Men Don't Want To Be Alone

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Komentáře • 140

  • @Photomonon
    @Photomonon Před 25 dny +63

    Being alone is peaceful. Women now days are a liability

    • @jillfoley6834
      @jillfoley6834 Před 25 dny

      There are still some good women , they are most likely TRADITIONAL ROMAN CATHOLIC WOMEN. They are rare, quiet and humble. That’s right Terry, men have to be trustworthy, and there lies the problem. Can’t trust men. Even in their seventies, they’re still playing dangerous, destructive games.

    • @markuchiha7737
      @markuchiha7737 Před 22 dny

      FACTS

    • @GaryPaddock-fg3ej
      @GaryPaddock-fg3ej Před 17 dny

      Women will drive you to an early grave by the stress they put you under.

  • @NarcSurvivor
    @NarcSurvivor Před 25 dny +48

    It’s very important for men to be alone. That’s how we build. You can’t build with all of these distractions. With everyone taking up all of your time. You have to be alone. You have to spend time by yourself.

    • @niganicsez
      @niganicsez Před 25 dny +9

      Yurrp, especially staying off of social media... I struggle with that one.

    • @trapslime16
      @trapslime16 Před 25 dny +1

      Yep

  • @whats_it_to_ya9872
    @whats_it_to_ya9872 Před 25 dny +53

    Men can be alone but we are not meant to be lonely.

    • @Livingmybestlife82
      @Livingmybestlife82 Před 25 dny +20

      Agreed, if you feel lonely its just an emotion which will fade, stay busy and put in that work with your daily grind. Also get a dog will lift your spirit and keep you fit, who knows maybe one day while your out walking the dog you meetup with Woman that compliments your values and life.

    • @stanleesomanly9585
      @stanleesomanly9585 Před 25 dny +3

      That's very real

    • @rorysaunders2279
      @rorysaunders2279 Před 24 dny +4

      I completely agree loneliness is more of a sad feeling which is not healthy to feel it's a mental disease

    • @Emmalynrosie
      @Emmalynrosie Před 24 dny +3

      You were meant to have a woman 🙁🙏🏻

    • @Tony-hu7uk
      @Tony-hu7uk Před 24 dny +2

      ​@@Livingmybestlife82Yes,dogs can be a chick magnet!

  • @icecreambeats101
    @icecreambeats101 Před 25 dny +28

    My older brother loves being single and loves being alone. I check on him and he’s always good and traveling the world and enjoying life. He’s happy he’s single and his kids are adults.

    • @markuchiha7737
      @markuchiha7737 Před 22 dny +1

      Single father

    • @icecreambeats101
      @icecreambeats101 Před 22 dny +1

      @@markuchiha7737 he was only a single father to my niece who was 16 until 18 when she left for the army. He lives alone, no girlfriends and love his life. He’s enjoying Spain right now.

  • @lucchasse2413
    @lucchasse2413 Před 25 dny +14

    Being alone is peace, freedom, plenty of cash and you keep your sanity !

    • @gilly9281
      @gilly9281 Před 25 dny +1

      Not when you realize you might be alone forever if you keep this isolating type lifestyle. It's miserable after while.

    • @markuchiha7737
      @markuchiha7737 Před 22 dny

      ​@@gilly9281lets go to a home care.

  • @moonbear5061
    @moonbear5061 Před 25 dny +14

    I have accepted my fate. Bachelor for life. And that's OK

  • @kivie13
    @kivie13 Před 25 dny +7

    Speak for yourself, my solace is my serenity.

  • @gracefulgardenia7713
    @gracefulgardenia7713 Před 24 dny +4

    Submission is dead. Let's forget that noise.

  • @alanm6o9
    @alanm6o9 Před 25 dny +8

    Facts i really want a good wife but it wont happen in this country. Rip

  • @ace-un4ue
    @ace-un4ue Před 25 dny +26

    Can someone please explain to me why women intentionally distance themselves from guys they like? There are posts on IG that say stuff like " I like him so I blocked him". As a man who thinks in logic and reason, this is incomprehensible. Why do they do this?

    • @MrBleachfanboy
      @MrBleachfanboy Před 25 dny +1

      Chasing is seen as exciting to them. It’s a dopamine rush. Women are extremely emotional that’s how they operate. It’s always “ I feel” never “I think”. Also it’s to give the veneer of importance “if you want me work for it” it’s idiotic and extremely toxic. The one who truly admire you will see you as the one. Games are reserved for those with infantile mentality. Never play them because your falling into there frame. Move on and focus your attention to those who genuinely care.

    • @z3ph3us6
      @z3ph3us6 Před 25 dny +5

      We get scared. Men are far stronger than us, and if we grow up without fathers, it sucks😢

    • @z3ph3us6
      @z3ph3us6 Před 25 dny +1

      And having violent brothers, it makes it worse.

    • @christopherrobin361
      @christopherrobin361 Před 25 dny

      @@z3ph3us6 And yet many women date wife beater types, cheaters, low lives, and guys that would rather spend their hard-earned shekels at the bar/smoke/darts than save up over time. Being "scared" those women also invite trouble, cheap thrills, and drama despite their insecurity. While good men still are often marginalized.

    • @onezero9512
      @onezero9512 Před 25 dny +6

      @@z3ph3us6 what is there to be afraid of .... when a man likes a women all he wants to do is take care of, protect, and provide for her. We want you to stick around, we want someone to come home to. How is this point missed? I think this was the point of the OP.

  • @GaryPotocki82
    @GaryPotocki82 Před 25 dny +5

    Loneliness is a sacrifice sometimes in the loneliest form but one gets use to it and it become a bestfriend If I have to choose that over the toxicity I left I'll choose lonely any day

  • @blade7373
    @blade7373 Před 24 dny +2

    I keep getting videos like this on my home page, so I'm commenting for the algorithm.
    my philosophy is to focus on yourself, and everything else will fall into place :) I genuinely hope life gets better for all of you here.

  • @Seanus32
    @Seanus32 Před 25 dny +4

    Some do, some don't, Terry. I am a man and love being alone. I can research various topics, as an English teacher, in peace. There is no substitute for peace. Loneliness is a state of mind for those that haven't connected to God and everything He provides. Attitude of gratitude :) Besides, do I need a woman to swim, play football, ride my bike or walk long distances? Come on now...

  • @independentpuppy7520
    @independentpuppy7520 Před 25 dny +3

    It doesn't really bother me. I mean, sometimes feel lonely but it passes. Majority of the time I'm fine being alone. I mean, you can be lonely in a relationship if you're stuck with a partner that you don't really want to be with. Nothing worse than that.
    I have a friend who is married and he told me that he doesn't love her. Said he cares about her but no love there. Said he wouldn't get married again. Said better to be single. There are lots of married men in that situation I'm sure.

  • @driiifter
    @driiifter Před 25 dny +8

    I just hope I don't have a heart attack from loneliness and lack of physical contact. I keep hearing it's bad for your health. There is no catching a break.

  • @supaipai420
    @supaipai420 Před 25 dny +9

    I totally agree Terry and it's been hella rough on me brother. I've been destroyed by women and getting your mind off those thoughts are rough but moving on is the best.

    • @alanm6o9
      @alanm6o9 Před 25 dny +1

      Christ wants you God bless

  • @timmyheatz12
    @timmyheatz12 Před 24 dny +1

    I came to peace about being alone bc over my adolescent, 20s, and early 30s I was living a facade just to impress ppl I really don't care for or despise them. Dating these days is soo adhd and landscape changed for the worse. I'd rather have a lonely walk over miserable walk any day! I'll do this on my terms nobody else!

  • @phillipsmith7759
    @phillipsmith7759 Před 25 dny +2

    We have to adapt. As good as relationships are, sex takes up relatively little of our time.

  • @khalidhassan9423
    @khalidhassan9423 Před 24 dny

    we don’t want to be alone. but that doesn’t mean we won’t enjoy it to the end

  • @LucyanoJerinio
    @LucyanoJerinio Před 25 dny +2

    The title is understandable, we just want a GOOD WOMEN

  • @DoritosBurger
    @DoritosBurger Před 24 dny +1

    Nobody wants to be alone but sometimes it’s the best option. It is what it is bro, you can either cry about it or you can work towards gradually improving yourself, and keeping yourself busy instead of focusing on things that are going to upset you.

  • @MrBBaron
    @MrBBaron Před 24 dny

    As an old boomer living alone, I enjoy it. I would much rather have peace than get a piece.

  • @Philb666666
    @Philb666666 Před 25 dny +3

    Right women unicorn now. Never seen one

  • @GaryPaddock-fg3ej
    @GaryPaddock-fg3ej Před 17 dny

    Terry I like being alone I like my sanity and peace of mind over dealing with insane people, I want peace not drama and chaos.

  • @jillfoley6834
    @jillfoley6834 Před 25 dny +1

    Terry, I don’t know how you know all the things you know, but I’m grateful. I enjoy listening to you. Thank you for sharing your thoughts, experiences and advice. 🙏🇺🇸🙏

  • @EarthsEdgeAD
    @EarthsEdgeAD Před 25 dny +13

    Yeah the only people on earth that actually “like being alone” are Americans that have never left America. This country is so isolating & it’s all that most know. Whenever I leave 🇺🇸 I get introduced to a minimum of 20 people a day into my life with no effort & it feels great

    • @blackpillcommando4927
      @blackpillcommando4927 Před 25 dny +1

      true I've been alone most of my adult 56 years , and I accept it now, but I'm trying to escape to a tropical country ad maybe start a small family

    • @Livingmybestlife82
      @Livingmybestlife82 Před 25 dny +1

      Its also cheaper to travel than to stay complacent in one state in USA. Enjoy your travels @earthsedgeAD

    • @user-gx4ky6ct8c
      @user-gx4ky6ct8c Před 25 dny +2

      Most people in America live their lives inside their zombiephones these days. Ever notice the tech neck hump people are developing from constantly looking down at their Electronic Attention Devices?

  • @Pedritox0953
    @Pedritox0953 Před 24 dny +1

    Great video!

  • @mindfu874
    @mindfu874 Před 25 dny +3

    Look at the thumbnail Lol 😂😂😂😂 what a clown

  • @electrothinkin7250
    @electrothinkin7250 Před 21 dnem

    I felt called out a bit but thanks a lot, I gotta be more strictly disciplined.

  • @jai-dii-seeker3149
    @jai-dii-seeker3149 Před 25 dny

    I am 65 years old and live alone in a small cabin by a wild river in northern Sweden 🇸🇪.
    This is the best way of life is the best for me.
    I have seen how relationships between men and women in the western world has become more and more difficult to accomplish the last couple of decades.
    Better travel to Southeast Asia and meet some women who really appreciate you young guys.
    Even older western guys are appreciated by these eastern women. 🌺

  • @ChosenCheq
    @ChosenCheq Před 25 dny +1

    Development is my addiction.. i fell in love with becoming better. One love.

    • @Daurelius
      @Daurelius Před 25 dny +1

      For who to see? You'll be 50, 60 one day, physical development gets harder, there will be no one around to love you, you will travel, of course, maybe you'll meet plenty of people, but no one will stay. It will just shallow, superficial encounters and some hahas and hihis here and there, but inside, there's nothing. He's right. Men don't want to be alone, woman don't want to be alone, but no one wants to make sacrifices and go meet the other one halfway. Many people will be miserable in the long run the way things are right now

  • @user-gx4ky6ct8c
    @user-gx4ky6ct8c Před 25 dny +1

    There's a difference between being alone and being lonely. Eventually you will get over the loneliness feeling. A quick cure for that would be to get your passport. Otherwise, it will take a while living in a western gynocentric society.

  • @ohnoohnono
    @ohnoohnono Před 21 dnem

    0:57 true

  • @Emmalynrosie
    @Emmalynrosie Před 25 dny

    God is going to give you what you earned. So true.
    As a man or woman, this is facts. At least as a woman.

  • @stephens4175
    @stephens4175 Před 25 dny

    you are right, haters gonna hate, I can see a lot of it in the comments, it's because it's the truth, and the smart ones know these are facts, but the haters know deep down they are too.

  • @carmeld45
    @carmeld45 Před 25 dny +2

    Women are happiest alone. #West4b

  • @leespice4843
    @leespice4843 Před 25 dny

    i think there’s a control and trust concern when it comes to this topic granted a men shouldn’t be alone but needs to make room for growth and learning to trust to certain degree and not always have the control. what’s hot is leadership skills.

  • @photographyenthusiast9941

    There are lots of good women hiding on pages for Christian marriage and also for narcissism. You guys should totally lurk in places like that. You're going to need to be sociable and warm though because toxic, charming men are lurking there too and a lot of women just have no idea. The issue isn't that there aren't enough good individuals in the pool of opposite gender to date. The issue is the inability to effectively search out those individuals. As far as the partying and sleeping around...there are plenty of women who do not live that way. Bad habits tend to pervade certain regions. There is an element of wisdom to keeping an open mind and in looking elsewhere.

  • @Nubbley
    @Nubbley Před 19 dny

    dont want to, but have to. dont be part of the pendulum.

  • @toddpacker1015
    @toddpacker1015 Před 25 dny +5

    We don’t want to but we have to due to how society works. Also it brings great benefit to your growth as a man.

  • @user-vy1ve1qd5i
    @user-vy1ve1qd5i Před 24 dny

    We don’t WANT to be alone, but with the current state of the world. It is the only logical thing to do is to keep to ourselves and keep on the grind

  • @lorraine4755
    @lorraine4755 Před 25 dny +1

    Better to be alone then taken by cons. So many men tell me they'll never get married, they want to keep their wallet.

  • @captaintrips6780
    @captaintrips6780 Před 25 dny

    Yep and yep 💪😇👍

  • @Emmalynrosie
    @Emmalynrosie Před 25 dny

    You’re so right. Men have to have a lot more patience than women. I will be more happily patient now. Women have a lot of value at a young age but if they don’t capitalize on it and get a man who is successful and can provide for them…literally a husband….
    then the women who don’t get picked…..they become….idek what…..not pretty. 40 & single? Yall answer. I have no words.

  • @jonkas4542
    @jonkas4542 Před 25 dny

    Don't WANT to be, but NEED to. I sleep like a baby. Won't put that to risk.

  • @colc8535
    @colc8535 Před 25 dny

    Most people end up alone anyway, where I live theres many elderly women living alone , the husband are dead probably after a life of hard working for her they died too soon and their kids have grown up and moved to the city of other countries so even finding a woman having a family you will probably end up alone again later and in a way it’s worse because the kids and woman you sacrificed for may all just desert you now how lonely would that feel

  • @jaspajones7045
    @jaspajones7045 Před 25 dny

    Stay Based

  • @JackAtkins-tt2vg
    @JackAtkins-tt2vg Před 25 dny +1

    They can’t balance their electrolytes

  • @markuchiha7737
    @markuchiha7737 Před 22 dny

    I suggest bro go in Thailand, women are feminine true solid loyalty. Just try.

  • @JackAtkins-tt2vg
    @JackAtkins-tt2vg Před 25 dny

    Meek = Cantonese

  • @ohnoohnono
    @ohnoohnono Před 21 dnem

    1:43 you need to be dominant for a woman to submit

  • @JackAtkins-tt2vg
    @JackAtkins-tt2vg Před 25 dny

    Mint a medal for the world first self-made trillionaire . $50

  • @robertivers4200
    @robertivers4200 Před 25 dny +1

    Hope you include some flexability intoo your life plan or life will break you.. Many unforseen things can come at you like the death of a child. If you are so rigid with your goals you will not survive😢😮

  • @Liam-bz3xz
    @Liam-bz3xz Před 25 dny

    I like being alone actually, I’m kinda weird like that…😏

  • @gracefulgardenia7713
    @gracefulgardenia7713 Před 24 dny +1

    He thinks women should do absolutely nothing with their life.

    • @koraho8924
      @koraho8924 Před 24 dny

      doubt it, you aren't a submissive woman so find a submissive man yt channel in other words it is okay for men to interact with submissive woman

  •  Před 24 dny +1

    In the words of the great Patrice O'Neal:
    "Men want to be alone but we don't want to be by ourselves. "
    czcams.com/video/PY4NS_QjDwc/video.htmlsi=8ihqCjMt2Y7tuXZ7

  • @LunamothNov22
    @LunamothNov22 Před 25 dny +4

    Following Jesus everyday praying consistently minding your business something that everyone and yourself ought to be doing nothing more to be said period.

  • @JackAtkins-tt2vg
    @JackAtkins-tt2vg Před 25 dny

    No such thing as ALONE

  • @UnseemlyGenie00
    @UnseemlyGenie00 Před 24 dny +1

    Wtf is that thumbnail?

  • @nexstbob6911
    @nexstbob6911 Před 25 dny

    Lmao just go to church and get married at 16 its not hard

  • @jakerudolph7937
    @jakerudolph7937 Před 25 dny +2

    You make good videos brotha don't get me wrong but why do you talk like you're a little bit slow in the head?

  • @BxJerseyShorefan
    @BxJerseyShorefan Před 25 dny +1

    Bro why u so negative? Jesus loves you

  • @z3ph3us6
    @z3ph3us6 Před 25 dny +3

    Terrance, you must understand that strong women will stand when their man is gone. You want a weak woman, that is a miserable mistake

    • @z3ph3us6
      @z3ph3us6 Před 25 dny +3

      Matter of trust. Billy Joel.

    • @alanm6o9
      @alanm6o9 Před 25 dny

      Is feminine and submissive weak to you? If the man is of God and leading her to the light like hes supposed to do, then being feminine and submissive is her strength

    • @alanm6o9
      @alanm6o9 Před 25 dny

      OP is a women makes sense now 😂😂😂😂

    • @King.Peanut
      @King.Peanut Před 24 dny

      Being feminine is not weakness. This is the problem with you women. You want to be as masculine as possible and turns men off.

  • @stefanpanic6556
    @stefanpanic6556 Před 25 dny +2

    don't agree with you on this one!!!

    • @alanm6o9
      @alanm6o9 Před 25 dny

      He made a whole 20 minute video you disagree with the whole thing? 😂😂😂

    • @alanm6o9
      @alanm6o9 Před 25 dny

      Be more specific theres a hundred different things you could be disagreeing with

    • @stefanpanic6556
      @stefanpanic6556 Před 25 dny

      @@alanm6o9 lol nah i didnt even watch the video i just dont like the title.its my adhd

  • @TimmyTurnUp420
    @TimmyTurnUp420 Před 25 dny

    Grow a beard 💯