Therapist reacts to Happy? by Mudvayne
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- čas přidán 5. 07. 2024
- Therapist analyzes the lyrics of Happy? by Mudvyne to discuss how painful it can be to feel like you give everything to someone and it's still not enough. The person in the song sings to someone who took everything and they ask are you happy now, the therapist invites listeners to turn the song around to themselves and question if they are giving too much, if they are happy in the relationship or if the cost is too high.
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#Mudvayne - Hudba
I listened to Mudvayne every day when I had time while deployed in Iraq! They were an escape from the BS going on around me! Every track they ever recorded saved my life! I Love this band!
I hope you realize now that these lying politicians sent poor people to kill other poor people, not for freedom, not for democracy, but for oil
, control and power. So many lives destroyed because of these lies and manipulation
I was on the USS Ashland. Ghost Ship was out on the way over or the way back? But “Not Falling” is all I listened to… and C.C.R. I did learn what depression was. Nothing like smoking a cigarette and, manning a .50 Cal and driving through the desert, up for 72 hrs straight. Good times 😏
Definitely a band that's helped me well serving
Still wish I could scream like Chad 🤘🏽😎
Thank you for your service 🫡
"I love butterflies SO much" - Taylor's first reaction to MUDVAYNE.
Now she's needs to dig
Lmao
@@Michael97Moore Agreed. Happy is a good song, but there are much heavier tracks. Dig is a good one for sure, and maybe IMN or Cradle.
@@Yuri-oj5lk or its softer but do moth by hellyeah
@@Michael97Moorebbr ding bbr ding bbr ding
I love how how most therapists understand and support listening to metal as therapy. It's a safe way to get out the darkest, most painful emotions.
The lyrics are dark sometimes but the music is so badass it still feels uplifting somehow.
Metal music gives voice and a safe escape for inner turmoil and pain. Better than lashing out.
The METAL saved me a few times
It vents the rage, hatred and anger in a way that isn't truly dEsTrUcTiVe!! The MOSH PIT is a place of combat, bit you lift the fallen and send or take them to safety, out of it, to be able to continue together!
🤘🤘🤘
You should read the study that showed people that have more extreme tastes in music tend to have more (I hate this term) emotional intelligence.
Digressing, I think that term just sounds narcissitic and fake. All it really means is someone who has developed the human condition and realizes other humans probably feel something similar.
Emotional intellipushover. 3rd/4th wave feminist buzzword to manipulate people into always having empathy and being pushovers. And usually the ones who claim to have it are the most narcissitic main character syndrome people who want to come off as altruistic when it's either to manipulate or pander
3 combat tours in Iraq. Mudvayne helped me get thru a lot of metal issues. Especially since my wife (back home) wasn’t giving me the support I needed. I felt alone and no one understood what I was going thru. I went to their most recent concert last year and cried almost throughout the whole concert.
I honestly feel that!!!
Thank you very much for Protect in us
Brother I feel ya have same feelings about Alice in chains Operation deasert storm Layne Staley got me through came home to empty house wife took everything and left while I was deployed only thing she left was my revolver and one round almost used it but my chaplain helped alot
My brother, I'm right with you (only one tour though). Music has been the only thing keeping me going sometimes. Don't give in to the demons. You deserve a fulfilling life. As does anyone else reading this that is going through tough times. I love you. I'm proud of who you've become. And I'm glad you're still here.
I feel it this song got me thru my divorce bc he cheated and lied and stole and tried to make me seem crazy when I caught him so I would scream this song sorry you did not get support thank you for all you have done for us I love her breakdown it hits on the head.
Gotta admit, her final thoughts of the song just left me speechless. I've never thought about it that way.
Thank you so much for the insight on this one.
I love your point that you never thought of it this way. That is one of the fundamentals of therapy in bestowing the understanding that each and everyone perceives the world differently, no wrong no right. Well depending on your beliefs.
I have always asked myself this am I happy now if not then what can I change . To be fair I really didn't start doing it until my toxic ass marriage and going thru divorce.
I've just gone through this same frame shift. Speechless.
Amazing speech at the end. Made the song have intense meaning. Suits the energy of the song. Hellofa take!
Started playing bass at 60 during Covid. My daughter introduced me to Ryan Martinie playing Dig, (partially for shock factor). I was hooked. Last year went to Mudvayne, Coal Chamber. The tour was called the Psychotherapy Sessions. Chad stopped the show and talked about his darkness and how therapy saved him. He said, The world is a better place with you in it. Ironically, I'm a LPC psychotherapist
Melbourne show? It's a shame you didn't get to see them in their heyday. Saw them in 2001, 2004 and 2005 and the most recent show was a bit of a disappointment :(
Badass.
I saw them also at ozzfest in 05 @@moventur
LAC Therapist here, just working on my independent license hours, still have anothr 18 months at least. And I love the bass too.
Very cool. Need more in the profession. Are you in AZ
The fact that you truly GET this song is a beautiful thing. And your breakdown of it had me emotional. Please don't ever stop doing this kind of reaction. These videos help so many people.
The whole LD50 album is one of the best complete pieces of musical art.
Literally the first must have to any collection
Agreed.. start to finish
Same with ‘The End of All Things to Come’!
I'm definitely a heavy metal/,rock guy but another album that was magic.. BEASTIE BOYS PAULS BOUTIQUE
@chadfawley2924 There are a ton of "one of the best" albums from every genre. I just never here LD50 be talked about in that way when it absolutely deserves it.
So getting a therapy session on CZcams , based on a mudvayne song was not on my 2024 bingo card. Thank you for this it has resonated with me more than you could know!
Ive herd this song a million times and never thought this much into it. I just got out of a relationship like that. I have nothing now. No job, no car, living with loving helpful family. Ive never been to therapy or anything like that. Just listing to this song and this woman talk. It sounds like the words are directed straight to me. It makes me feel so much better, The fact that i feel like this is a normal problem people have. Im not alone with these feelings. Thank you so much!
I feel what you mean. You're not alone.
You should consider doing there world so cold next.
As long as it's not the video!! So then you can hear the whole song!! There's a lot left out in the video! But I do agree with this suggestion!! Ten fold!!
The live version on a (possibly?) Swedish TV show is the best version.
Was going to say this myself. Cold is wonderful
YES!!
I agree. Very powerful song
I listen and hear his pain because that man is me. It was both of us. No amount of therapy will ever heal the scars. Perhaps it isn't their purpose ro heal, but a reminder and a guild to why we strive for better. They teache us great lessons.
Thank you so much! They have some really great music. ‘Dig’ ‘Death Blooms’ and ‘scream with me’ are all great.
Hell yes!
Some other Mudvayne tunes to check out would be IMN and Death Blooms. Both fairly gnarly in their own ways.
Cinderella Story
Death Blooms 💯
I actually forgot about Cinderella story. Going to put that album on now
Death Blooms is still my favorite Mudvayne song. 👍
Chad wrote Death Blooms about his grandmother when she was dying. I wish Mudvayne would write some new music!
The saddest and most burdensome part of this kind of relationship is the other is never happy, and after you’ve depleted your energy, your will to continue, and stripped yourself of everything that makes you “you”, the relationship ends and you’re left with a festering shell of what you used to be, stinking of self hate and anger. It’s not an easy place to be. This kind of music helps you find a little bit of relief knowing you are not just some detritus without value.
This band saved my life and my sanity. Forever and always will be my ultimate favorite band
Been a fan of them since 2001. Their best tracks are all off of their first album, LD 50. I recommend Severed, Death Blooms, Nothing to Gein, Cradle, Dig, and -1. Their second album has some great tracks too: Not Falling, Mercy, Severity, Trapped in the Wake of a Dream, World So Cold, and Skrying.
Don’t forget The New Game and Cinderella Story
Fish out of Water. About drug abuse, etc.
@@superblahman I love that song. That whole album.
All these suggestions these people commented perfect choices for mudvayne music
I requested -1 as well. Just pulls out the despair.
her input at the end was so spot on. 17 years married felt like I was giving and and giving when I finally stopped the demands and all the traits of my wife showed through. till this year when she moved out and feels like a divorce is coming. I've been healing more and more feeling pretty good therapist telling me I'm doing all the positive things they want me to and set goals. no longer do I feel like i'm in a pit trying to climb out of. things will come in waves and I have the tools to make sure I no longer get knocked down.
Dull Boy by Mudvayne is one that's very close to my heart
all work and no play
Everything and Nothing would be a PERFECT reaction! The lyrics are deep and instrumentally and vocally, it's one of my favorites from their album LD50, which has 0 skips at all!
I cry every time i hear this song!! And its because of life traumas and stupid shit thats happened throughout my entire life!! Its more remembering where i came from, and what ive molded myself into!! The amazing woman at my side, two beautiful kids that are learning to be amazing people, and not have to deal with the absolute shit i went through!! Love this song!!!!
Ladies & gentlemen, this is why therepists are a thing.
They are trained to think differently to help and understand
their patience problems/issues.
Taylor, this is my first video of yours I had watched, and
before this video I had never heard nor seen your videos or
your account.
After watching this video I immediately followed your
account!
Thank you so much for being a therepist and helping those
in need!
hellyeah - hush. please you'll love it
I was coming here to say the same thing! Fantastic song and an epic band!
And moth
And Love Falls
And Black December
Yes!!
I'm not a huge Mudwayne fan but your interpretation but I'm 100% going through this in life right now and the way you dissected and interpreted this song
Adema- giving in
Yes please
Fun fact: Mark Chavez (lead singer) is Johnathan Davis’ (KoRn) brother.
@@christineghere2461 I know that I got to meet Jonathan and his family at chuck e cheese here in Bakersfield where korns from back in 07
@@chrismunoz7859 that’s so awesome!🤩
Adema with Chavez was legit!
Yes yes yes. Taylor, absolutely thank you so so much. She broke down every emotional part of myself to me and this song. In my previous relationship I was an anxious overgiver in Her own words. I am 100 in love with this. I gave everything to a narcissist and I got absolutely destroyed. I can't say thank you enough to Taylor for this video. I NEEDED THIS 100%
I gave 100% of myself to a toxic relationship. I got emotionally destroyed. I chose to make bad decisions for myself because I couldn't find worth in myself. After time being alone I'm learing to gain my own power again. I know I'm a avid emotional giver.
DIG (Live Ozzfest 01’) is absolutely brutal!!! Happy is the friendlier version of that song haha
Went to OZZFEST 2001 in DallasTx... what a line up 🤘🏽😎
I actually asked Nate to have you do this one for me so thank you both! Loved the breakdown and analysis, Thank You!
So great to hear these analysis of songs (as a middle aged guy) that resonated with me when I was a teenager. Probably should have gone to therapy 20 years before I did lol
Mudvayne is one of the best bands out there. Obviously listen to A World So Cold and Not Falling, plus Scream With Me (mental health related and one of my depression songs)…but also listen to underrated A Cinderella Story. That whole album is great.
Her trying to headbang is so cute.
I love chads voice
Love Chad's growl... If I could I would order my food in the drive thru that way 🤘🏽😎
@@PML78 I especially love his voice in hellyeah moth more especially
I love Mudvayne so much! Not Falling is my all time favorite!
I love mudvayne and especially this song. I am going through this exact situation right now so your commentary felt like it was talking directly to me. Thank you for this. I needed it
Their 'Dig' is a must. If you want more songs with lyrics w/deep meanings, yes, there's many, I hope you try a couple from Mad Season (Layne Staley: vocals): River of Deceit __ Wake Up. So long as you react to "other than metal" stuff that is. This, their only, album was recorded near the end of '94 and Layne was not in good shape. But he poured a lot into those songs.
Mad season is a great choice. I thing Dirt the song from Alice in Chains or the album itself
Why do people always suggest Dig when talking about Mudvayne. It's literally the worst song on LD50. That doesn't mean it's bad, that album is f'n amazing though and there are so many better songs than Dig. -1, Cradle, Death Blooms, Prod, Nothing to Gein, Severed, etc.
Heard that live before it was released as a single.
@@ToolFist598 yep, dig is easily the worst song on the album.
@@ToolFist598 They suggest that song just for the sake of the "Brr-Brr Deng".
The bass-line is good, so they compulsively suggest that song. (At least, that would be my guess.)
I really appreciate your energy and Insight and the content you make. Thank you
I truly felt your reaction to the lyrics of this. This song is relatable on so many levels.
You are the therapist I need. Ive watched like 4 of your videos before thisnone and this one got me to comment and think.
Almost 20 years later and this song still reminds me of a shitty life that once was. Thanks for reacting to this, this song is underrated and the band is making a comeback! Love the the videos!
I really enjoyed what you said, causing the introspection. Thank you.
Love them so much! Started seeing them live when they were playing at bars in Peoria, IL back in the day. Was so heartbroken when they broke up.
One of the greatest songs ever. Gives me goosebumps everytime! Glad you liked it!
This song still makes me cry. So much pain in these lyrics.
Thank you so much! Watching one of my favourite songs just embrace you and capture your heart the first time u meet was so cool, Stand in the Corner and scream with me is another one I’d like to see your reaction to
I absolutely love your reactions! The way that you jam and give into the music reminds me that harsh sounds is for EVERYONE. Thank you understanding heavy music! You rule!
You emote so well! Lol i absolutely love your facial expressions 😂❤
I just discovered your channel not that long ago, and you know what's so great about it is,l that I've told people for years that metal music is therapeutic to me and nobody believes me. Your channel is really showing people that it can be that way despite alot of the hate surrounding this genre
this is genuinely one of my favorite songs, the way its melodic and and heavy at the same time. I also like how rock and metal tackels sadness and mental illness in such a raw way (like this song)
They just announced a tour with Megadeth and All That Remains. They are actually playing 20 minutes from my house and im going to find anyway possible to go to see them.
I’m jealous. They’re not coming to Canada.
I want to see Mudvayne and ATR again. Could easily leave without seeing Megadeth again.
@cpurday9681 I seen Chad and Vinnie with Hell Yeah a few years ago. They were amazing live but I've never got to see Mudvayne.
@@BMH-cb9jt Nice. I’m glad you’ll get to.
I saw Mudvayne with Deftones, Linkin Park, Limp Bizkit and Metallica at Summer Sanitarium 2003, then saw Mudvayne open for koRn in Toronto in 2006. I’m glad I did.
I went to a Megadeth concert, but I was there to see In Flames; not Trivium, Lamb of God or Megadeth
Say hi to Phil.
@@cpurday9681how can you not like Lamb of God? Greatest band ever. Saw them live in 07' SOTU Waverly Hills Sanatorium in Louisville KY. 20 bands that day they headline. GWAR played before them, Darkest Hour, Goat Whore, In Flames, Chimaira, Hatebreed,
Oh man. You hit on the head a lot of what I went through in my last ship. Pretty eye opening and never thought it would come through after rediscovering this song. Thank you, Taylor!
Love how you said a lot of people go through things like this. Music brings people together so you don’t feel alone. Knowing you aren’t alone is half the battle in my opinion.
Insane. Insane that I've loved this song since 2005 and have never viewed it as asking myself that question. I needed this. I'm in this situation right now and it's ripping me apart. I'm not happy and she should have never had that power. Thank you. Thank you.
I absolutely love your attitude towards life, your reactions and your take on this song, thank you miss.
"Happy" is on my break-up playlist. Really covers how I've felt since, especially after finding out how much better her life has been since, despite how much she hurt me and how much it still hurts 2 years later.
From ThriceTheThird: @GarrestheWarrior Hello! I think it is natural to be hurting even a few years after going through the loss of a significant other. Even if its through a break-up and not death. It is a similar process, and feeling that we can experience/grieve. I think the best thing we can do in these situations is try to not focus on the individual who is gone, and what they are currently up to in life. More so, focus on ourselves and our self-love/self-care. I think the best thing we can do in these situations is to try to channel the emotions from it, into self growth and becoming something better then we were the day before, even if just gradually/little by little over time. Focusing on how we can make our lives better, instead of how much better the person who hurt us' life is. I think could make a huge difference in how we feel. Regardless I hope you find what you need and can feel a bit better with time. Thank you for sharing with us what you are going through, and feel free to share more if you ever want/need. I have found that talking about what I am going through with peers in a safe environment as helped me a lot in feeling better with the emotions I am dealing with, and I hope the same for others.<3
From DyllonKG: @GarrestheWarrior Hey my friend. I have definitely felt this exact feeling before - this sort of stuckness while you watch the world, and a specific person, thrive. This entirely makes sense. www.loom.com/share/98ee9b1587f34846b799c1fad835e334
I love this!! Great reaction to my all time favorite band!! Got a huge mudvayne tattoo !!!
What an assessment!!
This helped with a lot of dark times.
With you on that *hugs*
All their albums still hold a special place for me
Final thoughts hit harder than the song did. Eye opener and helpful with my current relationship. Thank you ❤
Man I love her breakdowns of these heavy metal songs. Most metalheads hear the message that artists convey to us, other people only hear the “angry” music or screams like it’s all rage, when the message is in the lyrics and when you get that visceral feeling or goosebumps when the message seems tailored to you by the artist.
1 of my top 5 bands been a fan since the beginning & seeing your reactions while listening to this is just freaking awesome \,,❤,,/
Mudvayne is one of my favorite bands ever. Please keep reacting to their videos..
Thanks for all that you said at the end of the video. Altho most of the time we know that we are being used, we need someone outside ourselves to tell us what exactly to do in that situation, and that is just what happened to me now. So thank you, it really means a lot for me right now!!
Nicely said! Thank you 😊
Thanks for covering mudvayne. As someone who appears "non-metal" on the surface its great that you took time to validate their music, message, and lyrics, and the power of it. People, especially those of us who love music, feel everything so deeply and its great that all those feelings and the music we love are valid.
Also, thank you for your message! Very well done!
I have loved that song for years. I have had so many failed relationships. I never knew why I felt such a connection with it. That is until you explained it. I am in a relationship now. That is making feel torn apart emotionally mentally and physically.
I love mudvayne, They are from my hometown of Peoria Illinois, I got to meet them a couple of times. Such nice guys.
Mudvayne - NOTHING TO GEIN
Your input about Ed Gein would be interesting.
Also a great song with great lyrics.
Journey of a 1000 miles is one my favorites and all of ld50 .when i fisrt discover them after my dad died. this band is my all time favorite , helped me in dark times
One of my favorite songs of all time!
Love this song and listen to it daily. Those lyrics are raw as hell
Darn, I soooi needed to hear this.
I seen them at their first ozzfest in Columbus
They were on a small stage like in the parking lot lol then big time a year later,🤘🤘🤘 still listening
Songs always been a favorite
I'm here for it, Mudvayne has some great music!
Awesome video and content!
Seeing them live is even better than hearing the song! Literally goosebumps the whole show and i just wanted to cry all my emotions out at once 🖤
I totally agree. When I first heard that song I was dealing with relationship issues I heard this song as being aimed at those who hurt me. Now that I am in a healthy relationship I hear the song being aimed inwards when I make bad decisions and stress myself out
one of my all time favourite songs
i would love to know how many times ive listened to it since my friend made me listen to it in high schoo
One of the best songs!!
The majority of this song is actually him talking to himself, Its him asking his inner-self if hes happy now, realizing what hes done to himself, tearing himself apart, putting himself in a hole
for me and a friend this song really hits home, not to a relationship but the struggle with alcohol. It's like there are two different people and the sober one is screaming on the inside. stay strong everyone!
Mudvayne is rabbit hole you can down and not come up for a WHILE!...love this band and many of their messages are heavy!
@heartsupport I recently went through a divorce and it’s been almost two years since it’s been finalized. This song and the way you broke it down definitely gave me a different perspective on why it’s so impactful towards that situation and how it actually is helping me move forward instead of dwelling in the past . Truly appreciate the reactions and truth given by yall !❤️
One of my favorite Mudvayne tunes. Love this band.
Wow. Loved Mudvayne as a teen (Dig, Cradle etc) and also this, but the insight you bring to the lyrics which I had not put any thought into are very eye opening, cracking analysis.
A connection I've made with this song outside of people pleasing/anxiousness is that of forgiveness - sometimes people are forgiven repeatedly but continuously choose to cause ill will/damage etc. After a while, when they have taken you piece by piece it can feel like emotional scars are being reopened and you are left to regrow (heal) from the beginning all over again. This can help sometimes with building emotional resilience and transforming yourself from the inside out but the chaos is still felt and seen from the outside.
I Love songs like this that have such subliminal meanings and can be taken to heart in different ways.. Mudvayne rocks !
Her reaction to the song is priceless
I healed up from it. She couldn't say anything that I haven't heard before to hurt me, so she used emotional and mental manipulation instead. Years later, I found an amazing woman who doesn't want to hurt me. We got married and have an incredible little boy.
There are sooo many good songs from Mudvayne please do more such as “World So Cold” 🤘🏻💥🔥🙏🏻💯
Her reactions are the best 😂🙌🏻❤️
gained a sub from this loved it love mudvayne ..
The end was just a relief. Letting go. Take a breath. It’s over. It’s hard. But it’s over!
Mudvayne was my therapist for a very long way and had helped me through very difficult times until these days
Gracias por analizar Mudvayne, it's so great Band!!
Saludos
Spent half my life in a relationship with one person whom this song is absolutely targeted towards. I never even thought about it so in depth before now. I'm so glad to have left that. The final messages were absolutely impactful. Thank you for this.
This is a good rabbit hole to delve into. I would highly suggest Death Blooms and Forget to remember. Keep up the good work!
I relate to this song so very much! It describes the relationship I had with my ex-wife, so I understand completely where he is coming from in this song!
Saw Mudvayne during their reunion in Mansfield at Inkcarceration with KSE and Slipknot and others. I never felt so much joy than in that crowd. Metalheads sometimes get this rep of being dark and brooding but we feel everything so strongly and that bonding of music within each other, knowing we are not alone in our feelings, can bring us out of the darkness so well
I always love watching this particular channel just cause it feels like hearing ur favorite song of 30 years for the first time everytime. Also around 5:30 im reminded of someone but cant really figure out who she reminds me of.....?
Idk how I got to this channel but wow.. that is a therapist I could go to