Addressing The Criticism On My Marriage

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  • @simp_kun
    @simp_kun Před rokem +52

    They just wanted to say:
    “I wish I was him” or “It should’ve been me”

    • @TheLastInterista
      @TheLastInterista Před rokem +4

      😄😄😄 % 100

    • @SpawnedInTheHades
      @SpawnedInTheHades Před rokem +8

      One of them literally commented, "it should've been me!". I saw it with my own eyes.

    • @vasyear
      @vasyear Před 11 měsíci

      @@SpawnedInTheHades you're joking?

    • @SpawnedInTheHades
      @SpawnedInTheHades Před 11 měsíci

      @@vasyear I wish I was, but I am not.

    • @vasyear
      @vasyear Před 11 měsíci

      @@SpawnedInTheHades well the idiot if he was interested in the lady he should have made it is mission to win her heart otherwise he was just engaged in wishful thinking

  • @Noeruto
    @Noeruto Před rokem +19

    "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind." - Dr. Suess. Congratulations to the both of you (soon to be three), all the best!

  • @RaceCarFriends
    @RaceCarFriends Před rokem +17

    I don't know why anyone would criticize your marriage, I saw the photos of you guys together and I can tell that you guys are madly in love, no one should ever be upset about true love, I feel like you guys fit each other perfectly!

  • @dominichill1492
    @dominichill1492 Před rokem +23

    Hope you are doing well with your pregnancy Asagi. Also I'm happy for you in you're marriage ,and do not worry about what others think or say about your marriage.

  • @mariothibau1070
    @mariothibau1070 Před rokem +52

    It is unfortunate that some people in the community are leaving, but be happy that those who stay will be much more supportive of your work! This is what matters

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +9

      Yep, I'm optimistic about that in a long term 💪 Thanks so much for your super thanks support!

  • @calebschoonraad6810
    @calebschoonraad6810 Před rokem +21

    Congratulations on your pregnancy! I am happy you are both happy, do what you feel is best. That's what's important!

  • @enanthate
    @enanthate Před rokem +14

    The fact people have that kind of attitude is seriously creepy. Like those guys who turn into stalkers when their favorite idol/actress/whatever starts going out with someone.
    Since asagi is from Japan, where sh*t like that is pretty common, I'm sure that keeping all of this a secret crossed her mind a thousand times.
    Instead, she took a leap of faith and chose to put her trust in her followers, as if they were her best friends in life (such as the Chanel name), not only as a CZcams persona, and that's how these guys react huh.
    I can't stop but wonder how shallow is someone else's feelings, for them to lash out at someone they never met and probably never will just because she is taking a decision she made about her own life.
    It may end up good, it may end up bad? Who knows, but, as someone who is in "Asagi's Life" the best we can do is to cheer for the best. That's what a nice human should do.

    • @michaelrmurphy2734
      @michaelrmurphy2734 Před rokem +1

      I would say stalking is pretty common in America too. Not just Japan.

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +3

      I'm not even near an idol 😂 I hope noone has a para-social issue with me lol Thanks for your support though!

  • @DeadEndGoose
    @DeadEndGoose Před 9 měsíci +7

    I don't watch your content suuper regularly but ive watched in the background for a while.
    Tbh it was nice to see you holding a baby, my life has changed and yours has too. Keep making videos about your life, don't let people upset over your marriage bring you down.
    Also more dating advice please, i didnt realize how hard it is 😅

  • @keintabak
    @keintabak Před rokem +7

    Thank you so much for the courage to share your personal experiences with us. When I know for sure that I will have a future life in Japan, I will definitely contact you for dating and marriage advice 😊!

  • @jeffreyandrews6700
    @jeffreyandrews6700 Před rokem +58

    No one should be criticizing your marriage.
    It's your life, not theirs. You have to listen to your parents. No one else matters. Let them live their miserable lives. You will have your wonderful one, and we will always be there to support you.

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +13

      Thank you for your support 😊

    • @RsSquier51
      @RsSquier51 Před rokem +11

      Have to disagree of the "Have to listen to parents" part. Marriage is a personal decision between the couple and no one else. Happy for Asagi and Justin.

    • @jeffreyandrews6700
      @jeffreyandrews6700 Před rokem +1

      @@RsSquier51 So, let me see if I understand you. You don't think a person should listen to what their parents have to say about something important and either follow their advice or not. I think that would be incredibly rude for them not to even listen to what they had to say.

    • @RsSquier51
      @RsSquier51 Před rokem +1

      @@jeffreyandrews6700 You said "HAVE" to and no you don't HAVE to listen to what everyone thinks and wants you to do. It is a choice and not a requirement.

    • @jeffreyandrews6700
      @jeffreyandrews6700 Před rokem +1

      @@RsSquier51 Yes obviously.

  • @renton1518
    @renton1518 Před rokem +7

    The best thing about criticism is that it’s usually not constructive and it’s someone opinion, and while everyone can have an opinion most of the time it doesn’t matter and can live how we want to! I think you having a happy relationship is great and I wish the best for you and your new family.

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +1

      Actually, you're right. Everyone has an opinion (even though unconstructive) and that's why CZcamsrs can grow their channel... 😏😏😏

    • @renton1518
      @renton1518 Před rokem

      @@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan exactly criticism can be annoying but it’s up to you to care or not about them.

  • @Azari_D
    @Azari_D Před rokem +63

    It's gross to hear about women's channel shrinking when their followers find out they're in a relationship... some people think that they will end up dating a youtuber or streamer they follow or something?? Also, it's awesome to hear that you're happy and content with your relationship and I appreciate the advice you give! You're a very wise person

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      @christopher9727 Před rokem

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    • @RarebitFiends
      @RarebitFiends Před 11 měsíci +9

      The parasocial relationship is powerful for some lonely people.

    • @Newtination
      @Newtination Před 11 měsíci

      agree - but, wouldn't ever see a young woman (or man) as wise though lol - *especially* about dating & life.

    • @grayson8633
      @grayson8633 Před 11 měsíci

      this kind of mindset has been an issue for a longgggg while..and it wont be the end of it sadly

  • @Simbacu
    @Simbacu Před rokem +6

    GURL you do you ok, why people criticize your marriage is just mind boggling for me, cause like people should be allowed to do as they please, so don't let people put you down, live your life the way you want to my friend, my heart goes out to you ❤❤❤❤

  • @ricdale7813
    @ricdale7813 Před rokem +173

    Most of the marriage criticisms are from lonely and jealous people who enjoy judging others through a computer keyboard. No mater what path you choose there will be a group of Haters. Congrats on the Marriage, Child and this new adventure you have taken on. I am very happy for this new chapter in your life.

    • @MattMatt77
      @MattMatt77 Před rokem +9

      What you said is true But at the sametime... Those comments aren't really negative. They sound more concerning than anything else. Like anyone can be someone who they aren't for a short period of time. You also don't know if someone will be a good father or a good husband within that short of time as well. That's not really negative saying that because we aren't marrying the guy. Now it would be negative for me to say that I find it interesting that it's yet another Asian girl marrying a basic white guy, and from other guys she was interested in like the guy from CA. It seems as if that's what she's interested in. Personal looks doesn't lead to a happy marriage but you can call my opinion negative on that.

    • @reggielacey2235
      @reggielacey2235 Před rokem +2

      I enjoy being lonely

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +9

      Thanks! Not sure if all come from jealousy but I just thought some people are being judgemental on other's relationship without knowing what's really going on.

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +11

      ​@@MattMatt77 I wouldn't say negative, but your opinion is based on a lot of prejudice and assumptions so it's not worth for me to listen to anyways. Sorry not sorry!
      Btw, thanks for still staying my channel.

    • @MattMatt77
      @MattMatt77 Před rokem

      @@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan "but your opinion is based on A LOT of prejudice and assumptions" 🤔... Well if that alone gave me my opinion. You should understand where I'm coming from 👍
      But it soli came from me walking out the door and speaking about what I see. Not to mention you yourself is a perfect example. There are a lot of Asian man that don't want to marry a person that is older or have kids with them. But white men are different. Not to mention how people in Asian countries see white men as people with high value in having a lot of money. Any other race they see them as a lower class. This is coming from a person that is mixed race.

  • @Felipe-Gonzalez
    @Felipe-Gonzalez Před rokem +5

    I don't understand some people 🤷🏻‍♂️
    Praying for the best for you and Justin and bub ☺️🙏

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +2

      Sadly there are always that type of people. I'm still blessed that I have supporters like you 🤗

  • @mariothibau1070
    @mariothibau1070 Před rokem +2

    Dear Asagi san I really appreciate your CZcams work! Thanks for giving some toughts to my comments! Best wishes for your family i think it will all work out very well

  • @youtubeviewer7122
    @youtubeviewer7122 Před 10 měsíci

    So far I love the advice you've been giving. I'm new to your channel but I'm so happy I found it. I'm watching all your videos in search for one that might be helpful to me on my situation. Ive enjoyed each one so far. Do you have any videos that advise how to find someone in Japan? Ill keep watching,,

  • @jimmyxflare7347
    @jimmyxflare7347 Před rokem

    glad to see how things moved fast for you :) happy you found someone who makes you really happy

  • @inuinuinuinuinu
    @inuinuinuinuinu Před rokem

    Love your thoughts on this, they really resonate with my own experience! I also love the small Japanese expressions that come out sometimes when you talk. 😊

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem

      I'm glad you enjoyed. Haha yeah I tend to mix Japanese expressions during livestream 😁

  • @prism223
    @prism223 Před rokem +2

    My grandparents on my mom's side only knew each other for 1 month before getting married, and they stayed together until my grandfather passed away after over 50 years of faithful marriage and raising 4 kids together.
    So I have a personal example that knowing someone for years and years before committing to each other is not the only way to have a good marriage. Best to you and your marriage Asagi 👍

  • @junbinseo2978
    @junbinseo2978 Před rokem +3

    And you know it's the loneliest people out there. People who either can't stay in a relationship for longer than a couple weeks - months or just people who have never been in a relationship and see you as some sort of idol to be untouched. It's so sad. Hope everything goes well for you and your loved one and congratuations on giving birth to Hiro. Really adorable baby, may he have a bright and long future with his two lovely parents.

  • @ECG3485
    @ECG3485 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Asagi-chan, I'm actually happy for you, your husband, and your newborn child. I think you're building a wonderful family, and you deserve a lot of love and support in this new chapter in your life. As a guy who's been single my entire life and never had a romantic date but has no regrets, I'm just disgusted by other single guys who are too quick at criticizing your marriage. Just ignore those haters, stay strong and you'll be alright ❤

  • @hirenvadher1782
    @hirenvadher1782 Před rokem +17

    Forget what others think including family members, friends, relatives and the wider community! If they don’t like it, they can “Adios Amigos!!”

  • @iammovingtokorea
    @iammovingtokorea Před rokem +2

    All the best to you, Asagi!

  • @alexb859
    @alexb859 Před rokem +7

    Your and Justin's marriage is awesome, and should not to criticized over

    • @michaelrmurphy2734
      @michaelrmurphy2734 Před rokem +1

      OH! Jason or Justin? Did I get his name wrong?

    • @alexb859
      @alexb859 Před rokem +2

      @@michaelrmurphy2734 it's Justin :) you got it right :)

  • @shimarisu595
    @shimarisu595 Před rokem +3

    1. Japanese ladies traditionally married at 25, then it moved to 31.
    2. Courtship in Japan was usually year(s) not months.
    3. When you're an advisor (expert) on something, you attract critics.
    4. Make your self a public figure (eg. on CZcams) and critics x1,000 !
    5. Your life is your life, make the best of it.
    Being that I'm a American and my wife is Japanese and we've been married for 29 years, I think I come from a place of experience. First, the "traditional" view of women in Japan is that they are like Christmas Cake (if you lived there you'll get it) but that view has become more Oshogatsu (New Year's) Cake. Second is that traditional dating to marriage lengths in Japan was typically a long process that took year or more depending on the family (I dated mine for 3 years before the family approved), so when its only a few months then it will beg questions of family and friends. Third, when you brand yourself as a relationship advisor there is always going to be criticism of just that alone (not even considering the first and second points). And finally fourth, you're on CZcams! What do you expect, blanket praise, support and love? You made your life public and people that make their lives public are going to get negativity. My wife and I live very quiet lives and as such no drama. We aren't famous to anyone (except our child and the grandchildren) or rich, nor would we ever want to be. Everyone sacrifices certain things in order to gain other things in life, the idea that you can have it all is a false ideology. I can only speak from my frame of reference as a American who lived in Japan for seven years, loved it for it's rich history, culture and people (both the good and the bad) as much my wife has of things that are American. So in conclusion, if you don't want criticism then make your life private. You will still have to deal with the neighborhood housewives but that is also life in Japan (I bet he doesn't know that yet right?). Just live, love and make it the best life you can and accept what becomes of it.

    • @nellivilhelmiina
      @nellivilhelmiina Před rokem +2

      Everyone knows putting your life online is gonna attract crirics, but it’s also okay to wanna defend your point of view or explain yourself. She can tell the world about her personal life if she wants to and also comment on backlash if she wants to, it’s not like you are obligated to take shit from others even if you’re online 😃

    • @shimarisu595
      @shimarisu595 Před rokem +1

      @@nellivilhelmiina I can fully agree with that, you should always defend what you believe is right. The only thing I'm saying is that don't put yourself out there and expect that everyone will agree and support what you say or do. Americans can be openly judgmental, but Japanese are quietly judgmental. You can imagine for yourself which is worse. I hope her husband is up for the challenge.

    • @nellivilhelmiina
      @nellivilhelmiina Před rokem +1

      @@shimarisu595 i think the internet is openly jugmental, it has always been like that. People say way too harsh things online, things they would never say to other person’s face, no matter the country. Anyway, I don’t think she expected everyone to agree.

  • @Peter1912
    @Peter1912 Před rokem +2

    You're both lucky to have each other 🙏 Wish you all the best as a married couple and soon to be parents. Exciting times ☺️ There always going to be negative people judging, but as i always say, It's their own issues and frustrations they project on others. Also side note: Happy to see Bird Up on the board keeping it up for the OG boys 💪
    Wish i could join the streams more often. Miss my people, Take care now

  • @iansteels9195
    @iansteels9195 Před rokem +7

    Your personal life is nobody's business but yours.

  • @Saitoisis0nfire
    @Saitoisis0nfire Před rokem +3

    Oh, got it now! I believe that if each other has the expected requirements for a life together as goal, why not give it a try? Like, how much time is enough to know someone? 10 months? 10 weeks? 10 years? Nobody knows!

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +1

      Exactly. Each couple has a different story. Some need more time to figure out, some don't need much. Keep your mind open! 👐

  • @ChristopherVaughn
    @ChristopherVaughn Před rokem +1

    Congratulations on your marriage. Live your life with joy & happiness.💖

  • @alienrefugee51
    @alienrefugee51 Před rokem +1

    In the end, you have to make your choices on what you feel is good for your life and what makes you happy. Walk the path and see where it takes you. You can listen to the opinions of those close to you, but you have to pursue what is in your heart.

  • @SalvableRuin
    @SalvableRuin Před rokem +3

    I agree: 5 months isn't long enough to know someone. Hence GETTING MARRIED lol. Asagi has plenty of time to get to know her husband after marriage.

  • @colinwaite697
    @colinwaite697 Před rokem +3

    Wishing you all the very best, Asagi. Don't listen to negatives. Only the positives. X

    • @deliriouswhome1
      @deliriouswhome1 Před rokem +2

      This terrible concept to have, even if people criticisms have no weight, it's important to self reflect and not surround yourself with people who will never challenge your decision making.
      I can't think worst thing than having a bunch of cheerleaders , who do not have your best interest in mind.

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem

      ​@@deliriouswhome1 I agree with what you say, but that doesn't mean we should listen to random critiques on the internet lol
      As I keep saying in the video, keep your mind open. Talk to relationship consultant or friends for third opinions. And you make your own decisions.

    • @deliriouswhome1
      @deliriouswhome1 Před rokem

      @@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan is it really random , if it's coming from a place of concern. Keeping your mind open goes both ways. Of course naturally youll want filter out what is and isn't beneficial too you,
      Your misunderstanding my post, if you believe your not full control over your choices. Dwelling on those that don't care , causes stress , in my opinion you should focus on other things but not completely close out the thought of gaining advice..
      As far your situation, I'll be honest I don't really care enough about it to have an opinion, I will say however I hope you enjoy being a mother to healthy baby.
      May you find comfort in being a mother, and God bless.

  • @dranzerkai6051
    @dranzerkai6051 Před rokem

    Congratulations on your marriage! Don't worry or listen to the haters. Many people think they have a high moral ground and use that to judge others when in actuality they are being petty.
    You should just do what makes you happy as your life is yours alone. If people start listening to everyone ans care for what every single person says, we'd just suffocate and live with regrets. Just be happy and live life without regrets.
    Hope you have a wonderful married family life ahead!

  • @davidbrink3328
    @davidbrink3328 Před rokem +4

    Thanks! and i’ll always enjoy your CZcams videos hopefully you and Justin are doing good 👍 be safe

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +3

      Thanks so much David 😀 I'm glad you enjoy my content and that's my motivation to go on!

  • @sheldongeorge6953
    @sheldongeorge6953 Před rokem

    Very very happy for you Asagi, continuous blessings 😇🇹🇹

  • @darthioan
    @darthioan Před rokem

    Congratulations! I wish you all happiness and health!

  • @fetalgenocide
    @fetalgenocide Před rokem

    I think it's great you are happy and i wish you two (for now two) many blessings and much happiness going forward ❤

  • @drusillathetinsmith
    @drusillathetinsmith Před 11 měsíci

    Your life, your marriage, your business. I'm happy that you share parts of your life with us. It's all good.

  • @_momosumomo
    @_momosumomo Před 7 měsíci

    Kudos to you on a very mature and thoughtful response to those criticisms. And congratulations again. Happiness is all yours to keep and nothing you need to justify or defend.

  • @arthurwanderstheworld
    @arthurwanderstheworld Před 11 měsíci +1

    I'm happy you found love and got married. ❤❤

  • @PortMourant
    @PortMourant Před rokem

    We support you ❤️

  • @MarcusJohnson-zm2ev
    @MarcusJohnson-zm2ev Před rokem +1

    No worries Asagi about the shrinking viewers. It's only for a season. More will continue to join because you have good content. I think the viewers who left were only crushing on you and not your message. Let them go haunt someone else hahaha. But as for your faithful viewers, we are here for you regardless.💛🎉

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem

      Yeah I'm optimistic in a long term actually. Thanks for sticking with my channel ☺️

  • @sergeiv7432
    @sergeiv7432 Před rokem +1

    You are as elegant as always. It's amazing!

  • @mken23
    @mken23 Před rokem +1

    Whatever makes you happy and having a happy life. Screw the other people. I’m glad you’re happy!

  • @themountainwanderer
    @themountainwanderer Před rokem

    I have learned that as far as relationships one should be very careful to generalize. Every person is different as so are relationships. You can meet someone who seems to be a perfect match, take your time and get to know them before tying the knot and it can still all fall apart eventually. People do change. Then sometimes you can meet someone for the first time you just know it is the right one... What's important is to listen to those close to you and at least consider what they tell you, don't let your relationship isolate you from family and your social circle and never get too comfortable. It's a constant nurturing that's needed to keep a happy marriage. Good luck!

  • @vinceb3811
    @vinceb3811 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Congratulations for your marriage! I wish you the best for you and your family.
    And I like your Chanel. 👏

  • @hemehenr
    @hemehenr Před rokem +1

    Keep up the good spirit!

  • @JohnHugo
    @JohnHugo Před rokem +1

    You said you are happy and that’s all that matters! 👍

  • @michaelrmurphy2734
    @michaelrmurphy2734 Před rokem +1

    Why would viewers leave your CZcams channel? I love hearing what you have to say.
    And typing in on the chat. Say hello to Justin and all the best with your new arrival!

  • @Krunchbyte1
    @Krunchbyte1 Před rokem +2

    Lol if anything, you being married is like a certificate of authenticity
    I should totally expect someone giving advice on dating to be married or dating someone. That's... Why some people are here, to learn more about how to date or get married.
    Personally, I like your other content, too! I hope you can get some traction back. It's silly that folks ran off because you're happy and married, but sadly predictable. At the end of the day, every relationship is different. It's good that you're happy, whether it took 2 weeks, 2 months, or 2 years. I hope y'all stay happy together till you're gone, that's how it should be.

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +2

      Thanks for your support! Definitely try my best to keep the channel entertaining 😉

  • @ganndalf202
    @ganndalf202 Před rokem

    I wouldn't say it's shrinking, I think your viewers are switching from quantity to quality. I personally started to watch you more and more lately exactly because of you sharing your life with us. Isn't it sad how people just hate on international relationships? I'm in one with a Japanese person so boy I heard it all already, all the judgement and prejudice and stereotypes so I get it can be frustrating but I'm trying to take an example from you and try to not get bothered by it. If you are in an international relationship I learned that you just can't listen to people because you will have people all in your business for some reason. I still struggle with our cultural and mindset differences so I'm trying to watch people who are also in international relationships because other people will just not understand how different it is. Thank you for adressing these issues, it gives people like me courage and hope.

  • @naturalselfyoga1617
    @naturalselfyoga1617 Před rokem

    Congratulations! Lots of guys probably watch you hoping to meet and date you. They are jealous. The worst part of living is being alone. Now you have someone. That's really all that matters. You have a great attitude and u wish you well!!

  • @bombomos
    @bombomos Před 11 měsíci

    Congratulations!!!!!

  • @jamesclancy8091
    @jamesclancy8091 Před rokem

    Congratulations!

  • @d_sage
    @d_sage Před 10 měsíci

    Asagi ... Always remember that you are an incredible person! No matter what happens.

  • @wilfredocruz6728
    @wilfredocruz6728 Před 11 měsíci

    Congrats and best wishes

  • @JohnMcKeesWorld
    @JohnMcKeesWorld Před rokem +1

    As long as if you are happy who cares what others think. Congratulations!

  • @Etereys
    @Etereys Před 11 měsíci

    Congrats 🎉 to you & your now husband on your marriage! 🎉 I remain a follower & will continue to watch your vids.

  • @airgaborpara3824
    @airgaborpara3824 Před 11 měsíci

    Big congratulations for three of you. Happy Baby Boom and Marriage. Japan need many open minded English speaking woman with 2-3 kids. Good luck and good health, lots of love and empathy. Please treat each other with 100 % honesty and kindness. Its easy to be good. If a man get fully respected without demanding crying baby wife the will treat you as a princess forever!!!!!❤

  • @akkamal6999
    @akkamal6999 Před rokem +1

    In the end, being happy is all that matters

  • @johnLee-bb2do
    @johnLee-bb2do Před 5 měsíci

    I have just diescovered your chanel. I do follow some YTUBE channels focused in Japan. I know that I am late to the party. But as I have gotten older (60+ years), I have realized that you can get to know somebody very well within a couple of months. My experience is that the vast majority of people (men and women) are solid steady individuals. Your antenna can pick out sociopaths. As I have gotten older, I am now of the opinion that long courtships are detrimental to having a long-lasting marriage. Long courtships are an excuse to do nothing in a relationship. The most important thing is if both sides to be married and make a life with someone. That determines the success of a marriage, not the length of your courtship. Keep up the good work.

  • @ltap9388
    @ltap9388 Před 7 měsíci +1

    I am very happy for you and your husand and child. Congratulations for having a wonderful family together.

  • @FernandoHernandez-mb8ph
    @FernandoHernandez-mb8ph Před rokem +1

    Congratulations I hope for the best for you and endless happiness and joy

  • @boycottwarhammer6016
    @boycottwarhammer6016 Před 4 měsíci

    Asagi gives me hope, I will strive to be the best I can be and hope to be a good person

  • @yannick5099
    @yannick5099 Před rokem

    A friend of mine has married after like 2-3 months of meeting his partner, another married only after the second child and waited several years. Both marriages work great. Some people connect nearly instantly and some need time to develop the relationship over time. Do whatever works/feels best for you.

  • @athernandez666
    @athernandez666 Před 11 měsíci +1

    "I don't care but I will make a whole video about it"
    Ok.
    Anyways, my best wishes for you both. There's many ways to do things right in life. Marrying someone after having dating them for 5 months it's ok even if it ain't that common. So just keep doing you.

  • @TsuriaDragon
    @TsuriaDragon Před rokem

    I’m an lonely person as well and sure at times I’m jealous of other people’s marriages but that doesn’t mean I can go around saying terrible things to others that’s one way to show your not ready to be marry if you’re jerk to other people. Sorry to hear your dealing with difficulties but sadly that is life don’t let it ruin what gift you been given enjoy it to the fullest and remain faithful.

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +1

      You seem like a guy with good heart. Wish you good luck with your dating life 🍀🤞

    • @TsuriaDragon
      @TsuriaDragon Před rokem

      @@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan Thankyou Kindly, I'm being patient and working on myself to be ready for my future wife someday. Cant' wait for that day 🥰

  • @Simbacu
    @Simbacu Před rokem

    I have no criticisms asagi, I congratulate you to your marriage cause I know you had to put a LOT of thought into it, it's not an easy decision my love (not as in MY love, you're not my love 😂😂 it's a kind saying in united kingdom it's a kind gesture we say) but yeah it's you're life, not anyone else's so please don't let them put you down 🎉🎉❤❤😊😊

  • @Foamhead
    @Foamhead Před 11 měsíci +1

    Asagi,
    There are a lot of guys who have a fetish for Japan and Japanese girls, we often call them "wapanese" or "weeaboo". There are also a lot of guys in general who just have a thing for Asian women which is called "yellow fever". I can guarantee you most of the people criticizing you or leaving fall into those categories. Getting married shattered whatever fantasy they had about you, or they're simply unhappy because they want you to remain single and "available". These guys never cared what you had to say so you haven't lost anything important. Keep doing what makes you happy.

  • @boredinczechia4382
    @boredinczechia4382 Před rokem

    Just be happy!

  • @georgeguevara9502
    @georgeguevara9502 Před rokem +1

    🤔The problem with some human beings is that they are not aware of their surroundings. They blindly believe that everything close to them is the whole world with all its details and intricacies. But not. Most of the time, it's just a couple of blocks from them houses and a very small group of so-called friends on Facebook. It is the mania that most people have these days, to make categorical criticisms with a very small portion of information. They are capable of making a fictional trilogy if they set their minds to it. But the truth is that as detectives, this type of person would starve to death. Everyone has their reasons and motives, especially when making decisions as important as marriage. Those who criticize will never know if they don't live it in their own flesh.

  • @chelollo
    @chelollo Před rokem

    Hi Asagi.
    Hope you are well.
    Did you already have to order the birth taxi?
    What an exciting week.
    Will we see Asagi live on Saturday?
    Best wishes for the three of you.
    Have a good time.

  • @mkelly534
    @mkelly534 Před rokem

    Thanks!

  • @SirDerpofCamelot
    @SirDerpofCamelot Před rokem

    Congratulations on your marriage

  • @rain1676
    @rain1676 Před rokem

    Many blessings to you sister. Ignore those jealous comments.

  • @bobculwell5375
    @bobculwell5375 Před rokem +3

    Have a wonderful day, Asagi, and I hope the conclusion to your pregnancy is as easy as possible.

  • @hmshood9212
    @hmshood9212 Před 11 měsíci +1

    I’m glad you’re happy Asagi, foreigners are very sweet people to Japanese women.

  • @Mon_55
    @Mon_55 Před rokem

    If they unsub simply because you got married and will start a family, they weren't truly here for you. For me personally, yes I understand where they're coming from, but I've heard stories of people getting married almost immediately because it just felt right.
    Sometimes the relationship last, sometimes it doesn't. I always hope things work out regardless and that the couple will be happy together. We don't need more negativity in the world.
    Wishing you the best Asagi~

  • @jessesummer-lavigne269
    @jessesummer-lavigne269 Před 10 měsíci

    You gained a new subscriber!

  • @yonathanasefaw9001
    @yonathanasefaw9001 Před rokem +1

    Asagi, forget about the haters, do you and I wish you all the happiness in your marriage even though you said you were already happy.

    • @MikeTheGamer77
      @MikeTheGamer77 Před 10 měsíci

      IT's not always about being a hater. It is genuinely concerning the speed at which people seem to get married. 5 months is INCREDIBLY short.

  • @3334001
    @3334001 Před 11 měsíci

    Congratulations 🎉 I hope to see you with Erik surf 6 again 🙏😊

  • @printmaster43
    @printmaster43 Před rokem

    You're beautiful, and a wonderful person. Those haters are just jealous that they aren't married to you. I wish you all the best. ✌

  • @KingHayabusa384
    @KingHayabusa384 Před rokem +1

    Congratulations on you pregnancy and marriage.

  • @MrEllahrairah
    @MrEllahrairah Před rokem

    Im an American guy and met my wife while I was living in Japan (Japanese of course). We dated for less than a year before getting married. It will soon be our 20 year anniversary. When you know it.. You know it...

  • @Fitnessglowdoor
    @Fitnessglowdoor Před rokem

    'Can't load link' of your Playlist link

  • @yeroun1974
    @yeroun1974 Před rokem +1

    Your happiness matters. I wish the critics will find the same happiness in their lives.

  • @Playreadygamers
    @Playreadygamers Před 3 měsíci

    i used to judge people, but now that its happen to me or because i know of 1 or 2 times it worked out its ok now LOL...i dont use dating sites and i judge people for it even though i said hey if it works it works

  • @hikkipedia
    @hikkipedia Před rokem +1

    I'm sorry you're getting so many hate/critical comments. Glad you are living your best life anyway!

  • @martinmurph1
    @martinmurph1 Před 4 měsíci

    LOL I met my future wife through a mutual friend, we dated for three months, then got married. That was 36 years ago. Gambatte!

  • @tommywalker1631
    @tommywalker1631 Před 10 měsíci +1

    What's sad is that when female content producers get spouse they lose subscribers and get hated on.

  • @moneybubble333
    @moneybubble333 Před rokem +1

    How long were you guys together before you got engaged?

  • @Citroeniste
    @Citroeniste Před rokem

    No one has the right to criticize your marriage! It's your life and people must respect whatever your decisions are. We support you 100% Congratulations on your Marriage!

  • @AncestorEmpire1
    @AncestorEmpire1 Před rokem +2

    I’ve seen some of the comments, much jealousy and envious they are.

    • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
      @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan  Před rokem +2

      Not sure they all come from jealous, but I certainly think they are being critique as if they know everything about me 😅

    • @AncestorEmpire1
      @AncestorEmpire1 Před rokem

      @@AsagisLifeNoBSJapan I don’t understand why they would criticize.
      This should be of the happiest moments. It should be celebrated with a toast.

  • @Squirelockholms
    @Squirelockholms Před 6 měsíci

    What’s crazy is I JUST saw a video about a Japanese weather girl who basically got cancelled because fans found out that she had a boyfriend.
    I don’t understand… Japanese women deserve happiness too, regardless of fame.

  • @rayl2111
    @rayl2111 Před rokem

    Only thing I would say, I was hoping we would marry but I admit we have never met 😀

  • @timmccrady6571
    @timmccrady6571 Před rokem +1

    My dad ask my Mom to Marry him 3weeks after dating her . They had 7 kids and were married till his death!!

  • @GaryAa56
    @GaryAa56 Před 11 měsíci

    Asqi, you deserve to be happy, no judgement here.

  • @MeikaiBry
    @MeikaiBry Před 6 měsíci

    Perhaps it's semantics but I think it's good to expect your relationship to last forever. However, you may not be able to predict how your relationship will be in the future.

  • @RawbeardX
    @RawbeardX Před rokem +2

    obviously the only valid criticism is: why didn't you marry me? 🤭