Pamela Des Barres | How Gram Parsons Changed My Cosmic American Life

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  • čas přidán 10. 07. 2024
  • In this episode of P.D.B. TV, Miss Pamela details life-changing experiences with Gram Parsons and The Flying Burrito Brothers, and showcases iconic Parsons-related memorabilia.
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  • @yalandareeves3159
    @yalandareeves3159 Před měsícem

    Never get enough of Gram Parsons love❤ him

  • @GloriaGloom
    @GloriaGloom Před 2 lety +15

    One thing Miss Pamela does so expertly and effortlessly is allowing others to vicariously experience the yearning love she felt for those she admired and adored. There's a purity to the way she idolized(es) these people that feels sacred but doesn't prevent you from seeing them as human.

  • @teresanowotny681
    @teresanowotny681 Před 2 lety +21

    Thank you for sharing. We need a documentary on your life. ❤️

  • @WildflowerNJ1
    @WildflowerNJ1 Před 2 lety +5

    Miss Pamela, I love listening to you. Gram was a beautiful soul.

  • @Eve_Y
    @Eve_Y Před 6 měsíci +2

    Your "Johnny Was" tunic is adorable. It's just so sad to think about how many talented musicians and singers from the 60s/70s we lost to drugs and alcohol. It's really unfortunate that they weren't able to continue sharing their stories and experiences with us.

  • @johnblood3731
    @johnblood3731 Před 8 měsíci +2

    Gram probably listened to country music with his father. My father was a country music guy but in the 60'S rock was on all the tv shows. One night we had gone frog hunting and on our way home at 5 am we got caught by a train. Dad turned the truck off and put the radio back on. Summertime blues was rocking at that moment. A memory I will never forget. Gram sure must have missed his mom and dad. . Gram just came up on my utube feed on his death anniversary. Been listening to him ever since. So many great songs. Gone far to soon.

  • @american_cosmic
    @american_cosmic Před rokem +2

    I wasn't yet born when Gram was around, but I'm a HUGE GP fan... thank you so much for sharing your memories of him and of that time!

  • @thamilton007
    @thamilton007 Před měsícem

    Thank you, Pamela, so good to see you on CZcams🌻

  • @christineholter2195
    @christineholter2195 Před 2 lety +3

    My favorite Gram Parsons song is "She"...💚

  • @BeliaLastes
    @BeliaLastes Před rokem +2

    Good morning Miss Pamela 😊, I remember when I read your book I'm with the band, there was this part you wrote about Gram that when he would listen to George Jones he would get emotional and cry. Not only was he a good musician, but he was a caring, loving man as well despite his addition to drugs and you're so lucky to have known him and have him as a good friend. Love your videos Miss Pamela 😊❤

  • @donnicholas7552
    @donnicholas7552 Před 2 lety +8

    Miss Pamela. I loved hearing your stories about Gram. I love his music! 👍

  • @deborahdeborah8724
    @deborahdeborah8724 Před 9 měsíci +1

    Thank you for this. I have just become enamored of Gram Parsons in the last few months since I retired and have time for myself. Your recollections are amazing. Love to hear your stories! What an exciting life you have had!

  • @tenbroeck1958
    @tenbroeck1958 Před 2 lety +8

    Thank you for posting about Gram. He's really a musical hero of mine. The 1970s would have been less without Gram. The Burrito's bassist Christ Etheridge went onto play with Willie Nelson for a long time. The Burrito Bros had a huge influence on Willie and Waylon before Christ joined. The "Cosmic Country" or "Country Rock" (Apparently Gram hated that term) was the catalyst for "Outlaw Country" really, as well as the more subtle movement of great artists like CSNY, Linda Ronstadt, etc. all adopting the pedal steel guitar sounds to their folk music, with greatly informed the Singer Songwriter genre of the 70s. I was born in the 70s, and grew my hair long in the 80s, and became a "freaker". Most of my friends were getting more into Heavy Metal, but my older sisters were always playing the Beatles, Doors, Who, Stones, Eagles, New Riders of the Purple Sage, Gram, etc., so I was Later-Dat Beatnik who kept the group grounded in Ginsberg, the Dead and Peace, whilst their natural inclination was macho and violent. Gram has always been the Soundtrack of my life. I played in rock bands and dropped out of school. But I always added in trippy country music aspects, and even bought a pedal steel guitar. My band opened for local Metal bands and we were playing Mama Tried, Only Daddy that'll Walk the Line, along with Zeppelin. People looked at us like we flew in from Mars, and we were so high on weed, coke and heroin, I guess we did "fly in". I turned a lot of people onto the Byrds, Flying Burritos, Gram & Emmylou Harris, NRPS, Etc. I earned an MBA and went in the Army to grow up and raise my family, but I always dabbed in hard drugs because I'm really a Bohemian at my core and corporate America makes me depressed, but I'm not really addicted any more. One day when my wife and I come to California, I would pay anything to meet you Miss Pamela. My wife thinks my crush on you is cute, but I love listening to your recollections of all my favorite musicians, and love the hell out of your books, etc. Peace, and sorry for the long post

  • @groovywitch1955
    @groovywitch1955 Před 2 lety +9

    Thank you Miss P for always tellling lovely stories!MUch much love xxx

  • @kathistoops1012
    @kathistoops1012 Před rokem +3

    I was just 12 or so when Gram passed so I learned about him later in my teens but really became obsessed when I heard the solo piano version of Thousand Dollar Wedding on CZcams. I just listened with tears rolling down my cheeks, the emotion in his voice, his phrasing, I was officially obsessed. I love his music so much, with the Burrito Brothers and Emmylou too. I have read several books and stayed in his room #8 at the Joshua Tree Inn. He did for me exactly what he did for you, he expanded my musical heart and my emotional heart as well. He was also hot as hell! 🔥I adore him. Thank you for sharing your experiences with him with us. 🌹🌹

  • @maryhoward9343
    @maryhoward9343 Před 7 měsíci

    Thank you Miss Pamela, I have loved you ever since I read your book. Im with the band....

  • @lisamarie7851
    @lisamarie7851 Před 2 lety +12

    Miss Pamela, every opinion you give or story you tell is like a gold nugget ✨ please keep them coming! Much love!

  • @avlisk
    @avlisk Před 2 lety +3

    I was always impressed at how Gram influenced such established song writers, Jagger/Richards, on Sticky Fingers.

  • @gabyh.6850
    @gabyh.6850 Před 2 lety +6

    I love Gram Parsons and his wonderful music so much❤. Thank you for sharing and telling us all this lovely stories. You are great Miss Pamela 🥰❣

  • @christinamartin8131
    @christinamartin8131 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you, Miss Pamela! Music can change your life!

  • @InMmryofDimeBagD
    @InMmryofDimeBagD Před 2 lety +6

    I love your memories and how you wistfully tell them. Thank you for sharing. Gram was a special, one of a kind, gem of a human.

  • @L0r3n2
    @L0r3n2 Před 2 lety +3

    The Burrito's were before my time but Gilded Palace is one of my favourite albums to play LOUD

  • @MistressGlowWorm
    @MistressGlowWorm Před rokem +4

    You are an amazing storyteller and really brought that to life ❤❤❤
    My last name has Hillman in it (Americanized from its original form).

  • @richardcrowson9265
    @richardcrowson9265 Před 2 lety +7

    I love your exuberance. Thanks for the positivity, especially in these times. Gram changed my life as well. As a closet country fan in the late 60s, the Burritos (in my mind) gave me permission to openly dig country. I was and still am nuts about them. And, of course, Hillman and Parsons. Look forward to enjoying more of your stories.

  • @christellebilodeau
    @christellebilodeau Před 2 lety +8

    You're such a good storyteller. Keep 'em coming !!

  • @mrspanchavilla
    @mrspanchavilla Před 2 lety +6

    Thank you, Miss Pamela! I remember hearing the Flying Burritos Bros when I was a little girl and I was immediately hooked and I've been hooked ever since. I have not listened to Gram's solo records. So, I'm definitely going to do that.

  • @plannerfunandinspirationwithme

    Gram was just pure magic.

  • @ree3.
    @ree3. Před 2 lety +6

    Thanks Miss Pamela for sharing this story…I was just a kid listening to radio and remember hearing of his passing.

  • @BrendaChristensen
    @BrendaChristensen Před rokem +1

    Love Gram. Thank you for sharing your special moments with him, with us.

  • @shannondawn44
    @shannondawn44 Před rokem +1

    My favourite story that you tell , of all your amazing stories , is the one about Gram singing She Once Lived Here when he starts crying and it being your peak rock and roll moment . Gives me chills every time you tell it . Beautiful . Thanks Miss Pamela

  • @shannaprissyleamon1311
    @shannaprissyleamon1311 Před rokem +1

    He was such a gorgeous man 😍. I'm so glad you've made a YT channel! 💜💜

  • @no59do56
    @no59do56 Před 2 lety +1

    Waycross Georgia holds a Gram Parsons day festival each year..

  • @lastnamefirst4035
    @lastnamefirst4035 Před rokem +1

    I spent a few days w Gram when I was 18. He was really nice, funny. I didn't come away ftom it w a great need to tell everybody about it. It wasn't a groupie encounter tho it was intimate. Im 69 now. Who would think to look back now

  • @reubensane5539
    @reubensane5539 Před rokem

    You are a serious beloved national treasure ❤️❤️

  • @user-lu9hq6jv4v
    @user-lu9hq6jv4v Před rokem +2

    Beautiful shirt you made!

  • @purplereigninblood
    @purplereigninblood Před rokem

    Wow, I can't believe this is here. Thank you . Hickory Wind live makes me weep.

  • @missmisunderstood8531
    @missmisunderstood8531 Před 2 lety +2

    Pamela, you're just a doll!! I love all your stories.

  • @susanlongb4
    @susanlongb4 Před rokem +1

    Love, love, love this! Pamela, you changed my life with your book "I'm With the Band". And I certainly feel I was changed by my stay in room 8 and visit to Cap Rock about 5 years ago. Thank you so much!✌️🎶😊🌵

  • @VioletSparkesDesigns
    @VioletSparkesDesigns Před rokem +1

    This is so interesting for hear the lives of someone who was there at the time in the '70's with the stories I would not have known from someone else but you Pamela. You are truly special and I will add I love the Purple shirt you made for Gram it is gorgeous.

  • @beeztrapp1612
    @beeztrapp1612 Před 2 lety +1

    There's nothing like those Burrito records.

  • @donnareiche3268
    @donnareiche3268 Před rokem

    I just finished your first book. It was such an engaging read. I think you should get back to creating fashionable clothing. How fun to have truly vintage-inspired clothing to wear. The coats and dresses of the 60s-70s were insane. Your creativity is inspiring

  • @brentleebowman3594
    @brentleebowman3594 Před 2 lety +2

    Thank you for taking the time to create this video and share these stories!😎

  • @octobermoonboutique
    @octobermoonboutique Před 2 lety +1

    That shirt is so special, glad you have it in your collection. Phil Kaufman is a friend of mine, love you told the Mangler story!

  • @johnloftus6043
    @johnloftus6043 Před 10 měsíci

    I saw Chris Hillman and the desert Rose Band years ago.
    They sang “The One that got Away” right before John Jorgenson’s solo, Chris shouted out “Oh Pamela”.
    I knew that he was thinking of you snd wanted to share this.

  • @duchessnla
    @duchessnla Před rokem

    You have had, and continue to have, the best life, the best stories. I hope i get to go on one of your tours this year

  • @lynnrinaldo6795
    @lynnrinaldo6795 Před rokem

    LOVE MUCH MISS PAMELA!🤗

  • @TTM9691
    @TTM9691 Před rokem +1

    What an absolute beautiful video. That shirt.....so much love in it, I teared up. Thank you for always keeping Gram's name alive. I learned about Gram....from YOU. Years before I ever heard him sing, I had read all about him in "I'm With The Band". Then, years later, I heard the original Gram vocals on "One Hundred Years From Now" and "The Christian Life" and "Hickory Wind" when the Byrds box set came out. Immediately flashed back to everything I had read about him in your book, immediately got the Burritos albums. Now it's years later, and I have every bootleg, every outtake, everything I can find. And it all started with "I'm With The Band". NO ONE was talking about Gram Parsons when you wrote "I'm With The Band". I doubt those records were even in print! And yet you devoted a lot of the book to him. Thanks, Miss Pamela. For EVERYTHING, not just that. You are the patron saint of all real rock & roll fans. What could I do for Gram? Nothing. Other than buy his product and clap my hands at a concert. You made that beautiful shirt, that he cherished. I love that it found it's way back to you, I love that his wife held on to it for so long. And now you share it with all of us, his fans. And YOUR fans. Love and gratitude FOREVER.

    • @margaretross9150
      @margaretross9150 Před 2 měsíci

      Emmylou Harris has also done a tremendous job keeping Gram's name and music in the foreground. Even in the period after his death when she couldn't bear to publicly talk about him she sang his songs and the songs she wrote about him. She said his voice created a special feeling in her, and she wanted everyone to have that experience. He was a very special musician and person.

  • @lmz7720
    @lmz7720 Před 2 lety +1

    I didn't know who the Flying Burrito Brothers were until I read your first book years ago. Thanks for educating me! I do remember your love for Hillman, too.

  • @daleschimpf
    @daleschimpf Před rokem

    I’m almost done reading “Twenty Thousand Roads”. You are, of course, in the book and it has been a wonderful read. Hope to go on one of your rock tours one day when I finally make it back to LA!

  • @kristinemorgan1245
    @kristinemorgan1245 Před 2 lety +1

    You are so fun! The purple shirt you made Gram is beautiful.

  • @taylorjae71
    @taylorjae71 Před 2 lety +1

    And the shirt you made for him- it’s stunning! You’re so talented

  • @taylorjae71
    @taylorjae71 Před 2 lety

    His suit!!! It’s perfection.

  • @cookingartguy2170
    @cookingartguy2170 Před 2 lety +1

    This is pure gold.

  • @Linda-pw8gx
    @Linda-pw8gx Před rokem +1

    Hi Pamela! Just found your channel, I’ve seen some videos before, you have led quite a life! If you have any Manson family encounters that would be great to hear❤

  • @kimba8387
    @kimba8387 Před 2 lety +2

    Hi Miss P! I just got my copy of Groupies by Baron Wolman with your beautiful face on the cover!! Yay!! ❤️💄💋
    Please keep sharing your stories with us! You’re a gem and a treasure!

  • @diannebenefield691
    @diannebenefield691 Před rokem

    I, along with 2fellow Dolls, are immersing ourselves in all That Gram Is. Thank you Miss P. You are 🪄 NOLA LOVE ⚜️🌼

  • @nicw5574
    @nicw5574 Před 2 lety +2

    I really enjoy your videos and could listen to your stories for hours, thank you. I started listening to Frank Zappa after reading I'm With The Band, which I loved reading. I'm going to have to start listening to The Flying Burrito Brothers.

  • @annajemjemian9690
    @annajemjemian9690 Před 2 lety +1

    What a beautiful sharing. Thank you Ms. P.

  • @rimjobledouche5201
    @rimjobledouche5201 Před 2 měsíci

    You look radiant, Mama des Barres.

  • @corinapalezza1
    @corinapalezza1 Před 2 lety

    Much love miss Pamela !hello dolls ! You're my good teacher and you have a beautiful woman with a big soul!

  • @jacquesmesrine1258
    @jacquesmesrine1258 Před 2 lety +1

    Pls more of those 🙏

  • @crtele
    @crtele Před 2 lety +2

    Awesome Pamela!Thanks for sharing-more Gram stories please:)

  • @margaretross9150
    @margaretross9150 Před rokem +1

    Pamela's right; Gram really is that good. As for the drugs, his addiction was a tragedy but better understood when you read about his scarred childhood. Too much death and stress. 🤠💔

  • @margowsky
    @margowsky Před 2 lety

    Fantastic! So wonderful to hear you talk about Gram and great to see the infamous shirt.

  • @channelmixer
    @channelmixer Před 2 lety +1

    Thanks Pamela! I love Gram and he should be admitted into the RRHF but I doubt that will ever happen. Anyway, I love hearing your stories and I didn't know you were connected to Gram. Amazing!

  • @markhudson373
    @markhudson373 Před 2 lety +2

    Delivered with obvious feeling and sincerity, it’s a real pleasure. Taking an opportunity to suggest a topic(!) Your channel and book “I'm with the band” cover the “Gentlemen of the Canyon” but can you address what the book only hints at: the “Ladies of the Canyon”. Experiences, feelings, impressions would be welcome.

  • @user-lu9hq6jv4v
    @user-lu9hq6jv4v Před rokem +1

    You are everything you look for; ❤️!

  • @red66charger
    @red66charger Před 2 lety +1

    This is awesome, Pamela. Thanks for sharing. 💙

  • @Just.G
    @Just.G Před 2 lety

    Very interesting! Thank you for sharing.

  • @viioletmoons
    @viioletmoons Před 2 lety

    love these videos so much, especially this one. !

  • @missmisunderstood8531
    @missmisunderstood8531 Před rokem +1

    I hope it isn't rude, but may I ask you a question about Gram? I'm such a big fan, and if you replied I'd just die, but I would love to know, was Gram and Chris' relationship turbulent? Me and a friend have talked a lot about the both of them and she feels that Chris never really liked Gram and only kept him around for his talents. Anyway, I'm so sorry this is such a bloated question, thank you, Miss Pamela!

  • @chrisbacos
    @chrisbacos Před 2 lety +1

    Very interesting and fun video. I read two different stories about Gram in 1968 the Byrds were booked to tour South Africa but he refused to go due to his opposition to apartheid and he was fired from the band. Do you know about this?

  • @maryhoward9343
    @maryhoward9343 Před 7 měsíci

    💙💙💙💙💙