How Do You Know? | Black Love Summit 2022
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 3. 04. 2023
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This year at the Black Love Summitâš, love expert Francesca Hogi sits down with Black Love S6 couples Ashley & Darroll Featherson-Jenkins and JR & Robert Burton.
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Jeanette and Robert's sense of humor is GOLD!! I honestly believe that's the secret sauce to their relationship..LOVE THEM..đđ„°â€ïžâ€ïž
Everyone on that stage is stunning. Love hearing Black love stories. â€
When she asked about dating... For me I stopped putting so much expectation into dating. Sometimes a date is a date. You go out and you have fun. A first date should be casual and full of fun. I also dated intentionally. Whoever I went out on dates with were supposedly ready for a relationship or marriage which is where my mind was. If we weren't on the same wavelength I wasn't going to go on multiple dates and you aren't ready for the same goals. You may have different ways of getting there but be like minded.
This!!! I canât stress enough how important it is to understand that when we go on dates every man isnât the ONE! The right person will stand out when itâs meant. Until date them all and have fun!â€â€â€
This session was so, so, good and encouraging. Remember women, we are the prize! Love yourself first!!! Know who you are! Listen to your Heart and GOD!
The host looks so good! That dress and those shoes look great and she is a beautiful lady too đđŸ
I love this panel! The last piece of advice is KEYYYYY! Be mindful that sharing so much about the vulnerabilities about your relationship can make a challenging situation more challenging. Your most well intention friends have long memories and a giant sense of what THEIR deal breakers are and how your relationship should work in relation to what works for THEM! I have those friends and Iâve been that friend and after 33 years of marriage, I just got the AHA! Literally the last piece of advice given by Jeanette would change and or help a lot of relationships. Watching this in June of 2024. A mic drop moment.
43:00 Date non exclusively until your future husband snatch you out of rotational dating. When you commit only to yourself in the dating process you don't feel like pressuring anybody. You let the most intentional and consistent player take you out of the process. DO NOT DATE EXCLUSIVELY until a guy had exuded the qualities and the willingness to commit to you as you would like to (engagement, marriage etc). Until then, have fun in these streets, while keeping your legs closed in the process. You will experience a sense of peace, of fun and féminine power that you never experienced before. All the best!
Itâs the news anchor couple. I love them! đđ. I follow them on IG.
Very well spoken! What works for someone else's relationship may not work for yours. It is important for me to have a life partner I can build with. Awesome conversation!
This was such an amazing discussion. I learned a lot about just taking it easy, following your intuition and letting that guide you. I resonated with what JR spoke about in terms of chemistry. It matters. Someone can be everything on paper, but if there is no chemistry, it just doesn't work. Period.
Black Love give me hope.
Both couple are so cute. I loved all the conversation â€
This was absolutely a great show. Loved both couples. They both had their different stories but similar happy endings mainly due to respect for each other and balancing each other out! Love that for them. Pray they have prosperity and happiness
Thank you Ashley, a.k.a. Bash, an amazing answer in the end.
Bash is so wise!! Bravo to these couples!! Both are putting their relationships first!!
This conversation was so needed for me. Thank you all.
Great Conversation . . . with Beautiful and Inspirational Couples!
This is my first time ever watching this show i love my new fin to be husband thats who i love †before me and my man started dating we both communicated first with each other to test each other before we started dating we both needed to see if we both were ready to move to the next level now we both are communicating good with each other we both respects each other i use to date a guy but he told me he doesn't want me around black people's so i got away from around him my uncle's are black mens they got blue eyes, green eyes, grey eyes, and black eyes, and brown eyes, i love my uncles there my family i don't got no problem with race i love my fin to be husband â€
This was sooo good!
Loved both couples â€ïž
Love this!
So inspirational â€
đđ„°â€so inspirational
I love us so much!
21:11 thank you Robert! I was just telling my husband this today.
To answer the very last question regarding dating. I think that religion/religious individuals put entirely too much pressure on the dating process. Love God, or Jesus, or whoever you believe God to be, but at the end of the day you are still human and so is the other person that you are seeking to match with. Trying to will and force a relationship/marriage wonât work.
Dating is just that, dating. So as far as getting your heart broken, or âbeing in the streetsâ, etc, that thinking is setting you up for failure. Just enjoy the process and date as many people as you can, to discover what you truly want and desire. The woman stated that âI want the person that I am dating to be the person that I marryâ. Thatâs cute and all, but she has NO control over that. There is no way of guaranteeing that. Itâs illogical and also comes off as desperate. Thatâs where the pressure and problem (for her) lies.
I can say that at one point in time I had a list of must haves, but the more people that I dated, and the more that I matured, the more the list was modified. So it was more of a refining process as I dated; when the time came for me to meet âthe oneâ, I was sure about what I required and sure about myself. Moral of the story, date ABUNDANTLY, lol.
Dating doesnât mean sleeping with the person, dating means going out and enjoying each otherâs company. To be honest, if youâre dating multiple people at a time, you donât have time to get your heart broken. Highly suggest that you donât give your heart to every man you date.
Men are DEFINITELY dating more than one woman. Meanwhile women deem themselves as holy and righteous for purposely dating one man at a time; as if itâs a badge indicating being a good wholesome woman.
Women can still be intentional and purposeful when dating. I recommend not having expectations, but standards. Expecting something of someone else is tricky. Allow your intuition/observation of his conversation and his behavior tell what he is really about. Men can, and will tell you anything! And men can also pick up when youâre trying to force them into something that they have no intentions on being a part of (aka making them your husband on the first few dates).
If youâre religious and claim to believe in God, you shouldnât be worried or trying to force every date to be your husband anyway. Part of being a believer is trusting that God will give you your desires. Just have fun and let these men wine and dine you! â€ïž
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100% on point!!!!
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The first 5 minutes gave struggle love lol not the card declining đ”âđ«
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I'm 7 minutes in and I hope the host gets up and shows the fit. đ€đŸ
They say opposite do attract đ
The fall out thats going on is about me picking a choice what i wanna do i have made my mind up what i wanna do with my life my choice im in control of my own life i don't want no abusive and jealous man around me causing problems im happy now life goes on, my man loves me very much, My message is to anyone that is white race that got a problem with race stay away from me this is my first time ever watching the show i love it nothing wrong with this show
I thought I had met the right guy BUT it didn't work out. I can't explain it! It was weird because he hired me! At orientation, there was supposed to be other people there but it was just him and I (strange #1)! I told him about my dream car which is a sports car but he was like I need a truck! I couldn't and still can't figure out why as little as I am very petite and single with no children, why would he want me to buy a big huge truck? (strange #2) After orientation, I told the Lord that he wasn't saved though! It was so strange. It was like we just clicked or so I thought. He has/had a child and that usually I was like Oh No, I don't do ready made families but for him, I was okay with it! (strange #3) Some nurses were talking about him during shift change, I got so angry. I started to say something to them but I caught myself! I was like why am I getting angry, he is not my man? So I pulled it in! But I still don't know why I was or getting ready to defend him? That whole set up was strange! (strange #4). And come to think about it (strange #5) we got to talking about his career and how he had to switch from the automotive industry to the medical industry. (strange #6) he admitted to checking out my age. I was like in my mind, why would you do that. However, I just glossed over it! Our last conversation was that his daughter was sick so he had to stay home from work. Then I am trying to figure out how to help. (strange #7) I was like well I could stay with his daughter while he goes to work. Then I can go to work once he gets off. I had to catch myself again. I was like what am I doing? I was like I don't even know him nor his daughter? I still cannot figure out why I was trying to do all that?? Isn't that crazy??? 100% crazy! That was THE craziest hiring interview orientation process I have ever had in my entire life! Strange! Strange! Strange! I still cannot figure that whole episode out! I believe he was like really nervous for some strange reason! It doesn't make sense to just meet someone and just be so automatically concerned about him and then his child! That was THE WEIRDEST THING that has EVER happened to me in my entire life! I still don't understand but that was many moons ago and he like dropped off the face of the earth so.... Oh well! The whole scenario was STRANGER THAN STRANGE!!
they mostly date and marry black women when they are broke....
88% of the black men in the US are married to black women. Black men who earn over 100K 94% are married to black women.....so your take is false
You have zero wisdom about relationship until you have kids.
đ„Ž. Weird take.