How to Flirt Using Your EYES (7 Flirts that drive men WILD!)

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 1. 06. 2024
  • ►►[FREE Presentation] What Men Secretly Want But Will Never Admit:
    go.attractgreatguys.com/learn...
  • Jak na to + styl

Komentáře • 1,3K

  • @lizg4690
    @lizg4690 Před 4 lety +3808

    Me: watches multiple CZcams videos on how to flirt with eyes
    Me when my crush is around: Forgets everything I learned and runs away

    • @rebecca60172
      @rebecca60172 Před 4 lety +23

      😂😂

    • @malissa7469
      @malissa7469 Před 4 lety +16

      Lol 😂

    • @wig99
      @wig99 Před 4 lety +35

      i felt this on a personal level

    • @lillian7624
      @lillian7624 Před 4 lety +50

      My crush stood like 4 metres away and i think he smiled at me. Because i were so uncertain i looked away. The day after he didn't even look at me. Im Feeling still bad although it is almost a week ago.😭🤦🏼‍♀️😂

    • @lilapetrol
      @lilapetrol Před 4 lety +7

      Sounds familiar..

  • @Kay_ohay
    @Kay_ohay Před 5 lety +3785

    Lmaooo if he has a lazy eye focus on the eye that’s active 😂

  • @TahoeSnowbird
    @TahoeSnowbird Před 6 měsíci +56

    When I was young and single in an office full of men, some of them actually remarked that when they looked at me, all they saw were my eyes and my lips. I ended falling in love with one of my male colleagues. We dated 3 months before he proposed and married 5 months after that. We were married 51 years 4 months and 21 days before God took him to his eternal home 2 years and 22 days ago. My husband often said he loved the way I looked at him. I miss him beyond measure and can't wait to be reunited with him.

    • @SwahiliSpicE
      @SwahiliSpicE Před 3 měsíci +3

      This is the sweetest thing I’ve seen today apart from my 6yr old son picking flowers for me

    • @Nittychirayath
      @Nittychirayath Před 28 dny

      Sweetest

  • @allibrown8960
    @allibrown8960 Před 4 lety +1426

    As a natural flirt, I can tell you that the holding a guy's glance is powerful stuff. Especially if you're walking in oppoaite directions, and you catch him already looking at you. Hold the gaze, keep walking, do a side-ways grin (sort-of a "knowing smile"), and keep the smile as you look away as you pass each other. Feels awesome!

    • @Miriamchika7
      @Miriamchika7 Před 4 lety +39

      You said it all😊😊😊😊

    • @cori8212
      @cori8212 Před 3 lety +86

      But like last week I caught my crush that sits in front of me in art class looking at me, and then we like maintained eye contact until I was like red like a tomato- ahhhh I don’t understand himmmmm ;-;

    • @laurenyoon3298
      @laurenyoon3298 Před 3 lety +14

      @@cori8212 lmfaoooo ayo

    • @shania.-.
      @shania.-. Před 3 lety +4

      @@cori8212 ahhhhhh lmao 😭

    • @kalyatime5219
      @kalyatime5219 Před 3 lety +13

      Tell me more about flirting please 🥺

  • @charlesyun7803
    @charlesyun7803 Před 4 lety +1623

    I’m Asian. They can barely see my eyes to begin with.

  • @ashleypeipeiAUS
    @ashleypeipeiAUS Před 5 lety +1723

    Now I know why occasionally I found some strangers were staring me that long, they were practicing 😆😆

    • @Naturelife-ph3oi
      @Naturelife-ph3oi Před 5 lety +9

      Ashley Peipei 🤣🤣🤣

    • @rakyramesh3333
      @rakyramesh3333 Před 5 lety +8

      😆😆😆

    • @jsmum196
      @jsmum196 Před 5 lety +99

      If it's a guy starting at you that long, he's into you. Guys don't waste time looking at someone they're not interested in.

    • @AllasMusicChannel
      @AllasMusicChannel Před 5 lety

      😂😂😂

    • @feigekatarina5745
      @feigekatarina5745 Před 4 lety +14

      Haha, I know! Walking into stores and feeling eyes on you can now be less odd.

  • @sugagal1987
    @sugagal1987 Před 4 lety +963

    Me: looking at my crush slighty tilting my head looking at him in his active eye biting my lips twirling my hair imagining kissing him
    Him: are you okay
    Me: 😔

  • @iasahmadaninurmariam6227
    @iasahmadaninurmariam6227 Před 5 lety +891

    Haha ... yes I use my eyes to tease and flirt with a man in the train station and no smile. We always stare each other no smile and no talking at all. After those 3 months stare and flirt finally he approached me and we started talking for a month. After a month then we started dating. Now we are on 1 year dating. One time he told me that my eyes and the way I looked at him that made him attracted to me and could not forget me keep thinking about me for 3 months till finally he had courage to approached me.

    • @manischkreativ8868
      @manischkreativ8868 Před 4 lety +40

      All the best wishes 🥰
      I've fallen for a guy I see in the bus every morning. I am so freaking shy, it almost feels like I am totally unable when I see him.
      This must be unattractive as hell

    • @swedishfish5622
      @swedishfish5622 Před 4 lety +23

      wish i had magical powers like u

    • @gachasdevils6871
      @gachasdevils6871 Před 4 lety +4

      Luuuckyyy

    • @gachasdevils6871
      @gachasdevils6871 Před 4 lety +11

      @@manischkreativ8868 although im not a guy nor man but a girl I find that really cute,and if he has a soft spot for cute stuff then keep on going and see of he aproaches you

    • @manischkreativ8868
      @manischkreativ8868 Před 4 lety +6

      @@gachasdevils6871
      Thank you for your cute advice.
      Well - it has been almost a year now 😅😭
      He's sitting almost behind me, right now BUT some chick has installed her ass right behind me, so he can't see me anymore🤦🏾‍♀️
      I even can not figure out what that look in his face had to mean as we stood outside the bus 🤷🏿‍♀️
      Seems like I'll have to do the first approach and get to know what he might think
      So annoying

  • @tammythorpe775
    @tammythorpe775 Před 5 lety +1552

    I learned in a self defense class that if a woman makes eye contact with a person, instead of looking down, she is less likely to be attacked. This is because she shows confidence and an attacker is looking for someone who won't put up a fight. Plus she could also identify the attacker. I do not recommend the long stare, because you may get an angry reply from some.

    • @BD638
      @BD638 Před 5 lety +78

      Yeah I do this all the time and it disarms people instantly

    • @aliciabrandt7889
      @aliciabrandt7889 Před 5 lety +115

      Tammy Thorpe, I have never taken a self defense course, but I noticed many years ago that yes, the creepers absolutely do not like a confident woman who makes eye contact! Good thing to keep in mind!

    • @aliciabrandt7889
      @aliciabrandt7889 Před 5 lety +23

      @@BD638 Same here. Creepers don't like me.😊

    • @tlvance3973
      @tlvance3973 Před 5 lety +54

      SO true. Besides just confidence, it expresses respect of others, equality, AND general alertness. Been in more than a few cities and countries... It works.

    • @Dancestar1981
      @Dancestar1981 Před 5 lety +3

      Doesn’t always work I know plenty of women who tried this while held at knife point and were still sexually assaulted

  • @Evelyn-jn2qb
    @Evelyn-jn2qb Před 5 lety +766

    In a conversation when the other person is making really intense eye contact I get really nervous and stressed out 😬

    • @Naturelife-ph3oi
      @Naturelife-ph3oi Před 5 lety +28

      Makes me wanted to crossed my eyes

    • @vkng_drag0n982
      @vkng_drag0n982 Před 5 lety +8

      Me too!

    • @corgisrule21
      @corgisrule21 Před 4 lety +21

      Same. It makes me really uncomfortable

    • @evapenner5223
      @evapenner5223 Před 4 lety +32

      Same. I get really nervous and uncomfortable and start stumbling on my words. Especially if it's a guy you like. The guy I like has insanely beautiful blue eyes and when he looks at you it's just so intense. Like I can't look into his eyes because that feels wierd and uncomfortable so I just end up staring at the wall behind or the ground.

    • @gachasdevils6871
      @gachasdevils6871 Před 4 lety +3

      Im that person honestly

  • @annoyingsubscriber3257
    @annoyingsubscriber3257 Před 4 lety +28

    1. Look deep into his eyes
    2. Keep eye contact
    3. Don't stop
    4. As he runs away,run after him
    5. Now, in jail,you'll have time to think and built self confidence
    Works every time

    • @glitter_queen23
      @glitter_queen23 Před 3 lety +1

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @Carmen-hu9vk
      @Carmen-hu9vk Před 2 lety +2

      @@glitter_queen23 Laughed till I cried! LOL LOL LOL

    • @anva4779
      @anva4779 Před 27 dny

      😂😂😂😂😂 can’t stop laughing

  • @pisceanrat
    @pisceanrat Před 5 lety +699

    CONFIDENCE
    1. Glance down his lips 2. Bite your lips 3. Wet your lips 4. Look at ONE of his eyes 5. Slight side look 6. Look away 7. Imagine kissing him

    • @manischkreativ8868
      @manischkreativ8868 Před 4 lety +47

      These are the seven things that disgust me the most. I mean when a guy does this while I pass by.
      I can hardly imagine that a guy would find it attractive when I do this 😅🙈

    • @daniella4889
      @daniella4889 Před 4 lety +36

      manisch kreativ if a guy wet their lips while talking to me I’d throw up

    • @manischkreativ8868
      @manischkreativ8868 Před 4 lety +5

      Maybe I would give it a try though

    • @goodnews5991
      @goodnews5991 Před 4 lety +2

      @@daniella4889 the eyes have it😉

    • @Tzavaot
      @Tzavaot Před 3 lety +13

      As a guy, this stuff makes girls look insane. The bad kind of insane.

  • @magenta4443
    @magenta4443 Před 4 lety +394

    There is a guy at work that, when he looks into my eyes, I get an almost electric shock.

    • @janedoe5829
      @janedoe5829 Před 4 lety +6

      magenta44 me too

    • @annibanani5989
      @annibanani5989 Před 4 lety +7

      Hahahaha same at my work 😂😂😂😂✌🏻

    • @rosemontelongo510
      @rosemontelongo510 Před 4 lety +32

      Same... there's a man with such strong glance in his eyes. One time we locked our eye contact about 7 seconds without saying a word.
      I just hate that it happens in my work place. That is not nice.

    • @BlacKWidoW70s
      @BlacKWidoW70s Před 3 lety +3

      @Jenny Ortiz hahahahahaha omg are u serious?

    • @Tinyfurball
      @Tinyfurball Před 3 lety +1

      @Jenny Ortiz Gross. 🤣😭🤣

  • @ilikebisquits4266
    @ilikebisquits4266 Před 3 lety +335

    'Look at his lips'.
    He's wearing a mask 😭

    • @khanyiswapino660
      @khanyiswapino660 Před 3 lety +6

      Brooooo😭😭

    • @coachevy2851
      @coachevy2851 Před 3 lety

      😆😆😆😅

    • @lindahandley5267
      @lindahandley5267 Před 3 lety +2

      We can't interact as human beings with the freakin' masks. We can take them off now thank goodness!

    • @lilibratic1330
      @lilibratic1330 Před 2 lety +2

      Ahaha😅...but he will see you looking ther isnt it?!

    • @SASHA-wv2ls
      @SASHA-wv2ls Před 2 lety +8

      Just look anyways, his subconscious won't be able to tell the difference and it will still pick it up

  • @asummer6721
    @asummer6721 Před 5 lety +414

    I usually stare at people sometimes too intense or too long because of bad eyesight hahaha trying to focus my vision is a struggle

  • @iMatchEnergyLikeABoss
    @iMatchEnergyLikeABoss Před 4 lety +118

    I always focus on the lazy eye, I don’t want it to feel left out. 👀

  • @julitakopczynska8178
    @julitakopczynska8178 Před 5 lety +1859

    is this what my life has come to?
    i was so happy not being interested in anyone... ugh

    • @CDGMR1
      @CDGMR1 Před 5 lety +23

      spaghettimonster 😂😂😂😂😂 I know 😰

    • @RS-wf2xc
      @RS-wf2xc Před 5 lety +54

      And yet here we are... Hi ladies!👋

    • @june049
      @june049 Před 5 lety +6

      spaghettimonster
      Lol

    • @beyourself4996
      @beyourself4996 Před 5 lety +1

      spaghettimonster same board

    • @hayaalzayani9309
      @hayaalzayani9309 Před 5 lety +1

      So true

  • @kasiaup
    @kasiaup Před 5 lety +381

    Omg I'm howling!! I can just imagine me using all these tips at once.... the lazy eye comment made me spit out my wine.

    • @mckoywilliams7910
      @mckoywilliams7910 Před 5 lety +1

      I tried doing everything but my husband did not show up, someone else helped me, i don't believe this video anymore, All thanks to GREAT ODODO who helped me And my husband is back to me, Tell him your problem through his WhatsApp number +2349072897962

    • @minanini1
      @minanini1 Před 4 lety

      Jajaaa

    • @belladonna9046
      @belladonna9046 Před 4 lety

      😂

    • @ericamercado4023
      @ericamercado4023 Před 2 lety +1

      😂😂😂

  • @fairyfay30
    @fairyfay30 Před 5 lety +409

    i bite my lips when i'm thinking/ concentrating too.

    • @hannah-tl1yy
      @hannah-tl1yy Před 5 lety +4

      Same lol

    • @elinashane3744
      @elinashane3744 Před 5 lety +36

      Saaaaameeee my bff thought I was seducing him during our math test just because I was biting my lips

    • @ablurida
      @ablurida Před 5 lety +5

      same I either bite my lips or my tongue

    • @ashertenobe6689
      @ashertenobe6689 Před 5 lety +7

      Me too. My aunt also noticed that when I'm really focused on something, my lips move like I'm whispering. So I wonder if I do this when I'm focusing on my crush when he's talking to me. Bc when my crush starts up a story he talks for a long time so I get really focused on his eyes and general face

    • @AllasMusicChannel
      @AllasMusicChannel Před 5 lety +3

      Elina Shane 😂😂😂

  • @morrisontheoverman7335
    @morrisontheoverman7335 Před 3 lety +85

    As a man I can clearly say this is so true when a women looks at you it's so attractive but we always make the move on the second glance, the reason is we want to make sure first and what this does is that we take it as you are attracted to us so we know we stand a better chance. Trust me when I say look at at least twice and if his a confident man he will aproach you

  • @stephanieortega8344
    @stephanieortega8344 Před 5 lety +143

    he was looking at me so I decided to look back at him and he looked away smiling lmao I got him there

  • @rdhette944
    @rdhette944 Před 5 lety +584

    My groceryshopping have been so much fun, after watching this video. I practice this eyecontact with solo men shopping. Most solo men are shopping with just a small basket, because, they seldom know what to buy. If they have a partner, they often take a trolley, and have a shoppinglist. This is the reactions I get: Most of them stare back at me, with a ?-mark, on theire face. I keep eyecontact, and smile as i pass them in the aile. Most of them studder a low "hello", and I can see how they searching their memory, in order to try to remember who I am, or where they have seem me before. Almost nobody approaches me, but a great number of the men, start following me around the store, at a small distance. I feel great, and surprised, that this works. Ladies - try it!

    • @gabriellavanderveer4931
      @gabriellavanderveer4931 Před 5 lety +144

      Gastly nice way to get stalked and hurt. 😵

    • @jenniferterry4665
      @jenniferterry4665 Před 5 lety +22

      Gabriella Tuccitto 😂😂😂

    • @lauramalizia9636
      @lauramalizia9636 Před 5 lety +27

      @@gabriellavanderveer4931 I know right. I don't want to be followed. It's happened too many times without doing this. I'm the mother of 2 boys 14 and 12. And my older son starts to catch on.

    • @rdhette944
      @rdhette944 Před 5 lety +58

      well, norwegian men are usually not stalkers, and brought up to respect women. I don't do this to foreigners, cause they have different culture, and would react wrong to this. The idea is to have fun, and get a smile, not to overplay it.

    • @aliciabrandt7889
      @aliciabrandt7889 Před 5 lety +11

      Gastly! Lol! Maybe I will give this method a shot, after all!🤣

  • @Msamm777
    @Msamm777 Před 5 lety +129

    So true! I was walking away from my son’s game and noticed a tall blond man with a “open” face talking with another gentleman. As I was walking up to him I noticed his incredible blue eyes and in a quick moment thought how beautifully blue they were. As I finished that thought he stopped talking with the other man and in a non hurried though appreciative way smiled and said Hi. I was so taken aback I said hi right back and smiled though I kept on walking. It was a very interesting moment!

    • @christinemccarty8128
      @christinemccarty8128 Před 3 lety +16

      should have stopped to talk with him, who knows, he was probably married, but maybe not.

  • @libbylandscape3560
    @libbylandscape3560 Před 5 lety +161

    The problem with making eye contact with unknown men is that they start following me, and that can be frightening especially if I wasn’t aware until out in the parking lot.

    • @lauramalizia9636
      @lauramalizia9636 Před 5 lety

      Ikr..

    • @candyxoxo19
      @candyxoxo19 Před 5 lety +24

      That's when you run. 🚶

    • @lynnleroy2024
      @lynnleroy2024 Před 5 lety +8

      Omg this guy was following me too. I only looked at him for a second in a public building. He left the building an hour later , I didn't know he was following me until I was all the way down the street & I looked behind me .. creepy ! . I was walking to the light rail station he followed me, so I decided to wait for the train on the other side. It was frightening .

    • @PinkElfHSP
      @PinkElfHSP Před 5 lety +4

      The next level up in confidence may be showing the courage to meet him. Choose a safe place, obviously, but let him follow you to where you can relax and, with more eye contact, subtly invite him to join you.

    • @bori80
      @bori80 Před 4 lety

      Same happens to me...lol

  • @umanapresents
    @umanapresents Před 5 lety +418

    eye contact is so much fun, and you do need confidence and strong faith in your self , without being judgemental , just allowing yourself to be who you really are. without trying to impress. I was at a party in Tulum talking with a vey succeesful and carismatic hotelier from San Trope and somehow out of all the girls half naked surrounding him , he didnt stop complimenting me in my feminine energy even when I was covered head to tow. amazing xx

    • @bsam2924
      @bsam2924 Před 5 lety +7

      Cool

    • @radheshyamdevotion7132
      @radheshyamdevotion7132 Před 4 lety +1

      A hotel in Saint Tropez... must be a happy man

    • @yansan8837
      @yansan8837 Před 4 lety +7

      Btw i’m a girl- today there was handsome boy keep staring at me
      And we made about 5-10 times eye contact :> yeah right that’s was really fun🥺

    • @fionagregory8078
      @fionagregory8078 Před 4 lety +2

      Toe not tow.

    • @kokikak4023
      @kokikak4023 Před 4 lety +6

      Confidence and strong faith of myself ..??
      I wonder where can i get that ??
      I even hate looking at myself in the mirror .

  • @Ifebos
    @Ifebos Před 4 lety +138

    😂🤣😂 if he has a lazy eye 👁 Stare at the eye that’s active. Lmao. I’m soooo dead.

    • @breezy75
      @breezy75 Před 2 lety +1

      😂😂😂

    • @irinaivanovic9792
      @irinaivanovic9792 Před 2 lety +1

      Ines Febos Laughed so hard at this even though I'm 2 years late, ahahah!

  • @sleazybtd
    @sleazybtd Před 5 lety +134

    When he said look at one of his eyes, I thought about the movie Moana when she got picked up by that giant crab and he tells her to just pick one eye to look at.

  • @dawnpratt4608
    @dawnpratt4608 Před 5 lety +24

    Strange enough I did all this before I dated my now husband! Had not even watched this video! The way in which my husband looked at me was like no man ever and his eyes still shine to this day and he loves the way my eyes shine when I look at him!

  • @lindahandley5267
    @lindahandley5267 Před 3 lety +38

    I love the 'getting caught' looking. We all do it when someone catches our eye. It's nice!

  • @CraftyLori
    @CraftyLori Před 5 lety +211

    I know this is an older video, I took your eye contact advice and it really does work! I tried it at work(I’m a cashier at a store where the customers are 90% men) and I have gotten many dates and prospective dates from single men that came through my line. I recently turned 51! My life changed a year ago I became single(it was a blindside I didn’t know that was coming). Thanks for your videos and advice. 🙂

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 Před 3 lety +1

      CraftyLori Lori Simmon,you deserve a good man 🙏🙏🙏

    • @cinbeano
      @cinbeano Před 3 lety +2

      Super late reply but I’m wondering how that works as a cashier considering you have to talk and be friendly to guests. Would that not come off as nice and/or professional?

    • @CraftyLori
      @CraftyLori Před 3 lety +5

      @@cinbeano Nope people find it uncomfortable when they are ichecking out at a register they rarely make eye contact and most don’t chit chat, they are usually crabby and just want to get their items check out and leave.

    • @oscarwilliamson1264
      @oscarwilliamson1264 Před 3 lety +5

      @@CraftyLori hope you are with a good man now?

  • @celestialmaat9462
    @celestialmaat9462 Před 4 lety +73

    Damn!! I’m a flirt and didn’t even know it 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @lorrainespiteri2509
      @lorrainespiteri2509 Před 2 lety

      Almost every woman is a flirt without acknowledging it

    • @ldive
      @ldive Před 2 lety +1

      @@lorrainespiteri2509 No, just no... lol

  • @prunek6840
    @prunek6840 Před 4 lety +17

    1) glans down at his lips.
    2) Bite your lower lip with light pressure.
    3)wet your lips lightly.
    4) gentle relax stare at one of his eye.
    5) Make eye contact maybe by tilting your head on one side or the other a bit.
    6) reset yourself by looking away and back again if you feel like you have been staring a bit too long.
    7) Imagine yourself kissing him.

  • @jennahfeindell2447
    @jennahfeindell2447 Před 5 lety +383

    This video has me roarin 😂 don’t naw on your Bottom lip, don’t soak them in saliva and don’t stare at his lazy eye hahah great life advice really.

    • @samanthajane11.11
      @samanthajane11.11 Před 5 lety +2

      Looool!!

    • @deplorabledixie2834
      @deplorabledixie2834 Před 5 lety +18

      the biting on lower lip would really creep me out ..that is not a good move for anyone to do

    • @anoukc6928
      @anoukc6928 Před 5 lety +7

      Deplor AbleDixie it depends how you do it. You should be very subtle

    • @heartbeats4u250
      @heartbeats4u250 Před 5 lety +8

      Oops. I bite my lip without even noticing and sometimes I catch my crush is staring at me when I unconsciously do it😟😂

  • @nightmare20
    @nightmare20 Před 4 lety +97

    I HATE eye contact, I tend to avoid it even when I’m talking to people cause eye contacts are so personal and uncomfortable. BUT there’s this guy at my nee workplace who have been staring at me a whole lot, I only noticed him recently, caught him staring. He looked away, turned red. Then after that when we saw each other again, he would look me in the eyes and smile instead and remember when I said I HATE eye contact? Well, apparently with him I was just too comfortable to look at him in the eyes and smile back. We did that about a month now and he finally said hi to me. I was surprised because he’s such a shy guy, so he must’ve mustered a huge amount of courage to say hi first. It’s interesting, never had an experience like this before, would like to see where it goes 😅

    • @noemita494
      @noemita494 Před 3 lety +4

      So how did it go?

    • @SAYCHRISTISLORD
      @SAYCHRISTISLORD Před 3 lety +1

      hello?? any news

    • @karak2113
      @karak2113 Před 2 lety +2

      Girl your not alone about the eye contact thing.. it’s not even that I’m not confident. I just feel awkward when I do it, but I’m getting the hang of it. I think it just takes practice

  • @annajohnson6114
    @annajohnson6114 Před 5 lety +130

    This is so funny, I'm sitting with a mirror and make myself laugh.... ⭐

    • @daughteroftheking5700
      @daughteroftheking5700 Před 4 lety +6

      I always test out my flirting skills in the mirror, and flirt with myself 😂 ha,ha, 😂 and laugh at myself, so I know have I come across, yah know! LOL 😂😂

    • @daughteroftheking5700
      @daughteroftheking5700 Před 4 lety +2

      *how* my english is like... 😂✌

    • @user-bt7tp3sn5i
      @user-bt7tp3sn5i Před 4 lety +2

      Daughter of the King hahaha I need to try that. I’m so reserved and serious lmao

    • @daughteroftheking5700
      @daughteroftheking5700 Před 4 lety +2

      @@user-bt7tp3sn5i yas gurl ✌ I do understand, I was so shy when I was unger, then over time I have started to build confidence, to express myself in public or just in a social setting 😁 it have boost my confidence fo sho to practice at home, dancing 😘

    • @kokikak4023
      @kokikak4023 Před 4 lety +2

      @@daughteroftheking5700
      The problem with someone like me is that i hate looking at myself in the mirror ...i feel ugly and the mirror always reminds me of that .

  • @hopecentrella3687
    @hopecentrella3687 Před 3 lety +45

    As a bartender i use these techniques everyday at work and it's true, your temperament can set the tone for anyone you approach or approaches you. I get the most compliments about my smile and that no matter what, I'm always happy and people say I make them feel wanted and missed and appreciated because my eyes and smile show them this and it's because as I approach them I'm genuinely happy to see them and it shows without a single word spoken by me.

  • @PatriciaSmith-rp2kh
    @PatriciaSmith-rp2kh Před 3 lety +23

    There's another thing he didn't quite mention. When you look at him, slowly look down, while smiling, then look up. Kinda like what a cat does when they communicate their love to their human. I've found that most men react positively to this.
    Also, if there are any BTS Army out there, just watch Jimin. He has all moves down. He's a natural born flirt.

    • @moluv7792
      @moluv7792 Před 2 lety +2

      The last line was the best advice I’ve ever heard🤣

    • @ellieboone8412
      @ellieboone8412 Před 2 lety +3

      Yeah fellow army here, great advice

  • @homesweetplanet
    @homesweetplanet Před 4 lety +31

    One of my fav eye flirts to use is to seem preoccupied with something I'm doing that's below eye contact (such as looking at a menu) while talking to them with my head turned a bit to the left or right, and then looking up from the side without turning my head ESPECIALLY if I want to acknowledge something they said, or I want to emphasize something I just said. They ALWAYS respond well to it. And you don't have to hold it, it could just be a glance up, and then back to what you're looking at. That sexy, "knowing" look is AMAZING.

  • @falcons9659
    @falcons9659 Před 2 lety +2

    I work in customer relations; I always strive to be professional- however i can’t help having an attraction for some of them, and unintentionally have this intense prolonged eye contact with them and then suddenly, I see that ‘light’ switch on in his eye - his pupils dilate, eyebrows fall slightly and breathing slightly slowed and they just go silent for a second. That very moment of connection is so powerful.

  • @jylbek71
    @jylbek71 Před 5 lety +33

    Just imagining myself walking in the grocery store and trying to make eye contact when I see a man 20-30 feet away... my teen daughter would probably call me a creep 😂

  • @aliciabrandt7889
    @aliciabrandt7889 Před 5 lety +283

    Hahaha! I'm too spastic to do this correctly. I'd mess it all up. I'd probably end up getting confused and licking my nose, gnawing on my upper lip, tripping and falling when I try to look at him sideways and start giggling if I tried to focus on one eyeball.

  • @bruninhamrso
    @bruninhamrso Před 4 lety +10

    I already exchange eye contact with my coworker. He is very much responding with smiles and he is such a gentleman. But the idea here is for him to know subconscious or consciously of the interest, without the need of speaking. Whoever watches us knows thee is something. All my friends say that. Shame he doesn't do much but he wants something for sure.

  • @Sgallardo89
    @Sgallardo89 Před 3 lety +79

    Anyone else watching this in 2020 where we ALL have masks on? 🤣

    • @hieolaluxuryltd7349
      @hieolaluxuryltd7349 Před 3 lety +1

      Yes I’m and even sunshades 🤣. After this epidemic 😷, hopefully we start doing it, let’s practice

    • @KayNovember26
      @KayNovember26 Před 3 lety +4

      I lived and worked in the Middle East for some time. Those ladies only have their eyes to show / flirt as they have to be covered in public. I've learnt a lot from them! Use your eyes, they are considered the windows of the soul for a good reason.

    • @annewachira4317
      @annewachira4317 Před 3 lety +2

      Lol...about the masks!!!!!

  • @openyoureyes4799
    @openyoureyes4799 Před 2 lety +3

    I met a guy in September... OMG I am still reeling......He was a trades person. I am an older woman. This man left me panting! He took his sunglasses off and made eye contact with me ..I just got totally lost in his eyes....I was in love!!! I need to find out what he was thinking and what he was doing to me???? He didn't seem turned off at my age at all! I do look pretty young for my age! This guy is light and has a great build...I just couldn't look away. I honestly didn't know if he was going to kiss me or if I would kiss him!! I chickened out and looked away, otherwise I might have dragged him into my bedroom!!!!

  • @roygbiv9038
    @roygbiv9038 Před 3 lety +25

    Now that we’re all wearing masks, flirting with the eyes has become so much easier.

  • @ayeshas7907
    @ayeshas7907 Před 5 lety +8

    Connecting with the person thru eyes is the best thing ever. Can be so much fun and exciting.

  • @myrtila
    @myrtila Před 4 lety +39

    I maintained eye contact with my crush for 4-5 seconds from far away but he didn’t smile or anything. He looked even mad, I’d say lol

  • @duchessofpotatoland
    @duchessofpotatoland Před 4 lety +15

    1. Glance Down To His Lips
    2. Gently Bite Your Lower Lip
    3. Wet Your Lips
    4. Look At Just One Of His Eyes
    5. Look Away To Reset Your Thoughts

  • @KAhandle
    @KAhandle Před 3 lety +16

    I love how he focuses on taking time, respecting, being patient and non judgemental with ourselves❤️

  • @evamaria644
    @evamaria644 Před 5 lety +46

    Once when I was walking with a friend of mine she commented that she noticed that black people acknowledge each other when out and about because she'd seen me do it a number of times. Well, it's a reason for that if you are the minority in a group. I do exactly this strategy once I notice another black person a ways away. The other person can feel someone looking at this and once they are closer they will acknowledge you. It is such a habit of mine that I didn't really notice that I was doing it to others and I wondered why they were looking at me strangely. I never thought to do it for someone I was interested in. I daydream alot and get lost in my thoughts but I'm looking in a certain direction and people always speak or acknowledge me in some way. Until now I didn't know why, silly me.

    • @aprilrains3163
      @aprilrains3163 Před 5 lety

      Perceptive! And cute actually. I think we all do that

  • @KPKomal
    @KPKomal Před 5 lety +2

    the last part tips happened to me juz 3 days back..but i hadnt seen your video then..i was wowed with what i had done..i was in the bus stop..to the platform that i wanted to reach i had to walk up a bridge n get down..so as i started to walk..i saw from very far itself a tall well built white guy coming from opposite side..he was walking so gracefully n he indeed was so handsome that i couldnt help but notice too..we were almost walking in a straight line opposite to each other..i kept walking..n since im a confident girl who always walks n owns any place..i kept walking..as we approached near i kept the confident look with chin up n maintained eye contact n kept walking..he kept walking same way too..n on frst eye contact from where we saw each others face closely he gave a few seconds stare n looked other side for few seconds..i held the same poise n walked maintaining eye contact..after few seconds he couldnt resist n looked at me back n that moment i gave him an intense look which almost meant ' huh! i knw to get ur attention' n looked away..frm that moment he kept his stare n suddenly smiled..i gave back the look n smiled..n as we approached nearer each other..the smile became wider n wider n wider..n we almost were walking in same straight line..when we were closest his face became red n he gave me widest smile with u won look nodded at me..i nodded back..n crossed our paths! i was surprised when this was suggested in this video..how did i know to do it..i myself was surprised that day how i managed to do that! coz am an indian girl with complete indian skin n looks! n he was a complete greek god looks guy with brown ruffled hair blue eyes sharp nose beard n moustache!

  • @TheAttractionTriggers
    @TheAttractionTriggers Před 3 měsíci +1

    *You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible. You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you.*

  • @jinnahrsoth2843
    @jinnahrsoth2843 Před 5 lety +310

    At 3:23, 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I'm dead!!! Lmao!!

  • @sandraferrington2159
    @sandraferrington2159 Před 5 lety +155

    This can get you in a lot of trouble my four year old is already winking at me..

  • @msarver9771
    @msarver9771 Před 5 lety +139

    Im invisable. I could teach a class on how to walk through life in stealth mode...

    • @tlvance3973
      @tlvance3973 Před 5 lety +7

      😂😂😂 ok. You NEED a different mantra! Start affirming that you are the life of the party... Things will change. The same power that makes you invisible now will make you visible in all the right ways as you re-write your mental program. Just TRY it. Write it and say it 3 times when you wake up and 3 times before bed.

    • @victoriabrooke7970
      @victoriabrooke7970 Před 5 lety +6

      You need a makeover then. Change up your clothes. Work out and smell good.

    • @fionagregory8078
      @fionagregory8078 Před 4 lety +1

      Invisible with an I.

    • @Nadiesalevivo
      @Nadiesalevivo Před 3 lety

      I'm only visible for bad stuff..why Lord Why..

    • @kaysmith5495
      @kaysmith5495 Před 2 lety

      Wear musk oil or musk perfume. its a naturally sexy scent and will get you attention, I know I get that reaction when I wear it. You wont be invisible if you smell good.

  • @12345678904958
    @12345678904958 Před 5 lety +49

    This totally works, i do this all the time but only with the right men of course haha

  • @LoudnessInc7
    @LoudnessInc7 Před 3 lety +15

    Damn, watching this a year later and wearing a mask now is making my moves impaired ugh😂

  • @ntsoakimotapanyane5689
    @ntsoakimotapanyane5689 Před 4 lety +3

    I tried it on a stranger today... It worked😅😅😅 what is funny is it didn't take a long time for him to respond with a smile! It was quite scary but it worked!

  • @unliuniverse2999
    @unliuniverse2999 Před 4 lety +25

    This kinda happened to me recently. A guy approached me because i had "eye contact/stare". I wasnt actually looking at him, i was just looking straight ahead my way. I was so damn myopic, and wasnt able to wear my glasses that time. He thought I was staring at him, when in fact, I really couldnt see him very well I had myopia. This eye contact thing works, though it wasnt intentional in my case. 🤨😐😼

  • @annetakashima4388
    @annetakashima4388 Před 5 lety +12

    I tried that eye contact and it works.

  • @elizabethbowers1938
    @elizabethbowers1938 Před 4 lety +47

    I love the fact you offered and encouraged desensitization practice and training tactics in this presentation. That is true coaching. Bravo and thank you!

  • @mollys932
    @mollys932 Před 5 lety +22

    I just want you to know that this is the best video on men women interactions that I have ever watched in my life. You're really good at this. Keep up the good work

  • @tallunicorn7986
    @tallunicorn7986 Před rokem +1

    Omg I can't even focus cuz this guy has me ROTFL...knawing on your lips, crazily slobbering all over your lips, talking about lazy eyes and sh*t. This dude is a riot

  • @charleenhopkins3590
    @charleenhopkins3590 Před 5 lety +40

    it,s about your mood , trying to stay calm and think kind things

  • @sofoxxie5780
    @sofoxxie5780 Před 5 lety +17

    This is one of my favorite ways to interact with men of interest.
    I am glad this is acknowledged as a key point in communication and subtle flirting.
    Stay confident ladies ;)

  • @SA-et1kt
    @SA-et1kt Před 5 lety +20

    Woow! Loved the part about what awkwardness really means .. I never thought it’s a good sign.!!!!Thanks

  • @katemoonkate
    @katemoonkate Před 5 lety +12

    sometimes people smile at me but now that I'm in my 50s I can make eye contact in a friendly way, as I do with many people without agenda, but if the person is a younger man they sometimes actually look annoyed or angry and pointedly look away. I act the same but men don't. I really didn't get ageism til it happened. On the other hand, LOTS of people of all kinds are still happy to have brief, pleasant contact.

    • @MyTube012
      @MyTube012 Před rokem +1

      That's great!
      Keep smiling and keep being the naturally kind person that you are!

  • @sarahjohnson.videos
    @sarahjohnson.videos Před 4 lety +7

    I was happy only being in love with anime characters but now I’m watching vids like this

  • @IMarie-xs5dg
    @IMarie-xs5dg Před 4 lety +5

    Thank you so much for this, I love doing things I learn with you. This stuff really works! My boyfriend and I have gotten so much closer since I’ve been watching you, Thank you Jason ❤

  • @sophiacampos9333
    @sophiacampos9333 Před 5 lety +12

    Thanks I had a experience a couple of weeks went to the grocery store. I was ready to paid I was not looking at him. When he was returning my changed. He hold the bill on the tip and when I raise my hand to get the bill my eyes caught the fellow smiling so I smile back. It was really funny 👍😎

  • @SativaSeanLasVegas
    @SativaSeanLasVegas Před 2 lety +1

    You're exactly right...you can't fake confidence...massive consistent action gives you....man...YOU ARE THE REAL DEAL.

  • @flygirl1942
    @flygirl1942 Před 5 lety +18

    This was VERY helpful. I’m so awkward with everything you mentioned but you have given me some tools to use to overcome the anxiety because I do want to connect more with men. Thank you!!❤️

  • @nerima1275
    @nerima1275 Před 2 lety +7

    I want to practise this but I don’t want them to talk to me after 🤣

  • @mimibenjamin562
    @mimibenjamin562 Před 5 lety +12

    I am waiting for him to say hi first. Call me old school. The eye thing definitely worked. We stare at each other but....😩😩😩. Maybe he is not into me. Thank you this is gooooood stuff.

  • @shakingbirdart
    @shakingbirdart Před 3 lety +20

    I'm autistic, so eye contact is REALLY HAAARD!!! When we all began masking though, I found it took away a lot of the criteria for my anxiety, and lowered the stakes considerably when I was trying to figure out what people's expressions meant. Now all I had to worry about was the eyes. This gave me the confidence to start making eye contact with strangers, just like you challenged us to at the end! The first time I did it successfully the lurch in my stomach felt like I'd just fallen from a balcony. I still fail often and have to look away, but it's becoming easier (and more fun) to keep trying to maintain that contact. I'm actually devastated that the mask mandates are being lifted . . . things are about to get complicated again! XD Thanks for the advice!

    • @stellae1000
      @stellae1000 Před 2 lety +3

      Thank you for sharing your perspective! I learned a lot reading it.

    • @shakingbirdart
      @shakingbirdart Před 2 lety +2

      @@stellae1000 My pleasure! Thank you for reading it! 😁❤️

    • @hamnashahid9859
      @hamnashahid9859 Před 2 lety +3

      I loved your comment thank you for sharing .

    • @shakingbirdart
      @shakingbirdart Před 2 lety +1

      @@hamnashahid9859 Aw, thank you! 😁🙏

    • @kilodeltawhisky1504
      @kilodeltawhisky1504 Před 2 lety

      👀😘🥰💞💝

  • @340sou8
    @340sou8 Před 5 lety +3

    I ADORED this video. I love eye flirting. Especially when it is with a guy I truly admire.

  • @wearyaries9384
    @wearyaries9384 Před 2 lety +5

    When I see my crush I cannot even look at his eyes and run
    I'm too shy😂

  • @Cassiepaya39
    @Cassiepaya39 Před 5 lety +2

    I found this video to be helpful, it had a lot of good tips to try for those who take this seriously like myself. Thank you and even though I already knew most of this stuff, it's still a great refresher "course"
    I just recently started dating again and when meeting someone new especially with online dating being what it is today, I can be really shy and quiet at first. I like to observe a person because actions speak louder than words; so speaking with my eyes, my facial expressions and body language is something I sorta do naturally until I've gotten comfortable with someone.

  • @anewloveofficial9137
    @anewloveofficial9137 Před 5 lety +28

    These are very simple and cute ways to show to your crush that you really like him/her and I just hope they're going to notice it.=)

  • @spp2090
    @spp2090 Před 5 lety +50

    I would say just to be careful with the staring tecnic, because if you are in a place like a bus or train where the guy does not have a place to go to, that could totally scare many! Hahahahhaha

  • @marcellax4556
    @marcellax4556 Před 5 lety +34

    Hi, Jason! I have a photo of a woman using her eyes to flirt. She is intently looking into the guy’s eyes with a pleasant expression that says, “I’m very interested in hearing what you have to say.” She’s also simultaneously tilting her head and slowly moving a few strands of hair behind her ear. It’s an awesome photo and I want to email it to you so you can share it with your followers.

  • @thithonguyen886
    @thithonguyen886 Před 4 měsíci

    You are a blessing. Thank you for doing such a great job helping people to have more confident in themselves and make this difficult process easier for us.

  • @CLGlitter76
    @CLGlitter76 Před 2 lety +1

    Another brilliant video. Thank you. I'm definitely putting these techniques into practice.

  • @charliegirl467
    @charliegirl467 Před 5 lety +3

    I did it! The looking at a stranger... I have found when I go shopping that I am more confident looking at a guy. I have felt like a creep a few times when they've given me a weird look or stared back at me without smiling for a very long time ...one guy stared at me for 2 minutes and did not smile and I found myself smiling before he did and he just kept staring at me, so I finally broke eye contact coz I figured he was a bit odd and I didn't want him to approach me so I stopped looking at him.
    But the other times I've held eye contact have been very pleasant experiences and I know that even though we didn't exchange numbers or anything dramatic that I may have brightened those strangers day and boosted my confidence in interacting with guys at the same time :)

    • @dimelscpimpfrenster9302
      @dimelscpimpfrenster9302 Před 5 lety +2

      Yeah, one has to be careful with this stuff. Men who want to be the "winner" of the staring contest and make you smile first or look away first are unpleasant and possibly dangerous to tangle with and definitely not who you are looking for. I guess part of the point of this exercise is to learn how to recognize these undesirables and how to make it a learning experience and not a confidence-breaker. (Deep breath) The first 1000 failures don't count.

  • @tryingtobarefruitinoldage9878

    This should be required for aspies. I could never figure out which eye to look at and if someone has a lazy eye I'd get stuck staring at it 😕😜. Good job here this is really entertaining as well as informative. Appreciate you

  • @alimills4238
    @alimills4238 Před 5 lety +2

    Brilliant information........beautifully delivered!
    Thank you!
    💥💖🧚‍♀️💖💥

  • @sarahkraft8834
    @sarahkraft8834 Před 3 lety +2

    You've helped me over time, thank you!

  • @jsmum196
    @jsmum196 Před 5 lety +3

    This is a really great confidence builder. Thank you!

  • @mariiabsolutelyagreeonyour2689

    She saw the love in his eyes and when she saw she felt it🥰

  • @suzaygrenis6044
    @suzaygrenis6044 Před 5 lety +1

    "I" contact, yes I'm going to have much fun practicing this! Thank you!!!!!

  • @K.lBackup
    @K.lBackup Před 3 hodinami

    Really Tnx youuu I will try this assessment tomorrow 🎉

  • @Sarabethd
    @Sarabethd Před 2 lety +6

    I can imagine a Kristin Wiig skit on this doing it all wrong🤣
    But seriously, this REALLY works🔥 Being single and dating, I do it sometimes and always seem to illicit a positive reaction.... It establishes the connection, heightens the chemistry and fun 🥰

  • @jmcc3955
    @jmcc3955 Před 5 lety +4

    You’re so sweet..!! Thank you for sharing

  • @yucosana
    @yucosana Před 5 lety

    Thanks for putting this video on CZcams, excellent advice

  • @crazyangel78
    @crazyangel78 Před 10 měsíci

    Thank you I am watching your teachings .. love you for showing me I didn't realise such different thinking a REAL MAN sees and thinks bless you ha to helped me much ❤

  • @appssri635
    @appssri635 Před 5 lety +7

    Hi Jason, I am amazed the way you described to make eye contact in public places with an stranger. It often happens that I find men looking at me but I igone eye contact out of shyness and do not know how should I appropriately respond if I am interested. I would request you to make one video on how let a man or colleague, whom you often see/ interested, to pull out a conversation to start.

  • @susmitadhonde611
    @susmitadhonde611 Před 3 lety +26

    To practice eye contact light an organic lamp or candle , stare at that light as much as you can or look yourself in mirror and simply stare in to your own eyes. This practice helps to build confidence in the art of eye contact 😉

    • @edoboleyn
      @edoboleyn Před rokem +5

      What if you used a candle and accidentally summoned a demon. Asking for a friend.

    • @Ohthemarvelousmusic
      @Ohthemarvelousmusic Před 10 měsíci

      ⚠️❗❗🚫 That damages your eyes.🤩🥲😢😭❌🧐😳😩😫😣😖😵👀👁️👁️😵💢🙅🚫 Stare at a tree,🌱🌿🌴🌵🥦🌲🌳or a good book,📗📙📒📕📓📘 or something that won't make your eyes burn.🚫🔥☀️🌋🌡️❌

  • @janicerockwell8417
    @janicerockwell8417 Před 2 lety

    Good advice. This happened to me without the education. It just came naturally with one man. Nice to hear it explained. Thank you !

  • @ditlofus24
    @ditlofus24 Před 3 lety +2

    There is a guy he keeps looking me into my soul like doesn’t look away at all - first I was like challenge accepted cause usually guys don’t keep the eye contact if you challenge them but boy he sure doesn’t back down and now I’m the one catching feelings 😂

  • @loribothwell5493
    @loribothwell5493 Před 3 lety +3

    For 10years I worked on areas of my life that made me insecure when dating. Now I feel less needy and more choosy about a man fitting into my life not the other way around.