I have been through the same upbringing as you and am completely estranged from my family for many years. But I am still deeply affected by this. It’s really frustrating because the old beliefs still cling in such a way that Every new thing in my life is somehow affected by my past upbringing. This is so deeply ingrained it drives me crazy. I want to be like a clean canvas. There seems no one I can talk to that is qualified or understands what I have gone through and still experiencing. Even watching you Chanel fills me with guilt.
Hey Beth! 🙋 I'm excited about your new insightful channel. it's definitely the "Proper Food at the proper time" 😊 Looking forward to more of your videos! 💜💛💚
Beth, this video resonates with my life story. I’ve learned a lot in my 35 years out of the org. It’s been very insightful in learning my families dynamics. How each individual views their personal history and individual family relationships. For example I have chosen to visit my parents and have face to face interaction, while my disfellowshipped brother has chosen to not traveled to visit my parents in the past 27 years, maintains a phone relationship. I’ve learned a good deal through personal understanding, and also with the help of several licensed therapist.
I’m estranged from my family because I’m a physically disabled single father who has always had a problem with having a job , and has been on disability for most of my adult life….. although I’m as independent as I possibly can be as a person who has a physical disability most days are very difficult for me….. physically, mentally and emotionally exhausted. Because I’m not working, having held a job for a long period of time ( my family and others look down upon me , especially when in our society our identities are oftentimes equally tied to our jobs and what we provide for others, money and other resources and so on) I grew up in a family where yes they know I’ve got a disability but never really understood how my disability affects my daily life: physically, mentally, emotionally; as well as always trying to compare me to others in society. Where it’s someone else’s who’s more successful in life or someone else who has a worse situation in life than I do. It’s hard to not be accepted because of having a disability that has robbed the life that others “ conditionally expect “ U to have but also trying to make U into the version of what they want you to be so they can accept you as they accept everyone else’s etc.
“Burning down the house.” You’re Beth right? Thanks for the content. This phrase somewhat, gives me a visual of a post-zombie apocalypse scene, where a survivor standing at the roof, gazing miles of ruins in front of his eyes. Actually, every childhood trauma survivor are like that, we are struggling to walk out from the dilemma once our core family brought.
Great to see you back! Now you need to get David Byrne of the Talking Heads to let you use their hit song "Burning Down the House" as your intro music.
@@bdh336 Wow......Thanks For the Reply!! I Liked the old videos so much.I miss them a lot...Even my JW Parents were amused by how precise and sharp you were in those subjects...Hope you have those videos in a drive atleast.....And anyways stay safe Sis....Im From India ...Lots of Love!! Take Care!!
Some houses can only be torn down when renovation isn't possible.
I loved stop the shunning, can’t wait to see what you put up here :)
Thanks for your support!
I have been through the same upbringing as you and am completely estranged from my family for many years. But I am still deeply affected by this. It’s really frustrating because the old beliefs still cling in such a way that Every new thing in my life is somehow affected by my past upbringing. This is so deeply ingrained it drives me crazy. I want to be like a clean canvas. There seems no one I can talk to that is qualified or understands what I have gone through and still experiencing.
Even watching you Chanel fills me with guilt.
Welcome back, Beth! I appreciate your work.
Hi Esther! Thank you so much. Great to see you.
Hey Beth! 🙋
I'm excited about your new insightful channel.
it's definitely the "Proper Food at the proper time" 😊
Looking forward to more of your videos! 💜💛💚
Much love to you! xoxo
Beth, this video resonates with my life story. I’ve learned a lot in my 35 years out of the org.
It’s been very insightful in learning my families dynamics. How each individual views their personal history and individual family relationships. For example I have chosen to visit my parents and have face to face interaction, while my disfellowshipped brother has chosen to not traveled to visit my parents in the past 27 years, maintains a phone relationship.
I’ve learned a good deal through personal understanding, and also with the help of several licensed therapist.
Extremely important to see you again!!!!!! And extremely nice to see you again!!!!!
I’m estranged from my family because I’m a physically disabled single father who has always had a problem with having a job , and has been on disability for most of my adult life….. although I’m as independent as I possibly can be as a person who has a physical disability most days are very difficult for me….. physically, mentally and emotionally exhausted. Because I’m not working, having held a job for a long period of time ( my family and others look down upon me , especially when in our society our identities are oftentimes equally tied to our jobs and what we provide for others, money and other resources and so on) I grew up in a family where yes they know I’ve got a disability but never really understood how my disability affects my daily life: physically, mentally, emotionally; as well as always trying to compare me to others in society. Where it’s someone else’s who’s more successful in life or someone else who has a worse situation in life than I do. It’s hard to not be accepted because of having a disability that has robbed the life that others “ conditionally expect “ U to have but also trying to make U into the version of what they want you to be so they can accept you as they accept everyone else’s etc.
I’m happy to hear from you once again. You have a wonderful balance d tone and message. I look forward to heymore🌴
Hey Dave! Thanks for the support! Hope you're well.
“Burning down the house.”
You’re Beth right? Thanks for the content. This phrase somewhat, gives me a visual of a post-zombie apocalypse scene, where a survivor standing at the roof, gazing miles of ruins in front of his eyes. Actually, every childhood trauma survivor are like that, we are struggling to walk out from the dilemma once our core family brought.
Beth's back! Let's rejoice people
You're too kind!
What a Fantastic example Bethany! What you did, for yourself, is admirable. Can't wait to hear more.
Great to see you back! Now you need to get David Byrne of the Talking Heads to let you use their hit song "Burning Down the House" as your intro music.
Just discovered you on "Talk Beliefs". I'm looking forward to learning more from you...🧝♀️
Hey Beth! 👋 I can't wait for more insightful food.
Happy to see you back!!
Thanks! Hope you're doing well!
This was great . Good to see you Beth. Liked n subbed. ❤️
So glad you're back!! Subscribed....
Hey Debi!:)
Thank you for this video. Looking forward to sharing the journey with you and becoming the person I was born to be, hopefully.
You are a shining light for those who flounder after being discarded by evil WITCHTERROR...
love your title Burning Down the House 🤩
SO GLAD you've returned to CZcamsland! Your vids are always a balm. Welcome back and Merry Christmas!🎄🌟🎄🌟🎄
I appreciate that! Thank you! Merry Christmas to you as well!
🍃🌸🍃Your amazing Beth! Beautiful and your communication Skills are Awesome! I bought your first book! The ExJW community needs you! Thank you! 🍃🌸🍃
Hello mom!
Ha!
OMG Youre Back...It Feels so Good but what about the old Collection of Gems that you had in stoptheshunning channel??
Hi there! I was just ready to move on to new subjects, but I really appreciate your support!
@@bdh336 Wow......Thanks For the Reply!!
I Liked the old videos so much.I miss them a lot...Even my JW Parents were amused by how precise and sharp you were in those subjects...Hope you have those videos in a drive atleast.....And anyways stay safe Sis....Im From India ...Lots of Love!! Take Care!!
What if you just want to be a normal human being
God/Universe send you to me. 😳