness in your life, just a hunch - I do think you are a sensitive and intelligent person btw
Look at it this way, how high up in God's scheme do you really think a young person's masturbating is when compared to hundreds of millions of others doing the same, or much, much worse - stealing, abusing, lying, fighting, violence, killing, betraying sexually wife or husband, visiting prostitutes or worse inflicting pain upon them, torturing others physically or mentally, self harm....... The list is huge and I genuinely believe out of all these serious issues masturbation is close to the bottom of God's priorities. He is not looking for perfection, he is looking for a genuine attempt to help others and to be a better person.
I'm not trying to convince you, to some degree you can't help how you feel, but understanding why you feel a certain way is pretty important - its also not a bad thing to have your opinions challenged so please don't feel bad about me disagreeing with you. One last thing to return to the topic obviously some people can have a real problem with it, I mean anybody masturbating multiple times a day, well that's not going to be healthy is the same way that overeating or any other habit is bad.
Thanks for your comment. I don’t see how the suffering of the world would tie into personal conviction … maybe since we live in a sinful world it makes sense. Satan encouraged me to start self gratifying and because of him I couldn’t stop for a long time. Other people in the world are suffering because of Satan.
I personally am so much happier without masturbation. It is a sin because it breaks the seventh commandment (lust). I don’t identify with a church because church isn’t my God. I have a personal relationship with the savior of my soul. It is a supernatural conviction that taught me to stop.
I understand that you probably did not feel guilty as I did because you may not be born again. When we are born again we are hyper sensitive to sin. You could make the same argument if I made a video about “I stopped telling white lies”, but to me every small sin is serious not because of its “weight” but because it is done in knowing rebellion.
@@grace_and_purity I totally agree with Once You know and are Aware of your Personal Sin which I believe Only God is The one Who makes us Aware of Such Sin. That It makes it Blatant Rebellion Against the God Whom loves us enough to Open our eyes to the Sin around us. All Sin is Bad and Is Equally Damaging to Your Relationship With God Once you know It is Sin.
@@grace_and_purity One of the central tennets of Christianity is to help others. These were the values instilled in us via the teachings and actions of Jesus. Helping others is an act of personal conviction while making the world a better place.
Other people in the world are suffering because of Satan sounds a little like you are saying that to help others isn't your responsibility since its Satan that's doing it. Following that logic since it was Satan encouraging you to masturbate, you are not responsible. I mean I don't agree with that way of thinking if that is what you are saying about what Satan does cannot be helped.
Besides the seventh commandment is that "thou shall not commit adultery", right? Since when it adultery masturbation? Unless you are not talking about mainstream Christianity???
I suppose my question is why is not masturbating more important that loving thy neighbour? A commandment vs a disputed rule in Christianity. Its not the weight I'm talking about here - its clarity, there is no dispute about loving thy neighbour being very important. There is disagreement in the church on the subject we have been talking about.
You are right that I'm not born again. But I don't see why born again Christians would have a different bible or different rules than mainstream Christianity.
@@alexandra000018 Jesus said that “whoever looks at a woman (or man) with lust has already committed adultery with her in his/her heart” in Matthew (chapter 6 I believe). This means that masturbation is a sin because of the thought crime rule. Of course none are good and no one has not broken this command. Jesus doesn’t ask for perfection but for our devotion.
Of course it is important to love others and it’s absolutely the churches responsibility to help those who need help. But the truth is we are in a cursed world and there is a limit to our actions. Jesus is the only hope. I can feed a person for a month but I cannot give them hope. Only Jesus can do that.
Masturbating is of course not as important as helping and loving others because Jesus said that loving others is the greatest command (after loving God).
Please look into the living waters CZcams channel for more information on being born again, I promise it is worth your time. Unless you are born again you cannot enter the kingdom of heaven (this is in Matthew also. Please let me know and I’ll send you the exact verses. Like this comment so I get the notification and can respond) 🙂
@@grace_and_purity but why do you always associate lust with masturbation what if you do masturbate without lust
Mary me and you will have no problem with this
Are you in the top 10% of males? Seems that's what they wait for but by the time they make themselves available for selection by a partner they are already worn down or hit the wall. Gender relations need to improve. Decades of wasted energy without a partner due to poor social skills, safe partner selection. Seems like an epidemic. Standard human beings refusing to collaborate on safe partner selection. Hopefully they find good partners get a good marriage and then have children. Just an insane amount of withholding until the bottom of the 9th inning, counting on a grand slam. By then it's almost too late to turn around the game. Bad strategy.
@@DEMediaDrive whatever. i like your vid. I'm struggling with this God created feeling.
Why is it that 70% of adults masturbate weekly?
Why is it that medical science recommends masturbation to prevent prostate problems, including prostate cancer?
I wonder as well. Masturbation is not even sin according to the bible.
wow...really?
medical science also promotes 100 genders besides male and female.....
they even suggest that YOU can be a female too.
Do you agree with EVERYTHING they say?
@@patricj951 lust is a sin.... do you masturbate while not lusting?
When the Christian God says, "Love me or I will burn you in Hellfire forever," why is that different from a rapist holding a gun to a woman's head and saying, "Give me what I want or I will blow your brains out?" Where in that do you see God's love or his respect for free will? When someone threatens to burn you screaming and thrashing about in horrible agony for a million, billion, trillion, gazillion years, after which your agony will have only just begun, they are obviously attempting to deny you your free will. A god that would torture any living creature in such a monstrous manner is devoid of justice, mercy, and love. If a man were to throw a living dog or a cat into a fire, you would think that man was a psychopath. Christians tell us that God is like a loving father. What loving father throws his child into a fire? This is not a good god. Don't tell me the Christian God does not throw people into the fire. Nothing can exist without God. He created everything. He created the test: if you pass you go to Heaven. If you fail you burn. If he wanted to save us from the fire, he needed only to stop burning us. If you approve of such cruelty, there is something horribly wrong with you.
I would ask you if there is any person on this earth, or in history, that you think is deserving of hell. Is Hitler deserving of hell? How about the men that pimp out young defenseless girls to make money? Or the soldiers in WWII that tortured POWs beyond reason, though they were breaking their contract with the other nations in doing so? And people that starve and torture little animals? Doesn't that just make you sick to the stomach?
We seem to be selective about who should go to Hell and who is "good". No one is good; no one can be good. We are slaves to our own human nature. Christ sets us free from the curse of the law, which is dead. If you think you are alive now, and you are not saved, you are wrong and in bondage! You are "dead in your sins" and unable to do anything good. But this is not to make statements on your morality, because truly we cannot do anything good apart from God. He has given us a free ticket to FREEDOM, JOY and PEACE. These are all wonderful qualities that the normal earth-bound man cannot fully experience or know. Hell exists to punish the sin. The person can separate themselves from sin by trusting Jesus and repenting. Therefore people that go to Hell go by their own free will. They don't have to live by God's principles of "loving others and doing good to mankind, keeping peace." They can go along and say "no thank you".
So ==> when will you beat the sin of LYING ==> for good ? LMAO !
Why beat something which is not even sin in the bible?
Why beat something which is the only way a christian who wants to wait with sexual intercourse until marriage, but cannot live restrained, can handle the sexual desire?
The bible does not say that lust is sin! Matthew 5:28 talks about coveting another persons wife/spouse! That is a forbidden lust.
You can't have sex at all without lust because sex IS lust. One kind of lust. You can have other kinds of lust to. Everything you desire is lust.
You are so deceived by the purity culture in the church!
Lust is a sin. Sex is not lust. Masturbation is sin
@@Ellaceeceebee
And water is not wet. Fire is not hot. Sun is not bright. Right?
Ultimately sad. Following dogma that historically treated your people as property, but still keeping the doctrine that keeps women as property today.
Masturbation is a normal human process . The fact that a god would care just shows how it's only control.
Can you point out where the Christian scriptures treat women as property?
Masturbation is a learned behavior and it's not inherent to the human being. I challenge you to not do it for 90 days just to see the effects.
@@ExNihiloNihilFit319 it is a learned behavior. One shared among thousands of species.
And there are many examples throughout the old testament. And in Corinthians.
But I mean how many women were litteraly sold on the old testament. Which was ordained by god.
Then god saying a woman isint worth half of a man.
Then the whole if your slave has kids with another slave and the man leaves but the wife and children must stay with the slave master
@@ExNihiloNihilFit319 and funny you assume I masturbate. Good job there bud
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@@Mike-zy8in You mean “Lying Asswaters Ministries” by Ray Cumfart.
Masturbation is normal and healthy.
I highly suggest you think for yourself and do ACTUAL RESEARCH from real historians and scientists, instead of allowing doctrines from a collection of agenda-selected writings dictate your thinking.