Tara Brach on the RAIN of Self-Compassion

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  • The RAIN of Self-Compassion - Tara Brach (12/16/2015)
    This talk explores three key features of the trance of unworthiness and introduces a guided meditation based on a new version of the acronym RAIN that awakens self-compassion and de-conditions the suffering of being at war with ourselves.
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Komentáře • 83

  • @ThestarryeyedHermit
    @ThestarryeyedHermit Před 3 lety +63

    I don’t know if this will help anyone else but I think for myself whenever I notice myself crying (or just feeling some hard feelings) I’m gonna use those tears as a notification almost that I need rain. I thought this may be helpful because when you’re caught up in those feelings it can be hard to remember the tools you have within you. 🌧💗☺️

  • @sandramedina9482
    @sandramedina9482 Před 3 lety +30

    “Don’t change.... I love you just as you are”. Transforming and healing.

  • @barbaraconnett5057
    @barbaraconnett5057 Před 2 lety +3

    I am at 85-year-old widow, I have been watching Tara branch and enjoying her very much, I have lot of pain du to surgery on my neck I had in 84, my feet are messed up duty surgery’s,on them, I had a wonderful woman living with me and helping me, my kids want me to move out there way and got rid of BOBBY my dog, I want to stay in my home, and keep my dog,

  • @taramaree6738
    @taramaree6738 Před 6 lety +10

    You are heaven sent Tara. I keep sending endless love out to the world and keep forgetting to do the same for myself. Thank you for being my wiser voice at times that I can not hear it.
    Namaste.

  • @barbarastone7546
    @barbarastone7546 Před 6 lety +5

    Love your message you are a loving compassionate teacher. Woman. I am thankful for our crossing paths Barbara

  • @amarcadiacastillo
    @amarcadiacastillo Před 7 lety +10

    Thank you Tara, you are helping me to understand my insecurities and fears. Thank you for teach us self compassion in a very simple and special way.

  • @sophismpress
    @sophismpress Před 8 lety +20

    Just what I needed today...thank you Tara.

  • @samallen6322
    @samallen6322 Před 7 lety +12

    Thanks for helping us to try and open our hearts to ourselves again. What transformation this can bring about!

  • @heatherwiner2883
    @heatherwiner2883 Před 8 lety +16

    Thank you! I sobbed. I never realized the extent of how bad and unworthy I thought of myself.

    • @jonashjerpe7421
      @jonashjerpe7421 Před 5 lety

      @Heather Winer May I ask how you feel about yourself now? Blessings

  • @allanreyes6873
    @allanreyes6873 Před 3 měsíci

    Wow, that poem about breathing into the goodness that you are !!!
    So powerful and much appreciated
    Thank you so much

  • @lindamilne3166
    @lindamilne3166 Před 2 lety

    Tara, I Love Your “Loving, Living, Compassion and Humor! “
    You are Teaching me Humor & Poetry & Laughter!! 🙏Thank You!!

  • @elizabelleg3270
    @elizabelleg3270 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you Tara for your compassion and teachings. Your talks and meditations are helping me begin to heal.

  • @marnazsad
    @marnazsad Před 8 lety +8

    Hello Tara Brach. Thank you very much for sharing your teachings; I am grateful for having your sessions made available, where I can watch and listen numerous times, when I feel I need to go back again and again on a point that makes more sense at this time. Thank you for teachings on compassion and self-actualisation with much humanity, explaining the knowledge of psychology in the everyday situations we come across in one way or another, and making them more simple to grasp for those like me who need modified versions...... :) :) :)

    • @emberbender6973
      @emberbender6973 Před 7 lety

      Thank you Tara really great to listen to you> have to have more self compassion to get me through troubled times. I need to serender and take control of my monkey mind and take control of my life

  • @levjanashvili752
    @levjanashvili752 Před 8 lety +16

    Very impressed with Tara Brach. Deeply healing insights and a wonderful manner as a speaker.

  • @kimberlyrose144
    @kimberlyrose144 Před 8 lety +13

    Thank you, Tara! Your talk was exactly what I needed to listen to at the end of my day. (Your way of speaking and your topics are calming, interesting, make me smile and think. I woke up thinking about your words this morning. Self-compassion sets my day's intentions beautifully.

  • @lindamilne3166
    @lindamilne3166 Před 2 lety

    ❤️💟LOVE YOUR HUMOR!
    Tara, You are Teaching me
    “Love, Laughter & Humor!!”

  • @paulam5864
    @paulam5864 Před 8 lety +4

    Exquiisite love- thank you Tara, you are such a gift to my soul🙏🏻❤️

  • @susansacco7583
    @susansacco7583 Před 5 měsíci

    Thank you so much. Namaste 🙏

  • @joannesmith4102
    @joannesmith4102 Před 5 lety +3

    Powerful, wonderful, thanks so much for posting 💗💟💖

  • @WilliamJCroft
    @WilliamJCroft Před 7 lety +3

    Profound insights and practice. Will be returning to this recording many times. Thank you.

  • @Fonixsed
    @Fonixsed Před 6 lety +2

    big one for me tara im learning so much i glad i have this possibility thanks god for this gift

  • @robertkraljii5048
    @robertkraljii5048 Před 8 lety +5

    Lovely meditation.

  • @olias6162
    @olias6162 Před rokem

    Absolutely wonderful! Most healing ❤️‍🩹 thank you 🙏

  • @fullofbl1ss
    @fullofbl1ss Před 2 lety +1

    This was so much needed this morning. Thank you 🙏🏼

  • @surandika2094
    @surandika2094 Před 3 lety

    This is my first experience of a guided meditation program. Really impressed and enjoyed. Thanks Tara.

  • @chilloften
    @chilloften Před 8 lety +8

    I cried.

    • @Dee33300
      @Dee33300 Před 3 lety

      chilloften it just explains how it feels perfectly. you know someone else REALLY gets it and can meet us where we are at.

    • @chilloften
      @chilloften Před 3 lety +1

      @@Dee33300 I’m glad you commented and drew me back to this beauty. Glad to know it was 4 yrs ago I took in this wisdom. Yet, I listen again today and cry so hard. Everything will be ok.

    • @Dee33300
      @Dee33300 Před 3 lety

      chilloften everything will be okay ❤️
      and if it makes you feel any better, my therapist will tell me the same thing that she’s describing here (so i’ve already heard it before) but even so, this definitely brought me to tears.

  • @smalefamily9806
    @smalefamily9806 Před 5 lety +3

    Wonderful thank you for sharing with us

  • @travingos
    @travingos Před 8 lety +7

    Thanks. This was most helpful.

  • @aliwa6891
    @aliwa6891 Před 8 lety +4

    Thank you, such an inspiration

  • @lizxxx5543
    @lizxxx5543 Před 8 lety +2

    I dont think im unworthy yet i feel depressed & anxious... Selected few of us need this & not the whole world as they seem like they know how to live already.

  • @Ahoneywell
    @Ahoneywell Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for your work XX

  • @normbabbitt4325
    @normbabbitt4325 Před 7 lety +3

    So beautiful!

  • @seranine3000
    @seranine3000 Před 8 lety +4

    This helps me so much. Thank you.

  • @laurenceerrington4139
    @laurenceerrington4139 Před 4 lety +13

    I love this (and all of Tara's talks). They make so much sense when listening. But I find RAIN hard to do in practice. I am a reasonably intelligent person, but when it comes to dealing with my mind and body (along with the traumas I've experienced, I find it hard to do for various reasons. Right from the beginning - R - it's hard to even stop and remember to practice RAIN. If I do recall the RAIN, then it's difficult to recognise what is going on. A for Allow is OK, but Investigate is tough too. Nurture is reasonably OK, but After The Rain is tough too. Does this ring bells with anyone or any tips?

  • @ThestarryeyedHermit
    @ThestarryeyedHermit Před 3 lety +2

    26:22 for rain 🌧

  • @ethicalphytophage
    @ethicalphytophage Před 8 lety +3

    Thank you Tara! You are amazing! :):)

  • @momcatwoo
    @momcatwoo Před 4 lety +1

    Still some great dharma talks.

  • @compassionatedesign
    @compassionatedesign Před 4 měsíci

    Love this.

  • @fingerprint5511
    @fingerprint5511 Před 2 lety +1

    This ... 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @jeffsommers7788
    @jeffsommers7788 Před 4 lety

    Thanks this helps with what I going through with my sister. I know now its not my problem that my sister put on me its her's. Thanks.

  • @Bokescreek
    @Bokescreek Před 3 lety +2

    The practice begins at 45:00

  • @JenX1
    @JenX1 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Tara

  • @adrianacampos6567
    @adrianacampos6567 Před 8 lety +3

    GREAT

  • @heatherbrown1880
    @heatherbrown1880 Před 7 lety +2

    a Shining Star.

  • @cathyrosa79
    @cathyrosa79 Před 8 lety +2

    wonderful. thank you.

  • @christiehelley7573
    @christiehelley7573 Před 3 lety +4

    I love Tara but wish she could do something about dry mouth as it is distracting.

  • @AayeCreates
    @AayeCreates Před rokem +1

    𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒏𝒌 𝒀𝒐𝒖 ❣︎

  • @cofoothills
    @cofoothills Před 3 lety +2

    RAIN: recognize, allow, investigate, nurture

  • @mellowEsko
    @mellowEsko Před 3 lety

    Who disliked this video...? I will pray for you to be less hateful and judgemental. Namaste. Compassion friends.

  • @laurenceerrington4139
    @laurenceerrington4139 Před 4 lety +11

    I've bought the book (Radical Compassion) which I'm appreciating - wish it had an index tho. It seems daft that I need to ask (I'm a man!), but when practising RAIN (with `uprooting painful/negative beliefs' in her book ) I find myself crying so often at the R (recognise) stage with my particular beliefs . Is this others' experiences?

  • @angiebagley
    @angiebagley Před 10 měsíci

    The Guided meditation starts around 45:30.

  • @sureshbajaj6031
    @sureshbajaj6031 Před 3 lety +1

    🌹🌹🌹🌷🌷

  • @ts3858
    @ts3858 Před 2 lety +1

    I don't have a safe place to go to...😓

    • @lindamilne3166
      @lindamilne3166 Před 2 lety +1

      T S. Know You are Love!

    • @lindamilne3166
      @lindamilne3166 Před 2 lety +1

      Send You Love!
      Sending You Safe Places, ALWAYS!

    • @ts3858
      @ts3858 Před 2 lety

      @@lindamilne3166 Thank you for your kind words...You too..🙏💗💗

  • @stevenkok1926
    @stevenkok1926 Před 4 lety +1

    Rapturing in the rain.

  • @Heimal
    @Heimal Před 2 lety +1

    Did she say the dominant religion was muslim?!

  • @swamibubba
    @swamibubba Před 8 lety +4

    so what is the rain acronym?

    • @christinelaferriere9412
      @christinelaferriere9412 Před 8 lety +1

      +Rich Allen right??

    • @carlosesq43
      @carlosesq43 Před 8 lety +15

      +Rich Allen - (R)ecognise - (A)llow - (I)nvestigate with kindness - (N)ourish with compassion. - Recognise what you are feeling. Allow life and what is here to be just so. Investigate what is here with loving-kindness. Nourish what is here with compassion.

    • @swamibubba
      @swamibubba Před 8 lety +2

      +Carlos Esq thanks

  • @christinelaferriere9412
    @christinelaferriere9412 Před 8 lety +1

    Jewish mom