Full Episode: Hamrick vs Jones
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- čas přidán 9. 11. 2017
- Heather says Chris, who suffers from PTSD, sleeps all day and plays video games all night. He’s also cheated on her. Chris says Heather revenge cheated and she hasn’t been completely honest herself.
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There’s nothing wrong with playing video games, but when they take over your life and keep you away from your family... ISSA PROBLEM
Agreed! I've been a gamer for 25+ years, but it doesn't get in the way of what I need to get done.
Judge Lynn is too smart for her own good lol I could only pray to be as wise and amazing as she naturally is. She's truly an inspiration!
Well, if you want to become wise and amazing, praying hoping will not get you there. No one is "naturally" wise and amazing. You must work towards that end. Just as she did. Put that work in, She Be.
LETMEC4FREE i think you’re thinking deeper into this than you should. And yes people can be “naturally wise” I’ve been told i was very wise for my age since a young child. But i get what you are saying.
I am simply saying that Judge Toler has gained her discernment via many years of study, listening to cases, and observation. She put in years of work.
About people being naturally wise. Certainly, I can be wrong. However, I believe that in order to make prudent decisions, one must have experiences to draw from. For sure, there are people who do not have to touch fire, to know that it burns. That said, I presume that they've seen others get hurt by getting too close to fire.
Agreed 100% my human! =),
I wish the episodes were at least an hour long. I feel like the Judge never gets to say everything she's thinking fully, though she does give some BOMB ass advice, the ends always seem rushed to me.
She Be she probably does get to say more, i think we just see the edited version for the show
She Be i noticed a few seasons ago her wrap up seemed to be quicker and quicker to the point she sometimes doesn't even address the actual issues lol. I still tune in to every episode though so I guess this comment was pointless😂
These are longer court cases, they are edited to fit a 30-minute episode format, as the commenter abovr suggested!!
Destiny Mitchell i know that hun. Lol I’m saying i wish the segments were longer for example judge Mathis’s shows are about 45 mins.
She Be you know this !!!!
That's a hard 30 and 32 years they have on their faces
JourneyToNatural hahahaha
JourneyToNatural He looks younger than his wife. His wife looks like his mother where as he looks closer to his age.
imwaytoshort Agreed!
@@imwaytoshort Agreed
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This is one of the best episodes - especially hearing what Heather had to say at the end of the show, which was a small window into what it's like living with someone who suffers from PTSD. I think it opened Chris' eyes as well. Luck and love to the both of them.
Sick of this "revenge cheat" bullshit. Two wrongs don't make a right.
I AGREE 100%!
Tria Maxwell i even wonder how people demean their bodies in the name of revenge cheat
Tria Maxwell this might sound a bit off, but according to mathematics, a negative multiplied by a negative is a positive (- × - = +) therefore if he cheats I will cheat, not to be vengeful, but I must also be able to enjoy myself as much as he has.. sorry to say 😔
Venessa Lovero loool I've no further comment
But cheating breeds a lot of negative stuff
Temi David it does , that's y I believe that cheating makes no sense. u should just go ur separate ways and avoid heart ache.. on the other hand. That's what cake was made for, to eat right? What's the point of having cake if yr not going to eat it. ( For those ppl who want to have their cake and eat it too )
What i notice about alot of military guys who struggle coming back is that they become very passive. He's very soft spoken, very deferential, when something heavy pushes against him he wilts easier, etc.
She looks like she is old enough to be his mother!
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Was thinking the same thing
She does🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She's worn out and isn't getting any lovin.
Judge Toler is a fair, honest, and a wonderful judge. Keep up the great advice that you been giving. Love you Judge Toler 😄😄😍😍
That woman is not 32! I'm the same age but she looks like she could be my mother. As for the guy, I do feel where he's coming from. You can tell he's hurting and I could understand the wife's frustration. Do wish them the best of luck.
You know what else helps PTSD? Therapy🤷🏾♂️
Terrence The Dowser Barnes - The Dowser????????????
Prayers to Jesus💘
Hang Tyme 🤣🤣🤣Has to do with my Psychic Readings on my channel. I conduct dowsing Psychic Readings. I know, probably sounds like BS, but I help a lot of people and I’m very accurate. The name came from the people I’ve helped.
Karen Cristina Concepción praying to Jesus never helped my PTSD. 22 verses in the Bible that deal with mental health. None of them give a direct answer how to fix it.
Intelligent people don't need an imaginary friend.
I still don't get how people can cope with ptsd after serving in the military by playing first person shooters...
There is a save place where they can look the danger in the eye, to overcome bad emotions and realize i'm save. On the one Hand can First Person Shooters put you in control. On the other can Horror Games (like Amnesia) give you a loss of control feeling. I like games where you have to solve puzzles and to help the character to survive. Even kids play through their Trauma, e.g. after accidents. First they play that their toy dies. Later it survives in a Hospital. From a Dead End to a Happy End.
If I had a dollar for every time this particular situation was misunderstood, I would have a whole lot of dollars. I too am a disabled veteran diagnosed with PTSD. But things are not always what they seem to be. Gaming is soothing to him because it is familiar. His behavior is not the problem, it is a clue. PTSD in combat soldiers is also a clue. A symptom of traumatic brain injury or TBI.
We often get so preoccupied with analyzing behaviors, we often overlook where such behaviors come from. We so desire the behavior to simply stop, we don’t go far enough to find the root cause which for most combat veterans of conflicts, past and present, is the injury to the brain. And the way brain injury, that cannot be seen by the observer by the way, manifests itself is through behavior. Most of these veterans suffer TBI through concussive blasts, explosions, etc... that may or may not knock them out. Through the proper diagnostic imaging (MRI/DTI and or SPECT scan) these injuries can actually be SEEN and properly diagnosed and , yes, even healed through Hyperbaric Oxygen Therapy (HBOT). This is not the current VA protocol for treating these injured veterans. These real injuries are being treated with a series of medications, many of which carry “Black Box” warnings and are psychotropic in nature and absolutely do not in any way address the root cause of the problem, actual injury to the brain. If suicide and suicidal thoughts and ideation are a symptom of PTSD from TBI, then please know that introducing psychotropic medications to the injured brain increases the possibility of suicide exponentially. It already has. And it leaves families devastated and broken...and it can be prevented. To learn more, see the treatnow.org and NorthStarHBOT.com websites.
This family deserves to be happy, they deserve to know that they are fighting something real, an actual injury and that their marriage, their family can be saved. I have seen the pain in that veteran’s eyes far too often. He is a man who has done extraordinary things and has broken through the glass ceiling time and time again. Do you really think he is HAPPY to sleep in and play video games? To be detached from his family? To be that young and suddenly become the nation’s next charity case? Something is very wrong with that picture... He needs healing, he needs his life back...all of these veterans do...
Robin O'Bannon 1. Happy Veteran's Day! Thank you for your service and sacrifice to make a difference. 2. Thank you for researching and sharing other options beside VA protocol. I'm sure your post will help others. Be blessed and keep fighting the good fight. You are worth it!
Robin O'Bannon wow!
Robin O'Bannon I totally appreciate and agree with everything you said! I wonder though, where is his cheating coming from? Not only is he using video games to soothe his PTSD, he also uses sex with other people? So much so he may have fathered a child with someone else? This situation is so sad. I hope they both get the help that they need separately and then together if they choose to stay together.
Your situation isn’t He’s situation.
I love Judge Lynn! She is a wise woman with style lol
There is no justification for cheating. It's really silly and immature for adults to say I did this bc you did that. That's childish logic and behavior Smh
The Judge was so right, instead of talking about what the issues they had and working on them together, they both just went and did what they wanted to do. He's lying when he says he never used the PTSD as a crutch, he doesn't even fully know if he did or not. Getting him some help is the best way to go and hopefully it will work. If not, it's time for her to dip and dip quick. Though I don't agree with her stepping out on the marriage, I can see that she was begging for him and he just couldn't give her what she needed. Hope they work out, but if not, hope they can heal.
They both cheating throw the whole marriage away 🤦🏾♀️
Judge Lyn looks way younger than them...
She doesn’t look younger than the man but the woman …. Let’s just say that’s a rough 32
I loved the way u told him to fight that fight judge #awesome
May God help him be strong🌹
I love to listen to judge everyday just to hear her words of wisdom.
Judge Lynn made a very interesting point... People feel like they have to justify their wrongdoings, within their marriages/relationships.... Talk about #factz!!!
32!!! No way!
More like 42, she looks like his Auntie. Maybe he cheated b/c she is too matronly looking, it could be lack of attraction.
I want to hug him so bad and pray for him💐💐💐💐😳 Am going to pray for them both.
Karen Cristina Concepción then pray for me I need it dey don't need it
Am going to pray for you and them okey😊 Be well. Hug🌹
I just added u on fb
ohh ok. I will check😊🌹
Karen Cristina Concepción ok
If he has PTSD from the war, how is first person shooter games going to help him move forward???? Also, how do they make money if she's a stay at home mom and he's disabled?
Probably his disability check each month?
Judge advice literally gave me chills!!!
Lynn is the most beautiful woman on earth
How do people live in those small towns were everyone knows one another and they all know each other's business that would just be too much damn drama for me?
Sounds like torture i'm glad you escaped!
It's easy if your business isn't nasty.
he got that new call of duty i know he do
William Johnson 😂😂😂😂
My husband got it and he won't leave it alone!!!!
Play with him! If you cant beat em join em Priscilla Oneluv
William Johnson we all know he's prestige 5+
Why the plaintiff lyin about her age tho? 😒😒 He needs to get help. That PTSD will go nowhere until he addresses his trauma.
May God give them strenght and protect their children's hearts and theirs. I want to hug them....my heart goes for people that endure stupid moronic wars trauma... such pain... ill hug them all and pray for them!😳💔💘🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Karen Cristina Concepción. May God Bless u and grant u ur Heart Desire as u Show love to this couple, AMEN!
May God bless YOU very much too Miriam🌹🌹🌹😙 Warm hug for you.
@@karenconcepcion love the prayers and knowing that there is a God that is able and can heal. Living proof right here. God's continued blessings Karen Cristina Concepcion. 💖🙌🌺
32?!... Where?
West Virginia
prettybrowngirl71 yup tough life written all over her face
oneshot2g lol
Okayyyy. Before they told her age i thought she could be his mom. She looks close to 50. Sorry.
Halo Jackson ....its the mom cut. It ages her tremendously. Smh.
I hope they can work it out. Judge Lynn handled the whole situation with grace, tact and still tough-love.
Why isn’t he making money from CZcams. They have CZcams Gamers who make several thousands dollars a month just playing video games.
He should do live streaming, youtube has been demonitizing everyones content over little stupid stuff. renee towns
As a country or people we are so critical of people looks. It is so sad and beyond disgusting! These comments mainly talking about what age they look like what does that have to do with the case? It’s just mean.
Aww He needs a hug.
She is too good. Very inspirational.
Very helpful Judge.excellent video.
Why everyone mad at her for cheating n saying mean shit but ain’t giving him wrong for him doing it first cuz he is a veteran. Like wrong is wrong hold ppl accountable for their actions at all times. He know what he was doing just as much as she did. Y’all get on my nerves with that bs...
She aged like milk. She looks 49
damn😭
More like 69.
She aged like hamburger meat!
Love Judge Lyn ....what a great lady....
Judge Lynn make up is flawless. She is so gorgeous!
32???
Judge Lynn is amazing Love her ❤❤❤
she looks like his mother. Seems like he doesn't care. She went elsewhere because he's not giving her what she wants so she goes else where. Why even be together..
Good episode ❤️😁💗😘
In other news, how much does Dr Mandel look like George from Seinfield
I like this case because people, including myself, are not completely educated regarding PTSD. We need to learn more & be more sensitive to these heroes. God bless him, & I hope that he continues to heal. He's a good person with real issues. I pray that they both get it together for Sunday plus!
she looks 50
tony Emenike hands down!!!
10 hours per day that's nothing compared to Geesice, he played 22 hours a day for 1 and a half months to get top rep
but hes a tuber, he makes money from that at least
Amazing H 10 hours isn't that much. I've known people playing 17 hours a day. But the problem is that they end up being alone. It destroys the family because he's never really together with his family.
You know what I do for 10 hours a day? My job.
Poor fella married his mom. lol sold his system.
God forbid that judge Lynn Toler' s marriage doesn't eventually turn, because she is so comfortable and lucky. I think boasting brings bad karma at times. Year's of good marriage can surprisingly go bad too.
My Favorite Showww!
Its becoming mine Karrington Profit
He didn't speak much it's worrying. But I pray they work through it. He can be better for himself n then his family ❤
Thank you Mr. Jones for your service.
Is she way older than him? Their haircuts are in different eras of life
Spot on.
She looks old she said 32 lol
He looks so sad. If she hasn't suffered with the pstd.she has no idea what he feels like on the inside if it's only thing keeping him sane then let him play . My heart aches for him. He needs stop cheating and she sure don't need cheat on him cause she got her feelings hurt. And she needs grow up . She needs quit being a baby about not getting 100% of his attention.. and he needs be in therapy .
Judge Lynn always so beautiful love that necklace
I don't know I just can't tell people to stay together after the constantly cheat on each other cuz I know I can't be nobody who does and I don't deserve a woman who stays with me if I do the same
WHEEWWWW JUDGE KILLED THAT ENDING.. Whatever weakness you have..just like he fought in Iraq fight that too! And keep your marriage a place of love and calmness an dont go outside ur contry...BOOOMMMM💥💥!
At least he’s not out nowhere cheating with another woman 💯 🤔🤷🏾♀️
I definitely get where the wife is coming from about the games. My husband LOVES his games (I play with him occasionally ) and will play the PS4 for 4+ hours at a time sometimes (which I know is NOWHERE near the 10+ this guy is). There are times where I have to ask him to get off his game to help with dinner or chores (I'm physically disabled and it's hard to do some things alone) or I have to stand in front the tv when I want to start sexytimes lol. Luckily my husband understands that our needs as a couple/household come before anything especially his games. I couldn't imagine if it got to this point of him neglecting me/our future children.
32??? 52 maybe!
I'm married to a gamer. I resent it sometimes but I've learned to do stuff for myself. You take it away from them and they will resent you. She has no right to pawn his stuff and spend the money on herself. THIS man has problems and he need alot of help .cheating on each other's is so stupid and selfish .she's selfish.
32? come on now quit lying.
Her husband looks like he could be her son
Why do all the men on all of this court shows play video games. I just don't understand it. I guess they have not grown up yet
what a sweeeeet doctor i like him too
I love Xbox and Nintendo, but I don't play with it all the time like that and I am 33 years old. Haven't played that long since I was like 13 years old.
Now i agree with the wisdom of judge lynn 90 percent of the time , there is a old saying in my country , who is in the fire knows it , the most everyone on this chat forum , judge and doctor can give is their personal opinion or expertises , i play video games , a lot sometimes , this help me to take my mind of the job i provide my service to , many of you would have a problem with this guy playing video games , i don't because i can feel this guy pain , let his ease of the psychological trauma he was exposed to slowly and surely , even if it takes him 20 years of playing video game to do so , he alone knows what he is feeling , because don't matter how much i explain the job i do in my country , u all would never know how i feel mentally , only if u are in it then u would know , i'm a correctional officer in a third world oil rich country , filled with greedy politicians , businessmen and criminals , i work 26 hours a shift then i'm off for 24 hours, then back on the job for 26 hours , when u enter the prison , the scenery looks like an old , colonial , barbaric , dungeon , with no proper ventilation , so you could imagine the scent the place gives off , prisoners are using bucket/ pails to defecate into , their are so many rodents wondering in and around the establishment , picture this a cell which is 8 feet by 8 feet , housing 12 men , which most sleep on the floor , to add on top of this currently prisoners have been threatening officers because the prisoners are overcrowded resulting in unavoidable confrontations between inmates and other inmates , for the past 3 years 7 officers were brutally murdered by ex prisoners or prisoners gang members , who called a hit on them , for doing their job and not allowing drugs , phone and other prohibited items to enter the prison, imagine u can't go nowhere with your family , can't take your family out because prisoners are telling you i know where u were last night , what u wore , what your children were wearing etc , so if playing game helping this guy through his mental depression so let it be , this guy would not play video game till he die , because everything in life got a expiry date , at least he is not out drinking , smoking , got a gambling addiction , partying everyday , but i can see this guy just want to pick up where he left off in his life , he is valuing life itself , many of you would not understand this , because u never went through it , this is the unfair part of life we all have to live with , did u heard his wife cheap champagne reason to justify why she cheated on him ? yes he cheated also , he nasty for doing that , but some women always want to play the emotional card , the guy is mentally depressed , who could be more emotional than him who saw his co worker foot blown off ? his friend bleeding to death , etc but i think he should get a job to help him fix back into society , nothing big , i know the military life takes so much away from someone , that when u return to society it's like things are moving slow , while the military world was moving so fast ,
There are jobs for playing these crazy games and they pay good ,,, send him there
Dang! She looks like his mother.
I'm Confused. Playing A Shooting Game Helps With Ptsd From War?. Wouldn't That Trigger It?
dy1228 ...not exactly....a shooting game may sooth him because that environment is something he is familiar with...whereas home life is not familiar...
dy1228
Am confused too...
hillbilly love...
When people look for excuss in other not to be a man... i bet you if this guy dont get financial supports, he will be up by 6 working...
Judge Lynn Toler, what is the name of the black female judge hanging on the left side of the wall. I have googled, but I could not find anybody resembling her self portrait.
Thanks
Why is he still have that man bun. I could tell just from the side by side that he is very immature. You can't raise a man. She looks like his mother and acts like it too
There’s no way she is 32😧
32 going on 55
There is nothing wrong with playing videos.. if u don’t like it then get the hell on or just live with it ..
mauriciowilson42 It is a question of balance.
She said..."Get on my level" .
I'm amost sure she's his mom.
I to know nothing about PTSD I have heard of it I have friends who have dealt with dealt with it personally however he is not getting professional help he is self-soothing using a video game console and he's not really even self-soothing he's just being lazy if I'm honest because if you had a combat issue why are you playing first hand shooter games to overcome a combat issue it doesn't make sense to wrongs can't lead you to that happy place shooting somebody in the game and killing them after having PTSD over a combat issue doesn't make sense it's not logical
This woman looks like she's 50
Judge Lynn 👩🏽⚖️ ❤️
32? Must be the granny Hair do cz she sounds 32
Jasmine S It's the look that makes her look older.
Priscilla Oneluv I reckon. She's dressed like 70 year old
FPS game is life
32! Wow
That woman is not no 32
Hold on pause you mean to tell me you spending 10 hours a game then on top of that he's cheating what is your reason for cheating you going to put this on PTSD also no lady I get it you're trying to be the strong one the backbone you're trying to be there for your husband because he went through some stuff however never let somebody take you down in the process of their healing because once he's fixed and he's all together and he's where he needs to be he has the option of leaving you broken now
Really? c'mon bruh... step it up for your family.
I'm sorry, this heifa is NOT 32.
15:54 😮 she doesn’t care & seems proud of what she did. Acts like it was ok. What is it w/ people w this tit for tat mess and not taking vows seriously?!? What in the world.... I think what she did was just because she could and it had nothing to do w what’s going on now. Might have the beginning & led up to how she’s feeling now. Judge Lynn was spot on w/ what she told them. She gives advise specifically catered to what’s going on.
I feel bad for them and hope they can work through it.
You can always tell when someone was a pass druggie
show the couple in the thumbnail not the judge. we know who show it is
Mr SS Exactly!
I'm sorry....32????
That’s a hard 32
Serve in iraq for a year saw things.... i wish he say what did he saw. Sometimes........ different people handle ptsd different way. See what you see accept and forgive and move forward. Dang. This is an interesting case. I wish he live out and live stronger. Psst, he should consider to find a job in big game company that is ..... game tester :) I'm telling you he'll enjoy his job and who knows....... career path into game industry? Yeah.
for some people it's hard to relive it. Sometimes it's better to suppress it.
This o'lady is 32 years old???
is that a mom and son? confused
Wot is PTSD?
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder its normally reserved for military personnel who have participated in a war of some type
When something tramatic happens in your life, like child birth or serving in the military. Ppl get depressed, lash out or even have panic attacks
Neasia Rhynes that's actually called post partum depression. Totally different.
Neasia Rhynes actually after child birth it is referred to postpartum depression, not PTSD. And PTSD can happen to anyone, not just those in the military. Someone who was, robbed, raped, etc can suffer from PTSD, and each person display different types of signs/behavior.