Sir, bada beta agar wife ki help kare tho Lattooo. Agar chota beta wife ki help kare tho… haiii bhagwan dono ka pyaar bnaa rahe. Ye parents aisa kyun karte hain????
Vo esliye kiuki bade bhai ke uper koi responsibility hoti hai jonke use dhikhte nhe hai.. Jo ke galt hai... Wife or maa ko ek sath leke chalna chaiye ...
Mutual respect and mutual love with each other and never taking granted for each other , polishing the memories and moments time to time . I think these things will make the marriage heaven
I am wife... respect is more important than anything else... Wife needs RESPECT Respect k bina kuch bhi nahi hai... If husband respects .. that melts my heart.. if i feel disrespected then nothing can calm... not even love... Respect Respect Respect
@@Ashu__108-i5g both genders needs are different, some need are same like love , support etc nd many more But some are different for example women seek more stability and security in relationship more than man , women need more emotional comfort more than man , women need attention more than man , Man need more physical intimacy more than women etc . We are different and thats beutiful becouse we compliment each other The reason we are attracted to each other is becouse of bieng different, just imagine if everyone would be same ,if both genders were same than there would be no attraction to each other People confuse bieng equal to bieng same , we are not same we fullfill each other's need and that beautiful 😍 That's my opinion if you have something else then do share 🙂
Respect is as important as love for wives.. if your husband disrespects you and talk in an insulting manner and then show love without apology. It feels very toxic.. so yes I firmly believe respect comes before love.. for both
With due respect, I partially disagree with you. Women need respect as well. Respect is more important than love. Infact love without respect is not long lasting. Respect and Love is the requirement of both husband and wife.
Love agar real hai, to respect uske sath sath aati hai.... Agar husband actual love karta hai, to usme respect to rahega hi rahega....aur phir wife bhi bina kuch kahe hi respect karna shuru kar degi .... Lekin har case me husband ko pahal karni hogi.... Things and scenarios have changed now....
When husband is taking side of her her wife for protection of self respect from his family members, it's one sort of respect only..men don't n can't give direct respect..but not disrespecting is also a form of respect...
Respect for wives is an equally important ingredient....the husband who humiliated his wife in public, family how can he shower love....so love and respect both matter 🙏
@@maheshnaidu2676 लड़की अपना घर छोड़कर आती है, मां बाप, माल।पहचान तक छोड़ कर, बेघर होकर आती है। उसका यही सांसे बड़ा sacrifice hai, जिसकी बराबरी तुम कभी नहीं कर सकते। तो एहसान मानो और रेस्पेक्टे करो। या फिर उसके जितनी त्याग करने की हिम्मत हो तो खुद विदा होके जाओ और उसका नाम लेके उसका वंश बढ़ा के दिखाओ।
एकदम सही बात कही आपने सर जी.....आपका बस एक व्हिडिओ देखकर मूड अच्छा हो जाता है....even if it doesn't apply one's own life....and feel like interacting with you live and not the recorded one....
Raat raat bhar jaagna, bachche sambhalna, unhein padhana, unke saath bina kisi fruatration ke khelna, classes le jana, subah jo ghar se sabse pehle jata hai office us sepehle uthkar naashta tiffin banana aur jo sabse late aata hai, usko khana dekar, kitchen sametkar sona- cook ko khane mein kya banega aur bartan wali ko manage karne se zara zyada kaam hai ghar par sir
madam paisa nahi kamate itne effort ka to kya fayda. no appreciation from family jo chiz measure nahi ho sakti wo chiz dekhi nahi ja sakti. earn money it will show competence to your family that you are more valuable thus earning more will bring respect and appreciation
We r also working and put our level best in office, face office politics, work hard at home too. Most of the Indian men do not even cut veggies at home. They don't want to earn respect, just want to get it without deserving.
@@doncorleone3901 he starts being taken as granted for those household tasks. The solution might be just to help/support her in chores instead of doing them completely by himself?
@@akashnagpal not good. Household chore is not gender specific, but in India, unfortunately it is made so even now. And there are other things, other chores , mutual understanding, respect, communication etc. To be considered too.
Sir aapki video dekh kar meri married life me already magical change aa gya hai.. thank you so much for your wonderful channel.. all I did was I did good, respected everyone and wanted nothing.. husband k sath sath unki puri family mujhe bahot pyar krti h and meri bahot respect krti h ab..
Would have been great if you have spread some examples of love and respect because people might interpret it based on their own understanding and mindset
Sir husband respect, care aur pyar bahut krte hain pr earn nhi krne dete. Bolte hain sb tera hi to hai pr di kbhi chvanni bhi nhi. Plz btaiye kya kru? Work from home bhi nhi krne dete. Unke tough time mein unke business ko join kiya. Apni education ko kaam mein liya aur business bhi boom pr aa gya. Relationship improve bhi hua. Pr vo mujhe salary tk nhi lene dete. Bolte hain paise pr dhyan jayega to technical aur fundamental skills khrab ho jayenge mere.... plz make a video n guide sir..... mere jaisi bahut hongi jinhe ye help chahiye.... much needed... 🙏
Respect jhootha hai. Wo respect nahi, management hai। Mera swarthi bhai bhi meri kaabil bhabhi ke saath aisa hi karta hai, aur wo mere support ke baad bhi uski baaton mein fans kar koi stand nahi leti aur भुगतती जाती है।
Genius honest. May god bless you. Thanks for clarity. I hope everyone thinks the way you think. Truth if life sir ji. You know you deserve many designations.
I spoke your language long back and when I told my husband to stand up for me and be my shield, he said you are not laachaar, stand up for yourself. So I did;) Now I don’t need anyone to stand up for me, because other people have lost their backbone 😅😂including the husband who has lost his control😂
@@FromProfessor how so? If a husband does not stand up for you, do you just shut up and take shit from everyone else around you? Did you not watch the video before commenting?
@@FromProfessorwow men claim to protect woman . This is how they protect. If one can't take stand just don't marry it's just that simple. Waise bhi bharat Mei bohot faltu aadmi h jinki shadi na hi ho toh future generation or uss ladki ke achha hi hoga.
@@ankitamishra0405Actually men never protect women and never stand up for their wives in front of their parents. They want their wives to tolerate every shit from their in laws and other family members. But in comment section they will get angry over it😂😂
Wives need love from husbands; and husbands respect from their wives. Once these needs are fulfilled their relationship becomes heavenly. Wonderful marital advice. But husbands don't expect genuine love will reciprocate respect from wives immediately. It takes time...Forty three days at least. All the best.
Before marriage, I asked my husband to vall me "Aap n jee". He does so even after many years, and ppl look at him so strangely and with jealousy that you call your wife with so much of respect. And we both rock 😂 Touchwood,
Love and Respect are byproducts of TRUST. This aspect is missing in this video but I feel it's the most important aspect for successful marriage. Your thoughts please...
yes today husbands even those who are highly qualified & very wealthy are mortally scared of showing concern and care for their wives because they fear - really they are s**t scared of - being labelled "Joru ka gulaam" or in today's sophisticated English - you cannot and will not "control me" or "define / dictate how I act or behave in anyway. It may seem like a very small insignificant thing, but as Sangwanji has explained here, it causes a lot of painful experiences in Indian marriages.
Thanku You Sir🙏🏻For This Deep Psychological Truth Abt Women In Relationship.. Also Deep RESPECT TO YOUR EACH & EVERY WORD & ADVICE THAT'S EXTREMELY TRUTH FOR HAPPY MARRIED LIFE.. AGAIN THANKS FOR SHARING UR DEEP WISDOM WITH US🙏🏻
Avoiding marriage is the best way to escape marriage issues these days...🤣...However if one prefers to marry gender neutral mutual respect is a must I think......
You are right sir mostly. Women need more of love and men primarily respect in a manly sense but women also need respect in the sense of feminine energy they give to your life and family.
Aap bahut acha bolte hai. Aur saccha bolte hai. Society mein iski bahut jarurat hai. People became educated but failed to apply it especially in family life. Maine apke bahut sare videos dekhe hai and you are absolutely correct and to the point in almost all the points. And certainly yes, these issues are holding our economy back because women can't apply all their skills and potential at the right place at the right age. They need to wait till their 40s and 50s to do what they are best at. I am also a deep thinker just like you, but no one listens to me. 😂 Thanks to you. Many people like you should come forward. I just pray that your videos should get viral asap..
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Sir, bada beta agar wife ki help kare tho Lattooo. Agar chota beta wife ki help kare tho… haiii bhagwan dono ka pyaar bnaa rahe. Ye parents aisa kyun karte hain????
So true... Sare controls bhi badi bahu pe hi hote hai.
True ..ye to hota hai
Very true
Aur damaad beti ka help kare tab bhi Jodi bana rahe
Vo esliye kiuki bade bhai ke uper koi responsibility hoti hai jonke use dhikhte nhe hai.. Jo ke galt hai... Wife or maa ko ek sath leke chalna chaiye ...
Mutual respect and mutual love with each other and never taking granted for each other , polishing the memories and moments time to time . I think these things will make the marriage heaven
I am wife... respect is more important than anything else...
Wife needs RESPECT
Respect k bina kuch bhi nahi hai...
If husband respects .. that melts my heart.. if i feel disrespected then nothing can calm... not even love...
Respect
Respect
Respect
when a man is loving his wife , that means he respect her..love comes only when you have respect.respect ka next step is love
@@dreamsdesires agreed
A man shows his respect through love and care
and a women shows love through her respect(Basic difference between being masculine and feminine )
@@Ashu__108-i5g love
@@Ashu__108-i5g
both genders needs are different, some need are same like love , support etc nd many more
But some are different for example women seek more stability and security in relationship more than man , women need more emotional comfort more than man , women need attention more than man ,
Man need more physical intimacy more than women etc .
We are different and thats beutiful becouse we compliment each other
The reason we are attracted to each other is becouse of bieng different, just imagine if everyone would be same ,if both genders were same than there would be no attraction to each other
People confuse bieng equal to bieng same , we are not same we fullfill each other's need and that beautiful 😍
That's my opinion if you have something else then do share 🙂
Respect is as important as love for wives.. if your husband disrespects you and talk in an insulting manner and then show love without apology. It feels very toxic.. so yes I firmly believe respect comes before love.. for both
💯%Truth👍🏻
I second that
💯 % right
One who loves he will not disrespect wife in front of outsiders
True
With due respect, I partially disagree with you. Women need respect as well. Respect is more important than love. Infact love without respect is not long lasting.
Respect and Love is the requirement of both husband and wife.
100% true. Respect and love both in equal doses.
Love agar real hai, to respect uske sath sath aati hai.... Agar husband actual love karta hai, to usme respect to rahega hi rahega....aur phir wife bhi bina kuch kahe hi respect karna shuru kar degi .... Lekin har case me husband ko pahal karni hogi.... Things and scenarios have changed now....
Husband standing for wife in front of everyone, mainly his own parents is a respect only.
@@anupamaraianvirai1183 what if husband stands for his wife against his own parents but she refuses to acknowledge it ?
When husband is taking side of her her wife for protection of self respect from his family members, it's one sort of respect only..men don't n can't give direct respect..but not disrespecting is also a form of respect...
Respect for wives is an equally important ingredient....the husband who humiliated his wife in public, family how can he shower love....so love and respect both matter 🙏
No husband disrespect wife without any reason, wife should behave like wife first
@@maheshnaidu2676 लड़की अपना घर छोड़कर आती है, मां बाप, माल।पहचान तक छोड़ कर, बेघर होकर आती है। उसका यही सांसे बड़ा sacrifice hai, जिसकी बराबरी तुम कभी नहीं कर सकते। तो एहसान मानो और रेस्पेक्टे करो। या फिर उसके जितनी त्याग करने की हिम्मत हो तो खुद विदा होके जाओ और उसका नाम लेके उसका वंश बढ़ा के दिखाओ।
Not really there are many people these days who don't know to speak with their spouse that includes both genders .
First, respect each other. Love will bloom automatically. This is the simple funda of happy and successful marriage life.
Mr Sangwan...Thanks so much for such an awesome and insightful talk and analysis. Thanks for speaking and highlighting unpleasant truths...
पति पत्नी का अहंकार विहीन होना ही सफल जीवन की कुंजी है।
OMG ..I couldn't stop laughing...the way you were explaining. I am married for 29 yrs ..yes I totally agree...mutual respect must be there.
एकदम सही बात कही आपने सर जी.....आपका बस एक व्हिडिओ देखकर मूड अच्छा हो जाता है....even if it doesn't apply one's own life....and feel like interacting with you live and not the recorded one....
Realistic and true to the point .👏
Raat raat bhar jaagna, bachche sambhalna, unhein padhana, unke saath bina kisi fruatration ke khelna, classes le jana, subah jo ghar se sabse pehle jata hai office us sepehle uthkar naashta tiffin banana aur jo sabse late aata hai, usko khana dekar, kitchen sametkar sona- cook ko khane mein kya banega aur bartan wali ko manage karne se zara zyada kaam hai ghar par sir
Mai exactly yahi soch Rai thi .. aur Mai bacho ko khud hi padati hu aur bartan b khud hi 😂😂😂 bas Jo aye suna k chal de
madam paisa nahi kamate itne effort ka to kya fayda. no appreciation from family
jo chiz measure nahi ho sakti wo chiz dekhi nahi ja sakti.
earn money it will show competence to your family that you are more valuable
thus earning more will bring respect and appreciation
❤ आपको प्रेम पहुंचे, यह आज के समाज की सबसे बड़ी आवश्यकता है, प्रणाम😊
Thank you so much for making things easier for us......
Excellent Advice Sir! God bless you! I wished that all Indian families could have followed these principles in life, including myself!
This is such an excellent video Sir...MAG..
Completely agree with the concept....can say with personal example
Beautiful advise. We need more people like you in the society. I’m watching you from Dallas, Texas. I love your perspective.
Women want respect too. If there's no love (romance) but there's respect, it still would work perfectly with me
Listen carefully, he isn't talking about physical love
Correct
आपके सोचनेवका तरीका बहुत ही प्रैक्टिकल और तार्किक hai। आप का अनुभव जबरदस्त है जीवन की विभिन्न पहलुओं के लिए❤
Really, No doubt. Thank you so much for sharing perfect information
Thank you for everything 🙏❤️
We r also working and put our level best in office, face office politics, work hard at home too. Most of the Indian men do not even cut veggies at home. They don't want to earn respect, just want to get it without deserving.
Despite peeling, cutting, sauteing, garnishing, serving, respecting and loving without any smoking or drinking my marriage didn't work. Still hopeful
@@RajatK91 might be an exceptional case. 🙏
The more he does the household stuff, less she respects him. This is the truth
@@doncorleone3901 he starts being taken as granted for those household tasks. The solution might be just to help/support her in chores instead of doing them completely by himself?
@@akashnagpal not good. Household chore is not gender specific, but in India, unfortunately it is made so even now. And there are other things, other chores , mutual understanding, respect, communication etc. To be considered too.
Sir aapki video dekh kar meri married life me already magical change aa gya hai.. thank you so much for your wonderful channel.. all I did was I did good, respected everyone and wanted nothing.. husband k sath sath unki puri family mujhe bahot pyar krti h and meri bahot respect krti h ab..
Very well explained🙏
God bless you🙏
A must-watch video for all couples. A million-dollar perspective. 🙏
Must vision for all for a happy life. Thank you for sharing Sir.
Love and respect is basis of a healthy relationship
Loved ur video incredibly and instantly subscribed it sir.
Sir right I have experienced this heaven thank you for reminding me of our beautiful time and memories
I need respect as well. I am the woman. I think respect and friendship is also required for both genders
Would have been great if you have spread some examples of love and respect because people might interpret it based on their own understanding and mindset
Very nice sir ji,
आपकों सामाजिक रूप से अवार्ड मिलना चाहिए..🎉
Superb, fantastic video Amitji👌👌
I have experienced this in my life and am highly appreciative of each and every word of yours, in this video 🎉
Excellent idea, definitely sending
Sir husband respect, care aur pyar bahut krte hain pr earn nhi krne dete. Bolte hain sb tera hi to hai pr di kbhi chvanni bhi nhi. Plz btaiye kya kru? Work from home bhi nhi krne dete. Unke tough time mein unke business ko join kiya. Apni education ko kaam mein liya aur business bhi boom pr aa gya. Relationship improve bhi hua. Pr vo mujhe salary tk nhi lene dete. Bolte hain paise pr dhyan jayega to technical aur fundamental skills khrab ho jayenge mere.... plz make a video n guide sir..... mere jaisi bahut hongi jinhe ye help chahiye.... much needed... 🙏
He does not love you.
Usko saf bol do , ya toh tum mujhe har mhine paise do ya fir m kaam krungi, but paise toh har hal me chahiye
Respect jhootha hai. Wo respect nahi, management hai। Mera swarthi bhai bhi meri kaabil bhabhi ke saath aisa hi karta hai, aur wo mere support ke baad bhi uski baaton mein fans kar koi stand nahi leti aur भुगतती जाती है।
Genius honest. May god bless you. Thanks for clarity. I hope everyone thinks the way you think. Truth if life sir ji. You know you deserve many designations.
Practical and pragmatic advice Sir. Great work. Keep it up.🙏🙏
बहुत ही उपयोगी video गुरूजी
Excellent excellent...too good... awesome 👍
गुरुजी, आप महान हो. आपकी हर बात मन पे पॉजिटिव और पॉवरफुल प्रभाव डालती है..
Thankyou Sango ji with your new age wisdom and clarity..Respects🙏🙏
MAG......thanks for a direct n refined advice.....problem hoti h lekin aapne do words mein specific bata di.....very helpful...thanks
I spoke your language long back and when I told my husband to stand up for me and be my shield, he said you are not laachaar, stand up for yourself. So I did;) Now I don’t need anyone to stand up for me, because other people have lost their backbone 😅😂including the husband who has lost his control😂
@@FromProfessor how so? If a husband does not stand up for you, do you just shut up and take shit from everyone else around you? Did you not watch the video before commenting?
@@FromProfessorwow men claim to protect woman . This is how they protect. If one can't take stand just don't marry it's just that simple. Waise bhi bharat Mei bohot faltu aadmi h jinki shadi na hi ho toh future generation or uss ladki ke achha hi hoga.
@@ankitamishra0405Actually men never protect women and never stand up for their wives in front of their parents. They want their wives to tolerate every shit from their in laws and other family members. But in comment section they will get angry over it😂😂
@@friendshiprocks8673 yup
@@S.A.1me too face this. now I act like u😂😂😂😂😂
Wives need love from husbands; and husbands respect from their wives. Once these needs are fulfilled their relationship becomes heavenly. Wonderful marital advice. But husbands don't expect genuine love will reciprocate respect from wives immediately. It takes time...Forty three days at least. All the best.
Rubbish. Women need respect. First n foremost. Love follows later.
Before marriage, I asked my husband to vall me "Aap n jee".
He does so even after many years, and ppl look at him so strangely and with jealousy that you call your wife with so much of respect.
And we both rock 😂 Touchwood,
You are great, just great! Really inspiring and thought provoking.
Well said, truly appreciable ❤
Love and Respect are byproducts of TRUST.
This aspect is missing in this video but I feel it's the most important aspect for successful marriage. Your thoughts please...
Waah Sangwan Sir. Superb 👍
Hats off sir... Ye baatein koi nai samjata.. aap bhut acha kaam kar rahe hain...
Sir, Too Good, Thanks a lot, This kind of advice must come from elders in the family
yes today husbands even those who are highly qualified & very wealthy are mortally scared of showing concern and care for their wives because they fear - really they are s**t scared of - being labelled "Joru ka gulaam" or in today's sophisticated English - you cannot and will not "control me" or "define / dictate how I act or behave in anyway. It may seem like a very small insignificant thing, but as Sangwanji has explained here, it causes a lot of painful experiences in Indian marriages.
Crct with close relatives label the men
Good ideas shared. Thanks
Thanku You Sir🙏🏻For This Deep Psychological Truth Abt Women In Relationship.. Also Deep RESPECT TO YOUR EACH & EVERY WORD & ADVICE THAT'S EXTREMELY TRUTH FOR HAPPY MARRIED LIFE..
AGAIN THANKS FOR SHARING UR DEEP WISDOM WITH US🙏🏻
Avoiding marriage is the best way to escape marriage issues these days...🤣...However if one prefers to marry gender neutral mutual respect is a must I think......
You are right sir mostly. Women need more of love and men primarily respect in a manly sense but women also need respect in the sense of feminine energy they give to your life and family.
Wrong. Women need respect first.
You are really a gem. thanks
Fantastic video sir. We love you❤
Thank you so much Sir🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Iconic sixer again..
Vidio gives insights about heaven in marriage.✌️👏👏
Yeh lecture, 10pm Anupama highest trp drama k time par telecast hona ati avashyak hai. 🙏
You are very cool 👍very nice real life examples.....
U r absolutely right Sir.
Your all vedios are just amazing 😊
Aap bahut acha bolte hai. Aur saccha bolte hai. Society mein iski bahut jarurat hai. People became educated but failed to apply it especially in family life. Maine apke bahut sare videos dekhe hai and you are absolutely correct and to the point in almost all the points. And certainly yes, these issues are holding our economy back because women can't apply all their skills and potential at the right place at the right age. They need to wait till their 40s and 50s to do what they are best at. I am also a deep thinker just like you, but no one listens to me. 😂 Thanks to you. Many people like you should come forward. I just pray that your videos should get viral asap..
So beautifully explained. Apne 100% sahi baat kahi hai.
Sirji, bahut khubb, kya baat hai, very nice. Absolutely great practical advice with some funny bones. ❤ it. Kudos 👏 👏 👏
Light , informative video....
MAG। Heaven wali baat bilkul sahi hai. Keep it up sir.
Working wife ke challenges to double hote Hain na. Ghar me unse sari expectations house wife wali hoti hai.wo kya kare.
Mazaaaaa aaaa gaya sir .tooooo good n beyond wrds
Wonderful 🙏
Respect कमानी पडती है.... Free मे नहीं मिलती.... ये बात लोग नहीं समजते है
Love bhi! Kamana padta hai... Free mai nahi milta!
U r of very jolly nature nd give precious advices
You understand the psyche of men and women, Mr. Sangwan 🙏
No. He is Mistaken.
Wimen need respect more than love.
Great video Sir Ji 👍
Practical video sir
Thank you
U r right sir
💯
हर रिश्तेमे प्यार और इज्जत चाहिये . चाहे वो दो बेहेने हो , भाई भाई या पडोसी ताकी हम खुद आनंदी और शांतिसे रह सकते हैं. 🙏🙏🙏
Excellent analysis
Very nice vedeo Guruji
Very 😊 nice and wise video Sir. I always watch yr videos and share them also.
All agreed sir.. Valid points., please stop house wife bashing... Point taken..
Without spirituality....no one can genuinely love anyone
100%
Absolutely correct
Super Guruji. A1 advice.
❤❤❤❤❤ respect sir......hands down
True advice sir
Behtreen
Sir, what about those couple who are in deep trouble from long long time?? Thanks ❤
Good advice!
Every single word is true.Excellent work sir.
True wala MJA AAYA GURU JI
good
Thankyou 🙏🏻
Well done, sangoji
Great 😊