Finding Strength - Journeying Through Grief -
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- čas přidán 16. 07. 2023
- Sharing with you through a series of short videos some thoughts, reflections and experiences of grief in the hope that it may help someone out there struggling.
The path is very difficult but it does lead to God ❤
#GriefGratitudeGod
May Allah ease the pain of all who are suffering, ameen 🙌🏻❤
My mum died in 2022. I cried cried alone then my brain told me do not cry your body is your mum and she is in you. Look at your face body it is your mum with you and looking at you, i sat front of mirror for ages n ages talking n asking allah to return my mum then brain revealed that to me. I had painic attacks where i use to sit 3 to 4 times walking to grave yard n finding difficult to breath n i use to sit in park near grave yard n cry. I even use to scream at her grave asking her to come back while looking up at sky and it carried on for over a year before i started to listen to my brain that my mums with me and then panic attacks stoped.
Grief is a passage we walk it s not place to stay.
Quickly walk the passage when you in that memory walk lane and then walk out. queen of England quote
May Allah bless u mufti. Ur talk hits hard.
We here you mufti. Jazaak allahu khayr❤wa Salaam
My mother is only precuous thing with me. I am 26 and haven't married yet... It could take me 2 3 years ... I cant imagine my world without my mother... At least for a coming decade(because one day every day will leave).
I'm 38. Next Monday it'll be 7 days anniversary of the death of my mother, and I just my father 6 years ago. I'm unmarried and I can tell you it was the pain I ever went through. Do yourself a favour and never argue with your mother, if you disagree with her you can tell her but say it lightly, never shout at her and hug her all you can. You'll thank me one day ❤️
If we have non-adult children (and no relatives to help with their care) it is necessary to hold it together for their sake.
If we have no responsibility for children it is easier to flow with the grief.
But if the grief seems to get permanent you may need to consider meds for a transitonal period.
Great a series Mufi, A universal pain felt by so many but ironically such pain can make one feel incredibly alone. Inalilahi wa inailayhi rajioon
Condolences mufti. We really miss the masala segment
“Ibn ʿArabī comments on this second ḥadīth, stating: Today, death is a great gift to a believer. His bier is a comforting transport because it takes him from this world to a place without trial or tribulation. He is neither a loser nor is he cheated. Whoever hopes for centuries here should be reminded that there you have a meeting with the Divine, and an imperishable cosmos. If a believer knew what really came after death, he would say with every breath, “O my Lord, take me now, take me now.””
- The Study Quran: A New Translation and Commentary by Seyyed Hossein Nasr, Caner K. Dagli, et al.
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