The thing that helps me to control myself better is keeping in mind that by speaking faster I subconsciously try to be kind of (?) less embarrassing, and so i say to myself that by talking faster and not pronouncing words clearly I look even more embarrassing lol hope this helps y2
Yes same. What I’ve done is that to out more emphasis on words. Meaning ghat u should move ur lips more when ur saying a word. Like when ur saying the word “what” ur lips initially make a circle and then become straight. Jus open ur mouth more when u speak
I saw a portion of the video you posted on your channel 8 months ago . I appreciate the content and god bless you man you are wise for your age . I’m 24 and I was able to learn from you speaking on spirituality and god . I also stutter and it’s cool to come to a comment section where there’s other people who struggle with it I understand how imperative it is to speak confidently and effectively. Seeing the benefits it has on our selves and how we perceive the world is fascinating . All the opportunities we can take advantage of and have an easier time with all areas of life by speaking effectively. Yes the key is to speak at our pace no rush no overthinking or analyses just being in the moment speaking in the flow of our breath and being dynamic in our speech . God bless your Prince u a real one
@@miggz99 Thank you so much, I’m Glad I was able to connect with you on a spiritual level, and yes I totally agree with you when it comes to speaking effectively. Thank you for your reply and God bless you
I stutter sometimes and speak fast very often, multiple times I've been told by people that they didn't understand what I said, this video is a lifesaver. Love u man
I don't really struggle with talking fluently but it wasn't always like this. For the longest time I barely talked to anyone and so I just didn't know how to talk. The past year I've talked to more people than I've ever talked to in my life and that really helped me grow my vocabulary and fluency. I also experiment with new words all the time. If I'm watching a youtube video or talking to someone and hear a word that I don't know the meaning of, I look it up and try to use it in conversation later. Over time it just builds a really large vocabulary.
If you’re a man start semen retention you’ll naturally become more confident. I cured majority of my social anxiety from practicing every 2 weeks atleast
Practice being in your own body when you are out. You don't have to put so much attention in all the little details outside of you. And there's nothing that can actually harm you when you are in a social situation. Maybe the worst thing that can happen is people would get awkward around you. But I don't anyone would let themselves be in an awkward position so even if you are in that situation let them just adjust it. And don't fear so much it's safe out there. Try to have a purpose whenever you go in a social gathering and if you don't or cant social then you don't have to. Ik it feels bad not be able to talk but it's okay you can try small things to make it better. Try being comfortable around people even if you don't talk and try to reply what you are asked. Give yourself that small win, i hope it gets better with you slowly. And remember you don't "need" to make conversations and you don't have to be "good", enough to talk to its okay to feel anxious and clueless in social situation. And another thing i can tell you about social situation,its not just you 90% conversation you see happen there is some awkwardness their it's the people who choose not to make a big deal about it. People are just putting up act to make other person comfortable almost 90% times. So don't worry and keep trying you'll get better with each try :D
i dont know why ive always had a problem with speech. Maybe because im bilingual or because im dyslexic and neurodivergent but I have always had a problem communicating my thoughts. This video has helped me a lot thank you ❤️
I don't even speak English very well, but I'm always watching one of your videos and that way I'm learning more English and getting your tips and advice, obrigado cara você é demais.
That's exactly what I've been doing this week, I came back to making videos but instead of Italian I started talking in English and making English videos.I know perfect English when I text and I know the grammar, but I'm not used to talking in English which is why I struggle to articulate. However I started to record myself and post in English to force myself to improve. This video of yours gave me some really good advices and I really appreciate you Davis
Have you improved over the weeks? My main language is Spanish so I still don't know if I should try my best in English or just to vibe with my spanish.
@@Max9nce I suggest to always improve your second language but without neglecting your main one. English is absolutely essential in my life today. I get higher paying clients for my online business only by speaking English moderately whenever I travel (not just in Anglo countries, but anywhere in Europe, India, South Africa etc). I’m trying to get better to reach out people online in a more professional way though. And still, I realized in my main languages I can’t do any mistake at all or else people mistrust my capabilities overall, but in English the world forgives you MUCH more because you’re not expected to be perfect, just get your point across (and the clearer, the better), so that’s an endless amount of opportunities and freedom.
Really helpful advice! I'm practicing every single day, recording myself in front of the camera and it's definitely not easy. It's going to take time, but I'm so excited to become a better speaker and a better communicator. Thanks Shimon! :)
The fact that i like to listen to your videos, to you talking, no matter the content of the video you underlines your point and shows that you know what u're talking about
I want to thank you🙏🙏 . You are an inspiration to so many especially when it comes to speech. I even started doing a talk video and i pray I grow in my speech. Thanks alot
Yo appreciate the content big dawg, I tend to speak faster then my mind can process my words. Part of it is needing to let go of that little fear when articulating my voice more and slowing down my speaking pace. Trusting the process though les get it🙏🏼
Is is the "andrew tate" we needed, i appreciate that this man is humble, and really shows that he can relate, instead of js trying do things that go viral, and shit on people that don't have it as easy,
Hey man I just wanted to say that this video really resonated with me. I struggle a bit with a stutter and I feel like sometimes I definitely speak too fast. I also have some video ideas that I think a lot of other people including myself would find helpful: 1. How to move more confidently and how to move slower. I feel like the same kind of thing you were talking about with words can be said for movement and how it makes you seem more confident. I would LOVE a video on this. 2. How to speak more clearly/louder. I have a semi-deep voice, but people always tell me that I am not talking loud enough and I can not fix it for the life of me. If you could offer some insight that would be a huge help. Once again I want to thank you so much for your help and I wish you the best on your content-making journey.
I appreciate you sharing . I also struggle a bit with a stuttering but for me I let it get to me . I enjoy the art of speaking and considering myself to be knowledgeable and well spoken but am bothered by the fluidity of my voice . The stuttering portion of it. I understand that when I talk faster I tend to stumble but when I slow down and gradually pick up the pace I have a better grasp of my speech and am able to speak my mind . We all have to take a proactive approach in speaking and improving our speech ain’t no One going to do it for it . Let’s get it 🙏
I've started doing voiceover work in the past couple months and I can say that these are all good tips. It's acting, so it's not quite the same skill as carrying on a conversation, so some of these things don't apply, but overall, yes.
Yes yes yes! This video is just on spot. Do more of videos like this, please. And also on how to enhance your speaking voice, i've seen your video on that topic but i wish if you could do more on that.
i just have a problem with projecting my voice and i have a condition thats been holding me back from speaking in general and i always hated it and i still do but I want to improve my voice and myself in genres this video really motivates me
Thank you ! One thing I struggle with is mid conversation I start thinking like what can I say to some things I feel like I be out of conversation or words sometimes
Thank you for sharing your tips on things that are helpful for day to day interactions! I found your video, which was about the art of conversation and really how to have a good conversation and what that looks like, very helpful fo me! I was wondering, please could you make a video about how to be a good friend/ talk more into that idea? thank you for your help!
Thanks man. New subscriber here. I struggle to speak articulately especially when in front of crowds. I also suffer stutter since when i was a child and still have it up to now.
Bro, listening to you about how to improve my speech, I felt like you were giving me advice on how I should live my life. I just cried, because it's exactly what I needed - someone to tell me not to worry, to take it slow, and with time and practice, it will get better and better. And now, that's how I will approach my life - slowly, enjoying every failure and achievement. Because through failing, I will learn how to achieve, and through achieving, I will know that I have learned.
People told me in the past that I eat my words. And now I realize that I do indeed, I don't talk clearly. Also, I'm not used to talking or expressing my thoughts in general and sometimes I can't think of anything to say. I also don't normally comment on youtube videos, that's just how much I lack expressing myself. I'm trying though, I did make a video of me talking.
This video is too useful for me bro, thank you so much! English is my second language so I'm trying to improve every day and this video has helped me a lot!
2:28 bro just wanted to show off his beatboxing skills
still impressive tho❤😂
I was abt to say that 😭😭😭
lmao i was thinking so too. it's cool though
As he should 😭😭😭😭
😂😂
This man has helped a lot of people getting more confidence, and more to come. May god bless this man
sure
this is a good video but theres forbidden ebook hack your mind on borlest, everyone should go find it while is still available
the book hack your mind helped me more than anything else, I'm literally a different person, and I think it can be found in borlest
@@coolsa4720how helps you??
In Jesus' name, Amen.🙏❤️.
I speak very badly, but when I feel nervous I speak faster and my words get stuck, thank you for your advice.
When you talk say the full word it helps fr and when talking imagine a period after every word you say
The thing that helps me to control myself better is keeping in mind that by speaking faster I subconsciously try to be kind of (?) less embarrassing, and so i say to myself that by talking faster and not pronouncing words clearly I look even more embarrassing lol hope this helps y2
Same
Yes same. What I’ve done is that to out more emphasis on words. Meaning ghat u should move ur lips more when ur saying a word. Like when ur saying the word “what” ur lips initially make a circle and then become straight.
Jus open ur mouth more when u speak
Same bro
here in the comments to boost this man's algorithm
he deserves it
Appreciate the work you're doing, this man really does deserve it.
Fr
Yes
4:00 communication isn't about looking better than the other but rather getting your point across. as simple as that
Somebody with a slight stutter, this video helped me a lot. The key thing though is to slow down and take your time, own. Your. Pace.
I saw a portion of the video you posted on your channel 8 months ago . I appreciate the content and god bless you man you are wise for your age . I’m 24 and I was able to learn from you speaking on spirituality and god . I also stutter and it’s cool to come to a comment section where there’s other people who struggle with it I understand how imperative it is to speak confidently and effectively. Seeing the benefits it has on our selves and how we perceive the world is fascinating . All the opportunities we can take advantage of and have an easier time with all areas of life by speaking effectively. Yes the key is to speak at our pace no rush no overthinking or analyses just being in the moment speaking in the flow of our breath and being dynamic in our speech . God bless your Prince u a real one
@@miggz99 Thank you so much, I’m Glad I was able to connect with you on a spiritual level, and yes I totally agree with you when it comes to speaking effectively. Thank you for your reply and God bless you
On a side note, this man is majestic.
Yes ❤
I stutter sometimes and speak fast very often, multiple times I've been told by people that they didn't understand what I said, this video is a lifesaver. Love u man
Yea I get called xqc am I cooked
Same
@@XENTENCE_SSK same lol just record yourself and practise bro
I don't really struggle with talking fluently but it wasn't always like this. For the longest time I barely talked to anyone and so I just didn't know how to talk. The past year I've talked to more people than I've ever talked to in my life and that really helped me grow my vocabulary and fluency. I also experiment with new words all the time. If I'm watching a youtube video or talking to someone and hear a word that I don't know the meaning of, I look it up and try to use it in conversation later. Over time it just builds a really large vocabulary.
anytime i come out in the public i start sweating
😅
You might just be hot
If you’re a man start semen retention you’ll naturally become more confident. I cured majority of my social anxiety from practicing every 2 weeks atleast
Practice being in your own body when you are out. You don't have to put so much attention in all the little details outside of you. And there's nothing that can actually harm you when you are in a social situation. Maybe the worst thing that can happen is people would get awkward around you. But I don't anyone would let themselves be in an awkward position so even if you are in that situation let them just adjust it. And don't fear so much it's safe out there. Try to have a purpose whenever you go in a social gathering and if you don't or cant social then you don't have to. Ik it feels bad not be able to talk but it's okay you can try small things to make it better. Try being comfortable around people even if you don't talk and try to reply what you are asked. Give yourself that small win, i hope it gets better with you slowly. And remember you don't "need" to make conversations and you don't have to be "good", enough to talk to its okay to feel anxious and clueless in social situation. And another thing i can tell you about social situation,its not just you 90% conversation you see happen there is some awkwardness their it's the people who choose not to make a big deal about it. People are just putting up act to make other person comfortable almost 90% times. So don't worry and keep trying you'll get better with each try :D
That's social anxiety bro
why bro got the chinese drip?
Kungu Kenny got to him.
He on some Kung fu kenny.
I didn't expect to hear impressive beatboxing when i clicked this video. I love your videos, man, keep up the good work!
i dont know why ive always had a problem with speech. Maybe because im bilingual or because im dyslexic and neurodivergent but I have always had a problem communicating my thoughts. This video has helped me a lot thank you ❤️
Me too, I noticed this the other day when I was talking to a friend, hopefully we’ll improve 💪
I feel you
Practise makes perfect
I don't even speak English very well, but I'm always watching one of your videos and that way I'm learning more English and getting your tips and advice, obrigado cara você é demais.
That's exactly what I've been doing this week, I came back to making videos but instead of Italian I started talking in English and making English videos.I know perfect English when I text and I know the grammar, but I'm not used to talking in English which is why I struggle to articulate. However I started to record myself and post in English to force myself to improve. This video of yours gave me some really good advices and I really appreciate you Davis
Have you improved over the weeks? My main language is Spanish so I still don't know if I should try my best in English or just to vibe with my spanish.
@@Max9nce I suggest to always improve your second language but without neglecting your main one. English is absolutely essential in my life today. I get higher paying clients for my online business only by speaking English moderately whenever I travel (not just in Anglo countries, but anywhere in Europe, India, South Africa etc). I’m trying to get better to reach out people online in a more professional way though.
And still, I realized in my main languages I can’t do any mistake at all or else people mistrust my capabilities overall, but in English the world forgives you MUCH more because you’re not expected to be perfect, just get your point across (and the clearer, the better), so that’s an endless amount of opportunities and freedom.
Man black people are some of the best advisors like bro!!
They’re so relaxing I love them
Just what I needed! You always come in clutch man!
thank you brotha for putting your time into these videos and doing your part to help others
Perfect timing bro! I really needed this like Ong. 😭
'the soul is in the silence' i didn't know i needed to hear that today man. Thank you, you beautiful human💖
Really helpful advice! I'm practicing every single day, recording myself in front of the camera and it's definitely not easy. It's going to take time, but I'm so excited to become a better speaker and a better communicator. Thanks Shimon! :)
The fact that i like to listen to your videos, to you talking, no matter the content of the video you underlines your point and shows that you know what u're talking about
As you know man, I love you, I appreciate you and especially these videos. Have a great day man.
As a guitarist I love that analogy you used 👌
I love you man, thanks to your videos I became more aware of the way that I talk
I want to thank you🙏🙏 . You are an inspiration to so many especially when it comes to speech. I even started doing a talk video and i pray I grow in my speech. Thanks alot
Appreciate you homie, you give some solid advice 🙌
Yo appreciate the content big dawg, I tend to speak faster then my mind can process my words. Part of it is needing to let go of that little fear when articulating my voice more and slowing down my speaking pace. Trusting the process though les get it🙏🏼
Same but except its almost out of fear that what your saying is ok and how theyll take it
Appreciate it, King, you don't know how much this video meant to me.
Love you Man, you're content are Truth
I appreciate the fact that i was able to come across this video , thank you
Man he is something! Great and the way he explained each part so smooth. we want more videos related to this❤️
a topic i really need to speak about, thanks for the work mate
Super grateful to have another video from you brother. All your videos are such a God send.
very calming video, a lot of vids now days are packed with visuals and effects to keep you hyperstimulated, not this. gl bro 💯
Is is the "andrew tate" we needed, i appreciate that this man is humble, and really shows that he can relate, instead of js trying do things that go viral, and shit on people that don't have it as easy,
id believe anything he’d say bc his voice is so soothing, he really can talk extremely well.
Love this video. Thank you so much.
this video has taught me so much about myself. Thank you
Courage and confidence i learned this before seeing this video lets me kno i learn my knowledge from the source observing
Unrelated but your voice is so soothing. Thank you sm for this video!
Appreciate you bro for sharing this video. Keep up the good work 👍
Hey man I just wanted to say that this video really resonated with me. I struggle a bit with a stutter and I feel like sometimes I definitely speak too fast. I also have some video ideas that I think a lot of other people including myself would find helpful: 1. How to move more confidently and how to move slower. I feel like the same kind of thing you were talking about with words can be said for movement and how it makes you seem more confident. I would LOVE a video on this. 2. How to speak more clearly/louder. I have a semi-deep voice, but people always tell me that I am not talking loud enough and I can not fix it for the life of me. If you could offer some insight that would be a huge help. Once again I want to thank you so much for your help and I wish you the best on your content-making journey.
I appreciate you sharing . I also struggle a bit with a stuttering but for me I let it get to me . I enjoy the art of speaking and considering myself to be knowledgeable and well spoken but am bothered by the fluidity of my voice . The stuttering portion of it. I understand that when I talk faster I tend to stumble but when I slow down and gradually pick up the pace I have a better grasp of my speech and am able to speak my mind . We all have to take a proactive approach in speaking and improving our speech ain’t no One going to do it for it . Let’s get it 🙏
Thank you king for sharing your wisdom with the world ❤this video is a blessing to me
thank you bro man so much alot of your vids been keeping my mind elevating
Love this brother, i appreciate it!
I've started doing voiceover work in the past couple months and I can say that these are all good tips. It's acting, so it's not quite the same skill as carrying on a conversation, so some of these things don't apply, but overall, yes.
May God bless you my brother in Christ
the best vid ive watched in a while
I love your content
I always binge it
This was really helpful, Thanks !!
Yes yes yes! This video is just on spot. Do more of videos like this, please. And also on how to enhance your speaking voice, i've seen your video on that topic but i wish if you could do more on that.
great video mate
genuine and straightforward
Your voice is so calming and relaxing
Thx for this video i Need this video right know❤
Your videos sound so soothing, I wish I could meet you irl. Your voice kinda fills my soul.
ur playlists are public btw
i just have a problem with projecting my voice
and i have a condition thats been holding me back from speaking in general
and i always hated it and i still do but I want to improve my voice and myself in genres
this video really motivates me
Thanks for the tips, homie.
Thank you, i needed this to improve my speech..
Thank you ! One thing I struggle with is mid conversation I start thinking like what can I say to some things I feel like I be out of conversation or words sometimes
this is gold... u are gold
I love this guy, keep up man
Lovely this guy's video is phenomenal
Real simple! Keep it short sweet and simple. Its your actions that speak louder when it comes to work value.
This is my favourite video that I've watched this year
Thank you for this video its really impressive
i tend to speak fast when i'm anxious and i do get hard on myself a lot. definitely gotta get better with that. great video
it could be worse
i get hard every time i talk
Hi man , lm brazilian , thats was the magic moment for me , because you speak very clear, , thanks
Man, you're so stylish, and so smart!
Love your vibes 🤙
Thank you for sharing your tips on things that are helpful for day to day interactions! I found your video, which was about the art of conversation and really how to have a good conversation and what that looks like, very helpful fo me! I was wondering, please could you make a video about how to be a good friend/ talk more into that idea? thank you for your help!
Thanks man. New subscriber here. I struggle to speak articulately especially when in front of crowds. I also suffer stutter since when i was a child and still have it up to now.
pro I watch your videos with a smile on my face, keep up the good work !
Amazing video man, thanks for the tips
These are very useful tips, thank you very much for the advice. Is a learner of English this is precious advice for us.
I really do love your content ❤
This is awesome!
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nice work from another southern individual working on speech and expression
I started learning English, this video is very helpful and the background music is very calming.
Thank you!
Great explanation brother, thank you
Bro, listening to you about how to improve my speech, I felt like you were giving me advice on how I should live my life. I just cried, because it's exactly what I needed - someone to tell me not to worry, to take it slow, and with time and practice, it will get better and better. And now, that's how I will approach my life - slowly, enjoying every failure and achievement. Because through failing, I will learn how to achieve, and through achieving, I will know that I have learned.
You are one of God's gifts to this earth.
Helped me a lot.
that firset time l watched your vidio l found rich information Thank you brother from 🇸🇦 sudia Arbia .
Thank you so much for these tips. I have a slight stutter and accent. Im going to be practicing with the pen tip. Thank you 😊 💓
Love this video
Thank you Shimon! I tend to get scared to speak sometimes although I feel its something I'm called to do by God. Im gonna try to speak more now.
Dude I saw ur CZcams for the first time man the sound of ur voice is so calm and so good
It like rainy vibe 😂
Great video bruh, I appreciate you
Dope video, this inspired me!
Thank you very much ❤
Thank you mr Hendrix
This was so good!
Bro thank you for this video ❤
Love u men from Morocco 🇲🇦 ❤
Thank you so much ❤️
People told me in the past that I eat my words. And now I realize that I do indeed, I don't talk clearly. Also, I'm not used to talking or expressing my thoughts in general and sometimes I can't think of anything to say. I also don't normally comment on youtube videos, that's just how much I lack expressing myself. I'm trying though, I did make a video of me talking.
This video is too useful for me bro, thank you so much!
English is my second language so I'm trying to improve every day and this video has helped me a lot!
Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤😊
youre such an inspiration to me