the worst thing for me about having conversations with people is that i just randomly run out of stuff to talk about and it feels really really weird and cringe, im really jealous of people who can hold a convo without if having awkward silences
Some basics: - Smile - Maintain eyes contact about 80% of the time - Let them finish their sentences - Listen for the topics you can relate with and talk about it - Don’t criticize (except for close friends) - Giving lots of compliments (but don’t flatter, compliment on what is genuinely impressive to you) - Learn to crack jokes on the right time
for everyone who thinks they are boring, your not boring you’re just used to yourself. For example, I find my daily routine boring, doing school work, working out, writing for my book and drawing for my book. I’ve just listed 4 things that could spark a conversation. What you find boring could be someone else’s passion and that’s what you two have in common. When it’s your turn to talk no one said you have to keep everything hidden
You actually turned my life 180 degrees. I went from an unapproachable cold boy into a warm and welcoming man that attracts people that i want to attract. I went to a party the other day and if it was three months earlier, i wouldve sat in the corner and cried for my mom. Instead, i made a list on your videos, and found the consistency to become one of the main energy points in that party. It was the most fun i think ive evwr had in ny life and its all thanks to you. Thank you.
@@dildodiggins1341 I grew a pair so I could get out of an unhealthy relationship and lifted heavy circles and did a bunch of self care stuff, watches a bunch of shimon Davis videos and took some notes on how to talk to people and here we are
This is my personal opinion, everybody is gonna have awkward or dry conversations at sometimes. If either of you aren’t on the same page, not in the mood, or not really feeling it then they become awkward, but that doesn’t mean you make a big deal about it. Now if that keeps happening, then maybe it’s a problem, but if it happens occasionally then you come back the next day and you click then your good to go you got nothing to worry about. (Sorry for the long paragraph)
I'm an introvert and I wanna try coming out of my comfort zone, I find talking with someone awkward because I can't reply or talk about something on my mind because I'm too embarrassed. Thanks for this! If I didn't watch this I'll probably just become interviewer to them lol.
One thing that blew me away when talking to a guy I like…is when he remembered something I already told him. I’m so used to people never fully listening to what I’m saying. But a guy that actively listens to me and then engages with interest…it’s honestly such an attractive trait to have.
If you ever find that special someone that you can talk to seemingly forever, it feels like bliss. With an ex of mine, it was a joke between us that we'd talk way too late and drag on dates far later than expected, but those never ending conversations are some of the best I've had. Getting someone who reciprocates the same conversational energy is RARE, but it does exist.
Planning on watching you every morning since every video feels like its talking about my exact predicaments😭🙏 Definitely my favorite youtuber for just talking and i dont even mess with channels like this. Thanks Shimon
Dreaming about being artist, having a really tuff job and losing friends, getting a lot of bad feelings deep inside, your channel is being the light at the end of it all for me, thank you king, you're keeping me strong! Love and peace, friends ❤
yo man i just wanna say i’ve been watching u for quite some time now. Your videos have helped me be more accepting of myself. So thank you. I wanna be like you when i grow up.
This man’s videos are a breathe of fresh air, after a long stressful day of work I feel agitated scrolling on tt aimlessly. There’s something so comforting and intimate about these conversations. AirPods in, drowning out everyone. I don’t usually ever comment but there’s something so unique about him
when i started improving my convo skills i literally learnt that that talking about little dates together, talking about people make em mad and mainly asking theqm questions was a great way to learn if you like a person and they like you
Just discovered your channel a few days ago. I'm so glad I did. I'm 26 and I am boring to talk to. I know I'm boring to talk to because I have an inability to create bonds with people. I've found your videos very helpful. Now I just have to go out and use these tips you've dispensed. Thanks a lot for all these tips.
Man, thank you so much, I haven’t made any friends after I was in a camp last summer, I felt so freaking lonely, but then I stumbled across your channel, and watching this vid reminded me, how to simply talk to people, thank you so much again bro. Love.
Man first of all, your voice is so calm, I couldn't help to not mention it, second of all Imma be honest with you in my daily life, I thought I was the one who couldn't keep the conversation going, when in reality, people just don't wanna listen, not that I am talking too much, but people just don't wanna listen to be honest, and listening to this video, i kind of figured it out, so thank you for that. Keep up with the same content man :)
bro idk if you remember me but I first commented when you had 2000 subs , I love how you kept the Chanel and yourself the same way ,much deserved brooks ,love from Germany
u are a blessing G thank u so mush ive been having a problem with this , i thought people were dry and im not saying some are not but think its because im always quick to talk and slow to listen its just the why ive always been im an out going person but i guess i tend to not give them a chance to speak and be invested in the convo this made me realize that people like to be listened to and its the same with me too thats y i speak to much i dont know how it took me so long to realize that people might be like me, starting now ill try to implement this again thank u
These videos are great, really great. Super helpful, even little things explained calmly by a charismatic guy. Keep up the fantastic work man, much love
THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love this video. sometimes we get so caught up with impressing someone or being 'perfect', that we forget to LISTEN to the person. once you shift your energy from focusing on yourself, and focus on the person and get to know them, conversation really gets easier. because you don't talk from a place of 'LIKE ME' but rather 'what can I learn about you?'. also good point about trying to be interesting in conversation- you should really go out and experience interesting things rather than try to come up with interesting questions or conversations lol. it really comes down to a shift in focus.
I find when I'm with people I know really well, it's a lot easier to talk and come up with new topics, but with new people I can't think straight, and can't come up with new topics, so when they stop taking I just sit there overthinking
Question statement conversation. This is golden! Another point I'd like to add is that instead of focusing on having a long conversation, try to focus on having a good short conversation. Quality > Quantity.
Great words of advice! I love you too brother. Thank you for the enlightenment. I’ve always been a passionate and caring man, but sometimes that can be a bit much for girls. These thought’s invoke a bigger picture in my mind to not just love a woman, but keep her interested and engaged with a sincere purpose.
W video , this si fax. Whats also great about this advice is that yea we are so good at asking mad questions, we just don't go more in depth and do the other steps mentioned in this video , which are statement, conservation
We better would learn some life lessons like this (like talk bout exp. like from videos from you) in school man… I can solve so much problems or points where i can’t get any further. Thanks a lot 🤝
the worst thing for me about having conversations with people is that i just randomly run out of stuff to talk about and it feels really really weird and cringe, im really jealous of people who can hold a convo without if having awkward silences
Im glad im not alone on this one. Even when im with my parents and it gets quiet it just feels awkward for me
@@6LTD6bruh i know right 😭😭 its like super uncomfortable, like i get so annoyed at myself and wish i was just normal
real
study conversations. if u have a friend that does all the talking with other people pay attention
appreciate the silence you're in. If u cant love yourself or others in silence why would you care if u only love them for their doings
damn i really gotta stop asking people if they own a giraffe
😭
😂
😂😂😂
I thought I was the only one asking that! Feeling relieved
I have a date Sunday and this is the first thing i'm gonna ask them
Some basics:
- Smile
- Maintain eyes contact about 80% of the time
- Let them finish their sentences
- Listen for the topics you can relate with and talk about it
- Don’t criticize (except for close friends)
- Giving lots of compliments (but don’t flatter, compliment on what is genuinely impressive to you)
- Learn to crack jokes on the right time
Don't criticize,condemn,or complain
why would u smile lmao that just makes it seem like u either think they are funny, or something else is funny and it just makes the convo feel weird
@@hen618 it's a comfort sign. It subconsciously makes people feel safe-r, compared to going and talking to someone with a blank/another expression.
Just do a half smile withiut your teeth @@hen618
I need this thank you I’m literally taking notes 📝
I've never seen someone as emotionally intelligent as this guy, bravo
Much love fam
Yo instead of tips he actually gave a full example
bro is too smooth to be real, qualityy..!!
this man fr helping me outsmart my autism, stopping me from going nonverbal
Was looking for a comment to convince me the vid would be good ☝️ this is the one
i wish i could outsmart my autism i just cant hold conversations
It sucks when you putting in energy into getting to know someone and they other person doesn't reciprocate
its really frustrating but the best thing to do is to just let it go or speak about it
You gotta move on eventually
How I feel about my platonic friend
So move on bro, the person doesn't deserves your energy, simply as that.
@@milhouse777what if I'm scared of ending alone
for everyone who thinks they are boring, your not boring you’re just used to yourself. For example, I find my daily routine boring, doing school work, working out, writing for my book and drawing for my book. I’ve just listed 4 things that could spark a conversation. What you find boring could be someone else’s passion and that’s what you two have in common. When it’s your turn to talk no one said you have to keep everything hidden
You actually turned my life 180 degrees. I went from an unapproachable cold boy into a warm and welcoming man that attracts people that i want to attract. I went to a party the other day and if it was three months earlier, i wouldve sat in the corner and cried for my mom. Instead, i made a list on your videos, and found the consistency to become one of the main energy points in that party. It was the most fun i think ive evwr had in ny life and its all thanks to you. Thank you.
I'm really proud of you man, keep going like this God bless you brother
What exactly have you done, tho? I need some pointers maybe.
@@dildodiggins1341 I grew a pair so I could get out of an unhealthy relationship and lifted heavy circles and did a bunch of self care stuff, watches a bunch of shimon Davis videos and took some notes on how to talk to people and here we are
Lmao me when I lie in the internet😂
Dang !!!🎉😂❤
tried talking to her after watching this, im still cooked
Don't be persistent, but don't give up. You got this.
This is my personal opinion, everybody is gonna have awkward or dry conversations at sometimes. If either of you aren’t on the same page, not in the mood, or not really feeling it then they become awkward, but that doesn’t mean you make a big deal about it. Now if that keeps happening, then maybe it’s a problem, but if it happens occasionally then you come back the next day and you click then your good to go you got nothing to worry about. (Sorry for the long paragraph)
Certainly
I'm an introvert and I wanna try coming out of my comfort zone, I find talking with someone awkward because I can't reply or talk about something on my mind because I'm too embarrassed. Thanks for this! If I didn't watch this I'll probably just become interviewer to them lol.
“ Do you have a giraffe “💀
i was lookin for this😭
One thing that blew me away when talking to a guy I like…is when he remembered something I already told him. I’m so used to people never fully listening to what I’m saying. But a guy that actively listens to me and then engages with interest…it’s honestly such an attractive trait to have.
This guy is literally so chilled . I'd like to just sit with him and have a cup of tea and just talk.
If you ever find that special someone that you can talk to seemingly forever, it feels like bliss. With an ex of mine, it was a joke between us that we'd talk way too late and drag on dates far later than expected, but those never ending conversations are some of the best I've had. Getting someone who reciprocates the same conversational energy is RARE, but it does exist.
I can relate. It def exists
what i’ve learned before watching this is asking more questions is better than answering them
everything you talk about is so personal and relatable, youre so real
Mr. Davis, you single handedly just improved my communication skills almost 10 fold
Sucks when they just respond with one-word answers.
If they give you 1 word answers they probably don’t wanna talk
@@jonathancena5223 yeah I figured that a while ago
Planning on watching you every morning since every video feels like its talking about my exact predicaments😭🙏 Definitely my favorite youtuber for just talking and i dont even mess with channels like this. Thanks Shimon
I appreciate you fam
I probably don't need this but the content is just top tier
W YOU
Then you need it lol. Tis top teir for sure!
You're a special young man glad you're choosing to help others
Dreaming about being artist, having a really tuff job and losing friends, getting a lot of bad feelings deep inside, your channel is being the light at the end of it all for me, thank you king, you're keeping me strong! Love and peace, friends ❤
start working out bro
I love how you keep the advice in a positive direction, while remaining calm, comforting, and funny. It's sexy.
These vids been helping recover from the social hell I've been living since covid
Bless your soul, brother. Keep doing what you're doing because it's working, I have so much respect for you
“Conversation is just instructions, but it’s up to you to find the Manual” man 👏
dude you are one of the most genuine and wise person on the internet, sending love
yo man i just wanna say i’ve been watching u for quite some time now. Your videos have helped me be more accepting of myself. So thank you. I wanna be like you when i grow up.
This man’s videos are a breathe of fresh air, after a long stressful day of work I feel agitated scrolling on tt aimlessly. There’s something so comforting and intimate about these conversations. AirPods in, drowning out everyone. I don’t usually ever comment but there’s something so unique about him
Ngl bro this my second vid I watched of yours and you’ve taught me accountability and patience so far🤝🏾💯keep grinding Brodie you changing lives !
when i started improving my convo skills i literally learnt that that talking about little dates together, talking about people make em mad and mainly asking theqm questions was a great way to learn if you like a person and they like you
Just discovered your channel a few days ago. I'm so glad I did. I'm 26 and I am boring to talk to. I know I'm boring to talk to because I have an inability to create bonds with people. I've found your videos very helpful. Now I just have to go out and use these tips you've dispensed. Thanks a lot for all these tips.
Man, thank you so much, I haven’t made any friends after I was in a camp last summer, I felt so freaking lonely, but then I stumbled across your channel, and watching this vid reminded me, how to simply talk to people, thank you so much again bro.
Love.
Man first of all, your voice is so calm, I couldn't help to not mention it, second of all Imma be honest with you in my daily life, I thought I was the one who couldn't keep the conversation going, when in reality, people just don't wanna listen, not that I am talking too much, but people just don't wanna listen to be honest, and listening to this video, i kind of figured it out, so thank you for that. Keep up with the same content man :)
dude...this guy just changed my whole perception of life, thanks bro
bro idk if you remember me but I first commented when you had 2000 subs , I love how you kept the Chanel and yourself the same way ,much deserved brooks ,love from Germany
I am always thankful that I found this guy!
u are a blessing G thank u so mush ive been having a problem with this , i thought people were dry and im not saying some are not but think its because im always quick to talk and slow to listen its just the why ive always been im an out going person but i guess i tend to not give them a chance to speak and be invested in the convo this made me realize that people like to be listened to and its the same with me too thats y i speak to much i dont know how it took me so long to realize that people might be like me, starting now ill try to implement this again thank u
this video helped me realize so much of what i was doing is wrong, thank you so much
This is as real as it gets. Respect for you! Looking for more content from you!
wow he really explained this shit so well, genuinely tysm ur the first person who actually knows how to explain it, godly video lmao
As an autistic person i have trouble talking to people, now i have some sort of idea on how to talk to people. Thank you!
I immediately came here after meeting a girl for the first time introducing myself, and then preceding to say “sorry idk how to carry a conversation”
Out of all conversations learning he’s one of the best explainers
Bro you are an absolute Guru. Thanks, I have been watching a lot of your videos rescently
These videos are great, really great. Super helpful, even little things explained calmly by a charismatic guy. Keep up the fantastic work man, much love
THANK YOU FOR THIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! love this video. sometimes we get so caught up with impressing someone or being 'perfect', that we forget to LISTEN to the person. once you shift your energy from focusing on yourself, and focus on the person and get to know them, conversation really gets easier. because you don't talk from a place of 'LIKE ME' but rather 'what can I learn about you?'. also good point about trying to be interesting in conversation- you should really go out and experience interesting things rather than try to come up with interesting questions or conversations lol. it really comes down to a shift in focus.
The best Video ever. Simple strait to the point, and easy to follow. Made me relies how simple communicating can be.
As a fellow wordsmith, I really appreciate the target practice metaphor. 👍🏼
I struggle with this sometimes so thank u for this video it’s nice to know that I’m not alone
i've been trying to figure out how to talk to a guy a like. this worked wonders, thank you so much!
I find when I'm with people I know really well, it's a lot easier to talk and come up with new topics, but with new people I can't think straight, and can't come up with new topics, so when they stop taking I just sit there overthinking
This is the best advice I’ve found in video form probably ever
Brother you are helping so much! God bless you bro!
Bro I love this channel, discovered you 2 days ago and love ending my day with your video 😎
Would love to see a video of you having a conversation with your grandfather, much love! Keep up the great work
Thank you
Question statement conversation. This is golden!
Another point I'd like to add is that instead of focusing on having a long conversation, try to focus on having a good short conversation. Quality > Quantity.
Thank you.
Thank you for this knowledge, I really appreciate people like you teaching us life lessons.
Much love from Australia
I like how your just talking and laying out your point very clearly. Giving examples in the process and not just bombarding us with 100 tips😂😂😂
Legitimately fixed my life with this one🙏
i''m giving you an internet hug, shimon. you are the best you gave examples too i love it. very great video!
Great words of advice! I love you too brother. Thank you for the enlightenment. I’ve always been a passionate and caring man, but sometimes that can be a bit much for girls. These thought’s invoke a bigger picture in my mind to not just love a woman, but keep her interested and engaged with a sincere purpose.
im so glad i found this video it gave me a whole new perspective on how to keep a conversation thank you for posting this👍
you made look at one side i never done YOU reminded ME to LISTEN Ty for the advice gng i appreciate it hella
First Video I’ve ever watched by you & I’m already loving your channel. Droppin’ GEMS!
Bro i watch your videos over and over! Taking notes 📝
Such a wonderful young man. I know your parents proud
Fasho gang i appreciate u this girl been on my mind and imma
Work on the communication cause that’s how are conversations is going to get better
lol your never lying, I didn’t realize how working at the grocery store made talking to people effortless
W video , this si fax. Whats also great about this advice is that yea we are so good at asking mad questions, we just don't go more in depth and do the other steps mentioned in this video , which are statement, conservation
I'm hearing a million *DINGS* listening to you. This was great. Thank you!
This was super helpful! Cant wait to run into some people this week
I love you bro, you really changing my life fr ❤️💯
oh man... this is gold. bro, you are hilarious. I love it
I really want to be friends with this guy. Good advice man. Keep it up.
Thx man you really help à lot of people
This guy's so cool, always great advice
that was a good video!! you got some good vibes☀️☀️☀️
thanks for the advice man
This dude is so kind and awesome I’m in
Love your advices and your voice
Me and my boyfriend always find it so hard to talk to each other.Because we are always so thank you so much.I will use this when i'm with him next
After watching this video I knew I had to subscribe , I learned a lot in this video lol.
this was actually rlly helpful
this has to be one of the best vid ive ever seen
I don’t know what led me to this video. But I agree with this. And I love your energy + cool style bro.
The background music hits everytime!
i would like to know wich song is that
We better would learn some life lessons like this (like talk bout exp. like from videos from you) in school man…
I can solve so much problems or points where i can’t get any further.
Thanks a lot 🤝
This guy never fails to make an interesting video
great work on the video as usual my man. would love to see a video on the topic of sugar/sugar addiction.
giraffe caught me off guard. amazing vid man
This was an absolute masterpiece
ive been subbed to you since you had like 2k subs not even a few months ago good looks g congrats on 100k
Legend!
bro i lowk envy you like man you got everything figured out yk
thank you Bro youre advice actually help so much
Great video really nailed this topic
Thank you so much for this!
Genuinely good advice.
Don't get this wrong but your content is a great dopamine detox and advice at the same time, for real rare W
you know them videos where they be like "i don't know who needs to hear this..."
me, i needed to hear this