Dual PhD Stuck in Domestic Issues | Ask Ganjiswag#82
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00:00 Intro
02:18 Concerns about my private life
18:50 Dual PhD stuck in domestic difficulties.
37:10 Helping Pakistani students abroad.
54:14 Financial boundaries with Desi Parents
01:17:56 Outro
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For the first story, I would recommend that instead of perusing extramarital affairs or sahara of her family, try doing online courses and become financially stable enough to leave her husband.
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YES!
Yes financial independence is most important
I would say that she'll need to divorce him first if she has to become financially, that disgusting man wont let her do anything good for herself, but then again where would she go after she's divorced.... this so frustrating
she shouldn't wait for anyone just get seprated she could do job as teacher for living her life mesirrible already dont wait۔ for second question send brothers to police n court simple as tht
People should start educating themselves on their own, I am a Motorcycle Mechanic myself and i am only an 8th class passed person from Government School,(Due To Family Financial Problems) haven't even done matric.
But that couldn't stop me from learning, educating, grooming myself.
I have learnt everything from CZcams, (i also make videos)
And i am still learning tons of things day by day which will never stop insha'Allah. ♥️
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You are good in English considering Pakistan's education system, are you gamer?
Happy for you. 😺
Well done 👏👏👏👏
More power to you my brother!
At some point we all find these stories connecting to our lives or our family matters 😢
For the last question, I would recommend don't be rude or straight forward in front of your brothers and parents. Play smartly! Tell you parents, my salary has reduced due to company crisis and I can't bear all the expenses. Now brothers have to equally contribute.
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Love from India this podcast is healing 😀
Tbh idk how much should I thank my God for giving me this beautiful and peaceful life + supportive family ❤️
Request:
Can you please make a special content by the name of LinkedIn Ethics. Something like Do’s and Don’t.
Yes please.
Sadly our education system never thought us how to think and how to become problem solvers thanks junaid bhai to become our adviser and I wish that someday I will think like you with more respect.
Because they want to create slaves who work 9 to 5 for someone else, that is why they don't teach us to do taxes and how to make a company legally because they don't want us to work for ourselves and just become slaves to this system. That is why they teach everyone the exact same thing even though every human is different and what they teach us is only enough for us to get a stupid jab and then work for minimum wage for some rich person.
So dark. I just cannot stop thinking of what these individual are going through.
Listening to this while coding and working. Bliss!!
what language do u code in I've recently started in python!
45:36 that's why it's important to educate yourself and improvise on your skillset. Branding yourself keeps you current in your chosen field, opens doors for you, and creates a lasting impression on clients. By successfully marketing your brand, you'll have control over people's initial perception. If you don't brand yourself, someone else will, and the outcome might not be in your favor.
New set looks great !
To the lady in 1st email, another alternative solution for your personal matters would be "self care", which is safe given your situation and probably help alleviate the issue a bit. All the best
About the third email. Its a fantastic idea. Let me tell my story, I graduated the top public research institute or university. I am among top ten toppers of the class and possess many volunteer works, 2 experiences. But when I graduated in 2021, there was no guidance available. I am done with my first year of MS and started research work . Now I have enough info about how to apply for masters abroad, scholarships etc. I heard erasmus, daad etc first time in my life when I was in my MS. Also professors in Pakistan are so unsupportive they don't guide their students well. I now try to guide and encourage my juniors, provide them with links, check their statements so that they don't miss the opportunity. My cousin had a GPA of 2.6 and I stand far ahead of him not just in GPA but all of my skills. He is doing his masters in Belgium and I m here, just because I had no guidance.
@Aiza Zafar tell me the procedure? Plz
Jao yaar, niklo yahan se.. Kuch nahi hona yahan...
Hey i want to know too can you please share your email or any contact
I know so many betiyan well, Junaid, who are providing for thier parents. Three of my cousion(girls) got married and paid all of their marriage expenses and fathers took all the credit.
Long awaited episode ❣️❣️
first case: definitely the first thing is to get financially independent. does she have ANY SKILL through which she could earn money? If her english is good then she could go for freelancing (learn programming etc.), cooking. I doubt she could go to the workshop and learn the skills as I assume she wont feel safe while working with her husband
Sir agr sirf english aati ho tou fiver pr konsi job mil skti hai......jiss se guzara basar bhi ho skay.
content writing....adding subtitles or voice dub. Google kr lo iss ka bara ma
To this last girl with toxic parents, please learn about narcissism, Everything will start making sense. Dr. Ramini on youtube has great videos. Your parents (specially your dad) IS a narcissist.
good point
Bro love your content I had watched all ur ask ganji swag videos and enjoy these videos frfr
Much more Pakistani students and professionals in USA than Bangladesh and a lot more prosperous as well 😇
Junaid bhai, your every single episode teaches me thousand times big lessons than I learnt from my 35 years of life.. May Allah grant you more wisdom and courage to educate the people... 👍👍
Always felt privileged listening to your ask Gangiswag episodes - mainly because I dont have these toxic type problems in my life, Alhamdulillah
“Baat karo haqq ki, chahey hatt jaye sabki”🙌🏻
It is my personal views, that i salute you for listening to that stories continuously,like i just listens to the first one,and now i doesn't have courage to move for the next one because it left me in complete shock that how f***ed up mentalities are being operating through our society 💔
Glad to have you back.
Yes !!! please start that series ,that will open doors for alot of people .There are students who want to do but they have less exposure.
Junaid sir I'm from India and the thing you said about senior citizens troubling the youth in any way they can is so true.
My own grandma is such a toxic lady, she always abuses everyone my mother,my father(if something in her service goes wrong), even my elder brother(my dad's brother's son ) going on to the length of saying that he should die! He does so much for her and his father but they are never satisfied,they always want more.
She is staying with us for last 3months and I cant tell you how negative our home's environment has become.
That lady single-handedly is responsible for every bad thing that has happened to our family in these 2 decades
Best option for u and your siblings is to ignore her. Don't give her the importance in daily affairs.
Is budhi ko reaction na do...sunanay pe ae to headphones lgao ya idhar udhar kaam mei lg jao air ignore kro.kisi b chez pe reaction mt do. Budhi khoosat dekhna kese confuse hokr chup hojaegi
Junaid Bhai this concept is amazing! I have always been a firm believer in learning from other people's mistakes before committing them yourself. Thank you sir!
The first one is really heartbreaking, hope Allah ease her problems.
She's got attracted to his nephew
Do you think that she deserves sympathy
@@harismansoor5733 under her circumstances.. definitely yes.
@@harismansoor5733 wtf i just read..😆
@@harismansoor5733 either you are too young or doesnt understand sexual repression yet. 🤷
@@harismansoor5733 sorry listen but i just prayed for her. Im not here to debate or educate someone on whats morally right or wrong and also when you are coming across as society ki aunty so much concerned about someones private life. Its not worth and rather not waste anyone's time here 🙏
Last part was amazing…so true
The first two issues are such a representative our society. Is trha key issues jab Soul sisters Pakistan per discuss hotey rain aur inka solution dhoondha jata hai to log kehtey hain key yeah group talaqaein kerwata hai. Lakin is trha key issues ayee din udher discuss hotey hain.
Bro, I absolutely love your mindset.
Nice ambience!
Kudos to the set designer 👍
Much appreciated brother 😍
Great ask ganjiswag episode on my birthday
Happy Birthday Abbas!
@@bilalahmedkhan5876 thank you 😊 soo much man may Allah bless you
Happy Birthday 🎉
Well said
Feel sorry for the women in our country!
Again a great episode the last one I can totally relate n I also agree don't show full income. I am a woman. I used to send all my income but than I realized that way I will never be able to do anything. I started saving aside got married and got out of the cycle. I still love my family but sometimes u have to take that difficult step to survive in life.
first sister with marital issues, khudaara dont step out of one hell to step into another (prob bigger) hell... hosla rakhain, patiently come up with a plan of how to progress further, aksar hamaray paas proper solutions ya ways out hotay hain hum apni options ko limited ya restrict kr leitay hain...
2nd sister, meri behn aik aisay banday se shadi karnay se (jo most probably apki zindagi ko neechay hi kheenchay ga directly ya indirectly as per ur situation), behtar hai ap bhi plan figure out karain on how to get to australia and proceed with your life... bhaiyon ki jahalat ya toh ap ko marwa de gi, ya kisi dangar k hath lagwa de gi... behtar hai take a chance with ur education...
Finally new episode
So sad to hear such problems
amazing advice
its not healing its depressing, its reality
Oh man he had me at Doggy style 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
me too 🤣😂😂
@54:14 ...honestly if she will live her own life and take all the opportunities, she will be in a better position to help the parents out. She will also have the guts to tell them that dinner parties are not needed
Your last lines are very deep and factual
Thank God.
What an amazing man you are @junaid akram bahi .Lots of love for you brother. 💗💗💗💗
informative speech sir 😱😱
Junaid bhai you're just the legend
Sir AAP hum se na bagye. Eis mulk me aap hi "hamary issues aur unka Haal" k Sahi tarjuman hy.
Aap se bahut Kuch sekny ko milta hy,
Apna koya Howa Rasta, motivation, guidance aur bahut Kuch.
Shukriya for the great content.
Mujy and mery siblings ko parents sy her 2 din bad bad dua milti hai with inshaAllah in it
Same
That first one is truly heartbreaking. I weep for humanity
Aray Junaid bhai 30 rupee kiraya wala daur 2017 main khatam hogaya. One way 70-80 hai abhi 😂
As always , Your views over the stories/situations has been always like a wise brother advice and thanks for being there for your Ganjiswag Fam💕
Being a PhD that comment was hilarious "PHd walo k b masle ha" hmre masle to khtm hi ni hote 😂😂😂😂
In case the first woman decides to take the bold step of getting a divorce, I would recommend she contacted Jamia Tur Rasheed for her next marriage. They have a marriage bureau that specialises in getting divorced and widowed women married.
Same hum b Saudi main hi they Phupian palli Humaray kharchon per Takreeban Saari
Ghatay b dala aik Business main loota Abbu ko 😂😂😂 Yeh Common phenomenon hai Pakistanis living in Middle East specially.
Humra bhi
Life is a gift. The first woman, married to an illiterate duffer paindu must leave him immediately . She is 36 already. She's missed out on a life in youth and is in danger of wasting the entirety of life itself. No life should be given to a spouse for any reason atall.
25:01 impressed to hear you Equally Saying for men too!😂
Khair Bhai Big fan!
Lage raho munna bhayi
In the least homosexual way possible, i think whenever I see Junaid's video thumbnail I feel an electric current run through my body.
Wtf
@@AlexFactFiles 😂 Exactly
Bruh...
Bruh take it easy .
That may be because you always wanted a father figure in your life but never had one. A lot of people feel the same for Jordan Peterson.
2nd Person with dual PHDs
How is this possible to do 3 bachelors 1 Masters and 1PHD at the age of 25
4 years of bachelors
2 years of Masters
4 years of PHD
that's 10 years of education if you start at 18 you should be 28 rn
She started her bachelors at the age of 15 how's that possible
Because when I did my BBA I was 21 years old. At 22 years old I get admission in LLB( and it is an affiliated college ) then at 23 years old I get admission B.ed and MBA. Same year but different semesters different universities. Then covid k bad se mene exams online he dyes hn. This year is the last year for a law degree. I did my master's. Get Ph.D. admission this semester and do publications for scholarship
That "kabhi nahe milege" was so quick😅
Love the andrew shculzzzz reference.
The last question, I think you should talk to your brother about your shadi first. They should talk to your parents about getting you married. Once you've tackled this issue, you can then put finance talk on the table
Lack of consistency not allow this channel to grow bhaiyya its not necessary to shoot the video on studio Askganjiswag content can be make anywhere you are.
No offense but i think he likes the fact he is in a comfortable spot while he helps us too , and also looking at the video , him being in a nice spot and sitting and paying attention gets our attention as well , Aesthetic and Aumbiance of the video is important for the engagememt as well , Professionalism 💯
considering the content of this channel instead of checking cinematic and aesthetic stuff audience come to listen the useful advices n experiences.
He is getting a lot of views considering the length of his videos and number of subscribers.
@@zainahmed5688 I understand ur point my friend , BUT , its HIS choice if he likes to present stuff the way HE wants , like he already takes out time for us and our life stories , plus hearing those problems is ofc mentally taxing for him too , so i think we should atleast let him decided how he wanna present himself in the video , right? i hope my point is clear but sorry if i don't make sense because im writing this over 4 cups of coffee 🥲
Hisham Sarwar sikha rahy hai professional sale trick>
i love your all podcast from 2020
Bro nice ❤
Bhai its bahot badhiya kam karte ho ap
Financial dependence of women has created misery for our society. We have to make them more independent:)
Hi Junaid. Hope you are doing well. Let me know what are your plans for Australia. I live in Dubbo, a town in central NSW.
For first question lady, I empathize with you but don’t leave your husband when you are in an emotional state. Where will you go after leaving him? Would he let you keep the child? How will you fulfill kid’s needs/kharchay? So first of all make yourself financially strong however you can. Save money. Make a plan about what are you going to do after leaving him. Agay ki zindagi aur us k kharchon ka intezam pehle kren. Phir bachay ko le k niklen.
If You can travel/eat/watch a movie in cinema alone
You can do anything...
Exactly bro
Watching LSC alone in theatre in gurugram
Personality types hoti hain. I'm an introvert and enjoy my own company. I travel, eat out, watch shows etc alone by choice. However extroverts would feel bored and uneasy spending any time by themselves. Both are fine in my opinion.
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1st: I'm a Molecular Biologist and perform PCR I would like to know how much expensive that test was
2nd:
I'm earning good in a private sector health care. I can guide people with bechlors or master degree related to biology
can you tell me about bachelor of pharmacy and Bs in psychology what i do after i done my bachelor, name of courses or any guidance about related to the it will definately help me out and the scope of these courses cause i want to move to abroad with a scholarship in EU countries so please help me out and the last question is from my friend that he complete his matriculation with computer and now he's pursuing Pre. Medical so is it possible? Thanks
@@kabirkhurshid176 I can answer your last question, to go into pre med or med you need to have studied biology, physics and chemistry prior to getting admission if not then you cant opt for med in Pakistan, you also need above 70 percent marks to be eligible if you're under fbise, not sure about other boards, I faced same problem after matriculation and then I had to choose between computer or commerce because I wasnt eligible for medical, hope my answer helped you.
@@kabirkhurshid176 No pre medical without Biology as @aman answered
And your 1st question isn't clear first you're asking becholors options after completing bechlor?
Both degrees are good.... psychology needs human emotion and pharmacy needs chemistry and medicine formulas.... so first check your interest..... every degree has worth abroad but in Pakistan Pharmacy is better..... you'll get scholarship for both if you gain good scors not an issue
@@raheelaaslam am doing zoology , what should i do after bachlors
@@abdullahansari8759 canada has quite good scope for marine biologist... check that out and apply for master progrrame there....... if you have grades you'll get scholarship and 1st year will be tough but after that students manage own thier own....
Junaid bhai....my love
For First case : i feel so sory for every body suffering..you are a victim of our cultural norms like so many others. I wish i could do something for every living soul. This makes me so sad. First of if u want to be free to make decisions, u have to become financially independent, alot of online skills, which to me seems the best way out.
Id like to mention something, i have a bitter experience of helping a person in such situation and after a while they changed in a way like they were never there. Anyways Allah asani kre ameen.
Wah kia reality pesh krtey Hein aap.
NO bank would simply loan an individual billions of $. even countries cant get that from imf. KOI elon thori lagen hain hum ab.
We need walking tales that you have recorded several waking tales
Pakistanis indians ko Darlings movie Netflix par dekhni chaye. Great message for women
Just watched it, 😂😂.
Psychology sy related 😖 bht kami hai is country m awareness ki
True
Can u plz make a video how to control fears and panic attack's... I m suffering from these... Plz help me
Question #3 - It is impossible to keep everybody happy at all times. Prioritize helping people from your inner circle and stop letting greedy and opportunistic people take advantage of you and your close ones. Stop overthinking and being overly sensitive about “what will people say?” Zulm sehna bhi ek tarah ka zulm hai. Cut off toxic people from your life asap. Telling from experience of being in the exact same situation for over a decade. Now at peace with everything by following what I said above.
The other name of "Apnay aap se dosti" is Mindfullness. Practice it and you will see the change in your life.
And, how do you ask Junaid? Email?
Check the description box, the email address is there.
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Yaar yeah mayaat mein khwab wali baat to meney itni Suni hai. Mujjey sun key baaz khwateen ki yeah baat lagta hai brain cells ja rhey hain.
25 saal mai 2 bachelor's kaisay hotay hain bhai?? mjhy koi bata dai I'm 25 now.
First lady question: try to go to land department and ask for duplicate papers if possible for you and tell them that original has been stolen. One of our uncle did this to us to sell our property n it worked
1:12:50
Its cool yk andrew
Junaid bahi love you
Csn you give me clue about the platform to educate get scholarships
I'm also suffering from sex desire issue I'm not married but Pakistan ma shaadi krna bohat mushkil ha . girl's parents ki 1st preference Rich or akela beta hoti ha oper say kabi koi dekhne a raha ha to kabi koi or mostly after 3,4 meetings k bad girl's parents ya boys parents kahty ha hum ko rishta pasnd nhe Aya WTF .
Please pin down those 15 questions one should ask after 6 months from his/her future spouse.
You said you will add it in the comments section in your podcast#77.
Still looking for it myself . Please let me know if its shared. Thank you
For the last question I recommend that you tell your parents that if your brothers abstain from contributing to your parents in this age, then atleast take them out from property inheritance as they have indirectly cut themselves off from the parents.
"Doggy style " haha epic
Same problems everywhere.
Lol he gets triggered with poor writing skills
Welcome Back... 😅
Jaldi Jaldi Videos upload kia kren .. I am a freelancer or mein ny kaam krty wqt sun'ni hoti hain .. kaam ka pta hi ni lgta phr 😂
exactly
What is your niche?
@@chocolateshake9647 Accounting , MS Excel , Sorry for late reply
That Khuwaab main Abbu g Wali baat 💯💯💯💯🤣😂😂😂♥️