Being Different, Inferior & Unique From Others (Reality)
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Being different and unique from others is probably a wonderful gift but also an unfortunate curse at the same time. Some people want to be like you, but most people would prefer to stay away from you. Most of us would call it unfair, and it is, I'm not going to deny it, but it is a natural human reaction to be cautious and avoid the minority because they are fearful of your social plausibility/tolerability and their own social acceptability. So don't blame them for identifying you as different and wanting you out of their circle, because the truth is, you don't and will never fit into their world. And even if you do try, it will be an out of place circumstance, both from your and their perspective.
As unfortunate and dismal as it is to discover that you cannot fully be a part of the normal society, it is what you must understand and eventually accept. Now most people would use "being different" and an excuse to escape from who they really are and try to forcefully and desperately fit into the norms by doing what they think other people want them to do, however, they will soon discover that it is a much worse decision to take. In this video we will talk about how you should handle yourself being different from others, and the mindset you can embrace & utilize going forward in life as a unique individual.
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Forged, your video resonated deeply with me. It's a profound exploration of the human condition, particularly for those who find themselves on the fringes of societal norms.
Your point about the duality of being different - a gift and a curse - is a poignant truth. It's a gift because it allows us to see the world from a unique perspective, to bring fresh ideas and solutions to the table. Yet, it's also a curse because it often leads to isolation and misunderstanding from the majority.
The societal instinct to be wary of the different, the unique, is indeed a natural human reaction. It's a survival mechanism ingrained in us from our earliest days as a species. However, as you rightly pointed out, it's crucial not to internalize this as a personal failing or a reason to blame others. It's simply a facet of human nature.
The realization that we may never fully fit into the societal mold can indeed be a harsh one. Yet, as you've highlighted, it's an essential step towards self-acceptance. Trying to force oneself into a mold that doesn't fit is not only futile but can also lead to a loss of self-identity and authenticity.
Your video serves as a powerful reminder that being different isn't something to be shunned or feared. Instead, it's something to be embraced and celebrated. It's a call to stay true to oneself, to honor our uniqueness, and to forge our own path in life.
Thank you for sharing this insightful and thought-provoking content. It's a valuable perspective that can help many navigate their journey of self-discovery and acceptance. Looking forward to more such enlightening content from you. Keep up the great work!
I've always been a bit different. It's a gift. Ask yourself why you want to be part of their herd.
Well to be fair we all want to be a part of the herd. But the question is, does the herd share similar values as us "the outcast". 99.9% of the time the answer is no, and they reject us for being different
The thing you should ask is what can that mindless herd offer you. And will it last in future.
This is so interesting. Growing up I never wanted to be part of the popular group. They seem to not really like each other. But tolerate each other. Everything seemed forced and a bit insincere. But I unfortunately always got the attention of someone in that popular group. Usually wanting a relationship and when I didn't respond how they wanted me to, than the bullying started. No matter what age I experienced the same situation only the person was different.
My family likes the popular crowds I just never did. My best friend was goth I used to sometimes hang out with her and her friends. Sometimes I think about wearing more clothes like them. In order to not be mistaken for a person of the popular crowd.
I'd rather be an Npc who has friends, is charismatic and understood rather than feeling like an outsider. Having a conversation feels worse than pulling teeth but others seem to do it fluently easily.
Being different makes me feel isolated and alone.
Just enjoy your own good and inteligent company... You do not need disruption.
@@shamblerdimensional2487 ...easier Said than done
that’s why bring differ is a bad thing. it goes against nature
You don't need lots of people, find 3 to 5 genuine people like you and that's enough.
Don't seek validation or acknowledgement from people who are not on your level bcz they don't possess the ability to understand your unique qualities.
Hang out with other people you’ll see why you are different and this will make you not need them
Always feeling like my being different in so many ways isolates me because I can relate to others but they seem to have trouble relating to me. I'm not as sad about it as I once was because I've come to enjoy my own company, but the inability of others to relate to my own weirdness often gets in the way of effective communication.
Often times when we are different, our mindset and thoughts are ahead of everyone, we tend to delve deep into topics, situations and circumstances that are rarely discussed or can't be bothered to be discussed due to its complexity by normal people. You can relate to them because you can understand them better, they can't relate to you because they don't understand the complexity & the uniqueness that you have
@@Forged88 This is cool
Good point 😁
Yes! I feel this too!
Me too.
That’s been my entire life if I’m honest. From the moment I stepped in school no one understood or wanted to be around me. I was considered weird and many other things. But I was obsessed with my own interest like writing, attaining more knowledge about everything, drawing, etc. Me talking being by myself scared others away, soon though I accepted that I will always be the odd one out. Ive taken years of pain and isolation is and turned it into my advantage. Now I know how cruel and hiveminded people are when you don’t act or look like them. I can survive and defend myself more and stay true to the things I love most
Cultivate what you are good at to the point where people have no choice but to notice and respect you. No need to hold on to resentment for being rejected, just accept it as part of human nature to gravitate towards the majority.
You are my kind of person 💯 💪
I relate
I also feel like a misfit in this world.
Embrace your misfitness. Develop & enforce them
Shout out to the people who even in spaces like this, where you feel you'd find connection with your outcasted peers get no likes or comments. I hope you stay strong, find peace and realise you're not a ghost in this life, you have something very special to offer this world.
The fact that im here explains it all, I never fit in with the majority of society, I've always been a lone wolf, an outsider, someone who stood out from the majority. I would say that im very unconvential, quirky, eccentric, and bizarre. I never felt normal like the other kids.
Sometimes it's okay to be different, because why, because we aren't sheep and we do our own thing in life, im learning to accept myself for who I am.
In a way, wherever I go, im actually somewhat admired and adored for my personality, and was kind of well-liked by my peers, coworkers and friends for my unique and unconventional perspective of life, and how I stay true to who I am, and am not the one to follow the crowd and does his own thing.
I never cared about belonging to a group except for its strategic importance for networking. But for the rest I'm happier to explore the world by my self
Can you elaborate on the strategic importance of networking? 🤔 so far I’m a misanthrope due to the nonsense and idiocy of the blind masses.
@@bhavyasharma8091Assume for work. Have to network
This is such an eye-opening perspective I needed at 3am pondering why yesterday’s attempt at socialising has once again just left me feeling self-conscious, confused and questioning what’s so wrong with me that being alone is the only time I truly feel at ease….
I have always felt different from my peers for most of my life. It is not easy. Right now, I feel behind in life. I am struggling to figure out what I really want to do with my future. Some days, it feels like I will never be happy or find my mojo and that I am destined for failure. Deep down, though, there is an empowering voice telling me to embrace my uniqueness, and that there is indeed light at the end of the dark tunnel. The last thing I want is to lose myself for the sake of fitting in to the masses.
Thank you so much for posting this! You don’t know just how much it means to me and many others out there who feel different!
My hat goes off to all you who have also felt this way in life! ✌️😁
this remnds me of that one time i asked some classmates do you ever think who is really behind all of this? They looked completely CLUELESS.I was very disappointed, thats probably why i dont have any actual friends. The more I think about it, trying to be like the majority. Clueless, unaware and honestly complacent, brings this sense of misery.
I agree completely
People reject and bully everyone being different from them ..
Unfortunately 😣🥺
autism is a terrible tragedy that anyone can experience
I am autistic
I'm proud of being different from everyone, I never wanted to fit in or be like other people in the world within my personality looks etc. it has been my life being different and I want to keep it that way.
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If any of you gents have experienced being different, please do share your story. Would very much love to know
I've been really struggling a lot to find out the groups where I can feel a sense of belonging. And even I thought maybe it's just our country's conservativeness. Because even my family and friends are not like me. but I feel like it's just me being unique and different from others(the majority). I've been told "I'm really unique" in a good way. But sometimes it frustrates me I can't even relate to my surroundings' thoughts and their mindset because the way of thinking is too different. most people don't even care what I truly care about - what to pursue in our life, discovering who I am, who I want to be and how I want to live, diversity&inclusion, gender equality, social impact.
And now I realize that I just need to accept that I'm not part of the majority and who I am, strength my ability to change world and influence people. The loneliness will follow most of the time but if I'm just true to myself and do what I mostly care about, I believe the group of people that matches my value will come to me and build our own surroundings afterward.
Thank you so much for the video.
Just now I've been reflecting to gather strength and to maintain respect my path, cause every aspect of our lives are significant and serve you or others in the future. A man has to stay focused and neglect emotions sometimes.
I am constantly try to change myself and try to fit in but my mind work differently I know it but I am afraid to be authentic because I afraid to lose people. I think my authenticity will not accepted by people around me. I want different environment
You have to let go of that fear otherwise you'll just be a prisoner inside yourself and you will never reach your full potential. Being different is a gift and a curse. People will hate you even more if you try to desperately fit in because they can sense your inauthenticity. Be authentic and take the criticisms on the chin, and at the same time work on yourself and capitalize on your uniqueness to the point where you are able to prove yourself that despite your differences, you are someone of value and can provide value to the world. Then people will start to change their perspective of you.
I'm Japanese but I spent almost all my prepubescent and early teen years in LA. I'm currently in my last year of HS in Japan but I feel like an outcast due to my interests/hobbies, language ability, and general way of thinking. Being able to speak English in Japan really has its benefits and I'm entering one of the most prestigious universities in Japan but I do get some resentment and jealousy for having it easy lol. Anyways I don't mind external things like that but I'm still not sure if I genuinely have unique skills that I can hone and that's whats scaring me atm.
My man, you are the outlier among the common. Alot of people will admire you for your uniqueness and capabilities and a lot of people will hate you for what they can't be. Cherish it amd cultivate it even more 👊
Great message and so true. Learn to be yourself and develop your own gifts...not someone else's.
It would be such a wonderful time if all the people here in the comment section had a get together
Now a days I'm becoming like everyone to survive easily but still I hate myself as pretending to be like others.
I think I'm weird. My music taste,my attraction criteria. I can't relate to anything. My friends are very different from me. I want to be a normal person. I don't ask for help but I need it now.
You need to embrace your differences instead of neglecting it just to please other people. Because they will intuitively know you're faking it, and with you desperately trying to fit in, its just going against the things that you value for yourself just for the sake of other people's validation, which in the long term, will make you unhappy even if you do fit in.
I understand the need for human affection and intimacy for all of us, but thats just the curse of being different, we will get much less of them and even worse, none at all. You need to immerse yourself in your own unique world and build it to the point where people will start to notice it by themselves. It is much better to be appreciated by being genuine and different than being resented by being fake and synonymous.
@@Forged88 Thank you for the message. Thanks a ton for being there.
YOU got friends? Wow
@@muthaafrika6137 I'm sorry dude...just a few
I always see it as a gift i know since kindergaden that I'm highly gifted but being pushed out the crowd hurt me in some period of time then i came back to myself enjoying my company and weirdness, i found out also that I'm autistic and have ADHD and health issues that made me special at all levels
I've never been like them .I'm 45 with no friends and I'm fine with that .I actually prefer that .I was in an insane asylum for 3 years in a room alone and that was the best time I've had .so peaceful
When I see a group of people with the same interests and ideas...I see a bunch of sheep..I just cant do that..to be one of the other people who do things that dont make sense..they are hindrance..just my opinion.
It's like be your own leader and your own journey of how you see things in life
I’m blessed to be different from the rest I love it and I relish in it
I like Being different. I LOVE IT.
HOWEVER.. I get really Pissed off when someone I know gets interested in
things I'm interested in ...I move away from conformity compulsively to the point that I end up moving away from my interests .. What do I do about this????
Perhaps you're still afraid of getting criticized or ridiculed by people for your distinction. Or maybe you've been highly criticized or ridiculed beforehand to the point where even if you have moved away from conformity, all the harsh critics and bullying still lingers, to the point where they start to overwhelm your independent judgements, and made you change the opinion on your interests from fancying them to avoiding them
Being Different is a gift from God🎉❤🙏
curse from satan* being different is a very bad thing. i’m yes, severely too
Doesn’t feel like it
Bullfuck
Thanks for this. You remind me a lot of Einzelganger. ❤
Now this is the best video on yt I found. Thanks man for all the vids you have made, you explain some subtle but important aspects of life that the red pill does not show us , many pick up and red pill yt teach you that you should try to be seen like a Chad , an Adonis. But watching your vids made me realise that most of the times, especially at the beginning to truly become the pinnacle you will have to do things that look weak, strange , that make people reject you and see you as weird and even insecure , so you have the choice to be seen like an Alpha , as a high value man or to truly start becoming one , but not for others, not to get girls , or to get Guy's respect because then you will just chose to just the first option. Don't chase the admiration of others but chase to become someone worthy of being admired. Primarily this video , the respect video and the King video and the walking away video made me realise those things. Again man, thanks for all your vids. You deserve way more vids and sub, you really are the best channel I found. Keep going!
Thank you for your words my friend 👊
My whole family and so many others are such good artists. Amazing! But I suck! I try and try and I really want to be able to but it never works out. Today I was trying to draw simple emblems and only ended up sad and frustrated
Being unique is a gift from god 🎉❤
I'm different..yes i can understand everyone but other's can't able to relate to me....what questions i ask in class, the way i react to everything the way i answer i know genuinely intensely know that i did it because i thought about it in its depth and it was right but i grab myself at various times to don't do that because of other people as they laugh on me...i have so less friends all these makes my self confidence & self esteem down and makes me more & more introvert.........i want to overcome this problem 😔😌
He HAD NO FRIENDS no life no GF
Thank you I love ❤ 😍 💖 this.I will remember this and it explains everything I need to apply asap thank you for the unquie wisdom and bless you.Love and prayers
I was somewhere i knew I didn’t belong for far too long
I have become someone in my own world
I no longer try whatsoever to interact or fit in
Being different makes me feel un normal and especially when people at school make fun of me for not liking make up or k pop or other girly stuff but all I just want is for someone to relate to me I want someone that can understand me at some point because just because I like thing a boy and girl would love yes it does make me different but I should be proud of that and really I just need anyone whoever they are or no matter what they are or identify as I want to be known for my craziness and happiness and sadness and I want people to notice me for my madness my coziness and me being uncomfortable and I just want someone to love me for who I am and please to whoever is reading this I love you the way you are and it really hurts to see people not being able to follow their dreams too because there is one door that is open to them and a talent that they have to go to that door but then they choose something not because they are good at it but because they love doing it and that is all that really matters and me as an Arab person it is sooooo hard to believe in myself because so many people out there make fun of me for who I want to be and I just think that people should follow their heart and just be themselves around people weather the person they are around likes it or not it only matters about you so don’t put all your love and happiness and everything into a jar and put it somewhere else far away and lock it a say no to it because that thing that you put away could have been your future and the thing you love to do and just because your different or embarrassed of what you wanna do or be just put it out there and make something out of it because there are so many opportunities out there that you might be blocking so just be yourself and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise because being your true self is the best cure if your alone or lost in life because you could find someone who has your muchnesses so don’t let anything you love go and just hold it tight and be patient with time because you can’t get anything so quickly and you just need to keep holding on ok so get out there and change the world🫀🫀🫀🫀🫀🫀
I enjoyed listening to this story about the basketball player. I’ve been watching videos from this page for the past few days. I’m learning/relearning.
I needed this, thanks.
I admit i hate beinf different and I don't have much to relate to people or what's around me. I'm disabled, only child, autistic and an loner|hermit. I'll never fit in at all. I felt I'm forced to wear a mask. Because if i reveal my "true self" , i get weird startled and looked down upon
Such a beautiful lecture🙌
Ive been started running and created my own CZcams channel to contribute and compiling my speedpainting drawings which I was passionate about and as my aid to my mind. I usually drawing something quite unique, focusing on sketching people but in a different twista. I remember back in my highschool days and even in college days I drew everyone out of my interest and gained some friends at my fair prime while studying in computer programming course. But now after I'm recovering via NoFap and in my early 30's, I feel I'm not the same as before and I'm below underground in the popularity circle. That video of yours gave me courage to help pursue my dreams and preserving my talent. Even if I can handle my loneliness and enjoying solitude but deep down I am still feel I'm an outcast from others despite my efforts. Even my old friends and colleagues abandoned me. Even I was bit hunrgy for reaching popularity and status, all of my feeling of being outcast and being left behind and depression are all sublimated through anything in creativity. From drawing, colouring and even in video editing like a modern day Leonardo Da Vinci.
i sometimes make so many efforts on my mindset and me but it changes like weather that bothers me a lot....as 'adam was always either first place at best or third place at worst' the same happens with me i sometime be my best sometime at my worst potential i just could not able to do i want to get over it and want to find my best
I’m getting persecuted for it when it comes too being different from the rest You’ll be gaslighted an played so much until people can figure you out but really they can’t so they end up treating you like trash
I am not inferior or superior nor am I an outcast or lone wolf I have millions of loyal fans, clients, and collogues we all work together to make this world better:)
Needed this
About 95% of people do not accept my difference , it's Very hard when you do not fit in .
I'm really different because my allergy my sis who died my dog I had to sell my name I was bullied for 3 years a bunch of people ask me questions about my allergy and I'm just sick of it I one time scared a little girl when she overheard me talking about it SHE CRIED HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO BE NORMAL NO ONE IS LIKE ME my dad my grampa no one is like me
Good stuff. Great channel. Love your content.
Thank you my friend 👊
Another great video from this Channel. Thank you for the upload.
Thanks my man 👊
@@Forged88 The voice of the narrator is really good and I like the way you write your content . I hope this channel gets more subs in the future.
Whoa wasn't RICHARD FARLEY ALONE? stalking Laura movie
I just had to come watch this because like is really does up that how things have to be like I can't even find a girl good friends ntn I be sitting here watching how easy things like that is for other people and its the fact you or I try an try and try for no good results and for them easy like snapping a finger
Now that's BAD. The world push us loonies away. So we end up like me. No life still home with parents. This JUST how I feel
The phantom name of that basketball player is like the Kurokos basketball anime it's same that his small but kuroko have a high passing ability
I was thinking the same thing.
im a proud black sheep.
your videos are like mini lsd trips for me i love u
Beautiful very informing and good content.Very beautiful work
Thank you my friend 👊
Dynamite 🧨 👏🏽👏🏽
“You need to have at least 7.5 inches…” if I had a quarter for every time i heard that
Badass stuff
Appreciate it my man 👊
1:25 This is exactly what I've been experiencing in my professional career. It is exceptionally difficult to deal with being an outcast when your livelihood depends on it. Unfortunately, there is not solution when the reason you are different is something you were born with. Like you mentioned, if I as a non-white person strive to be "more white" it is clearly disingenuous.
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There is a scene from a show called "Penny Dreadful" where the protagonist and Dorian Gray (yes THAT Dorian Gray) are sitting down to dinner. Dorian equates being different with being powerful.
He's right in a way. It takes strength to allow yourself to be different, to accept that you are different. Once you do, you begin realize you are capable of seeing things, doing things and even thinking things others simply are not.
For me personally, to surrender my uniqueness for the benefit of the herd was and still is an unacceptable compromise, especially when I already have a small circle that accepts me as I am. Those tend to be higher quality friends anyway, but that's a whole 'nother sermon. Lol
Don't be a follower to be in a large crowd to fit in , because the larger of your crowd is , the bigger of how fake you are , keep your circle small and learn to be alone to isolate yourself to others, focused on yourself let people guess your next move
it’s unfair to be different
I don't care if people agree to my opinion or not, but i relate to this in school i have no friends just few people to talk to cuz all of them are into dumb stuff that annoys me and i rlly hate and cuz of that reason they sometimes treat me different not only in school but outside too, is it my fault?
I dont know english,, can anyone please write down the summary of this video so that i can understand it by google translater,, i am in very much need of this
Being different makes me feel sad isolated angry and alone, I'm always saying to myself why why am I bad I am an !d!ot 😔
I took pills. Fevarin :(
You'll get an identity from how different you're than the rest. Unless you strive for it, you're just like any other animal in the pack...
Triple your subs by making a playlist for women as well, please?! 🙏You're content is really inspiring ty. 👍
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It's a bit like a giant who is trying to live amongst the dwarfs and Hobbits....while isn't nessecarily impossible
looks like naruto
Wish this video helped me.