OP's Son Was on His Deathbed, and They Are Saying Their Last Goodbyes. Narcissistic MIL, Who Coul...

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  • čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
  • 00:00 1st story:
    AITA for how I reacted to my in laws following my son's death (u/throwawayimbroken13/ in r/JUSTNOMIL)
    21:54 2nd story:
    Husband of 7 yrs admitted one-night stand while away for Thanksgiving (u/MilaniaRusso in r/infidelity)
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  • @Twilight24682
    @Twilight24682 Před 17 dny +11

    RIP to the child on story 1 sorry for your loss OP

  • @RepellentJeff
    @RepellentJeff Před 19 dny +111

    Mom either has no therapist, or that therapist sucks.
    Basically saying “You need to open yourself up to more abuse for your abuser’s sake.”

    • @develyntwocentshenderson5739
      @develyntwocentshenderson5739 Před 19 dny +1

      mentals can control themselves better than people think. mentals lie, think they don't need help. think they don't need meds. it is everyone else's problem or fault and when faced with rock solid proof they are crappy people just deny, deflect and otherwise walk away from any possible help. I have NO sympathy for them when they harm and hurt other people.

    • @southernflight5078
      @southernflight5078 Před 19 dny +9

      A lot of times, you'll meet some half-assed therapist who only cares about their client and no one else.

    • @RoseKoneko
      @RoseKoneko Před 19 dny +8

      They only have her side. My mom is bipolar too, she never told her therapist that she tried to hit me with her car, just that I took her keys. Nothing is their fault, it’s everyone else who made them do this or that. Or even better; “I’m mentally ill, get over it” said with a shrug as an apology.

    • @RemixerUltimate
      @RemixerUltimate Před 19 dny +6

      @@southernflight5078 a lot of times with clients that are really good at presenting themselves as victimized individuals, it’s really easy to be fooled into thinking they are mostly innocent, and opt for reconciliation to outside family members. The therapist is only getting one side. Group therapy tends to be the environments where they get caught in 4k.

  • @peterwilliams6361
    @peterwilliams6361 Před 19 dny +239

    The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalized

    • @GaryStewart2
      @GaryStewart2 Před 19 dny +2

      There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 Před 19 dny +1

      Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white

    • @DailamiPuang
      @DailamiPuang Před 19 dny

      This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.

  • @develyntwocentshenderson5739

    sounds like that baby had one last look at the outside. thanks for giving his little life that one last blessing. sorry for the loss ..

  • @badluck5006
    @badluck5006 Před 19 dny +68

    The last story lady needs to find a safe house after she serves him he sounds like that would kill her and the daughter then hisself

  • @MyBlackPumpkinSoup
    @MyBlackPumpkinSoup Před 19 dny +19

    Story 1 is basically two victims of abuse finding strenght in each other to get better, build a family and cut the toxicity out of their lives. Good. OP is a great dude and I wish nothing but blessings to him and his wife!

  • @andersondawn3631
    @andersondawn3631 Před 19 dny +47

    If there’s no update for the second story, she’s dead. The warning signs are all there this guy is going to snap and kill her and himself and possibly even their own daughter if he can’t keep their family together. Can’t this lady see the warning the signs?

    • @Thewavedemonjackal
      @Thewavedemonjackal Před 18 dny +1

      The post is over a year old with no update

    • @alorarhodes1568
      @alorarhodes1568 Před 18 dny +5

      Now she might not be able to post any more for other reasons. A lawyer will tell her "don't post anything anymore". Especially if he failed to hurt them

    • @reneeharper84
      @reneeharper84 Před 10 dny

      I'm worried about that too honestly

  • @secretly-a-kobold
    @secretly-a-kobold Před 19 dny +60

    2nd story: run FAR AWAY

  • @ARcinder
    @ARcinder Před 19 dny +90

    Story 1. I feel bad for OP's nephew. His dad dies them mom becomes a 304.

    • @amazingdoorbob5458
      @amazingdoorbob5458 Před 19 dny +3

      What's a 304?

    • @justsomedangerbigfootwithweb
      @justsomedangerbigfootwithweb Před 19 dny +4

      What's a 304?

    • @RepellentJeff
      @RepellentJeff Před 19 dny +15

      @@amazingdoorbob5458 A way to say a word that starts with W without it getting deleted immediately.

    • @_junedays_1614
      @_junedays_1614 Před 19 dny +2

      I feel bad for the niece.

    • @Blurgamer17
      @Blurgamer17 Před 19 dny +7

      ​@@amazingdoorbob5458 Remember those 7-bar calculators in school you used to write words with using the num-pad? Think of the image of "304" upside-down.

  • @princessmarlena1359
    @princessmarlena1359 Před 19 dny +5

    Condolences to the OP and his wife over their kid. Those in-laws are monsters.

  • @darrylblanch8463
    @darrylblanch8463 Před 18 dny +4

    Story 2. Yes. His behavior IS typical of cheeters, love bombing, guilt tripping, stalking, using children against betrayed spouse, threatening self deletion, getting family/friends to "talk about forgiveness and reconciliation, they are eternally sorry, it was just 1 mistake, you cant destroy our family because of 1 mistake... the list goes on.

  • @brandonwoeldike2084
    @brandonwoeldike2084 Před 19 dny +21

    Ops wife in story 1 sounds like a lovely lady, and I’m sorry for your loss.
    Now, I mean ALL the disrespect when I say that your wife’s family really are just bastards

    • @129140163
      @129140163 Před 15 dny

      Don’t insult bastards like that.
      At the time of this comment, I have only watched up to the 5:08 mark and I’m dumbfounded by the MIL. I think there’s more wrong with her than mere narcissism.
      EDIT: 6:11 Yep, I was right. She’s bipolar. ON TOP of being a narcissist. I feel very sorry for OP, his wife, and her aunt and grandmother.

  • @terylsmile3642
    @terylsmile3642 Před 19 dny +4

    Last Story: OP needed to call a professional in mental health a long time ago. She's trying t manage a ticking time bomb on hope alone.

  • @develyntwocentshenderson5739

    bet daddict is glad he got drunk. and threatening self harm. just manipulation. if he follows through?? too bad, so sad. nothing left but tears and a hole in the ground. dont' let the gate hit you on the way out

  • @danielgoodrich264
    @danielgoodrich264 Před 19 dny +6

    Sounds like mom needs serious professional help.

  • @develyntwocentshenderson5739

    bi polar. it is genetic you know.

  • @bluediamond3248
    @bluediamond3248 Před 9 dny

    Story 2: WTF... LADY RUN! His eyes are dark and cold?! He pacing the floor?! He's acting like he's not himself!? I'm not even in this situation and it's giving me anxiety. What kind of psycho switch did he flip?! Lady you need to run and hide this guy is completely UNSTABLE.

  • @RyukinJakka
    @RyukinJakka Před 19 dny +11

    2nd story going through all of that just because he couldn't keep it in his pants smfh. Also he's irrational and leaning into the manipulation tactics of threatening to off himself

    • @madalinamazareanu2770
      @madalinamazareanu2770 Před 19 dny +1

      He isn't threatening to off himself. Where did you see that ? He is irrational and should see a therapist, but I doubt OP could get him to do that.

    • @RyukinJakka
      @RyukinJakka Před 19 dny

      28:32 ​@@madalinamazareanu2770

  • @S.U1399
    @S.U1399 Před 8 dny

    Story 2 is a big yikes and womp-womp kind of situation, yikes for the wife and Womp-womp for the husband

  • @GloriousRock
    @GloriousRock Před 19 dny +5

    Welp op gone

  • @gabrielsfilms2086
    @gabrielsfilms2086 Před 19 dny +7

    well. 2nd op is dead.

    • @gabrielsfilms2086
      @gabrielsfilms2086 Před 19 dny +7

      well. just checked her reddit account and apparently all this was from a year ago so... yah I doubt OP is doing well

    • @reneeharper84
      @reneeharper84 Před 10 dny

      ​@gabrielsfilms2086 unfortunately I think you're right

  • @paulahowlett8452
    @paulahowlett8452 Před 5 dny

    S2, once a cheater always a cheater. He will say it was the beer the next time too

  • @panzer508
    @panzer508 Před 18 dny

    Her father has the true sigma mind set.

  • @develyntwocentshenderson5739

    a mistake is putting on a black sock with a navy one. a choice is what he did. and she lets him around to tuck the kid in. what a maroon.. bugs bunny

  • @christophertolin7581
    @christophertolin7581 Před 19 dny +7

    Op, I want this to be private. Also op let me put this on the internet.

  • @greenteafinch9833
    @greenteafinch9833 Před 19 dny +2

    Comment for Comment Algorithm

  • @radish6740
    @radish6740 Před 17 dny

    Toto 😆

  • @Emil_LLscpfan
    @Emil_LLscpfan Před 19 dny +20

    Day 176 of commenting to help secretvoices

    • @SecretVoices25
      @SecretVoices25  Před 19 dny +5

      Day 176 of commenting thank you for your support ❤️❤️❤️

    • @youknowthebabycantreadmike4885
      @youknowthebabycantreadmike4885 Před 19 dny +6

      @@SecretVoices25 I hope you see this, thank you for putting so much effort into these videos, they’re concise and they’re very comforting to listen to, I listen to them when I’m working my 12 hour shifts and they make the time go by very fast, thank you for posting such quality content, I genuinely believe that you’re channel is different from the other Reddit story channels, you and another channel I watch are a god send 😊

    • @SecretVoices25
      @SecretVoices25  Před 19 dny +4

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    • @youknowthebabycantreadmike4885
      @youknowthebabycantreadmike4885 Před 19 dny +3

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