My Narcissistic Wife Groomed a Minor, and Their Neglectful Parents Practically Sold Him for Money...
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- čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
- 0:00 1st story:
AITAH for not sympathizing with my ex wife's AP after she groomed and abused him? (u/OkOstrich6619 in r/AITAH)
13:34 2nd story:
WIBTA if I forced my son to end his relationship if his grades dont go up. (u/ThrowRA543421 in r/AmItheAsshole)
18:47 3rd story:
My husband is hiding having lunch with a younger female coworker and insulting my food (u/ThrowRa-Lunch in r/relationship_advice)
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This is why i hate when others guys say these situations are different when it's a younger guy and older woman, no the hell it's not, it's equally as evil and vile.
I agree 100% on that one. The ones who say that situation is different are stuck in that Hot for teacher era, as someone else in the comments put it, from back in the 1980s.
My thoughts exactly whenever I hear someone say that boys and men can't be victims of sexual abuse. I always think, "How would you know?" Gender doesnt make you immune to abuse
Meh I’ve never had a problem like this with an older woman wanna know why because I can set boundaries. Poor kid was probably like I don’t wanna lose this free sex so ok anything you want.
Edit:nvm just got to the part that said he could have been a minor. Yeah fuck that lady.
there is always this weird air about female predators and it's so disgusting
One word: WOODCHIPPER!
Story 1 I hope the kid gets help he needs. Every adult in his life failed him.
If he was a girl people would ve reacted with more empathy and care.
nah hes a pos he got his friends to msg him
@@krazykrazy8513dude, he was a minor who was groomed by a hot young adult. Of course he would do that sort of thing to try and look cool to her
@@krazykrazy8513 likely got groomed into that too (by family or by ex, idk), and even if he didn't, that was 2 years ago and he likely has changed. not to defend his actions (it's _op_ who gets to forgive him, not us), but he's clearly not the same person.
@@leeshyd531 ye
Story 1: Disgusting. I hope this vile person gets the worst possible punishment. It's so sad that every adult failed this child.
Story 2: Honestly, taking away the kid's social life won't help at all. My own parents let me go out and watch TV and all that buuuut my schoolwork had to be finished first.
fr some people in the comments don't understand. grounding your kids won't fix anything with grades.
i think people need to realize that when your a parent you have to be involved with they're schooling as well. not hands off and "letting them handle it"
op failing his son.
A religious friend has a very good looking teen son and during religious school holidays has him working as server at his brother's cafe, a woman somehow manipulated him to meet her outside and he went missing. Friend frantically searching for him and finally found him in the woman's condo using her car number. The virgin boy who never smoked was found drugged, smoking and had sex. He's a broken boy and being cared by friend and his other sons also have extra precautions. Don't assume boys are safe on their own.
Damn! I would lose my mind if this happened to my kid.
That boy in story 1 is incapable of performing any decisions. He's clearly broken. Get that EX and her goons into HECK immediately.
Story 2: y doesn't my child talk to me anymore
Story 1:
*_“WE CAN'T EXPECT GOD TO DO ALL THE WORK !!!”_* ~ Joshua Graham, *_Fallout: New Vegas_*
😡😡😡😡
This sounds truly horrendous.
It really is
@@SecretVoices25Your AI's storytelling is becoming.....extreme and imaginative
@@frost3193 it's called text to speech, it repeats what's already written by humans.
Story 2 pisses me off so much. Thats the crap my parents would do even when i did nothing wrong. these parents suck.
Story 1... Holy crap... I can't even begin to imagine how difficult this situation is...
He should testify and tell the judge that the family sold him and they below in jail.
Alot of parents can't help their children with homework because they don't have the education
problem is they dont put in the effort either
Perfect assessment.
parents shouldnt help, anyway. how will they learn otherwise?
@@matthewbarabas3052they should, the parents are helping not doing the homework
As much as i'm a firm believer in karma AP was part of it but he's still a child who had the misfortune of being a victim of a horrible woman and her circle of freaks and family
Ex-Wife should change her name to She Diddy because WTF?!
Story 1: What the actual hell was this story?
Story 2: Worst mother of the year award goes to this OP. Because wow.
Story 2 op and her husband will be feeling stupid wondering why their son cut them off completely.
Something else is going down, if this is the first time hes had his grades took such a turn, if their not even Bs and Cs now, that son has some shit going down that they have either left out or hes to scared to tell them or he did tell thek and they dont care
Woooooow second mother is an utter disaster
You don't get positive results with negative reinforcement.
Punishing him and sucking the life out of him will only make him resent them.
Thats not how you motivate someone. You motivate people with rewards
And I know what you're thinking 'you shouldnt reward someone for something they're supposed to do anyways'
And that's fair. But it's proven rewards work. The kids being given pocket money for chores are far more motivated to do it well than those doing it begrudgingly because ordered to.
So point is...does OP want good results or not?
she just wants good results, nothing else
@@cototototorra7106Shes not even gonna get good results. I guarantee you that kid is gonna end up majorly depressed because of a lack of social life. And thats going to hit his grades SIGNIFICANTLY harder
@@ryanmackenzie6109 and the fathers are gonna ban him to even breath air because everything other than them is at fault
@@cototototorra7106bruh op failing her child.
instead of stepping up and seeing what the actual problem was.she putting the blame on him having a girlfriend?
no just no she needs to be a parent and actually help her child.
are people forgetting school only gets harder each year and kids are gonna get help
and yet..... it worked. what now?
Story 2: That comment about parents wanting their kids to make good grades despite the parents themselves not doing any thing is so real. Everything falls on the literal child to do because it’s just expected for the kid to be able to have top notch grades at all times. Sure schoolwork wasn’t so bad for me in High School and I graduated with honors but the fact that my parents never helped me with any fucking thing growing up sure as hell didn’t help.
Story two I bet she didn’t even read any comments against her
S2- My parents actually went through with confiscating my stuff/time with my bad grades (I was never good at studies and all my family cared about was grades because if I got good grades I'd be successful in life) and let me tell you, it's torture. I lost a lot of interest in hobbies and screwed up a lot of relationships with my friends. OP is totally an asshole.
After I heard what they did I understood because I lived with my uncle and they were strict. What she did would not and will not help like the one commet said on the video make sure you did your homework first then let you do other things but you also have to look at it from there point of view and keep your grades up so they can't bitch
its a failure on your part for not getting good grades if you were capable of getting them in the first place. and, they arent wrong. you can only be successful if you have good grades up until at least finishing high school.
@@matthewbarabas3052 I always tried my hardest despite my obvious ADHD tendencies (among other problems I had) but it was never good enough. Even my teachers gave me extra work to "push me" and getting professional help was out of the question because my parents dismissed it and just called me lazy and that I should just work harder. I was also verbally abused for not understanding "simple things" when it just never clicked for me.
@@matthewbarabas3052 This comment is so wrong it makes you look stupid actually. Are you 12?
First story: One word. WOODCHIPPER.
Second story: I love the stophittingthyself username.
Third story: He’s having an affair and she’s only THINKING about getting a separation?! Also…am I the only one that finds the whole waking up randomly at 2:15 am…needing a shower thing odd?
Bro why tf is he destroying the stairs shit looked good enough.
Truly feel sorry for the kid, I hope he gets all the help possible. Such a shame he was surrounded by failures
Story1 : sad but not your problem
This is why men need strong positive male role models. If OP had someone to teach him how to see past his emotions and see that the flags were red he wouldn't have ever dated that crazy chick.
And that poor child. They failed him in every way. This child life would have been better if his dad was a "good man."
obsolete thinking. you dont need strong male role models. or female role models. you just need someone *intelligent* to raise them.
That is the dumbest shit I have ever heard 😂😂 do you know how many of my homies have strong as hell fathers with crazy mothers that had no business have kids? It has nothing to do with strong male role models, and y’all need to stop with this mess where every problem in the world can be solved by one.
OMG Icant believe those situation
op2's kid is gonna become depressed as fuck.
Agreed. And worse, he'll rebel, and on his 18th birthday, he'll take off with a new girlfriend, and marry her to get away from OP.
Story 2:
Do those parents wear armbands? Clearly acting gestapo enough!
Sorry 2: YWBTA, but your son does need to take school seriously.
So OP a adult been taken advantage of was harassed by the ex’s family AP (groomed victim) and his family and friends
And they want OPs help in putting ex and others behind bars
OP was abused by his ex too from what he shared they want a victim to face their abuser to save another victim that added to their trauma so in OPs mind that victim is also OPs abuser and brought more abusers and harassment
I can understand wanting to help but OP is a victim also
If it helps OP can see it as his Karma (as hateful as that sounds) and give his ex and her freaks and family theirs including throwing jabs at the kids parents for the cherry on top of
Story 1 reading title whoa
but #3. this is what happens trying to fix damaged goods. op's own post demonstrates this. night terrors and whateer problems. he got arrogant. but losing his sanity. he will end up on the streets or an asylum
Damn sucks to be that 18 year old
tell baby boy hubby to hurry it up or he will be aided out of the house. this is what happens when you try and rescue a damaged male. people are too gung ho in getting hitched or getting knocked up. he's losing his marbles
Story 1 - Honestly. First question people willfully ignore when an older man or woman targets someone half their age is why can't they get someone to date them that's their own age? The answer is really simple. They're just predators that want someone naive to control. A fresh 18 year old might be an adult according to the law but they don't know anything. I feel so sad for that younger guy. Everyone in his life absolutely failed him and he's going to carry the trauma from this toxic relationship for the rest of his life all because his family was greedy.
Story 2 - NTA but op needs to change tactical approach. This kind of thing would only force someone to dig in deeper into a potentially toxic relationship. In the future when op's son gets older op should expect to be put on a low contact status.
Story 3 - I already heard this one anf still believe op made the right decision. The female coworker is an aspiring homewrecker and now she can deal with op's ex husband's multiple emotional and psychological problems now. I hope op can find someone that will value her loving dedication and loyalty but she'll never get back those years she spent married to that ingrate.
second story: YTA. let his grades plummet. its his mistake to make, and his alone. dont interfere. if you do, he might just quit entirely just to piss you off.
So just support a soon to be dropout?
Wow. I don't remember the last time I absolutely despised everyone (but OP) in the story.
Yes, guys can be groomed by women but I am 99% certain the young man was a happy, willing participant for most if not all of his time with the perverts.
And everyone else is worse: broken and worthless as humans.
OP deserves an award for managing to stay out of it as much as they did.
That award is a guilt-free conscience - if he'll ever accept it.
Maybe at first, but then he wasn't so willing once authorities have recognised the seriousness of the situation.
Story 2: If you think OP was a bad parent, then you had it easy growing up. Kid was doing great in school till he got a gf. Parents grounded him (for the first time per the story) until he got his grades back up. I myself had a couple of girlfriends during my high school and college years, and I managed not to let my grades slip. Having a girlfriend/boyfriend is not an excuse for poor time management and letting your grades slip.
or instead of blaming another human
how about getting involved with your child. bruh isn't being an involved parent
you think kids are just going to be flawless all year snd have good grades all the time? no you can't blame him having a girlfriend as a reason he failing.
actually see why he's failing. and maybe he can improve ya know be an involved fuckin parent
I mean, they could just be more involved parents. That’s an option. What a concept
S2: No one who thinks OP is the AH should have kids. Ever. The kid was doing stellar until he had a girlfriend, and now he’s missing assignments, turning in essays literally WEEKS late, and overall just dropping the ball. Parents are going to let him see his GF as much as he wants after he gets all B’s and C’s. Meaning the kid was bringing home D’s and F’s. The kid messed up greatly and now drastic measures need to be taken ASAP. There’s no “time management” that needs to be learned right now. He needs to get everything back where it is supposed to be, and THEN they can teach him work/life balance. Reddit is full of entitled brats who think parents should always bend to their children’s whims otherwise CPS ought to be called.
The commenters aren't telling the OP to let his kid do whatever he'd like. They're telling them to be more involved in their life, as something other than a simple source of threats and punishments. The parents rejected the *correct* advice that was given in the comments: Get more involved and see what he actually needs. Find out what's going on *first* before taking drastic measures. He claimed his teachers were being unfair; if you prove him wrong, then you have far more justification for grounding that he could understand, such as the fact that he's lying to get out of it.
Unfortunately, it sounds like the commentators are right. They were uninvolved parents before, and his success in school was his own personal accomplishment - with his parents contributions simply being paying for stuff. They are uninvolved parents now, simply threatening to take away *things* at a distance as their only real response.
Don't let your anger at "entitled brats" blind you to what's actually going on here. If they rejected this advice, I highly doubt there will be an "then". They'll just keep providing punishments if he slips, but not provide him actual help; just threats.
Please genuinely honest to god do not put yourself in a position of authority over a child. Ever. You will mess them up. Do not have kids. Do not adopt. Do not become a teacher or mentor.
You wanna see bad grades? Deprive a kid of their social life. Watch how fast their entire wellbeing tanks. I can PROMISE you that kid is going to be significantly worse off than if the parents had legitimately just let the kid fail a year.
I'm not going to sit here and say you should let kids fail their clases. However, like that one comment said, those parents taught that kid NOTHING. "Were gonne work you to th bone and then work you even harder and ALSO if you cant make this up, punish you for that too" is not a sufficient life lesson. Thats only breeding resentment.
You know what hes going to learn from this? "I can't be trusted to have a relationship with anyone because I dont understand how to manage my time effectively, so I'll avoid dating for years."
And that is _not_ the kind of message you want to be sending your child. Maybe, just maybe, teaching him those genuine time management skills would help him avoid this situation in the future, because as it stands, this is a cycle that's either going to repeat itself again and again or crash and burn horribly.
A more reasonable course of action would have been to ground him for a few weeks, maybe a month. Enough time to get back on track. Let him have his weekends to spend how he wants only if and when his other scholwork is done. And teach him how to manage his time while doing so. Slowly reintroduce activities and priviledges and help him problem solve better ways to plan things so hes not dropping his grades again. But these parents decided to make their child figure that out himself, instead of being parents.
mf i was on punishment for a whole school year do you know how it feels to be stuck inside not being able to do anything or see friends?
op needs to be MORE INVOLVED not ripping him down.
want him to get grades HELP HIM
What the actual fck was the title I just read.
Unfortunately that title was not misleading. That situation was just screwed up