Classic Divorce Court: The Last Song
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- čas přidán 3. 05. 2020
- Chay and Thomas have known each other since elementary school (20 years) and have been dating on and off since high school (10 years). They moved in together over 3 years ago, with her child from a past relationship. She thinks his career aspirations of making it in the music world are tearing them apart. She says he does lots of free shows, and if he makes any money, she doesn’t see it.
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THE MAN WANTS ANOTHER MAN SWEETHEART!!!!!
Agree
I definitely picked up gay vibes too!
Lmao!!! -Harmonious
i thought the same thing
@@sharonharper6255 me too
That boy sweeter than sugar
Georgia 🍑
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i ain’t even got past the beginning summary and i can tell that already 😭😭
I agree...totally agree..he got this...subtle..Jessie smollet thing going on it's just ..there. THERE😂😂😂
Thought it was just me that thought that 😂
She worrying about him with women. She needs to worry about the men
Violin Piano Yeah!
That’s what I’m thinking
Yup
I was thinking the same thing 😂😂😂😂😂
Crossed my mind...
He was using her for her stability. And she assumes that her providing is equivalent to love that would make a man commit and it's not.
Correct, as he is not able to stand on his own 2 feet.
Well this is what women fault for. Now you bitches know how it feels. Don't get mad at what women fight for. This is equality. This why women should stop trying to be men.
Never let a person tell you more than once, they don't want you.... RUN YOUNG LADY...
Boom #Facts
Unforunately she didn't recognize the signs that he wasn't into her anymore and he wasn't directly honest with her. He continued to live under her roof and let her pay the bills for him.
“JLT”
That part!😢 man.
I felt all of her pain when the judge had to break down how it doesn’t matter how much you do for a person they could still not want you. That shit HURTS.
It sure does! 😒
As a woman, I was raised to NEVER take care of a man. No finance no romance, if a guy doesn't put food in my refrigerator he cannot eat, period.
@@mzslee2011. I agree. If a man lives off women, it makes him less than a MAN.
I agree that someone will not want you regardless of what you do for them. Especially if you constantly cheat on them. The woman in this video constantly cheated on this man.
@@tummieflowers2681 no she didn’t . He was the cheater
This man is so ready to not be with her or any other woman. Please don't embarrass yourself any longer.
Right👌he wants a man
i dont get guys like him, jus letting all that damn chocolate sit there and waste!!!! im made for her😡😡😡
@@tmston2 You won't have to work and she'll take care of you.
Trust me, a person... A MAN takes care of what he loves. If a man isn't taking care of you or elevating himself to do so, he doesn't love you enough to. Supporting a man, buying a man, loving a man is not going to make him love you.
Agreed 👏👏
Facts! What a sorry excuse for a person and believe me when he meets the woman he wants to be with this man will skip through hoops just to impress her.. men are completely different with women the genuinely want to be with.. his body language was even lack lustre no energy at all!
"people have the right to want who they want even if who they want is not you and no matter how much you do for a person if he's not invested in a relationship with you the amount of things you do for him has no meaning"
I needed to hear that so badly right now i'm glad she put it in words for me .
Daddy's BabyGirl that’s a WORD! 🙌🏽
It's easy to think that if you just do some more for someone that they will love you more
@@jaynecampbell4396 They won't ... they just "use" you more.
She was trying hard to keep him. Girl love yourself first!
Exactly!!
And that's exactly how you lose a man. By thinking of yourself.
The baby is the reason he lost interest
She really was … po thang
He looked unhappy in the pictures
He lost INTEREST IN FAKING BEING HETEROSEXUAL..
HE'S CLEARLY.. GAY...
I said the exact thing! Thr earrings, nose rings, the way he speaks ... everything screams GAY!
Lol I was just coming to say this. He has no use for a woman because that's clearly not what he's into.
@@ukbluebell09 no use for her outside of using her for a free ride until he reaches fame. 🙃
Yes yes yes he's gay gay gay
Lol I thought I was the only one who was thinking that 😂
Legend has it that he's still standing at the podium waiting for the judge to come back out!! 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 I was thinking the same thing - bruh whatchu waiting on ?? The bus ?
😂😂😂😂😂
Judge Toler handled this as delicately as possible without outing him, which he clearly isn't ready to do publicly. Kudos to her! ❤️
So is he gay?
When he saidhe haslost interest, felt like a sledge hammer had been used
What do you mean by outing him? People have a right to opt out of any relationship, even if they are of low character.
Of course he’s gay
She didn’t have to put him. That shirt and tie did it
When he said he lost interest her heart broke!
It’s one of the hardest things to accept.
Nah he’s a sad excuse. If you dont want someone, you dont slip a note to a judge. You speak up and leave.
Coward boy
Exactly. He should've left when he found out the baby wasn't his.
She’s obviously pressuring him and guilting him . She doesn’t want the truth
Well this is what women fault for. Now you bitches know how it feels. Don't get mad at what women fight for. This is equality. This why women should stop trying to be men.
Amen on your comment.
Judge Lynn Toler’s advices were priceless. I’ve always admired her.
She really is great!
The energy some women put into these men for nothing in return blows me. In my opinion, NEVER love a man more than you love yourself. NEVER! 💯
Never love ANYONE more than you love yourself. If it isn't your child... No one should be more important to you than you. Period.
Never love ANYONE more than you love you. If it isn't your child.... They shouldn't be more important to you than you. Period.
Well put Camilla.
This loser knew that he could never forgive his girlfriend when she got pregnant by another man, while they were on a break. However, he continue to live off of his girlfriend while he pursued a career as a broke struggle rapper. Girlfriend is beautiful and she won't have any problems finding real man to partner with and have relationship with.
Personally I hope he doesn't make it. He should have been honest with her and left instead of sticking around.
I see dude coming out the closet in the future so I don't think he like women lol
I guess you didn't hear her say she didn't know who she was pregnant by at first.....That means she was having unprotected sex with both men that make her the real looser.
@@franknitti1190 She also told him that it may or may not be his baby. And he's known this for how long? Years? Why is he having woman he has NO interest in supporting him? She's paying his bills and his studio time. He should have left. Pack his bags, throw good bye note on the table and walk out the door. But he stuck around.
@@SlashTheWeasel Women come into men life everyday with nothing to offer but old baggage personal problems and another dude kids....Why is it wrong for him to do that?
women are so blind. the instant my man is just saying hi and bye to me, I know the relationship has dried up. he cant tell me no different because his actions speak louder than his words. yes it hurts to leave but that's what's going to happen. I rather save myself some money and and go thru a breakup than to continue to waste my money, time, and effort and still go thru a breakup
One thing for Certain, Money 💸can't buy Love 💘!!!
Juicy Smollette.
FIRST OFF SHE’S GORGEOUS😍
Yea, so what's 2nd🤔🥴🤣
Mrs Bryant nothing😭 Judge Lynn said it all
I wonder what she looks like without that 24" lace front? The world will never know.
FalaqX I wonder what you would look like without your judgement?
2nd he's gay
The guy is a player you are in a relationships for 10 years why he don't want to marry you .I think he seeing someone else leave him never allow a man to walk out on you
But who he PLAY N WITH????
The moment he acted he didn't know her at the restaurant I would of be gone. She's not listening. He said he don't want you, move along mate. Its obvious he's using her while he's getting his life together.
She feels like that's the thank she gets . She will be alright on her own.
Yes, she will be ok on her own if she doesn't go pick another dude to take care of.
He's sweeter than ghetto Kool-Aid 💅
I am stealing this. This is too funny
Lookie here, I'm old and have lived a pretty sheltered life....even I can see this dude is sweet, REALLY REALLY SWEET
Is so cowardly of him to come this far to say he has no interest or he doesn’t want her anymore
Right and the low-life waited until either he secured someone else to take care of him or his finances are in a better place.
He's GAY
@@INDIGO.GODDESS_573 yes...he looks like sommes kind mmmmmm.
She shouldn't have got knocked up by someone else
He told her with ALL his actions. Have no sympathy for her.. Sad case
Dang, thats crazy and I think he's gay. What a user smh
She wanted to really cry , felt her pain 😢😢
I'm the primary bread winner in my family and I love it, my mum taught me not to rely on any man, even if he's a millionaire, ladies get yourself off to university, get your degree and look after yourselves ♥️ much love ladies from England 💕.
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This Man is on the down low🤔.She worried about the wrong thing.He's also using her for money .Move around People 🖐️
10:58-11:05 You could hear a pin drop from how quiet it got. I felt that in my soul right along with you girl.... It’s time to go & that’s okay! Yes, you might feel like how dare he fix his mouth to say some s*** after all the things you’ve done but just move on and take this as a lesson learned. I wouldn’t waste another minute. *And Thank God he only gave you a Latex Reaction and not HIV!* Let go girl... 🙌🏾
Judge Lynn broke it down to her as clear as day and she still doesn't get it. She doesn't want to accept that he doesn't want her. Ray Charles can see that this dude is gay gay...He doesn't want a woman.
That dude is a slow poison and a slow criminal. Cool but dangerous. Lady run for your dear life.
If he doesn’t appreciate your presence give him your absence
Girlfriend you get a trophy for what you said!!! Thank you thank you thank you… I pray your words of wisdom touch the hearts of those young ladies who are short changing themselves🤲🏽💗
I like that one. “If he doesn’t appreciate your presence give him your absence”
It's someone out there that can love you the way you deserve...
I love the necklaces that judge Lynn wears hahaha everytime I watch an episode the first thing I pay attention to is her necklace lol
Me too Seal.
I'm not gonna say much but my gaydar is going off! Not sure what's going on.
This guy is more feminine than her. He lost interest because he jumped ship. Nothing wrong with that, but he should of just been open and not use her for five years.
pathofancient Yeah her having a break baby couldn’t possibly have anything to do with it.
Charles Anderson
She had a break baby when they were off though lol he lost interest when they decided to break up before. He likes the comfort and stability so he stayed even knowing dang well he lost interest way before the baby came into play.
Hoodoo Queen Scorpio Agree, plus she paid for his studio time. She tried hard to make up for the baby, but it was to late.
the problem with that is most guys don't know how to say the right thing without hurting someone they once cared about and in this episode he struggled not because of stability but because he didn't know how to say the right thing without problems happening
I could be wrong but I think they BOTH LOOKING FOR A HUSBAND 🤣🤣😂
If you lost interest why you stay so long living off of this lady 🙄 Ughhh I hate broke men
Because she let him.
She is really pretty
96% of the time it's a guy from "our" "community" that does NOT pay bills, work or take care of the children whatsoever. Girl RUN!
I hope she can find someone to love her the right way. She seems like a good woman.....and she is a cutie
I went to school with them this hilarious 😂
What city
That’s a pretty and down sista. She won’t have no trouble finding another man.
P.S. If she leaves him and then he makes it in the music industry (I know,,,,,he won’t), I hope she don’t end up like Taragi P. in “Acrimony”. You know, shooting people and chopping up legs on his yacht.
Do you know how old this is. Trust me he didn't make it, most of them don't
He the singer on EMPIRE
Um if he does make what that mean he definitely then not go be with her
@@delvonceholmes8517 Is he really the singer on Empire?
Who else is going to pay for his studio time and all his bills? He should have been honest with her and left long time ago then stick around. Ya Judge says he said I'm not into you in 1000 different ways, but sometimes people don't always see or hear that. They see he has no problem sticking around.
When he said he lost interest you can hear a pin drop😱
He was hurt the baby wasn't his and found himself a man.
TampaTony86 🤧🤧
You're totally right, because he's trying everything to not let the gayness take over. The mannerisms and the pursed lips are a dead giveaway though.
When he said he lost interest I knew my instincts were spot on. You CAN'T make him happy.... you don't have the right equipment, boo. Cut your losses and move on!
Girl, go let that man live his best PRIDEFUL life!
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He wasted 5 years of her time supporting him. What a user.
Idk if he gay or not but that sweater is
**Them shoulders too**
He's doing what most black men do when they need a place to live. They go along to get along to secure the roof, food, bed, hot water. No love, Little respect, No support
Once the judge read his statement she should have just said "Okay, we're done. I'm letting the relationship go."
I can't even bring myself to date a man who seems a little suspect...
I know that feeling this young lady is feeling sad however hopefully she realizes that she is way better off without that lying using coward!! He is a super clown for embarrassing her on national TV like he did though🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
He's GAYYYYY
He's been buying time to become successful and then leave her. They should have been married!
he should have told her that at home not national television 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
She is gorgeous to me and has a sweet spirit🥰🥰 It's crazy but I can listen to her voice all day. Now, listen here Girl, he Ain't interested. So go and be great to yourself.
Dude gay. Lady you have been here too long and beautiful. MOVE ON.
He seems gay my gaydar is going off he wants to be with men
She's not listen .....you can't make anyone stay or love you...
Ma'am he is gay.. That's why he is uninterested in her. It's written on over him.
Judge was being nice by saying that the issue is that he’s just not into her..what she really wanted was for someone else to say that he’s gay 🤷🏾♀️
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What is it in America with most black people wanting to be a rapper!?!? I'm so tired of seeing this omg! Nobody is aspiring to have a normal career?
neffy baby lol! Seems like everyone wants to be famous..
@@teniseuna right!?! It's so ridiculous omg 🤯
It’s for the clout , people are lazy want a cheap ride out
It’s a quick way to become rich.
Thank you!
I think some women fail to learn from other women with age and experience. I can't even blame him for taking advantage of her.
THIS MAN IS A CHILD!!
Women feel they must have a man in their life so they will fall for anything just to have one.
She probably never heard him before, saying that he lost interest in their relationship, because she never let him saying it and/or didn’t want to hear it.
"Never let a man tell you more than once" .. advice starts at 17:09
Damn, I took more notes watching this episode than any of the other ones I’ve watched.. I hope that young lady is doing well without him
Tbh if I was him I woulda broke it off. I wouldn’t have stayed in a relationship that I wasn’t happy in anymore after I found out my gf had a baby w/ another man. The relationship died right then and the fact that you could tell he cared about hurting her feelings made me feel bad.
🤣🤣🤣😩The Struggle to name the bills you pay 🤦🏾♀️ Ummm Uhhh! It’s the uhhh cell phone bill.... and uhhh I’m getting to it 💀
At the beginning of this show when she's talking about money and him with his music, I thought it was more that he could get job to help pay the bills. I'm an artist but the art industry is extremely tough to get into. But I hold down full time job so I can pay my bills.
I do think he was using her by her paying all the bills. He's a royal jerk. If you are not into her than leave. You owe her the honesty. Really walk out the door. Leave note on the counter is better than continue for years and staying. Sadly sometimes we miss signs of when things are ending and hr should have been more direct like actually leaving which is why she didn't hear him those 99 times by his actions that he wasn't into her anymore. I really don't have any respect for this guy. At the end of the show he stood there. I wonder if he just figured out that he NOW needs to move out and pay his own bills!! I wish he was made to pay something to her cause she deserved it.
You are absolutely right.
don't EVER stay with someone who feels like they have to give you and ultimatum.
and if you feel like YOU need to give them an ultimatum, don't. leave, and tell them why.
Has anyone watched the woman over the defendant's shoulder clocking his tea? Her scowl, knitted brow and eye rolls are epic!!!! 5:11 through 5:18.
That's why you don't use yourself as a step ladder to get a man to where he needs to be. Because when he does he won't want you on top with him. ..... well at least most of them. I feel sorry, a shame, and said for this lady! 😭😭
The girl is a star. She has her stuff together, takes care of her daughter well, has business smarts and is beautiful. Sadly she is now learning the painful lesson many of us have had to learn of realizing when a loving relationship is O-V-E-R and can't be fixed. She is also being hit by the point that Marvin Gaye sang about in "I Want You." The line "A one-way love is just a fantasy" comes to mind.
It hurts, but she will do so much better and deserves so much better than this user. This guy is dead weight.
There are a lot of people who pursued the entertainment career who are up in age and made it but that's very few the older you get the harder it is to make it you got to know somebody that knows somebody that knows somebody that you really got to be on your grind because a new artist is being born everyday on every corner in every city so what makes you hotter than the next artist out there people are out there that have raw talent and yet have not made it and nobody even knows of them I'm not saying give up on your dreams but be realistic and have a back-up plan in case it doesn't work out if you have a family you can't pursue this for life not unless you are an established artist making money and I mean big time money
I like that "Ouiiiiii" from judge Lynn 😅😅😅😅😅
This man is sweeter than a two dollar bill
Dude is Sweeter than a Little Debbie lol
This whole episode made me hurt cause it’s so many questions I want to ask both of them
Pinky and the brain comes to mind when I saw him 🤭🤭🤭
Pack ya bags lady and wish him a happy day.
14:14 ✨ Judge Lynn Toler ALWAYS dropping gems!
What happen to waiting and marriage? We teach folks how to treat us. At times love is not enough. We'll put the cart before the horse and expect things to still shine.
he's Flamin lol 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
He is a peace of work but I feel that she went above and beyond because she knew she stepped out on him having a child by another man. I believe he tried to leave her but it’s nothing she wanted him to do. He’s dead ass wrong for letting her do these things knowing that he lost interest. I think he lost interest years ago.
I needed to hear those final words...
He didn’t have a hard time talking he didn’t want to hurt her feelings
This is soooo hilarious.. the girl was talking so much, keeping on answering for the guy.. he just didn't want to hurt her and was having a hard time saying it out loud.. even when he was asked what he didn't like about the relationship, she just couldn't stop talking, saying "its his image, its his images" blaming everything on him.. not seeing anything wrong with herself.. how could she think a man would simply forget and move on when she had a child with another man while they were together..??? she is so self righteous and thinks so highly of herself that, even after he said it and after the judge too read it out loud and clear, she still couldn't even understand that he didn't like her anymore..people often reject us when we think we r too good.
Very good advise judge.
There is this one beautiful song that saids customs is stronger than love. At times we get caught up to the wrong things and I miss judge Lynn Toler she broke it down perfect. Yes I know is easier said than done but at the end is the best. I felt her pain. Wow 💔
He said he thinks he's just lost interest, but he's been enjoying her taking care of everything though, but he's done with her!!
Fantastic video
Who ever he partners with and when they see this clip they will run a million miles. He is a user and will never change.
Fathers be there for your daughters! Be the first to take her to the restaurant, so she will know how a man should treat her.
Invest in Yourself, eventually he'll get to where he's trying to go, if he wanna get there, but Never gamble on someone else's well being!! 🙋
While I agree she didn't seem to hear what Judge Toler was saying about moving on, I sincerely believe she wanted to hear the exact reasons for her "closure." Maybe she wanted to hear, "I don't want you anymore because I'm interested in another man/woman" etc. She wanted details and he wasn't going to give them to her.
I haven't even begun to watch this case. With that Audrey Hepburn, Princess Grace float up to the podium I was ready to fall to the floor. lolololol 😂 This brother is so light in the loafers he may float up to the ceiling of the court room during the proceedings. lolololol 😜 She sure doesn't need to worry about the women; it's the men she needs to be concerned with. I have to agree with Violin Piano, wow this must be the owner of a music store.....interesting name.
She shouldn't be made to take care of him or wait until he's done punishing her before he becomes a man & take care of himself, he's making her pay for his hurt,she shouldn't be beat over the head about a wrong she's made in the past no one deserves that,if he chose to get back with her than he chose to accept her wrong & move forward with her,if not he should've been the man that he's not & moved on.. Tbh he seemed a little sweet & I'm not talking about the way her treats her either.🤷♀️ I hope she's successful in her "real" career & doing well..