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- čas přidán 29. 09. 2022
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This video talks about how to know you’re dealing with a narcissistic friend. A narcissistic friend Is going to be competitive with you. A narcissistic friend may pretend to be happy for you if you’re doing well but Deep down they are very jealous of you. A narcissistic friend is insecure and it kills them to see you do better than them. A narcissistic friend will also cause problems in your relationship with your partner too sometimes.
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The fact that she secretly compared, competed and saw me as an opponent when I thought we were team mates and cheering each other on was the most dissapointing thing ever
that's how i feel too
They hate it when you are happy and they are jealous of everyone.
So true, my narc friends makes much more money than I do, she has no children. Whenever I have anything unique she will have to one up it. If I have an interest or hobby, she will adopt it and try to out do me. She tries to sabotage my relationships.
Yes, they want to take your friends or children away from you.
Why are you still calling them "friends"?
The sabotage for real!
Whew Chile! Such a familiar spirit.
This is so true. One of my friends turned me against a common friend we have. But she was someone still seeing this other friend. I had to realized that I cut a friend years ago simply because my Narc “friend” said that she felt bad vibes from her. 😒
They are dangerous malicious gossips. It's frightening how they tear down people behind their backs. Angry bitter people.
They also will ghost you and dispense the silent treatment...especially when times are tough for you, this is very painful and they know it. They also seem to relish in any bad news you may have as well. Pay attention as to how they speak of others..because it is how they will speak of you as well. Stay away from these people...they are not your friend.
Wow !! So true
This is true. Narcisistic friends are competitive with you. They are jealous and miserable. Thank you
My narcissistic friend. Pulled into my driveway. He has become morbidly obese. Unable to get out of his truck. He gave me three unsolicited pieces of advice concerning my appearance. I just smiled. Thanks for exposing them.
Extremely competitive!!!!
Not happy for you!!!!!!
Spread rumors about you ,EVRYBODY.
Yes, every thing you say is true! They are miserable and jealous and competitive And will lie and cause trouble! I watched heavy triangulation occurring and it was like nobody else recognized it.
You are absolutely correct t😥they are extremely jealous-hearted. 💔
envious is the better term! they are sick in the head
Exactly. Thats why it's better not to announce or share good things that's going on in your life. There are people who pretend to care or celebrate with your success and happiness but very jealous and insecure from within.
They have a hard time keeping the same relationship going. And will try to plant ideas of insecurity in your relationship.
She actually told me, hey I think I saw him checking me out but didn’t want to say anything… when she was actively making vomiting sounds every time I kissed him. And coming to talk to me in my space when I was privately talking to him on the phone… it’s so weird!
THATS WHY I HAVE 0 FRIENDS AND 0 FAMILY MEMBERS THEY ALL SICK AND JEALOUS LIKE HELL
Yes, my narcissistic ex childhood best friend did all these things & more to me…. While using the internet to lie & tell everyone J did these things to her. I wasn’t even thinking about her & was shocked she copied my whole life, stalked, harassed me with fake profiles, joined the profession I was going to school for, got into touch with old boyfriends of mine to lie about me. And old crushes. Silly & weird….since I hadn’t seen these people in over 20 years, and that includes her. She did all this from using Facebook.
Misery loves company. So sad 😞
That's so freaking sad I am always very happy for all of my friends successes in their lives I am truly happy for them even when things are not going in my direction.
Me too. I'm their biggest cheerleader...and I am happy for them when they make new friends too.
A friend I had ( the one whose saying was keep your friends close and your enemies closer), stole her friends bf, ( her best friend before me). Best of it is, then they run round telling everybody what an awful friend you are ( in her case, her ex friend). She was so dodgy, she would do things, not just to me, and I used to think, how can you do that/be like that with other people? Before I knew people like narcissists walked among us 🫤. The world started to make sense after that lesson.
Love your little chats, spot on ☺️
I said,
"Universe help me out a little today". 3 hours later I stumbled upon this. Omg.
♥️
I stopped sharing anything with anyone- exactly true"
Thanks again yaz this definitely was the case for me. Destroyed my reputation for my job then helped me ruin my own mental health with addiction then the last thing I had - my partner - was pulled away from me viciously at my lowest point in my whole life.
All this by my ‘friend’
I am so sorry 💔😓
I've been burned by family and friends and my ex husband all narcissists. Just be really careful who you let in your life but don't stay closed off. It took me 3 years to find someone genuine to spend time with after breaking up with the last abusive narcissist. Watch videos on manifesting. That's how I did it. Manifest with Jake Ducey, Robert Zink, Aaron Doughty and Jasmine.
I had this same thing happen to me (former "friend" i knew for 6 years). Granted, i did try to confront him the wrong way (trying to fight, he hid away when confronted in person) but a person can only take so much of their lies, rumor spreading and braggart behavior. Costed me a job but id rather have peace of mind. Plenty of other jobs out here.
I knew a woman who acted like my friend but then would do really messed up things to me, while acting all nice the whole time. I never confronted her.
So true. But this is just generally true in life….once you obtain your goals, once you are doing well not everyone can handle that and you loose people. It’s a sad fact that no one talks about.
Hello! You're so right. Gosh, i need a wise woman like you in my life! damn
Very,TRUE!
My ex hairstylist was exactly like this and because I didn't want her doing my hair anymore she took my friends and turned people against me!
AMEN!
I've had about 4 of them and they're history. Or rather one of them I talk to about twice a year cuz we're childhood friends. Never was a true friend and was all that you described in a narc friend.
True very true 💯
Not insecure 😵💫………THEY’RE ENTITLED!!
True.......I, got rid of her.......I, would tell her about my plan to be marriage counselor. She told me that my marry is not good. She did not know my husband seen him but never hang around him.....how did she come up with that. Bye girl. She tried fight me for no reason she said I, didn't say hi to her that's why she wanted to fight me.
A covert friend will always try to one up you on everything ! Or if you tell them something you went through whether it’s good or bad - they always went through the exact same situation. I use to have a friend like this. I called her out on it - guess what happened- yup first the shocking facial expression from her - then the denial… so predictable!
Facts!!
She mimicked my whole life for a period of time. Copied almost every major decision I made, from my degree choice, to my job/volunteer opportunities, hobbies and style. I’ve cut her off because I got so fed up with the competition. She doesn’t copy me as much anymore, but she still tries to compete through social media. Posts that are related or boasting about her life right after I’ve posted something. Her Instagram captions say similar things. it’s insane. I confronted her about it awhile back and she completely tried to play it off as coincidence. Like sure girl, play dumb. Pretty sure everyone else has noticed BUT you.
She would always make jokes about me in front of everyone that is insulting. When I confront her, im told im being too sensitive. Then she plays the victim because she was confronted. Instead of acknowledging your feelings, she will use it against you
So true! Everything good in my life makes her eyes roll. My son left a toxic gf and has found ‘The One’ when I showed her a picture of my son w his new love she said, “Well, he has a type.” Not, oh she’s cute or they look happy together, etc. What kind of person makes a comment like that. A narcissist that’s who.
Would you talk about a Narcissist who owns a business and rips you off, then makes it your fault! Everything that went wrong isn't their fault
Thank you so much!
Nailed it perfectly, this is so true 👌
They will complete you with and insult thrown in . I really like those pants but they will look better when you lose a lil weight.
My ex Narc friend of 50 years constantly copied elements of my life. e.g. bought a black marble dining table because I had one. Lots of examples to the point where I often had to say to my Narc friend, "Stop living my life!". They are so full of insecurities and jealousy that they have to copy copy copy. An acquaintance of mine who was a very close friend of the Narc studied for years to achieve a Doctorate in Law. I made a congratulatory comment to my Narc about this other person's achievement and the Narc was so fully of nasty emotions that he couldn't even offer a single syllable of praise for his other friend. I tried the same thing three different times at various intervals with the same result. It felt like a lead weight was lifted off me when I went No Contact and maintained that situation.
mine is jealous and insecure
Truth
Facts facts facts!
I was a friend for 18 years to a women who set me up to get scammed out of $5,000. The betrayal caused catastrophic damage to my health. Because it was not a class action event impacting many people, there was no legal recourse. I sometimes wonder if she will ever apologize and make an effort toward reparations. After 20+ years, I feel it’s time to confront her and give her the opportunity to repent and redeem herself. Is this a realistic expectation??
Sounds like a “Jackie” to me
Whenever i tell my friend that i did something that im proud of he always tells me that hes done something better or what i did was easy
You got it to a T my friend ❤
Love my cousin/friend. She’s overt and I know her family history so I know how she developed this disorder. I went no contact with her for 7 years, however I did reconcile with her. She’s an overt so for me she’s annoying at best. Super controlling and competitive. I’m very laid back and she is beyond successful so I’m really no threat to her but she is constantly trying to control me. I know from friends that they said she wasn’t the same when we were no contact as we’ve been friends for 30+ years. I just ignore most of the crap she does and says because we do have a good time a lot and believe it or not she is a very good friend most of the time. There are so many narcissists these days. My parents and brother all narcs. I’m a sigma empath, discovered this through my therapist. You have to decide whether ur going to trash everyone or if u are able to retain relationships with people who are on the minimal end of the spectrum, behavior that you can deal with. When my friend starts acting like a lunatic, I just go gray rock and within 20 minutes she’ll switch topic and act like nothing ever happened. Possibly because she knows if it escalates I will go no contact for a decade if I have to. My therapist taught me that, when u change ur behavior most narcs will adjust theirs if they are attached, some will leave all together but I’ve found most family will adjust.
Then shame you for doing better for yourself! I got out of an abusive relationship and moved in with my ex friend. As soon as I got into therapy, got a boyfriend, and started working out and earning a living wage to get my own place. She started to belittle me and shame me for “getting a boyfriend too soon” okay have that opinion.. but don’t shame me making my own life better. Who does that!? And then when things are horrible she talked badly about me behind my back to anyone who would listen. Never to my face. Ever. Passive aggressive, arrogant, and childish. So glad I moved on from that. My life is full of peace and I’m finally finding myself again! Amazing how that happens when you remove people who are always fear mongering you, shaming you and blaming you. It does nothing but confuse you and make you second guess yourself. Not in the healthy way in which we should all check ourselves sometimes. In the way that breaks your spirit
I have experienced this with a certain so called friend where if I said I had done something then he had done it better. Whenever I started something new then he was doing it. Initially I was unaware of what was going on then I spotted the pattern which made me a bit concerned.
Sounds like my buddy is a narc
Yes this lady I recently met is highly insecure and jealous ,sees me as a competition....and is a bossy person who thinks she is the forever miss right person
this makes me so sad.
I luv your eyes,an I will never introduce any male friend to girl of mine again,tza
Wow, that is so true, and I did not realize that it first. But I know that now for sure.
Protruding horn's rising from their forehead above their hallow eye sockets is a sign...
Omg. I laughed so hard. 😂
They will not cheer for you or be happy for you
Yes 🙌
So sic of attracting those type of people
My narcisistic son has just told me to stay away from him.He just got married.
Don't share good news or bad. Either way, it's trouble! Once you KNOW they're a narc, get out, and don't look back!
Beautiful eyes
Thank u ☺️
So true.
So true...
Smart
Just stupid little things like I just said that my a1c Was down and she just said well make sure it doesn't go too low. instead of congratulations or something. stupid little things like that add up. I am so glad now that I didn't tell her so many things.I have known her for a long time and I guess somehow my subconscious (Jesus-!) was telling me. No don't tell her this and that. Thank God!
Been there. They add up.
Yes, thanks
I'm finding this out. So sad ....
The one upper 🤧
Can u say "Backstabber"?
🙂💯💯💯
Just ended that friendship! I can do nothing right ever! Hair dye, worng color for me, living room paint to dark, new plant too expensive. Son accidentally mows over elephant ear, she literally says ha now mines bigger. From clothes to my marriage i handle nothing rights. DONT RAISE MY KIDS RIGHT! Keep in mind her husband cheats, wont fix his child support so they can live recently because his ex honestly screwed him and they can prove it. He does dope. But because my husband didnt take the trash out, i must smash his xbox and divorce him. She is all the time talking about nothing but violence!. Wellni didnt agree with something she said the other day, said i agree to disagree and she lost it. As i was trying leave her house she stepped on my shoes she was so close and pushed me! In front of her kid's! Im so glad to be free of this. I breathed a sigh of relief immediately after i told her we were done. She ruined that relationship i had with those kids. There since the youngest born and he is 5. Its horrible and relieving at the same time. And sad because i will miss my little buddies
It happens she is my best friend,it's the little things every correct answer I give she often dismisses(I am at the top of my class, also participate in class quite a lot)every time I say something that gose against something she has said she just dismisses me always trying to one ip me . I am tired how do i end a close friendship of 3 years?
So how do you spot the difference between a genuine compliment and a narcissistic compliment
Your narc friend will do your narc partner.
Thats what my ex husbands secretary did to our marriage
Bulls Eye!!!
One hung up on me bc I was expressing something good
In other words, they are extremely childish people who haven’t grown up or matured
My gf and bf both were
So they arent a friend, 😅😅😅😅😅
I really think my friend is..
😱
😭😭😭
I watch your videos because I like looking at your face
you should talk a bit about solutions
That's disgusting
All my dads siblings are like this but dad does he's own things and doesn't give a crap about them