How To Manipulate Emotions | Timon Krause | TEDxFryslân

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  • čas přidán 15. 10. 2017
  • "Born in Germany, trained in New Zealand and now based in Amsterdam, Timon Krause has aleady traveled every continent with his show. He studied at the Paul van Vliet Academy for performing arts and cabaret in the Hague as well as Philosophy in Amsterdam. He is currently studying for his masters degree in Philosophy in Leiden.
    Timon has found the love of his life in magic. He published his first book on mindreading when he was merely 16 years old. He is the current holder of the title 'Best European Mentalist' and the youngest mindreader to have been awarded this title - ever!
    His career so far includes several live TV performances on national television, theater tours in Germany, the Netherlands and New Zealand, competing at several championships including the World Championships of Magic, numerous radio performances, the release of several specialist publications and a decade of experience as a performer." Born in Germany, trained in New Zealand and now based in Amsterdam, Timon Krause has aleady traveled every continent with his show. He studied at the Paul van Vliet Academy for performing arts and cabaret in the Hague as well as Philosophy in Amsterdam. He is currently studying for his masters degree in Philosophy in Leiden.
    Timon has found the love of his life in magic. He published his first book on mindreading when he was merely 16 years old. He is the current holder of the title 'Best European Mentalist' and the youngest mindreader to have been awarded this title - ever!
    His career so far includes several live TV performances on national television, theater tours in Germany, the Netherlands and New Zealand, competing at several championships including the World Championships of Magic, numerous radio performances, the release of several specialist publications and a decade of experience as a performer. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • @amartyabhattacharya5016
    @amartyabhattacharya5016 Před 5 lety +8132

    Man ....this guy has the body language of the god of mischief .

  • @miu869
    @miu869 Před 5 lety +12231

    He can manipulate my emotions any day

  • @enisarifi6878
    @enisarifi6878 Před 4 lety +4688

    Nobody:
    Teenage boys after their crush rejects them:

  • @samanthakowalski2221
    @samanthakowalski2221 Před rokem +3712

    It’s so sad seeing the majority just comment on his looks. He was sharing an important message in that, as other some commenters have said, encompassing and handling the way our minds work in order to live our truest and most fulfilled lives. This is essentially a just a life hack lol

    • @Glatzel132
      @Glatzel132 Před rokem +29

      It is not any life hack, though. If utilized correctly, it is THE life hack!

    • @jacobpeters5458
      @jacobpeters5458 Před rokem

      @@Glatzel132 no it's a bunch of hogwash that people try to pretend to use to feel smart

    • @kfauzi109
      @kfauzi109 Před rokem +12

      People on the internet have to add an aspect of defeat to even the most mundance of circumstances.

    • @prnk3538
      @prnk3538 Před rokem +26

      im pretty sure people understood his important message. they're just Lightheartedly commenting on his looks

    • @808stateofmind2
      @808stateofmind2 Před rokem +3

      Duuuuuude!!!!! I was so baffled by that when I came to the comments lol This was so disappointing to see from the Tedx community jeeez

  • @EmilyCannon
    @EmilyCannon Před 5 lety +2375

    1 decide on a stimulus and state
    2 vividly imagine the state
    3 step inside this daydream
    4 apply your stimulus
    5 test, use and enjoy the anchor.

  • @riditarahman3501
    @riditarahman3501 Před 3 lety +3804

    I think the audience wasn't listening to him but admiring his visual
    Edit : like tf how come they not respond nor react they’re probably in their delulu with him .
    Ps: some people are getting me wrong … just for them

    • @aashi7229
      @aashi7229 Před rokem +34

      Lol guilty

    • @Artist_of_Imagination
      @Artist_of_Imagination Před rokem +21

      @LeTrashé stop pointing at me

    • @jasonblue9297
      @jasonblue9297 Před rokem +5

      So you’re saying that a movie star could’ve elicited the same emotional response?

    • @bub3124
      @bub3124 Před rokem +3

      @LeTrashé BAHAHAHAHAHAHHA

    • @babocbang1732
      @babocbang1732 Před rokem +5

      yup, he's like marketing something, he needs some femeninity to be able to get in touch with these people's soul and really be able to get them visualize the emotion. the strategy is perfect though

  • @surajjyotihazarika2703
    @surajjyotihazarika2703 Před měsícem +182

    How many of u here after seeing it on reel? Thumbs up

  • @SirSoloSoul
    @SirSoloSoul Před 4 lety +2046

    Damn that crowd was rough. Good talk though.

    • @Jim-ur8lp
      @Jim-ur8lp Před 4 lety +55

      The mic only records the talker's voice

    • @n.j5283
      @n.j5283 Před 3 lety +103

      I think they're subconsciously jealous of him it happens most of the audience are men makes sense for me

    • @justbooks9712
      @justbooks9712 Před 2 lety +18

      Ikr I felt so bad!

    • @IGotNoJam
      @IGotNoJam Před 2 lety +6

      @@n.j5283 They probably didn't even really listen but just focused on that. Kind of sad

    • @bhavii
      @bhavii Před rokem +7

      @@n.j5283 no, that's quite a shallow judgment

  • @ronaldorivers236
    @ronaldorivers236 Před 6 lety +3770

    A lot of people are like this is rubbish or is used to manipulate other people or let your feelings just flow. But the main idea is that you can use it to change your life since you can control your thoughts to change your feelings and your brain and body chemistry

    • @adenjones1802
      @adenjones1802 Před 6 lety +15

      Absolutly right

    • @YukiTheOkami
      @YukiTheOkami Před 6 lety +26

      lie to your self let your guard down and get used by your co workers and "friends"
      well good idear
      then i prefer to use that on others

    • @zitronekoma30
      @zitronekoma30 Před 6 lety +2

      calm down

    • @akeemhimself3742
      @akeemhimself3742 Před 4 lety +7

      LagiNaLangAko23 it's just human nature, you do everything in the book unconsciously, Rob just doesn't sugar coat it for people who don't want to hear the truth

    • @jackdaw6982
      @jackdaw6982 Před 3 lety +1

      Ok boomer

  • @OmniphonProductions
    @OmniphonProductions Před 3 lety +2773

    The question becomes, "Do they feel happier because of the technique, or because he is a perceived authority on the topic who is telling them how to feel?" This is as much a study in Social Psychology as it is in Self-Hypnosis.

    • @Yazan26579
      @Yazan26579 Před rokem +49

      My thought exactly.

    • @tinanikolova2320
      @tinanikolova2320 Před rokem +21

      Does it matter which it is though, in the end you feel what you feel doesn’t matter wether you’ve hypnotized or not you are still experiencing emotion

    • @Yazan26579
      @Yazan26579 Před rokem +49

      @@tinanikolova2320 no that’s the problem, when you’re actually not feeling anything, but are afraid to say so because you have to play along with the “authority” since “he knows better and therefore it must be real but I’m the one who’s broken? Who can’t feel what’s needed to be felt”. And therefore you give false information to support his theory although it’s just a spam.

    • @OmniphonProductions
      @OmniphonProductions Před rokem +36

      @@tinanikolova2320 In _this_ context, it's relatively harmless. However, the _method_ is a common tool of cult leaders...religious, political, economic, and more...as well as domestic abusers. If you can manipulate people's thoughts and emotions in small ways, you can _baby step_ them down a path that either (1) eventually makes it easy for them to accept _extreme_ claims...and actions...without question and/or (2) make it very difficult to _leave_ the manipulative environment, especially having invested so many resources...time, money, and so forth...into the situation. With regard to your question, the _difference_ is the degree to which the audience maintains control.

    • @OmniphonProductions
      @OmniphonProductions Před rokem +28

      @@Yazan26579 Excellent observation! "Go along to get along," can be a very dangerous approach to sociology...let alone the "hard sciences"...and, of course, religion.

  • @user-vo1db2gv9g
    @user-vo1db2gv9g Před 4 lety +1024

    I kinda hated the audience, i felt like they were really stiff

    • @user-vo1db2gv9g
      @user-vo1db2gv9g Před 4 lety +2

      Harishan太陽 who are you ? Freaking 905

    • @Diana__Simion
      @Diana__Simion Před 4 lety +23

      やや no, the microphone only picks up the most near sound, to make it more clear for us

    • @beccahmar2747
      @beccahmar2747 Před 4 lety

      🤣 😆

  • @nfemvibz1338
    @nfemvibz1338 Před 5 lety +1096

    Lolol the comment section is hilarious..some talking about the touching, some about his jokes, some about audience who didn't laugh at his jokes, some straight away went saying he's hot, looks like Sherlock, some even fell in love with him.. you guys are great, made me laugh😅😅

    • @thepeepingsprout2944
      @thepeepingsprout2944 Před 5 lety +12

      I had an awesome time in the comments section 😉😂😂

    • @parth-wu6vg
      @parth-wu6vg Před 4 lety +25

      And some talking about what other people are talking in comment section and thats made me laugh😂

    • @dontsaymynameunlessyouknow8775
      @dontsaymynameunlessyouknow8775 Před 4 lety +2

      And some about those who talk about others

    • @nuwanda7716
      @nuwanda7716 Před 4 lety +12

      🤣😂🤣😂 Don't forget those saying they could not find a happy memory

    • @shreya1969
      @shreya1969 Před 4 lety +1

      Parth I was going to comment this 😂

  • @oliviaborie
    @oliviaborie Před 6 lety +2444

    Before he was explaining the touching I was like stop touching him

    • @Ghryst
      @Ghryst Před 5 lety +25

      same, dude is obviously out of touch with reality - that was common assault.

    • @stools4437
      @stools4437 Před 4 lety +71

      @@Ghryst ???

    • @agfontanot
      @agfontanot Před 4 lety +2

      SAME

    • @904nighthawk
      @904nighthawk Před 4 lety +42

      @@Ghryst I know this was probably a joke but still like can you imagine actually thinking that

    • @myaccount0307
      @myaccount0307 Před 4 lety +3

      He thought he was cute

  • @aprilmaejune967
    @aprilmaejune967 Před 5 lety +1176

    Lol the "what the f**k" at 1:38 completely surprised me

    • @matthewbrousseau7960
      @matthewbrousseau7960 Před 4 lety +8

      April Yeung can he say that or no?

    • @dgarnush
      @dgarnush Před 4 lety +46

      He was conditioning the audience....

    • @HowToRobloxYT
      @HowToRobloxYT Před 4 lety +9

      I think he said way at the back. It took me listening to it a bunch of times to hear way at the back.

    • @amelialydia4152
      @amelialydia4152 Před 3 lety +2

      I can imagine him saying this in my ear during seggs

    • @oyss9809
      @oyss9809 Před 3 lety +15

      @@amelialydia4152 wtf?

  • @Wtfwhatisthis
    @Wtfwhatisthis Před 4 lety +600

    Okay everyone, can we please appreciate both his looks, but first and foremost, that great talk?

    • @lilith666line2
      @lilith666line2 Před 4 lety +10

      If I wasn't staring at him like a lovestruck dummy I would actually be able to talk about how great the talk was (I know it was great my brain can tell me that much)..

    • @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS
      @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS Před 4 lety +3

      Timon has a perm so fabulous that it would make even Richard Simmons envious. How are we to get past that?

  • @lyssa1041
    @lyssa1041 Před 3 lety +828

    He is a very professional speaker although he is so young - great.

    • @voyance4elle
      @voyance4elle Před 2 lety +2

      He started learning mentalism when he was 12 :)

  • @komaljadhav7370
    @komaljadhav7370 Před 6 lety +4585

    can I say he looks like walking ART. Omg look at him. He looks like a real life Disney prince.
    Edit - 😱 So many likes woah!

    • @lkjslain7871
      @lkjslain7871 Před 5 lety +92

      he's so beautiful.

    • @Moni.i.i
      @Moni.i.i Před 5 lety +16

      IKR!!

    • @prajwolshrestha5573
      @prajwolshrestha5573 Před 5 lety +49

      you don't belong here, go watch some boy band songs

    • @komaljadhav7370
      @komaljadhav7370 Před 5 lety +9

      Prajwol Shrestha you are probably right

    • @komaljadhav7370
      @komaljadhav7370 Před 5 lety +30

      sourabh goyal you are so lonely that you are dissing on a random girl on CZcams. your life is so miserable!😂😂😂

  • @mmmwhatthefuck
    @mmmwhatthefuck Před 4 lety +248

    he's actually one of the most gorgeous men i've ever seen

    • @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS
      @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS Před 4 lety +5

      Timon has a perm that would make even Richard Simmons envious. When not mesmerizing audiences with his subliminal magic, Timon volunteers his hair as a sanctuary for rescue pigeons. What chance did any of you ladies have of not falling in love?

    • @mmmwhatthefuck
      @mmmwhatthefuck Před 4 lety +5

      @@ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS i wonder why i sense sarcasm?
      but seriously ehhhh he's attractive regardless of his hair.

    • @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS
      @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS Před 4 lety

      @@mmmwhatthefuck If you like Timon's perm, you should check out the one on Barry Williams from the Brady Bunch.

    • @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS
      @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS Před 4 lety

      @@mmmwhatthefuck Thanks for being cool and having a sense of humor.

  • @poni.sani_hlung
    @poni.sani_hlung Před 2 lety +238

    When the dude said the audience should close their eyes, he was legitimately hypnotizing us

  • @kierstenshiell9638
    @kierstenshiell9638 Před 5 lety +542

    Did this man just teach us how to perform the Patronus Charm in Muggle form?!?!

  • @cintiqlover
    @cintiqlover Před 5 lety +1861

    The audience weren't laughing at his jokes :( poor guy

    • @ifiruledtheworld1st
      @ifiruledtheworld1st Před 5 lety +254

      Jjanjjangmaen it’s because they were so deeply enchanted by his attractiveness

    • @smulldiaz
      @smulldiaz Před 5 lety +78

      They're Dutch lol that explains everything XD

    • @brabbit303
      @brabbit303 Před 5 lety +29

      Lol well I mean he's not a comedian anyways he's like a hypnotist or something

    • @52hello25
      @52hello25 Před 4 lety +73

      They might have been. When TED talks get recorded, they usually set up the sound so that whatever noise the audience makes gets canceled out/isn't recorded.

    • @legingembrefou5981
      @legingembrefou5981 Před 4 lety +23

      52hello25 eh it didn't really seem so, though; every time he say/do something expecting a response, he'd have to clarify it with something like "I think you can understand that" or a similar statement that would normally be used when there is no response. I felt bad for him.

  • @juuzousuzuya5050
    @juuzousuzuya5050 Před 5 lety +534

    speaker: search for a happy memory
    me: dank memes

  • @BejbiBoy
    @BejbiBoy Před 4 lety +435

    The only thing I can manipulate is my alarm clock.

  • @justanothersherlockian7058
    @justanothersherlockian7058 Před 2 lety +86

    I am definitely gonna use this to:
    -Help me fall asleep
    -Focus/Concentrate
    -Generate ideas
    -Gain energy

  • @wcfan623
    @wcfan623 Před 5 lety +618

    He looks like Sherlock damn

  • @Thandidladla
    @Thandidladla Před 2 lety +871

    10:09 as someone who believes in spirituality as well as scientific evidence, I’m glad to have stumbled upon this scientific approach to why visualization works.

    • @lestath2345
      @lestath2345 Před 2 lety

      If you believe in spirituality, you are not using the scientific method properly.
      You can only believe either of them.

    • @tohru8355
      @tohru8355 Před rokem +3

      Exactlyyy

    • @imnty97
      @imnty97 Před rokem +5

      it's like meditating

    • @eve_______
      @eve_______ Před rokem +3

      “Scientific approach”.
      This tells me everything about your spirituality and your intelligence, is this really what people think is a scientific approach? Pitiful

    • @jacintaquee
      @jacintaquee Před rokem

      @@eve_______it is a scientific approach. They’ve done actual studies on athletes to see if imagining something brings it to reality. They did this with training, seperated them into 2 groups. One group did real actual training and the second group only imagined themselves training. The group who did the actual training only improved marginally more than those who imagined it so it’s really just a variation of this SCIENTIFIC approach.

  • @joejenkinson
    @joejenkinson Před rokem +106

    conditioned response - automated, normal responses (clapping, etc.)
    touching arm during conversational praise, happiness, without it it doesn’t feel happy
    anchoring - any specific queue that illicits a predictable response
    if you know the correct trigger you can illicit any response, piece of clothing that make you feel emotions, etc.
    you can set up new responses at will
    pattern recognition - learn from past experiences then apply it to new similar situations, helps us not to make the same mistakes twice
    in an hiring / conditioning queue i’ll it’s response, depending how positive it plays out, you get the sane positive response, and the same with negative responses
    action imagery - brain cannot change from when something actually happening and imagining it (playing piano, imagining playin git)
    5 STEP PROCESS
    1. decide on stimulus and state
    2. vividly imagine state
    3. step inside daydream
    4. apply stimulus
    5. test use and enjoy anchor
    state - emotion you want to anchor
    trigger - movement (for finger and thumb)
    finding memories of that emotion
    by daydreaming you hype up that emotion, your brain reacts and remembers it

  • @morbid1134
    @morbid1134 Před 10 měsíci +47

    This man is really explaining the first chapter of Robert Cialdini's book "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion"

    • @prishasharma580
      @prishasharma580 Před 10 měsíci

      is this book worth reading?....

    • @morbid1134
      @morbid1134 Před 10 měsíci +4

      @@prishasharma580 I would say so; It has a lot of examples and pretty thorough on explaining a concept before moving onto the next one. I would also recommend "Never Split The Difference: Negotiating as if your life depended on it" by Chris Voss. He was the lead international hostage negotiator and he teaches, with great explanation, the tools he uses.

    • @jamesbestaaron5628
      @jamesbestaaron5628 Před 7 měsíci +2

      RIGHT EXACTLY. I also remembered the chapter that talks about patterns in a a bird that starts attacking when a stimulus similar to its enemy was presented infrontof it. Its how we form patterns and assumptions like 'expensive means better'.

  • @sonalipriya2005
    @sonalipriya2005 Před 5 lety +465

    Why was I not able to remember the last time I was actually and genuinely happy?

    • @chandu007i
      @chandu007i Před 5 lety +45

      spending too much time on youtube

    • @sonalipriya2005
      @sonalipriya2005 Před 5 lety +61

      chandu gayan or maybe because of negative people like you. :I

    • @davidturner8493
      @davidturner8493 Před 5 lety +19

      Musicality_Blaze
      when was the last time you didn’t look in the mirror?
      I’d say your last moment of happiness was around there.

    • @chandu007i
      @chandu007i Před 5 lety +7

      😂 Haha what did I just say 😜 i hope you're smart enough to understand i meant the same as Turner

    • @dinasimone9815
      @dinasimone9815 Před 5 lety +1

      😔

  • @anannyasaikia4868
    @anannyasaikia4868 Před rokem +17

    His finger movements are the definition of grace:)

  • @ayushpandeeyy
    @ayushpandeeyy Před 8 měsíci +34

    Who came here by watching the reel 😁

  • @dnp8839
    @dnp8839 Před 4 lety +102

    3:56 if you get rejected on the handshake but you are so good that noone notices it (EXCEPT OF ME :D)

  • @2ooma
    @2ooma Před 6 lety +280

    His hair though 😌👍

    • @frankybellz9414
      @frankybellz9414 Před 5 lety +3

      Sideshow Bob

    • @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS
      @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS Před 4 lety +2

      He should have come on stage with a bird in his hair and not mention it. Timon has a perm that would make even Richard Simmons envious.

  • @elianese9319
    @elianese9319 Před rokem +147

    As an NLP practitioner (Neuro Linguistic Programming), he is spot on. Training yourself with trigger points after visualizing certain 'events', can do wonders for a person

    • @heatherhaven1268
      @heatherhaven1268 Před rokem +2

      It worked for me the first time, I felt euphoric. The second time I started feeling happy, then I had a panic attack and started to sob, so I didn’t anchor it. Nor did I try the third one, or even hear anything else he said. I sure did enjoy this talk though. It was very well presented. Especially since I know they have a giant ticking clock facing them 😂

    • @ayeshasajid6977
      @ayeshasajid6977 Před 5 měsíci

      Dude I never knew that but I do it for fun ☠️....is it even normal!!!!

  • @petrapredovan473
    @petrapredovan473 Před 4 lety +70

    Can we just talk about the fact that he straight up hypnotised an entire crowd of people like damn.

  • @joshsanchez8939
    @joshsanchez8939 Před 5 lety +87

    He dumbed down teaching you how to get rid of negative vibes from the subconscious mind
    Amazing

  • @ElysianEmperor
    @ElysianEmperor Před 6 měsíci +82

    00:06 🧠 Conditioned responses are triggered by specific cues or stimuli, leading to predictable reactions.
    01:04 🌟 Memories and experiences are linked to emotions, creating anchors that can be reactivated.
    05:47 🔑 An anchor is a specific cue that elicits a predictable emotional response.
    09:12 🧬 The brain can't distinguish between vividly imagining an experience and actually experiencing it.
    16:07 🎉 You can create your own anchors to access specific emotional states on demand.

  • @eurosuarezjr4047
    @eurosuarezjr4047 Před 5 lety +185

    I clinched my fist and tried reconditioning that physical response to an emotion of forgiveness. I hope it works.

    • @Nithralas
      @Nithralas Před 5 lety +7

      Great idea!

    • @treydawg8
      @treydawg8 Před 5 lety +70

      If it doesn't work, you can always use that fist to punch whomever wronged you.

    • @Lorendrawn
      @Lorendrawn Před 5 lety +3

      Smart.

    • @jamesross4319
      @jamesross4319 Před 5 lety +7

      I did that, not forgiveness but calming down. When I draw back to punch.
      Now I punch underhanded.

    • @kresimirzex2720
      @kresimirzex2720 Před 4 lety +3

      it will not work because you already have an negative anchor for that action

  • @siyarawat8435
    @siyarawat8435 Před rokem +595

    This was genuinely one of the best ted talks I have ever heard, learnt so much!

  • @kriatannie181
    @kriatannie181 Před 2 lety +47

    I was hypnotised both by him and his talks. One of the most fav video of ted. Feeling calm

  • @ioanateo1359
    @ioanateo1359 Před 6 lety +351

    it worked for me and i am the most miserable depressed person ever

    • @conordunne4424
      @conordunne4424 Před 6 lety +12

      Ioana Teo you OK?

    • @naomii3356
      @naomii3356 Před 6 lety

      Same

    • @kendrauzumaki7182
      @kendrauzumaki7182 Před 6 lety +12

      Ioana Teo if there's anything we can do to help. Just say it. 😊

    • @YukiTheOkami
      @YukiTheOkami Před 6 lety +5

      me to
      but it only worked because i rememberd my true onesided love intrest and i was home alone
      i never would let my guard down in puplic
      oh and i dont wanna to disappoint you
      but it probaply only worked because of his energetic and charasmatic way of talking
      it will not work if you have a depression drop and you are alone
      dont try to rely completly on that
      fokus on things you still have to do
      or on people you dont want to left back alone
      fokusing on happyness symply dont work if you are really down

    • @Jay-pl3wk
      @Jay-pl3wk Před 6 lety +1

      Hope you're doing well today, love :)

  •  Před 5 lety +304

    Some of the techniques used here were not mentioned, namely belief that the method works and anxiety from external pressure, but it did explain the most important basics and should get people more interested in how their mind works.
    The trick of conjuring up a good memory through physical feelings is a really effective method for regaining hope in desperate times.
    Very good that he did this, too many problems are caused by not understanding how our minds work.

    • @OikawasDisciple
      @OikawasDisciple Před 2 lety +3

      I remember hearing about this method in like 8th grade and I used it ever since to when I would present something in front of people since I get very anxious. When I touch the back of my neck I get relieved. It honestly helped me through some tough presentations

  • @davidtomkinson
    @davidtomkinson Před 5 lety +62

    Most informative and well presented. This young man will go far as a result of his commitment projected in his enthusiasm.

  • @davidbarrozo6621
    @davidbarrozo6621 Před 4 lety +57

    This guy follows his passion and look where he is now. All you doubters who doubt your skills and abilities, this is something you need to emulate to get anywhere in life! So keep chuggin, working on your inner selves, and raising vibration so that you can reach the same level of recognition as this incredible man!

    • @Elwen-xs7gr
      @Elwen-xs7gr Před 3 lety

      That's not It. Sometimes people give up their dreams cause thé risk is higher, lossing income.etc..

    • @davidbarrozo6621
      @davidbarrozo6621 Před 3 lety +2

      @@Elwen-xs7gr wouldn't you think, though, that the fear of staying in the same place and not making any lateral or upward moves to give yourself some mobility woupd be worse then taking the chance to become something greater.
      On the other hand, man who moves forward with execution of ideas without planning is doomed. It is similar to leapiing before you look. Also within that same category is deciding before the full facts are in, otherwise known as assumptions. Things in life will always be uncertain sure, but there is a bit of solace there. Your competence and ability is really the only 2 things which can help us to creat a successful future.

  • @leilaandrews6247
    @leilaandrews6247 Před 6 lety +220

    He's charming af

  • @seokjinnielittleangel3017
    @seokjinnielittleangel3017 Před 2 lety +23

    I think I have done this many times without knowing but instead of manipulating emotions from past I daydream about future events and think about the emotions of how I would feel in that situation and let them sink in the present time.
    Sometime it could be a good method to brighten your mood but I read somewhere that we shouldn't do it as the brain couldn't differentiate about what is real and delusional.
    So in case you are thinking about succeeding in your goal and daydreaming about it the brain will think it's already happened and maybe you loose your interest in it.

  • @Marcel-rb4ws
    @Marcel-rb4ws Před 2 lety +18

    I always wondered about smell and perfume and the feeling it gives you. And while seeing this video and him explaining conditioning I understand, that smell is the easiest thing to condition somebody or yourself to. I started using my new perfume while i was almost every weekend out to go to some bars and clubs and I always wore clothes I felt really good in and now everytime i smell this perfume i get a big confidence boost. I really think that the Art of Conditioning is a very important skill in manipulation

  • @zarahussein5565
    @zarahussein5565 Před 2 lety +197

    Such a gem of wisdom. This exercise is mindfulness on another level. I truly hope everyone gets the chance to see this talk and experience this for themselves.

  • @baax97
    @baax97 Před 4 lety +141

    This was awesome, I was feeling really bad but now I feel so happy. This is amazing, I'll definitely be keeping this trick in mind for focus/concentration and calmness

  • @veggiesaremurder
    @veggiesaremurder Před 4 lety +8

    I'm genuinely so happy and full of gratitude after this. 😊❤️

  • @fantinyney7798
    @fantinyney7798 Před 4 měsíci +2

    Applauding when a person comes on stage is NOT a conditioned response. It is the voluntary use of a culturally recognised way of showing appreciation/welcoming someone.

  • @fdprudhomme5586
    @fdprudhomme5586 Před 2 lety +9

    One of the most useful Teds I've seen. Thank you Timon Krause !

  • @Qieth
    @Qieth Před 6 lety +96

    In Neuro linguistic programming, we call this anchoring, which is a lot faster to say than queue response systems :D
    A super simple example of anchors are if you play someone the McDonald's tune - they will for sure imagine the logo, or maybe a burger. Anchors are powerful, and can be litterally anything.

    • @abdulqawyburhanuddin7826
      @abdulqawyburhanuddin7826 Před 5 lety +2

      Or like the time Barney tricked Marshall into eating Shinjitsu every time he sneezes in HIMYM.

    • @outragequitter5027
      @outragequitter5027 Před 4 lety +1

      @@abdulqawyburhanuddin7826 "this shtinks I tells ya!"

  • @chvp4605
    @chvp4605 Před 6 lety +9

    Loved it,it's so cool to know how to produce a stimulus and use it for a lot of occasions,pretty useful,also he's really goodlooking!!💕🙌🏻✨

  • @noor-ul-ain3779
    @noor-ul-ain3779 Před 7 měsíci +16

    He is genuinely a good speaker..how smoothly he conveys his message....LOVE IT❤

  • @chamcham96
    @chamcham96 Před 8 měsíci +3

    I used to hold my own hand when I was sad, and that touch was so comforting and now I know I did it because that is how a person who was important to me at that time, held my hand like that and that was also comforting. So, technically, when I held my own hand, I was reproducing the memory of him holding my hand and it was comforting for me. WOW! this is a great technique. and it works...

  • @prettyparadoxicalwoman8285
    @prettyparadoxicalwoman8285 Před 6 lety +110

    Helping yourself be happy from internal reprogramming is not antisocial. If a person manipulates another person for their own gain is. H es talking about training your own brain

  • @beatewegleitner7920
    @beatewegleitner7920 Před 5 lety +17

    He is amazing and a piece of art 🔥🔥

  • @beeech1080
    @beeech1080 Před 2 lety +1

    Showed up 3 years later in my feed and im very thankful. Just what I needed , thank you

  • @baby_g2552
    @baby_g2552 Před rokem +8

    This is so fascinating and the fact that he was able to put this into practice

  • @timothyduerksen3520
    @timothyduerksen3520 Před 5 lety +51

    I think there was more psychosoma in this than actual self-conditioning; he told me to feel happy, so whether I felt happy or not, I wanted to.

    • @zkcrisyee
      @zkcrisyee Před 2 lety

      That’s the basis of good conditioning… Classic conditioning wasn’t as effective in humans as it was in dogs (Pavlov), for example, since humans have complex cognitive processes that can make us more suggestible through "talking" and pure linguistic influence. That’s when Charcot did his first demonstration of a "hypnosis" session in front of a class filled with renowned doctors and scholars, notably Sigmund Freud, who as a young doctor was left fascinated by the capacity of hypnosis techniques and talking to have such an impactful and important effect on the human mind.
      Then later came operant conditioning with Skinner, which even if it was still somewhat rigid in its scientific approach, at least admitted the presence of cognitions (thoughts, memories, pleasure/unpleasing experiences) as being potentially important in the cognition process.
      Then there’s sociocognitive theory. Which takes elements from operant conditioning and mixes it with social conditioning, which has been proven to work intensely nowadays, particularly the younger you are. So for example, if you say that him telling you to feel happy would induce you to be like that, whether or not you truly felt happy in the first place… falls into that as well. You’d for example be rewarded for feeling happy after someone charismatic on a stage pulled you over and told you to feel that way after much convincing and motivational speech, plus there’s the whole rewarding stimuli for doing so (applause, laughter, feelings of acceptance and competency). So you’d be socially reinforced positively to act a certain way, and rewarded for it through social acceptance and gratification. That plus, we humans learn through Vicarious Conditioning, according to Bandura, not only through pure classic Stimuli -> Reaction conditioning. We watch what works for others and we end up imitating behaviour that we see others be rewarded for, in the long run we end up shaping our social and professional personas not only through competency learning but also through watching other succeed/fail, be lauded/reprimanded for their specific behaviours and social attitudes. Conditioning is dually behavioural AND sociocognitive. “Psychosomatic" could be a way to describe the sociocognitive aspect, though that is a word mostly reserved to psychopathology and people who transfer mental ailments to physical ones. Feeling happy is a psychological cognitive process, not a physical manifestation of a cognitive state.

  • @DavidDragonhammer
    @DavidDragonhammer Před rokem +12

    If we follow what he teaches,so much of what we do would be better suited. He has a gift of teaching,you can tell his passion,what he taught was what we all know,but never doing anything about it,take what he teaches,and we all can be a better person .

  • @TakeMeToYourLida
    @TakeMeToYourLida Před 3 měsíci +2

    I was in tears of joy as I relived my happiest memory and soaked in the gratitude to set my anchor. This is such a great exercise for those who have met themselves deeply and are still seeking.

  • @richmacinnes4173
    @richmacinnes4173 Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you so much..you just helped my son with his anger issues in 1 short video..hope your happy always sir

  • @coocoointhebrains
    @coocoointhebrains Před rokem +3

    Anchoring, conditioning:
    If you know the correct trigger then you can trigger a specific response.
    You can create at will your own.
    How? First, why?
    1. Pattern recognition: learn from past experiences and apply in the future. Not make mistakes twice.
    2. Action emerging/ visualizing : visualizing an experience or action is the same as doing it.
    Now how?
    Essential necessity a convenient memory.
    1. Decide on a stimulus and state: for example thumb and forefinger together will bring a happiness state.
    2. Remember 2 or 3 memories that are happy.
    3. Step inside the memory: taste, smell, view, feel, sound, notice where its strongest.
    4. Apply the stimulus : allow it to dissipate and distribute itself within you, growing the feeling, then hold the anchor for 3 seconds.
    Notice where the emotion was strongest in your body and let it grow higher and higher and repeat the anchor again.
    5. Test and reuse your anchor : rate your current state and then reuse the anchor, reapply.

  • @NighttimeDaydreams
    @NighttimeDaydreams Před 3 lety +4

    Bro, this dude just totally captivated all of us. I adore him. And it's all his doing. 😂
    (Not to mention as soon as I heard him speak, I immediately thought "wow I love his accent." lol. He's clearly learned body language as well.)

  • @Anish7777
    @Anish7777 Před 3 lety +6

    Good memories came back.. now we can live those moments whenever we want... 🙏

  • @AtulSharma-ss4uc
    @AtulSharma-ss4uc Před 2 lety +3

    after a point i couldnt understand a thing he was saying but was still listening with 100% attention.. thats some good technique

  • @agnieszkalewandowska9896
    @agnieszkalewandowska9896 Před 5 lety +67

    It was not an easy job to find happy memories. But I did it! Thank you, Timon! :D

    • @clipexexe6633
      @clipexexe6633 Před rokem +1

      I found one that wasn't linked to a situation but a thing. I really love a sticker of mine, whenever I look at it, it makes me smile. I couldn't think of anything near that happiness other than one new years.

  • @supernaturalcatz5712
    @supernaturalcatz5712 Před rokem +10

    I used to imagine that I was a brilliant scientist whenever I joined sciene classes. And I did it so well, not because I was a real brilliant scientist but because I was confident in my stimulated imagination and therefore I was eager to learn better.

  • @jimintae3284
    @jimintae3284 Před 8 měsíci +7

    a few years ago i watched this talk/video.... and now re-watching it when im majoring psychology, studying psychology - i completely understand him now

  • @Kyle-pr
    @Kyle-pr Před 4 lety +97

    Just so people know, this also works with objects as anchors. Put a memory to an object and you will think of it every time you see the object. Also, you can use this method to remember things. For instance, if you plan to schedule an appointment for next week, link that idea or thought to your shoes. To increase the effectiveness of this put your shoes away in a pattern that is abnormal. For example, put one shoe on the other or put them both on the floor upside down. Next time you see them you will remember to schedule your appointment or what have you.
    Like my comment if you try it and it works!

    • @asadhussain5715
      @asadhussain5715 Před rokem

      I do this a lot but never realized it was an actual thing

  • @AdiAditii
    @AdiAditii Před rokem +4

    " For our brain there is no potential difference between having an actual experience or vividly imagining it and that's exactly what will enable us to create anchor "

  • @carlmagnuschristerson9748
    @carlmagnuschristerson9748 Před 6 lety +164

    Well done Timon Krause! I'm right now in a library and smiling and ppl around me are confused when I sit with my eyes closed for about 2 minutes under your talk, you increased my happiness level today. Thank you Timon for being an inspiring human being. Much love! Carl

  • @luluthestargazer
    @luluthestargazer Před 5 lety +1

    Thank you, I felt so happy I cried! wow! and that is so interesting as my 3rd memory was when I cried tears of joy as I was so happy in the moment I was aware that I wouldnt change a thing and yet we didnt focus on the 3rd..absolutely fascinating and what a gift, thank you!

  • @ivanblazevic9353
    @ivanblazevic9353 Před 5 lety +1

    I have severe problems with depression and anxiety and negative perspective concerning other people and what they think about me and I'm in difficult situation in my head right now. Working on season, living with 20 other people in the same house, something like Big Brother. I had a difficult few days and an awful morning today and I cannot express how this video affected me.I was concentrated, I got into it and I'm way more hapier and relaxed for an hour-long period right now, things are just much simpler in my head. Will definitely do this again.!

  • @AliahSufitaMuntasya
    @AliahSufitaMuntasya Před 3 lety +14

    It's a great talk! I love the way he explains, simply and enlighten me

  • @PenelopeNele
    @PenelopeNele Před 5 lety +120

    I have tried meditating quite a while ago and while watching this and following his directions, I got the same calming state of mind like I did back then. I had lost it over the years and wasn't able to find peace through meditating again, so rn I am super happy that I was able to feel this sensation again!! :D Danke Tim

    • @nehalega9844
      @nehalega9844 Před 5 lety +1

      Yes, i felt the same. I feel amazing!

    • @VishalChoudhary006
      @VishalChoudhary006 Před 5 měsíci +1

      ​@@nehalega9844I don't feel Anything. (Happiness function is gone)💀

    • @Notmit23
      @Notmit23 Před 5 měsíci +1

      ​@@VishalChoudhary006😂😂

  • @Blessthemartyr132
    @Blessthemartyr132 Před 4 lety

    I love the way this guy communicates

  • @dropdeaddork23
    @dropdeaddork23 Před 3 lety +2

    Mentalists all walk and talk in this way I can't explain but really like.

  • @kavya914
    @kavya914 Před 5 lety +10

    One of THE best video I have ever watched

  • @aksjdjsoqlwnwj890
    @aksjdjsoqlwnwj890 Před 5 lety +7

    I love his curly hair it matches his look very well he’s sooo cute 😂💖

  • @angelsof90s47
    @angelsof90s47 Před 2 lety

    Watching you gives me a huge mix of emotions hope ur happy I hope you're happy with you're self

  • @DP-yw4vk
    @DP-yw4vk Před 2 lety +1

    As a budding actor- this video was so incredibly amazing and useful!

  • @f0x1ro1
    @f0x1ro1 Před 4 lety +4

    I mean, it's just something we do everyday in our lives, we just don't notice it. When i understood that my emotions awaken when i hear ost from a sad movie, or something like that, i thought, "could i possibly use it?" And yes, you actually can. When you want to feel good, just listen to music you heard when you felt good. In your mind they are connected, so when one comes, the other comes as well. After some time i could use it even without music, just remembering how i felt and manually awakening that emotion.
    It really helps sometimes, when you feel bad, or just want to be happy.

  • @oikawaspeach_7165
    @oikawaspeach_7165 Před 9 měsíci +6

    im going to hack my brain into dismissing my social anxiety using this lmao. that aside, such an immensely insightful ted talk

  • @arlinegeorge6967
    @arlinegeorge6967 Před 3 lety

    Great amazing talk. Thank you, bless you. All your dreams come true.

  • @geetanjalibiswas3655
    @geetanjalibiswas3655 Před 10 měsíci +2

    CZcams suggested this and now I'm infactuated 😂😂😂 would love to watch more of his talks ❤

  • @williamkuennen5505
    @williamkuennen5505 Před rokem +7

    I have never felt better than doing what he said this man is amazing I’m in a better place in life than I have been but I can hear my mom screaming but I’m fine my body hurts aches my stomach burns but I’m fine

  • @omshahare1075
    @omshahare1075 Před 6 měsíci +15

    00:06 Understanding cue response systems
    02:44 Demonstration of conditioned response
    05:04 Anchoring or conditioned response can elicit predictable responses
    07:27 Our brain has two powerful abilities: pattern recognition and action energy.
    09:49 Vividly imagining an experience creates no essential difference from actually experiencing it.
    12:02 Learn to anchor emotions for a desired response
    14:14 Learn to reconstruct memories bit by bit
    16:19 Create happiness at the push of a button

  • @Dadkvar
    @Dadkvar Před 4 lety

    He was hypnotizing the crowd. You could see the ones it worked on and the ones it didn't. nice

  • @chroni3659
    @chroni3659 Před 4 lety +2

    And you have to believe it will work, too. That’s very important. In fact, it’s why he first had that guy come up as an example- so we’d see that he’s credible, believable- before he had us do it.

  • @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS
    @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS Před 4 lety +10

    Timon, now that's a perm that even Richard Simmons could admire.

  • @ellieg9099
    @ellieg9099 Před 5 lety +15

    This man is GORGEOUS!!! A gentleman & a scholar. Statuesque... Hey, thanks to his parents for getting busy. 👌💞

  • @MariamPakbaz
    @MariamPakbaz Před 4 lety +101

    am i here to learn how to manipulate emotions or fall in love with him i’m not sure yet

    • @lilith666line2
      @lilith666line2 Před 4 lety +10

      I came here to learn but now I am in love.

    • @darkrangerl
      @darkrangerl Před 4 lety

      What's missing here? Why are you falling for him?

    • @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS
      @ADDIDASSSSSSSSSSSSSS Před 4 lety +2

      Timon has a perm that would make even Richard Simmons envious. I was waiting for a bird to fly out. What chance did you ladies have of not falling in love?

  • @moripiepenbrink4502
    @moripiepenbrink4502 Před 2 lety +4

    this guy is just unexplainable wow im speechless such a good ted talk !!

  • @ankitcharkhwal1785
    @ankitcharkhwal1785 Před 6 lety +5

    The best Ted talk i have ever seen ❤

  • @umeshuchenia8931
    @umeshuchenia8931 Před 5 lety +170

    Couldn't find a happy memory. I even more depressed after watching this

    • @ScottSavage-sh5fq
      @ScottSavage-sh5fq Před 5 lety

      Xredder Pandemonium lol

    • @xqsmeysu
      @xqsmeysu Před 5 lety +25

      You've never eaten a sandwich?

    • @sanjay.skumar7467
      @sanjay.skumar7467 Před 5 lety

      😂😂😂 so true

    • @Boblobblaw88
      @Boblobblaw88 Před 5 lety +3

      Make one up.

    • @veggiesaremurder
      @veggiesaremurder Před 4 lety +13

      Work on cultivating gratitude. Nothing will change your base state quite like conditioning yourself to feel grateful for everything you have. It doesn't matter if you're literally homeless. It works!

  • @thisandthatmix
    @thisandthatmix Před 2 lety +2

    I am laughing with happy tears, thank you so much for this video! 🙏🏻🤍

  • @emanando138
    @emanando138 Před 4 lety +35

    so.... “go to your happy place” is a real actual thing? never thought of doing it bc i thought it was bs