This guy came out of nowhere and has started changing my life. Everything he says is so true and ive been changing my life around. I'm only fourteen and this channel has helped me so much. Thank you Shimon.
Keep going bro! We got this. I’ve grown a lot.. but I often tell myself I can’t keep going because of my problem with porn I’ve relapsed time & time again. But now I believe in myself. & I’m learning how to speak to myself & be nice to myself. We really are our own biggest enemies sometimes. Keep going brother. We got this!
I swear to god, this guy is something else. Cuz the topic of the video is what I'm going through just a couple of hours ago. I tend to overthink bad scenarios in my mind whenever I get left on "Read/Seen" or ghosted by my 8 year-long close friend + crush (whilst she's still "active" minutes/hours after the text on socials). (For context whenever I'm overthinking, questions come racing in my mind such as: "Did I say something wrong to her recently?" "Is she talking to some other man else more interesting than me?" "Am I boring or not interesting?" "Did I catch her in a bad mood?") I figured out the reason why I started to overthink whenever I get ignored by her is because of the *Fear* of being rejected and her choosing someone else over me. After some self reflection with myself, I think the answer to how I conquer my fear is to stop trying to get her attention frequently and focus in working on myself through my hobbies/side hustles, getting a healthier body (via gym/healthy food) and achieve various goals, so that maybe she could notice that I'm doing well alone, would like to go out more often together, play some videogames and start convos more irl or online. If anyone has any helpful advice on my situation or If you're in a similar situation, I would love to hear it.
Yeah don’t do it for her, when you grown in your own she’ll notice but you gotta think that even if you like her ( weighed it’s for how she looks or who she is) is she worth your time? While your having a crush, you gotta realize that you are valueable and if she is worth of having you. If you do then don’t get with her if she doesn’t help you grow as a person. I dated this one girl and we were the exact same, we didn’t do anything with our lives, we say otp all day texted all day. We cared for each other ofc but eventually we broke up, one of the reasons was because she didn’t help me grow and improve, don’t hang around people that don’t benefit you in anyway, it’s not using them but honestly think about it. If you sat around someone who did nothing with thier life there gonna drag you down with them. Good luck, be yourself n I love you 😊
I'm almost in something similar. I had a lady friend I introduced to my guy friend randomly in SA But they've been kicking off so good..dare I say better than we ever did in 2.5 months. They go to the gym together (I don't gym but do more calisthenics at home), I have my goals but it's sometimes hard to not think - why does it look like she's more free with him than me - I see the way they talk - and other obvious things that make them seem close. I have no feelings for her whatsoever, but it's just sad thinking about it cos I see her as a very close friend, and don't wanna lose her or become "obsolete" I don't remember her acting so jovial around me even though we did talk I know she's not that way (she's caring of other people) but it just sad thinking they're closer than we ever were even though they've known for just a month. Like I'm the one who was introduced to both of em, not the other way around
I didn’t know how to approach a girl I have a crush on who is a foreign student who I couldn’t seem to find the right moment to talk to. This is because either we are in public at university so I’m just too shy to talk to a girl in public or she is with her friends most of the time which is likely because she doesn’t know anyone well enough apart from them. After a physics exam last Friday I decided to wait for her to leave the exam hall and when coincidentally she was the last person out the hall we were alone an I asked her ‘how was it?’ And she smiled and replied ‘it was good’. That’s the first time I’ve spoken to her and it felt great. I hope I’ll have the courage to speak up again when the second semester starts next week because for weeks before that interaction I had been contemplating how to talk to her and like you creating fake scenarios in my head. I found that actually going up and talking to her removed a little bit of my fear about how she’ll respond. Wish me luck!
Bro I missed a 12 marks question for my exam and now I think I'm going to fail, and that's when I came across this video, I just want to get over this fear of starting to study for exams and the exams themselves.
I’m on the cusp of turning 30 feeling lost with no direction and having to deal with a lot of past traumas. The message this guy delivers in all his videos cuts through anything therapy has taught me in the past 18 months. Keep shining my guy!
I can honestly say as an 19 year old this is so deep because i'm constantly worrying and overthinking about what people think about me especially because i only have 92 subscribers and i get no views but your videos has taught me to manifest so i know by the beginning of April i will have 100k subscribers. that you so much for the inspiration.
I started to overthink about this girl I am talking to. She got sick a couple days before our first date, and my texts to her have gone unanswered since then. It's been a few days since, so I'd like to believe she's just going through it and is just not communicative, but each time I text her with no response feels like a wall being put up in front of me. And now I am thinking she just ghosted me, and here I sit just falling apart from it. She seemed so eager and friendly and kind and we connected on so much. Just straight up cold shoulder. I used to think I knew what patience was, but nowadays I am questioning it. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt if she wants to contact me sometime this week to try to setup another date for this weekend, but I'm not holding my breath.
Everytime I see your videos it's like a breath of fresh air! The gratitude I have for u is beyond this world bro! To be so young and have the knowledge of a man lived 2 of my lifetimes is phenomenal. I'm 27 years old but you are living proof that it's NEVER too late to change. I love u man keep up the good work bro 👍🏾
Man idk how but with every video I watch i feel like I improve something with my life,thanks for being here and leading everyone to the right path including me.
Hey man I got diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis in the past few months and I’ve been watching your videos in an attempt to gain new perspective on how I should be changing my lifestyle, I just wanted to say thank you so much for making the content you do. You seem beyond empathetic but I don’t know if you know how much these videos do for people. Whether it’s people looking for long term change or looking to piece themselves together with a comforting video, your content provides both. Keep being you bro❤️
Yo shimon, your videos has helped me alot through my anxiety and gaining confidence and believing more in myself. I've been always been trying to do better in life and fixing my addictions. Thanks for helping me through it all and seeing life in a positive light aswell.
I’ve been watching your videos for a while now and I just love the atmosphere and the way you give such good advice I can honestly say you’re helping me so much! Thank you & have a good day/night :)
I've recently stumbled upon your channel. And I've really been enjoying your video as I've been diving myself into the dating market. You have some very solid advice and wisdom, and for somebody like me who ends up overthinking a lot of things in negative situations, I just want to say thank you. For helping me realize that a lot of things that have happened, I have no direct cause on what's going to happen and also to not worry about things I can't control. You've helped me see red flags in girls I'm talking to, but you've also help me get back into the groove of just worrying about life day by day; staying mindful of the present. Again, thank you. Keep doing what you do. You've earned a sub ❤
I so grateful I found this channel honestly, going through this young adult thing is really difficult than I expected. I been over thinking ever situation, every step and being traumatized for a long time. I just getting into the habit of speaking up more. keep up the great work bro. I know Ill learn a lot from you!.
Dear, Mr Davis Thank you for being so consistent with your videos. I cant wait to understand myself more with the tools you gave me to min for gems. I never knew how much I needed to hear about patterns I share with a stranger that only became digestable until heard outloud. I am thankful for finding your channel. I was often compared to mike in my military servive due to my silent but deadly light spoken and freindly. Thank you for allowing me to remember this about myself. I wish i found your videos sooner. They would have gotten me out of dark places sooner. With love, Miss.Sweetenberg
I don't know how you are doing this,but thank so much ,you're making me see the world and myself different, I'm learning alot about myself and I see things more clear now
I never leave comments on videos but this video just came at the perfect time and I just got to say as well that your vibe in these videos is brilliant to listen to and watch. Thank you.
I just wanna say thank you for helping me. Your voice sounds very soothing to listen to and helps me calm down. Im 17 and I have ocd (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) and i am currently taking therapy. Do you have any possible tips as to how I could overcome my mental illness? I’d appreciate it a lot. And thank you for making this type of content. You deserve all the attention you get. And congrats on your success ❤🎉
Idk you but have pride that your trying, never give up and never be jealous of someone because they were 'luckier'. Everyone has their hidden downsides. That is not a mental illness, its a pebble in your road and dont let it get to you in your dope yellow lambo. Im 15 and autistic btw so idrk wtf im talking bout
@@Im-lost-pleaese-help I understand what you’re trying to say. You’re basically just telling me that this is an obstacle I have to overcome to keep progressing through the road. Think of it as climbing a Mountain. You start from the bottom trying to climb to the top. There will be times you will slip down and have to make your way back up. Right? I get you and I think that’s very motivational. And great advice. And I appreciate that Im currently looking for people to sort of give me advice as to how I could overcome my ocd. Maybe people that had ocd or have ocd can relate and tell me about their problems. Or simply give me advice as to how I could fix it. Im not looking for something complicated but rather a simple tip. And I don’t mind people sharing me their experiences telling me what it’s like and what they did to overcome it. Infact i think it’s very powerful and brave to do so. Since ocd is the reason why I’m barely able to advance in life. And progress. It’s pushing me back from learning and trying new things because I always have this fear that if I don’t do this certain thing in a certain way. It does not feel right and ends up taking a lot of my time. I just hope that this therapy I go to can really help me out. I’ve also been trying to self improve myself and keep my ocd more under control And currently I’m a bit satisfied with how everything is going. I just hope to be better And I will be better. Because I have the motivation to. And thinking negatively won’t help me. (: And also. Don’t think of autism as a disability. Think of it as a different ability. It doesn’t make you incapable It makes you capable in a different way
Love your videos. Dont feel obligated to post every day, for me and i believe for many others, i would aprreciate less videos but with something you really want to say. Something that will come up to you by it self, i believe that made your best thoughts.
You truly be saying exactly what my spirit needs to hear! It’s officially time for me to let go of fear, embrace the present moment & make life simple for me✨
Feelings can get hurt snooping around just make sure you’re in the right state of mind and come to an agreement with yourself that whatever you find in that phone is what it is and find the best solution for it and move on
with me its not so much "overthinking" as over analyzing. yes, it has its drawbacks, but it is my attempt to anticipate the possible future and be prepared I don't know if that will make any sense to others 😅
There's a girl I'm talking to that I like, and she likes me back. Us dating is in the question, but the problem is the fact that my parents are the strictest people alive, and I'm never allowed to go anywhere. I'm afraid if we start dating, I won't be able to see her enough besides school. I'm having trouble figuring out how to move foreword. In high school Btw.
This guy came out of nowhere and has started changing my life. Everything he says is so true and ive been changing my life around. I'm only fourteen and this channel has helped me so much. Thank you Shimon.
like literally he came out of NOWHERE and now hes out here changing the course of whole lives
He is a more relatable Hamza
Same brother. Every single word you said. (I’m 14 as well)
God brought him to us😊
Thank god it randomly came across my screen
40 days no alcohol, no weed, no porn. Thanks for your motivation everyday 💪🏻
good job bro
Awesome bro and your success motivates others.
Keep going bro!
Keep going bro! We got this. I’ve grown a lot.. but I often tell myself I can’t keep going because of my problem with porn I’ve relapsed time & time again. But now I believe in myself. & I’m learning how to speak to myself & be nice to myself. We really are our own biggest enemies sometimes. Keep going brother. We got this!
Proud of you. Keep God close
He be spitting, Jesus keep blessing him to speak to us 💯
Bro be speaking to my soul with this clear communication
I swear to god, this guy is something else. Cuz the topic of the video is what I'm going through just a couple of hours ago.
I tend to overthink bad scenarios in my mind whenever I get left on "Read/Seen" or ghosted by my 8 year-long close friend + crush (whilst she's still "active" minutes/hours after the text on socials).
(For context whenever I'm overthinking, questions come racing in my mind such as: "Did I say something wrong to her recently?" "Is she talking to some other man else more interesting than me?" "Am I boring or not interesting?" "Did I catch her in a bad mood?")
I figured out the reason why I started to overthink whenever I get ignored by her is because of the *Fear* of being rejected and her choosing someone else over me.
After some self reflection with myself, I think the answer to how I conquer my fear is to stop trying to get her attention frequently and focus in working on myself through my hobbies/side hustles, getting a healthier body (via gym/healthy food) and achieve various goals, so that maybe she could notice that I'm doing well alone, would like to go out more often together, play some videogames and start convos more irl or online.
If anyone has any helpful advice on my situation or If you're in a similar situation, I would love to hear it.
Yeah don’t do it for her, when you grown in your own she’ll notice but you gotta think that even if you like her ( weighed it’s for how she looks or who she is) is she worth your time? While your having a crush, you gotta realize that you are valueable and if she is worth of having you. If you do then don’t get with her if she doesn’t help you grow as a person. I dated this one girl and we were the exact same, we didn’t do anything with our lives, we say otp all day texted all day. We cared for each other ofc but eventually we broke up, one of the reasons was because she didn’t help me grow and improve, don’t hang around people that don’t benefit you in anyway, it’s not using them but honestly think about it. If you sat around someone who did nothing with thier life there gonna drag you down with them. Good luck, be yourself n I love you 😊
I'm almost in something similar. I had a lady friend I introduced to my guy friend randomly in SA
But they've been kicking off so good..dare I say better than we ever did in 2.5 months. They go to the gym together (I don't gym but do more calisthenics at home), I have my goals but it's sometimes hard to not think
- why does it look like she's more free with him than me
- I see the way they talk
- and other obvious things that make them seem close.
I have no feelings for her whatsoever, but it's just sad thinking about it cos I see her as a very close friend, and don't wanna lose her or become "obsolete"
I don't remember her acting so jovial around me even though we did talk
I know she's not that way (she's caring of other people) but it just sad thinking they're closer than we ever were even though they've known for just a month.
Like I'm the one who was introduced to both of em, not the other way around
I didn’t know how to approach a girl I have a crush on who is a foreign student who I couldn’t seem to find the right moment to talk to. This is because either we are in public at university so I’m just too shy to talk to a girl in public or she is with her friends most of the time which is likely because she doesn’t know anyone well enough apart from them. After a physics exam last Friday I decided to wait for her to leave the exam hall and when coincidentally she was the last person out the hall we were alone an I asked her ‘how was it?’ And she smiled and replied ‘it was good’. That’s the first time I’ve spoken to her and it felt great. I hope I’ll have the courage to speak up again when the second semester starts next week because for weeks before that interaction I had been contemplating how to talk to her and like you creating fake scenarios in my head. I found that actually going up and talking to her removed a little bit of my fear about how she’ll respond. Wish me luck!
@@SoDReamy0O well said man :)
@@luca_magna7753🫡
Approaching someone is about speaking with them, not sleeping with them. Wow what a gem 💎 thank you for sharing your thoughts man
Bro I missed a 12 marks question for my exam and now I think I'm going to fail, and that's when I came across this video, I just want to get over this fear of starting to study for exams and the exams themselves.
I’m on the cusp of turning 30 feeling lost with no direction and having to deal with a lot of past traumas. The message this guy delivers in all his videos cuts through anything therapy has taught me in the past 18 months. Keep shining my guy!
Your energy is contagious man, keep it up and don’t let anyone take that away from you
I can honestly say as an 19 year old this is so deep because i'm constantly worrying and overthinking about what people think about me especially because i only have 92 subscribers and i get no views but your videos has taught me to manifest so i know by the beginning of April i will have 100k subscribers. that you so much for the inspiration.
I believe you
Your aura is so comforting
I started to overthink about this girl I am talking to. She got sick a couple days before our first date, and my texts to her have gone unanswered since then. It's been a few days since, so I'd like to believe she's just going through it and is just not communicative, but each time I text her with no response feels like a wall being put up in front of me. And now I am thinking she just ghosted me, and here I sit just falling apart from it. She seemed so eager and friendly and kind and we connected on so much. Just straight up cold shoulder. I used to think I knew what patience was, but nowadays I am questioning it. I'll give her the benefit of the doubt if she wants to contact me sometime this week to try to setup another date for this weekend, but I'm not holding my breath.
Here before an 8 year old kid say i'm first
First
True hero
Ur the 8 year old 😂
Oh my god, its u again, hell nah
Lol damn the 8 yo must be sad af
Everytime I see your videos it's like a breath of fresh air! The gratitude I have for u is beyond this world bro! To be so young and have the knowledge of a man lived 2 of my lifetimes is phenomenal. I'm 27 years old but you are living proof that it's NEVER too late to change. I love u man keep up the good work bro 👍🏾
My pleasure!!
Idk why, everytime i think positive, It will go down to humble myslef :)
Man idk how but with every video I watch i feel like I improve something with my life,thanks for being here and leading everyone to the right path including me.
Hey man I got diagnosed with Ulcerative Colitis in the past few months and I’ve been watching your videos in an attempt to gain new perspective on how I should be changing my lifestyle, I just wanted to say thank you so much for making the content you do. You seem beyond empathetic but I don’t know if you know how much these videos do for people. Whether it’s people looking for long term change or looking to piece themselves together with a comforting video, your content provides both. Keep being you bro❤️
Yo shimon, your videos has helped me alot through my anxiety and gaining confidence and believing more in myself. I've been always been trying to do better in life and fixing my addictions. Thanks for helping me through it all and seeing life in a positive light aswell.
My best version is coming man, thanks Shimon
Your videos really help me and other people. Im so glad that i found you!
Literal saint changing my life man thank you for your content
I’ve been watching your videos for a while now and I just love the atmosphere and the way you give such good advice I can honestly say you’re helping me so much! Thank you & have a good day/night :)
thank you man u always comin in clutch in perfect moment
i just been binge watching your videos, you are truly a miracle. thank you for sharing your thoughts and opinions.
I've recently stumbled upon your channel. And I've really been enjoying your video as I've been diving myself into the dating market. You have some very solid advice and wisdom, and for somebody like me who ends up overthinking a lot of things in negative situations, I just want to say thank you. For helping me realize that a lot of things that have happened, I have no direct cause on what's going to happen and also to not worry about things I can't control. You've helped me see red flags in girls I'm talking to, but you've also help me get back into the groove of just worrying about life day by day; staying mindful of the present.
Again, thank you. Keep doing what you do. You've earned a sub ❤
I just love the fact that everyday I can sit down and listen to this, it really helps me out.. Thank you
I needed this. Shimon once again delivers
Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾 facts brother live life never care about the outcome it always will be an expected end ‼️💯🙌
ugh these videos are just too good im so glad I came across your channel
Thank you so much. I needed this message. Blessings to you. 🌌
I so grateful I found this channel honestly, going through this young adult thing is really difficult than I expected. I been over thinking ever situation, every step and being traumatized for a long time. I just getting into the habit of speaking up more. keep up the great work bro. I know Ill learn a lot from you!.
this channel's saving my life one video at a time
Dear, Mr Davis
Thank you for being so consistent with your videos. I cant wait to understand myself more with the tools you gave me to min for gems. I never knew how much I needed to hear about patterns I share with a stranger that only became digestable until heard outloud. I am thankful for finding your channel. I was often compared to mike in my military servive due to my silent but deadly light spoken and freindly. Thank you for allowing me to remember this about myself. I wish i found your videos sooner. They would have gotten me out of dark places sooner.
With love,
Miss.Sweetenberg
I don't know how you are doing this,but thank so much ,you're making me see the world and myself different, I'm learning alot about myself and I see things more clear now
I’m 13 and overthinking is one of the things I do best thank you for this video I needed it❤
Thank you for this bro , needed this today
Thank you so much for your videos. They really help me as a person and I appreciate every single thing I watch from you. I love you.
dont know if this is gonna sound weird af but you're the father i never had and always needed
Much love to you fam
Man, right from the first sentence of the video your already nailing it on the head
I never leave comments on videos but this video just came at the perfect time and I just got to say as well that your vibe in these videos is brilliant to listen to and watch.
Thank you.
I appreciate you❤️
thank you! i had a great day today and just one little imperfection ruined it for me. this video is pure gold and i am a lot calmer now! love
Loving the voice and the background guitar^^ thank you for the videos
Im only 5 minutes in, and the things his saying made me cry. I paused, cuz I need to assimilate every bit of this video.
gotta love the daily motivation
You are so inspiring. Thank you.
You’ve inspired me to start making videos, I’ll meet you at 100k!!
I love your videos bro.. They are very inspiring and your advice is always easy to understand ❤❤
dawg i wish i could get a convo wit you fr lmaoo you real asf💯
I just wanna say thank you for helping me. Your voice sounds very soothing to listen to and helps me calm down.
Im 17 and I have ocd (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder) and i am currently taking therapy. Do you have any possible tips as to how I could overcome my mental illness?
I’d appreciate it a lot. And thank you for making this type of content. You deserve all the attention you get. And congrats on your success ❤🎉
Idk you but have pride that your trying, never give up and never be jealous of someone because they were 'luckier'. Everyone has their hidden downsides. That is not a mental illness, its a pebble in your road and dont let it get to you in your dope yellow lambo. Im 15 and autistic btw so idrk wtf im talking bout
@@Im-lost-pleaese-help I understand what you’re trying to say. You’re basically just telling me that this is an obstacle I have to overcome to keep progressing through the road.
Think of it as climbing a Mountain. You start from the bottom trying to climb to the top. There will be times you will slip down and have to make your way back up. Right?
I get you and I think that’s very motivational. And great advice.
And I appreciate that
Im currently looking for people to sort of give me advice as to how I could overcome my ocd. Maybe people that had ocd or have ocd can relate and tell me about their problems. Or simply give me advice as to how I could fix it.
Im not looking for something complicated but rather a simple tip. And I don’t mind people sharing me their experiences telling me what it’s like and what they did to overcome it. Infact i think it’s very powerful and brave to do so.
Since ocd is the reason why I’m barely able to advance in life. And progress. It’s pushing me back from learning and trying new things because I always have this fear that if I don’t do this certain thing in a certain way. It does not feel right and ends up taking a lot of my time.
I just hope that this therapy I go to can really help me out.
I’ve also been trying to self improve myself and keep my ocd more under control
And currently I’m a bit satisfied with how everything is going. I just hope to be better
And I will be better.
Because I have the motivation to.
And thinking negatively won’t help me.
(:
And also. Don’t think of autism as a disability. Think of it as a different ability.
It doesn’t make you incapable
It makes you capable in a different way
I love listening to your wisdom Shimon.
thanks again for these videos :D 🙏it helps me every day
Bro is the best comfort CZcamsr
Needed this so bad 💗
Love this guy
I really, really needed this rn
Literally the best vid you’ve made 😊
dude you help today , thank you ma bro
Best video you produced so far
This guy is too good
Love your content man❤️
Bro! Really good videos. Thanks
Helped me very much thank you
Love your videos. Dont feel obligated to post every day, for me and i believe for many others, i would aprreciate less videos but with something you really want to say. Something that will come up to you by it self, i believe that made your best thoughts.
You the goat man
Things will get better 🙏
Thanks man.
Thank you brother
You truly be saying exactly what my spirit needs to hear! It’s officially time for me to let go of fear, embrace the present moment & make life simple for me✨
Dude's amazing
Thank you ☺️ god bless you
Keep up the grind!
Dude tysm man
Feelings can get hurt snooping around just make sure you’re in the right state of mind and come to an agreement with yourself that whatever you find in that phone is what it is and find the best solution for it and move on
This I might listen too, I’ve not been okay
I like u men coz u talk sth that everyone is related with its like sth i know but forgat thanks bro for reminding me❤
Your analogies are amazing dude.
I appreciate you fam❤️
@@AskShimon vice versa brotha
Thank you
thank you
💗 You're 💗 the 💗 best 💗
Thanks!
LOVE 🙏🙏🙏
thanks your video are helpful
Thank you Shimon Davis.
-Nate
Im crying on every video, specially when I read comments. I it so hard and powerfull.
dang i need a hug rn
with me its not so much "overthinking" as over analyzing.
yes, it has its drawbacks, but it is my attempt to anticipate the possible future and be prepared
I don't know if that will make any sense to others 😅
first sentence, and bro is already spitting bro
need that north face hoodie bro
I needed this so bad
if you put transcripts of these videos somewhere i would instantly be 99.34% happier
"What you think your mind gonna do?" *pterodactyl screeches *
Fire
ive been listening your advices and tips but i cant prevent it from stopping i keep doing it everytime can you give me tips?
Tribes on the rise
There's a girl I'm talking to that I like, and she likes me back. Us dating is in the question, but the problem is the fact that my parents are the strictest people alive, and I'm never allowed to go anywhere. I'm afraid if we start dating, I won't be able to see her enough besides school. I'm having trouble figuring out how to move foreword. In high school Btw.
big w
Goin ✅🦇🕸️❗️
Is there any place where I can download the background music or summ 😭
📈📈
My guy !
W man f#cking love u
Where did you get your jacket.😭 I really like it 😭😭😭
Actually that's "the north face"