Left My Husband After He Turned Psycho Controlling, Then He Ended Up Arrested

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  • čas přidán 1. 07. 2024
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Komentáře • 64

  • @corinnefogarty7880
    @corinnefogarty7880 Před 8 dny +201

    Whoa, just backing up...
    She said he called HER a COWARD??!!!
    He just admitted he's a danger to her.
    And yes, she's terrified of him.

  • @MrEKOPriest
    @MrEKOPriest Před 8 dny +168

    He’s watching red pill content 100%

    • @mahbubrahman7901
      @mahbubrahman7901 Před 18 hodinami +1

      Tbh i am kind having a feeling that he watches this sort of reddit stories everyday and soon he has grown trust issues (since most reddit cheating stories are kinda like that)

  • @marshutch3931
    @marshutch3931 Před 7 dny +111

    I'd be worried he's having an affair and trying to keep HIS tracks covered. That's the way it was with the f in ex.

  • @BrennaDraws
    @BrennaDraws Před 7 dny +33

    The fact his sil works with abused women why defending her narcissistic brother is ducking wild

  • @cliffordmaynard6559
    @cliffordmaynard6559 Před 7 dny +31

    Get AWAY from that CRAZY guy.

  • @lorrainehilgendorf2165
    @lorrainehilgendorf2165 Před 8 dny +24

    And for God's sake Don't go back .

  • @M0N0PL4YZ
    @M0N0PL4YZ Před 8 dny +39

    Heres one for you: Am I the ayy hole for never wanting to watch my little brother?
    My mom is one of those women where if she tells you to do something, you better do it asap. And whenever she tells me to watch my little brother, she tells me things to not let him do, then gets mad at ME for doing exactly what she told me to, and not caring for the fact that what she told me to do made my little brother (who we’ll call T) scream. So whenever I DO watch my little brother, I make darn sure to do my best not to make him scream, but sometimes, it’s impossible. There have even been times where I did something as small as STANDING UP and he’d scream. He’s a literal killjoy and a pain in the butt to deal with. He could literally have a knife, and I would take it out of his hands, he’d start screaming, and I’d get in trouble. Like, she wouldn’t even listen to my side of the story. Hard to deal with, especially when I’m almost at my breaking point. Even worse, I always have to do what SHE tells me to do. For example, if Mom tells me to, idk, pick up trash outside, and Dad tells me to watch T, and I watch T first, because the trash can wait and T can’t, I would get yelled at by Mom for not listening to her. It’s gotten so bad at times that I’ve asked to take a break and go down to my grandma’s place for a week or two (because she’s really nice), and she’d promise that I would go, then make up excuses every time the time of my departure was like a day away, and postpone the trip. Eventually I asked why she kept postponing the trip, and she straight up said “Because every time you go down you come back a total b**** and an a**hole.” Like, I’m her SON. WHO TREATS their SON like that? And every time I come back, I’m always just upset that it’s time to go. And if I do act like the things she described, it’s always only for like a day or two, yet she said it always lasts for weeks. I honestly don’t know what to do anymore. I’ve considered suicide multiple times, but fortunately I’ve had my friends and even surprisingly my ex keeping me from doing so. And deep down, I do love my mom. She’s a great cook, and makes AMAZING sweet tea, and is even pretty popular on TikTok (Her account’s called Peachy Mama btw). But there are definitely times where she’ll be really mean and be one of those moms who you don’t want to cross. But idc, she’s helped keep me alive for this long, so why would I?

    • @kambatgirl5305
      @kambatgirl5305 Před 8 dny +7

      No I feel bad for you

    • @user-ml3hl6vr4t
      @user-ml3hl6vr4t Před 8 dny +12

      I feel for you and hope you can get out of there soon

    • @traciwoods-dennis6181
      @traciwoods-dennis6181 Před 7 dny +20

      Sweetheart, there is a fine line between parenting and bullying. I am sorry you are in this situation. I personally want to give you all the hugs and cookies. As for how to deal, I don't know, but whenever I have worked with people like that, I begin to take them literally. Dad says watch brother, Mom says pick up trash, I specifically ask "Dad told me to watch brother. Do you want me to pick up trash first or watch him?" Because then I didn't make the decision. She told me to do one then the other. "Did you mean you wanted me to clean the living room NOW or after I was done helping brother tie his shoes?" The term "for clarification" or "so I won't mess up" was my friend. I hope you keep your support people close. Big hugs.

  • @DrPlaneteer
    @DrPlaneteer Před 5 dny +4

    The last prep looks delicious

  • @jeanniewaechter8555
    @jeanniewaechter8555 Před 4 dny +2

    Run. Don't walk, RUN and get the hell out of there and talk to a lawyer asap.

  • @kyozushi_daggers8540
    @kyozushi_daggers8540 Před 6 dny +3

    Now there's a difference between your partner/wife and a dog.

  • @sianrapei691
    @sianrapei691 Před 6 dny +3

    That's madness
    Do not wear the tracker and do not merge the accounts. Also move your stuff out and file for divorce. This will not get better.

  • @kellysorensen1419
    @kellysorensen1419 Před 5 dny +2

    More than likely he's cheating and projecting it on OP! Run girl run! This isn't normal! Contact a women's shelter they'll help you escape and keep tou safe, pull the money out of your account and close the account!

  • @Mynzz_
    @Mynzz_ Před 5 dny +1

    Is it weird that my girlfriend sounds exactly like this dude??

  • @kambatgirl5305
    @kambatgirl5305 Před 8 dny +3

    I don’t think he gets the concept of privacy. I get if he’s trying to be protective but like that’s just too much that is invasive. This is a grown woman.

    • @rnbsteenstar
      @rnbsteenstar Před 7 dny +6

      There are just some lines you don't cross and that husband has crossed them. You can be protective without being controlling.

  • @sasunaru_lover
    @sasunaru_lover Před 13 hodinami +1

    Oh god, I have a history with an alex

  • @ering9564
    @ering9564 Před dnem

    Divorce and RUN...

  • @melonioilar8569
    @melonioilar8569 Před 4 dny

    Wuh-oh girl be afraid very afraid of his behavior!! I had a relationship that was just like this in high school - I am lucky to have made it through!

  • @Catlou3r
    @Catlou3r Před 8 dny +20

    HAVE THESE COMMENT ACTUALLY READ THE STORY THEY ARE ALL LIKE “first” or “second or third or fourth” LIKE HAVE THEY READ IT
    also Fifth

    • @_Ari_Potter_
      @_Ari_Potter_ Před 8 dny

      Actually 4th

    • @Catlou3r
      @Catlou3r Před 8 dny

      @@_Ari_Potter_ someone in replies said fourth tho

  • @Rosewolf29
    @Rosewolf29 Před dnem

    He’s not being cautious, he’s being hella controlling. I’d wait til he’s at work leave my phone take my stuff and bounce. Stay at a friends don’t answer and get the cops involved if he shows up.

  • @awm1012
    @awm1012 Před 16 hodinami

    Well quick question why would a person be worried about the tracking and asking where they are going, i dont think they have anything to worry about this kinda stuff if they are being honest and not cheating...

  • @mariefreeman4235
    @mariefreeman4235 Před 6 dny

    Leave him hope you kept your bank account to yourself. He's a control freak

  • @ladynicole888
    @ladynicole888 Před 7 dny

    RUN!!!!!

  • @ritasilvis2164
    @ritasilvis2164 Před 4 dny

    RUN!!!!!!!

  • @riverhigurashi8058
    @riverhigurashi8058 Před 4 dny

    Girl RUN

  • @ranjan2004
    @ranjan2004 Před 7 dny +1

    I think u should confront him about this before this decision and ask him why he is doing this ? .

    • @BrennaDraws
      @BrennaDraws Před 7 dny +4

      Nah cos in the full thing he put his fist through a wall and smashed a wooden table when he found out. They would have been her if she’d gone to him.

    • @ranjan2004
      @ranjan2004 Před 7 dny

      @@BrennaDraws really if that is true , i think she should prioritize her safety . But if possible get him to psychiatrist, I think he might be mentally ill

    • @firemaiden029
      @firemaiden029 Před 4 dny +1

      Confronting someone like that is dangerous..they are a ticking time bomb.. unless she is with other people who can protect her, she should never confront the guy head on.

  • @suestrong7025
    @suestrong7025 Před 5 dny

    He's the cheater big red flag

  • @marshutch3931
    @marshutch3931 Před 7 dny

    So Alexcomes from a line ofpsychos?

  • @LilliNoel-jh6eb
    @LilliNoel-jh6eb Před 4 dny

    Pack only the things that you can fit into your car and go as far as you can from him if you don’t have money for a hotel room then sleep in the car till you can get a job and a house

  • @ranjan2004
    @ranjan2004 Před 7 dny

    Get him to psychiatrist

  • @Lime68860
    @Lime68860 Před 5 dny

    I’m just looking at the food cuz that shit looks bussing

  • @Sophia-ob5we
    @Sophia-ob5we Před 8 dny

    Slayth

  • @MrKing-zf6dn
    @MrKing-zf6dn Před 8 dny +1

    He's being overprotective I'm pretty sure it's just over protective and he thinks ur cheating

  • @adaingomez5131
    @adaingomez5131 Před 5 dny

    What does f mean in age like 30f

  • @Theamazingqueenofgames4848

    9th!!

  • @JennyAnyaDots2
    @JennyAnyaDots2 Před 2 dny

    Oh yeah, you’re young enough to chalk this up as a learning lesson. Tracker device? Seriously? Perhaps he needs to marry a dog next go around.
    Just hop off the bus, Gus. You don’t need to discuss much. Just drop off the key, Steve. And set yourself free.

  • @Tebee-mm3gn
    @Tebee-mm3gn Před 8 dny +1

    7th

  • @IMR360
    @IMR360 Před 15 hodinami

    Women☕

  • @AidenAnabelle-ed2df
    @AidenAnabelle-ed2df Před 8 dny

    3 th

  • @thatoneweirdperson5067

    4th

  • @hyperdiamond6086
    @hyperdiamond6086 Před 8 dny

    13th🗣🗣🔥🔥

  • @user-rf8hk6gf3s
    @user-rf8hk6gf3s Před 8 dny

    First!!!

  • @Imachadman
    @Imachadman Před 8 dny

    6th