SEDUCE WITH YOUR EYES: A Lesson in Hypnosis & Eye Contact | The Means of Seduction

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    ☞ DESCRIPTION ☜
    The Means of Seduction is a successful CZcams channel and online blog focusing on the application of seduction (and other means of influence) in all areas of one’s personal and professional life. The Means of Seduction looks at the sociological and psychological effects of implementing seductive body language, speech patterns, behaviors, and attitudes for the purposes of romantic and platonic relationship-forming, confidence-building, professional achievement, and self-improvement.
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    Track: Urban Seduction
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    ☞ TIME STAMPS ☜
    00:00:00 - Introduction
    0:48 - The 4 Hypnotic Principles
    1:24 - “Seduction” Defined
    2:01 - “Hypnosis” Defined
    2:32 - The Aim of Seduction
    3:07 - “Focus” Explained
    3:55 - “Fatigue” Explained
    5:24 - “Pacing & Leading” Explained
    6:59 - “Embedding Commands” Explained
    9:29 - Conclusion
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Komentáře • 1,3K

  • @bfso96
    @bfso96 Před 2 lety +5037

    I used to feel uncomfortable when men would look at me at the gym or walking on the st, but now I’m not afraid to stare back. It’s how you take your power back.

    • @opuimor
      @opuimor Před 2 lety +729

      But sometimes when you stare back they can get the wrong idea

    • @weedalicious
      @weedalicious Před 2 lety +142

      @@opuimor ong 😭

    • @arohachanuwu9504
      @arohachanuwu9504 Před 2 lety +54

      @@opuimor yeah 😭😭😭💀💀

    • @theamvgirlx
      @theamvgirlx Před 2 lety +9

      YESSSS.

    • @bfso96
      @bfso96 Před 2 lety +161

      @@opuimor Its the type of look you know. If they still don't get it flip em off haha

  • @Yolanda_M
    @Yolanda_M Před 3 lety +1900

    This whole video is teaching me how to flirt

  • @HG-qo9cx
    @HG-qo9cx Před 3 lety +4669

    What I have learned in life is that seduction/manipulation (Hypnosis) is a great form of self-defense. I have gotten out of some awkward and even dangerous situations with this tool and I will never apologize for being manipulative.

  • @frankie9457
    @frankie9457 Před 3 lety +3868

    *realizing my whole life has been a series of people hypnotizing me* 🤔😳

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +267

      Well, now you can hypnotize them right back!

    • @polka.y
      @polka.y Před 3 lety +121

      Why I never make eye contact! 😂

    • @backoff9164
      @backoff9164 Před 3 lety +34

      @@polka.y me also don't make eye contact 😂😂

    • @mekaylaarchives
      @mekaylaarchives Před 3 lety +19

      random but i love your hair

    • @yaarandhawa
      @yaarandhawa Před 3 lety +26

      @@mekaylaarchives one more seducer

  • @manxis.5884
    @manxis.5884 Před 3 lety +9461

    This gon make me a femme fatale now lmao

  • @Isabel_Montss
    @Isabel_Montss Před rokem +4751

    I'm gonna become a confident version of me. Tired of being so passive and awkward around people. I'm evolving tho. And I think eye contact is something so magnificent. I love watching how famous during interviews make eye contact and talk so casually. Plus, your channel is such treasure I found today, thanks a lot !
    Edit 2 monts later:
    I had no idea so many people would reasonate to this feeling... thank you. Also didn't have a clue till now about this likes, but I would like to thank all who did it , because whenever it poped on my Phone somebody liked it I remembered of this comment and this self motivation I still lack somedays s2 ups and downs and that's fine :)
    Plus I asked out the guy i liked a long time ago but never said a thing, we even had two dates! (Turns out he's even shier) it was a huge step to me because well I am very shy and even being 20 I've never been in a relationship or had anything similar at all after a single first kiss... haha
    +
    I am improving at college interaction, making more colleagues yet without changing who I am, I like to be alone at home, take my time too and being a little introverted, recharge, but now if I want to go and say hi to someone, I know that I can do this (and I do this) I feel I wouldn't be thinking a billion times like before :)
    Thanks for all the messages s2 thanks for the motivation, we can gradually improve our confidence!

    • @goodmorning2386
      @goodmorning2386 Před rokem +25

      This is my goal too!! Good luck

    • @enrybarros74
      @enrybarros74 Před rokem +10

      This is awesome, just keep trying, day by day, until you get over it

    • @yuck6652
      @yuck6652 Před rokem +11

      i'm aiming to be more confident too! We can do this.

    • @kindacrazyAna14
      @kindacrazyAna14 Před rokem +4

      Girlllllll! Lemme tell you I used to have an issue with eye contact but as I grew in my profession (PT) I started learning to make more eye contact with patients. It helps to reassure them and let them know I am talking facts. Now it is my default to look people straight in the eye.

    • @laeeqabux
      @laeeqabux Před rokem +1

      Hows it going for you?

  • @cleok1868
    @cleok1868 Před 3 lety +5826

    Ah, so aesthetically pleasing. This is art. This is informative. This is enchanting, to say the least!

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +152

      What a beautiful comment! Thank you so much for watching and leaving a comment here. I really appreciate the show of support. You’re very kind. Take care!

    • @bangtanwasseo5948
      @bangtanwasseo5948 Před 3 lety +27

      I agree!

    • @dt-lg2oc
      @dt-lg2oc Před rokem

      @CZcams Guy
      Well there is a lot more you missed

    • @jasonuttii7575
      @jasonuttii7575 Před rokem

      @CZcams Guy momma called that "minding yer manners"

    • @lettucepieceof6043
      @lettucepieceof6043 Před rokem

      I like your name ! Is it Cleopatra or just Cleo ?

  • @dawnemile7499
    @dawnemile7499 Před 3 lety +1211

    If you really like someone intense eye contact is natural.

  • @yourroyalhighness6297
    @yourroyalhighness6297 Před rokem +6772

    Step 1: Have confidence
    Step 2: Practice eye contact
    Step 3: Practice giving sincere compliments
    Step 4: Study your own body language and habits.
    Step 5: Practice subtlety
    Step 6: Have a long list of topics in your mind for conversations.
    Step 7: Execute the hypnosis technique. :>

    • @wayarise
      @wayarise Před rokem +154

      Your comment isn’t vague at all thanks for summarizing this video in 120 words

    • @KingofScrapMetal
      @KingofScrapMetal Před rokem +32

      @@wayarise it's not even 50 words

    • @hans8087
      @hans8087 Před rokem +56

      Step 6 is gonna be tough for me, does anyone have an advice for me there? The other steps I can fix no problem but step 6 is gonna be impossible for me, and I need help there

    • @user-xf7mu7ub9d
      @user-xf7mu7ub9d Před rokem +97

      @@hans8087 in my opinion the best way to do the step 6 is to be a good listener. And when I say "a good listener" I mean that you're going to carefully listen to everything the other person is saying: why are they choosing these words instead of those ones? what are their hobbies and passions? what do they like?
      This is going to give you a huge advantage because by doing this you're going to know how that person is feeling, what kind of person they are and what kind of conversation topics you could talk about with them without potentially making it boring.
      This is just my opinion, I don't know if it's going to help you.

    • @hans8087
      @hans8087 Před rokem +11

      @@user-xf7mu7ub9d Thank you! And don't worry about it, with this advice you helped me understand how to socialize more than my pervious two therapists combined lol. So thanks a lot for that as well

  • @slimemonster3797
    @slimemonster3797 Před 3 lety +1644

    I am very competitve. If i catch someone looking at me i will look at them until i see their future through their eyes and burn it 😂

  • @simplymarilyn5295
    @simplymarilyn5295 Před 3 lety +545

    I'm a little shy so if I notice an attractive guy looking at me, I immediately look away! It's going to take me coming out of my comfort zone.....But there's one way and that's to jump in w both feet!! Like they say..."practice makes perfect." Thank-you so much for this video♡

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +34

      Absolutely! No harm in practicing something new; you might even like it! Best of luck to you. Take care!

  • @wheathusk2499
    @wheathusk2499 Před 3 lety +1402

    Wow I just realised I have been doing this for last 10 years. I have always had a power over people. They tell me I'm charismatic and my eyes are really nice. I think its possible that I have been doing this whole of my life without realising. I used to look average but had a lot of suitors with time I turned attractive as I groomed myself better and felt confident and with time I got a lot of attention and had an almost 95% rate or more of getting attention from people I personally liked. Now off late I have gained a lot of weight and feel shit but I do have great people skills.

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +153

      Hello! Thank you for watching and commenting. It definitely sounds like you’ve used these techniques, almost unknowingly, many times. I’m glad to hear it was usually very successful for you! I’m sorry, however, to hear that you’re not feeling particularly well as of late, and that perhaps your confidence and body-image have taken a hit. I understand weight gain feels heavy in more ways than one. Try hard to remember the power and ability you have, and the wonderful things you’ve accomplished and will accomplish. Incoming cliché alert: You’re more than a body. You still have those great social skills! Take care of yourself. I wish you well.

    • @bufo5858
      @bufo5858 Před 3 lety +21

      This is me. I am you

    • @ashutoshacharya5439
      @ashutoshacharya5439 Před rokem +19

      I too have a friend crazily charming and charismatic as f**k
      When I ask him ho do you do that
      He always reply with something that doesn't make really sense to me
      But once he told me that if he locks eye on someone he thinks is important and intersting to him, he have the ability to talk to them without talking and even with 10mt distance
      If he wants to send a sexual signal to someone he saw for the first time he makes sure it's 100% sexual
      If he wants to send a respectful signal he makes sure it's 100% respectful nothing else
      And at the same time he make sure that he is the Lion in the crowd who is humble as well
      I wish I had that power but I don't regret cuz I also have some powers
      If it's respect to someone he

    • @wheathusk2499
      @wheathusk2499 Před rokem +3

      @@TheMeansofSeduction Wonderful words! Thank you for your message it really resonated with me. We are indeed timeless beings inside a meat suit floating through the universe 🥰

    • @ralphfurley4217
      @ralphfurley4217 Před rokem +10

      Same here. I've had seductive eye contact since I was a kid in the 1970's. I do it naturally. Didn't realize I was doing it until my 40's. The downside is that I've been s#xually assaulted countless times by both men and women (I am a heterosexual male). I've had countless, narcissists cling onto me over the years. I've learned to deal with it. The upside is that I've attracted a lot of females over the years even though I am average to below average looking.
      Animals communicate and attract mates with their eyes and body language. I've read that 80% of mate selection in humans is non-verbal communication.

  • @vanessacotton3902
    @vanessacotton3902 Před 2 lety +479

    Seduction, manipulation. Either way. If it gets me what I want and Doesnt hurt anyone I’m rolling with it.

    • @streetkombat6088
      @streetkombat6088 Před 2 lety +11

      I enjoying the doing the same as well beautiful.

    • @MAN9027
      @MAN9027 Před 2 lety +5

      unless it's used on you hypocrite

    • @vanessacotton3902
      @vanessacotton3902 Před 2 lety +25

      @@MAN9027 id see it for what it is. Ain’t you got some hinges to lube?

    • @amarson2322
      @amarson2322 Před rokem +2

      lmao ok vanesa

  • @sidrakamal3595
    @sidrakamal3595 Před rokem +781

    Takeaway: maintain eye contact, shift eye contact to something you want, compliment, say how much you have enjoyed with them and want to stay; praise the aspect that you have to gain

  • @blood0fthelamb
    @blood0fthelamb Před 3 lety +320

    nah cause ur just teaching me how to become a better manipulator😭😭

  • @deathdoesntcareifyourcloth7324

    It always seduces me and my partner when we just stare deeply into eachother eyes it's so intense and have such a deep connection. It really is extremely powerful 😊

    • @telleroflies4373
      @telleroflies4373 Před rokem +1

      666

    • @Xin4t0r
      @Xin4t0r Před rokem +11

      @@telleroflies4373 why did u wrote that number? xD

    • @ka7126
      @ka7126 Před rokem +1

      @@Xin4t0r Her username?

    • @rdoodoo2021
      @rdoodoo2021 Před rokem +24

      I'm so jealous. I can't have a partner. I could never look in somebody's eyes. It's terrifying and I avoid it. My parents neglected me and I don't trust people. I'm 56 and can't connect to people. I'm so glad you're happy and I wish you the best. ✌️🕊️

    • @rdoodoo2021
      @rdoodoo2021 Před rokem

      @@Xin4t0r Just another troll looking for attention. Old as time.

  • @user02406
    @user02406 Před 3 lety +622

    my next crush needs to watch out 👀

  • @zzzzz2621
    @zzzzz2621 Před 3 lety +112

    I just know the person who made this video is a PRO at seducing people😭😭

  • @swavnasahoo711
    @swavnasahoo711 Před 3 lety +643

    I wont look into the eyes of people who are deceitful, trained that eye contact is a "power move". Eye contact with an uplifting presence tends to completely shift and elevate ur own current state. So I would say, dont fake it. It's a message to urself and giving the gaze only to the people or person u are genuinely into. It's ok to awkward.

    • @didijy8007
      @didijy8007 Před 3 lety +2

      Absolutely

    • @mohammedyafih9656
      @mohammedyafih9656 Před 2 lety +3

      Really?come on man, Grow up ,be better

    • @adityarodrigues2266
      @adityarodrigues2266 Před 2 lety +13

      @@ronaknanda6175 dude what gave you the great idea that this was an intellectual comment to make.

  • @thatgirlmaria5557
    @thatgirlmaria5557 Před 2 lety +1397

    Crush: talking about something
    Me: staring at their eyes
    Crush:…what are you doing
    Me: shhhh I’m trying to hypnotize you

  • @mehakverma7043
    @mehakverma7043 Před rokem +131

    I work at walmart as a teenager. I used to be a pretty shy person and wouldn't be able to even look at someone's face (especially during quarantine). But ever since working in retail, I have found it so easy to look everyone straight to their eyes and proudly help them.

  • @nalaa9618
    @nalaa9618 Před 3 lety +3147

    This is just teaching us how to be a Scorpio

    • @BeckyMJ96
      @BeckyMJ96 Před 3 lety +436

      As a Scorpio i'm honored 😂

    • @miagolez7059
      @miagolez7059 Před 3 lety +214

      Hhahaha as a scorpio this is so true a lot of people comment about my eyes so much 😂

    • @reinazreik3137
      @reinazreik3137 Před 3 lety +30

      Same here 😂

    • @heidijay5902
      @heidijay5902 Před 3 lety +85

      I am a Scorpio (not that I care for astrology), I guess what you’re saying is I didn’t really need to watch this video.😂😂😂

    • @gugu532
      @gugu532 Před 3 lety +23

      Lol...m not scorpio but i have mu saturn, uranus and neptune in scorpio...but i have been more of a scorpio all my life...even wen it is not my primary sign

  • @alexandriageiler687
    @alexandriageiler687 Před 2 lety +74

    I always get told my eyes are my best feature, so I’m about to use this advice and become unstoppable 😂😂

  • @Bob-cq1vv
    @Bob-cq1vv Před 3 lety +170

    This is very common for dancers working in stripclubs. I also observed this behaviour from managers in restaurants while talking to customers :)

  • @returnoftheromans6726
    @returnoftheromans6726 Před rokem +51

    I've noticed that the person to maintain and follow through with eye contact till the other looks away is usually established as the dominant, alpha, or boss of the situation. More confident people are also able to maintain eye contact for longer periods of time, while others will immediately look way, because the "alpha" will perhaps read their true thoughts and feel exposed. I have been on both sides of the coin. And I usually tend to maintain eye contact with people who I want to impress, or who I like.

  • @katcvm
    @katcvm Před 3 lety +202

    Eye contact is so beautiful, from absolutely anyone, not just s/o way.

  • @thatguydownthestreet8036
    @thatguydownthestreet8036 Před 3 lety +522

    The way you describe it seducing sounds alot like manipulation, and I thought it was alot more related to flirting.

    • @kireidoll
      @kireidoll Před 3 lety +206

      It is manipulation. But manipulation is not only used for bad, it's something everyone does at one point or another.

    • @ayadarling_
      @ayadarling_ Před 3 lety +106

      Well, it can be considered as manipulation. After all, seducing someone is manipulating them into liking you.

    • @agathachris9722
      @agathachris9722 Před 3 lety +60

      Manipulation can be good or bad

    • @user-qb4on2qm7z
      @user-qb4on2qm7z Před 2 lety +10

      You can choose to be manipulated or to manipulate. Its unavoidable.

    • @earthintelligent7933
      @earthintelligent7933 Před rokem +4

      @@user-qb4on2qm7z fact. And I choose to be manipulator and seductive

  • @misac4506
    @misac4506 Před 3 lety +181

    Not saying this in a braggy way but i have pretty doll eyes, and people often tell me how to use them, then this video came up on my seuggestions, and then i found out what they meant.

    • @kyipasbeautyminati4172
      @kyipasbeautyminati4172 Před 3 lety +14

      Mine too... Everybody says i have big beautiful eyes.. My husband loves my eyes

    • @TaeKat
      @TaeKat Před 2 lety +7

      Same! Well, my eyes are small and almond shaped but everyone compliments them so now I’ll actually utilize them for the better 🥲

  • @Mariadgv
    @Mariadgv Před 3 lety +227

    The beat in the back sounds like national anthem by Lana del Rey

    • @lucy__v
      @lucy__v Před 3 lety +17

      lol no it doesn’t have u actually heard national anthem? i would say it sounds much more like wicked games by the weeknd

    • @jillianbernas5127
      @jillianbernas5127 Před 3 lety +3

      Of course you’re watching this video

    • @erinr2026
      @erinr2026 Před 3 lety

      emaline they prob meant the demo that’s popular on tiktok

    • @stargirl8444
      @stargirl8444 Před 3 lety

      Red white blue

    • @maurasilva9924
      @maurasilva9924 Před 3 lety

      @@jillianbernas5127 ahahahhaah this makes so much sense!

  • @GMS919
    @GMS919 Před 3 lety +455

    This video is tremendous. It's not cringe like most things on CZcams about this topic, it is not reductive in that it restricts it to romantic advancements, and it's very well explained.
    It doesn't go to the typical common places, or opinions about the topic.
    It's original!!! 👏👏👏👏👏

    • @GMS919
      @GMS919 Před 3 lety +11

      Where can I pay for more? 😅 No really keep going and open a patreon

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +17

      Wow! Such a wonderful compliment to send my way. I’m truly flattered. Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate you taking the time to comment your support and share your opinions. I am very new to CZcams and making videos, so this was really encouraging to read. Your comment brightened my day. Take care!

    • @GMS919
      @GMS919 Před 3 lety +8

      ​@@TheMeansofSeduction I'm so glad it did!! The video is really good. It brings something new to the table, much needed in the seduction realm. We all had our fair share (or unfair lol) of pickup artists 🤮
      I like it because first of all is something subtle and a lot of people aren't aware of the gaze - the eyes. And second of all because you manage to put an invisible "vague" thing into words and most people disregarded it from the start, because of its "vagueness" and "not measurable".
      And another amazing thing you didn't do (aha) is bringing up scientific bullshit of studies, and so on, to this. You brought experience, your opinions, and observations.
      Very Well Done. Thank you so muchhhhh 🤗❤️

  • @abrahamcastillo2299
    @abrahamcastillo2299 Před 3 lety +827

    It’s such a shame this channel doesn’t post at all or frequently.. this channel shares a ton of incredibly helpful information and that was just by one video alone.
    I put this into practice (looking people in the eyes) and I was treated with more respect and I definitely got good ladies reactions 😬

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +165

      I’m so glad you’ve been able to put these techniques into practice, and moreover that you’ve actually found some success! It’s a fun process, especially comparing how you’re treated when you neglect eye contact versus when you actively use it. I appreciate your comment and interest in the state of this channel.
      I will be making more videos and uploading more over time. I have many ideas, and have put pen to paper countless times, but I’m still by no means a “CZcamsr” and certainly not able to make this a full-time gig. This terrain is still quite new to me, and I made my first video last year all in good fun. I never imagined people would actually find it or be interested enough to stick around for more! I was just testing the waters. Recently, I’ve been receiving a lot more comments and seen my viewership steadily increase in ways I never anticipated (but sometimes daydreamed about). It’s exciting, and I’m eager to share more of my passion project with a community warm and welcoming enough to watch it, but it will take time on my end. Thank you for watching the few videos I do (presently) have and for commenting here! I appreciate the support. Take care.

    • @abrahamcastillo2299
      @abrahamcastillo2299 Před 3 lety +44

      @@TheMeansofSeduction I’m telling you this right now; CZcams is the sort of thing that whatever amount of effort you put out is what you’ll get back.
      I highly suggest you take this into consideration.
      The value that this channel holds is the type of stuff people want to subscribe to.
      I can certainly see this channel getting big of you just put in more effort I promise you that.

    • @abrahamcastillo2299
      @abrahamcastillo2299 Před 3 lety +16

      You have a promising opportunity; you just need to grab it.

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +40

      @@abrahamcastillo2299 I appreciate your advice. It is obviously coming from a supportive and compassionate place. Unfortunately, I don’t think many people are graced with this type of advice when they most need it, so thank you. You have me feeling greatly inspired to create more, and I sincerely appreciate you taking the time to write all that you have here! Your words are more than a compliment, they’re the gentle nudge of encouragement only someone who really cares and believes in someone else would give; I appreciate that deeply. You, and the people like you that I’ve had the pleasure of speaking with in the comments so far, are finding me at what I’m sure is the most vital stage in my journey. I’m grateful to everyone who has recently viewed and commented, because those e-mail notifications suddenly reminded me of that “CZcams thing” I’d almost let slip away. I hope your life’s grandest goals and passions are met with the same kindness, support, and honest advice you’ve passed along to me. We need more people like you.

    • @ms.chauhan1435
      @ms.chauhan1435 Před 3 lety +11

      @@TheMeansofSeduction dear you are so polite and humble
      Love you dear ❤️🙏

  • @_soviaah
    @_soviaah Před rokem +36

    The narrator, the visuals, the pace, the choice of music everything about this video is calming for some reason

  • @dogguyful
    @dogguyful Před 3 lety +35

    The narrator in this video has such a beautiful and hypnotic voice.

  • @dusk5956
    @dusk5956 Před 3 lety +175

    I feel like people fall infatuated with me too quickly😂 but I do think I have good social skills and others just don’t feel confident with eye contact, and so I just thought that made me stand out.

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +32

      Absolutely. If you’re confident enough to make eye contact with anyone, especially amongst people who usually don’t initiate it themselves, you’ll surely stand out. Keep at it! Thanks for commenting. Take care!

    • @riksinha5
      @riksinha5 Před 3 lety +9

      Exactly, I never understood why people shy away with eye contact. So, I have to initiate with me. Plus point, my fierce hazel eyes with sharp dark eyebrows really hypnotise the people I am talking to. 😂😂😂😂

    • @dusk5956
      @dusk5956 Před 3 lety +6

      Rik Sinha oh you’re so dreamy😅

  • @AnnaNersesyanlight
    @AnnaNersesyanlight Před 3 lety +138

    So this is what true diplomats and politicians do!!!!

  • @13Maria.Cortez13
    @13Maria.Cortez13 Před rokem +50

    Seduce with your heart, mind, body, soul, spirit, aura, light beam, vibe, energy, frequency, vibration, power, beauty, wisdom, knowledge, authenticity, rawness, realness, rareness, etc. Not just with your beautiful, gorgeous, hypnotized, mesmerized irresistible temptation seduction eyes. 👀👁 no evil eye 🧿

  • @sathidevi6657
    @sathidevi6657 Před 3 lety +220

    So interesting.I am very fond of gazing at eyes,intense as well as very cold eyes.I visit prisons.I gaze at eyes.The reaction is a flood of tears.Your description is another level.

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +11

      I’m glad you found it interesting. Thanks for watching!

    • @charmingyoutuber2408
      @charmingyoutuber2408 Před 3 lety +20

      Probably from fear.

    • @beac8238
      @beac8238 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@charmingyoutuber2408from feeling seen. eye contact is connection. and many people experience fear at such, feeling worthless of it.

  • @zenabahmed4221
    @zenabahmed4221 Před 3 lety +317

    I love this video ! I’m so glad I stumbled upon it. One thing I do struggle with is maintaining eye contact with someone I find attractive because of the intimidation but now I am going to use it for my advantage

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +18

      I’m glad you found the video useful! I’m excited to hear that you’re feeling empowered to make eye contact and use it to your advantage now. It will take time and practice to integrate this into your interactions, but you’ll gain so much from extending yourself out of your comfort zone. Thank you for watching and commenting. Take care!

    • @charr007
      @charr007 Před 11 měsíci

      If you're looking all the people in their eyes will take you down mentally nowadays are many negative people

  • @sevithasheasam517
    @sevithasheasam517 Před 3 lety +39

    I am always complimented on my eyes....and I just realized I seem to use these seduction techniques without even knowing. Eye contact is somethin I know when and how to use powerfully...and now I realise it might be one of the reasons I intimidate some people...damn.
    It felt great to learn bout this though. Thanks a lot♡

  • @steviexo7238
    @steviexo7238 Před rokem +11

    Every man I’ve ever done this to is on a whim and it always progresses the relationship. Now this guy stops at my desk twice a day. I tried to back off w my gaze but I did it again and it started all over. The power is extremely addictive

  • @madeline1594
    @madeline1594 Před rokem +28

    NOTES:
    Keep FOCUS on you and your eyes occasionally shift focus on something other than your eyes (still you) to avoid FATIGUE. point out something the person is doing or is making you feel (preferably in the form of a compliment) to make them feel comfortable this is how you will LEAD. EMBED COMMANDS in. the form of i statements. plant (multiple) ideas like seeds, compliment an action to reinforce said action.

  • @supersucks
    @supersucks Před rokem +54

    Needless to say, I used to do this to my friends and professors. I would hold eye contact when they’re doing lectures and squint my eyes whenever they’re saying something that I don’t like. I was able to get a higher grade and would come off as charismatic.

    • @extea5416
      @extea5416 Před rokem +7

      Doesn't squinting eyes signal disproval?

    • @supersucks
      @supersucks Před 6 měsíci +1

      ⁠​⁠@@extea5416Yes it means disapproval. It would intimidate them or make them question their stance or what they’re doing, making them question themselves. With that, my expressions would linger in their minds making them think about me more-and them wanting for my approval subconsciously

  • @mistresskate9799
    @mistresskate9799 Před 10 měsíci +28

    Yes, yes, yes! Most communication is non-verbal body language and much can be said with the eyes! Loved this! 💋

  • @Poodle_Gun
    @Poodle_Gun Před 8 měsíci +8

    I'm going to break this down as I see it.
    1. Initiate and hold eye contact
    2. Break from eye contact to play with your hair or something on your person
    3. Talk from your own perspective "I". Remember that your observations are only from your perspective, not his or anyone else's.
    4. Cultivate an heir of *gratitude* and goodwill
    5. Be vulnerable
    I might have missed one! 😅

    • @Poodle_Gun
      @Poodle_Gun Před 8 měsíci

      The one I missed: reward with compliments

    • @Poodle_Gun
      @Poodle_Gun Před 8 měsíci

      Second one: get him alone.

  • @RainesWilliams
    @RainesWilliams Před 3 lety +95

    I really enjoyed watching this video and realized I seduce on the daily. I get that I’m a flirt from my friends often but I never understood what that meant exactly (and so I’d deflect saying “I’m a Libra” 🤷🏾‍♀️ )until now. I make eye contact whenever I have a conversation with someone and also have. I take pride in this characteristic, it’s me!

  • @mentalcat9529
    @mentalcat9529 Před 3 lety +34

    also using we instead of I is even more powerful...we have fun together, we... makes the other feel part of something

  • @davistrent1625
    @davistrent1625 Před 3 lety +91

    Thank you for making these. I was seduced by a con artist, not ever understanding the things she was doing to me until it was too late. She psychologically tortured me with drugs and stole all of my information. It's something I would not wish on my worst enemy.
    Bringing these techniques to light is incredibly important. And you use excellent conciseness in your videos. 🙏

  • @ddawgg7147
    @ddawgg7147 Před 2 lety +14

    I’ve always heard often from females entanglements that I had good eyes & everytime I go to naturally engage in conversation they’ll say “Whew Dnt look at me like that” & start blushing, I’m looking forward to advancing my Communication skills n eye contact bc I’m highly anti social n truly a introvert w/ no shame🤷🏾‍♂️😭, hard for me to socialize & interact as often

  • @Penelope416
    @Penelope416 Před 3 lety +38

    I remember watching the Turner Classic Movie channel when I was a kid and I remember seeing how large Bette Davis eyes were. I remember seeing her in a movie for the first time and thought how big and expressive her eyes were and I remember how beautiful and charismatic she was. I had been in love with classic/black and white films every since then!

  • @clea294
    @clea294 Před 3 lety +53

    That timid pleasure you get when you stumble upon a treasure of a channel. Fabulous work !

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +4

      Hello, Cléa! Thank you so much for watching! I appreciate your comment. Take care!

  • @arlet101
    @arlet101 Před 3 lety +21

    I am so happy I found this channel ! Can't wait to see more from you ❤️

  • @tistadasgupta5265
    @tistadasgupta5265 Před 3 lety +196

    This video is amazing, I'm so grateful to youtube algorithm that I stumbled upon this greatness.
    I want more of such videos. Please make more and post it.

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +11

      Thank you so much for watching! I’m glad you enjoyed the video. As a new creator here, I really appreciate your comment of encouragement and support. These types of comments are always very motivating. Thank you!

    • @nemanjanikolic636
      @nemanjanikolic636 Před 3 lety +1

      @@TheMeansofSeduction can you make more videos about manipulation with eyes pleeasee,or maybe with voive,whichever you choose it would be good.Thanks in advance.

  • @sujatak9342
    @sujatak9342 Před 3 lety +27

    Can't wait to learn what your channel holds. I'm excited .

  • @vague9194
    @vague9194 Před 3 lety +85

    So excited to see future uploads from this channel. These videos are absolute gold! informative, well-researched and educational, plus the example phrases and scenes really help

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +2

      I’m glad you liked the video and found some of my examples helpful! Thank you for watching and commenting. Take care!

  • @onelittledropintheocean
    @onelittledropintheocean Před rokem +33

    Use this skill wisely because you are playing with innocent people's feelings ... Even if you don't care about that and only care about yourself, what goes around comes around ✨👀✨

    • @visible5632
      @visible5632 Před rokem +1

      One little drop in ocean -- meaning for you this sentence?

    • @onelittledropintheocean
      @onelittledropintheocean Před rokem

      @@visible5632 It is a metaphor to describe CZcams as an ocean and we are the drops of water that make up that ocean ... Every little drop equally matters for without them, there would be no ocean.

  • @ScribblebytesWorldwide
    @ScribblebytesWorldwide Před 3 lety +94

    So basically you're saying that I was born as a natural hypnotist?

  • @harmoniousandtranquilhannah

    wow! this is so powerful! thank you for the tips! i’m practicing looking into the eyes of my childhood teddy bear and myself in the mirror.

  • @Justcallmepey
    @Justcallmepey Před 3 lety +11

    I am OBSESSED with this channel 😩

  • @maricarurmeneta6216
    @maricarurmeneta6216 Před 7 měsíci +2

    There are studies that too much eye contact can make you appear weird or rude. There are people who don't like prolong eye contact because that feels uncomfortable. You can have eye contact but don't over do it, make sure it's still natural and genuine, because they will uncomfortable or they will think you're a psychopath.

  • @angelledelacruz1991
    @angelledelacruz1991 Před 3 lety +12

    I do this unintentionally i guess. They say i have nice eyes, a girl actually told me i give eye contact when talking and she said she likes it. I always became friends with people, but it's not because i hypnotized them because people still like me on chat or social media. It's just a bonus. I always get boys and men to profess their feelings at some point. I had this classmate who i play Mobile games with and we're close and fun so we play a staring game and he ended up falling in love with me. I actually like him, but i was in a relationship at the time. I think i can use this video in work interviews, reporting and business. Oh, yes, i think i used this unintentionally at a delegation in my school as a president, we won best company 😂

  • @dollyingaround
    @dollyingaround Před 3 lety +11

    I did this a lot with this guy I used to like. in the hallways every time it felt like everything was in slow motion & we were the only ones there.

  • @tsundoku97
    @tsundoku97 Před 3 lety +29

    Subscribed immediately! It was about time the ladies started talking about this ....love the vibe too!

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +3

      Thank you for subscribing! I’m glad you enjoyed the video, too. Take care!

  • @francosanson9623
    @francosanson9623 Před 10 měsíci

    I watched this video a couple years ago. Didn't even remember it existed until it just popped again in my recommended videos.
    I had a deep realization: all the techniques I use (or have been using for the last years) on the matter, were subconsciously planted in my head by this video years ago. I became good in this and always knew what to do in seduction, but never knew how I knew it. This video is the key to that explanation.
    I hope you realize how powerful this video is, given my experience. Absolute quality content here.

  • @c.g.44
    @c.g.44 Před 3 lety +50

    This video is amazing. I have NEVER ever ever (!!!) watched the same video 5 times in a row. This cobcept is amazing: the music, black and white old movies, concise & short teachings, your voice over. You have a extremely refreshing glance on the topic, that is nowhere to be seen on youtube. Stick to this concept, I truly believe that you will form a great community in no time.
    About the topic of the video, I have been practicing the 'intense eye contact' this past year and it was extremely effective (sometimes even a bit too much because men interpret it as a sign of interest when it is not (how to deal with that but still gaining connections/favors?)). But I didn't know that it related to hypnotism, that I have been practicing on myself. I love to see these two subjects merge. I will totally implement the suggestive phrases, starting tomorrow. Thank you for doing such an amazing video!

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +8

      Hello, Céline! Thank you so much for watching and leaving me this sweet comment! I really appreciate your feedback.
      I’m so glad you enjoyed the video and that you’ve found success using similar practices over the course of your life. It’s amazing what simple eye contact, gestures, and body language can do, isn’t it? It sounds like you’ve put this to good use!
      As for men assuming you have romantic interest in them, I’d say there’s probably very little you can do to control their reactions in that way. Sometimes, the assumed interest can get you more of what you want (if you play along for awhile), but this can be dangerous, so I hardly recommend feeding into the wrong ideas, especially if you’re aware it’s already been misinterpreted. Acting aloof to someone’s obvious romantic interest in you only works until they make formal advances, then you can’t ignore it anymore and it’s probably better if you don’t. It can make everything so much more uncomfortable in the long-run. I just establish my boundaries early and stick to them unwaveringly, and I always tell other women to do the same. Stay safe out there!
      Thanks again for watching and commenting. I am so grateful for your support on my little channel. Take care!

    • @c.g.44
      @c.g.44 Před 3 lety +4

      @@TheMeansofSeduction Boundaries, got it. It comes so easy to me with people who are my age. But anytime I have to deal with older people, I feel like a child again... I just have to remember that I am a 20 years-old adult now and that it is okay to say no.
      Thank you for taking the time to reply. Inputs from experienced people are always valuable.
      Big hugs from France !

  • @user-asfh2ubiv5dh
    @user-asfh2ubiv5dh Před rokem +203

    The aim of Seduction 2:50
    Focus 3:25
    Fatigue 3:55

    • @Shellfrfr
      @Shellfrfr Před rokem +12

      I tried this on my manager she smiled and gave me more hours😂

  • @benzosiara
    @benzosiara Před rokem +4

    i used to do that a lot with my teachers. when i wanted a higher grade for the semester, id go and act nice and say things like "i really care about this subject, since its one of my favourites. id really like to get the chance to get a higher grade, i could do an extra project or retake the last test, if that could help". this way, the teacher wluld give me an extra assignment he didnt even plan to have anyone do. saying i love his lessons or the subject was also flattering for him. another tip is to lower your head and look up at that person, it makes them feel like theyre in power and, ironically, they might listen to your suggestions and use them as their own ideas, as if theyre telling you what to do and not doing what YOU want them to do.

    • @lennox4653
      @lennox4653 Před rokem

      I practice this a lot in the mirror, but at the time to use it I always fail and look like a maniac

  • @101Linkisawesome
    @101Linkisawesome Před rokem +17

    The information here is better than some $500 pick-up-artist's courses or social dynamics books. And very practical to boot. Will we ever see more of these? Do we even need more? I don't know. The brevity and how information packed these vids are really amazes me. Even down to the structure and pacing of the videos also demonstrating some of what they're teaching, it's all so well done. I'd fully understand and respect if they think what they uploaded is all that needs to be said on The Means of Seduction.
    I want to know more about the people behind the channel though, even if they don't make more content on this subject.

  • @MoonLightOnWater1
    @MoonLightOnWater1 Před 3 lety +18

    Humbly, I have had this ability for years....but I choose to use this “power” only for good😜.

  • @hg5507
    @hg5507 Před 3 lety +14

    Ive read up on seduction, it really is a craft.. This is the cherry on top. Thank you :)

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 Před rokem +6

    This is exactly how I get my jobs, and land my interviews with professional etiquette and charm. Subtly, is everything

  • @152studio
    @152studio Před rokem +40

    Loving the content, man. Don't stop doing what you're doing. I would like to talk to you about translate your videos to PT-BR. I'm sure a lot of people here will love your content. 🇧🇷

    • @itsmanzano
      @itsmanzano Před rokem +3

      Se tu conseguir vai ser irado

  • @vulcanworf7422
    @vulcanworf7422 Před 3 lety +42

    Excellent video in many ways! More videos please, this was so good 😊

  • @mizdani
    @mizdani Před 2 lety +33

    You should also make podcasts with this kind of content! So good

  • @krissyramsey3934
    @krissyramsey3934 Před 2 lety +3

    Beautiful! Thank you. I am finding some of the best videos ever now

  • @Nanitamochi
    @Nanitamochi Před rokem +5

    Everytime I see the guy I’m dating do something nice or clever I say “that was so smart of you, you’re very good at this” hence him buying tickets for a movie for us online, he smiles very happy about the little simple things and does it again of course

  • @nelsonstanley3925
    @nelsonstanley3925 Před 2 lety +4

    FANTASTICA!!! Very very helpful video.I have used eye to eye contact many times in my office with my superiors and co workers .All I got was very high respect and good relations with every one around
    Let me tell u your video was world class and so much to lear from.I am gonna watch all your videos from now on.Keep up the high standard. Good luck.

  • @fionapetersson6540
    @fionapetersson6540 Před 3 lety +5

    love this vid! It’s straight to the point!

  • @eeaotly
    @eeaotly Před 3 lety +178

    Subscribed. This channel looks like a retro version for "Charisma on Command" channel. Nice to see so different approaches on quite similar subjects.

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +18

      Hello, Cristiana! Thank you so much for watching, commenting, and especially for subscribing! I’ll be sure to check out more of the “Charisma on Command” channel, as I’d never heard of it before. At a glance, it already looks like a very fun educational channel I might enjoy. There’s so many channels on here, I’m always pleasantly surprised to find one that’s new to me. Thanks for introducing me to this one! Take care, and thanks again for subscribing!

    • @itscris01
      @itscris01 Před 3 lety +5

      Omg another Cristiana

  • @boryanavladimirova6525
    @boryanavladimirova6525 Před rokem +2

    YOU’RE AN ICON

  • @sonimoretti
    @sonimoretti Před 3 lety +9

    I really enjoy the vid!! Grate work!

  • @kinseydesignsbrands
    @kinseydesignsbrands Před 3 lety +29

    Love this breakdown! Your voice is gorgeous. Subscribed! ❤️

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +4

      Such a lovely compliment. Thank you! Thank you for watching, commenting, AND subscribing as well. Take care!

    • @kinseydesignsbrands
      @kinseydesignsbrands Před 3 lety

      @@TheMeansofSeduction You're very welcome! You take care! Looking forward to hearing more from you!

  • @jairhernandez9610
    @jairhernandez9610 Před rokem +5

    Content is amazing!!!! Please keep doing amazing works like this

  • @viktoriaeve5733
    @viktoriaeve5733 Před 3 lety +5

    Thank you for this love🙏🏻💜

  • @Self-taughtJay
    @Self-taughtJay Před rokem +2

    Saying "I need a raise or you should love me" sounds aggressive. Nobody wants to face a tiger. Every feared leader ended up dead. Subbed cuz I love deep thinking.

  • @sairabaig3118
    @sairabaig3118 Před 2 lety +21

    Tip 1: Inherit your father's pretty eyes.
    Tip 2: That's it.

  • @joeceleron5022
    @joeceleron5022 Před 3 lety +11

    Stuff like this actually make me freeze in real life with math algorithms floating around my head

  • @blisswkc3344
    @blisswkc3344 Před 3 lety +8

    Thank y'all so much dearest 🌹
    Y'all such an inspiration 🥰
    Appreciate y'all from the bottom of my heart 💖
    Be Blissful Eternally 🙏👼🌈

  • @goldenjaguar7690
    @goldenjaguar7690 Před 2 lety +2

    Excellent, Generous, BRAVO on the presentation as well ! Thank you !

  • @lifewithlay1152
    @lifewithlay1152 Před 3 lety +23

    I love how I knew this w/out watching this video. I knew there was a name for it. Literally the other day I got frustrated cuss long story short I rubbed my eyes while I had my contacts in & it made lines in my eyes so now I’m upset cuss my eyes aren’t pearly clear white 😭🌚🌚🌚

    • @TheMeansofSeduction
      @TheMeansofSeduction  Před 3 lety +4

      Oh, no! I’m so sorry this happened and that your eyes were scratched by your contacts! That sounds so painful. I hope everything heals quickly and looks more normal soon. Take care of yourself! Best wishes.

    • @oliviasnow9662
      @oliviasnow9662 Před 3 lety

      Law of attraction

  • @ballsacky101
    @ballsacky101 Před rokem +5

    I used this on somebody and they passed out; my rizz is despicable

    • @Goo_Gle.
      @Goo_Gle. Před 25 dny

      Same same. I look right in their eyes n they just passed out. My arms around their neck was a really nice touch. Don't know why they were screaming they couldn't breathe tho.

  • @BaebiDoll
    @BaebiDoll Před rokem +2

    "the seed of need" i like that ♡

  • @teralee4987
    @teralee4987 Před 3 lety +2

    I LOVE the videos you are posting!

  • @leviAckerman0910
    @leviAckerman0910 Před 3 lety +28

    The first 10 minutes video that hypnotized me in believing that it ended up in less than 5 minutes.

  • @rimshajehangir3395
    @rimshajehangir3395 Před 2 lety +4

    Your voice comforted me in ways I can't explain

  • @callmemaryam1
    @callmemaryam1 Před 24 dny

    This is one of the best videos I’ve ever watched! Wow ❤

  • @MicheleKaiser-io2dx
    @MicheleKaiser-io2dx Před 5 měsíci +2

    Very good advice and comments. Had to learn this fast when I became a bartender when going to school and really needed to make good money. This ability served me very well in the following 50 yrs.

  • @sunseraph1919
    @sunseraph1919 Před 2 lety +26

    In the time of Corona, when all I have is my eyes, this is actually perfect. 👌🏼

  • @neomaila
    @neomaila Před 10 měsíci +5

    I love this content. Although I find it very hard to maintain eye contact, this is very educational.❤

  • @NoName-zb1gm
    @NoName-zb1gm Před 10 měsíci +2

    If you can stir up someone's emotions with eye contact that's a good start to a relationship because eye contact is the purest way to get and feel attraction for another person.