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Hey guys, it's Charlotte Dobre here and today we're going to be talking about one of the most satisfying things in the world - entitled cheaters getting caught and called out!
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But it's not just about the satisfaction of seeing cheaters get caught, it's also about learning from their mistakes. We'll be sharing some tips on how to catch a cheater, whether it's in a relationship or in school.
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The last story had an update: He went to his parents' house to tell mom, but mom came out yelling and cursing at him. She said some unforgivable things to him and not listening to him. Dad took L. to his house with the story that OP was abusive and he tried to defend L. and got hit, and mom immediately believed them. That's when OP told her the truth and showed her the video. He was so upset by his moms behavior he left her while she was crying outside. He cut everyone out.
Oh poor guy, this is just insane!! And the father took his bimbo to his wifes house, are you kidding😱
wow...that's so messed up
also thanks for the update
Poor guy, but also dad is stupid, he knew OP had the video I mean…. 😂
@@rowiel81lll00lp0p0p))oo
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that last one is so messed up, how could a father do that to his child? He 100% deserved that punch!
I hope there is an update now or, if not, soon
That is a whole new level of "piece of sh*ttery".
This is actually a show on Netflix right now! Obsession or something. I watched two episodes and turned it off I was so disgusted! The woman is obviously trash, but for a father to do that to his son. Ugh!!!!
@RSARYR I posted link with update. Dad got to mom first and brought fiance and told her son hit him when he was breaking up fight between son and fiance. Mom said awful stuff to son. Son sent her proof and left. Son is done with all 3
One of the biggest dramas to go down in my family was my cousins wife cheating on him with his step father. Me and my cousin were like siblings growing up bc we were both only children so we took to each other. His step father had raised him since he was like 4, so basically his dad. Then he found out his wife and dad had been sleeping with each other. He was beyond devastated and infuriated. The stress of this coming out caused my aunt to have a massive stroke so bad they didn’t think she would ever walk or talk again. (She’s doing both now thank god, but has lost almost all short term memory) even worse…my cousin and his wife had 2 children together and the wife and his dad are now married…so the kids had to try to process the fact that what had always been “grandpa” is now their stepdad. My cousin moved away bc it was all too much and now we maybe get to see each other once or twice a year.
There’s even more bs involved that they did but long story short - The wife is trash and the dad is a POS. Anyone that can do that shit to their kid, their spouse and the children/grandchildren - like the title of this vid says they have a special place in hell reserved.
UPDATE ON LAST STORY: OP went to tell his mother, he tried calling but the calls wouldn’t go through. So he showed up at her house, she stormed out and started cursing at him, and calling him every name in The book. Turns out OP’s father told his mother that OP had hit him bc OP and fiancé got into a physical fight and the father stopped it. OP snapped and said “your husband is sleeping with my fiancé, that’s why I hit him. If you can’t take my word for it, I have a video I can send to you. But since you can talk to me like this don’t ever expect to see me again” and he proceeded to send her the video. Op’s mom watched it and started crying, and op got into his car and left. He is currently no contact with L or his parents.
Thanks for the update.. I been wondering what happened next ..
and also , OP mom should know his son temper as OP already been with her as a SON for SO MANY YEARS!!.. and
there’s always 2 sides of every story and OP mom should have this question pop up on her brain like (how did the OP father justified that “he is happened to be there during the couple physical fight? In the middle of the day?? During working day?”) but maybe the OP father story telling kinda too good to be true hence the OP mom was acting like that.. hope OP is okay.
Wow..That's so sad not only did he sleep with his son fiance then he lied on him to his mother. Disgusting This guy🤔 I pray the sons ok🙏
Very good decision. That father is a low life for lying about the situation. The best to this young man that deserves better.
His parents are losers that’s why that fiancé was able to get such a good guy . He couldn’t realize the signs because it was too close to home smh 😢
I caught my ex husband sending spicy messages to other women on Facebook while we were dating - I don't know why I thought he would stop when we got married. When someone shows you who they are, believe them.
dont blame urself. we hope for the best in people. hope you're doing well now!
@@lilmorsecodyshe should absolutely blame herself. She should have left before the marriage
I once had a guy I was already dating for like 2 months or so tell me “I’m not that nice of a guy.” I argued with him like he had been so sweet to me since the day I met him so I couldn’t believe it. Fast forward to him text dumping me not once but twice (ya know you go to get your shit you left behind and boom you are back together oh and he later even told me that was just bc I was crying, ((he was too not sure why now)) so I thought it was mutual that we wanted to get back together. But nope he also told me after the fact months later that he hadn’t wanted to be in the relationship from the first text dumping (we stayed friends with benefits for a bit after the second text dump) which just about broke my heart. Bc to me that said the the entire 8 months we went together it was bc he was too big a pussy to tell me. Mind you after months into this “relationship” I was introducing him to my son which is a big deal for me and we took went on vacation together spent Xmas and new years together and then after we split and I was starting to feel better about myself I finally sent him a text just letting him know how horribly he handled that situation thinking since we were still friends I could just get it off my chest and move on I didn’t expect anything from him but I guess he couldn’t handle hearing the truth and he blocked me. I’m still blocked to this day and I can honestly say shy of my abusive baby daddy I could touch base with any of my ex’s and they would be happy to hear from me. I don’t like ending things like that he knows this about me and it’s his way of punishing me for putting him in his place finally. Bc it’s one thing to hurt me but this man hurt my kid. He still brings him up. I would have never introduced them had I known he really didn’t want to be with me like the whole time. But hey I only have to pass his house on my way to and from work so I barely ever think about it lol
@@falcon2666you sound dumb as hell
He shouldn’t feel bad for seeing it sooner, no one would assume your dad is callin your girl for anything other than what he says.
I wouldn’t see it at all !!
What a failure of a parent! That man does not deserve a family!
I agree 💯
I remember when I was "in love".... The thought that my partner might cheat, would *not ever* have occurred to me in that phase of the relationship. The only way I would have been able to consider it, would have been by direct evidence (not just circumstantial).
So I can understand being devastated on a personal level. You could have literally hit me with a baseball bat, and not have shocked me as badly.
I don't think you ever really get over that kind/level of betrayal. And for me, it took years just to forgive (if only kept to myself).
That is the reason I was initially invested in this guy's story. It rang a bell of strong empathy in me. I did not have a family member's involvement... but when you are "in love", it could have been the pizza deliverer, and the pain would have felt as deep.
Best wishes for this guy's recovery, and hopefully it won't sour him on future relationships.
@@robertmuncie1881
Great comment.
Can't even imagine going through such a betrayal and can't even go to your own parents because it was your dad, who took it a step further by trying to cover his own ass.
There's no reason to cheat someone. If you are not in Love anymore...just leave. When you cheat someone you don't have respect for that person and not even for yourself. And never forget...KARMA IS A B*Tch. What goes around...ALWAYS comes around.
No, karma really doesn’t go around. It just…doesn’t. Plenty of awful people go on to have perfectly great lives. In fact, that’s the norm. We just like to use the karma cliche to make ourselves feel better, but it’s an empty promise. A better cliche to live by: Just try to live your best life.
No. It doesn’t 😞
And most imp things....improve yourself and your immature inner self
@@allenbanks9034 oh i understand your point...but i know a lot of awful people that actually had some of that karma they deserve. It's not just a clichê. But at the end of the day what really matters is you and what you do with your life. If someone is awful to me, i just move on and live my Life the best i can. But i like the petty stories of revenge, why not? 😂
@@allenbanks9034 "Plenty of awful people go on to have perfectly great lives."
Only because we let them. So don't. Wee on their f***ing coats.
Someone I really cared about had a gf, and they both stayed with his dad. He got into a car accident which messed his knee up really bad. He was in the hospital, then a rehab facility for awhile. Turns out his girlfriend and dad were sleeping together. It gets worse. He had nowhere else to go when he first got out of rehab, so he went back to his dad's. He wasn't able to do much for himself, and felt the only option he had, was to live there while his dad and now ex gf shared the room above him. Fortunately, he was able to find a place to go pretty quickly, but the damage was done. He never dated again. We lost him to COVID in 2021.
I went through my ex husband's phone almost exactly a year ago and found his tinder profile. Been divorced about a year now. Best year of my life so far. Also, if you give a cheater a second chance - you'll get cheated on twice!
I can't imagine how a parent could EVER cheat with their child's fiancee. Like they must really hate their child to do something so abhorrent to them. I can't fathom how they can convince themselves that it's okay to do. What even, how can they justify it to themselves??
Narcissism
I posted link with update. Dad got to mom first and brought fiance and told her son hit him when he was breaking up fight between son and fiance. Mom said awful stuff to son. Son sent her proof and left. Son is done with all them
The link kept disappearing after I left so....
Fiancé cheated on me with my father. 2
Wow, hello everyone I didn't expect to come back to reddit and have this much support. I didn't really plan to update at all I just wanted to put what had happened out there and hopefully get some advice. After I wrote down all that happened, I closed my computer and kind of fell into a depression, after I posted, it hit me like a train. To the ones who think it's fake, I wish I was this creative I'd write books instead of working a 9-5. I'll try to reply more on this post I just logged back on, and it was honestly too much to try and reply to every comment just know I read through most of them, and I truly appreciate everyone's inputs both negative and positive.
So, the day after I posted I tried to get into contact with my mother but none of my calls were connecting. I wanted to see if she would get lunch with me, and I'd tell her everything. After about a dozen tries, I decided to get into my car and go to my mother's house she needed to know what happened as soon as possible even if talking about was going to make it hurt all over again. During the drive I thought about what I would say and how I would say it that made me start to panic I had to pull over twice to throw up, it's not every day you have to tell your mom that her husband is screwing your fiancé.
I pulled into the driveway and sat in my car for a moment to calm down and gather my thoughts. I was in my car for a few minutes when my mother threw her front door open, so I stepped out of my car. She started cursing at me saying how dare I come to her home after I hit my father for trying to break up a fight between L and I. She called me every name in the book and called me an abuser, she told me I needed to leave since L isn't ready to forgive me yet and that if she's smart she hopefully never will. Yes, apparently my father took L to my family's home and told my mom that L and I argued and when my father tried to spot it, I hit him. She continued on for a while until I finally snapped and said "really mom because your husband is f\*\*\*ing my fiancé that's why I hit him and if you can't take my word for it, I have a video I'll send it to you but because my own mother can talk to me like this don't expect to see me again I don't want to hear your apology when you finally figure out that your just as shit of a mom as my piece of shit father." Her face dropped she looked like what I must have looked like when I first walked into my apartment and caught them. I pulled out my phone and sent her the video, my mom took hers out and turned it on, she pulled up the video and watched up until the part where I turn on the light. She then put her phone down, she looked up at me, but I turned and went into my car. I backed out of her driveway, I looked at her before I took off and she was in tears. My heart felt for her but too much was said during that fight for me to pull back in and forgive her.
When I got home, I started clearing everything out of my apartment that had to do with L or my family. I boxed all of L's things up and put them next to the front door, legally this has been her place of residence so I can't technically kick her out. Her name isn't on the lease also she's the type of person who shy's away from conflict and if she returns other than to pick her things up there will be plenty of conflict. Anything that had to do with my parents I boxed up and put into storage, like I said in my first post we were a very close family, but I've never had a problem cutting toxic people out of my life. I texted L's parents and told them calling off the engagement and told them she's been cheating on me. I thanked them for everything they've done for me, our relationship was still building but they were kind and supportive of me, so this just added more hurt to the mix. I finished by asking if they would come pick up all of her belongings. I haven't gotten a response from them yet but I'm hoping they come grab her things, so L doesn't have a reason to come back here.
Fiancé cheated on me with my father. 3
Hey everyone, I'm sorry I haven't updated in a while I wish I could say I'm doing great but that would be a lie. Everything hits me in waves I go from just being numb to boiling with rage I haven't had a happy moment since I found out. Other than a few friends I don't really have anyone IRL especially since my family turned out to be s\*\*\*. Quite a few things happened since I posted last (it's been about a month) so this update will tell all that's been going on.
After my last post I decided to get the ball rolling on everything that needed to be done like getting tested, finding a therapist, moving and of course buying a new bed. I started by calling my doctor's office telling them I needed to get tested and to refer me to a therapist. I had my first appointment with a therapist two weeks ago and we decided to continue once a week. I also got tested last week but it'll be another week or so, so until I get the results cross your fingers for me. I got in touch with a real estate agent friend of mine and he sent me a ton of listings and I decided on a refurbished cabin on the outskirts of my city, I finished moving 2 days ago.
When I finished moving, I called L's parents, when they picked up, I told them I moved out and L has still yet to pick up her things and that the landlord will start showing the apartment in a few days, so someone better pick her things up before the landlord throws it out. That must have lit a fire under them because the next day my former landlord texted me thanking me for getting the apartment emptied out. No one knows where I live now other than the friend who set me up with this place, so I know L, or my parents won't be dropping by. The only thing that sucks about this place is I traded a 10-minute walk to work to a 45-minute drive.
My phone has been blowing up with texts and calls from L, both my parents and some of my friends but I have no interest in talking to anyone other than my therapist. At work I've been a ghost I go in get my work done and leave, on the rare occasion I have to talk to someone I put on my fake smile and pretend everything is okay. My boss from my previous post has been trying to check in on me more but I don't really tell her anything either I just tell her I appreciate it, but I'll be okay. Truth is, I don't know if I'll be okay, I get that time heals and all, but I feel like that's only relevant when you're dealing with one issue not when you lose who you thought were the three closest people in your life all at once. A huge part of me died and there's no chance of resuscitating it.
The meetings with my therapist are going well I suppose I've never done therapy before, so I have no reference on what good therapy is. We do get along alright, and she really seems genuine in wanting to help. The first session was us getting to know each other and delving into what brings me to her, nothing in depth but me just telling her what happened in my own words. The second session we went a bit deeper, she asked me about the relationship I had with my parents I told her up until now it was great, we talked often and always communicated well when something was wrong and that I grew up in a great home but that all means nothing now. She asked why I cut my mother out of my life I told her she said things to me I wouldn't say to someone I despised then told her there's no way she can come back from that. At the end of our last session, I gave her the link to my page on here so she can read more about how I feel and what's going on in my head. I feel like it's easier to type things out then it is to speak it. So, if you're reading this hi doc.
For now, I'm still miserable I thought I'd be okay by now not necessarily happy but okay. I know some of is my own fault not communicating to my friends but when I think about responding to them it just seems so exhausting. I know they'll want to get together or come to my new place, but I just don't have the energy to be around them. Until I do, I'll work, go to my appointments and sit on my back deck sipping on some bottom shelf whiskey and try to enjoy this beautiful view. I haven't hunted since high school so maybe I'll take that up again now that I can hunt from my back porch.
Thank you all for reading this far.
If you find out he's cheating by going into his phone or any other way other than him telling you: no matter what they say, or how many times he says he's sorry. He is not sorry that he cheated, he's just sorry that you caught him. Otherwise he would have stopped it sooner.
THIS
*otherwise he wouldn't have cheated
i cant imagine going into anyone's phone, just dont.
@@andreahennes1270this☝☝
Yeah, but my bf only told me to clear his conscience. He just got his "friend" a birthday card.
Former colleague of mine once had a boyfriend who cheated on her with her own sister. She found a way to get back at him. Since they each paid half for everything in their apartment, she took half of everything. That meant ripping off half of the wallpaper in each room, half of the carpet and laminate, and literally splitting the furniture in half with a chainsaw.
Thats amazing! And some awesome revenge 😂
Ok... I disapprove of wasting money this way but I can see how thérapeutique this must have been 😂
@@justcarineinparis Yep. And she did it because she knew how annoyed he'd be having to replace everything.
One of my ex's cheated with my older sister also, I can tell you that that's something you will never forget & to this day I cannot & will not get close to her ever again. Thing is, he's my kid's father, not just a regular ex ya know. I'm now with an amazing man who would never even dream of trying to hurt me or I him 😊
Needless to say, for some odd reason she "hates" my fiancé tho.. 🙄🤔🤭🤔🤭😂 Most likely cus he sees thru the BS like I do 😊
That's some awesome pettiness tho, I totally approve!
Thats hilarious! 😂
The one about the fiance' cheating with his dad brings back memories of my family. My younger sister ran off with my older sisters husband. They were gone for over a year before anyone knew where they were. Of course my older sister divorced him and now my younger sister and brother-in-law have been married for over 40 years. It made it very uncomfortable at family reunions for sure and my older sister has never recovered understandably.
They should have never been allowed to come to family events.
@@jeanams07agreed
That is so sad.
Well, that's interesting, because as terrible as that was, clearly your younger sister and her husband are very happy together. I suppose that's sort of a bizarre silver lining.
@@EthanBrownkeys absolutely not.
No the lesson is not to go through their phone. It’s when you catch them LEAVE!
Edit: She says right at the start of the video that they live together but she still has her own place. So choosing to stay had nothing to do with her having no place to go. She should have just left.
The first girl stay 6 months after the cheating, her story was embarrassing for her for staying.
Yeah and if you have suspicions talk about it cos they’re usually right
@@jeannettelee2806true but she was young and naive - we always gotta learn the super hard way eh 😂
Literally Facts as soon as she said I stayed with him for another six months I lost all respect for her like ma'am he cheated on you in the worst way he had his entire friend group lying for him! He is trash put him on the street. I am not afraid to admit I have daddy issues but I would never deal with a man cheating or beating me
Agreed. Can't tell me she didn't sleep with him again in that 6 MONTHS she stayed. I'd be out. He wouldn't have been dipping in me again. Yuck.
My coworker's husband cheated on her with her son's girlfriend. The woman was absolute trash. To rub salt in the wound (purposely) when the son and his girlfriend were fighting about it, she straight up said "Your dad was better."
That girlfriend is pathetic... wow cheating and then doing this like HE was the one who was cheating..
The audacity. I would never talk to my dad again either...
🤯😱☠
Update?
The dad is trash also🤮
@@luluperez8587 they're no longer together, but she has him sleeping in a separate room until he can find a place. She's given him a time deadline to find one before she kicks him out all together. The relationship between the son and the dad is confusing as hell. He's stuck between wanting his dad around because he loves him/has always looked up to him and feeling betrayed and sickened by the whole thing and wants nothing to do with him.
Oh my goodness. The story of that poor guy whose fiancé cheated on him with his FATHER. I can’t get over it. Hope that he is ok. My heart breaks for him.
Never used Reddit but knows the format (ages, gender in parentheses for everyone involved and using initials instead of names) well enough to do so without making a mistake is making me suspicious. Oh and they’re using a throwaway according to their username. Why would a new user need a throwaway or think to use one. Most new users just use a username that’s specific to whatever they made the account for or something to do with their name
The old saying "once a cheater always a cheater" is absolutely true. I know from experience. I didn't leave the first time my husband cheated and he proceeded to do it again. Both times with my "best friends", well both times that I know of. I stayed the first time because I was young, we had a child, and I based my value on what he thought of me. It took a long time to get over all the hurt he caused me and to get out of that codependency but I'm free of it now thank God 👏👏👏🙌
I don't usually condone the punching of one's parents but, this was completely a situation where it was justified.
Op did a Balrog punch 👊 on his father and law for clapping his own daughter and his fiance cheeks he deserved all that whole grain knuckle for doing that toh
@@emurder99wait I think you have the wrong idea, the dad isn’t the girls dad, he’s not fucking his own daughter, he’s fucking his sons fiancé
As someone who recently found out they were being cheated on.... leave and don't look back. No matter what they say they're not sorry, they don't respect you, and you're better off without them.
Damn right. Lots of love to you, hang in there. ❤
Amen.
They're sorry they got caught.
If you're not up for reading about my situation, cool, it won't bother me if you dont care. If you do, I'm open to any input. But its a long story even though I spared details. Anyway, here it is...
I know realistically that I'd be better off without him but we first started dating when we were 15(met when we were 13) and are now 20 with a 19 month old(a little over 1½ years). When I got pregnant, he moved into my mother's house with me and started working so we'd be financially stable and be able to get our own place. He started cheating not long after moving in with me but it was never physical so I just let him keep being a shitty partner. I left him when our kid was 2 months old and he cut contact because he was mad at me not caring to see our kid and I was staying with family a few hours away, so it was a reasonable drive to make monthly at minimum since I used to drive an hour every other day to see him before I got pregnant. We got back together after 3 months of him being perfect and he still kept putting in effort(though, not much) to improve our relationship for the next 6 months while we were living with a friend. No cheating or any of his awful behavior that he would always exibit before. Until we signed a lease together again 4 months ago and he started cheating AGAIN 2 weeks into living at our new place and I have all of the proof from every time hes done so. Im a stay at home mom and he would never let me work so I wouldn't have the money to leave him so I still don't. About a month ago, I stayed at my mother's house for 5 days and our kid went with me since he's done maybe 5% of the childcare in her entire life and he has a full time job. Day 5, he was begging me to come back and saying he missed me and needed me after being a complete asshole to me saying the worst things for the first 3 days. I hate being at my mother's house, its not a good situation for me or my kid and this is my place too so I'm living here again but made it clear that were done and if theres any hope for us at all, he has a ton of work to do. During the 2 months I knew he was cheating and stayed, I lost all feelings for him but they're back now because he started acting like the person I fell in love with again and I know that I can't stay away from him completely unless I have no contact with him but thats not an option because we have a child together and are on this lease until the end of April. I'm stuck mentally and physically because I love him too much no matter how much he does to hurt me. He's never screwed or even kissed anyone else while we've been together but still isn't loyal and I know I can't keep letting him get away with this shit but I don't know what I can do other than be distant
This one reminds me of a video I saw of a mother that was caught in the bed with her daughter’s baby daddy. That lady had the nerve to tell her daughter ‘don’t speak to me like that! I am your mother not your friend!’ When her daughter raised her voice at her. I still get angry when I think of that video. I would have completely lost it if I was in that situation
Wtf the audacity
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I don't understand why friends dont want to hold their friends to higher standards and let them be accountable for their own crap and not cover for cheating. It really just brings your value as a human down to have friends like that.
It's part of the "bros before hoes" mentality
Cheaters really mess people up, its heartbreaking.
My boyfriend's ex cheated on him throughout their relationship, and it took him THREE YEARS to finally trust that I wouldn't.
And what really sucks about it, is it's hard to tell the difference between someone who is jealous and controlling, and someone who genuinely is afraid to get their heartbroken.
He broke down in tears once, my beautiful man, and told me how afraid he was that after putting his heart out there, I'd cheat and break it.
Fuck cheaters, seruously. You suck, and you don't care about the person your cheating on at all.
My fiancé was cheated on by basically all of his exes so to have me a loyal partner finally in his life I’m really the best thing or one of few best things to happen to him. Thank goodness none of them broke his heart but they sure made him feel unworthy. It’s truly disgusting.
He is a bish for tripping over the past. Either he is a young lad who doesn't know how to move on or he is simply a tripping bish
Either way he turned into a controlling and jealous bitch. Also he cud use that as an excuse unless u saw proofs or spoke with his ex I.wud not believe it
Fuck, that's also my story with my partner: his ex cheated on him for three years straight and now, after being in this relationship for almost a year, he still has A LOT of fear surrounding me cheating on him..
@@andre_d-nl7gn I'm so sorry, for both of you. It's so unfair.
I hope he's eventually able to fully trust you. It's such a beautiful feeling once that bridge is gapped ❤️
@@justhearmeout3959 I really hope so.. also, I really wish you both a happy relationship!
WOW to sleep with your son’s soon-to-be wife!? To RUIN a family by sleeping with your fiancés FATHER!? How could you ever trust anyone again after being betrayed by 2 of the 3 people who supposedly love you most?
It was all three people. The Mom started yelling at him without even listening to his side of the story. She believed her husband and gf more than her own child. Didn't the Mom find it suspicious that her husband was with the gf in the MIDDLE OF THE DAY to break up the supposed fight? Does he not work? Why would she just assume that her own child hit his girlfriend? The mother betrayed him as much as the father did by not listening to her son's side of the story!
Oof, that is really sad. I guess people will believe the person they're closest to, which is her husband. I mean it sounds outrageous, but I know it's not impossible.
@@kenyabrunson4985Mom thought she could trust her husband. That wasn't a thought in her head or the son's head. I don't think anyone would think that until they witness it actually happening.
I mean.. it takes two. His fiance played a part as well
I was dating someone for almost four years. So the douche cheated on me. He got her pregnant and married her. So I told him to tell her too cause she didn't know either that he cheated on her too. So we found she baby trapped him to stay with him. I told him, you lost me the moment you decided to give her attention. When you wanted something fast and easy there she was. And both deserve each other. Him for being a cheater and not having the balls to stop her. And for her for having low self esteem and forcing someone to be with her.
Oh gosh, that last one. Poor guy. His boss was remarkably compassionate. At every workplace I've ever been in, showing the video to the boss would have been an HR violation and possibly instant firing. But no, she was understanding and tried to help him out. Heck, at my current job they're trying to ban any conversations that are not work related, and basically telling us not to discuss our personal lives at all, so even describing the story of what happened to my boss would get me sent to HR for the "violation" of talking about something in my personal life.
Storytime. So I caught my sister with my husband I guess that's the reason for her divorce. She has been telling the family lies. Making me look bad. I had a video. I also had outside and inside surveillance. I did show it to my family but not my father. In her divorce settlement she swore that she wasn't having an affair and her husband gave her money. She still fighting the legal battle and she's going to lose her house, her car, friends (yep, she slept with her best friend husband) everything. I'm still not talking to my family. But she lost everything. My ex-husband lost everything in the divorce. It didn't make me happy but the fallout was glorious.
Were you your sister's best friend? That's double salt in the wound.
Your sister sounds like the living worst.
I mean sure blame is on the the slimy sister, but these guys seem to have no loyalty or love for who they married either. The husbands just go drop their pants because some girl makes it easy? WTF. Ditch em all. Glad you got justice girl, I hope the best friend got justice too!!
@@InteriorDesignStudent really close....or so I thought
DAMN, girl... I can't even imagine how painful that was. I'm so sorry. But it's wonderful that justice was served. You're right, it's not necessarily a _happy_ thing, but it is satisfying. I hope you're healing/have healed, and that you've found some joy in your life. ❤
I know that the conscience is muted when bad actions are repeated, but I seriously cannot even imagine carrying on a relationship with your fiancé's father and looking at your partner in the eyes afterwards. That poor man is lucky he found out before they got married. People can really be awful!
This. Surely, at some point you have to think to yourself "this can't go on."
Right?
Made me think of the plot of this series called Obsession that I’ve seen a while ago on Netflix, with a woman that gets engaged to a guy and after meeting his family started an affair with his father, it was intense to watch it, hearing this happened to someone in real life is even crazier
Right? My husband shaved his head once. He looked so much like his brother. I had to close my eyes to kiss him until his hair grew back.
Imagine if she had gotten pregnant and he married thinking that was his child. In reality that’s his brother 😢
My mom cheated on me with my ex fiancé. IT WAS HER WHO APPROACHED AND SEDUCED HIM FIRST. They used to call 2 times a day, every fucking day. Mom secretly used to stay his home for weeks. I feel soo sick in my stomach when I even remember this. It's all started 4 years ago and after I left my fiancé, they're openly dating now. It's the most painful thing I've gone through in my life. My therapist told me she's a narcissist and jealous of me cause my mom believes I look attractive than her and earns well. I had not great childhood as both my parents are controlling, possessive and to some extent abusive. When I met my fiancé, we hit off instantly. I'm demisexual, so I loved him with all my heart with all these years, my trust has been shattered completely. I've lost faith on humanity. I hate my mother more than anyone. I'm single, unmarried now with lots of trust issues, pain and mental issues. Even typing this teared me up. I'm so scared to date to anyone, what if my mother would seduce him again💔💔💔
Go no contact with your mother. I don't usually just straight up say that, but if you don't want her to seduce your future partners or cause anymore shit in your life, why the hell is she still in your life? Work with your therapist to get to the point where you can detach yourself from her and get the hell away. You're an adult, I assume. You also seem financially well off, if you earn well. Why have her in your life? She's clearly not much of a mother to you. I know it's hard to cut off toxic people, but seriously, the cycle and your misery is only going to continue if you let it. Again, work with your therapist. Get out. Leave her behind. She's not worth it.
I mean what mother? Doesn’t sound like you really even need to introduce her to anymore partners after that. She doesn’t deserve to meet any of her future grandchildren you might have tbh.
I agree that she should not be in your life, that’s just horrifically toxic and heartless. So sorry that happened to you. I know it will take time to heal, I have PTSD (a process but I can trust again). Some people are so deeply cruel but there are good people, and you are stronger and kinder than all that abusive behaviour. I’m so sorry you have been through that and have pain and mental health issues too, from one damaged/healing pain warrior to another, hang in there, sending you ❤
You need to cut ties with your toxic mom so you can begin to heal. You will find a romantic partner later. But first you need to focus on healing your pain and mending your soul. You are strong and you can get through this with time. 💪🫂🫂🫂
Ughh. I’m so sorry girl. That is so wrong. If it’s possible, I would honestly cut contact with your mother and anyone else in your family who has sided with her, and move away if you can. Start over somewhere new… start fresh. I had an ex cheat on me with my cousin.. we were super close, like sisters. Then when I found out and left him, they moved in together and married. So they were always at all my family functions and I just kept seeing them everywhere, and hearing of them constantly. I couldn’t move on or heal, because I couldn’t get away from it all. I moved across the country about a year later, and it was the absolute best thing I could have ever done. I was finally able to heal and get over it, and start fresh and be happy. I know it’s easier said than done, but if it’s possible you should think about it. Or even just getting away for a while if you can’t, a long vacation maybe. I wish you the best girl.. you don’t deserve that at all. Remember, it has nothing to do with you, and is not due to any of your faults… it is all on them, and their issues. They are horrible people, and would have done it no matter how perfect you were. Don’t put any blame on yourself, it all belongs on them. Good luck babe. ❤
The lesson from the first story was not to look through their phones, it was to have more respect for yourself and break up with someone who does that to you. I feel bad she stayed with him for 6 more months.
My husband and I have been married for 17 years. My FIL has called me once. One time in 17 years due to an emergency. A couple texts of happy birthday, but that's literally it. How ugh....I don't even have words. The betrayal.
Right? It’s so odd. I’m fairly close with my inlaws too.. but I think the only times my FIL called me outright was in serious situations when he couldn’t get a hold of his son, or that kind of thing. We text occasionally, but it’s always like “what does Son want for his birthday?” “Are you guys busy on Sunday? Son hasn’t answered me and planning a bbq, can u guys make it?” And so on. I’m not blaming that guy for not seeing earlier, but that would have really weirded me out. Like if I found out my mom was always calling and chatting with my fisnce I would be like… what the actual fuck.. what are you guys even talking about?
I always shake my head when people (looking at you Reddit) say it's a violation when you go through someone's phone when you know they're up to some shit. Just ask and have a conversation. Yeah, sure, cheaters never lie.
It is a violation though, the reality is once you get those feelings the trust is gone and you need to just break it off. Finding out won't save the relationship, and even if you don't find any evidence the feeling isn't going to go away.
@@goodbher9244 finding proof brings closure
@@goodbher9244I disagree. Someone with nothing to hide won't be offended by that.
@@justhearmeout3959 i don't have to have something to hide to want my right to privacy respected. i wouldn't let the police search my property without a warrant either. that doesn't mean i'm committing crimes.
I think the idea is that if you cannot trust the person you shouldn't be with them any longer regardless of what the truth is. Either they are cheating and you should leave or your judgement is so clouded that you should leave for their sake.
The last story, wow... I feel bad for the fiancé. The only reason why his fiancée was texting him constantly was to get a read on him (and his location is all). Terrible of her and his dad. At least he found out before he got married to her. I hope he's happy and living a good life. Would love to hear a follow up though to find out he he told his mom, hoping he did, anyway.
The follow up had been posted in the above comments. There are 2 long updates.
@@jeanams07 thank you :)
So I looked at the updates for the father and fiancé one, so messed up.
Him and L went back to OPs mum and told her L and OP we're having a fight and he was getting abusive, father tried to step in and that's why the punch happened. He tried ringing his mum to talk to her about what happened but his number was blocked he goes to the house and she comes out yelling at him, says things "a mother shouldn't say to a son" until he cuts her off by telling her the real reason why and sending her the video and she could see for herself.
Op lost his parents and his fiancée.
He also moved out of the apartment, told his ex in laws to get their daughters stuff before the landlord chucked it, he knows they did because he got a text from the landlord thanking him for clearing everything out.
He's also got a therapist on the go ❤
"Every time you walk through that door, you're gonna see that image. It'll fade eventually but speaking as someone who -THE LEGS- has seen it before"
🤣🤣🤣 This made me laugh so hard.
Same lmfao!!
Ditto 😂
Omg me too!!😂
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15:38 😂
A friend’s dad caught my friend’s ex-fiancé (while they were engaged) with her drug dealer (which no one knew that she was into drugs). My friend’s dad gave them both one minute to get out of his son’s apartment and for her to leave her keys to the apartment. Fortunately, she wasn’t on my friend’s lease as she had just moved in with him. When he got home, he found his dad there with boxes and told him what happened. They packed her stuff up and took them to her mom’s house. They told her mom what had happened and gave her the boxes to deal with.
Forget helicopter parents. This is an Apache attack chopper Dad.
What a great dad.
I've been married for 22 years and my parents still rarely call my husband. It's occasional and we know it usually means that they need computer help.
I’ll never forget the first time I went through a male’s phone💀 My friends were pressuring TF out of me to do it and I of course gave in - mind you, I did this thinking “Okay well there’s nothing to find anyway cause He LoVeS mE.” Long story short, we found a ton of sh!t that absolutely humiliated and enraged me😂 Thanks to that experience, you won’t catch me snooping these days unless my man’s behavior is WAY off
Charlotte's different accents ALWAYS makes me laugh so much. Her vibe it's fabulous. It's impossible to watch this Channel without feeling so much better! 🤗❤️
I second that
I third that 😊
Facts, the subject today is not funny but she makes it hilarious.
It was the "Eat some asparagus first" for me! The first time I ever ate asparagus was when I was an adult. No one warned me that it would give me stinky pee! I thought I had an infection! My mom suggested I take AZO tablets for urinary issues... that turned my pee red. I assumed I was dying at that point!
@@LazyIRanchlol.. that's really funny. I can picture myself thinking that 😂❤
It always hurts the most when it's someone you know and love, best friend or family member. Those ppl deserve a special place in hell.
I caught my husband the 23rd of Dec. the day we were supposed to go see my dads family for Christmas. Our kids got his phone while he was sleeping and brought it to me. I saw something fishy and went through it. I was devastated and had to go through my Christmas pretending like nothing ever happened
I couldn’t imagine hurting someone I love let alone doing that to my child. How can you justify sleeping with your child’s fiancé!!!!!
My sons girlfriend was living with us for 2 yrs (bad family blah blah) and broke up saying she is to young and just doesn’t love him anymore! I’m like ok for the best anyway. She’s only 19. Excepts yes leaves the old phone. Son looks at phone and for last 8 mths she has been sleeping with her 38 yr old boss! My poor son was heartbroken
Just curious is her boss married and if so are you tempted to tell the wife although if she really fell out of love staying out of gratitude would have ended in disaster it could have gone on longer and maybe kids would have been in the fallout but she is still shit for cheating and not breaking up first before moving on
Should have listened to Yoda's sage advice if she was leaving him already. "If into the recordings you go only pain will you find"
@@MsKaz1000 no wife and it oh so worked out for the best. He is out of college, great job, car, n his own place. N her n boss broke up after a few months, after this happened, and she quit or fired who knows.
My late wife could always use my phone whenever she wanted. I also set up find my friends, so she could see where I was.
She was disabled, and wasn’t often well enough to go out, so I set up the feature, that way when I went shopping, she could see what store I was at, in case she thought of anything else she wanted, and would know if I was still at the store or not.
I once was talking to this guy, and he asked, “why did you let her force you to do that?”
I then told him it was my idea.
He then said, “what if you wanted to go for a pint or hang out with someone?”
I responded, “I would call her, and say that I’m going for a drink with (said person), unless she needed me at home. She would then tell me to have a good time.”
The idea of being honest about what I was doing blew his mind, as was my wife’s response.
It wasn’t until afterwards that I realised he was talking about cheating, I had been talking about meeting a friend.
One thing is for sure, there is no way I would have trusted that man.
This is not Charlotte texting you! I am sorry about your loss ❤
@@HoneyQuint Thank you.
Long and healthy relationships are build on open communication, full trust and complete respect... period. People who don't know how to have those things with someone else will never understand and in turn will never have a long and healthy relationship. It not that hard to comprehend when you have it.
@@jeanams07 My wife and I talked nonstop for 18 years. :)
@@TheSnowdogsShortsI’m sorry for your loss. It sounds like you guys loved and trusted each other very much. That’s exactly what I am looking for and why I won’t settle for less. I watched my grandparents have a similar relationship my entire childhood and teenage years, and it has made me have faith that I will find something like that… and that settling for less is unacceptable. I hope you had many years of happiness together before she passed. Good luck friend!! ❤
What kind of father does that to their family. He not only devastated his own son, but will now do the same to his wife too. Your supposed to protect your family, not destroy them. What a POS those two are.
I am shook by how many stories there are of parents cheating with the significant others of their children and vice versa
Oh my gosh, the last one was wild. I can’t imagine being betrayed not only by your fiancée but also your own father. Both parties involved are disgusting, but even more so the dad. How can you do that to your own son? What a piece of trash.
I wish the best for OP and I do hope he has the support that he needs. That’s really tough.
When your significant other cheated on you, it feels like the world ends at your very own eyes. The mind filled with thinking of the betrayal, disappointment, anger, sadness and the curiosity of how tfh this could happened to yourself. We started to blame ourselves when they are actually at fault. At this moment, all that matters is you and you alone. So be brave and do what you suppose to do, LEAVE 🖤🖤🖤🖤💔
A parent who's ready to sacrifice their relationship with and hurt their own child for sex is inconceivable to me.
These videos are oddly comforting with all the BS going on in my house rn
Small portion of the story to save time:
My brother moved his girlfriend of about 4 months~ in during december while we were still dealing with the previous psycho he moved in, sometime during March or April he proposed to her🎉 (So about 8 months together at this point) me and the rest of my family including our parents told him countless times it was a terrible idea but he didn't care because he though it had to happen now since he was getting "To Old" (He's 24, 23 at the time) side note, My parents did NOT say she could move in due to the psycho previously mentioned anyway we all knew it wasnt gonna end well but my mom is a literal saint and won't let my dad kick them out (Despite me and my 3 other siblings aswell as my other brothers fiancé trying to convince him to) so fast forward to the last 2 weeks, They had a fight she was staying her parents for a few days come to find out she cheated on my brother. Twice we all found out thought he was gonna break up with her but no, he took her back and she's currently living with us still, he found out and all this happened within the last 3 days and not only does he try and act like nothing happened he decides he's gonna spend 400$ to get her a tattoo for her birthday in a couple days (Her birthday is the 29th lol) RIGHT after he found out she was cheating and now we're all just trying to avoid them entirely because he won't listen to reason (We've tried telling him multiple times) and is still engaged and spending hundreds on someone who is obviously using him. Hooray 🎉
I know not many people will read this but if you do I just wanna let you know that you're worth so much more than you think and although some may tell you differently don't fall victim to people like this it'll just end up badly no matter the circumstances, I may just be some random person on the internet but I hope you know that someone does care about you 💜
I was in the middle of a yawn (it's still early here, not a commentary on the content haha) near the end when Charlotte said, "As someone who has seen it before" and the quick edit of "the legs"... that yawn turned into something of a hard laugh and then I started choking. I think I have to go lie down now... totally worth it. Props to your editor and your storytelling, C!
It was a great edit, got me good too 🤣
I once knew a girl in the same situation as the first one. She was living with him in his condo. If she left, she would have nowhere to go but home, which is at the other end of the country. It would mean her dropping out at the start of the semester. She she just beared it for months, waiting for the semester break before she could leave him and go back home.
Im summarizing OPs updates… but:
For anyone wanting the full story google “reddit fiancé cheated on me with my father” and parts 2 and 3 will come up numbered. OP didn’t update the original post he created new posts for updates.
To summarize the posts: he went through his work week and decided to reach out to his mom. He called her a few times with no answer so that weekend he decided to drive over. When he parked she swings the door open and rushes out cussing him out telling him he’s a terrible human being and an abuser. He’s confused but figures out the dad BROUGHT HIS FIANCÉ HOME WITH HIM and told the mother the son knocked him out because he was breaking up a physical altercation between OP and fiancé. So he’s a lying disgusting creepy dirt bag obviously (my words not OPs)
Anyway OP snaps at his mother and tells her what actually happened and sends the video, he watches her watch it up until he first turns on the lights and he sees his mom crying but he gets in his car and leaves after telling her never contact him again.
He then finds a therapist and a new one place to live, packs ex fiancé’s stuff up and tells her parents the engagement is off due to infidelity and asks them to get her things (after he moves in to his new place). Father, mother, and fiancé try multiple times to reach out but he ignores them all. He talks about going between feeling burning rage and depression and working through it with his therapist and how he’s trying to put it behind him but he lost the 3 people he loved most in the world the same day so it’s hard.
That was more or less all that was in the update, no mention of what happened to his family after he told his mom the truth… but considering the father and fiancé started frantically calling him after he went to the mothers house I’m assuming the mother kicked them both out.
Anyway that’s more or less it. Also, for anyone trying to post links, CZcams literally will not allow you to post external links in comments anymore. Please stop calling people that said they posted the link trolls, they’re not trolling their comments are getting deleted.
Thanks for sharing the update.
I cheated (I was young, stupid and flattered) then later I was cheated on. When I felt for myself that hurt I decided then and there it was something I would never do again. If you're not happy leave. The mere fact that you ONCE cared for someone surely must mean you treat them with respect.
The worst cheating that's happened to me was the 1st guy I saw after I got divorced when I was 20, we dated for 2 years and at the end of it he kept accusing me of cheating, I was working 2 jobs and going to school so with what time? It went on for about 6 months of us fighting about me cheating even though I wasn't. He would go through my phone daily or when I was sleeping and find nothing, then get mad when he didn't find anything. I broke up with him and then found out he stole my Kay credit card (jewelry store in Arizona) and bought a ring for my BEST FRIEND that he was cheating on me with for a YEAR AND A HALF! They are still together and it makes me happy to see they've had some ugly kids (normally I wouldn't talk shit about kids but good lord hopefully the grow up and blossom). I still talk with his family as they no longer talk to him because of how shady he is even with them!
I've never gone through someone's phone. I've always thought of it as if I feel the need to go through his phone then it's already over for me.
yeah because you went for a badboy. dont follow those hollywood bs.
The worst betrayal is a family member. So gross. Poor guy and sad for his mother too!
I knew a girl, years ago, who not only cheated on her husband with his Dad but also with her brother-in-law. She even left her husband for her brother-in-law. She had 2 kids to her (now ex) husband and went on to have another child with her brother in law. Last I heard she was still with the brother-in-law. Talk about messed up.
Last one, you may not see it now, but it was a blessing. You are able to clear the way for the right one. I am just so sorry she took so much of your life. Don't let them take anymore. I hope you recover quickly.
As an asexual person, part of my reason for not looking for a relationship right now is that I'm afraid someone will cheat and blame it on me being ace 😢
Would it be traumatizing? Yes. Would I also blame myself? Yes, internalized acephobia is a bitch. But would I stay with them? ABSOLUTELY NOT! If you can't be with me because of my sexuality, just leave 🤷
WTF?
Okay, if someone cheats on you and blames you for being asexual THAT IS UTTER BS! Don’t blame yourself, a cheater will do ANYTHING to avoid taking the blame!
I'm asexual too and been eoth my bf for almost 5 years now. He loves sex and sexting. He has a lot of kinks. He knows and knew prior to dating me that I was ace cause he's my best friend. What worked for us was compromising. I hope you find you someone like that.
@@joelleg8415so how does that work for you guys? Do you both give a little or is he allowed to explore that side of him with others?
Ive only ever known one couple where one partner was ace, the other most definitely wasn’t so that partner explored that side outside of their relationship but had very clear set boundaries on how far it could go and as far as I know that worked for them for a long time. Not sure if they’re still together.
But how do you navigate that? You guys must have top notch communication for that!!
I’m trying to understand ace more since my best friend told me he’s ace and I want to support him as best as I can but I myself are a very sexual person so I have no idea how it would be to not feel that but I do very much want to know/learn
I've never met an asexual person before. do yall just have no sex drive? (I'm ignorant on the topic)
When they keep accusing YOU of cheating when it's actually THEM running around
If you think you need to go through your other person's phone, you should just leave anyway. Be in a relationship with the person whom you don't mind looking through your entire phone, and they don't mind you going through theirs. Implicit trust and love going both ways is a beautiful thing. Mutual respect and brutal honesty are key.
That last story is so insane! All those phone calls from the dad to the ex were definitely a red flag! That is not normal! I understand OP thinking that his dad was just trying to be welcoming to the girl he was dating, but that can be done at in person events, or on group texts. Regular, private phone calls like that aren't normal!
My husband and I have been married nearly three years and I've only received a personal phone call or text from my MIL, never once from my FIL. On the rare occasions that my FIL needs to ask me something, he always uses the group chat that includes my husband and MIL.
The first story had me on the edge of my seat. Where is the popcorn? That poor woman.
I really want to know what happened. Did the mom kick the dad out? Having your fiancé cheat on you, is one thing. With your dad is a whole other story. Can you imagine the next holiday gathering?
I posted link with update. Dad got to mom first and brought fiance and told her son hit him when he was breaking up fight between son and fiance. Mom said awful stuff to son. Son sent her proof and left. Son is done with all 3
Where is the link
@@dragonprincess8205 where is the link?
@trendingtiktokcompilation9392 dragonprincess is posting her exact comment on every posts on here. There isnt a link. She's being a troll
@@marcorotondi2564giver her a chance........ it's hard to see to type with her nose growing so much
Edit: Apologies for the long post but the story is true and ended up having a happy ending with a wonderful little surprise. 😉
Something similar happened to my Aunt in her mid 50’s, the mention of her age will come into play later. She too forgot some paperwork that she needed for work and decided to go home for lunch to retrieve it. She was met with her husband (my Uncle) screwing some gal on their couch! At first he looked at her in shock, surprised to see her standing there.. and then his attitude switched on a dime, he began acting like everything was normal and had the nerve to ask his wife to go into the kitchen and make him and his guest some lunch while she was fixing hers, can you imagine!! I felt so bad for my Aunt, she’s just the sweetest person.. but on the other hand I was secretly happy bc my Uncle never deserved her, he was always a cocky piece of crap! (My opinion) They adopted my cousin bc they couldn’t have children and he disrespectfully berated her for it whenever he got the chance. Even when they had the slightest argument which was usually brought on by him, he would choose the most painful/hateful things to say. His weapon of choice though was that she wasn’t even a real woman bc she couldn’t bare children for him.. etc. I stayed as far away from my Uncle as I possibly could bc he was too touchy/feely around me and I wasn’t going to allow it, the man was just a gross human being! So my Aunt left him, she didn’t care about the house or anything in it. She grabbed some of her personal belongings and just left. Eventually he begged her to return without so much as an apology, I mean how else was he going to have clean laundry and hot cooked meals if not for her?? She didn’t fall for his BS and filed for divorce. My cousin was 18 already and doing her own thing so the only time she spoke to her ex moving forward was concerning her.. only if she had to. The following year she met a man who was showing interest in her but she was leery about getting to know him bc of how hurt she felt over her ex’s treatment of her, she had time to reflect though and couldn’t believe even within her own thoughts as to why she stayed with him so long. She had married him at age 19 so she wasn’t even comfortable going on dates with the new guy, it was a huge emotional process for her to get through. In my opinion, she didn’t know what a real man looked like and she had to get used to the new guy actually treating her with respect, the concept was unfamiliar to her. So moving forward and this was the coolest thing ever, what she thought was a stomach bug/flu was actually morning sickness! My Aunt was pregnant at the age of 54.. and throughout the years she thought it was her fault that she and her ex couldn’t have a baby when in fact it was him all along! We helped to plan a small family wedding for her and I couldn’t help myself bc I can be petty sometimes too (LoL) I took out the biggest wedding announcement in our local newspaper, it couldn’t be missed and wow, her ex was pissed!🤭 He kept trying to make contact with her and he even tried convincing my cousin (their daughter) to not participate in the wedding which really opened her eyes as to how selfish her dad could be. The day before the wedding was naturally very busy with tying up all the loose ends and double checking on arrival times for things like music and catering.. etc. My Aunt mistakenly picked up our ringing house phone and guess who was on the other end? Her fool of an ex was trying to guilt trip her even at the last minute to come back to him and couldn’t believe how she could just throw away all the “loving” years they had together.. again, always her fault. I will never forget this moment… there were several family members seated at the kitchen table on pins and needles bc we knew who was on the other end of the phone. My Aunt remained silent and allowed her ex to speak for what seemed like forever when all of a sudden she burst into laughter over his “loving” comment and asked if that included the woman he was screwing on their couch!? She continued by saying that their life together was always one sided, always about him and she’d have to be crazy to return to a waste of a life where she wasn’t appreciated or even noticed most of the time. She then thanked him for being the A-hole that he was and wished that she had left him sooner bc he wasn’t enough of a man to give her a child and that she was happily 4 month pregnant with her “real” man. As you can imagine, we were sitting at the table just dying! LoL If I had to describe my Aunts personality, she’s like the character Georgette on the Mary Tyler Moore show.. very sweet, soft spoken and wouldn’t say an unkind word to anyone.. and often mistaken for a push over which I suppose she was in her first marriage but she came a long way, we were so proud of her for standing up to her ex and getting the last word, she never spoke to him again. The happy couple had a beautiful wedding and went on to have a gorgeous 9 Lb baby girl. My Aunt is in her 80’s now and in very good health, she says the second half of her life could not have been happier with a man who was the love of her life and treated her like a queen. ❤❤❤ Unfortunately he passed 2 years ago. 😢 🙏🏼
It would take writing another novel here to update on her ex throughout the years.. but here’s just a little tid-bit. He too remarried and stole his daughters trust fund for their honeymoon. He didn’t change much, it was always all about him. Enough said I guess, he’s no longer with us anyway.
Fantastic story with a beautiful happy ending. Your typing had me totally intrigued and I could picture it all as if I was watching a movie from the 50s or 60s (not sure why that era lol but that's what was playing in my head). I can tell your a very lovely person yourself and your love for your aunt is touching. So happy to hear she got her prince charming and her beautiful baby daughter and still is living her best life and healthy in her 80s ❤ also made me smirk that bum calling her desperately rite up to and in her wedding day like he had a chance and her getting to tell him he wasn't man enough to give her a baby just made my day 😊❤ Best wishes to you and your aunt and your cousins! Xo
Needed this one today, esp the words you said to some things. Appreciate you sm. Always distracting me from the crap in life and giving me a good laugh.
These videos have helped my mom and I so much. Both of our dogs passed away within around a month of eachother, and the smiles and gasps we've gotten from you and your commentary has really helped us through one of the hardest times.
I'm so sorry to hear that. I wish you both well. Take your time to grieve and remember fun and happy times.
I'm so sorry for your losses. ❤
Awww I’m sorry for your loss but glad you both got to smile!
I’m so sorry I really hope things get better! One of my cats passed and I had to surrender my other one bc if extremely expensive medical bills and I’ve been a wreck and Charlotte posting everyday really helps me start my day off with a laugh instead of a cry 🖤
Oof. I know this pain. **internet hugs!**
I’ve been cheated on sooooo much! I’ve definitely had to check some phones 👀
That being said…
I’ve been with my Husband now for over two years (just married last month) and we don’t even glance at each others screens when we are sitting right next to each other. I genuinely have to get his attention to show him something on my screen. It’s so NICE 😭❤️
The difference between these men is amazing. Like someone else said, it’s a vibe that you get and you then have to check the phone to confirm what you already knew. But HEALTHY relationships won’t need any of that bs.
If you’ve been cheated on, you know what to look out for already lol
Good luck out there everyone! Your person (that isn’t a POS) is out there waiting for you! ❤️
I work the graveyard shift and with that I often regret my life choices but everyday I look forward to watching new videos as a rewind from my stressful day/night. Thank you so much really, please keep making videos.
I just need you to know the "de-lu-lu" and " and ouch-ka-bibbles" have become part of my regular vernacular.
Love this for me!! Thanks Charlotte!!
Dang it! I need an update on the ‘ my father screwed my fiancé’ story! Because..... OH MY GOD! 😮😳
Yeah, I want to know what happened when he told his mom.
@carolfield2760 I know, right?!!!
I know OMG. Did he tell his mum or did the husband? Wonder what he told her family.
I gotta know. That poor mother and son
I posted link with update. Dad got to mom first and brought fiance and told her son hit him when he was breaking up fight between son and fiance. Mom said awful stuff to son. Son sent her proof and left. Son is done with all 3
I'm sorry but "I know whose boobs those are, ik who those boobs belong to." Ended me
Patricia be havin dem yabos out all the time, apparently. 🤣
I cannot conprehend how someone could do that to their own child! My heart goes out to that man and hope hes found a good therapist and new apartment.
A note to any bosses who run into this situation with an employee (the last one):
Immediately inspect the person for injuries / take them to medic unit. There is so much adrenaline pumping they will never feel it.
Get them a hotel room for 3 days and charge it to the company. Pay for their moving expenses. Help them make a list of all keys, passwords and access to accounts.
Done.
Sometimes it takes a hot minute for reality to set in once you find out you’ve been cheated on. I stayed for a month after I found out before reality smacked me in the face and I left
The only thing my OCD brain could focus on was how haphazardly that pink tissue paper was being folded. I think I missed a good story. ;)
Haha, same
Boyfriend cheated so she peed on his new coat - pretty much it
Or how she only needed one piece of tape for each side.
Okay, not just me *whew*
I have found my people 😂 That was aggravating! 😬
That first one made me so sad for her, i remember being that girl, such low confidence and sticking with a guy who treated me badly.
The pain and suffering that was caused to not just the son/ husband but the everyone part of both families…I can’t imagine.
😮 I was so invested in that last story💔.
Potato 🥔 QUEEN 👑, please do more of these long story cheaters. Please, please, pretty please, Please, PLEASE 🥺
Maybe I should share my cheater story?
That last story hit hard - I was getting all shaky reading/watching it!
I posted link with update. Dad got to mom first and brought fiance and told her son hit him when he was breaking up fight between son and fiance. Mom said awful stuff to son. Son sent her proof and left. Son is done with all 3
“Weeee on his coat ladies” 😂🤦🏼♀️💀
My paternal Grandad was cheated on by his first wife, caught them in the act, and quietly climbed out the bathroom window so as not to alert them. He went so far as to let her divorce him, it was the early 1900s. I always look back on that story and judge real men by that standard.
It would be nice to hear an update from the poor guy whose father cheated with his fiancé.... How he's doing now, how his mom took the news, and any other relevant.
I'm not really the nosy sort, but it would be nice to hear a positive after-report for this sad story.
You *made* me invested Charlotte!
I posted link with update. Dad got to mom first and brought fiance and told her son hit him when he was breaking up fight between son and fiance. Mom said awful stuff to son. Son sent her proof and left. Son is done with all 3
@@dragonprincess8205Where did you post the link?
@@dragonprincess8205where is link???? Where????
@@SourPickles8 dragonprincess is going around saying the same comment over and over again. They did this on my post. I see a troll 🧌 in here
I've tried to post it, but it keeps being removed.
"Cheater... meet Hell!
You have plenty of time to get acquainted!"
Love this! So good! 😄
I was with this guy who moved in with me and my kids. He stole from his work so lost his job and I was working 4 jobs
He left his phone in the car one day and I went out in the morning and found his phone. Never had I looked through it in the 2 years we were together but I thought "let's see what he's doing while I'm at work all day and night." Lo and behold he was cheating on me with 4 girls! I kicked him out.
Years later, he still hits up my phone on occasion, reminiscing about our lives together. Ugh.
I feel so badly for that man. He’s a great guy. Hopefully there is a good woman in his future. When he moves to a new place, new bed, he needs a dog. Dogs heal wounds especially of the heart so well.
1 if you have to follow your “parter” around 24/7 or they will have sex with someone else, they aren’t your partner, just someone who is with you for convenience. 2 if you have to go through your partners phone, you don’t have a real relationship. Let’s all step it up people.
i 100000% agree.
my husband and I have always been I have nothing to hide from each other we have respect for each other he is welcome to go through my phone whenever he would like and I the same for him I think the only time I went through his phone was looking for a picture of our kids to put in the video frame on our wall when we were first dating I was seeing others as I had just met him and from the start I told him I was still seeing other people and he made a argument for me to let me know he would not be as he has found the only person he would want to be with he then started showing up raking the leaves in my yard doing little things to make my life easier and it was easy to chose him over the stupid men I was seeing I wasn't sleeping around just going out on dates having fun I've only been with 3 men my first husband which I left within a year of marry the guy in between(3yr dating/engaged he got arrested and that was the end of it for me I didn't know what I thought I knew) and my current husband. I wish I could go back so the entire time was him save me so much grief I would be better off and not lost so much 💔.
If you have to hide access to your phone from your spouse you don't need to be married.
@@aleathacoleman6413 it’s not about hiding. My wife can go through my phone any time she wants. I regularly leave my phone with her unlocked with full access. I have my wife’s phone constantly and could go through it any time I want. I don’t, and she doesn’t. We have a beautiful relationship built on trust, respect and love. Just because you can do something, doesn’t mean you should.
For the last four days, I have been down in the dumps, and your videos, Charlotte, have helped me get out of my funk and lifted my spirits. Thank You! ❤❤❤
Charlotte everytime i see these vids i feel so blessed for the man im with now ❤ no more cheaters for this gal, i found a real one 🙌
Ughhh…this video hit home. My first marriage ended because my husband started dating my best friend/neighbor. I’m still in therapy but I’m now happily married to an amazing human. 😊
That last story is so upsetting. I hope that guy can just take some time off from work gather his finances and just go for a trip somewhere. Alone.
So disgusting, I can't even imagine destroying someone's life like that. Why? This isn't even uncommon, so just ick. My heart really goes out to OP, hope he can get through this.
I posted link with update. Dad got to mom first and brought fiance and told her son hit him when he was breaking up fight between son and fiance. Mom said awful stuff to son. Son sent her proof and left. Son is done with all 3
I was in a relationship with someone for 3 years and we lived together. We had a shared ipad, and he went away for a work trip and left the ipad behind.
While he was gone, he had taken a photo from a mother's day trip, cut me out of it and used it as his dating profile photo. I was constantly able to see the messages he was sending to and from random women trying to set up hook ups while he was out of town.
I didn't even have to do a deep technology dive, it was all right there.
This reminds me of having regular conversations at the Beauty store I work at 😊 the shot we talk about
Happy 1.5 MILLION!!💗💗💗 You deserve all of the happiness that you receive💗
Ladies, get yourself an independent career
Without that you'll always be dependent
I know plenty of girls with a good career that are still too dependent on a man. It’s more of an issue with codependency than anything
@@disneygirl8694Yes, but at least you can afford to leave once you finally wake up. And pay for good legal representation.
@@kathydurow6814 And pay for therapy. Magnificent thing, therapy, but it's so fucking expensive.
When I watch your videos I say the introduction with you and yell “subscribe” at the end! 💚💚it’s my favorite
That last one! WOW!! I don’t know how you get over that. And then he has to tell him mom. Poor guy!
my first fiancee and my best friend . she had come to stay with me for the weekend , i had just moved in with my boyfriend , i was excited to have my bestie come over and help me decorate and whatnot . FIRST night she was there , they screwed , on the sofa , while i was in the bedroom .......... i found them cuddled together the next morning . i didnt wake them , instead i grabbed the phone ( before cell phones) went into the bedroom , closed the door , and just started dialing numbers , leaving it off the hook for very long times , hoping to run up his phone bill to a stupid high amount . international calls were VERY expensive . long story short i left him that day as soon as they woke up , i grabbed all my stuff and walked out the door . i did have a paiger at the time and he was blowing it up , i threw it away . a few years later i found out the "bestie" and my ex got married .......... i never spoke to either of them again . well not entirely , ten years passed , she found me , we talked , she came to stay with me again for a weekend but this time she passed away , she had probelms with her health and i felt sorry for her so i allowed her back in my life . i guess it was some closure or i am just THAT forgiving . i have never had another friend since her , not that i have allowed myself to get close to
The boyfriend who cheats has 7 roommates, not the girl but she was at his house
And...?
@@theoriginalbridgetconnors Charlotte mixed it up ;)
Thank you very much for your videos. While watching you, I feel very relaxed. I suffer from depression and anxiety, and you are savior. Thanks you so much.
There's 2 updates on the last cheating story. If that guy ever comes across your channel I really hope he's able to build himself up again. So effing tragic and I'd go NC with everyone as well.
The first story has a couple of issues for me.
1. Like you said, friends should not stick together when one of their friends is a cheater. Your friend is doing something objectively wrong and possibly traumatizing to their significant other. No friendship should be stronger than your sense of morality.
2. I really don't think you should just go through your SO's phone. If you have reasonable suspicion MAYBE, but just going through it out of nowhere? No. Your devices are yours. Not wanting people to go through it isn't a sign of guilt. It's just you wanting to maintain some privacy.
Yeah I agree no way I'm looking through anybody's phone for no reason its the abortion part that made me gasp out loud😮 he is just irresponsible and careless.
Personally, I couldn’t care less if my husband goes through my phone, and he wouldn’t care if I went through his, I don’t because I don’t have a reason too and I really don’t wanna be traumatised by the shit on his dude group chat 😂 but if he suddenly got all possessive over his phone I’d likely wonder why there was a big attitude change and make me suspicious. I’m too lazy to hide anything though, it’s too much like hard work. I can’t even hide when I buy someone a present, it’s too hard
I definitely agree. I'm not in a relationship now or have anything on my phone people can't see but I still wouldn't want someone to go through it. That's mine. You have have yours. What if someone sees all the weird things I've googled. I'd rather keep my ADHD tangent searches to myself.
Yep i agree. I believe in a healthy relationship there's nothing to show and nothing to hide; i don't think you have to scroll to their conversations but also it doesn't have to be a secret phone.
Last time i regret watching my boyfriends phone was when it was buzzing and he asked for me to check it (he was driving); it was the group friend talking about my birthday present.
@@thatgirl_tab Right! I google lots of weird stuff! My son laughed at me when he caught a glimpse of the last thing I googled. It was, "Do whales fart?" I google the same kind of stuff as an eight year old boy.
Whales do indeed fart, BTW. Great big fart bubbles that could enclose a horse. When I read that, I had to google if methane could kill a horse... just don't let your horse go swimming in the ocean, not even with a snorkel!