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  • Frank says Nancy’s erratic behavior caused them to lose custody of their daughter. Nancy blames Frank’s temper and drinking and now he’s walked out on her.
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  • @Shechatsalot
    @Shechatsalot Před 6 lety +410

    Her husband seems very disengaged, I think he is mentally out of the relationship. He doesn't care.

    • @KaizouKazurei
      @KaizouKazurei Před 6 lety +9

      Seen so many people like this. Mentally and practically this guy has already divorced her, all they need is to make it official but he can't even care long enough to do it. SMH.

    • @lexlex9886
      @lexlex9886 Před 5 lety +4

      Totally agree... Might be a sign of PTSD.

    • @brittanyyoung5874
      @brittanyyoung5874 Před 3 lety +2

      The people who are in the army/military/navy, etc cannot show emotion. They are trained not to show emotion. I watched my sister graduate from the Air Force and she did not look happy. Emotionless. I was told that they were trained to not smile, not show emotion. My bf was also in the military. He said the same thing. I also watched paternity court, there was a woman in the military and she did not show much emotion at all about the situation. I didn't finish this episode of divorce court yet though haha. I mean he could very well be done with her. At the same time though, it could be the training he had to go through.

    • @kingrayog
      @kingrayog Před 10 měsíci

      @@brittanyyoung5874 I was in the military, and they do not teach lack of emotions for every situation. They just don't. But, being deployed to a war teaches that. You could get killed being wrapped up in your emotions out there in the field. I might've been one of those dudes had I been deployed. I served during peacetime. But, I came out of the military with my emotions intact. I think people were probably that way before they served. It just amplified how they already were.

  • @poshpearls23
    @poshpearls23 Před 6 lety +407

    Wife: "my husband walked out on me two months ago and I want answers..."
    Husband: 'I was tired"
    Lmaooo. Pretty straightforward to me!

    • @marisolpinney8406
      @marisolpinney8406 Před 6 lety +12

      poshpearls23 I would be tired too climbing mount MISERY !!

    • @rancisgamer
      @rancisgamer Před 6 lety +8

      poshpearls23 i agree 100. she seems low-key crazy... her excuse is I didn't know what was going on... for everything... I'm willing to bet 25cents that she has some mental issues she is emotionally all over the place... and his won since he still gets all the time with his daughter. But don't let me get started on him

    • @sunflowertulip9346
      @sunflowertulip9346 Před 6 lety +6

      Nothing else was clearer than, I was tired. lol

    • @sasha-kayfuller5821
      @sasha-kayfuller5821 Před 6 lety +1

      RancisGamer 25cents omg lmao!!!!!!

    • @baitprojects9759
      @baitprojects9759 Před 6 lety +4

      When you are depressed and have a mental issue it's easy not to understand what's happening around you. That's why it's so important to have support, he clearly saw that something was wrong and that his family needed him or have someone to help her. The misery was his in the making.

  • @TerriSikorski
    @TerriSikorski Před 6 lety +220

    She worked three jobs before encouraging him to enlist in the Navy. He experienced some stability and then she wasn't good enough. Supporting someone and being rejected in the end has to be a devastating feeling. I wish her the best in getting her daughter back. Postpartum is real.

    • @jamessutton8114
      @jamessutton8114 Před 2 lety +3

      This guy was tripping. He was angry at the wrong person & then he gives away his daughter & the dog was next.🥴

  • @MsKimmy202
    @MsKimmy202 Před 6 lety +63

    Her speech that she gave to her gave me chills. The husband giving the family member guardianship is unforgivable. And why does he still have the dog? He has zero empathy.

  • @cutebear83
    @cutebear83 Před 6 lety +284

    I think the full story about the child being taken away is not being told.

    • @loveliejoseph6239
      @loveliejoseph6239 Před 6 lety +20

      Aquarius1983 I think the same thing they both look off too me

    • @neisysimmons4414
      @neisysimmons4414 Před 6 lety +5

      Aquarius1983 I agree!!!

    • @fdmg
      @fdmg Před 6 lety +16

      exactly.. and the judge had decided this dude was at fault before he said a word. He was in the Navy, deployed on a ship.. he did the right thing by having a stable family member care for his child. So many things are skipped over to damn the man, it's borderline ridiculous.

    • @nancypikul3186
      @nancypikul3186 Před 6 lety +32

      +J. Jnz he was not deployed when this happened with our child . out of the 4 years he deployed once for 6 months . I agree she did have some bias but most of it was true . he was not deployed when we lost custody .

    • @fdmg
      @fdmg Před 6 lety +40

      Nancy Pikul it still freaks me out that people from this show actually respond to the comments. Don't mind us here in the peanut gallery, we are just reacting based on the information presented. We only get a few minutes of a produced show to form our judgments. Don't take any of this personally.

  • @FutureSoapStar09
    @FutureSoapStar09 Před 6 lety +86

    This man has checked out and doesn't care about her. He checked out way before he left her too. All I can say is Judge Lynn was right on when he said men don't handle women's emotions very well. It's telling that statistically men are more likely to leave their wives if they deal with a disease or condition than the reverse.

    • @rosej5029
      @rosej5029 Před 4 lety +4

      Women are socialized from girl hood to take care of others and support others. Can that be said for boys?

    • @NaomiIsSoAwesome98
      @NaomiIsSoAwesome98 Před 3 lety +1

      @@rosej5029 I believe in some socialization but I think a lot of it is biological tendencies. There is a reason why 'nurturing' jobs like childcare, therapy, are women-dominating. I think women 'naturally' care more about other people's feelings, have more emotional intelligence, etc. Men tend to be more selfish.

    • @riggs20
      @riggs20 Před 2 lety

      @@NaomiIsSoAwesome98 my mom got sick a few years back, and it was just me, her, and my brother. I ended up quitting my job to be her full-time caregiver. My brother got mad that I would not put her in a nursing home, and he has cut off all communication with us for four years. I don’t want to be a nurse or caregiver. It’s not something that was ever fostered in me and I don’t enjoy it. But I love my mom and will do whatever I can to take care of her. My brother, on the other hand, loves himself. He will do whatever he can to take care of himself. I know not all men are like this, but it seems like men are, in general, more self-centered than women.

  • @Tasticks526
    @Tasticks526 Před 6 lety +86

    “My husband walked out on me two months ago...” 🤔 I’m sorry, why are you here? A man who leaves his wife, especially with health and financial problems, has made his choice. You might need closure but even that won’t change things. Never make a man tell you he doesn’t want you more than once. Let. Him. GO.

    • @wandasantillo1678
      @wandasantillo1678 Před 6 lety

      Tasticks526 I learned this the hard way. Leave him!

    • @brandimiller2842
      @brandimiller2842 Před 6 lety +2

      Wow! That last true statement hurt my heart as a woman. Never let a man tell you he doesn't want you twice... Powerful and hurtful. I like it!

    • @tootler23
      @tootler23 Před 5 lety

      #tolerisms

  • @KnottyCeltic
    @KnottyCeltic Před 5 lety +24

    One incident like that lost her her baby permanently?! Have the hospital and courts never heard of post-partum psychosis?! It's a VERY serious condition but it happens and right about the time of her incident 2-3 days post-partum. There's something sneaky going on here that the court almost immediately gave the "family member" full and permanent guardianship.

    • @sarahleroy465
      @sarahleroy465 Před 3 lety +3

      I got post partum psychosis and this same thing happened to me. CPS told me I will not get my son back and the judge backed CPS because they lied to the judge. My caseworker was my seargents wife. The CASA worker later on told me that the caseworks get paid per child they get for the more kids they take.

    • @kingrayog
      @kingrayog Před 10 měsíci

      Wow, @@sarahleroy465 Can't believe this crap happens and that the hospitals are in on it. They know what happens to new mothers, yet they call in those jerks to take babies away from their mothers? Something is twisted & wrong about that. Jesus, take the helm.

  • @MzYoShow
    @MzYoShow Před 6 lety +40

    He no longer love or like her. Everything she wants he took it away from her. He took the child, dog, and his love away from her. He's satisfied.

  • @yoruba21
    @yoruba21 Před 6 lety +28

    I haven't even watched the episode yet and I'm stuck on "I was tired" lol 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 straight face no smile

  • @MrMusickid23
    @MrMusickid23 Před 6 lety +123

    What the hell is going on here? Smh.

    • @tiptip7
      @tiptip7 Před 6 lety +1

      AJH 723 My thoughts exactly. This is just weird.

    • @brishaberries0101
      @brishaberries0101 Před 5 lety +6

      He's a weak husband. Woman habe hormonal issues after pregnancy. Our hormones are spiked for 9 months all the way til the point where we are considered legally mentally ill. Then they spike again at birth to help with milk production and labor. Then the hormones levels lower over 6 to 3 months.

    • @thisismyinferno
      @thisismyinferno Před 5 lety

      @@brishaberries0101 years.

    • @mobutter2879
      @mobutter2879 Před 4 lety +3

      He's evil. He wanted to destroy every trace of her. He labelled her crazy and had help doing it

    • @cynthiakila1161
      @cynthiakila1161 Před 4 lety

      tiptip7 most white people cases are everywhere

  • @eyejusskant
    @eyejusskant Před 6 lety +16

    He is so detached from LIFE, I can't even fathom how he was approached and agreed to even come on this show, smh

  • @mrsrunmemymoney497
    @mrsrunmemymoney497 Před 6 lety +25

    She paid THE STUPID TAX with throwing her ring in the ocean.

  • @Just_us-2
    @Just_us-2 Před 6 lety +51

    Sounds like the Pikul's marriage is in a pickle 😳

    • @chrisbriscoe7138
      @chrisbriscoe7138 Před 5 lety +2

      Natalie Brown-Brewer * Sounds like their marriage is in a Pikul.

    • @MP-nj1qy
      @MP-nj1qy Před 4 lety

      Lol, you reminded me of that car commercial 🤪😂😂😂🤣

  • @adwoaasomaning6805
    @adwoaasomaning6805 Před 4 lety +13

    I can’t believe she’s still hoping to work things out with him.
    It’s actually really sad

  • @AvonLady98
    @AvonLady98 Před 6 lety +73

    He kept the damn dog smh somebody send a marshall over to pick that dog up

    • @brandimiller2842
      @brandimiller2842 Před 6 lety +1

      Should I be laughing at this comment? Lol... Had me rolling though. But I agree come on man I was on your side somewhat until the end and you kept the dog. Lol... Something is wrong with him. Well both of them. But great comment. Lol

    • @AvonLady98
      @AvonLady98 Před 6 lety

      Brandi Miller i was being silly but i was shocked after he didnt follow the ruling

    • @brandimiller2842
      @brandimiller2842 Před 6 lety +4

      Tameisha McGruder I know, but it tickled me. I guess without knowing you I could imagine your facial expression behind it. Lol.. But he's mentally sick and unstable. Something's wrong with them.

    • @vickiepaul8258
      @vickiepaul8258 Před 5 lety

      The dog should stay where the baby is.

    • @angelacarlisle1708
      @angelacarlisle1708 Před rokem

      Thats because hesna total d*** head

  • @sasha-kayfuller5821
    @sasha-kayfuller5821 Před 6 lety +68

    This is some messed up sh*t

  • @NinaRaine
    @NinaRaine Před 6 lety +24

    She seems in denial . he seems disengaged

  • @sunshine73308
    @sunshine73308 Před 6 lety +22

    I don’t know why they came on this show, they both where so secretive and didn’t elaborate on anything. They didn’t not tell the entire truth about the baby, his temper or anything.

    • @mayenbob82
      @mayenbob82 Před 6 lety +1

      sunshine73308 probably because they're still in court. And a careless statement might be costly.

  • @wynterbreeze1202
    @wynterbreeze1202 Před 6 lety +170

    This trifling man set his wife up to lose guardianship. He used her emotional state as a excuse to treat her like trash.And the family member is his trifling meddling mother.

    • @Beast_Lee
      @Beast_Lee Před 6 lety +11

      Farrah Array I disagree....she was completely nuts and he got the child away from her...she wasn't in any kind of reasonable state to be consulted

    • @wynterbreeze1202
      @wynterbreeze1202 Před 6 lety +28

      Beast Lee He was not rational nor considerate. It was done out of malice. She was suffering from postpartum depression. He could have gone about it another way. He's like a robot...he does whatever his mother tells him to do. He's nonchalant and as u can see, he refuses to give her custody of the dog? Why? Because his mother is in his ear. He's a grown ass man operating like a 4 year old.

    • @Beast_Lee
      @Beast_Lee Před 6 lety +10

      It seems that everyone is excusing her behavior and his is being scrutinized.....I am not gonna say what his intent was....I can't say it was maliscious.....I wasn't there I am gleaning from the situation....it seems as though he did wjaybhe thought was right at the time because of her irrational behavior...I have to respect that he was in unfamiliar territory and reacted as best he thought

    • @magrittemcmaster5244
      @magrittemcmaster5244 Před 6 lety +4

      Beast Lee ....I don't excuse either of them. They've been reactionary to outsiders. It's time for homeboy to let go, pure malice are their actions. Neither of them seem to be concerned for their child.

    • @Beast_Lee
      @Beast_Lee Před 6 lety +2

      MaGritte McMaster to me he seems to be the one concerned...he got the child away from her and was double crossed by a relative but is still living the child ..same kinda thing happened to me as a kid...my grandparents adopted me to help my mom and themselves.....adopting me made me eligible for an SSI check that they were gonna split with mom and when I turned a certain age they were giving me back to her ....they didn't even though my mom lived with me from time to time they used the law against her...there was nothing she could do legally...he is in the same boat...my judgement is based on experience....also experience being married to an emotionally disturbed person....she is like my soon to be ex wife...she can appear normal or even like a victim but she is really irrational and unreasonable she is just very good at hiding it ...but for a little while..sooner or later ppl soon see she is unreasonable and sociopathic...I just had to leave ..like the dude said I was just tired...everyday was a conflict....if Ib was 15 mins late getting home I'm cheating..if another woman walks by I'm staring at her and she is ready to fight....if things don't her way she throws fits and makes threats.....so like me he left to live with family until he can disassociate his name and things with her...I can come off as cold him because one wrong move and she will use it against me ..If I express any kinda frustration she will use it against me ....I can tell she put him through the ringer and he just has nothing left ..like me....I am JUST getting back to feeling human and it's been almost a year

  • @Shadowdreamer4
    @Shadowdreamer4 Před 6 lety +11

    Did he really just say the dog is going to a temporary home after what happened with the baby?
    He will never change.

  • @stockinganarchy4551
    @stockinganarchy4551 Před 6 lety +119

    I think the problem with these two is that they grew apart.. They're just no longer in love anymore with one another. There is too much going on, they lost their daughter and it is just too crazy

    • @wyattrado3272
      @wyattrado3272 Před 6 lety +5

      Stocking Anarchy why is no one talking about how their last name is pronounced like pickle

    • @dinoman4451
      @dinoman4451 Před 6 lety +1

      That military life is not easy by any stretch! I definitely understood Nancy's statement about losing her identity this can happen when your married to the military! also if you the spouse does not have a Friend or Support Group your world will be cold & lonely place even with kids. and don't even get me started on when a deployment rolls down the line. lol / smh

    • @nancypikul3186
      @nancypikul3186 Před 6 lety +2

      I agree .

    • @neith1919
      @neith1919 Před 6 lety +8

      ;~``~; I was in the Miliatry...IT'S ONE OF THE HARDEST THINGS I'VE EVER DONE!! I was young married to an "alcoholic abusive selfish person"..The Military are for the Soldiers and Family Members are 2nd!!!! He knew that!!! He is an undercover Vindictive Unpredictable person!!! YOU KNOW THIS!!!..He has no regard for you!! You helped him have a LIFE!! UNGRATEFUL HE IS!!!..The Military can take a toll on Marriages...High Divorce rates!!! Get counseling, Get yourself together, Find a tough woman attorney in your corner who will do your case PRO BONO!! FIGHT FOR YOUR DAUGHTER AND LEAVE HIM ALONE!!! ANDDDD GET YOUR DOG!!!! He's emotionally UNFIT...AND YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!! BLESSINGS TO YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTER!!! AMEN!!!! YOU ARE NEVER ALONE!!!! SMH!!! SADDDD HEARTBREAKING SITUATION!!!! STOP BEING NICE TO HIM AND DO WHATEVER IT TAKES TO GET YOUR DAUGHTER BACK!!!! HIS FAMILY IS UGLY FROM THE INSIDE OUT!!! THEY TRICKED HIM; HE TRICKED YOU AND YOU CAN'T BE NICE ANYMORE!! GO FOR IT!!!! DOCUMENT VIDEO TAPE EVERYTHING!!!! KEEP A JOURNAL DATES/TIMES!!!! KEEP YOUR COOL NO MATTER WHAT HAPPENS TO SHOW YOU ARE MENTALLY STABLE...COUNSELING WILL HELP YOU WITH THIS!! SHOW THE COURTS YOU ARE STABLE!! GET A PLACE TO LIVE, FURNISH IT, GET A ROOM FOR YOUR DAUGHTER AND START A HEALTHIER WEIGHT LOSS PROGRAM. YOU'LL LOOK THINK CLEARER AND FEEL BETTER ABOUT YOURSELF!! AMEN!!! TAKE CARE BE WELL STAY STRONG SAFE AND PROSPEROUS.. DO THIS FOR YOURSELF AND MORE IMPORTANTLY - YOUR DAUGHTER!! GET A DIVORCE AFTER YOU GET STUFF IN ORDER...JUST DON'T TELL HIM ANY OF YOUR PLANS ANYMORE...HE'S DONE!!! NOT EVEN A GOOD FATHER!!! DON'T LET HIM RUIN YOU AND YOUR DAUGHTERS LIVES BECAUSE YOU TAKE HIM BACK!! HE'S NOT GOING TO CHANGE!! YOU'LL BE SORRY IF YOU DO!!

    • @ironfromice
      @ironfromice Před 6 lety +5

      No, she lost her daughter. The guy is living with the family member who has the daughter, so he didn't lost anything.

  • @tekishiachambers3077
    @tekishiachambers3077 Před 6 lety +41

    He is trying to hurt her beyond what anyone sees. He is into himself he want no parts of anyone including himself. I, me I. That all he cares about.

    • @Hellveania
      @Hellveania Před 5 lety +1

      Tekishia Chambers and that’s all he needs to care about, he doesn’t love her so he shouldn’t have to. He’s probably MUCH more responsible than her, and kept the child AND dog because of that. She’s very immature and is still angry over their marriage, she could do anything to that poor kid.

  • @mariel.4566
    @mariel.4566 Před 6 lety +19

    This man can’t be 37, more like 47.

    • @ChildfreeandOpen-ionated
      @ChildfreeandOpen-ionated Před 6 lety

      Marie Butterfly she looks old too I can’t believe she’s only 32

    • @imjsanyumad3432
      @imjsanyumad3432 Před 5 lety

      Ya but what do you look like without that hair hat and loads of makeup?!?

  • @tracystewart7676
    @tracystewart7676 Před 6 lety +8

    Seems to me that he used her to have his child and then set her up to lose custody. He seems to want to hurt her as worse as possible and leave her broken and dead inside.

  • @simplelady4371
    @simplelady4371 Před 6 lety +12

    He's very cold. I just can't pin why but my God. She had ptsd and he didn't help her. He stripped her from her child when she was already a wreck..smdh

  • @dwharton8983
    @dwharton8983 Před 6 lety +26

    I feel bad for her but you get the guy you pick the monotone nature of his demeanor is weird almost child like

  • @tootler23
    @tootler23 Před 5 lety +4

    "Respond like a queen," though. That really got to me. ☺

  • @wallflower7441
    @wallflower7441 Před 6 lety +10

    He is the worst. How could just give the baby away?

  • @Shycrochetqueen
    @Shycrochetqueen Před 6 lety +15

    They both are pretty strange I feel that her getting pregnant pushed him to marry her and he loves the kid but could careless about her almost as if he used her as an incubator to have his child

    • @nancypikul3186
      @nancypikul3186 Před 6 lety

      Dream Queen we were married and together over 5 years before I got pregnant . Thank you

  • @floridagirlblair9193
    @floridagirlblair9193 Před 6 lety +24

    Big girl.. you don't need no dog.. get yourself together like the judge said.. Get a job so you can provide a home for you and your daughter.. no judge is going to give you your daughter and you living basically everywhere... And forget chasing that husband who don't want you.. put him in the ex file.. life can be beautiful and you deserve to be happy. I wish you the best.

  • @icantth1nkofab3tt3rname6
    @icantth1nkofab3tt3rname6 Před 6 lety +27

    Please tell me they named a kid dill

  • @mdniteeagl1647
    @mdniteeagl1647 Před 6 lety +65

    I'm with Judge Lynn on this - Frank needs a spine transplant and a therapist, stat! Nancy could use a good counselor as well - seems as though she goes 0-100 pretty fast, but she probably would have been a bit more stable if Frank had backed her more often. That "close family member" definitely sounds as if it's spelled M-O-M, because that's where he says he's living now... and I'll bet Mom wasn't crazy about Nancy from the get-go. Relationships are hard enough, but when one member can't cut those apron strings, it's always 2-on-1 and will never work.

  • @k-ri2023
    @k-ri2023 Před 6 lety +45

    Dude just seems like the type not to care about things in general. Doesn't get too high doesn't get too low. Folks now what they get into with people and believe it or not change ain't gon come just because you feel like it should because time was put in. I don't think dude would really care if anything happened to anyone outside of himself

  • @jesuschristdiedtosavesinne4420

    Wow. This is a very sad situation 😔

  • @greatsweetnice
    @greatsweetnice Před 6 lety +6

    This was just peculiar. I feel like there was more to it. They had to be leaving things out.

  • @finetuning13
    @finetuning13 Před 5 lety +2

    lmaooooo "NOT A DAMN THING." The judge caught me off guard with that one. hahaha

  • @luvmifro1003lovesfamily
    @luvmifro1003lovesfamily Před 6 lety +10

    I want these ppl to stop lyin about their age tho 😒😒

  • @amyalvar
    @amyalvar Před 6 lety +6

    This woman is missing what drives us inside. She's missing a whole a lot of something. I'll be damned if I let someone take my child.

  • @dimesdeath
    @dimesdeath Před 6 lety +8

    This is a very sad case.
    Also, this lady was irritating for the fact that she refused to listen to a word Judge Lynn was trying to say.

  • @trixie6702
    @trixie6702 Před 6 lety +5

    Ladies have a backup bank account you honestly never know. Even if you man doesn't want you to be the breadwinner have a job because sometimes they will hold them being the breadwinner over your head

  • @MP-nj1qy
    @MP-nj1qy Před 4 lety +3

    He hands the daughter away to some family member, and now he’s taking the dog. The least he can do is let her have the dog while she’s trying to get her daughter back. That’s a lot of emotional burden for her to carry. She had a baby and suffered postpartum depression. Give her a break.🙁

  • @lindabrown6545
    @lindabrown6545 Před 6 lety +3

    No one called for a psychiatric consult-WOW; that should have been initiated by her physician/midwife!!! Not MPs.

  • @rancisgamer
    @rancisgamer Před 6 lety +10

    How is she gonna take care of a dog if she is homeless and jobless living in airbnB

    • @venus1990able
      @venus1990able Před 6 lety

      RancisGamer wat is airbnb

    • @rancisgamer
      @rancisgamer Před 6 lety

      Venessa Lovero airbnb is a service where people rent out their homes for a few days for a fee like a hotel but cheaper. It doesn't make sense because she said she is homeless and broke so she can't rent or rent out as a landlord or tenant. And it would be cheaper to find a long term low income house situation. Unless she is renting a box out the back of a trailer from the trailer park I don't get it.

    • @venus1990able
      @venus1990able Před 6 lety +1

      RancisGamer thanks alot

  • @vanessamuhammad8709
    @vanessamuhammad8709 Před 6 lety +22

    They need to separate, divorce, and get counseling to better themselves before they get in a relationship with anyone else! They are a different kind of special..... like the judge said he needs a freaking spine good lord and she needs to get her life and work and stop blaming it all on him she has to take control of her life.....hope they get the baby back

    • @brandimiller2842
      @brandimiller2842 Před 6 lety +1

      Well said. They are messed up as one. I think there was a lot more to their story than told especially about the hospital. I think she is off mentally and got hot headed at the hospital locked herself up being a Bratz and caused chaos even threatened the staff amongst other things. So that's why CPS was going to step in and he had to make a decision quick which seemed to be the only logical decision he has ever made. I think that she didn't do what was needed to get her daughter before anything became finally. And that's real. The system does NOT want to take children from their mothers, period! So for the judge to make that decision it was a concrete reason. And they just didn't say. Something is wrong with them. I feel bad for her though. I hope she gets the hell she needs mentally and emotionally so she can live life pleasing to herself and get her daughter.

  • @kaylasvids6786
    @kaylasvids6786 Před 2 měsíci

    I used to work with Mr. Pikul, very recently in fact. He’s a nice guy, very funny, gives good advice, and he just cares.
    He was a good worker :)

  • @naturallydee8112
    @naturallydee8112 Před 5 lety +4

    I'm still confused on how they lost their baby!!! Omg 😳 That was crazy.

  • @anshkhaneja626
    @anshkhaneja626 Před 6 lety +5

    Don't have kids unless you're sure, they're not like having pets, they need a functional set of parents. I feel sad for the child born out of this mess.

  • @colleenthecatlady2344
    @colleenthecatlady2344 Před 6 lety +4

    I just LOVE JUDGE Lynn!!!

  • @1mustlisten2
    @1mustlisten2 Před 6 lety +5

    I don't see a spineless man, I see a passive aggressive one who is perfectly content with the havoc he has wreaked. He alleges to feel bad that she doesn't have her daughter and yet won't even let her keep the dog? He sounds like a piece of shit narcissist and she sounds like the victim of one, suffering from cognitive dissonance. After all he's done, she still says he's a good person.

  • @CM-oq5lw
    @CM-oq5lw Před 5 lety +2

    that hospital handled the mother's post partum illness HORRIBLY!!!!! and taking the baby away just excacerbated the issue

  • @rancisgamer
    @rancisgamer Před 6 lety +2

    Hes clearly in a pickle 🤣🤣🤣🤣 had to... every time she says Mr Pikul I crack the fuck up

  • @Shycrochetqueen
    @Shycrochetqueen Před 6 lety +8

    Judge Lynn doesn’t have her necklace on

  • @SalvadorSTMZ
    @SalvadorSTMZ Před 6 lety +1

    Lmao @ the end Frank was like no bitch the dog is mine. This guy is legit.

  • @myshanamakisi6063
    @myshanamakisi6063 Před 6 lety +8

    Im lost...this story aint making sense. How did they lose the child?
    Is she fighting harder for the dog, than her child?

  • @RegzGirl
    @RegzGirl Před 6 lety +4

    Something isn’t right about this custody story. Nancy has more tell to than she is revealing because this story sounds fishy. He seems as if he doesn’t really have any emotions about anything. Maybe it’s his personality. But I find it strange that they’ve lost their kid & they’re are worried about a dog?

    • @est.inthe80s
      @est.inthe80s Před 6 lety +1

      khristle floyd yea and whatever it is he didn't seem like he wanted to tell it for her maybe he he purposely acted like a jerk so she wouldn't come off so bad or they both covering up a lot could be possible

  • @destineemarie217
    @destineemarie217 Před 3 lety +1

    I cant believe due to her circumstances she lost her baby. Pp depression is the worst. You feel things you couldnt even imagine after giving birth to a beautiful baby. Your feel guilt for not being "normal" anguish, fear. I cant believe our justice system and our mental health, hospital officials, and her primary care doctor fail this woman. And on top of that her husband failed her miserably. My god, im horrified. This poor woman!

  • @raquelt2691
    @raquelt2691 Před 6 lety +9

    I’m sure there’s a lot more to this story. As for him, he has gotten complacent. You can tell he has checked out of this marriage, especially emotionally, a long time ago. Most likely he didn’t know how to deal w/ everything she was going through after having the baby. He probably has been unsupportive this whole time. As for her, she has aged during their marriage. If you look at their early pics, she looked so happy and was definitely smaller. I feel like she resents marrying someone in the military. She mentioned how she felt she lost her identity & gave things up. The problem some military spouses have is not finding things to do on their own. You have to live your life & enjoy it. You have the make the most of life. It is too short. I can’t help but wonder what really happened with their child being taken away. That has to be the worst feeling ever, to carry a baby for nine months and then it gets taken away from you. She most likely was devastated. I don’t think she ever recovered from it. Also,I’m pretty sure throughout these 10 years she has suffered at some point with depression and a lot of other emotions because of how he appears to be with her. Just an emotional. I wish them the best though. I hate seeing marriages end in divorce but when the love is gone and people stop caring, it’s time to walk away.

  • @thechelsdonkor
    @thechelsdonkor Před 6 lety +2

    Why give her the dog let alone her daughter when she hasn't got a stable home or any form of income??

  • @YourShadowKeeper
    @YourShadowKeeper Před 5 lety +2

    Frank Pikul seems to have mental health issues, and Nancy is clearly trying to address her mental health issues and/or mental illness. It's unfortunate that the family member of Frank's felt they had a right to take this child away from her parents, and cause even more anguish and stress on an already fragile marriage. It's selfish and cruel of them to do such a thing. There is a big difference between supporting your loved ones and helping them out, and completely taking over with no regard of the outcome. I hope the courts have adjusted the guardianship and both parents have equal custody of their child, or at least an appropriate amount. Also, Frank.. give the dog to Nancy, you were ordered to do so by the Judge, don't be a vindictive little boy. Be a man.

  • @PinkWobbo
    @PinkWobbo Před 6 lety +5

    My husband walked out on me and i want some answers
    Answer: husband was tired

  • @guardiana85
    @guardiana85 Před 3 lety +1

    It seems to me that he is trying to punish her and control her. He took her child away and now is keeping the dog away from her. He probably would not even keep the dog if she did not want it so much. He is purposely trying to destroy her life. What a sorry excuse for a man! One day his daughter will find out what he did and he better pray that she does not hate him for it.

  • @HeresMyBit
    @HeresMyBit Před 6 lety +3

    It's hard for me to believe her when she said Frank is a good person

  • @MrBadawi009
    @MrBadawi009 Před 6 lety +3

    There is got to be more to this story,It said she had another child prior to their relationship, where is that child?Lady wake up he doesn't want you anymore, he is piece of shit for not standing by you when you needed him but you are not without guilt either.Wake up,get yourself together and fight for your baby IF you can be a good mom if not let the child in peace.

  • @myzkennymac3798
    @myzkennymac3798 Před 6 lety +6

    Dude like a damn brick wall

  • @mamigotz4
    @mamigotz4 Před 4 lety +2

    I'm confused about this child custody situation

  • @jk-py6fm
    @jk-py6fm Před 6 lety +1

    Mr and Mrs. Pickle
    😭😂

  • @brishaberries0101
    @brishaberries0101 Před 5 lety +1

    As a military man he has more pull legally, he could have called his wife at the hospital and asked the nurses to leave the room while he calmed his wife. He should have never called the cops at that hospital. He was so out of order for having his baby taken from his wife at her weakest time. Hormonal spikes happen for all 9 months to help with labor and milk production. It also take 3 to 6 months for hormonal levels to go down. Even then it take 3 years in full for a woman's body to be fully recovered from pregnancy.

  • @jenjames8005
    @jenjames8005 Před 4 lety +1

    What a sad situation. I truly hope she has her baby girl back with her now.

  • @AnointedWaterfall
    @AnointedWaterfall Před 6 lety +1

    She preaching at 5:15 !!! yesssss judge take us to church !!

  • @millah_knows_b3st
    @millah_knows_b3st Před 4 lety +1

    How he refuse to hand the dog over but let his own daughter go...

  • @matoakap49
    @matoakap49 Před 6 lety +1

    I really wanna update on this one! I hope she gets her daughter!

  • @FightsRightsAlways
    @FightsRightsAlways Před 6 lety +1

    Man this reminds me of me and my son's father

  • @nancypikul3186
    @nancypikul3186 Před rokem

    5 years later . My daughter is doing well and me and her are great and i shed the weight and me and frank are not together but co parenting. Life is happy !!!

  • @gwenscott535
    @gwenscott535 Před 6 lety +22

    Can we say Borderline Personality Disorder sir

    • @brandimiller2842
      @brandimiller2842 Před 6 lety

      Gwen Scott hmm🤔 I was thinking that. With both.

    • @October3074
      @October3074 Před 6 lety +6

      Gwen Scott he's too unfeeling to have BPD.

    • @pcarebear1
      @pcarebear1 Před 6 lety +4

      the only bit of emotion I saw was when the Judge gave the ruling of him losing the dog. The guy could just be a sociopath (not capable of empathy)

    • @SpamNeggs23
      @SpamNeggs23 Před 6 lety +3

      Y’all sound dumb, and are not licensed MH professionals. There are no sxs of Borderline Personality Disorder here. Read a DSM.

    • @michellekauffmann9445
      @michellekauffmann9445 Před 6 lety

      I have BPD. Nah. I wouldn't say he registers on a level with someone who has it. I'm not a doctor but just my opinion.

  • @buffymuffintopz8994
    @buffymuffintopz8994 Před 6 lety +4

    Ayoo this is crazy I hope they seek help

  • @brittanyreid5180
    @brittanyreid5180 Před 6 lety +1

    Wow, just wow.

  • @shaylah2725
    @shaylah2725 Před 3 lety

    ' I was tired ' ..... well then 😂😂😂😂

  • @TRESA4MEN
    @TRESA4MEN Před 6 lety +1

    Low self esteem ....and he looking for a oust.. a WEIRD SITUATION

  • @anlo3530
    @anlo3530 Před 4 lety +1

    Where do they find these people!

  • @emiliosantos1058
    @emiliosantos1058 Před 5 lety

    This people need to have a kid named Dill. LOL!

  • @lavinder11
    @lavinder11 Před 6 lety +2

    He doesn't give a damn. Wouldn't be surprised if he has a new squeeze.

  • @DeviancyBehavir
    @DeviancyBehavir Před 6 lety +5

    This situation is so pitiful. I believe she had the depression and he just didn't want to deal with her or it and just got his family to come in and just deal with the baby and have his problems go away. There's not a chance in hell that he didn't know there was something wrong and that they didn't need to do certain things to get their baby back. He just doesn't care, but the main problem I have is with her, she knew from jump that he didn't give a fuck and she decided to stay with him, get married with him and then have a baby with him. Then when it all blew up and he revealed himself for who he was, she wanted to have him change and be something he never was to her. That doesn't make a lick of sense at all. Let this shit be done, get a job, get your daughter back and move on. He's not worth the time or energy.

  • @cebilendwandwe6857
    @cebilendwandwe6857 Před 6 lety

    "I was tired" 😂😂😂

  • @karinec.2131
    @karinec.2131 Před 6 lety +3

    This dude has some mental issues going on. This woman dodged a bullet.

  • @scottp_man
    @scottp_man Před 3 lety +1

    Just so you guys know, they're still happily married.

  • @cynthiakila1161
    @cynthiakila1161 Před 4 lety

    . “I was tired “
    😂😂

  • @valfaust3973
    @valfaust3973 Před 5 lety

    I’m sorry but every time she said Mr. Pickle I died laughing.

  • @debraward2269
    @debraward2269 Před 6 lety +6

    Wish this could be anonymous but I have to say something. My daughter knew Nancy prior to the marriage. Nothing has changed in her manipulative behavior as far as I can see. He is a saint people to have lasted this long! Nancy was basically disowned by his family prior to marriage and he knew this, not going to a birthday party is no new idea. His family is the most stable of the bunch. They are very strong, cut and dry type people from what I understand and are able to provide everything the child needs. Taking the child directly from the hospital seems harsh but you will never know the whole story of what is going on in the background with these two. I think he will do fantastic without Nancy and power to him!

    • @nancypikul3186
      @nancypikul3186 Před 6 lety

      Debra Ward you have no idea what you are talking about . What you know is hearsay. I would say what I really think but I am not about Low blows . Please do not judge . Nobody knows our marriage better then us . I know where you got your information and trust me it's not from a person who is entirely innocent . Worry about your own family. Thanks

    • @nancypikul3186
      @nancypikul3186 Před 6 lety

      I was not disowned by his family prior to the marriage his mother was very close to us and we are working on repairing our relationship. Me a frank are also back together and are doing well everything that happened as pertained in the show was three years prior . We did the show with the promise of counseling and for other reasons . I shouldn't even respond to this but I figured I would clear the air . All that happened was a least a year prior to the show and it's heavily scripted . We are happy and very much together . Thank you

  • @kingtutakhamon
    @kingtutakhamon Před 6 lety +1

    Hormones my foot.... This lady is bonkers!

  • @titannafinley5242
    @titannafinley5242 Před 4 lety

    This is where you step cross the line in taking my child without my permission. I would have you arrested and then make sure that you do not come back in the hospital with no obligations. You didn't consult me in taking the child and you thought that you were doing something that was legal. No, you step the wrong path..

  • @bajanzelly
    @bajanzelly Před 5 lety

    Their behaviour at the hospital must have been ridiculous! Is that husband even alive? All I'm getting is ahh, ahh, ahhh out of him. He comes off as a total liar.

  • @jamesarciaga434
    @jamesarciaga434 Před 4 lety +1

    OK I'LL SAY IT...THIS WOMAN IS GOING DOWNHILL FAST. SHE'S GOT MORE "CHINS" THAN A CHINESE PHONE BOOK. KEEPING UP YOUR PERSONAL APPEARANCE IS LIKE RELATIONSHIP INSURANCE.....FOR BOTH PARTNERS.

  • @colleenthecatlady2344
    @colleenthecatlady2344 Před 6 lety +2

    He didn't do a DAMN thing!!!

  • @TheVeryAngryShrimp
    @TheVeryAngryShrimp Před 3 lety

    0:06 "I was tired." This dude's a whole mood.

  • @patrickfleming6908
    @patrickfleming6908 Před 8 dny

    Leave her. Be Free

  • @asabifatosin1150
    @asabifatosin1150 Před 5 lety

    He’s not coming back. He planned how to get the baby without a custody battle. He wants you with nothing that he’s attached too because he already considers the marriage over. He wants to move on without you in his life. If you want to get your child back, you had better pull your shit together.

  • @neisysimmons4414
    @neisysimmons4414 Před 6 lety +1

    He was so MAD at the end

    • @mimiali8706
      @mimiali8706 Před 6 lety

      Wenneisia Jones his only mad because he wants out and she doesn't

    • @mariel.4566
      @mariel.4566 Před 6 lety +1

      Lol, I know right? He wanted the dog.

  • @shereekern6801
    @shereekern6801 Před 4 lety

    He is just a flat line ... no emotion, no empathy and no desire to fix that doesn’t see it as a problem. I know she’s heartbroken but he’s never going to give her what she needs or deserves. Gotta let him go sis and heal

  • @mayasilliman1465
    @mayasilliman1465 Před 4 lety

    Why didn't the judge say the marshals would go with her to get the dog???? At the end it said he has not given the dog to her yet. Unacceptable!!! Judge Toler, you need to get smarter.