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what your saying is also not true. most of married couples apni marriage doh rhe hai. Its purely burden because of false or change expectations, likes etc as well as his approch of no marriage for everyone is also bad. One should work on oneself continuously and that's true for most of people their child is their only project in their life but Most of people preferring not to get married is also inspired from bad parents marriages where they mothers are harnessed and father were mostly Workaholic similar reason for remaining single in JKC . India population should decrease most of population lives undernourished, don't get any meaningful work in life, destroyed natural resources, technologies anyway reducing need for population, most of population don't get good education as teacher student ratio gets bad when try to teach bulk population & increasingly without education human resource is getting useless, expensive & poor healthcare both public and private, 10% population providing for subsidies and building infrastructure be it services road, water, electricity, housing, providing for politicians and babus corruption, No money for Research, organisations can get away exploiting labour specially middle class, weak law n order. Take for example here 5crores people fill form for railway clerk whereas Japan total population is less than 5cr and they have 5 trillion economy 30 yr earlier. So quantity is useless unless can be put to good use. 10 crores indian population which can have good education & health care is fare better than 120crores with none of it
Your arguments were good but acharya ji is trying to give a new way of life ,this Indian society is too conservative and orthodox ,it doesn't even understand vedant PPL are getting married just like sheeps ,he wants to break this herd behaviour
Sir, actually the problem is not marriage itself but the type and kinds of people that you will see around yourself. Nowadays, hookup culture is very prominent in India, and it is known that it is much easier for a girl to find a sexual partner more so than guys. So, the problem comes when two people end up in marriage who have had very different experiences which in turn would have shaped their perspectives. I turned 30 this year and by God's grace, I am doing reasonably well in life and I can tell you that nearly every girl in my age group (late 20s even) has quite a body count. Marriages work when two people are at least semi-interested in each other, but nowadays, many girls (mostly) are just looking to 'settle' with some guy while they themselves have nothing to offer but sex - and even then, that too is not much because they have had coitus with so many people that they are now bored. The problem now comes to boys who have grown up in conservative families or did not have a chance to have a relationship or had no chance for hookups due to being focused in their careers and earning money. When such a marriage happens, obviously it is bound to break. I don't disagree with anything you said, but at the same time, it is a fact that divorce rates in India have gone up in the last few years. Finally, the point you made about the leap of faith - to do that, you need to be reasonably certain about the other person, not that we will not have any problems with them, but at least they will not abandon us when the problem comes. And, it is hard to be sure of anyone those days. Once again, I am not discounting anything you said, but the quality of people has severely gone down in the recent years, so the one who is going to provide or is capable of providing would need to think twice before making themselves available to being exploited in the first place.
@@AnimeshSinghweb Certainly, one needs to have standards to not accept anyone having partners in the past. Virginity in both men and women is a time tested requirement for marital success probabilistically. Moderns are such deniers of truths and hide behind words like compromise, acceptable blah etc...Won't work.
Every girl in your age group should be married under normal circumstances. If you are still unmarried that explains your over exaggeration, since it gets harder to find a partner after 30. You didn't mention if you are married, but I assume no because any married man won't have so much time, and would be happy and busy, not worried about body counts of women around. I rarely reply to comments like this, but I hope this message helps you. Please watch more of Amit sir's content as many doubts that you have he has already cleared in his previous videos, some public and some through his membership/webinars. Regards.
@@MrShagiFpv Okay, so - yes, actually many girls I knew who were not into promiscuity and maintained a decent pre-marital life (no hookups, etc.) got arrange married already in their mid-20s. Now, coming to those in their late 20s, well, I was approached by many girls between 26-32 years, and upon doing some 'friendly' discussions, I figured that they either have had a very promiscuous past and were now just trying to find a 'safe' guy to settle down with, or they've had a breakup so bad that they haven't gotten over their exes. In both cases, they are emotionally used up (exhausted) and that is not the kind of partner you would want for marriage since it depends on both people to keep it going. Individually, I am doing quite well in my life, but I have worked hard to build myself career-wise, and any guy who has worked hard to become someone without any support from parents will not want just any girl to come into his life and f**k it up. Anyways, I am happy and busy individually - but the concept of body count is important, because there is an inverse correlation between the number of partners and the emotional availability of a person. And if you are going to be sticking with someone for life, you will obviously want that they are just as invested in the marriage as you are. Also, I think it is fine to not get married as long as someone isn't sure about it; as for the difficulty in finding partners, I don't know what is the case with girls, but for guys, if you are financially successful and have kept yourself even physically average/above average, you will have no problems finding a girl - given that you know how to make them laugh and talk.
@@AngshumanVI your thought process is partially twisted. Buddy, be careful that way you will never find anyone in life. It's your myth that only your hard work has got you where you are in your life. Success is an outcome of more than just hardwork. And so far as the girl is concerned, you seem to be looking down on everyone else while placing yourself on the topmost pedestal ! Problematic and narcissistic way of thinking
All right! What Acharya Prashant says is not very practical but he is not wrong. It is just that society is not ready yet to live a life of that high standards. Most people will miss the point he is trying to make.
Exactly, the example which the Amit Sir is giving about nunu ka papa, that he is the real champ who is fighting with all the struggles for nunu, i want to clarify that acharya ji is simply asking, pls for once ask the champ, how is he feeling inside, he is so full of anxiety and stress yet he is forced to kill himself daily in his job because he has an additional nunu who should be fed with all his requirement. He so dearly wants to get rid of all this struggle but he has created additional responsibilities. And in what state of mind he has created them, early marriage, early child without knowing and understanding the realities of the world, now with these additional responsibilities (irreversible or very hard to reverse) he has created for himself ( pls remember in not a very conscious state), the champ is not left with much freedom to change his situation and live a free life. He is bound to continue living his life, be a slave in some office and even thinking of freedom from this life brings chills to him by the mere thought of not earning enough for his kid and family. Pls for once ask nunu ka papa , is he really happy with the way he is spending or going to spend the rest of his life. Further saying that goal of life is that sustainability and what we will do with all that gyan, my mind is anxious , i am in a very stressful state, and the purpose of gyan is to relieve that anxiety, stress and freedom of the people who are in existence right now. It is certainly cannot be just to rotate the chakra of birth of child. I hope i am able to pass on what i think about this. Thank you.
Any one really exploring spirituality will not go after people like Acharya Prashant! His spiritual ideas are funny and babyish and too bookish He is a joke in front of Real gurus like Sadguru🙏
This shows you don't want proper society around you bhand bankar fir na hai .when you are disabled to take responsibility of any one this is simple way to escape from it.I do agree marriage is a strong consistiuton it should be followed properly.
@@creativehome3869 no sir my comment does not show that I dont want proper society. u need to read it and think clearly for some time. As i already said most people will miss the point U just proved it.
The truth is marriages have been successful in lndian society only because of wife's unlimited sacrifices and adjustments. Many marriages in previous generations were sustaing due to the sacrificing and adjusting roles of ladies. Today's girls don't want to do that. They know it what their mothers, aunts, and senior sisters have gone through.
So true a woman's role is main in a marriage because a woman makes the house A woman only sacrifices her career for her family, she sacrifices her work, her job life for a Child
@@nikitafernandes461please don't make your life hell, let's come together and fight with this marriage evil,so that we and other future generations can live peacefully like the European people especially the Nordic nations
Sir, you probably misunderstood Acharya's talk. I guess what Acharya Prashant meant was marry a person with certain level of spirituality n maturity, but don't go after a person with lots of extreme wealth n good looks etc only. A spiritually inclined person will always have the resilience n maturity to understand his/her partner than a person who is rich n good looking but is lacking in maturity and wisdom. What Acharya meant was person literally higher in spirituality, not in wealth etc
@@Rishu_4912 Apne matlab k liye jo bacche paida karte h wo fir unpe ehsan jatate h ki hamne ye Kiya humne wo kiya Matlab k liye bacche paida nahi krne chahiye ki Hume kon aag lagayega Marne k baad😂😂 Abe kya pata tumko tumhara end kaise hoga Aur baccha kya pata aaye ho nahi Marne k baad aag lagane To tumhara investment to doob gya fir 😂😂😂😂
Waiting for acharaya prashant ji's reaction 😂.....both of them ar correct from their point of view...but sir is more practical than prashant ji's view. Sir is more on how normal people function and their needs but prashant ji focus on deeper and deeper meaning of every institution..
Marriage is a dead institution in the 21st century. But we have someone defending it, thank you, uncle. Everybody slams marriage, but we need people defending marriage. Hats off uncle. Albeit you are doing it to sell more real estate, which is not as good as equity as far as investment perspective is concerned.
@pandeyrajjesh1 dimwit take. How many of these marriages would have happened or can survive without familial/societal values? How many people are producing helathy children
Thankyou Sir for trying to spread clarity in the world of chaos. Your videos are a life changing and can reshape someone's mindset and save him from going a path of down fall. Keep your work going, kids like us do need to be taught true virtue in such manner.
being a follower of both acharya prashant ji and amit sangwan ji, I agree to this video, bahot km log hote hai jinko shadi nhi krni chahiye. wo apna raasta khud dhund lete hai , naa hi wo kisi ke vdos dekhte hai, aam janta ke lie being unmarried will act as a poison.
Vaai yeh aam janta, yeh poison jo bhi bol rahe ho yeh ek prejudiced opinion hai, enquire and experiment karo toh kuch bhi sambhab hai. Agar kisi ko choti age se hi sikhaya jaaye ki happily jeene ko hai, saadi yaa phir baccha paida karni waloon cheez sab secondary hai, then yeh jansakhya 150 crore tak nehi pohochta jisme ham sab literally daabe huye hai, frustration ka mul karan hai yeh 1.5 billion people, overpopulation, unemployment, garibi, cheezon ka demand, land crisis itna sab kuch jhelne ke baad bhi itna immense suffering ke baad bhi agar koi baccha paida karna zaroori samjhe toh kya hi batana. Khud hi ham prithvi ko maar rahe hai, kisi bhi tark se. Already 480/sq k. Population density hai. Aur kitna chahte ho tum?? Ekdin yeh sab tark dete dete hi yeh nature humans ko hi tabah kar dega, extinct kar dega, woh kya accha hoga?? Woh hi shayad behatar hai tum jaise soch walon logo ke liye.
Once a girl said i don't want to marry but my parents are forcing me to do so, to which acharya prashant asked,why don't you wnat to get married to which she said just like that. Phir acharya Prashant ne kaha aiso ki toh shadi hoti hi h
Thank you so much Sir!!! Brilliant video for all the youth following AP.. I had been following him for an year approximately and there was increase in bitterness within me. Also, when I went in the outside world for work, I felt like ye baatein baatein hi hain sirf asli dunia boht alag hai aur inki baaton se solution nahi confusion mil raha tha bas ... Sun na band kar dia ab sab thik hai..Osho ko sun sakte hai aur bhi boht tareeke hai life mein light aur khush rehne ke... unnecessarily itna burden carry karne ki koi zarurat nahi
He is clearly saying if you believe in it, do it. If not, ignore it. Where is the problem? Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Millions of successful marriages exists and they are more successful than people who think it's burden. People need to cope with contrasting opinions
Dekho..... Aap ko Acharya Prashant accha nehi lagta.... Iska matlab thodi na hai ki woh galat bata rahe hai?? Yeh nehi. Practical lives mein humans bohot suffer karte hai, bohot hi..... Matlab hadd se zyada ham suffer karte jaa rahe hai...... Kyunki hamari behoshi.... Aur galat tarike kaa jeevanjapan, agar koi luxurious lifestyle ke khushi ko vog raha hai aur dusre haath mein environment, climate and iss nature ko haani pohcha raha hai.... Toh yeh toh sarasar galat hai naa?? Toh Acharya ji yehi kehte hai..... Satya bolte hai woh, insaan galti karta hi rehta hai, seekh nehi leta, aur sab ko majboor karta hai kasht, peera dene ke liye, swarthi insaan hai sab. Inn baton ko samjhane ke liye ek bitterness toh zaroori hai.... Hai naa?? Agar bohot hi shanti se inn baaton ko AP bolega toh kaun shunega?? Pehle se hi haam andhkaar mein dube huye hai. Agar ham ek simple, kam se kam baasnayon se bhara jivan byatit karte toh Acharya jee ko itna bolna nehi padta. 🙏🙏
Namaskar Guruji, I am atheist hindu as you said. I tried to worship, but i saw my mind is more peaceful, productive, happy when i dont worry about god. I had few family issues and it was spoiling my relationships with my wife and kids. All because of relatives, we were great earlier. We took a decision not to talk much with relatives and now we are great. Me and my wife talk like friends, we talk to kids have some fun all together, play with kids. We stopped all unrealistic expectations. We expect our kids to study average. And learn more on thinking, observing, happy so that they wont lose self confidence. Also i encourage them to do experiment and do mistakes rather than being correct.
You are right , our most of the issues in marriage created by unnecessary interference of relatives , always better to maintain a safe distance with them .
A good marriage is a huge support in life. And making a marriage good or successful is not that difficult but definitely worth the efforts. Sir agree with you 💯.
1. Population control is necessary for saving earth 2. Marriage is also association. Association with bad life partner is like as hell 3. Selective marriage with good life partner is compulsory for peaceful life 4. Purpose of marriage is firstly spiritual, moral and psychological support for truthful life
You r talking sense. Today the youth is confused .Youth should know what to do and what not to do for own Good . Self control , sex education , discipline etc should be worked on .Seek righ information , and learn that there is a right time to do anything . Be , eating, studying , working ,sex , sleeping etc etc .🙏🙏 Patience , being responsible person, morality , values are important to work on before getting married . You r so right Sir , hope the young understand ..🙏👍❤️
@@ashitmukherjee5934 Are you happy with marriage in this inflation period. How about children education expenses, do you afford children admission in 'first class' education classes which cost nearly around Rs. 1crore from nursery to 12th standard period. or you are going to put children into low quality educations. Do you manage to earn smart enough in economic recessions and layoffs. These are the points Acharya Prashant putting in before thinking about marriage.
So many well put points in a small video. True magic of an experiment speaker.... Immersive sir..... Your videos deserve to trend, i feel sad when i see others copying your stuff and making videos.
I just don't know sir what to say 🙏 You really need a standing ovation for speaking so frankly and truthfully! I hundred percent agree with u! I am happily married for the last nearly 40 yrs. Ours was an arranged marriage and we both worked hard to make it work. My son also is happily married for the last nearly 10yrs. I believe in the institution of marriage which in fact is the foundation of a good society. The day that institution deteriorates certainly the downfall of a society begins...You are a gifted speaker who really succeeds in convincing people regarding issues without showing aggression. I really want to salute u 🙏🙏
Many issues are present nowadays.. Earlier complexity in marriage were not that much. Now it's kinda of risky affair.. Aajkal to sbke Phrmaisy program hai.. Todha todha both parties should learn to sacrifice..Iss pr bhi bat honi chahiye ki marriage ko leke confusion itna kyu hua? Bss ye bol dene se ki shadi kr lo shadi nhi ho jati.. Kisi se bhi nhi kr skte.. Qki normal insan h to sonchna to pdega.. Bcz having lifepartner is one time affair.. Coins are not being tossed
Sir, all your points are very perfect, valid and shuts all the other opposite views. Thank you and please make videos to inspire and show right path to our youth.
Guru ji, you never confuse us. You always give pure clarity on every topic you talk about. Only once I have heard Prashant ji on youtube. After listening to him I immediately clicked on 'don't recommended this channel'. That much clarity we have gained from you that we can easily makeout who talks right and who talks insane. We can choose wise youtubers.
Acharya Prashant is talking about uplifting of consciousness not material consciousness. If someone needs one witness for one's life then it is ok. Main thing is life has no meaning but majority can't accept it without being mad so they find the escape through meaning ( like kids, witnesses, God, spirituality, etc). Neither birth nor death is decided by us so to engage ourselves with thought we make material or spiritual goals... Be detached then nothing is needed. Still if you want to pursue job, marriage or consciousness and spirituality then go for it. I agree that Dharma can't decided by only the writings in books.
Exactly .u told the truth .no one can give guarantee of ones ownself or for others.marraige is devotion and its just a skill of handling every situation.
8:05 --Realistically speaking. 'Giving' to frendship me nhi hoti hai aajkal. Spouse to door ki bat hai. And by the way, largely women marry because of the 'bio clock' and men marry because 'Abe tu aur kya karega!?' Nobody is thinking 'I want my spouse to witness me giving birth and then raising kids and loosing a job and then finding another.' I know you're romanticizing it, but.... for an average man, 'marriage' is not optional, but its also not done out of the choice of heart. Its done because papaji keh rhe hain aur mosi ji keh rahi hain. 😶😶
how can you generalise nobody is thinking on this level? bro i think you hang around average people. You dont know the people with kings mentality, change the 5 person you hang around with
Sir, you have completely nailed this issue... all married and unmarried people should listen to this video... especially people who are considering speration/divorce
@@hemangshrivastava9561so is that a achievement? Being married is also not a achievement but who has better experience and small fun of life.? And what great work you did? Did you fixed crooked laws of India?
I agree with you Sir that marriage is a "leap of faith" , no matter how much you know the other person before marriage, your spouse will surprise you in a good/bad way depending upon the situation. But if a person is getting married in late 20s or 30s then both the partners should know each other on a bare minimum level or see if the other person has the potential of becoming a friend and discuss important aspects openly! People in this age group are strong headed and marriage can break easily if they do not connect because Nibhane ki "chah" hogi tabhi nibhaoge!
Soo true.. Many are making it a fancy thing like not attaching with anything..Arey baba No getting attached with anything is also an attachment with something.. Similar as that of not believing in God is also believing in something.. We should we flexible to use our inner intuition to understand what works for us and what not..These things can't be briefed by any books including any Vedas.. Our country is too young for trying those western concepts like open marriage, Live in relationship etc etc..Let us leave those experiments to our children,we need atleast one more generation to witness any drastic changes..
You are the antidote. Thank you for coming out to address these issues boldly. Your sarcasm is amazing. Your style of explaining adds special effect. Highest level of delivery. 👏👏👏
To the point sirji. Apke points satisfy karte hai kyunki ye sustainable hai. Win win situation rehti hai sabke liye. No dominance required for anything.
Im amazed by the level of clarity u have regarding every phase n part of life.i too had issues with acharya Prashant's thought process n content.thanku sir for clarifying as a 21yr it was an eye opening video🙏
Before someone starts agreeing with this guy's opinion, let me tell you this guy is an astrologer, real estate agent and a marriage counselor as well. So be careful. He is like that WhatsApp uncle who takes offense at puny things and misinterprets the other person.
Sir, what you said is true since thats how a society works. But what AP said is also true because he works for liberalization of a individuals consciousness. He didn't look down the marriage, he look down the marriages which is unconscious marriage.
आपने शादी से पहले वाली 7 tips जो दी जिसमें एक tip खर्चे के बारे में थी। मैं और मेरे माता पिता शादी पर खर्चा करने को बेवकूफी मानते हैं। हम तो कोर्ट में शादी कर लें। शादी में पैसे उड़ानें से अच्छा घर ले लो, या गाड़ी ले लो। पर अगर सामने वाले कहें कि हमारे एक ही लड़की है। शादी तो धूमधाम से ही करेंगे। एक ही बार होती है शादी। रिश्तेदार, जान पहचान वाले क्या कहेंगे । उस situation को कैसे handle किया जाए?
Are karni hi kyun hai barbaadi(shaadi) ? Jab roz alag alag varieties kha sakte ho to phir wahi ek hi baasi dal chawal khane ki kya jarurat hai. Pata nhi iss modern century mein bhi kaise kaise chutiye log rehte hain jo shaadi ke chakkar mein rehte hain🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 marriage=💩💩💩💩
महोदय, जो विवाह नहीं करते न, उन्हें समाज में अधिक सम्मान मिलता है क्योंकि ऐसे लोगों को progressive ( प्रगतिवादी ) माना जाता है. मैंने स्वयं यह अनुभव किया है. और मेरे साथ भी ऐसा होता है क्योंकि मैं अविवाहित हूं और इस बात का मुझे काफी गर्व है. मेरा भाई भी शादी शुदा नहीं है. हम अपने शानो शौकत पर खर्च करते हैं. Foreign tours जाते हैं. ज़िन्दगी मज़े से कट रही है. मेरे शादी शुदा मित्र गृहस्थी में पिस पिसकर रह गए है. तनावग्रस्त है. Incerement के लिए भी तनाव में रहते हैं. Overtime करते हैं और अपनी सेहत बिगाड़ते हैं. लेकिन मैं और मेरा भाई हंसी ख़ुशी समय बिता रहे हैं. हमें boss blackmail भी नहीं कर पाते लेकिन जिनके बाल बच्चे है उनको blackmail करते हैं - तुम्हारा ट्रांसफर कर देंगे. हमें ट्रांसफर करेंगे, हमें कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता, लेकिन बाल बच्चे वालों आतंकित रहते हैं. हम तो उन्मुक्त पंछी हैं - liberated. मैं तो नृत्य, रंगमंच, साहित्य में अपना खाली वक़्त बिताती हूं जिस कारण समाज में मेरी इज़्ज़त और बढ़ गई है. So, I am the winner.
Bahut badia madam , waah kya soch hai , main bhi aise hi rehta hun , sab mujhse jalte hain , aur fir batate ki life mein bahut kuch miss kar rahe ho shaadi na karke , main unse baat hi nahi karta ab , akele mein jo mauj hai woh saath mein kahan
Thank you so much for you wrote over here. I got some clarity about single life. I will have decent earning and will roam the world and will have all the fun of life.
Hats off to you sir... Along with yours, I am watching Aacharya Prashant videos from long time... I respect him very much but the topic which you discussed is just outstanding the same questions were arising in my mind also... And here I must say you are 100% right 👍
😃😃😃 marriage means association..If you accompany with bad life partner....your life will be ruined...Vedant says, association with materialistic person is like as hell.
Disagree... 1. Population control is necessary for saving earth 2. Marriage is also association. Association with bad life partner is like as hell 3. Selective marriage with good life partner is compulsory for peaceful life 4. Purpose of marriage is firstly spiritual, moral and psychological support for truthful life
Namaste, Today I got to know that you were one of the students of Deepanshu Giri Ji and have learned Vedic Jyotish. So this is my humble request that please bring some foundation videos on Vedic Jyotish on this channel clarity for youth. I am hopeful that you will guide. Dhanyawaad🙏
Sir actually you are right for general public and yes in the smoothly running world people should happily do marriage but Acharya prashant want a mass audience to support his work to save the earth otherwise why the men will sacrifice his life, left IIM and IAS opportunities. He see that family is the unit of consumption and without stopping it we cant get rid of current global crisis. I saw same perspective on marriage by Osho and concluded that spiritual teacher see marriage as hindrance in the path of life mainly. but sometimes they also support those 10% marriage like marriage of kabir, ramkrishna. Now it is up-to the people what to choose and not just follow what one says , i mean if the calling is coming from inside after gaining so much knowledge and experiences that this work can be carried out without marriage as marriage impose various responsibilities then you should do that. same can be said to bhagat singh who choose to die by his own and know one said him to become deshbhakt.
Are bhai world ki tension tu kaiko le riya hai...itti tension hai to PM ko direct bol ki India ke laws ko fix kare....tu bhai apni simple zindagi jeene pe focus kar na bhaia....kaiko itta load le riya hai re tu
उसने कभी शादी के बारे में बात ही नहीं करी उन्होंने तो कभी भी मतलब जब कोई शादी के लिए पूछता भी था तो वह कहते ही थे कि मैं शादीशुदा नहीं हूं तुम गलती कर रहे हो मुझसे puchkar तुम्हारे पास आर्य जी बहुत ज्यादा ज्यादा बोलते हैं उसे चीज पर जो उन्होंने kiya hi nahi
Thats good, but if done in a natural way. My Gurudev says, nothing artificial can ever give pleasure. What Prashant is doing is, insulting and humiliating the institution of marriage. This is not just wrong, but extremely hazardous for the society. Why? Any normal person, who has emotional and sexual needs, but is hesitant for responsibilities, he will get seriously misguided by Prashant. Such a person can't become a proper sadhu, to dedicate his time and efforts for spiritual development since his other desires are unfulfilled, and hearing all this negativity, he cant even become a proper family. Hence, न घर का न घाट का। India has seen many stalwart sannyasis and saints, but noone has demonised grihastha ashram like this person.
Agree on every point. Westnize ho gaya hai indian mindset of young generations. Don't judge every failed or fight in a marriage as your future. Take proper decision and try to resolve. Social media ko dekh k decide karke marriage expectation and nautankiyan. Dekhlo aadho k divorse ho rhe hai. Coz shosha baji jyada thi Fake and false expectations are wrong on both side of couple. Talk and talk and try to resolve. You cannot rely on friends or gf/bfs all life. You need someone to take care for the whole life you have. Jhagda toh gharwalo k sath bhi hota hai bhai behen mein hota hai. But divorce lena husband wife ka not a solution.
Everybody wants to be Hanuman, but no one wants to be Shree Rama. Hanuman could fly to Lanka and get Sita back for Rama....But Shree Rama choose to walk it to Lanka fight the battle and get his wife back.. That is why Shree Rama is the Maryada Purushottam... that is why Hanuman choose sharanagati to Shri Rama Nobody wants to walk the Right Path because it is the difficult path.... but we are called to do that.. because that only will we give us fulfillment..because that is our obligation.. our Swadharma ....Hope our youth realize ..This is why we say only the name of Shri Rama is more powerful than Lord Rama himslef..as we are called to follow the path of Maryada Purushottam.... for this reason that Lord Hanuman decided to stay back on earth ...
Marriage is subjective topic person to person varies ,whom should marriage or not totally dependent on their requirements, but we have one common goal to go with high chetana and make our life better ❤
I am big fan of you ....very very practical....we need more people like you ........ the so called spiritual gurus deviating from main topic and confusing people...
ये आचार्य प्रशांत को कुछ साल पहले तक देखता था... गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांतों की मुझे अच्छी समझ है इसीलिए जब उन मूलभूत सिद्धांतों से उनकी बातों का विग्रह दिखा तो समझ आया कि जो आदमी गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांत ठीक से नहीं समझ पाया वो मुझे कौनसा दार्शनिक ज्ञान दे देगा।😅
guruji shadi toh krne ka bahut man hai but kaise karu agar parents ko bola directly for arrange marriage and vo ignore krdein bas even when iam making 40-50k a month and online matrimony is waste of time , how to find a partner ? iam 24 years old man
Sir Thank you for clarity 🙏 specially for coming generation. Bahut acchi baat kahi aapne har insaan mahaan nahi ban sakta hai. Jo mahanta k kaam kar rha hai aur use feel hota h to shadi nahi karein lekin 99% are not doing any mahaan work and instead destructing themselves. Aur ye bhi baat bahut acchi lagi ki accidents hote hai. Indian marriages no doubt is very much syappa but at the same time it saves from so many bad things related to health mentally and physically. It gives you stability in life. It gives you true understanding of life. Thanks specially from future generation 🙏
Sir ji achariy prasant kamtlb ye nai ar sab keliye v bo nai bolte bo une keliye bolte hai jo logo dhoka dhadi chiting bure risate mai phase hau hai un realit truth samjha te aur ase risate chode ke aage jine keliye umidi daite hai kiu ki sare marriage sare couple semtari ka life nai jite kite loga apne marrige life mai painfull aap koto pata hi hoga ek galta insha bina soche samjhe chulia to life kinti kharap hoti hai ye hama ne khuda dekha hai kiy kiy sehena padata hai aap apne biyakatigat experience se mat bole sehi guidece dijiye
You get married so that you have somebody to witness and share your journey with. These are golden words. I never realized this truth. Family ke andar ek doosre ka, bachhon ka journey appreciate karna hi life hai.
Kya tha tumhari journey mein aisa jo share krana hai . Freedom fighter ho kya ho. Ek aam aadmi ki trh hi toh jee rhe ho usko kya golden words mein likhwana chahte ho
guruji super clarity given ....thank u very much , but how can we save ourself from prashant kishore type people because everywhere clarity giving people like you are not available..
Sir its really difficult for educated earning girls to find suitable groom in lower middle class. Most boys in this class r chappri n irresponsible n hav eyes on girls income n inside detest such independent girls who dont give them bhaav but hav eyes on her money.
Every class. It’s the same mentality of Most men across all socio economic strata. Difference is the middle middle and upper middle class boys do have jobs and education. Baaki Basic mentality Wahi hai.
@@gagandeepsharma7972i wanna marry!!…who are you to generalise all boys?…Ek ladki reject krde toh Tera ego hurt ho gya hoga and and ab shaadi nhi krni🤡
@@rahulgupta_1312 usne upar comment dekh kya likha hai "most boys in this class are chapri" Ye generalisation nhi laga tujhe ?? lekin mera comment tujhe generalize lag gya hai is bewakoof ko koi btao most of the boys in middle class are struggling and working hard No one marries a unemployed ye alag hi duniya mein rahti hai
You are right, for the most part. You are right in saying that when two people who shouldn't marry at all marry each other it ends up in divorce. However, it's even more of a torture when one person who is cut out for marriage marries someone who isn't cut out for it. In this case, neither will divorce happen easily nor can they find satisfaction in it. That's why everybody must think before getting married. Shaadi mein nuksaan aur fayde dono hai. Aur bachelorhood mein bhi nuksaan aur fayde dono hai. It all depends on a person's mindset. A bird can't force itself to swim and a fish can't force itself to fly. ❤
Happy to see a neutral opinion. Otherwise both parties make it look like that Marriage or Non-marriage are Heaven or Hell. Both have their own merits and demerits. There are both happily married and unmarried population and un-happily married and unmarried population. A lot depends on an individual's character too.
Being an old soul, I really appreciate your opinion Sir for clearing about Aacharya Prashant's wrong opinion about marriage, as being a girl I feel insecure if men will not marry and every men cannot be a sanyasi then they will get freedom to exploit women, they will have no fear of family and society
@@vijaylaxmi3305 baccho ka kya.. Relationship se janme baccho ki responsibility kaun uthayega..they will have to live with step parents.. Don't just think from one angle there are many variables to this equation..
@@azadjain8534 95% loyal? In which world are you living in. The percentage of disloyals can be much higher than 50%. Everybody seems to be loyal until caught.
Sir,please don't skip this comment Acharya prashant always focusses on one's liberation. You were saying that marriage is an important constitution of everyone's life but the reality is different *Answer my question* If two parents,who are not enough self-realised raise a child,then mental well-being of the child gets affected,and they evolve that child in their own terms without any conscience[now you may quote about those people who achieved the highest even though his/her parents were not so self-realised,and these kind of people only account for 1 percent of the population,that too achieved success by their own endless efforts with a little support from their parents] Do you think the relationship between parents and children is love❤? Most of the cases,It is just the attachment to each other that drives them together,the parents keep on investing upon the child for his/her needs like health,food,clothes,education etc. This *investment of money upon children creates attachment* This ignorant parents who are only attached to their children force them to follow the career paths which are lucrative in this era which return-invest the money that they have spent upon him/her and people consider this whole phenomenon as love[this is what happens when there is no love and the relationship is mere a attachment] Again these are the children who die by suicide during their youth thinking that they haven't fulfilled their parents' desires And you may argue with an example for love saying how a mother feeds their children by sacrificing her needs--this is also just a attachment which resulted from the social conditioning with which we are surrounded by. This is what happens when the parents aren't self-realised Here don't think self realisation to be any spiritual or a religious term,it is just about knowing one's own self about where he wants to go,and have crystal clear idea on why he is chasing that goal This is my straight question to you,sir-Was your respect towards your elder siblings/parents remained the same after you became financially independent??? You might say no, but when you introspect through the real world,you will come to know how mercilessly few people who became financially independent are leaving their parents in the old-age homes and where has the love gone b/w parents and children there after? The actual reason that there was no love at all between both parents and children[either sides] It was mere a attachment This is how pathetic the relationships are! When you marry without any conscience and this conscience comes from deep self-realisation This is what I have understood from acharys prashant's videos after watching hundreds of them
'If two parents, who are not enough "self-realised"' self realised - that is where Prashant brain washes people. Sorry to be so blunt, but that is my opinion
@@AnimeshSinghweb everything of what you depicted is fine but how can you stay being unwrenched even after watching those senseless parents exploiting their kids for their own benefits?
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Yes please we want detailed video on each points given in this video.
Your views are awesome. Yes, you are doing great.
Sir one video porn addiction par banaiye 🙏.
what your saying is also not true. most of married couples apni marriage doh rhe hai. Its purely burden because of false or change expectations, likes etc as well as his approch of no marriage for everyone is also bad. One should work on oneself continuously and that's true for most of people their child is their only project in their life but Most of people preferring not to get married is also inspired from bad parents marriages where they mothers are harnessed and father were mostly Workaholic similar reason for remaining single in JKC . India population should decrease most of population lives undernourished, don't get any meaningful work in life, destroyed natural resources, technologies anyway reducing need for population, most of population don't get good education as teacher student ratio gets bad when try to teach bulk population & increasingly without education human resource is getting useless, expensive & poor healthcare both public and private, 10% population providing for subsidies and building infrastructure be it services road, water, electricity, housing, providing for politicians and babus corruption, No money for Research, organisations can get away exploiting labour specially middle class, weak law n order. Take for example here 5crores people fill form for railway clerk whereas Japan total population is less than 5cr and they have 5 trillion economy 30 yr earlier. So quantity is useless unless can be put to good use. 10 crores indian population which can have good education & health care is fare better than 120crores with none of it
Your arguments were good but acharya ji is trying to give a new way of life ,this Indian society is too conservative and orthodox ,it doesn't even understand vedant PPL are getting married just like sheeps ,he wants to break this herd behaviour
Sir, actually the problem is not marriage itself but the type and kinds of people that you will see around yourself. Nowadays, hookup culture is very prominent in India, and it is known that it is much easier for a girl to find a sexual partner more so than guys. So, the problem comes when two people end up in marriage who have had very different experiences which in turn would have shaped their perspectives. I turned 30 this year and by God's grace, I am doing reasonably well in life and I can tell you that nearly every girl in my age group (late 20s even) has quite a body count. Marriages work when two people are at least semi-interested in each other, but nowadays, many girls (mostly) are just looking to 'settle' with some guy while they themselves have nothing to offer but sex - and even then, that too is not much because they have had coitus with so many people that they are now bored. The problem now comes to boys who have grown up in conservative families or did not have a chance to have a relationship or had no chance for hookups due to being focused in their careers and earning money. When such a marriage happens, obviously it is bound to break. I don't disagree with anything you said, but at the same time, it is a fact that divorce rates in India have gone up in the last few years. Finally, the point you made about the leap of faith - to do that, you need to be reasonably certain about the other person, not that we will not have any problems with them, but at least they will not abandon us when the problem comes. And, it is hard to be sure of anyone those days. Once again, I am not discounting anything you said, but the quality of people has severely gone down in the recent years, so the one who is going to provide or is capable of providing would need to think twice before making themselves available to being exploited in the first place.
Ekdom thik dada
@@AnimeshSinghweb Certainly, one needs to have standards to not accept anyone having partners in the past.
Virginity in both men and women is a time tested requirement for marital success probabilistically.
Moderns are such deniers of truths and hide behind words like compromise, acceptable blah etc...Won't work.
Every girl in your age group should be married under normal circumstances. If you are still unmarried that explains your over exaggeration, since it gets harder to find a partner after 30. You didn't mention if you are married, but I assume no because any married man won't have so much time, and would be happy and busy, not worried about body counts of women around. I rarely reply to comments like this, but I hope this message helps you. Please watch more of Amit sir's content as many doubts that you have he has already cleared in his previous videos, some public and some through his membership/webinars.
Regards.
@@MrShagiFpv Okay, so - yes, actually many girls I knew who were not into promiscuity and maintained a decent pre-marital life (no hookups, etc.) got arrange married already in their mid-20s. Now, coming to those in their late 20s, well, I was approached by many girls between 26-32 years, and upon doing some 'friendly' discussions, I figured that they either have had a very promiscuous past and were now just trying to find a 'safe' guy to settle down with, or they've had a breakup so bad that they haven't gotten over their exes. In both cases, they are emotionally used up (exhausted) and that is not the kind of partner you would want for marriage since it depends on both people to keep it going. Individually, I am doing quite well in my life, but I have worked hard to build myself career-wise, and any guy who has worked hard to become someone without any support from parents will not want just any girl to come into his life and f**k it up. Anyways, I am happy and busy individually - but the concept of body count is important, because there is an inverse correlation between the number of partners and the emotional availability of a person. And if you are going to be sticking with someone for life, you will obviously want that they are just as invested in the marriage as you are. Also, I think it is fine to not get married as long as someone isn't sure about it; as for the difficulty in finding partners, I don't know what is the case with girls, but for guys, if you are financially successful and have kept yourself even physically average/above average, you will have no problems finding a girl - given that you know how to make them laugh and talk.
@@AngshumanVI your thought process is partially twisted. Buddy, be careful that way you will never find anyone in life. It's your myth that only your hard work has got you where you are in your life. Success is an outcome of more than just hardwork. And so far as the girl is concerned, you seem to be looking down on everyone else while placing yourself on the topmost pedestal !
Problematic and narcissistic way of thinking
All right! What Acharya Prashant says is not very practical but he is not wrong. It is just that society is not ready yet to live a life of that high standards.
Most people will miss the point he is trying to make.
Exactly, the example which the Amit Sir is giving about nunu ka papa, that he is the real champ who is fighting with all the struggles for nunu, i want to clarify that acharya ji is simply asking, pls for once ask the champ, how is he feeling inside, he is so full of anxiety and stress yet he is forced to kill himself daily in his job because he has an additional nunu who should be fed with all his requirement. He so dearly wants to get rid of all this struggle but he has created additional responsibilities. And in what state of mind he has created them, early marriage, early child without knowing and understanding the realities of the world, now with these additional responsibilities (irreversible or very hard to reverse) he has created for himself ( pls remember in not a very conscious state), the champ is not left with much freedom to change his situation and live a free life. He is bound to continue living his life, be a slave in some office and even thinking of freedom from this life brings chills to him by the mere thought of not earning enough for his kid and family.
Pls for once ask nunu ka papa , is he really happy with the way he is spending or going to spend the rest of his life. Further saying that goal of life is that sustainability and what we will do with all that gyan, my mind is anxious , i am in a very stressful state, and the purpose of gyan is to relieve that anxiety, stress and freedom of the people who are in existence right now. It is certainly cannot be just to rotate the chakra of birth of child.
I hope i am able to pass on what i think about this.
Thank you.
Any one really exploring spirituality will not go after people like Acharya Prashant!
His spiritual ideas are funny and babyish and too bookish
He is a joke in front of Real gurus like Sadguru🙏
This shows you don't want proper society around you bhand bankar fir na hai .when you are disabled to take responsibility of any one this is simple way to escape from it.I do agree marriage is a strong consistiuton it should be followed properly.
@@creativehome3869 no sir my comment does not show that I dont want proper society. u need to read it and think clearly for some time. As i already said most people will miss the point U just proved it.
@@poojasharma-xc9un lol nothing can be said now
The truth is marriages have been successful in lndian society only because of wife's unlimited sacrifices and adjustments. Many marriages in previous generations were sustaing due to the sacrificing and adjusting roles of ladies. Today's girls don't want to do that. They know it what their mothers, aunts, and senior sisters have gone through.
Stop eating cooked food....eat fruits...women will be free from kitchen and life will be good or do household chores.
So true a woman's role is main in a marriage because a woman makes the house
A woman only sacrifices her career for her family, she sacrifices her work, her job life for a Child
So true 💯 maam
Nowadays many girls who are working they are not willing to have kids
@@nikitafernandes461please don't make your life hell, let's come together and fight with this marriage evil,so that we and other future generations can live peacefully like the European people especially the Nordic nations
True
Sir, you probably misunderstood Acharya's talk. I guess what Acharya Prashant meant was marry a person with certain level of spirituality n maturity, but don't go after a person with lots of extreme wealth n good looks etc only.
A spiritually inclined person will always have the resilience n maturity to understand his/her partner than a person who is rich n good looking but is lacking in maturity and wisdom.
What Acharya meant was person literally higher in spirituality, not in wealth etc
With 140 crore population Indians don't need to force themselves in marriage.😊
Congratulations your bloodline ends here😂 80 sal ki umar me jab marega to chita ko koi ag lgane wala nai milega
@@Rishu_4912Marne ke baad kaun sa pta chalega ki aag lagaya ki nhi ?
@@vaibhavchari8202 mrne ka process hi itna darwana hai btadia to rat ko so nhi paoge
@@Rishu_4912
Apne matlab k liye jo bacche paida karte h wo fir unpe ehsan jatate h ki hamne ye Kiya humne wo kiya
Matlab k liye bacche paida nahi krne chahiye ki Hume kon aag lagayega Marne k baad😂😂
Abe kya pata tumko tumhara end kaise hoga
Aur baccha kya pata aaye ho nahi Marne k baad aag lagane
To tumhara investment to doob gya fir 😂😂😂😂
Waiting for acharaya prashant ji's reaction 😂.....both of them ar correct from their point of view...but sir is more practical than prashant ji's view. Sir is more on how normal people function and their needs but prashant ji focus on deeper and deeper meaning of every institution..
Lagta hai vedio ko theek se nahi suna.
Dum Maro dum guru ghantal hai uska toh dimag kharam acharya prashant is achar voh bhi basssi ho chuka vala. Mr Sago talks sense.
Marriage is a dead institution in the 21st century. But we have someone defending it, thank you, uncle. Everybody slams marriage, but we need people defending marriage. Hats off uncle. Albeit you are doing it to sell more real estate, which is not as good as equity as far as investment perspective is concerned.
@dimplekataria406 marriage is dead because, you can be involved in relationships without a formal commitment
I am turning 43 this year 😅
Hardly 1 percent is unmarried above 40... How come marriage is dead institution? Is there any logic or just immature comment of a unmarried person.
@@dimplekataria406gradually our society is welcoming all these types of live in relationship n all such things
@pandeyrajjesh1 dimwit take. How many of these marriages would have happened or can survive without familial/societal values?
How many people are producing helathy children
Thankyou Sir for trying to spread clarity in the world of chaos. Your videos are a life changing and can reshape someone's mindset and save him from going a path of down fall. Keep your work going, kids like us do need to be taught true virtue in such manner.
being a follower of both acharya prashant ji and amit sangwan ji, I agree to this video, bahot km log hote hai jinko shadi nhi krni chahiye. wo apna raasta khud dhund lete hai , naa hi wo kisi ke vdos dekhte hai, aam janta ke lie being unmarried will act as a poison.
Exactly
That's exactly what acharya prashant said
Rightly said! 🙌
aam janta Mane kya?
Vaai yeh aam janta, yeh poison jo bhi bol rahe ho yeh ek prejudiced opinion hai, enquire and experiment karo toh kuch bhi sambhab hai. Agar kisi ko choti age se hi sikhaya jaaye ki happily jeene ko hai, saadi yaa phir baccha paida karni waloon cheez sab secondary hai, then yeh jansakhya 150 crore tak nehi pohochta jisme ham sab literally daabe huye hai, frustration ka mul karan hai yeh 1.5 billion people, overpopulation, unemployment, garibi, cheezon ka demand, land crisis itna sab kuch jhelne ke baad bhi itna immense suffering ke baad bhi agar koi baccha paida karna zaroori samjhe toh kya hi batana. Khud hi ham prithvi ko maar rahe hai, kisi bhi tark se. Already 480/sq k. Population density hai. Aur kitna chahte ho tum?? Ekdin yeh sab tark dete dete hi yeh nature humans ko hi tabah kar dega, extinct kar dega, woh kya accha hoga?? Woh hi shayad behatar hai tum jaise soch walon logo ke liye.
This is what I looked in my parents and this is what we need. Thanks for making us aware sir. Respect❤
Once a girl said i don't want to marry but my parents are forcing me to do so, to which acharya prashant asked,why don't you wnat to get married to which she said just like that. Phir acharya Prashant ne kaha aiso ki toh shadi hoti hi h
Thank you so much Sir!!! Brilliant video for all the youth following AP..
I had been following him for an year approximately and there was increase in bitterness within me. Also, when I went in the outside world for work, I felt like ye baatein baatein hi hain sirf asli dunia boht alag hai aur inki baaton se solution nahi confusion mil raha tha bas ... Sun na band kar dia ab sab thik hai..Osho ko sun sakte hai aur bhi boht tareeke hai life mein light aur khush rehne ke... unnecessarily itna burden carry karne ki koi zarurat nahi
AP ke toh face per hi bitterness and arrogancy hai . And his talks is not applicable in practical life you are right .
He is clearly saying if you believe in it, do it. If not, ignore it.
Where is the problem?
Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Millions of successful marriages exists and they are more successful than people who think it's burden.
People need to cope with contrasting opinions
Dekho..... Aap ko Acharya Prashant accha nehi lagta.... Iska matlab thodi na hai ki woh galat bata rahe hai?? Yeh nehi. Practical lives mein humans bohot suffer karte hai, bohot hi..... Matlab hadd se zyada ham suffer karte jaa rahe hai...... Kyunki hamari behoshi.... Aur galat tarike kaa jeevanjapan, agar koi luxurious lifestyle ke khushi ko vog raha hai aur dusre haath mein environment, climate and iss nature ko haani pohcha raha hai.... Toh yeh toh sarasar galat hai naa?? Toh Acharya ji yehi kehte hai..... Satya bolte hai woh, insaan galti karta hi rehta hai, seekh nehi leta, aur sab ko majboor karta hai kasht, peera dene ke liye, swarthi insaan hai sab. Inn baton ko samjhane ke liye ek bitterness toh zaroori hai.... Hai naa?? Agar bohot hi shanti se inn baaton ko AP bolega toh kaun shunega?? Pehle se hi haam andhkaar mein dube huye hai. Agar ham ek simple, kam se kam baasnayon se bhara jivan byatit karte toh Acharya jee ko itna bolna nehi padta. 🙏🙏
Namaskar Guruji, I am atheist hindu as you said. I tried to worship, but i saw my mind is more peaceful, productive, happy when i dont worry about god.
I had few family issues and it was spoiling my relationships with my wife and kids. All because of relatives, we were great earlier. We took a decision not to talk much with relatives and now we are great. Me and my wife talk like friends, we talk to kids have some fun all together, play with kids. We stopped all unrealistic expectations. We expect our kids to study average. And learn more on thinking, observing, happy so that they wont lose self confidence. Also i encourage them to do experiment and do mistakes rather than being correct.
You are wise.
👍🏻👍🏻
You are right , our most of the issues in marriage created by unnecessary interference of relatives , always better to maintain a safe distance with them .
@@anjusingh5082 When you maintain a safe distance, they think you do not want to keep relation with them.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 They should no their limits ( everyone has ), don’t interfere in others matter , neither allow them in your space .
A good marriage is a huge support in life. And making a marriage good or successful is not that difficult but definitely worth the efforts.
Sir agree with you 💯.
Right
Define a good marriage if possible?
@@sukantasahoo4278 A good marriage is a compromise for the welfare and peace of the children.
1. Population control is necessary for saving earth
2. Marriage is also association. Association with bad life partner is like as hell
3. Selective marriage with good life partner is compulsory for peaceful life
4. Purpose of marriage is firstly spiritual, moral and psychological support for truthful life
I disagree
Thank you Sir , for clarity on this. Keep guiding us ❤
This is personal with acharya prashant.. 😂😂😂
Love this counter view.. ❤
You r talking sense. Today the youth is confused .Youth should know what to do and what not to do for own Good . Self control , sex education , discipline etc should be worked on .Seek righ information , and learn that there is a right time to do anything . Be , eating, studying , working ,sex , sleeping etc etc .🙏🙏 Patience , being responsible person, morality , values are important to work on before getting married . You r so right Sir , hope the young understand ..🙏👍❤️
Marriage ke mamle mein Prashant ji is a big zero.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 or Global consumption ko rokne me big hero. which is the root cause of today's Environment change.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 Are you happy with marriage in this inflation period. How about children education expenses, do you afford children admission in 'first class' education classes which cost nearly around Rs. 1crore from nursery to 12th standard period. or you are going to put children into low quality educations. Do you manage to earn smart enough in economic recessions and layoffs.
These are the points Acharya Prashant putting in before thinking about marriage.
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So many well put points in a small video. True magic of an experiment speaker.... Immersive sir..... Your videos deserve to trend, i feel sad when i see others copying your stuff and making videos.
Bilkul sir ji, you are leading from the front in educating all of us on social,financial and psychological issues.
Shat shat 🙏
I just don't know sir what to say 🙏 You really need a standing ovation for speaking so frankly and truthfully! I hundred percent agree with u! I am happily married for the last nearly 40 yrs. Ours was an arranged marriage and we both worked hard to make it work. My son also is happily married for the last nearly 10yrs. I believe in the institution of marriage which in fact is the foundation of a good society. The day that institution deteriorates certainly the downfall of a society begins...You are a gifted speaker who really succeeds in convincing people regarding issues without showing aggression. I really want to salute u 🙏🙏
Many issues are present nowadays.. Earlier complexity in marriage were not that much. Now it's kinda of risky affair.. Aajkal to sbke Phrmaisy program hai.. Todha todha both parties should learn to sacrifice..Iss pr bhi bat honi chahiye ki marriage ko leke confusion itna kyu hua? Bss ye bol dene se ki shadi kr lo shadi nhi ho jati.. Kisi se bhi nhi kr skte.. Qki normal insan h to sonchna to pdega.. Bcz having lifepartner is one time affair.. Coins are not being tossed
Sir, all your points are very perfect, valid and shuts all the other opposite views. Thank you and please make videos to inspire and show right path to our youth.
Guru ji, you never confuse us. You always give pure clarity on every topic you talk about. Only once I have heard Prashant ji on youtube. After listening to him I immediately clicked on 'don't recommended this channel'. That much clarity we have gained from you that we can easily makeout who talks right and who talks insane. We can choose wise youtubers.
Following you for some months and found your videos very helpful in having clarity, very well explained.
Acharya Prashant is talking about uplifting of consciousness not material consciousness.
If someone needs one witness for one's life then it is ok.
Main thing is life has no meaning but majority can't accept it without being mad so they find the escape through meaning ( like kids, witnesses, God, spirituality, etc).
Neither birth nor death is decided by us so to engage ourselves with thought we make material or spiritual goals...
Be detached then nothing is needed. Still if you want to pursue job, marriage or consciousness and spirituality then go for it.
I agree that Dharma can't decided by only the writings in books.
Exactly .u told the truth .no one can give guarantee of ones ownself or for others.marraige is devotion and its just a skill of handling every situation.
8:05 --Realistically speaking. 'Giving' to frendship me nhi hoti hai aajkal. Spouse to door ki bat hai. And by the way, largely women marry because of the 'bio clock' and men marry because 'Abe tu aur kya karega!?' Nobody is thinking 'I want my spouse to witness me giving birth and then raising kids and loosing a job and then finding another.'
I know you're romanticizing it, but.... for an average man, 'marriage' is not optional, but its also not done out of the choice of heart. Its done because papaji keh rhe hain aur mosi ji keh rahi hain. 😶😶
how can you generalise nobody is thinking on this level? bro i think you hang around average people. You dont know the people with kings mentality, change the 5 person you hang around with
Aur samjho.
Right. AP trying to change it.
Thats the typical Hippi thinking 😅
I am not marrying because i don't want any women to go through labour pain. Lets free women from pregnancy.
Sir, you have completely nailed this issue... all married and unmarried people should listen to this video... especially people who are considering speration/divorce
i am turning 43 this year without marriage.
@@hemangshrivastava9561According to you, how's your life going? Were you single all the time?
@@hemangshrivastava9561so is that a achievement? Being married is also not a achievement but who has better experience and small fun of life.? And what great work you did? Did you fixed crooked laws of India?
I agree with you Sir that marriage is a "leap of faith" , no matter how much you know the other person before marriage, your spouse will surprise you in a good/bad way depending upon the situation. But if a person is getting married in late 20s or 30s then both the partners should know each other on a bare minimum level or see if the other person has the potential of becoming a friend and discuss important aspects openly! People in this age group are strong headed and marriage can break easily if they do not connect because Nibhane ki "chah" hogi tabhi nibhaoge!
Very very well said. Thank you for your contribution to society ❤
Very well explained! You have summarized it clearly.
Soo true..
Many are making it a fancy thing like not attaching with anything..Arey baba No getting attached with anything is also an attachment with something..
Similar as that of not believing in God is also believing in something..
We should we flexible to use our inner intuition to understand what works for us and what not..These things can't be briefed by any books including any Vedas..
Our country is too young for trying those western concepts like open marriage, Live in relationship etc etc..Let us leave those experiments to our children,we need atleast one more generation to witness any drastic changes..
Absolutely agree with your logical and critical analysis. Enjoying watching your videos and enhancing my levels of order of thinking.
Clarity .!! Thank you and please continue on this phenomena.
Great Mag, excellent clarity giving video for youth in present and future generation
I love discomfort 🤠
Too much fun Too much adventure 🔥🔥🔥 .
One Can't love anyone more than like an unmarried one
Yes . Life is struggle
Yes😊
ive been watching your videos for the past few months.. the amount of knowledge that you provide is immense. Full respect sir
Right you are.
Yes please we want detailed video on each points given in this video.
Absolute clarity giver
Much respect
Superb Video Sir.. this video was much needed, considering where youth is headed.. you are doing great work..I am glad I came across your channel..
You are the antidote. Thank you for coming out to address these issues boldly. Your sarcasm is amazing. Your style of explaining adds special effect. Highest level of delivery. 👏👏👏
Yes sir we need more videos on this topic
Myth of Give and take, completely changed.. thank u sir
To the point sirji. Apke points satisfy karte hai kyunki ye sustainable hai. Win win situation rehti hai sabke liye. No dominance required for anything.
Im amazed by the level of clarity u have regarding every phase n part of life.i too had issues with acharya Prashant's thought process n content.thanku sir for clarifying as a 21yr it was an eye opening video🙏
Before someone starts agreeing with this guy's opinion, let me tell you this guy is an astrologer, real estate agent and a marriage counselor as well. So be careful. He is like that WhatsApp uncle who takes offense at puny things and misinterprets the other person.
It is very amusing to see that someone is so practical & logical in your age. I wish all elderly people watch your videos & take some inspiration 🙏🙏
You are doing a great job.
This was a much needed topic.
Sir, what you said is true since thats how a society works. But what AP said is also true because he works for liberalization of a individuals consciousness. He didn't look down the marriage, he look down the marriages which is unconscious marriage.
Marriage is a defunct institution. 💔💔 Stay single stay happy. 🙏🙏
Best analysis Sir ,thanks for the guidance. 🙏🙏🙏
Sir,you have explained it so well.I agree with you on all points.🙏
आपने शादी से पहले वाली 7 tips जो दी जिसमें एक tip खर्चे के बारे में थी। मैं और मेरे माता पिता शादी पर खर्चा करने को बेवकूफी मानते हैं। हम तो कोर्ट में शादी कर लें। शादी में पैसे उड़ानें से अच्छा घर ले लो, या गाड़ी ले लो। पर अगर सामने वाले कहें कि हमारे एक ही लड़की है। शादी तो धूमधाम से ही करेंगे। एक ही बार होती है शादी। रिश्तेदार, जान पहचान वाले क्या कहेंगे । उस situation को कैसे handle किया जाए?
Are karni hi kyun hai barbaadi(shaadi) ? Jab roz alag alag varieties kha sakte ho to phir wahi ek hi baasi dal chawal khane ki kya jarurat hai. Pata nhi iss modern century mein bhi kaise kaise chutiye log rehte hain jo shaadi ke chakkar mein rehte hain🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 marriage=💩💩💩💩
Agar log shaadhi nahi krenge to loan lekar sangwan ji ke real estate kaun kharedega
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Wow! U r the guru everyone should follow.
बिल्कुल सही पकड़े हैं जो इंसान अपने फ्लैट बेचने के लिए ही बच्चे पैदा करवाना चाहता है 😂😂
Mere paas words nahi hai aapki taarif karne k liye . Soooooooo truuuuee . Aap hero ho really .bahut sach . BIG TRUTH .
Aapki tark Shakti excellent hey
Today's youth needs u
Keep going 🙏🏻
महोदय, जो विवाह नहीं करते न, उन्हें समाज में अधिक सम्मान मिलता है क्योंकि ऐसे लोगों को progressive ( प्रगतिवादी ) माना जाता है. मैंने स्वयं यह अनुभव किया है. और मेरे साथ भी ऐसा होता है क्योंकि मैं अविवाहित हूं और इस बात का मुझे काफी गर्व है. मेरा भाई भी शादी शुदा नहीं है. हम अपने शानो शौकत पर खर्च करते हैं. Foreign tours जाते हैं. ज़िन्दगी मज़े से कट रही है. मेरे शादी शुदा मित्र गृहस्थी में पिस पिसकर रह गए है. तनावग्रस्त है. Incerement के लिए भी तनाव में रहते हैं. Overtime करते हैं और अपनी सेहत बिगाड़ते हैं. लेकिन मैं और मेरा भाई हंसी ख़ुशी समय बिता रहे हैं. हमें boss blackmail भी नहीं कर पाते लेकिन जिनके बाल बच्चे है उनको blackmail करते हैं - तुम्हारा ट्रांसफर कर देंगे. हमें ट्रांसफर करेंगे, हमें कोई फर्क नहीं पड़ता, लेकिन बाल बच्चे वालों आतंकित रहते हैं. हम तो उन्मुक्त पंछी हैं - liberated. मैं तो नृत्य, रंगमंच, साहित्य में अपना खाली वक़्त बिताती हूं जिस कारण समाज में मेरी इज़्ज़त और बढ़ गई है. So, I am the winner.
Bahut badia madam , waah kya soch hai , main bhi aise hi rehta hun , sab mujhse jalte hain , aur fir batate ki life mein bahut kuch miss kar rahe ho shaadi na karke , main unse baat hi nahi karta ab , akele mein jo mauj hai woh saath mein kahan
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Thank you so much for you wrote over here. I got some clarity about single life. I will have decent earning and will roam the world and will have all the fun of life.
Yup freedom should also be discussed. We Never talk about good parts about not marrying
बुढ़ापे का क्या प्लान है? अगर काफ़ी बीमार पड़ गई तो कौन सेवा करेगा?
Hats off to you sir... Along with yours, I am watching Aacharya Prashant videos from long time... I respect him very much but the topic which you discussed is just outstanding the same questions were arising in my mind also... And here I must say you are 100% right 👍
😃😃😃 marriage means association..If you accompany with bad life partner....your life will be ruined...Vedant says, association with materialistic person is like as hell.
Disagree...
1. Population control is necessary for saving earth
2. Marriage is also association. Association with bad life partner is like as hell
3. Selective marriage with good life partner is compulsory for peaceful life
4. Purpose of marriage is firstly spiritual, moral and psychological support for truthful life
Namaste,
Today I got to know that you were one of the students of Deepanshu Giri Ji and have learned Vedic Jyotish. So this is my humble request that please bring some foundation videos on Vedic Jyotish on this channel clarity for youth. I am hopeful that you will guide.
Dhanyawaad🙏
How do you know this
Thank you sir for this video the youth really need this.❤❤❤
You are contributing a lot to develop the thinking of young generation for good society.
Thankyou so much sir 😊
Sir actually you are right for general public and yes in the smoothly running world people should happily do marriage but Acharya prashant want a mass audience to support his work to save the earth otherwise why the men will sacrifice his life, left IIM and IAS opportunities. He see that family is the unit of consumption and without stopping it we cant get rid of current global crisis. I saw same perspective on marriage by Osho and concluded that spiritual teacher see marriage as hindrance in the path of life mainly. but sometimes they also support those 10% marriage like marriage of kabir, ramkrishna. Now it is up-to the people what to choose and not just follow what one says , i mean if the calling is coming from inside after gaining so much knowledge and experiences that this work can be carried out without marriage as marriage impose various responsibilities then you should do that. same can be said to bhagat singh who choose to die by his own and know one said him to become deshbhakt.
Are bhai world ki tension tu kaiko le riya hai...itti tension hai to PM ko direct bol ki India ke laws ko fix kare....tu bhai apni simple zindagi jeene pe focus kar na bhaia....kaiko itta load le riya hai re tu
Are yaar meena bhai hoke itta complex thoght process leke chal rya hai...kya yaar
उसने कभी शादी के बारे में बात ही नहीं करी उन्होंने तो कभी भी मतलब जब कोई शादी के लिए पूछता भी था तो वह कहते ही थे कि मैं शादीशुदा नहीं हूं तुम गलती कर रहे हो मुझसे puchkar तुम्हारे पास आर्य जी बहुत ज्यादा ज्यादा बोलते हैं उसे चीज पर जो उन्होंने kiya hi nahi
In kaliyug, if one wants to grow spiritually he or she shouldn't marry so that time can be saved
Thats good, but if done in a natural way.
My Gurudev says, nothing artificial can ever give pleasure.
What Prashant is doing is, insulting and humiliating the institution of marriage.
This is not just wrong, but extremely hazardous for the society.
Why?
Any normal person, who has emotional and sexual needs, but is hesitant for responsibilities, he will get seriously misguided by Prashant.
Such a person can't become a proper sadhu, to dedicate his time and efforts for spiritual development since his other desires are unfulfilled, and hearing all this negativity, he cant even become a proper family.
Hence, न घर का न घाट का।
India has seen many stalwart sannyasis and saints, but noone has demonised grihastha ashram like this person.
Sir ji, these type of videos is why I watch your channel. Thank you for your work 🙏 ❤
After watching only two videos i am a big fan of yours now.thanku sir .people like u are the last hope of our society
Agree on every point. Westnize ho gaya hai indian mindset of young generations.
Don't judge every failed or fight in a marriage as your future.
Take proper decision and try to resolve. Social media ko dekh k decide karke marriage expectation and nautankiyan. Dekhlo aadho k divorse ho rhe hai. Coz shosha baji jyada thi
Fake and false expectations are wrong on both side of couple. Talk and talk and try to resolve.
You cannot rely on friends or gf/bfs all life. You need someone to take care for the whole life you have.
Jhagda toh gharwalo k sath bhi hota hai bhai behen mein hota hai. But divorce lena husband wife ka not a solution.
Everybody wants to be Hanuman, but no one wants to be Shree Rama. Hanuman could fly to Lanka and get Sita back for Rama....But Shree Rama choose to walk it to Lanka fight the battle and get his wife back.. That is why Shree Rama is the Maryada Purushottam...
that is why Hanuman choose sharanagati to Shri Rama
Nobody wants to walk the Right Path because it is the difficult path....
but we are called to do that.. because that only will we give us fulfillment..because that is our obligation.. our Swadharma ....Hope our youth realize ..This is why we say only the name of Shri Rama is more powerful than Lord Rama himslef..as we are called to follow the path of Maryada Purushottam.... for this reason that Lord Hanuman decided to stay back on earth ...
Yes Amit Sangwan ji you are Antidote to the society I understand your words and logic you share with us.
Thank you very much Sir for this kind of content.
very well said sir....every one should get married and carry it with honesty and love then really it is the pleasure, which can not express in words
I am turning 43 this year without marriage. I am not marrying because it will brings lot of legal complexities in my life due its patriarchal nature.
@@hemangshrivastava9561 mad respect to you
@@helloworld2054Thanks 🙏
Marriage is subjective topic person to person varies ,whom should marriage or not totally dependent on their requirements, but we have one common goal to go with high chetana and make our life better ❤
The reason I watch your video because you validate my thought and perception.
I am big fan of you ....very very practical....we need more people like you ........ the so called spiritual gurus deviating from main topic and confusing people...
Kya baat h sirji! You are truly India's Jordan Peterson :)
The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.-Albert Camus
I agree that sir logically debate..krte hain.good work...
Thank you sir, you gave me so much clearity 🙏
Sir more respect to you.. plz keep bringing such content.🙏🏼
ये आचार्य प्रशांत को कुछ साल पहले तक देखता था... गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांतों की मुझे अच्छी समझ है इसीलिए जब उन मूलभूत सिद्धांतों से उनकी बातों का विग्रह दिखा तो समझ आया कि जो आदमी गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांत ठीक से नहीं समझ पाया वो मुझे कौनसा दार्शनिक ज्ञान दे देगा।😅
You are the best antidote ever ..but we need more quantity...and even that you are doing by creating more consultants 😊
guruji shadi toh krne ka bahut man hai but kaise karu agar parents ko bola directly for arrange marriage and vo ignore krdein bas even when iam making 40-50k a month and online matrimony is waste of time , how to find a partner ? iam 24 years old man
40-50 k isn't enough brother marriage is not a game. Earlier 50 k were enough but now 1 lakh is essential to do marriages
@@jayzxd44001:14 u make 10 lakh then also won't be satisfied
Listening to you regularly has really made a big difference in my life....tahe dil se aapka dhanyawaad sango sir
Sir Thank you for clarity 🙏 specially for coming generation. Bahut acchi baat kahi aapne har insaan mahaan nahi ban sakta hai. Jo mahanta k kaam kar rha hai aur use feel hota h to shadi nahi karein lekin 99% are not doing any mahaan work and instead destructing themselves. Aur ye bhi baat bahut acchi lagi ki accidents hote hai. Indian marriages no doubt is very much syappa but at the same time it saves from so many bad things related to health mentally and physically. It gives you stability in life. It gives you true understanding of life. Thanks specially from future generation 🙏
Beautifully explained about institution of marriage. I have watched this video twice.
Sir ji achariy prasant kamtlb ye nai ar sab keliye v bo nai bolte bo une keliye bolte hai jo logo dhoka dhadi chiting bure risate mai phase hau hai un realit truth samjha te aur ase risate chode ke aage jine keliye umidi daite hai kiu ki sare marriage sare couple semtari ka life nai jite kite loga apne marrige life mai painfull aap koto pata hi hoga ek galta insha bina soche samjhe chulia to life kinti kharap hoti hai ye hama ne khuda dekha hai kiy kiy sehena padata hai aap apne biyakatigat experience se mat bole sehi guidece dijiye
You get married so that you have somebody to witness and share your journey with. These are golden words. I never realized this truth. Family ke andar ek doosre ka, bachhon ka journey appreciate karna hi life hai.
Kya tha tumhari journey mein aisa jo share krana hai . Freedom fighter ho kya ho. Ek aam aadmi ki trh hi toh jee rhe ho usko kya golden words mein likhwana chahte ho
bahut film dekhte ho beta 😂
Love you sir ❤ your knowledge is amazing and continue this awareness programs
Sir your content is superb.
Thank you 💛
guruji super clarity given ....thank u very much , but how can we save ourself from prashant kishore type people because everywhere clarity giving people like you are not available..
Sir its really difficult for educated earning girls to find suitable groom in lower middle class. Most boys in this class r chappri n irresponsible n hav eyes on girls income n inside detest such independent girls who dont give them bhaav but hav eyes on her money.
Every class. It’s the same mentality of Most men across all socio economic strata. Difference is the middle middle and upper middle class boys do have jobs and education. Baaki Basic mentality Wahi hai.
so dont marry even no boy is interested to marry
@@gagandeepsharma7972i wanna marry!!…who are you to generalise all boys?…Ek ladki reject krde toh Tera ego hurt ho gya hoga and and ab shaadi nhi krni🤡
@@rahulgupta_1312 usne upar comment dekh kya likha hai
"most boys in this class are chapri"
Ye generalisation nhi laga tujhe ??
lekin mera comment tujhe generalize lag gya hai
is bewakoof ko koi btao most of the boys in middle class are struggling and working hard
No one marries a unemployed
ye alag hi duniya mein rahti hai
@@gagandeepsharma7972 tabhi mai nit mai betha aur Tu aavara gardi kr rha
EXCELLENT WORK. THANKS
You are right, for the most part. You are right in saying that when two people who shouldn't marry at all marry each other it ends up in divorce. However, it's even more of a torture when one person who is cut out for marriage marries someone who isn't cut out for it. In this case, neither will divorce happen easily nor can they find satisfaction in it. That's why everybody must think before getting married. Shaadi mein nuksaan aur fayde dono hai. Aur bachelorhood mein bhi nuksaan aur fayde dono hai. It all depends on a person's mindset. A bird can't force itself to swim and a fish can't force itself to fly. ❤
Happy to see a neutral opinion. Otherwise both parties make it look like that Marriage or Non-marriage are Heaven or Hell. Both have their own merits and demerits. There are both happily married and unmarried population and un-happily married and unmarried population. A lot depends on an individual's character too.
If one is mentally prepared for marriage then go ahead.
Otherwise it is ok to remain single.
My 35 yrs marriage experience
Being an old soul, I really appreciate your opinion Sir for clearing about Aacharya Prashant's wrong opinion about marriage, as being a girl I feel insecure if men will not marry and every men cannot be a sanyasi then they will get freedom to exploit women, they will have no fear of family and society
Jisne gul khilaanay hain woh marital knot mein rehkar bhi khila dete hain.
@@vijaylaxmi3305 baccho ka kya.. Relationship se janme baccho ki responsibility kaun uthayega..they will have to live with step parents.. Don't just think from one angle there are many variables to this equation..
You are right.
@@azadjain8534 95% loyal? In which world are you living in. The percentage of disloyals can be much higher than 50%. Everybody seems to be loyal until caught.
I am turning 43 this year without marriage. I am not marrying because it will brings lot of legal complexities in my life due its patriarchal nature.
"144 crore hum aise hi chetna jaga ke nahin pahuche hai. Kuch aur bhi jaga hai humara"
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Sirji bahut naughty hai....
Nice clarity giver video
Ready to listen more contents on this topice
Sir, absolutely love how you dive into explanations. Glad I came across your channel
Sir you are the source of enlightenment for youth like us🔥
Keep showing your blessings like this🙏🏻
Sir,please don't skip this comment
Acharya prashant always focusses on one's liberation.
You were saying that marriage is an important constitution of everyone's life but the reality is different
*Answer my question*
If two parents,who are not enough self-realised raise a child,then mental well-being of the child gets affected,and they evolve that child in their own terms without any conscience[now you may quote about those people who achieved the highest even though his/her parents were not so self-realised,and these kind of people only account for 1 percent of the population,that too achieved success by their own endless efforts with a little support from their parents]
Do you think the relationship between parents and children is love❤?
Most of the cases,It is just the attachment to each other that drives them together,the parents keep on investing upon the child for his/her needs like health,food,clothes,education etc. This *investment of money upon children creates attachment*
This ignorant parents who are only attached to their children force them to follow the career paths which are lucrative in this era which return-invest the money that they have spent upon him/her and people consider this whole phenomenon as love[this is what happens when there is no love and the relationship is mere a attachment]
Again these are the children who die by suicide during their youth thinking that they haven't fulfilled their parents' desires
And you may argue with an example for love saying how a mother feeds their children by sacrificing her needs--this is also just a attachment which resulted from the social conditioning with which we are surrounded by.
This is what happens when the parents aren't self-realised
Here don't think self realisation to be any spiritual or a religious term,it is just about knowing one's own self about where he wants to go,and have crystal clear idea on why he is chasing that goal
This is my straight question to you,sir-Was your respect towards your elder siblings/parents remained the same after you became financially independent???
You might say no, but when you introspect through the real world,you will come to know how mercilessly few people who became financially independent are leaving their parents in the old-age homes and where has the love gone b/w parents and children there after?
The actual reason that there was no love at all between both parents and children[either sides] It was mere a attachment
This is how pathetic the relationships are! When you marry without any conscience and this conscience comes from deep self-realisation
This is what I have understood from acharys prashant's videos after watching hundreds of them
'If two parents, who are not enough "self-realised"'
self realised - that is where Prashant brain washes people.
Sorry to be so blunt, but that is my opinion
Agreed
@@AnimeshSinghweb There's no bigger crime in the World Than Giving Birth.
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@@AnimeshSinghweb everything of what you depicted is fine but how can you stay being unwrenched even after watching those senseless parents exploiting their kids for their own benefits?
you are the man of wisdom;
I fee family is everything!! Marrige is a beautiful journey. Salute to u sir!! More power to u...