how to be attractive as an introvert

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  • čas přidán 22. 05. 2024
  • Mastering charisma as an introvert.
    0:00 being an introvert
    0:24 killer
    1:29 people are ego driven
    2:28 this beats everything
    3:12 self-respect
    4:20 hello sunshine
    I’m trying something new. Thank you for your support! I am always working hard and I got big things coming up.

Komentáře • 67

  • @_your_aesthetx
    @_your_aesthetx Před 6 měsíci +40

    Today is November 9 2023 ,I'm sure this video will blow up ,I'll come back to comment my progress .

  • @YouKnowMeDuh
    @YouKnowMeDuh Před měsícem +6

    I spent so much of my life trying to get other people's attention because I was so lonely. I am the way I've always been, and yet, the whole relational thing only got better as I became an adult. But at this point, my desire to meet new people and gain friends is burned to ashes because of the repeat failure and rejection and betrayal I've endured. I don't think I'm that good of a person, but I do what I can for others and I just hget trampled on. I'm both an introvert and a heavy empath. I am genuine but struggle with dealing with emotions to the point where I just want to remain closed off forever to minimize the damage others can do to me.

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před měsícem +2

      I definitely relate to that. Keep on being yourself, eventually the right people will come into your life and appreciate you for who you are

  • @natasha_b777
    @natasha_b777 Před 6 měsíci +24

    I think youtube knew i needed this video 😭 and thank you sm for the tips, i feel like i always try to hard trying to think what to say to the other person cause i overthink through it too much, sometimes I feel that I shouldn't even be there to exist as myself in a certain situation, so i move away from the spotlight and dont share my opinions or my thoughts and run away to hide from interaction 😭 and maybe that's why I never know what to say or react in certain situations but i will try my best to change my perception :) and wishing you success and happiness in your future endeavors

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 6 měsíci +5

      I definitely feel that way sometimes. Please take care of yourself!

  • @user-dg2jz6vv5l
    @user-dg2jz6vv5l Před 6 měsíci +10

    You will be popular

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 6 měsíci +4

      Aww thank you! I’ll keep on working hard and creating better videos

  • @pointyhat5799
    @pointyhat5799 Před 5 dny +1

    Really well put together video.

  • @xavierthrope
    @xavierthrope Před 6 měsíci +9

    I loveeeed the video and ur channel I just discovered it and I can't believe you have only 95 subs you definitely deserve more!

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much for your support! I will keep on working hard and creating better content!

  • @xboss7159
    @xboss7159 Před 6 měsíci +8

    You did a really good job! Thanks for share your thoughts a i hope you can keep doing it!

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you so much for your support!!

  • @antowIA
    @antowIA Před 6 měsíci +4

    sooo right

  • @godisgodisme
    @godisgodisme Před 6 měsíci +2

    This was brilliant!

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 6 měsíci

      Aww thank you for your support!

  • @Pinkpilatesprincesss
    @Pinkpilatesprincesss Před 4 měsíci

    New sub!! This was so helpful and you’re so pretty!!!

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 4 měsíci

      Tysm I will work hard and create better content

  • @spencerwlam
    @spencerwlam Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hey Clare!!!!! So nice to meet you yesterday!!!! Love the video!!!! ☺

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 3 měsíci +1

      Hi Spencer! Thank you for the support!! Excited to see your content as well!!

  • @Simplymismu
    @Simplymismu Před 6 měsíci +5

    You’re so pretty 🤍

  • @zwn4444
    @zwn4444 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Found this video in my recommendeds!

  • @CosmicNarcissist
    @CosmicNarcissist Před 6 měsíci +4

    imma x ray tech, i use the exact same shyt when interacting w/ my patient, esp when they're in acute pain or just emotionally drained, it helps both me and them alot

  • @sophia_321
    @sophia_321 Před 6 měsíci +4

    You’re so pretty and nice ♥︎

  • @Winshet
    @Winshet Před 6 měsíci +3

    Thanks ❤

  • @mofidahassan8194
    @mofidahassan8194 Před 6 měsíci +8

    I loved the video! I think it’s really helpful ❤ a random tip from a content creator myself 😊 I recommend you to improve your thumbnails, it will do a lot and attract more people. I wish you the best! 😉🙏✨✨✨💖

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thank you so much your advice! I really appreciate it. Best of luck to you too!

  • @calista8999
    @calista8999 Před 6 měsíci +3

    you're gon blow up i just know it haha 😁🌟

  • @itsleviosa859
    @itsleviosa859 Před 6 měsíci +5

    I loved the video! New sub ❤ 117

  • @dishitabisht3420
    @dishitabisht3420 Před 6 měsíci +4

    Pls make more videos like this 😀

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you for the feedback, I will!

  • @janclaunitzer2376
    @janclaunitzer2376 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Fantastic video :) i just realized i dont too bad

  • @Kyinre
    @Kyinre Před 6 měsíci +3

    Just wanna say hi, I guess, I'm like - who's this? Why did this video get recommended to me, hmm, but you go girl, with your online persona/journey! All the best!

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you so much for your support!!

    • @Kyinre
      @Kyinre Před 6 měsíci

      @@abclarisma you're welcome! 🙂

  • @msmelancholy
    @msmelancholy Před 4 měsíci +1

    GIRL NOT THE HATE COMMENTS LMFAO, lovely video

  • @Trickyyeditss
    @Trickyyeditss Před 4 měsíci

    3:57 i'm 5'6 too and the tallest in my class. Can you recommend ways to not feel uncomfortable taking space and standing tall? It makes me feel big in a bad way and people are really judgmental about taller girls especially in Asia, i think yk what i mean since you're Asian too.

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 4 měsíci

      Being short is great and being tall is also great. You can be a model, or do sports. Own it, and be a kind person to others ofc. If ppl are still judgmental, they’re probably jealous of your height

    • @Trickyyeditss
      @Trickyyeditss Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@abclarisma Thank you!

  • @liyarah8392
    @liyarah8392 Před 6 měsíci +2

    🩵🩵🩵🩵

  • @atirocks
    @atirocks Před 3 měsíci +1

    while I agree with you about these suggestion, the irony here is that, these pointers you provided is counter-intuitive to being an introvert. Make eye contact, be talkative and funny and put out a positive vibe with smiles, etc. Just thinking out loud here, that's all. Have a good one!

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 3 měsíci

      Thank you for the feedback! Although I definitely consider myself to be a pretty funny person

    • @atirocks
      @atirocks Před 3 měsíci

      tell me something funny then@@abclarisma

    • @atirocks
      @atirocks Před 2 měsíci

      @@abclarisma as a funny person, i want you to tell me something funny!

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 2 měsíci +1

      Something funny

    • @atirocks
      @atirocks Před 2 měsíci

      @@abclarisma ive heard that before. Tell me a funny joke

  • @baconpenguin94
    @baconpenguin94 Před 4 měsíci

    You already are attractive

  • @xoxo_00076
    @xoxo_00076 Před 6 měsíci +3

    We need videos on self love...🤍🌷
    Btw u are so pretty 🌺

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 6 měsíci +1

      Thank you! I will definitely some of those videos in the future

  • @rockelatch2313
    @rockelatch2313 Před 6 měsíci +2

    Sooo by any chance would this advice help me get your number

  • @elaineirie
    @elaineirie Před 6 měsíci +3

    i loved the video, it was really helpful! 🤍 wishing all the best for you!

    • @abclarisma
      @abclarisma  Před 6 měsíci

      Thank you so much for your support!