The Advice Men Were Given Destroyed Their Lives: Men Need To Hear This

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Komentáře • 142

  • @andyneil5907
    @andyneil5907 Před 3 měsíci +69

    I gave up on women over fifteen years ago. My conclusion...we peaked as a society long ago and are on the down hill trend.

    • @pro_154
      @pro_154 Před 3 měsíci +2

      We didn't peak as a society, corruption actively prevents that by disallowing those who deserve to be in the right positions to actually serve their society.

    • @calb488
      @calb488 Před 3 měsíci

      MOST PEOPLE ARE CRYBABY LAME SMARTASSES.

  • @alans.philippines
    @alans.philippines Před 3 měsíci +83

    Yep.
    Treat her well.
    Pedestalize.
    Sacrifice.
    Pay for her stuff.
    Don’t cheat.
    Focus on her.
    Work hard.
    It’s all a joke
    We realize now that we are the prize. And we put ourselves first.

    • @LadReversedStarburst
      @LadReversedStarburst Před 3 měsíci +11

      Ikr

    • @JadeHeartLove
      @JadeHeartLove Před 3 měsíci +1

      Men are not the Prize. The prize is what's paid for. Do you want a woman to financially support you? And "buy" you? That's a gender Inversion. You basically get a woman when you can afford one. Same as a house or a car.

    • @andyneil5907
      @andyneil5907 Před 3 měsíci +15

      We went through hell before we realized that

    • @jacob8266
      @jacob8266 Před 3 měsíci +16

      BAM! Nice to hear other men saying this line "WE ARE THE PRIZE!"
      I've been toting that line a lot lately and I absolutely refuse to chase women. If I even sense she wants me to chase or starts those little chase games, boom... door is immediately shut and I offer little closure other than letting her know she fuuuuuk'd up with me... Do better for the next guy...
      They'll vehemently say this mindset is narcissism. It is not, it's knowing one's worth as a man.
      Everything we've been taught is a lie, and that includes the dynamics between a man and a woman.
      A man does not chase, a man is the prize.

    • @StariYTube1
      @StariYTube1 Před 3 měsíci

      Hear hear ​@@jacob8266

  • @romac9516
    @romac9516 Před 3 měsíci +31

    Looking back at the last 40 years it's simply cruel how young men have been told the direct opposite of what they should have been told. Result - it's everyone who suffers.

    • @masterandkerranginparticul4324
      @masterandkerranginparticul4324 Před 3 měsíci +9

      so true..
      show your emotions, present yourself as harmless and be a goody boy cause many of the poor females are oppressed and/or get beaten by their bf's, looks and money are unimportant or at best secondary criteria when it comes to love and dating.
      yeah sure, its was all mostly lies, eg. as matter of fact getting in shape is the first and most important issue for young men to achieve, as you dont have tits or an ass, you gotta get a good body and focus on getting a 6 pack to have a sexual value for women, or just grow tall...
      all the lies and hypocricy I will never be able to forget, anf when I discovered the red pill some years ago I immediately got myself in shape...
      but it surely ruined this area in my life during my 20s and 30s.

    • @pro_154
      @pro_154 Před 3 měsíci +3

      As a 90s baby I will openly say I blame the two generations before mine for not holding up their responsibilities trying to cheat to get ahead and misleading the younger generation twice in a row. People can defend themselves if they felt like they've done differently and that is warranted seeing as I don't know exactly if you've tried to do different, we can see from the state of society how factual this is.
      If you thought you were just going to be decadent your whole life and then die and then nothing happens, I believe the opposite is starting to show itself right about now

    • @pro_154
      @pro_154 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@masterandkerranginparticul4324 you know what they told us was completely correct the problem is that as soon as they told us this they use that information against us and started to become the same monsters that they were preaching about. You know how many women I got to look at that I personally know that went from having bad experiences with men to openly coercing them and now blame themselves for the relationship that they have with them men? Light two they literally still blame the people that they chose to intentionally negatively interact with, and then they cry about the outcome that they knew would present itself.

  • @dmappzoom6778
    @dmappzoom6778 Před 3 měsíci +54

    its really as simple as you say it is. about seven years ago i came across an interview with george carlin and he gave the most amazing advice about life. that advice is "life becomes a lot easier, when you don't worry about things you can't control or do anything about." the advice is so simple, but so profound when you sit down and think about it. why worry about unnecessary things, that don't help or contribute to making your life better?

    • @tonydiesel3444
      @tonydiesel3444 Před 3 měsíci

      George Carlin was originally born female Hollywood is based off of gender inversion a person you mentioned is a FTM female to male gender Pretender there is a whole nother set of people that are like this they have a different God and they invert everything even their own gender traditionally and generationally even the children

    • @LearnCompositionOnline
      @LearnCompositionOnline Před 3 měsíci

      Because they might control you soon, even if you can’t control them. So you have to track their movements and be ahead.
      I can’t control what happens to USA but i keep tracking it before it hits me.

    • @sambarrett867
      @sambarrett867 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Pretty much the definition of stoicism. Look into it if you haven't already

  • @zandig666
    @zandig666 Před 3 měsíci +28

    I blame my ol man for not telling me to wrap it up or not to get married. However i got easily divorced before she could have kids, never had kids and single for 20yrs 😂😂

  • @tomcripps7229
    @tomcripps7229 Před 3 měsíci +14

    It wasn't long ago when men like this were the rule, not the exception.

  • @dguy117
    @dguy117 Před 3 měsíci +12

    It reminds me of what Kanye said, If you are a fan of Kanye West you are a fan of yourself.
    Similar if they are a hater of you, they really are a hater of themselves

    • @GhoulReviews
      @GhoulReviews Před 3 měsíci +1

      That man is fried but what he said there actually makes a lot of sense.

  • @YouTubeOverrated
    @YouTubeOverrated Před 3 měsíci +15

    Society will hold you to impossible standards which are very often mutually exclusive with their other expectations, but the consequences for failing will only be applied when people don't like you, or you aren't useful to them.

    • @pro_154
      @pro_154 Před 3 měsíci

      What they do not realize is the consequence for this and how it will personally affect the people that right now are perpetuating this mindset. They will get to see things that they will barely be able to comprehend.

  • @titaniumcranium3755
    @titaniumcranium3755 Před 3 měsíci +8

    You need to understand that once you push past that societal expectation and raised the bar, people WILL be jealous and its inevitable. This is why you can't have too many friends and even family members. Amongst the family and friends who will support and care for you, there will ALWAYS be losers in your supposed support group who will try and drag you down no matter what you do. The sooner you understand this, the easier it is to tell people they can go kick rocks. Im almost 19 and i found this one out early.

    • @raz0rthedroid326
      @raz0rthedroid326 Před 3 měsíci

      That’s awesome man! I’m 20 and I’m glad I read your comment.👍

    • @kattheshredder6
      @kattheshredder6 Před 2 měsíci

      That you guys already already ahead of the game. Learnt this maybe a few years ago I’m about to turn 28

  • @marcokalion7293
    @marcokalion7293 Před 3 měsíci +13

    Terry your that guy... step on there kneck with your wise experience and words... there is a matrix of 2 faced people all around the chosen ones... We must be vigilant and as focused as possible against these beings and remain positive, powerful, and righteous by any means against these wicked selfish haters !

    • @jacob8266
      @jacob8266 Před 3 měsíci +2

      You got it! They tend to have little to no purpose and gossip about one of two things:
      Other people or news.
      Since it's pretty much impossible to have things in common with them, it's best to avoid them altogether when possible.
      It's pretty hard though when they live all around you and are there the moment you open the door.
      As I like to say.... If you can't dazzle them with brilliance, then baffle them with buuuullllshiiiiittttt.
      Stay vigilant and baffling, it slows them down a bit :)

  • @ChiefCedricJohnson
    @ChiefCedricJohnson Před 3 měsíci +6

    Psalms 119:142
    Thy righteousness is an everlasting righteousness, and thy law is the truth.

  • @GhoulReviews
    @GhoulReviews Před 3 měsíci +6

    I don't bother trying to get stuff going with women anymore, it's a pointless exercise in this day and age. You're right man we all just need to start working on ourselves. Be the best version of us we can be.

  • @PB22559
    @PB22559 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I'm 46. Everything you're saying is spot on. A very small portion of us men have known all this stuff for decades. The solution to the sh*tshow is the following. Men of worth need to reject used up (non virgin) women when it comes to marriage. When women see that 'high value men' are not considering them marriage material because they've already been passed around, things will eventually change for the better over time. Men need to significantly raise their standards.

  • @ChristiansKindnessKorner
    @ChristiansKindnessKorner Před 3 měsíci +21

    One of the major problems I see is a lot of folks have lost the ability to think for themselves, broken by the indoctrination of worker soldier mentality, as in school listen to what I'm saying, so they broke mens spirit, and after 18 years kids only know how to listen and seldom reason, reason is a lost trait.
    On the entirety of society we are in population collapse now. If that's not indicative of the real problem .
    The elite rich is replacing people now because they broke the system of the family unity. Chasing greed, min wage will be reduced because of these bots, min wage expected to diminish to 1 dollar within a decade.
    The system have left GOD behind, now they leave family behind and then your next! The world isn't mystical its a choice just basic simplicity.
    When men become obsolete by rich robotics, how many ladies will want men then or will the elite round up the ladies for themselves while men suffer and emotionally die broke and broken hard lives. So the point here is above, everyone is looking at the wrong things.

    • @SartorialisticSavage65
      @SartorialisticSavage65 Před 3 měsíci +6

      They already are rounding them up. You are watching it. The Tech class built a pipeline via appz.

    • @SartorialisticSavage65
      @SartorialisticSavage65 Před 3 měsíci

      H @ r e m
      F u t u r 3
      And sadly ladies do not care.

    • @labrock1292
      @labrock1292 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ::dramatically turns head away eyes closed:: ugh.

    • @jacob8266
      @jacob8266 Před 3 měsíci +8

      Very well said.
      I've all but lost hope with trying to explain what I see as a pretty simple topic to people to help them break down the layers of programming they're embedded with. Layers upon layers of false ideologies well ingrained into the minds of the masses.
      Part of the problem is that the programming works extremely well to keep people delusional and inept in the critical thinking department, and the advancement of it at the technological level is staggering in the past couple of decades.
      Some don't ever break through the societal delusions, and those that don't or flat out refuse to make this place hell for the rest of us.
      Now we're witnessing complete economic collapse and the family unit is all but destroyed.
      I'm unfortunate enough to live in a ghetto neighborhood in New York and it's literally like a warzone out here with the out of control drugs and police force. Just last night there was gun shots, cs depolyed, some kind of flashbang bomb, pure mayhem but no shots fired by the police somehow, just shotgun shots from the house and then police throwing flashbangs and shortly after making the arrests. Police drones were circling. I went out back to have a smoke and a drone flew right over my head no doubt identifying me with some tech based facial recognition. For some reason it wasn't even reported on the local news and word has it that they released the arrested individuals who were shooting rounds in a residential neighborhood on some basis of them not being US citizens. Very wild stuff.
      Best to just be prepared as well as one can possibly prepare for what is coming. If you're a lone wolf type and in well enough shape to assist with building offgrid communities, it might be a good idea to start doing some workouts and getting yourself in decent physical condition.
      What ever a persons position or place in this world is, the question should be: "What would be my role in a society with no system?"
      If we could even have a hope in escaping this technocratic surveillance grid, who knows.

    • @pro_154
      @pro_154 Před 3 měsíci +3

      Oh man, Who wants to tell them.

  • @kingjoseph5901
    @kingjoseph5901 Před 3 měsíci +9

    I was in this cycle for 13 years. Im now sort of restarting in my mid 30s. Its okay though because i know i can pull myself out of this.

  • @marciaaaron6044
    @marciaaaron6044 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Most people suffers from anxiety, not knowing about the future, dreaming too high about what you can become, about social interactions, relationships expectations. All that can be less impactful if you stay single in a more minimalist lifestyle and control your dopamine like cellphone, internet and TV.

  • @maryfowler7507
    @maryfowler7507 Před 3 měsíci +6

    Love your lion 🦁 in the background. Makes your room look badass.

  • @AliceIn_Wonderlandd
    @AliceIn_Wonderlandd Před 3 měsíci +14

    Watch this movie "Don't worry Darling" it shows how gender roles should be

  • @robholleb9896
    @robholleb9896 Před 3 měsíci +3

    It is not one’s age but one’s lived experiences that makes one wise.

  • @Liam69400
    @Liam69400 Před 3 měsíci +5

    I am almost 65 and was married for 25 years. I would NEVER do it again and if I had it to do over again, I would not. I have three natural kids which were the only good thing that came from it. If I had it to over again, I would definitely NOT do it. I am single and love my life now! I look forward to retirement on my own terms and without the hell of being with another person. My life is free of drama, most stresses and bullshit.

  • @gam85191
    @gam85191 Před 3 měsíci +5

    bro, you speaking truth.

  • @billionz0000
    @billionz0000 Před 3 měsíci +9

    we here ✊🏼

  • @Emmalynrosie
    @Emmalynrosie Před 3 měsíci +2

    9:14 As a woman, who works on herself everyday all day, I am also above it and above these fake loser clowns. I can’t. With them

  • @stevenkoehler6018
    @stevenkoehler6018 Před 3 měsíci +2

    This is the kind of awareness that we need to save Westetn Culture. Men have to WAKE UP and rediscover their courage and life purpose.

  • @LeviBroflovski
    @LeviBroflovski Před 3 měsíci +6

    Hoeflation is a real thing

  • @user-pp1cf9of9s
    @user-pp1cf9of9s Před 3 měsíci

    Praise the Lord!!!!

  • @drdevill663
    @drdevill663 Před 3 měsíci

    You talk about stuff correctly 100 %. I enjoy life each day as last. I'm happy about my hard work results and nobody will take that away from me

  • @baccaratnatural
    @baccaratnatural Před 3 měsíci +1

    No woman is ever taking half of my stuff. Worse case scenario I go to a legal state and clean house with a bunch of tested escorts and save so much money being single. You still get the box, no stress of getting cheated on, no arguements or drama, just saving money compared to dating and marriage.

    • @DoritosBurger
      @DoritosBurger Před 3 měsíci

      That’s the biggest issue with today’s society. Too much drama and dissatisfaction coming from people and I don’t want to deal with it. I just want to live in peace so if escorts are the way to do that then so be it.

  • @Dan0rioN
    @Dan0rioN Před 3 měsíci +1

    100% facts guys!! Anybody wants to talk improvement hmu!!

  • @ApexBartherian
    @ApexBartherian Před 3 měsíci +2

    Great vid, watched 3 times

    • @ApexBartherian
      @ApexBartherian Před 3 měsíci +1

      multiply that by 5 or so lol

    • @pro_154
      @pro_154 Před 3 měsíci +1

      Yeah I'm already planning to go back and re-watch this morning Brody was cooking.

  • @72mrblade
    @72mrblade Před 3 měsíci +1

    Great 👍 video sir.

  • @SekiroSlayer
    @SekiroSlayer Před 3 měsíci +3

    your right

  • @Pedritox0953
    @Pedritox0953 Před 3 měsíci

    21:30 I am satisfied with who I am today, I am dissatisfied with myself tomorrow.... which is why I do so much

  • @SekiroSlayer
    @SekiroSlayer Před 3 měsíci +6

    5 seconds in realatin harder than my own fam

  • @DeaconChriss
    @DeaconChriss Před 3 měsíci +1

    You're Right brother

  • @UTFapollomarine7409
    @UTFapollomarine7409 Před 3 měsíci +7

    fuck yead dude create a force

  • @maryfowler7507
    @maryfowler7507 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Love ❤️ love 💕 love 💗 ya terry . You are hundred percent on point. Woman do love a responsible hard working all the time man. Not a clown or a bum living in a basement. Lol 😆

  • @Cory-zn5mq
    @Cory-zn5mq Před 3 měsíci

    Do not sacrifice your happiness for others

  • @williamalmonte4906
    @williamalmonte4906 Před 3 měsíci

    This video had some great ass points in it, I have to say that it was a fucking banger

  • @AzamatSlowedAndReverb
    @AzamatSlowedAndReverb Před 3 měsíci

    You and John Mark Stevenson are great people

  • @pro_154
    @pro_154 Před 3 měsíci

    I just want to say bra out of your recent videos this is one of your best. Not just because I relate to it and I see a lot of what you say in real life but because I can see you was really looking out and trying to put people on to game

  • @erikgraham2215
    @erikgraham2215 Před 3 měsíci

    Hey Terry is back, What Up Terry 😂

  • @Iciclesoulforever88
    @Iciclesoulforever88 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Mgtow teach me thoses things and Mgtow also save my life 2 years ago.
    Mgtow did so much for me!!!
    This is the knowledge of many men's who learn it the hard way!
    This is the knowledge of a lifetime.
    Simon's

  • @paulcooper5748
    @paulcooper5748 Před 3 měsíci +1

    So true joel.

  • @ClairvoyantEntertainment
    @ClairvoyantEntertainment Před 3 měsíci

    thank you for the information brother I will utilise it for the rest of my life

  • @BrenSoleo
    @BrenSoleo Před 3 měsíci

    We as guys have failed Terry. Its that simple. You're right about woman, there's basically no benefit to you as a man and and you're probably being messed around and used and betrayed. You're not getting a good deal.
    As for the other guys who act like that, dont worry about them. Don't even judge them. Those type of guys are haters and undercover admirers that just wont give you "that" thing and not like you need "that" thing, they do. And thats exactly what it is because its not about you Terry its about them.

  • @JNA9212
    @JNA9212 Před 3 měsíci

    This was a good video bro

  • @itsjay.696
    @itsjay.696 Před 3 měsíci

    You’re going to get far Bro.

  • @user-wk4tj9fi8b
    @user-wk4tj9fi8b Před 3 měsíci

    your the man !

  • @axiomobliviontruthhurts4767
    @axiomobliviontruthhurts4767 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Super 💯💯💯💯💯

  • @tyronebateslibra9435
    @tyronebateslibra9435 Před 3 měsíci

    True...

  • @drewbruns2895
    @drewbruns2895 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I can’t agree more with everything you say man. Men need to work on themselves and start having some standards, it’s insane to me how dudes settle so low for such nonsense. It’s 100% not worth it unless she comes correct and I know from experience and from older dudes I know who have been married and told me how terrible it was. Keep up with great content brother, you’re the realest out there rn

  • @erikgraham2215
    @erikgraham2215 Před 3 měsíci

    Yo you getting big I'm scare of you bro😂

  • @Div_us
    @Div_us Před 3 měsíci

    Can gangstalkers see through our eyes?

  • @axiomobliviontruthhurts4767
    @axiomobliviontruthhurts4767 Před 3 měsíci

    YOUR NOT THAT GUY IS CRAZY😂😂😂😂😂!!!!

  • @laughattack1204
    @laughattack1204 Před 3 měsíci

    I hate stupid elves too brother

  • @ianmoore8100
    @ianmoore8100 Před 3 měsíci +1

    dude, you know

  • @rapstar4575
    @rapstar4575 Před 3 měsíci

    having children is out of my price range. One week daycare . Over 500 . Hard pass for me

  • @D-rd5wf
    @D-rd5wf Před 3 měsíci

    Those old dudes are intimidated to see a young guy build himself up 😂I see it every time I go to the gym smh 🤦‍♂️. They do be acting 🎭 😂 hella envious jealous whatever you wanna call it😂

    • @Shyne282
      @Shyne282 Před 2 měsíci

      It's absolutely ridiculous I'm seeing this at the gym at work everywhere.These old heads really do be tripping

  • @w14all41w
    @w14all41w Před 3 měsíci

    You know what, Terry? I AM to weak. I AM to weak, to love you. I tried, but I can't. You're just to strong. I lost. I am a looser. I am even to weak, to give up my own fight. I am to weak to love. I am not Jesus. I am just some kind of a preacher, who is not even living to the rules, he is preaching. But I am fine with that. It was never different. I am sorry for having disturbed your path. May God be with you.

  • @ja4414
    @ja4414 Před 3 měsíci

    💯

  • @user-qo1us9oc7g
    @user-qo1us9oc7g Před 3 měsíci

    i dont think woman even know how much a headache woman are to men, or it might just be this millenial past 2000 generation... my mother wouldnt comprehend how difficult woman are nowadays.

  • @erikgraham2215
    @erikgraham2215 Před 3 měsíci

    Can somebody help me out, Terry won't answere , is Terry a robot?

  • @shannondustinthewind3799
    @shannondustinthewind3799 Před 3 měsíci +4

    Ya know I listened to you a couple years ago for a few. I'm a woman though. You swerved a bit to this masculinity man thing, and knocking women. Which I don't blame you. I mean I have fewer women friends than men. I do not sleep with any of them! Friends are that. A lover and partner is the only ❤️ I want in my sheets. I've been celibate. It's been great. In that my next relationship will be top level. I know it

    • @SartorialisticSavage65
      @SartorialisticSavage65 Před 3 měsíci +11

      It's not knocking women lol. I don't think you realize how bad the advice men get is......

    • @pro_154
      @pro_154 Před 3 měsíci +1

      ​@@SartorialisticSavage65 my mom in a single-parent household was the one telling me man up every time I had a problem and it took me almost 10 years to realize I didn't have any emotional outlets and I was just boggling that s*** up and wearing it very f****** well I add.
      Sometimes they don't even get advice, they just get attacked sttaight out the gate

  • @erikgraham2215
    @erikgraham2215 Před 3 měsíci

    Yo terry are you a robot 😂 come on man stop playing & help me out are you a real person or a A.I 😂 Bot

  • @staceyembling9916
    @staceyembling9916 Před 3 měsíci

    💅🏻💅🏻😈💅🏻💅🏻

    • @QwertyS3
      @QwertyS3 Před 3 měsíci

      Just another pathetic narc feminist with 100+ comments on a guys channel speaking the truth

    • @dark_nightwing_xl2797
      @dark_nightwing_xl2797 Před 3 měsíci

      🤦‍♂️

    • @pro_154
      @pro_154 Před 3 měsíci

      Like what is this even supposed to suggest other than that you're taking this information to try to drag somebody down women like you are the reason we ducking women. Also you should go have a nice long talk with your parents about the caliber of person they are and why did they have a child together, if your woman enough to do that.

  • @supinthiam5741
    @supinthiam5741 Před 3 měsíci +2

    You should collaborate with nubreed. Yall talk about the same thing and look kind of similar.

    • @pro_154
      @pro_154 Před 3 měsíci

      I was thinking the same thing the other day bro like they really do be on the same wavelength sometimes. I just saw two of my favorite CZcamsrs have a debate about something that was actually far from their areas of content so I'm definitely down to see this

  • @hadcrio6845
    @hadcrio6845 Před 3 měsíci

    You are so cute. 🤤🤤🤤

  • @noonereally4798
    @noonereally4798 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Being a bitter incel isn’t going to help you.

    • @PolarBearPredator
      @PolarBearPredator Před 3 měsíci +7

      Cope. Nothing to do with being a bitter incel it's about being a strong self respecting Man. Keep on trying to hold the line demon.

    • @QwertyS3
      @QwertyS3 Před 3 měsíci

      There's a population implosion happening right now, do you really think it's the problem of men when women won't commit to a good man? Terry is a good man and he's put in a lot of work, it's not him that's the problem. The problem is modern women see good men as stepping stones and stats have proven that. You are just gaslighting to shame us

    • @noonereally4798
      @noonereally4798 Před 3 měsíci

      @@PolarBearPredator doesn’t need to be, 80% of his videos is just upset incel behavior, and so is your comment.

    • @QwertyS3
      @QwertyS3 Před 3 měsíci +11

      ​@@noonereally4798It's not incel behavior, it's the truth. He doesn't feel entitled to having a girlfriend he just realized that most women and people in general today are just playing games for their own ego boost, a real person is very rare to find

    • @PolarBearPredator
      @PolarBearPredator Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@noonereally4798 nah you just a demon trying to keep the tricks and lies going. Nice try though.

  • @komarac55555
    @komarac55555 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you, TJ. You are the light in the darkness.