The Husbands Panel | Black Love Summit 2021
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- The Husbands Panel
Buckle up for a conversation among men married anywhere from 1 year to 20. Black Love co-creator Tommy Oliver will host Michael Jai White, Warryn Campbell, Neil Brown Jr., and MAJOR. in conversation around the journey of being married. You definitely want to be a fly on the wall for this group of unfiltered husbands.
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“Nobody’s been with the man she’s been with.” These are grown men speakin. I loveeeee this!!!
You All Are Are AMAZING!! Thank you For ALL being Authentic Transparent!!! This means a lot you ALL are Blessings to the body and our marriages being honest is Everything! I Applaud you ALL! Even the Wives! Thank you Ladies! THE REAL MEN STOOD UP! Keep videos coming 🥊💪🏾🥊💪🏾🥊💪🏾🥊💪🏾🥊💪🏾🥊💪🏾🥊
Profound, isn’t it?
That's why I say it's nnever about finding the perfect person is who you become... what you give is what you receive
Wasn't that goodness🖤🙏🏿
Powerful Insight of what Happiness could and should be with Transparency Vulnerability And Pure Honesty
When Michael Jai White Said ' I HAVE MORE FUN NWITH HER THAN ALL MY MALE FRIENDS but people dont want hear that ' I could not unhear it and had to REPEAT IT TEN TIMES. That's imbedded in the deepest most sacred parts of my soul. I'm SOAKING IT ALL IN
Oooooh!!! I agree.da mens and dar boys can't take that
So So so so well and eloquently put .I will most definitely join you in this.we can find men like this
"You are not my wife and you cannot compete with her!"
Gentlemen get this in your spirit.
To the men who need to be reminded of this, understand that building with a good woman requires you to beyond your eyes. Leading your choices with your flesh will create chaos every time (outside of your relationship)!!!
Requires you to go*
Michael J. W. Is being so genuinely open, & humble it's refreshing seeing our guys uplifting one another! God is so good🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I don't see EGOTISTICAL men. I don't see cocky overly rude Men, I don't see or hear Weird relationship ADVICE. I hear Grown men discussing GROWTH, DEVELOPING RELATIONSHIPS, CONQUERING FEARS TO BECOME WHOLESOME, I SEE REAL LOVERS, FATHERS, PROUD HUSBANDS DISCUSSING SUCCESSFULLY BEAUTIFUL WIVES, AND NO GASLIGHTING, NO MANIPULATIVE TACTICS HERE. JUST PURE DIVINE GOD CONNECTED SOUND KNOWLEDGE AND ADVICE. THIS IS WHAT BLACK WOMEN NEED TO SEE.
THANK YOU ALL.
YOU KINGS, AND QUEENS THAT RESIDE ON Y'ALL ARMS WHO RESTING IN YOUR KINGDOMS.
I totally agree with you and I believe that most men [people] want to do right, but feel they will be teased [which is crazy]. Just like one of the panelist said, his father-in-law told him when you get a "side chick" get one that is going to be respectful and not loud. I know you WILL cheat on my daughter, just do it kindly.... WHAT
Michael Jai White really spilled some gems! I thoroughly enjoyed him on the panel!. Please do more including him!!!
Facts! 💯
When he said, " Don't hide your flaws, ur flaws are what makes u, u. U are ur flaws more than u are ur attributes" I felt that transperancy ❤❤❤❤❤❤
I Absolutely Agree!!!! Married Couples, share your experiences. This would HELP a lot of marriages to Succeed🙏🏾❤️
Not hiding your flaws was the Master Key to locking into that next level oneness with your partner. I hope everyone caught that. That makes your marriage / relationship easier.
"I had to become the man that deserved her." - Michael J. White 👏👌❤
Mic 🎤 drop. 💥 Boom
Hell no, the man is the head not the other way around
@@IronMikeDyson1979 so that means she has to except any and everything good or bad that you bring to the table because you're supposed to be the head?
What Michael Jai White is talking about is something most people can't do to achieve the level of love he is talking about, which is to be vulnerable enough to be completely honest with your partner. Real gems he is spitting.
These conversations are so important. Alot of us are coming out of childhood with trauma, past relationships with trauma and getting direction to have a successful marriage. This is powerful discussion.💕
*Good Men Will Do This In 2022:*
1.) Marry.
2.) Have Children.
3.) Honor Their Family.
4.) Own Land.
5.) Quit Porn.
6.) Serve God.
7.) Lift Heavy Weights.
8.) Execute On Goals.
9.) Defend Their Heritage.
10.) Embrace Tradition.
11.) Pray.
12.) Fight.
13.) Quit Nailbiting Habit.
14.) Save Money.
15.) Quit Addictions.
16.) Break Bad Habits.
17.) Listens Black Love's advice
18.) Win.
Take care!
Right on.🧐
Spot on.
🎯
Great points! God should always be number one though! He should always be at the center .
Yes to all that. As long as the traditions they embrace are good, it's cool.
I absolutely enjoyed this. I've been married to my husband for 10 years and I truly wish we'd had something like this in the beginning, it would've been so beneficial.
Awesome!!! Great Dialogue and Transparency!!! Thank you so much!!!❤❤❤
have something -like what ?
@Melanise Long it can still be beneficial now. God bless!
Y’all still breathing, it’s not too late. Maybe this is what ya need to make the latter better🤩
They all said they had to go through it before they reached where they are currently. Everything y’all have been through is helping to get to that place. You will get there 💛
This panel was amazing and so pure. Four different men, opinions and views of marriage. So much love and honesty. Beautiful❤
I loved listening to the Men speak and discuss their views on marriage. I’ve been married for 15 years and I would add that you have to be willing ready and able to sacrifice for one another. Speaking on 15 years of experience. I would also say try to make sure you have your Own Life before you become someone’s Wife. I found myself lost and searching for myself Stacie. Still at the end of the Day I L.O.V.E. Being married to my heart my husband. ♥️
This was so needed and eye-opening. I love to hear our men speak with honesty and vulnerability. MAJOR cracks me up!! 🤣🤣🤣 But this was soooo good and needed. Each man shared what I hope many men and women will hear as encouragement. Thank you!! ❤️🙌🏾❤️
Always love hearing the open dialogue & the male perspective
I believe so strongly in Michael's testimony about the unconditional loving relationship with his wife. The Bible States clear as day that the union between the husband and the wife will be as one so it would be like once you learn to love yourself you are completely happy with yourself. And he said he that found that a wife find it a good thing and she is definitely his good thing . When good things are given to you and you love yourself you appreciate it you love it you embrace it.
Well said 🙌🏽✨💜
Now this was a breath of fresh air, especially since I'm anxiously awaiting a new season of Black Love. (I hope there's one coming). These panel discussions are so important and provide us with the true thoughts of black men. Keep them coming!
He’s the Father, I’m the Son, and She’s the Holy Spirit. She’s A PART of this trinity. 🙏🏽🙌🏾☺️
Is that somewhere in the scripture? I would love to see it. Because ever reference I see for the Holy Spirit in the Bible is male. Thanks so much
It's crazy that I actually got this revelation from watching the Matrix a few days ago.
@@seekerofinfinitewisdom9730 There is no biblical reference that denotes God as being female.
That bless me!!
@@seekerofinfinitewisdom9730 Its not in scripture but it's more like an metaphor. Because in the bible, the Holy Spirit is the helper. and the wife is the helpmate. Thats why he said that she's the Holy Spirit. at least that's how i see it.
"Watch and listen how he treats for others. Those he likes, those he doesn't like. It will tell you how he will treat you now and in the future "
It is so refreshing to gain a man's perspective, particularly because they think so differently than we do as women. This was awesome. Thanks for the transparency, honesty and humor on what bears the potential of being the most beautiful journey of a lifetime!❤
Michael Jai White … I love your response on the new version of you! Transparency only comes with Maturity and Growth. I just realized last night as my husband and I were going over our Marriage Counseling assignments, as we release Self, is when we will see the selfishness of ourselves become more selfless!
Love Warryn’s answer to the first question! The two shall BECOME 1…so that growth is evident thru his experience. Lovely testimony of TRUTH!
The panelist were dropping all kinds of gems! Thank you for being so transparent.
Warren and that chair got me crying 😛🤣🤣🤣😩😩
😂😂😂😂😂🥴
My Mom Always says That " If A Man Can't Treat His Mother Good Don't Expect Nothing Good From Him" Thank you For it
This is so refreshing to hear black men open and honest about relationships and themselves. Thank you, keep it going. 💕
I loved watching this video so much. Listening to men talk about the love they have for their wives is beautiful and encouraging. From a ladies perspective, it's a blessing to see black men honouring their wives in words, so publically. I pray all these marriages remain strong, blessed and role model of future generations to see, hear and replicate.
Awesome panel ! .....Everyone has different backgrounds and situations and circumstances BUT....the husbands actually edified each other and the listening audience...THANK YOU !
I definitely wish more Black men taught what Michael is saying about monogamy and being faithful in marriage.
That was so insightful😍😍 Every single one of these husbands shared some valuable information. Great panel! Thank God for CZcams🙏🏽🤗
Listen I’m loving this whole concept…but who knew the man with golden pipes(Major) was this funny🤣🤣😂😂😂
Loved this! Especially when Major started taking it serious 😒🙄. That last question brought out some gems 💎 💛🙂
I didn’t see many young black married couples. I went to one wedding as a teenager, sadly. Marriage is a beautiful institution!
The balance of wisdom on this panel is amazing. Season married men versus newly married. We need to hear both. Major is hilarious btw and lowkey was dropping gems! Loved this!
Thanks for this video! A lot of great gems were dropped for us upcoming young black couples. Love seeing the men's perspective. We need more open black men.
Thank you all for such an inspiring and awesome discussion!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💎💎💎💎 Blessings to all these husbands and their families!!!🙏🏾🙏🏾
Listening to these kings talk has helped me in my own marriage! Going on 5 years now, thank you 🙏🏿
I’m not married yet and would love to share my life with a strong black man. He doesn’t have to be perfect just willing to grow together. I’m shy and just praying for a partner that matches me. I have outgrown the girlfriend phase. I want a lasting meaningful friendship that grows into a relationship and then marriage. Communication is key.
Thank you this was so good to hear men speak like this. It gives me hope as a single 40plus that love ❤️ is still possible!
It is nice and very comforting for the fact that they're transparent and honest. Not trying to be intellectual or fancy. Honesty is the best medicine.
I love this…💯💯💯 Thanks Guys for the transparency and openness 🔥
So glad I came across this video.. Love listening to such conversations mostly from the man's perspective amazing ... From 🇰🇪
Groundedness indeed!!! That 2nd to last comment by the last panelist on the right is GOLD!!!! Helpmeet for sure. 💯 @45:00 🙌🏾👍🏾 Major, that was the maturity I was looking for at the beginning 🙅🏽♀️ the culture and bringing other ppl in your marriage. Trust yourself. You got it.
Omg, great show! but between my OCD and Warren and Major putting they feet on the sofa, yall gone need seat covers🤗 N thank you Black Love for all the great advice and teaching us married folks all about the rollercoasters! N how to keep healthy expectations!🤗🤗🤗👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽🙏🙏🙏🤗
Absolutely love their perspective! Poor Major.... LOL 😂😂😂😂 He learnt today didn't he, LOL 😂😂😂 Thanks Black Love! 🖤🖤🖤
So so powerful and thankful to hear black men with great love ❤ 😍 💖
@21:00 thank you MJW for that! 🙌🏾 Thank God for those who pick up the courage to love and be again.
Right, because when we see people who have a bad history, all the red flags shout "NO!" But the God speaks to the heart and GRACE. Glad to know that GRACE was not taken advantage of.
This panel of beautiful black married men was OFF THE CHAIN!!! Very unsightful, enlightenong & informative... Thank you, thank you thank you!!! BLS💗
I love this soooo much! We need to see, hear and experience more of this Black people!!! Please keep this going!!
They haven't even spoken yet and I am sooooo ready to hear these talented Kings drop some nuggets or trigger the me into growth...let's goooo 🙌🏾💪🏾❤
Real gems by real brothers. Thanks for this transparent talk!
This was sooooooo good. Wish I'd known this dating as a 20 something year old and through my former marriage that ended in divorce. I would have observed, listened better and done my own personal work on my own pain, before joining in with someone elses'. WISDOM. GOD BLESS YOU ALL FOR YOUR TRANSPARENCY.
This is beautiful. Thank you all.
Please continue to do these summits! Great words of wisdom!
So many gems. What a blessing to watch men talk about life, love, family, growth, legacy and so much more.
Excellent!! I learned a lot and it was was just the right mix of humor 😊🧡
Really enjoyed what Major said about the premarital counseling with Bro. Ben! That was deep!
I am not yet blessed enough to have found my partner, but I am faithful in tremendous amounts that I will momentarily rectify that fact! I love to listen and learn...more of these, please.
"I had to become the man that deserved her" love it
I clapped my hands when he said this...and I'm just watching from a laptop in my room. I was so moved.
🙌🏾🌬🔥🤍👑💪🏾 Michael Jai White!!! Your wife told us about your ability to be emotionally honest and vulnerable on the Queens panel, so we know why she could trust you wholeheartedly and Thru her own anger. You’re proven, sir. Give yourself credit for her good choice, as equal!! 💯⚓️
Awesome show and
“This is why I love you” Major
You did it Mike B. ♥️💋♥️
Wooooooooooow👏👏👏👏If only, ALL MEN COULD FOLLOW THESE SIMPLE INSTRUCTIONS. BE OPEN, HONEST AND A TEAM MATE!!!!!
I don’t think I’ve ever seen Major not sitting at the piano or singing in a microphone. I enjoyed seeing him in this environment. He was so ‘giggly’ and playful. He had me laughing a lot. I needed a laugh so, thanks to him. 🤣
Sooo much respect for Michael Jai White, a REAL grown man dropping gems all couples can use for a successful marriage. Very valuable info!
You know I saw a few of your videos but I wasn't a fan of own. I went away for sometime. What I can say is all your productions are of excellent quality. You have a product that you can be proud of that honor relationships and love in the Lord. You keep doing what your doing and may you continue to have success!
This was good!! I absolutely enjoyed it
So good! Thank you ❤
I always knew this type of marriage that Mr. White spoke existed. I've been trying to say this for the longest while. People usually say I'm not married so I don't know. But marriage doesn't have to be a second job.
This right here! Exactly.
Awesome, awesome!! This was so insightful ♥🙏👍xx
I love the community they are building and sharing with the world.
Very good discussion and advice. Thank you very much for sharing.
Marriage isn’t something you “get through” it’s something to “live up to.” Marriage is a “fusing together” which cause led friction because you are taking two things and joining them and that process can destroy you if you aren’t separate, unique and whole enough to handle it. If you don’t want to grow constantly, assist in your partners growth, be responsible and accountable, communicate and make “us” decisions instead of “I” decisions, then marriage is not for you!
I wish there was a South African version of this. Insightful conversations, I took down the notes and I am going to apply them. Peace and blessings brothers✌️
This was awesome! Many will receive and lives will change!❤️I believe!
Very good advice this is why I ask so many questions knowledge is key
“You don’t know how much you love a person until they piss you off” wow
Husband's come in a vast array of ages. I wish there more mature men, in age, invited to the panel to share their wisdom. We need their stories too. #Diversity
True. A generational variance would have been amazing. Hope they can do that in future conferences.
My God, this was good. I’m letting you know at least 100 views will be from me having this on REPEAT. Faith Comes by 👂🏽👂🏽Thank you! I’m single but Studying to be a wife and this was A lot to take in but certainly bLesson. May God continue to bless your marriages with love, peace, wisdom, good health, finances and more.
Always, Ms. GoMurf (DMV)❤🙏🏽🙌🏽🔥💪🏽
The key to be with your best friend is to be complete and know your flows and how you can change and to say that I have friends and we can separate and then come back if you are being honest with yourself something is missing and it’s not your best friend it’s the life you are living and you created it by using someone else’s idea which has happened and still is because no one wants to be naked. Remember in the beginning that girls and boys shared things and we were free to do so and we have to get back to that by starting over and trust you not to leave nothing out of your experience. We can make this a simple change and then we will do that for sure because seeing Michael be and look his best is where we want to be. In the beginning there are no expectations it’s faith that you are trusting yourself. 👍😇👍
He is Talking Reaal Love His Honesty.He Has Grown .That Is Why He Said " I Am Not That Man That i was Before" Love the Black Brothers💯👏👏👍👍
Very inspiring thank u all
Maturity is key. Married to my husband 21 years, and I totally understand what Michael is saying. Very wise 👌
Good information, very informative!
Michael Jai White, Thank you for saying you said you were completely transparent and vulnerable and to the core... and that's what you got back... that's it thank you for saying it. Truth....#benefits. Exactly💥🎯💃🏽 love it...
Great Words of Wisdom, Warryn Campbell
Adam made room for Eve…love this dialogue among men, being honest. Giving good nuggets! Thanks!
I live what Major "undoing and becoming" ❤
The right one will answer them. POWERFUL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
At 33:40 Major started writing a song in his head lol 😂😂
Love this Man He is So Brtually Honest , Inteligente And Practical
Man, Michael J White looks so calm up there sharing his story and when you let each one be their complete self then become better as you do the work you get to walk that tight rope not having that net under you when you slip because the hope to make it to the other side forgetting about faith and trusting god’s mind for you to see what it means for us all that we can continue with that you are living, just do it. The heart is much better and stronger to deal with the truth starting with self.
I been watching you for a long time waiting to share all of me with you and damn it it’s happening. Soon as this show goes off I am going to take a quick walk.
Honest'd within yourself goes along way.Watching from New, Zealand
MAJOR is Major’s problem....when he grows beyond his expectations and let’s his marriage be more than he expects AND TAKES HIS hands off it’ll be free to be the happy place that he sings about. I am excited for his journey!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Michael was SAYN SUMTHN no pun intended! He shared what would be a healthy recipe in any relationship!
Such a solid discussion
This is awesome!!!