Full Episode: Sample vs. Johnston-Collier

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  • Chris says he’s tired of Porsche’s controlling ways and extreme jealousy. Porsche says she’s sick of Chris’ secrets and lies. Judge Lynn sets both of them straight and calls her out for her repeated #stupidtax offense.
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  • @2theOmega
    @2theOmega Před 6 lety +1662

    When men say, "I'm innocent until proven guilty" it secretly means, "I'm guilty, but you gon' have to wait until I slip up and get caught for me to admit it."

    • @mzfeisty1554
      @mzfeisty1554 Před 6 lety +58

      They full of shit, girl.They know that all black women aren't like that. Just like they know that all black men aren't thugs, criminals, and gangbangers. A lot of them are worse than KKK leaders towards us. They scapegoat and demonize us in order to justify their own black plantation buckery.

    • @MikeBilliardsFun78
      @MikeBilliardsFun78 Před 6 lety +5

      another one is if a women a friend about cheating , and you have to say it none of my business that also mean cheating , if all women ask there friend that watch how bad it get

    • @ForeverLumoz
      @ForeverLumoz Před 6 lety +16

      2theOmega exactly! And when he slips up, like the pictures and staying out and whatever else he does, he's still not caught enough to come clean. He's okay with having her at home and chasing other girls. She'd have to catch him with his thing up a girl for him to admit to cheating. And probably even then he'd say "it's not what it looks like". Good thing they broke up. Especially when his horrible behavior makes a white girl crazy. Or a Hispanic. Then where will he go? Because he can make any color crazy, I'm absolutely sure of that.

    • @uncleelroy6353
      @uncleelroy6353 Před 6 lety +1

      No,that's what it means.

    • @Ghostface2point0
      @Ghostface2point0 Před 6 lety +9

      Yet he's annoyed that she's always looking for evidence...You told her to dummy!

  • @srumi7788
    @srumi7788 Před 4 lety +486

    “This the first black woman I’ve dated”
    Make it the last. You don’t deserve one.

    • @uncleelroy6353
      @uncleelroy6353 Před 2 lety +11

      Stick to what makes ur life easy my friend.

    • @evonjohnson4078
      @evonjohnson4078 Před 2 lety +8

      I was thinking the same thing. WOW!!!

    • @Noco235
      @Noco235 Před 2 lety +31

      Historically other women allow black men to do whatever it is that they want to do and they're perfectly all right with it that's why he likes to deal with white women and other women that are not black

    • @sugabay
      @sugabay Před 2 lety +16

      Haha ikr he think hes a prize

    • @sugabay
      @sugabay Před 2 lety +4

      @@Noco235 right

  • @xxmystakalxx
    @xxmystakalxx Před 6 lety +764

    It is so irritating hearing my brothers complain about black women being upset and crazy and THEY'RE THE ONES MAKING THEM SO. He's unhappy why? Because she's upset about him cheating?? GTFOH.

    • @christophersample3101
      @christophersample3101 Před 6 lety +5

      Deon D Ok... so i assume everyone is perfect and no one has ever cheated.... the cheating part was in the very...(clears throat) THE VERY BEGINING of the relationship... comining from a 5 yr relationship from his first what he thought was true love and 1st real heart felt relationship .... and wasnt 100% ready to just move on, slipped back and made the mistake that can never be replaced, aka cheating , but.... had the strenght and courage to admit his wrongs to his future to become wife because he wanted a relationship based on honesty and trust .... yet he's wrong..... its not about any other race its not about putting a certain race down its about whats in the heart that was learned from a child ... so who can really judge a persons feelings or say the feelings are wrong??? Dating black women wasnt a goal it was more of a choice and free decision just like anyone elses... especially when rasied in foster care and told not to date any other race so the expirementing began to find out WHY??? Yet ended up marrying a black woman. Its not about how she acts or putting his race down its about going against racism and beliefs

    • @valenachristopher3596
      @valenachristopher3596 Před 4 lety +17

      Deon D right.....them other races dropped his ass that’s what he’s leaving out

    • @hearme4581
      @hearme4581 Před 3 lety +19

      It’s not just the man, I’m a black woman who had to learn to tame it down some. There are a lot of our women who are over the top and doing too much. Even if the man is wrong leave him instead of creating a mess and acting out.

    • @PrettyLikeZ
      @PrettyLikeZ Před 3 lety +8

      @@christophersample3101 Umm I don’t cheat tf

    • @kirtytheGOAT
      @kirtytheGOAT Před 3 lety +2

      fax real cringe

  • @karinec.2131
    @karinec.2131 Před 6 lety +535

    No children at all!! They can easily start over with their lives if they must.

    • @shirleyrussell7089
      @shirleyrussell7089 Před 4 lety +17

      He cheats and expects her to except it and say nothing about it he is just plain stupid for thinking that. Girl walk away let those women of other ethnicitys have him.

    • @wordplay1415
      @wordplay1415 Před 2 lety +3

      They both act like children

    • @lolabrown7264
      @lolabrown7264 Před 2 lety

      Must? They need to leave each other.

  • @JaNequaDesiree
    @JaNequaDesiree Před 6 lety +702

    “There’s no evidence”= “I’m cheating, but until she catches me, I’m good”

    • @nickj4281
      @nickj4281 Před 6 lety +7

      Ja'Nequa Wise with u , i only cheated if u can catch me with proof

    • @ChiChiGlamShop
      @ChiChiGlamShop Před 6 lety +3

      Ja'Nequa Wise right

    • @Ghostface2point0
      @Ghostface2point0 Před 6 lety +6

      It's hilarious to me that he thinks that but hates that she's constantly looking for evidence

    • @christophersample3101
      @christophersample3101 Před 6 lety +2

      Ja'Nequa Wise ...they both clearly stated he cheated once

    • @vanhoot2234
      @vanhoot2234 Před 6 lety +1

      LOL he is pleading the 5th

  • @Jazz5s
    @Jazz5s Před 6 lety +262

    He's gaslighting. He's literally doing stuff to provoke her and blaming for her reaction

    • @chaunceydumbuya3050
      @chaunceydumbuya3050 Před 2 lety +20

      And then after the judge helped her see through his mind games, he gets mad and punish her further by discarding her. He compliments the judge to make her feel a type of way. He cheats on a black woman and treats her poorly, and then blame her for her pain.

    • @donelledaniel6054
      @donelledaniel6054 Před 2 lety +5

      Men do this ish all the time

    • @donelledaniel6054
      @donelledaniel6054 Před 2 lety +6

      I lived through it till l took control of my emotions cause he used to provoke me and then when l reacted people be thinking I crazy and not seeing what he did.

    • @troy028
      @troy028 Před 2 lety

      It her fault that she acted the way she did. That man can't control what she does or say. But it is a women thing to not take responsibility in thier own actions. Provoke or not she chose how to respond. Her husband can't think for her.

    • @troy028
      @troy028 Před 2 lety

      @@donelledaniel6054 no you blaming whoever your him is for your actions. He could provoke it. But you choose how to respond. It's your fault for not being able to control your feelings at those times you get mad or whatever emotion you got. You let it bother you. Your problem is you run off emotions instead of your brain 🧠

  • @proudblacksister1225
    @proudblacksister1225 Před 6 lety +370

    If things were so great with the non-black women, why did he double back to not only dating, but ultimately marrying a black woman??? Its not the black woman that is the problem, he is the one that has the problem and he made his wife sick from his problems.

    • @malekabayoumdi2918
      @malekabayoumdi2918 Před 4 lety +6

      Thank you!

    • @TheNaphisa03
      @TheNaphisa03 Před 4 lety +5

      Yes maam!!!

    • @Chazcott
      @Chazcott Před 3 lety +1

      Thaaaaaaaaank yoooooouuuuuu

    • @lauryjerry1566
      @lauryjerry1566 Před 3 lety +2

      facts!!!

    • @troy028
      @troy028 Před 3 lety

      Na his wife just insecure. How can you talk about shit when one always yelling? 🤔 maybe he married a black woman because at one point she made him happy. Ever think of that? Or you to slow? Maybe he married a black girl because he changed to what he into? Maybe he not racist. Because I see a women as a woman and not race. They both have pussy.

  • @2theOmega
    @2theOmega Před 6 lety +784

    And if a black man says you're the first black woman he's ever dated, "Run!" If a man has to point out that you're the first anything to him.... be very skeptical especially when it's merely a physical attribute.

    • @kristine7689
      @kristine7689 Před 6 lety +43

      I agree!! Had one of those, thought I was special but later realized it was actually somewhat of a negative attribute to the relationship. He will later use it to belittle me. smh

    • @2theOmega
      @2theOmega Před 6 lety +6

      They're both problematic. I made other comments on this video referring to her... this one just happened to be about one of his statements which never results positively from my experiences.

    • @MrBlackPositiveandInteresting
      @MrBlackPositiveandInteresting Před 6 lety +57

      The race does not determine WHO a person is. The Rachet gene has no color.

    • @Mimi-cg2cw
      @Mimi-cg2cw Před 5 lety +1

      Too late for me..he just asked me why do I the my hair up?

    • @asabifatosin1150
      @asabifatosin1150 Před 5 lety

      me jr Yes!

  • @goodgirlvicki
    @goodgirlvicki Před 6 lety +624

    Judge Lynn is drop dead gorgeous!

    • @gina9985
      @gina9985 Před 5 lety

      the wonders of war paint

    • @doreenwatson-read
      @doreenwatson-read Před 5 lety +13

      Isn't she though. I never wear makeup , but when I see here's it makes me want to try it. Her eyes are beautiful.

    • @tgadegagarrencha8304
      @tgadegagarrencha8304 Před 5 lety +2

      And danmmmmmmm Vicki you beautiful as well!!!!!!!!!!

    • @jamesarciaga434
      @jamesarciaga434 Před 3 lety

      @@doreenwatson-read EVERY woman looks better with makeup. I'm a guy...trust me on this. Go see a professional and get lesson.

    • @angelabaldwin9889
      @angelabaldwin9889 Před 3 lety +2

      I miss her the best judge court ever and dropped down beautiful in spirit, soul & skin deep.

  • @Ghostface2point0
    @Ghostface2point0 Před 6 lety +154

    "she thinks I'm cheating but I'm innocent until proven guilty"
    Yet he wonders why she's always looking for evidence...

  • @mrsrunmemymoney497
    @mrsrunmemymoney497 Před 6 lety +527

    The sweetest woman in the world can be the meanest woman in the world. ...IF YOU MAKE HER THAT WAY. ...From Song. ...Its A Thin Line Between Love and Hate.

    • @laquittalittle
      @laquittalittle Před 6 lety +3

      Spicy Creole Lady 💪🏿👌🏾👍🏾

    • @neat6237
      @neat6237 Před 6 lety +8

      It's thin line between love and hate 😀😀😀😀

    • @reddunk3744
      @reddunk3744 Před 6 lety +11

      Nah some woman are naturally crazy

    • @uncleelroy6353
      @uncleelroy6353 Před 5 lety +6

      I dont believe that for a moment. I REFUSE TO ALLOW ANY WOMEN THAT KIND OF MENTAL POWER OVER ME. TURN ME INTO SOMETHING IM NOT.
      YOU CANT TURN A SWEET WOMAN INTO THE MEANEST IF IT ISNT ALREADY THERE IN HER HEART.

    • @Marc98338
      @Marc98338 Před 5 lety +3

      @@reddunk3744 The majority are.

  • @zuri957
    @zuri957 Před 6 lety +246

    Btw, I don't think I could ever date a man who only dates outside of his race. That's an indication of self hatred and other internal issues that I wouldn't even want to tackle.

    • @troy028
      @troy028 Před 3 lety +4

      So your a racist in some type of way? I used to think that way but changed because a close minded person can't learn new things. Race shouldn't have any thing to do with it. It should be is this person loving and caring. I dated different races of females and black women did me more wrong then any other race becauseI wasn'thood enough to the ones I dated. But that's my story because everyone is different and goes through different things in life.

    • @cadillacdeville5828
      @cadillacdeville5828 Před 3 lety +20

      @@troy028 You're CLEAR internal issues are showing

    • @troy028
      @troy028 Před 3 lety +4

      @@cadillacdeville5828 you clearly have no idea and is just protecting. Like I can project that your a racist. What's the difference between a white girl and black girl decide skin color? They both got women parts.

    • @troy028
      @troy028 Před 3 lety +2

      @@cadillacdeville5828 you know nothing about my life but what I typed. So clearly you just don't like me which is cool.

    • @carnellbell1866
      @carnellbell1866 Před 2 lety +3

      Not so, love don't see colors

  • @valm487
    @valm487 Před 6 lety +259

    Let's generalize all black women. That's like saying that "all black men are criminals and they cheat". We know that's not true. It's sad when our brothers don't even have our back. We are your mothers, sisters, daughters, nieces and friends. We've carried you in our wombs, stood beside you and had your back...where did the respect go? SMH!!

    • @kingtutakhamon
      @kingtutakhamon Před 6 lety +5

      V Mo the respect left when y'all choose the dog's over the men and sacrificed y'all womanhood for rachetness

    • @Crystal_Nicole
      @Crystal_Nicole Před 6 lety +17

      kingtutakhamon I hear you barking! You must have missed the part where she said "let's generalize ALL black women" are ALL black women like how you think? NO, so stfu...thanks.

    • @bigshawn1972
      @bigshawn1972 Před 6 lety +24

      V Mo he doesn't respect women as a whole, don't let that dumb shit he said fool you. If he gets along so well with other ethnicities of women why wasn't he already married to one of them? His issue isn't he doesn't respect Black women, his issue is that he's an asshole and doesn't respect women, period.

    • @bigshawn1972
      @bigshawn1972 Před 6 lety +12

      kingtutakhamon, you sound bitter.

    • @semarjafreeman3141
      @semarjafreeman3141 Před 6 lety

      V Mona

  • @candystayinaturalalexander5869

    If someone's recording OF COURSE they will be calmer intentionally to make their partner come across more crazy.

  • @PrettyGirlCrochetBraidz
    @PrettyGirlCrochetBraidz Před 6 lety +263

    Why date a fool that don’t see the beauty and value of his own black women? She’s silly for being with a man that desire ‘alternates’ 🙄🙄🙄 black men like him makes me sick

    • @christophersample3101
      @christophersample3101 Před 6 lety +4

      The both said hes only cheated 1 time ...he said he has thought several times of cheating because her actions are clearly pushing him away to want to see alternates

    • @patp2690
      @patp2690 Před 6 lety +1

      Interracial Coupling, Dr. Amos Wilson
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    • @pjaszmyne1090
      @pjaszmyne1090 Před 6 lety +3

      +ImFaMoUs ClOuD yes they did clearly say that but he should have tried to help change the wrong instead of wanting to do more wrong...:/

    • @12pope
      @12pope Před 6 lety +8

      Because she's a fool who gets even and never takes the higher ground. I wonder how many cars she messed up in her lifetime. nobody else would wife a hurricane.

    • @pjaszmyne1090
      @pjaszmyne1090 Před 6 lety +4

      +12pope maybe he's the one who causes the hurricane and its her first time doing anything like that to somebody she's been with

  • @prettybrowngirl71
    @prettybrowngirl71 Před 6 lety +138

    It’s not about race. I’ve seen attitude and angry from various races. However if the guy is cheating you can’t make him stop by acting a fool. My mom always said either you leave him or let him cheat in peace. She is wasting her time. You can’t stop him from being who he is.

  • @biggwillnyc3775
    @biggwillnyc3775 Před 4 lety +60

    Not only is Judge Toler gorgeous, but she's very intelligent and compassionate.

  • @All_Things_Shay
    @All_Things_Shay Před 4 lety +38

    He drove her crazy &now wondering why she’s crazy 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @SoulSista6579
    @SoulSista6579 Před 6 lety +244

    I don’t care what this fool says I loveeeee my black brothers and sisters u are kings and queens!!!! U r royalty

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt Před 4 lety +5

      This is not about race. He is cheating. Stop loving men who cheat.

    • @SoulSista6579
      @SoulSista6579 Před 4 lety +2

      Michelle shut up fool I said what the fuck I said

    • @itswhatever1737
      @itswhatever1737 Před 4 lety +4

      SoulSista6579 hope Black men have the same love for y’all.

  • @JamesCraigWhoop
    @JamesCraigWhoop Před 6 lety +62

    Don't have to worry about kicking him out, he showed himself to the door

    • @shirleyrussell7089
      @shirleyrussell7089 Před 4 lety +5

      I say good writtens!!! Let him keep those STD'S that he might get to himself. CHEATER

  • @newnimprovesT3
    @newnimprovesT3 Před 6 lety +271

    He's not even attractive or cute.

    • @MarvAuthor
      @MarvAuthor Před 6 lety +10

      newnimprovesT3 Why is his hair long and real, and her hair is fake? It's weird to me how women judge men appearances when most women look completely different without their weave, heavy makeup, fake eye lashes, fake nails, body shapers, pushup or padded bras, and fake breasts and asses. Fake beauty....Delusional about what they really look like

    • @Ebd1990
      @Ebd1990 Před 5 lety +3

      He's handsome. I dont like the dreads but his face is handsome. Not my type of a man though.

    • @gina9985
      @gina9985 Před 5 lety +13

      when the judge called him cute i was naucious

    • @summerdays3919
      @summerdays3919 Před 5 lety +2

      Nor is she

    • @jackieadele11
      @jackieadele11 Před 5 lety

      newnimprovesT3 am cracking up 😂 you speak truth 😝

  • @venturesomeactivist
    @venturesomeactivist Před 6 lety +332

    I can't believe that he called her a monster.. That made my blood boil. And he kept berating her about being loud, ratchet, etc. I feel like her behaviors were just a self fulfilling prohecy. He just broke her down, disrespected her and abandoned her, leaving her to pick up the pieces further perpetuating her behaviors in other relationships. She isn't an angry black woman, she is a broken one.

    • @jayguapo7127
      @jayguapo7127 Před 6 lety +1

      marqui laney stop it

    • @cocobenji6123
      @cocobenji6123 Před 6 lety +31

      marqui laney well if he started off insulting his own sisters...smh.

    • @TescoBoy568
      @TescoBoy568 Před 6 lety +2

      +benji 80 how did he insult his sisters man gtfo here and grow up

    • @nwate7
      @nwate7 Před 6 lety +6

      marqui laney funny how you black women love playing the victim all the time blaming the man for your BEHAVIORAL problems. Yet call yourselves strong and independant queens for acting out on those behavioral issues. Black women like you have lost touch of reality. Take some accountability for yourselves because you are far from innoncent victims.

    • @venturesomeactivist
      @venturesomeactivist Před 6 lety +18

      Young Sage Firstly, you know nothing about me. Why are you making this personal? I commented on THIS video. Did I say ALL black men?🤔 And how am I delusional for having empathy? I did not say that people shouldn't take accountability for their actions but if you are in a relationship with someone that you care about you should at least TRY to understand the motivation behind those behaviors. Constantly hurling insults at someone is not constructive and doesn't fix anything.I barely heard anything about her actions, those are things that you can change. He talked about her being black, which is something that you can never change.

  • @judneyp
    @judneyp Před 6 lety +198

    I don't like to discuss other people's family but just cause your family is hood doesnt make all black women hood. I believe he is attracted to what he grew up in so he married it. Finally, his ideals of manhood are elementary. Sweats and the gym have nothing to do with masculinity.

    • @juiceezetc3
      @juiceezetc3 Před 2 lety +10

      Thank you sir...that's the short psychology of it. He hates who/where he comes from.

    • @geneo4
      @geneo4 Před 2 lety

      I wear sweats at times and go the gym. I'm all woman. And not because of how I dress or look. That's only a shell. Well said sir...

  • @clarenceedwards2866
    @clarenceedwards2866 Před 5 lety +43

    He is partly to blame for the very things he accuse her of; and speaking in a degrading manner about our women is completely defeatist. You hate your own self and don't even know it.

    • @donaldstanley4261
      @donaldstanley4261 Před 2 lety +3

      Spot on
      The brother needs to respect our black queens period

  • @shugo2355
    @shugo2355 Před 6 lety +69

    I don't understand this woman at all. She's so caught up in trying to catch him cheating that she just won't leave him

    • @patp2690
      @patp2690 Před 6 lety +3

      Shugo Fair He ain t no good.

    • @shugo2355
      @shugo2355 Před 6 lety +8

      Pat P He's not but she's also dumb for sitting there playing the proove him cheating game. Like honey, if you dont trust him THAT much just get out. Stop wasting your time trying to find all the ways and reasons he's doing what he's doing. Just leave!

    • @lesliejohnson-nelson4003
      @lesliejohnson-nelson4003 Před 2 lety

      She ghetto asf, so embarrassing

    • @Idk-hy9zk
      @Idk-hy9zk Před 10 měsíci

      @@shugo2355why do y’all call ppl dumb just bc they aren’t as strong as you are? We all make mistakes hopefully she will learn from hers

  • @bstar1816
    @bstar1816 Před 6 lety +217

    This woman lets her emotions control her actions.

    • @bigg6267
      @bigg6267 Před 5 lety +3

      Neetra213 most do

    • @hearme4581
      @hearme4581 Před 3 lety +11

      I was once her, I had to look at myself and stop saying people made me do this and that. Yea they where wrong but I choice to deal with it.

    • @donnaleehinds2514
      @donnaleehinds2514 Před 2 lety +5

      Totally! Staying with him definitely ruin her totally. She’s loves him to the point she’s lowering her standards.

    • @Januarycap
      @Januarycap Před 2 lety +2

      @@donnaleehinds2514 honestly you made more sense than the person who left the initial message/ statement.

    • @user-tp2cg6ms8q
      @user-tp2cg6ms8q Před 2 lety

      @@hearme4581 preach !!

  • @neri3376
    @neri3376 Před 5 lety +28

    They love to record and act calm after they push a person to the extreme.

  • @mykaraokechannel347
    @mykaraokechannel347 Před 6 lety +76

    He doesn't even like and value his own sisters! Why would he like a random black woman? He wants a woman he can cheat on and get away with it with the minimum of fuss! The nerve of him! He's too much of a coward to deal with the conflicts he creates with his own bad behavior and she is too much of a coward to be without the likes of him!

  • @MissFoxification
    @MissFoxification Před 6 lety +91

    From the very first moment you could tell they were done, all that was left was anger and bitterness.
    People, if your relationship is done, if you are really that unhappy, do yourself justice and leave. You're better off being single than wishing you were.

  • @annanicole7642
    @annanicole7642 Před 6 lety +280

    I'm not even past the intro and I'm like GIRL RRRUUUNNN🙄 !!!!!!! 🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️🏃🏾‍♀️

    • @dinoman4451
      @dinoman4451 Před 6 lety +2

      Runeth Honey Runeth! lol

    • @dspenderella9671
      @dspenderella9671 Před 6 lety +2

      Ikr lol

    • @je.suis.prisci
      @je.suis.prisci Před 6 lety +1

      LaTrese LuvsEarl Exactly!!!

    • @Ghostface2point0
      @Ghostface2point0 Před 6 lety +9

      Faaaaaaaaaaacts as soon as he said "she thinks I'm cheating but I'm absolutely innocent...until proven guilty" I gave up on him

    • @rikitawimberly775
      @rikitawimberly775 Před 6 lety +3

      Same! I could tell he was a clown from the time he opened his mouth

  • @TheLockhartPerspective
    @TheLockhartPerspective Před 6 lety +41

    I marvel at how people cheat and then get angry at the persons response and THEN say "I can't live this way I just want to enjoy my life I'm out"

  • @leah8112
    @leah8112 Před 6 lety +54

    Blk women do better PLEASE. Dont let a man make u crazy so you can be thrown onto the angry blk woman pile. If he treats u bad then leave! Date a man who wants you. He might not be black but whatever you do, leave the rachet behaviour alone. Be good to yourself mentally and emotionally and you will find a good man who loves n respects u.

  • @jamesgibson3716
    @jamesgibson3716 Před 6 lety +301

    Listen to his words ladies. He said that Porsche was the FIRST black woman he's been with. After this, this dude will GO BACK to dating NON black women. Mark my words...And he doesn't see that HE'S the reason he's having problems. Porsche's NO angel, but he made her that way....

    • @cocobenji6123
      @cocobenji6123 Před 6 lety +29

      James Gibson when you're the common theme in your relationships YOU are the problem

    • @patp2690
      @patp2690 Před 6 lety +26

      Vee Darko He is not an asset. Good riddance.

    • @shaheedahevans2871
      @shaheedahevans2871 Před 6 lety +13

      James Gibson She was already that way.

    • @ninanano
      @ninanano Před 6 lety +22

      James Gibson when he said that... it's creepy it's like he's making a collection, trying to date every "race". I don't understand how people can't see how creepy and fetishizing (in a bad way) that is. Also he's very ignorant and believes in sterotypes, just a whole dumbass

    • @kimberlylozano2881
      @kimberlylozano2881 Před 6 lety +6

      Shaheeda Abdullah agree, the women I know that are that way bring it into every relationship. They start off not trusting the dude and accusing them of shit or snooping. Your relationship will fail every time if its started that way. You can't make every guy pay for what the guy before him did. And I've seen this with men too so it goes both ways. She is ratchet and no dude wants to the 21 questio2nd just going to Wal-Mart. Guilty of something or not.

  • @tinalawson5110
    @tinalawson5110 Před 5 lety +26

    Cheating is universal,all races. NO woman wants abuse and disrespect.

  • @hannahlambert2807
    @hannahlambert2807 Před 5 lety +17

    “She thinks I’m cheating but I’m innocent until proven guilty and there’s no evidence “ boy, you cheating. 🙄 and starting off by telling the judge she’s very beautiful? 😒

  • @christopherpate9560
    @christopherpate9560 Před 6 lety +76

    Great advice in the end judge.
    Let em go. Don't be the fool no more, Let somebody else do it.

  • @sasha-kayfuller5821
    @sasha-kayfuller5821 Před 6 lety +152

    The judge got a headache, I got a headache, damn everyone got a headache. N if u av to b a detective for a man leave especially if it wont change anything. Damn

    • @vvelasco54
      @vvelasco54 Před 6 lety +2

      Sasha-kay fuller I truly did get a headache

    • @sasha-kayfuller5821
      @sasha-kayfuller5821 Před 6 lety +1

      vvelasco54 me too.

    • @pjaszmyne1090
      @pjaszmyne1090 Před 6 lety

      well Sasha-kay fuller if you got a headache from watching this couple on a entertainment TV show you need to go get that checked it might be something wrong with your trait of thinking

    • @sasha-kayfuller5821
      @sasha-kayfuller5821 Před 6 lety +2

      P J dwl well thank u for ur so needed advice.

    • @pjaszmyne1090
      @pjaszmyne1090 Před 6 lety

      +Sasha-kay fuller it wasn't any advice...

  • @feliciaevans7899
    @feliciaevans7899 Před 6 lety +138

    HE IS CHEATING ON HER!

    • @bigshawn1972
      @bigshawn1972 Před 6 lety +1

      Duh!

    • @jacpppp
      @jacpppp Před 6 lety +9

      With white womensss 😂

    • @pjaszmyne1090
      @pjaszmyne1090 Před 6 lety +1

      and you a side Chic y'all females are something

    • @pjaszmyne1090
      @pjaszmyne1090 Před 6 lety

      +Mr. Lion looks like you would be able to vouch if he is if you even getting any

    • @pjaszmyne1090
      @pjaszmyne1090 Před 6 lety

      BYE FELICIA... you think he's cheating cause you somebody side chic

  • @Missleeleebaby23
    @Missleeleebaby23 Před 6 lety +22

    I'm done listening to ANYTHING he has to say the moment he as a black man decided to group all black women together and label us as ratchet and volatile. If he wants someone of a different ethnicity I support it because we need no uncle tom, self hating, indignant bums!!! His mother failed not only his sisters but him!!!

  • @myrasmama
    @myrasmama Před 6 lety +41

    The relationship is making her miserable, Ssick, sad, unhappy, the list goes on... I hope she can move on. Time for her to focus on herself so she can heal and learn from it and be open to someone who will appreciate her and love her the way she deserves.

  • @lattybrown7056
    @lattybrown7056 Před 6 lety +37

    Their level of of immaturity is dispicable

  • @mrsrunmemymoney497
    @mrsrunmemymoney497 Před 6 lety +54

    The childish immature pettiness of this all...I just can't

    • @Ladyjojo83
      @Ladyjojo83 Před 6 lety +3

      Spicy Creole Lady you are so right! I was so annoyed! 😐😐

  • @tinalawson5110
    @tinalawson5110 Před 5 lety +12

    Wow so he confessed that he cheats and she can't prove it. Then gallantly went on the show to let people know how crazy she acts. Wow.

  • @asabifatosin1150
    @asabifatosin1150 Před 5 lety +8

    I’m sick of him already. 🙁

  • @xluvsan4117
    @xluvsan4117 Před 6 lety +78

    "Fear is jealousy's bitchey sister" Omg Judge xD

    • @RiddyOnline
      @RiddyOnline Před 6 lety +2

      Think it was "jealousy is fear's bitchy little sister..." but pretty cool quote though

    • @lucianoabbott5149
      @lucianoabbott5149 Před 6 lety +10

      It was 'Anger is nothing, but fear's bitchey little sister'.

  • @pandorasbox4238
    @pandorasbox4238 Před 6 lety +22

    I feel for her. She isn't handling it the best way she could, but I know from experience how a cheating husband will make you crazy. I suspect she may have some issues with depression. I just get that vibe. I hope she'll be ok.

  • @leahmartin676
    @leahmartin676 Před 4 lety +15

    Perpetuating the angry black woman narrative even though he cheats on her and call her crazy all the time. He's crying boo hoo over the environment he created.
    The judge was trying to tell him how he made his wife feel that caused the way she reacted. He did not want to hear none of it. It was all about what he wanted and how he feel. That's no way to be in a marriage

  • @jenowens9990
    @jenowens9990 Před 6 lety +17

    Girl ruuuunnnn!! 🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

  • @cocobenji6123
    @cocobenji6123 Před 6 lety +71

    He started off generalizing..

  • @fayluv6693
    @fayluv6693 Před 4 lety +7

    Wow!!! The way he talked about his sister's that was raised by his mother smdh

  • @myhumbleopinion3067
    @myhumbleopinion3067 Před 4 lety +8

    He has his issues, but Omgoodness, she's so immature.

  • @refi6438
    @refi6438 Před 5 lety +11

    mistake and red flag ladies never date a man that has never dated his own race there is some self hate going on and why would you even want to deal with a man with issues like that.. he would have been a no go from the jump!!

  • @rancisgamer
    @rancisgamer Před 6 lety +88

    The "angry black woman" is a stereotype that has been put on to black women unfortunately but the real problem is learned behavior... it falls in to the stupid category of "acting black" or " black enuf" and the lie that blackness is synonymous with ignorant behavior... there is an expectation among black women to behave a certain way in certain situations and that is the real problem... one can't generalize anything or anyone. I don't have a solution but I do know that group think expectations are part of the problem

    • @lolag.4819
      @lolag.4819 Před 5 lety

      Ji Mi 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

    • @lolag.4819
      @lolag.4819 Před 5 lety +1

      RancisGamer thank you.

    • @brittanyr1456
      @brittanyr1456 Před 5 lety +9

      I agree with you. A black man I was talking to recently kept telling me that I was a “white girl” because of the way I talk and the things I say and because I didn’t grow up like he did in the hood. This has been the case most of my life and it’s sad because when I was younger and even now, black men (black women either as friends) don’t check for me AT ALL and it made me think that I wasn’t “black enuf” and ratchet was the thing to be and I just didn’t fit into that mold to be considered black.

    • @OSMRDucksLIB
      @OSMRDucksLIB Před 5 lety +1

      @@johnjohnzeeland7589 You really dont understand culture whatsoever. A very racist person indeed.
      People mirror behavior that they have been raised around. If you dont believe or understand that, then I hope to God you don't have & never do have children. Smh

    • @lorebay2593
      @lorebay2593 Před 3 lety

      Well, I believe that there is too much generalizing, I am not an angry woman at all, we are not all the same. If I thought you were cheating, or had evidence of same, I’ll just tell you to be sure your girlfriend wants you, because I lose interest real fast and once you leave, you not coming back.

  • @debrasteele1588
    @debrasteele1588 Před 4 lety +5

    He’s a jerk! Move on girl, you look to good to be dealing with his cheating.

  • @tiffanymonique2143
    @tiffanymonique2143 Před 5 lety +18

    While she's in tears saying she loves him and willing to forgive all his infidelity he wants to throw in the towel and it's because he's already moved on he has numerous women that he has come to let take his wife's place and no he doesn't know what marriage is he feels like it's supposed to be easy all the time or he feels like because he cheats and he does what he wants to do she supposed to suck that up and just be happily ever after know you create the monster that you have if you wanted her to treat you a certain way you would have treated her a certain way you don't get to stab someone in the heart and wonder why they bleed

    • @uncleelroy6353
      @uncleelroy6353 Před 2 lety

      Her job is peace if she isn't bringing it then I'm out too. Work all day to come home to that no thank you.

    • @themasterspiece5669
      @themasterspiece5669 Před rokem

      @@uncleelroy6353 you sound ridiculous 😅

  • @aliyacxopp4036
    @aliyacxopp4036 Před 5 lety +6

    What the Judge said at the end really hit hard❤️ So true and she said it in the most beautiful way

  • @lynntoler4923
    @lynntoler4923 Před 6 lety +109

    Why you can't be mad that the soda can is flat ...

  • @piiweepiggy9775
    @piiweepiggy9775 Před 5 lety +6

    omg the fact that he said innocent until proven guilty 🤦🏽‍♂️

  • @lollascreations6142
    @lollascreations6142 Před 4 lety +9

    She’s beautiful. She needs to find her self worth, come to peace with life & move on.💗💗

    • @charlesanderson1422
      @charlesanderson1422 Před 4 lety

      Onna Ellis 😂😂 Someone In the comments always say someone is beautiful. Like that means something, like that entitles them to a perfect life.She was your version of beautiful when she chose this clown, while she staying in a sham relationship, instead of doing something constructive with her life, she would rather be ratchet. How does “ beauty “ help that?

    • @lesliejohnson-nelson4003
      @lesliejohnson-nelson4003 Před 2 lety

      Oh please, she's so freaking ghetto it's so disgusting

  • @NotYourTypicalNegro
    @NotYourTypicalNegro Před 4 lety +7

    My nerves are SHOT. She is CRAZY.

  • @Tayamyre
    @Tayamyre Před 6 lety +43

    So does he tell his sisters and mother this to their face???

    • @nwate7
      @nwate7 Před 6 lety

      Tayamyre why should he?

    • @patp2690
      @patp2690 Před 6 lety +13

      He got on national tv and screwed them over.

    • @nwate7
      @nwate7 Před 6 lety +1

      Pat P maybe they dessrrved it

    • @pjaszmyne1090
      @pjaszmyne1090 Před 6 lety

      Tayamyre why should that matter if he does or not if they already know the truth

    • @brandimiller2842
      @brandimiller2842 Před 6 lety +3

      p jaszmyne maybe they don't know how he has felt all his life. Just because they behaved a certain way doesn't mean they were aware of how he perceived them and how it affected him. So the "truth" is sometimes one's opinion. I think he should sit down and talk with his family so he can heal. I believe there's some hurt with him and black women that is from his childhood. Yet he does or is attracted to black women but ran from a hurt by dating other race. Which there is nothing wrong with that (dating outside your race) but to me only if you find love based on love and not running from a past hurt. Love has no color race, etc. its when you purposely not date a certain race that makes it racist to me. I do believe in types of what we are just attracted to. But I'm speaking on this situation specifically.

  • @michaeladewale532
    @michaeladewale532 Před 6 lety +72

    21 days till 2018 my black brodas we gotta do better.

    • @jacpppp
      @jacpppp Před 6 lety +1

      Michael Adewale 😂😂😂

    • @jocage1719
      @jocage1719 Před 6 lety +4

      If they knew better then they would do better. knowledge is power and its unfortunate many of them lack that trait 😔😔😔

    • @nwate7
      @nwate7 Před 6 lety +1

      Jo Cage what about black women?

  • @EshaBby444
    @EshaBby444 Před 6 lety +18

    Reminds me of Baby Boy when he late picking her up from work in HER car and then she finds condoms in the car lmao smfh why bother with this man?!

  • @SharpieDarling
    @SharpieDarling Před 5 lety +7

    Something is wrong with both of them. Smh.

  • @valenachristopher3596
    @valenachristopher3596 Před 4 lety +6

    His wardrobe alone woulda told me to run 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @shelterlovely
    @shelterlovely Před 6 lety +57

    This man just came on the show just to advertise that he is in need of a white woman,

  • @sandrarice2069
    @sandrarice2069 Před 4 lety +3

    It's a shame this man child doesn't treat his beautiful wife with respect and admiration. My heart goes out to her. She deserves so much better! I pray she will value her fabulous self. May God bring her a man that will love, honor, and cherish her.🙏

  • @alexarenee29
    @alexarenee29 Před 6 lety +15

    I'm just glad they didn't have kids... She can start a whole new life

  • @dspenderella9671
    @dspenderella9671 Před 6 lety +13

    16:39 Aww Judge Toler was so kind to tell that lie that the plaintiff was "good looking"...Judge where? Locks don't make everybody look good - I'm sorry. 😂

  • @asho345
    @asho345 Před 6 lety +10

    Girl should've got her a treat on the side to make her happy. How you let a self hating black man play you like that?

    • @nwate7
      @nwate7 Před 6 lety

      Ash O talk about self hate...many black women HIDE their natural hair by spending big money on hair that grew out soneone else scalp just to look and feel pressentable lol

  • @myal7532
    @myal7532 Před 4 lety +3

    This little boy has some nerve!!

  • @ellesouthernbelle5655
    @ellesouthernbelle5655 Před 4 lety +5

    When a person compares their experiences with other partners based upon race I check out completely! He is no prize..and the generalizations are juvenile.

  • @All_Things_Shay
    @All_Things_Shay Před 6 lety +3

    When somone gets you to the point when you start acting a damn fool, then you need to not be with them. She doesn't trust him and trying to stay with someone who you can't trust is exhausting.

  • @hazeleyes611
    @hazeleyes611 Před 6 lety +4

    I love the Judges knowledge and advice. This girl looks very nice and she can do better than him. If he wants something else, then please cut him loose because being with him can hurt more than actually saying goodbye. She can find someone else. He will only keep chipping away at her self esteem.

    • @jackpea7102
      @jackpea7102 Před 6 lety +1

      Hazel Eyes Yeah she is a sweet young woman. He has made ger crazy with his foolishness. She can do better and find a brotha who will love and cherish. He hates himself. Self hate is hard to over come.

    • @hazeleyes611
      @hazeleyes611 Před 6 lety

      Jack Pea I absolutely agree with you.

  • @abi_n
    @abi_n Před 5 lety +4

    This dude gaslights on a thousand. Does dirty and makes her feel crazy for suspecting and reacting to his dirt. And THEN blames her reaction, her "crazy" on her blackness.. Whoo chile.

  • @sya286
    @sya286 Před 5 lety +5

    Y'all don't realize she's not crazy. Immature, yes. But not crazy. She comes from a community where tit-for-tat was acceptable, so she needed to be taught by the judge to rise above. He's a tacky man, and has some NERVE blaming all black women because they didn't put up with his trifling butt. That's an insult to non-black women too, claiming they're easier to dupe.

  • @22HW4Life
    @22HW4Life Před 6 lety +23

    Instead of fixing his issues which in turn would fix her issues and altogether the relationship as a whole....I'll just leave...Smh typical.

    • @patp2690
      @patp2690 Před 6 lety +4

      Chanita Jones He doesn't have the guts and courage to fix himself. So he is just going to leave because it is easier for him. He is the problem. If he fixed himself, she would be a happy woman.

    • @christophersample3101
      @christophersample3101 Před 6 lety

      Chanita Jones dont bekieve everything" TV" shows you

    • @22HW4Life
      @22HW4Life Před 6 lety

      ImFaMoUs ClOuD I don't believe damn near anything I see on TV. But thanks

    • @patp2690
      @patp2690 Před 6 lety

      Chanita Jones I don't believe nothing I see on TV. That is why it is called programming.

    • @nwate7
      @nwate7 Před 6 lety

      Chanita Jones so you are saying that her value and morals as a human being is dependant on those of that man??

  • @valeedadavidson678
    @valeedadavidson678 Před 6 lety +11

    SHE'S VERY IMMATURE

  • @PlushpoundTorrey
    @PlushpoundTorrey Před 5 lety +4

    “Innocent until proven guilty” yeah you right but when you caught you gotta take ur lick 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @ddavis8988
    @ddavis8988 Před 6 lety +23

    What it seems like is he grew up with a bunch of hood chicks. His whole family. Then the first black woman he dates he goes for the exact same thing he says he doesn't like. Then he wants to label all black women like that. Hascoob written all over him

    • @patp2690
      @patp2690 Před 6 lety +5

      Damon T. Davis And he is an ignorant hood dude.

    • @Yeshuadaughter727
      @Yeshuadaughter727 Před 2 lety

      But he lies he said he dated others and explained how they were and then says she's the first.

  • @JohnJohnson-oe3ot
    @JohnJohnson-oe3ot Před 5 lety +4

    mr. sample giving out samples lol

  • @PRINCESS2U_
    @PRINCESS2U_ Před 4 lety +6

    Baby girl you need a king. Soon as he started comparing races I was cool on bra

  • @kimberlyrussell3111
    @kimberlyrussell3111 Před rokem +2

    That guy thinks he is something special, and he is not.

  • @03lisajade
    @03lisajade Před 5 lety +5

    3:38 "I'm talking about black women in general" Me: Yea, lets talk about it🤷🏿‍♀️

    • @ritarhodes3852
      @ritarhodes3852 Před 5 lety +1

      I swear he's lying 😂😂 😂🤣💀💀💀💀

  • @pagangal29
    @pagangal29 Před 6 lety +3

    he said a remy sandwhich!
    damn, I need a few drinks after watching this..

  • @jo3433
    @jo3433 Před 3 lety +4

    Interesting he's the common denominator in a string of unsuccessful relationships. She is immature but of course no one with an ounce of self esteem would be with someone like him.

  • @Bear4196
    @Bear4196 Před 3 lety +2

    *That man is so low he needs a ladder to reach the sidewalk.*

    • @allendixon1044
      @allendixon1044 Před 3 lety

      Maury needs this guy here Amore public needs a studio man

  • @ncoburn7
    @ncoburn7 Před 6 lety +1

    "What we gon eat tonight, a Remi sandwich? A Brazilian sandwich"- I'm done

  • @keishawilliams7546
    @keishawilliams7546 Před 6 lety +32

    They deserve each other #childish

    • @pjaszmyne1090
      @pjaszmyne1090 Před 6 lety

      they do deserve each other bc I see them working this bs out after they leave that court room they are a perfect match# mature adults

  • @bryanbeeman5256
    @bryanbeeman5256 Před 6 lety +5

    Okay, somebody PLEASE explain this to me.... He saw how his 5 sisters were, right?!!? (Ghetto, ratchet, etc.) He always dated OUTSIDE of the black culture, right?!!? (White, Latino, etc.) WHY on this planet would he ever marry a black girl??????????????? It's apparent the father was NOT in the home.... but WHY????? If you don't like black girls because of how your sister's behaved, WHY MARRY A BLACK GIRL?????? SOMEBODY Explain it!!!!!!

    • @sscott504
      @sscott504 Před 6 lety +1

      Bryan Beeman... Clearly he has issues with his black mother because she bored all their black behinds!

    • @christophersample3101
      @christophersample3101 Před 6 lety

      Ok... so i assume everyone is perfect and no one has ever cheated.... the cheating part was in the very...(clears throat) THE VERY BEGINING of the relationship... comining from a 5 yr relationship from his first what he thought was true love and 1st real heart felt relationship .... and wasnt 100% ready to just move on, slipped back and made the mistake that can never be replaced, aka cheating , but.... had the strenght and courage to admit his wrongs to his future to become wife because he wanted a relationship based on honesty and trust .... yet he's wrong..... its not about any other race its not about putting a certain race down its about whats in the heart that was learned from a child ... so who can really judge a persons feelings or say the feelings are wrong??? Dating black women wasnt a goal it was more of a choice and free decision just like anyone elses... especially when rasied in foster care and told not to date any other race so the expirementing began to find out WHY??? Yet ended up marrying a black woman. Its not about how she acts or putting his race down its about going against racism and beliefs

  • @SuperShayla00
    @SuperShayla00 Před 4 lety +1

    He want somebody to run over and do what he wants to do point blank period with his sneaky self lol

  • @barbaralove4040
    @barbaralove4040 Před měsícem +1

    They both are childish, he’s a cheater and she has low self esteem. She needs to go find herself and stop paying the stupid tax like the judge said.

  • @zoesophia5611
    @zoesophia5611 Před 4 lety +3

    Damn I’m tired 😓 this is too much

  • @vanessalynch5996
    @vanessalynch5996 Před 6 lety +6

    Anytime you have a woman that have to play inspector gadget, run. Anytime you find a man that say he don't date black women, run.

  • @jackieadele11
    @jackieadele11 Před 5 lety +2

    I love the judge awesome! Hits the nail on the head every Time!

    • @letshaveaconvo-24s
      @letshaveaconvo-24s Před 5 lety +1

      I know when men like this come in her court she shut them down. Judge Toler is a great example of an intelligent woman.

  • @EE-2380
    @EE-2380 Před 4 lety +2

    He’s 29?? He looks at least 20 years older 😲

  • @ibrahimgure1658
    @ibrahimgure1658 Před 5 lety +4

    This man keeps talking about what he has to “go through” not know what he’s putting her through how dose that work ugh take blame for your own actions ..

  • @FlyRoni
    @FlyRoni Před 6 lety +25

    I felt so sorry for her watching this, she was never a real option he was just going to try it out and then give excuse as to why he can't continue he is repulsive,and an infantile male ..Sista judge read him right,tho!!!🤗🤗

    • @nwate7
      @nwate7 Před 6 lety +2

      flyroni68 he put a ring on it though so your comment is invallid. He didnt just "try" her. He must have felt something real for her enough for him to go all the way with her. She just turned into this self entitled crazy jealous bitch.

    • @damienkirksey7026
      @damienkirksey7026 Před 5 lety +1

      Are you serious? That woman is crazy and if she acted like this towards me,she will be gone in a Japanese minute

  • @Jlove85
    @Jlove85 Před 6 lety +1

    I love what the judge said about the soda can.

  • @ebonyhoffman4239
    @ebonyhoffman4239 Před 5 lety +5

    He doesnt like black women enough to date them she knew this in the beginning. Move on girl and find someone that likes women that are from your culture.💖