10 Signs Your Parent is a Narcissist
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- čas přidán 4. 07. 2024
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No surprise, my father hit all 10. Going no contact was a very healthy choice for me. The abuse took a deep toll on me physically and mentally. I wish I had the understanding to cut him off years before I did.
I'm not even finished listening to the list, & I can relate this list to my mom.She never sees she might be in the wrong, & VERY controlling.And, I'm a adult only-child.
"Mom? Is that you?"
Thank you for this. I get it now. I always thought there was something wrong with me...
I grew up with all that nonsense, i left at 18 to join the army, never looked back, just minimal contact. Both parents are dead now, but i still have bad dreams now and again. My adopted mother wanted to be the matriarch, it was always tears and tantrums if she didn't get her own way.
Another sign that a parent is a narcissist is when they think you owe them for everything they have done to raise you and take care of you since you were born. When in reality the child doesn’t owe their parents anything. The narcissist parent would literally think they’re entitled to make the child financially support the parent when the child gets older. It’s total abuse. We didn’t choose to be born, and raising a child is not a transactional thing. How are we supposed to take care of ourselves and our children if we have to financially support our parents and keep bailing them out when we become adults? I won’t forget when my dad tried to guilt trip me by saying “I changed your diapers” Lol
Great video, I can see you speak with factual knowledge and heart, cause you have relatable experience too
Wow beth seems like I'm going through this. Thank thank👍🏻👍🏻
I was just recommended your channel by a fellow ex jw on Twitter. The invalidation aspect of this video hit home so hard. I remember always thinking to myself “why am I not allowed to be sad or mad” “why can’t I just talk about how I feel”. My family dynamic as a jw was not the regular jw norm and I think that made it even worse.
Or they project, and call you the narcissist. 🤣
Or they say, 'why can't you just let it go'? 😂
Conveniently dismissive.
I love your videos, thank you. They are a big help, with real insight.
Could you please tell us where you get your information, like books or classes you have taken .
Thanks again.
You have just describe my wife if who I am now separated from over the last five years thank you for your description keep up the good work say hi to your husband are you still like listening to him as well I'm from the UK by the way
My father is a narcissist, he thinks he’s right but really and truly he’s not and likes to please people to show that he’s more superior, he posted his own phone number on Instagram and literally follows my mom’s sister that she isn’t on good terms with anymore
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Wow.. Powerful videos! I recognized more of these traits than I thought I would, going further back in the tree than I had even thought about. 🤯 Never really looked at it as a narcissistic chain before. Even more important that my sister and I break the cycle. So far, their image and illusion of quality is more important than family connection. Kind of sounds like a form of idolatry the more that ya think about it. 🤔 Thx!
Wow
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