Why You Would Rather Be Alone In Modern Times - It's The End
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I deleted all social media and have taken full responsibility for what I allowed social media to do to me. Enough is enough.
Deleting all social media is a little of a overreaction but ok
@@geodude6244 Not one thing on social media has ever benefited me. Only influenced me to gravitate in directions that I had no business being in. To each their own.
@Strangestthing1 agree, most use social media as a flex anyways, The real ones us it to network, market and grow our businesses.
Same ❤️🙏🏿😎
Same. For years. Move in silence!
Better be alone than with the wrong company 🙏💯
It's tough when they're family but I agree
Exactly 💯
So true . I love silence
There’s nothing worse than being alone than being around people that make you feel alone.
I hear you and I'm in absolute agreement with this statement being within bad company corrupts good character
I will rather be alone, because of how fake people are now a days. You rarely find someone that is real with themselves and reality.
World full of narcs sociopaths psychopaths...And just people of poor undisciplined childhoods upbringing....I'm out and done with 'them'...I'm content with what the paradise I've built to and for ME...
@@DanishFaultFinder1
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@@DanishFaultFinder1 exactly 💯
I watch them daily. And even now this summer evening...Racing around their cars..Motorcycles..Mopeds even..Pretty tuned up but of course...They are in a hurry..'GET OUT OF THE WAY' ...They are busy stressed out people..The danish mofo's...Wouldn't wanna be late fore their own funeral 🤣...They race around aimlessly..But looking for the ladiiies..(shout out to Bill Burr)...They dont know their destination if you asked the mofo's....But I know 😉...Nice warm cosy.. HELL...Along with all the other POS...I notice their behavior..And they would like me to watch their big cars etc...But nope like with the ladies..No free attention..I've got a long list everyday..Life gets shorter by the day....I build my empire..They wonder around in their misery....Have a good evening Gent's..Were ever you are...Amen and praise the Lord..
*All relationships are transactional.*
Hi 🙋♂️! I’m chucky!
YUP !
I'd rather be alone no kids no wife 39. All i need is God i am not Alone.
Im just the same...Very content and never been smiling more..Hallelujah Amen..
Amen 🙏 Modern society is disgusting and really toxic.
how have you survived until that age alone? I am only 18 now and knowing there's a chance of me not meeting anybody not even at that age scares me to death...
@@iceblu4713pfttttt at age 16 i didnt even see me being alive at 26 youll be alright if you follow your own intuition instead of just doing what youtubers tell you to.
Society is generally NOT into PERSONAL GROWTH......they would rather blame and complain..others....
Fact!
Most people are done with growing once they get out of high school. PERSONAL growth has never been and never will be their thing.
@@ryank6322 bc they are are use to things being handed to them. Never reflected or figured shit for themselves
That's why I bought a bag of weed and left
Yes. I prefer to be alone. Too many horrible people about.
good point
humans are very toxic it is what it is learn to be alone folks if it's hard for you to be alone i wish you nothing but the best
most "humans" arent even human
@@realist7239 That’s the part that isn’t being emphasized enough 💯
"I'm not saying Aliens, but Aliens"
@realist7239, why do u say that? Just curious.
Radical acceptance and detach. God is the only way!!
In nomine patris et filli et spiritus sancti...Amen
YEP!
God is THE ONLY way. For real.
Right I Rather Be Alone Than To Be Surrounded By A Bunch Of Fakes 🚩 And Snakes 🐍
Better to eat crumbs with bums than eat steaks with snakes.
Beasts in the jungle are more civillized than humans....
It's the parents fault.
Nature knows best....George Carlin
@@tedoneilclark4710Mostly a single parent....Of what used to be the opposite sex...Right ladies....Thank god I'm out..I got to see their Jezebel behaviour. Enlightened by many cleaver & wise men...Now im wiser than most my age...Hallelujah lord..Amen🙏🏻
I haven’t had family or friends around me. They only want whatever they can get out of you.
Yes and they are the worst, they bleed you dry and think that it's their God given right. Family can be the worst.
Its true...I am from the islands..family only hits you up when they need money. My sister and I cut that out after my mom passed. Done with being used especially her sister who is a narcissist who can never do wrong. Its as if a burden and heavy weight has been lifted off us.
People don’t like me and they don’t know me , I don’t get along with my family
The ability to not care is truly a skill set.
Learn fro us Gen X. Our parents didn't give a shat about us, we learned to fend for ourselves, and in that solitude we found God.
Too many people just can’t stand to see you rise higher than them and learn from you plain and simple.
We are as sheep amongst wolves in sheeps clothing. Be therefore as wise as a snake and as gentle as a dove. All the good guys and girls have been separated from eachother and purposfully surrounded by bad guys and girls and therefore we will never find anyone like us. If two good people manage to find eachother, evil doesnt like this so they do all they can to stir up trouble for us. Being alone is the best choice.
@@Zodibear I have not. What did you think of it?
I hate that the world is this way for a lot of young guys but I'm glad this guy is aware of the dark reality of our society; This way he can avoid people who want to bring chaos in his life
One reason is hook up culture. Another reason is the dating culture itself is really bad. People are so afraid of getting back stabbed or ghosted or getting hurt in some kind of way, so they play these mind games to stay safe. Its really bad for both parties involved. Nobody trusts each other anymore and everyone is just really shallow its messed up.
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I used to have friends as long as they could get something out of me . I would spend weekends moving them washers,dryers, bedroom sets, couches, dressers, you name it. But when I needed some help , nope sorry cant do it . I am having a autopsy done that day . I said on a Saturday? a autopsy ?? YEP BYE . I gave up .
Sad thang most people only want u if if benefits them when u show kindness and compassion people use u
Bruda-this is one of the main reasons I have no/few friends by choice. I find myself getting recruited to help them with all kinds of things but I never ask favors from anyone for anything. I’m always the one that seems to have to always put in the effort for the friendship.
@@mastermindrational1907 Same here, if I dont start the talking it dont start at all .
Same thing here and they never answer their phones either , so I just dropped them and haven't heard from them in years now
At least my friends in my group are not users
Never let the narc make you the villain
based
I’m no one’s false prophet
Too late.
Confrontation is a cope, when you get older you realize how much of a waste of time caring about all that did for you.
If ur loosing friends, good it means ur growing up...
Most ppl that are not self preserving or improving there circumstance, are only a liability to have around
My puppy means more to me than most people.true friend
Only the strongest will survive. They have no clue what’s coming to them.
Whats coming up next....even the strong will die.
I'm good all I need in my 2 hands
@johnnycampbell7691 you sound worried 😂
@@darrensheridan3168only fools never get worried, concerned or afraid.. even the strongest get injured, get sick and need help.. to pretend we don’t need each other is foolish we do.. it’s super sad that right now we have such a hard time counting on each other because there are so many broken, toxic, angry ppl now..
It's always been that way. We have all been lied to and manipulated and the snowflakes will fall away because it's a dog-eat-dog world out there.
You can't fix these wounded people, they'll just drag you down. Walk on.
Theses so called friends are not supportive because they got so much issues and problems themselves!
Better get rid of them before I become one like them.
And like you said Terry, they really don't care about us.
I can literally feel your strength in every video. Thank you for helping me grow into the man I ought to be. I'm done letting society emasculate me. Fuk em.
Hell yeah bro
You’re lucky if you have even one genuine friend in this life.
What's not there to understand, they're demonified!
You're absolutely right bro. I'm astounded by the lack of integrity that people have nowadays, even some older people are behaving this way. Men of honor like us are better off alone in these modern times.
Yea, people can become so stuck in their own narratives. They dont want to open their minds, just stay in their boxes. Keep it moving forward ❤
They dangle a carrot 🥕 then pull it back, like "Just Kidding!!" 🙄😐
It's crazy how ghosting didn't even really exist before smartphones
Lol yes it did
Exactly 💯
@@vvsreupload5130 right its crazy how being in contact with people all the time has become so normalized
Take it from me. Feeling alone when in a relationship is way worse than feeling alone when not in a relationship. I felt more alone in my marriage than I ever have as a now single man.
I love being Alone Bro. You can control your thoughts and emotions and not letting anybody control you. I can thrive and truly have peace!
Life is about give and take. Family and friends you give and they take 😊
hahaha yep
Life has always been toxic throughout history. I feel better being alone, i have time to reflect about things and i have so much time for myself. Good video.
So true bro. Healthy minded people don't act like that. Right is wrong. Good is bad. We're all upside down. This world is at the beginning of the end.
You will always know who your true friends are by how they act around women.
I’m 55 yrs in life and young man, you have a clear inner standing on people and the more you communicate on this, the more folk will be inspired to do better. Cheers.
🕯️🧘🕯️when one is alone your able to keep the 😈 demonic entities from being in your energy Field and bringing you 🫵to a lower vibrational frequency especially after you 🫵 worked so hard to Elevate your frequency your vibrations 🙏💯 facts Truth #protect your energy 🙏
There’s no winning man.
Not with people there isn't
There's no vision anymore. Your takes on ghosting is very accurate and I deal with it at work.
People hate truth. It. Hurts their feelings. Because they are liars to themselves.
They hate you because you don't swallow their poison.
A lot of lazy people who attach themselves to you to drain you of energy, money, time..etc
Disnocnect from that shit..
I've been in the hospital for a week by myself now and this experience really opened my eyes to this truth, brother. People really do not have your back out here. I had one friend bring me from one hospital to another, and that's the most interaction I've had with anyone I know in a week. Even when you're sick and unhealthy, arm full of iv's and can barley talk, nobody cares.
I would absolutely rather be on my own after realizing this. It's sad but still better than people pretending to care. Thanks for the video man.
Be Alone,it's much safer,can't trust 99% of people,they are too selfish,ego driven,unaware and have hidden agendas,trust no one and be happy about it,you'll be doing yourself a favour.rock on,peace.
Hard to understand to understand why some people seem to be delusional enough to believe that a majority of people are good and that evil, negative people are only a low portion of society; While having a view that 99% of people being evil might be kind of extreme, I will say that's a good view to have so you can keep yourself away from people who want to waste your time and set you back
Its taken me 50 years to realize that this life is not a Hallmark movie and exceptence is key. Unless you like fakery and b.s.
It’s the end of their bs .
I used to know a girl that would play games like that. She would text id text back than she would leave me on read and would get mad because I never chased her or double texted 😂😂😂 nobody is that important for me to chase. I haven’t talked to my own parents in 6 years why would I chase a regular person?
LMAO!!! That's good discipline
I treat others the way they treat me.......
Yes bro better alone relationships fun in the beginning then the bullshit kicks off you know 👀💯👌
I agree 💯! I'm almost 52, dated in highschool, all that! Dated different girls all through the 90's. Married in 2007 and divorced! And let me tell you, people and just everything has changed for the worst! I really believe, the creation and use of Internet has ruined all social behavior! It's absolutely a 180 from the way I grew up and met people and dated!
I absolutely hate the way things are nowadays! I haven't dated in 25 years! And rather be alone than what I see offered to me in relationships now!🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽🤦🏽
Brother telling no lies here 💯
When it comes to self-improvement, repetition is the only convincing argument.
Same here. I've rather be lonely than to be with people that are phony and full of bull junk
Story of your life story of my life...their egos n insecurities try to tear us down in everything
Discernment is key....
.......people can only do to you what you allow them to.
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"A friend in need is a friend indeed."
Its a friend with weed is a friend indeed from 60s 70s can't remember TOO much weed
Happened to me as well. So many toxic people around. I cut already a lot of people out of my life. Now doing much better.
The amount of stupid people in today’s world… I’d rather just chill on my own
A lot of comfort from yur words.
finally someone said the truth in a concise way
An adult being purposely toxic is like a child throwing a temper tantrum
I stopped going up to people. Now I "allow" "people" to come to me and then i decide whether or NOT i want to let them "in" to my life or NOT!
There really is no other choice especially when you get older in life. It either works out or it doesn't 😊
Facts, bro. Facts.. edit: I needed this today, just wanted to add that.. TY 🙏🏼
you hit the nail on the head of what I've been noticing lately, I am in my 50's and have allowed certain things for too long and tried time and again to give the benefit of the doubt, and before I even watched this video I switched gears and started heading a different way, I've always been a hard worker and worked on myself but have actually had to get to the root of a lot of my problems that I have actually let continue till now and go completely my own way and dedicate myself only on me. thanks for your insight on these matters' bro.
Because of the increase of wickedness, the love of most will grow cold, 13 but the one who stands firm to the end will be saved. MAT 24:12
Demoniac..in love with their mobilphones😮
Id rather be alone cause iv been betrayed by people and realized alot of people only want you around to make themselves feel better or they are lonely. Alot of people are in survival mode and weird and everybody is in competition with each other on the low. Social media and these prices going up aint helping the cause. I just make music stay to myself and go to work. There is no point lowkey in this day and era.
You look very strong and healthy Wolfie. 💪🏼
Go Your Own Way
It is a game. Tag you're it. You noticed them and they run. Not worth running after. Mentally unbalanced and negative energy.
I am me nobody else.
Word
Stay solid bro..
Keep stacking the wins and Thrive!
I agree with you totally people aren't genuine anymore you can never just live in the moment and have fun at having a great time so much you forget to take a photo and it seems like people compete more than value it's because you know your worth
I've alway been open to friendship but I'm also a lone wolf. Sad thing is, most people don't want true friends, they just want buddies.
All about not taking accountability driven be selfishness.
The 21st century is an absolute catastrophe. And it all began on 9/11, first year of the century. All downhill from there (smartphones, social media, etc). These times are cursed.
it really began in 1971
@@9743dog It officially began then, but it has accelerated since 2001 for sure.
I've done lots of fearless things too bro 🙏🏼💯💯✨🙏🏼💯 #staystrongg #staywinning
I've been single like 8+ years now and I just don't see it ending any time soon. I enjoy the peace though!!!
I'm not even chasing I'm just an observer like a primal Hunter
Just gotta find women that face their problems. It’s all good
No hymen no diamond, non virgin women are practice.
Fornication😊
I dunno about hymen but a high body count is a potential red flag in a partner. The less partners shes had the more likely she is to be mentally stable, and serious about relationships instead of casually using other peoples bodies to masterbate.
None of what used to be the opposite sex since 2018....Now it's monk mode.....Once you get to see what 'they' are capable of..Its minimum interaction and safe distance 🤫...Now im in the drama free Zone permanently...Amen
Hope you hold yourself to that same standard.
Yo Terry, we need to have a conversation. You'd be shocked at how much we got in common.
I could say a bunch of things hurt me. But to keep things quick, I’m just going to say people that I thought I could trust whether it’d be a romantic partner, friends or adults, they have all failed me. So it’s really hard to just be socially vulnerable again even to the people I cared about. But there is this one person at my workplace where I am trying or want to try to be socially interactive with. Because he is someone that hasn’t hurt me yet. And he has been trying to reach me whether it will be in dream sleep or in real life. I just have a hard time being socially vulnerable to people. Because I have been let down so bad. When I was depressed and needed support, comfort, friends, anything, nobody was there to help me feel better. I use to use dating apps when I felt lonely, but once I figured that there wasn’t really mutual attraction or the conversation felt dry, it’s just not worth it to continue to pursue any conversations I had in the dating app world. Sometimes people do randomly stop talking if they feel like the conversation is missing something or they’re just bored of you and found someone that entertains them better.
"I used to think that the worst thing in life was to end up alone. It's not. The worst thing in life is to end up with people who make you feel alone." Robin Williams
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Man... you spitting that shit today!💯
I look at it like this. When you approach an individual let alone the opposite sex you are inviting their past trauma into your life. We as individuals must heal and work on ourselves before...if it isnt done a person will always be damaged. Id rather be alone. Only Trust and put your Faith in God...flesh can only do much for man...and is usually the downfall of us for putting trust in such.
I KNEW it T.J. You’re Canadian! My husband was an HA member for 13 years, long before we met. My husband was a real head knocker back in the day, as the story goes. That’s all I know.
One day I decided to try prying into his past through conversation with him, and then he delves into selective memory. I believe we all have skeletons in our closet. Both alive and dead, through no fault of our own.
I decided one day, on deck talking with my date that I was not afraid of him because my deceased sister’s presence would protect me.
God bless and good luck. ❤
"Who Hurt You" ? That is the Question I always asked bruv.
You know why bro. The lady on another show I watched was bashing how someone 30 something was going out with an 18 year old, and how older men are this and that for chasing young tail. You find me a 40+ year old with a body count of under 5 that's hot and I'll take her over the 20 year old. I'll be waiting. By under 5 I mean real talk not the girl version of 5 which could mean anything from 25 to WHO knows WHAT.
Now with the "safe and effective", might as well not even bother saying hi anymore outside, just ask "did they get you?" then point to your arm, the new ice breaker bro...
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In this world your going to get people that are fake and others will be true FOR GOD ALMIGHTY IS HERE TO HELP YOU JUST PRAY SO HARD AND HE WILL GUIDE YOU AND YOUR PRAYERS WILL BE ANSWERED
Love you bro... Thanks for the message. Keep pushing! 👊
I've learned you can have great chemistry with someone, but later discover you're not at all compatible with them...do not be deceived!
It's even amazing how two random people can come together and have a relationship that lasts considering how complex and dysfunctional people are. I almost see it as a miracle 😅
U only need 5 trusted folks at most and spouse/lover counts as two
Yeah she could test me but no if I came off testy an asking concerning questions I was controlling and jealous.
Hi Listening to you . 🙏