"I Have a Crush on My Teacher" | Ask Ganjiswag
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00:00 - Intro
01:12 - I Have a Crush on My Teacher.
15:04 - Lethal Cross of weird and Phuppo.
30:55 - Desperate For Advice.
48:15 - Rarity of Finding a Partner Yourself.
01:08:41 - Outro
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To the first girl, no you haven't fallen for him. You are a naive 17-18 year old teenager who is getting consistently harassed by your teacher. Speak up and report him to the relevant authorities as well as explain everything to your parents honestly. Your teacher is trying to sexually harass and groom you into liking him somehow with all these actions, please please please report him and stay safe!
Exactly totally agree with you
Teacher Student power dynamic wherein a teacher constantly abuses and exploits his position of authority and naive girls like her are manipulated into falling for her.
WTF. The first question has literally made my blood boil. I was a university lecturer four almost 3 years. And as I went straight into it after completing my masters from the UK I was the youngest male faculty member.
I do remember I was very boyish and it's natural that you like some of your beautiful students.
I had two students over those three years who wrote me love letters etc. Each time I would call them into my office and explain to them that they are very good looking etc and it's not their fault that they feel this way. I explained to them concepts like Stockholm syndrome etc and told them how we used tp fall in love with teachers growing up. And how they will grow out of it. One of them is still a very good friend of mine as she is happily married and has her own children but contacts me often for advice. These were masters students. Fully grown adults and I wasn't married and I was 24 to 26 years of age.
Parents trust teachers to take care of children. And that is the worst thing any teacher can do
Everything you said is true but telling them they are beautiful is crossing a line IMHO.
Red flag🚩
Crush on teacher
Dear girl, firstly open yourself in front of your mother. Definitely, she will help you in a possible way.
Secondly, identify co-ordinator in the school who is more polite and more active in students' issues.
Talk to her/him with the support of your mother and friends and ask your co-ordinator not to disclose your friends' names.
I hope it helps you.
I was working in a reputed and well-known school as a co-ordinator.
Trust me, there ll be a solution to your problem.
Be brave, tell your mother everything.
I was about to write something similar. I would only add, if direct approach is not possible, write anonymously.
I am a high school physics & calculus teacher in an international school. I teach grade 12 boys and girls. To teach girls, I have to go to the girls campus that means our school is not a mix school. As of being a real young teacher, there are a lot of female students hit on me but a teacher should always be a role modeled for their students and never get/give hints in these kind of activities. Specially, us male teachers have to set good examples for our future generation. Kids are kids and they act stupid, we are mature enough to understand this stupidity and we should handle these kind of students very well. But if the teacher is doing these kind of things then what image you are setting up for the students?
If this teacher is frustrate over something then these kind of teachers should must be punished and get fired immediately.
May Allah give you strength to face these hurdles . Peer pressure is real its very common to have attraction towards opposite genders when u interact with them even as a young teacher but one should hold on to nafs , avoid giving unnecessary attention & keep asking for haddayah to Allah
i'm a pakistani american woman who religiously watches your videos to keep up with the life of my people in my homeland. i always agree with every point of yours and am proud to see someone at your level and privilege speaking for what is right. you are underrated and doing great work Junaid bhai, you always have my support
Me too. I am Australian Pakistani
you should check out youth club
Follow Raja Riaz ul Haq, his podcasts are great too.
When Pakis talk or write in English, itna ajeeb lagtaa hai.
@@talhawaqar836 😂😂😂😂🖐🏼
Our teachers need education
need*
Question no. 1 - Crush Teacher
The girl is basically very naive. It is because, we are being showed movies in which these creepy stuff is showed as romanticized and lovey-dovey thing. But in reality, it is a pathetic thing to do.
exactly, there are so many examples, films like ddlj, main hoon na, tere naam and stuff has put such a huge impact that this stuff has not only been generalized but people think that love operates that way. this is also the reason girls are harrassed on streets. they think that it is the only way to approach anyone
She likes it because it gets her attention. Classic daddy issues symptoms
The second question can pass for such a nice movie script 😂
tu aur mirchi lga de hahaha😅😅😅😅
Loving these long ones as I listen to them while working, really helps me focus on work and educates me in many ways.
Advice to first girl no matter if you're attracted to him or not anymore just never be alone in a Class or in a office with him always have a friend with you things could go wrong and you might regret in future
Man i swear to God, i’d pay some real bucks to actually listen to an uncensored version in which you can actually speak your heart out without having to be politically correct. It’s a shame that we can’t just for the sake of this society.
Love these long ask gnji swag 😎
Suggestion for the teacher problem:
Expose him on social media.A level's teachers are quite popular
I am fine by exposing but you never know if the matter gets serious the girl would need to be involved which she would not want as why should she reveal her identity for something she did not do.
Last quest is so relatable, Im also strugling to find a person I connect with, I too don't feel comfortable with such apps.
The advice you gives are sir have amaze me. Please do share your life story in a complete video.
Much Love for what you do Thanks Sir.
I think this can be a solution. Both boys and girls ask their parents to meet any family they see for a relationship. But first, have a meeting. The boy should go to the girl's house or wherever they want to have the meetup. The girl's parents will also be there. Both can also interview each other.
The girl should just go.to the boys home somehow
Yes tell me something about yourself.
I read somewhere that this kind of behaviour where an individual sometimes gives you attention and suddenly he's not the same person the next moment ... this kind of behaviour is the most effective manipulation method and is the most easy way to get someone attention
Yep, that's a psychological trick called variable reinforcement.
25:45 paused the video, watched the movie and came back. It was a good one!
🔝 class advice !!!
I have watched all your episodes times ago. But, since the speed of uploading the videos is slow. So, I'm watching this video second time.
To share flip side experience during my uni times i was teaching to city school kids at home 20 years now, one of girl was in 7 grade she was growing and used to do stuff not acceptable like touching me for no reason, asking me to pinch her or slap her face etc. it was unacceptable so what i did first thing i ask her mother to not close room where i was giving kids education so that their is an element of sneak view. rest assured i had to control to exploit child, not sure what was her family background environment or in school. Agreed its an adult responsibility to ensure compliance and being father i can understand situation.
Junaid bhai...sorry for the long comment ahead but i want to share...I completely agree with u. I also encountered the similar situation in my student life while doing A LEVELS. My tuition teacher when hired just near to exams convinced my mom ( my dad was in US at that time) that he only gives tuition in night time n stays at students home till morning. Upon asking he said he belongs to Bhutto family n have so many enemies out there because of family clashes. My mom used to stay awake in night. On the last night before the exam my mom was in the washroom and I was unaware of that as I was busy solving a physics problem. That so called teacher just tried to make an attempt like grabed my hand n tried to pull me but I managed holding the table. When he saw he failed he suddenly came near to me try to kiss but I managed to rush out of the room and ran towards my mom's room where I found she was in the washroom. I whole incident took 5 minutes hardly but I was so much traumatised by that incident. That shamless creep even laughed n said in little voice that he makes physical relations with All his female students so how I'm going to escape from him. I forgot everything that I learnt n had the exam next morning. I told my mom that I'm so tired tell the teacher to go but he insisted to stay at our place as he only travelled by public transport only. I tell u Junaid bhai I was so traumatised that I couldn't perform in any paper after that n failed badly in all subjects in that session and it took me a long time to forget that horrible incident.
So sad to hear that, and be strong
Stay strong and try to move on from that , would be with passage of time..
ESA boht logon k Sath hota hai remember this is only going make you strong once you overcome the trauma.
Inform your father about this incident. You can hire female teachers from academy for tution. I am surprised that you and your mother are so naive that your mother allowed a male na meharam teacher to spend the night at home. Report the tution academy management about this incident.
Stay strong
Its literally a Therapy ✨
these kids are not taught on how to perceive your teacher. A teacher is like a father or mother who stops you spoiling. For sure no one can have a crush on father/mother
i love you just because of your podcast and your all showz i always learned alot of things love u soo much Sir big salute.
Happy new year
last question ka simple answer, simple yeh Pakistan mein dance clubs, bars type bana do non-alcoholic hi bana do at least wahan simple sittings hun yahan jo chai wagera k new setup hain wahan bhi segregation hai ajeeb qism ka scene hai, wahan simple games wagera hun, koi fun land type nahi, Ps5 wagera rakhdo simple or clean setup ander bouncers rakho jo control rakhay.
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For Finding a Partner Yourself person
What people could do in arrange marriage is once girl's boy's families met eachother you can be in a separate room with your bride to be but not alone a mehram from girl side should be there a brother whoever, then keep asking eachother questions one can do these visits multiple times & convos untill get fully satisfied
Lilliput is doing amazing work, He played a main role in the second season of Mirzapur
THE FIRST QUESTION IS ACTUALLY SCARED THE HELL OF ME WHEN I THINK OF MY DAUGHTER GOING TO SCL IN FUTURE.
Educate her so she can stand up. She should know if something will happened my father will support me instead of leaving the institute.
And if the daughter, or even son, is asking you to change school etc without being able to give a valid reason, listen to them and take action without pressing for details and reasons.
@@jehanfaseeh7455 no ofcourse not. We don't want to pamper them. If we continue to go like you then if someone snatched their lunch or bully them then instead of standing up for themselves they will start replacing school everyday.
1:03:03 very valid point.
humaare ghar ka bhi scene aisa hi hai.
I could relate with the last issue.
And I think the whole matter includes separate schools and specially mentality of the society which is the root problem of almost every problem in Pakistan.
Social media has made 'real' human connection more difficult than ever
Parents dont allow their daughters to go for hangouts ,considering criminal situations of our country
junaid bhai totally strateigist. Acting wholly like a mastermind in second problem.
Ap Sherlock bannay ki koshish na krwn.
Junaid Akram bhai knows the matrix
Blue pill or red pill?
Can listen to junaid sir talk for hours and never get bored🔥🔥
When will you start your educational channel? I am waiting for it.
Girls "Don't be stupid..🙏🏻
Papers check krne k liye Ek Alag board hone chaiye universities k liye bhi.
India mei hota hai
agreed 💯
@@PrasadPrasad-wp6nf good bro.
The first girl is at a very delicate age. That age is just so wierd and I totally get why she thinks she is falling for that horrible older man.
Please tell your parents and authorities. Also get a good group of friends who will not leave you when things get tough. Just know that he is a horrible person. The person who is not loyal to his wife and children will never ever be serious about you
the teacher is using the tactics of THe ART OF SEDUCTION clearly
Junaid bhai last question ka hal nikalny ky liye ap unka contact dy dety toh sb maslay hal ho jany thy 😂😂
Let's get this straight, any communication between nonmehrams WITH the supervision of the community is HALAL. THERE WAS NO SUCH THING AS ARRANGED MARRIAGES IN EARLY ISLAM. There was a community and they 'dated' by talking to spouse candidates before marriage but under guardian/chaperones like Junaid Bahi said in his idea.
The first question should be titled "I am being harassed by my teacher". She doesn't have a crush on him, he's just been partially successful at grooming her with all the love bombing and possessiveness. It's not a crush, she's started to equate her value and desirability with his harassment, if he's not harassing her she feels devalued, classic grooming.
The girls psychology is damaged, it's from childhood, she doesn't know how to read red flags she doesnt have critical thinking developed, if this girl doesn't work on herself, healing her trauma which is causing her to have a crush on her teacher, she can get into similar situations after this one where she will not detect red flags...its dangerous
Tension Lana ka nahi Dai na ka .I live on this Formula .I am happier now ☺️.
Why are “duty” and “operate” in air quotes?
"I saw the Devil" What a movie!!!
What's the name of the movie Junaid mentioned?
Junaid the real Top G
Absolutely right is the big g
Khalli Walli grindset? 💪😫🤘
What colour is your bald head ?
No he isn't
No he is the bottom G 😂
It is harder to fool a person than a crowd of people.- J
Men in Black
Teachers have become one of the “Tharkiest” people in university & college.
For a toxic monster in law, one I agree with Junaid bhai, she is never going to change. I can guarantee you that I might be much older than you. I left pak becoz of that level of toxicity. I also had the same thoughts as your, but guess what? After 15 yrs n counting, she is still toxic, but I moved on after 4 yrs of mental abuse. Your mental peace is more important than anything else.
slam here i must say that video and audio quality is 10/10
Please compare the impressions from this video vs other videos. Would love to see the difference!!!
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Assalamualaikum I am an O/A level institute admin.The student whom you mentioned in first question there's a way that she can continue her studies as a private student "correct if I am wrong"
Slaam!
Thanks
the last question is so fucking relatable fucked up like i'm at a point of life where im trying to convince myself that its okay be be alone becuase its soo imposible to find quality friens and more for men like what tf should be say to the other person like aaaa fuck
Junaid bhai, A humble request to make a video or start a channel about books and the books that you find helpful.
I believe that books can change the future of our generation. Thank you!
It is in his pipeline - really waiting on that one.
listen to jordan peterson , he is also a good guy . and i found about fyoder dosteovsky ( writer ) through him .
KING KING KING
He is❤️
I am in a relationship with my college teacher, shes 31 and I am 19
but everything's good except my parents are against it because they believe that I should marry a younger girl.
Bro what 💀
☠️☠️☠️
wtf💀
If u both are happy then marry 💖
@@AlphaAviator0 let me grow a bit
What's the name of his education Channel?
35:00 this woman is same as the mother of my best freind I don’t know why people are like this .. I know many of you will think that this can not be true but I am witness to this thing
1:04:45 i lost it 💀 junaid bhai got too real LMFAO
my opinion is for the first question u should talk to that teacher one on one and tell him to be in your limit otherwise u will report him..
Ok
What's the name of your educational channel?
Abhi launch nhi hua
You should make some rishta channel as well
Honestly you will not find genuine friends at that age. Hell I do not believe the time we live in even kids or teens can find genuine friends. The only choice she has to go to decent events where a melting pot of good people will be available. There she can hope for finding some good company.
zaruri nhi hota if any elder or Aunty asks these questions to 25+ girl their intention is bad sometimes they just get concern for you tareeqa maybe galat hota communication ka but zaruri nhi sbki esi intention ho
That's how she's a "straight A" student. 😂😂
Sir 💕
Liliput recently worked in the second season of “Mirzapur”
Just tell him: I liked it..... i was good at it... and i was alive ....
Arrange marriage mein aisa bhi nahi hai ke " acha yeh hai "
I mean mil lo, bathey karo aur ek dosre ko pasand karo.
I live in Australia and I know ke luv marriages ka kia haal hai.
I don't really get how she fell for him....
women ☕️
Young he. Shayad iss age me hota he ye sab.
Google about "grooming".
Yeah criminal grooming hai underage student ki.
Best ❤️❤️
The first story 100% matches with mine too . i study in 7th Grade
Please realize that the teacher is a creep. No good man would hit on a teen.
Please stay away
Plz read my suggestions in the comments.
Please report it to relevant authorities. Please! You’re just a kid.
@@Mana-br4ew My parents know about that teacher too but we are scared to tell anyone 😟😟
The saas might be inspired by kokila....
Lol here in USA this will be an evening news special and will be jailed
USA every week there’s a female teacher riding a student
SOLID SOLUTION!
ABOUT LAST QUESTION!
UNIVERSITY IS PERFECT PLATFORM FOR FINDING SPOUSE!
IT DOESNT MATTER IF GIRL PROPOSES BOY OR VICE VERSA, THINGS SHOULD BE RESPECTFUL AND PRIVATE THAT IS ALL! GUYS DONT WASTE UNIVERSITY YEARS AND FIND SPOUSE! YOU GET ALL TYPES OF PEOPLE THERE!
JUST BE BRAVE,CONFIDENT,SMART AND MATURE! BEST SOLUTION ABOUT FINDING PARTNER YOURSELF!
I believe the toxic mother in law has OCD. And she needs counselling.
Teachers got talent aur ham abhi tak single hain
Khas tor per Nana ki Rabri wali Vedio k Cuts bohot ziada chultay hain 😂😂
Love you Junaid brother you are Walter White
In response to Desperate for Advice, Looks like shizorenphia, without medicines nothing will help.
First story!! Please call him out girl. School grades don’t matter. Also tell your parents and report this!!!
Watch "Curb Your Enthusiasm - Larry's therapist & a Star Wars Analogy - Season 8 Ep. 9" on CZcams.
No doctor affan was harmed in first question
How
junaid bhai wo pochna tha k wo kn si app hai or us video ka link mil skta hai😅🤣🤣
sir aap k pass qafi channels hn even k education channels bhee hn. Lakin aap ko nh lagta k ek gaming channal ya e sports channal b hona chaiya
This teacher bobut toxic hai there should be a complain against him and he should not be allowed to teach anywhere but i dont think yahan kuch hona hai
This is literally grooming and mental abuse and fucking gross
Bechari larki ki koi ghalti nhi shes only 17 or 18 and its soo fucking infuriating he should not be able to teach anywhere
Iss bande ke gharpe bande bhej ke marna chahiye isko
Ganji De Swag
30:40 Gangster swag
Am i the only one that this video is uploaded in 0.75 speed?
Yeah I think so too
nope
Desperately waiting
Good
Junaid bhai sari baten achi hen mgr RIP nahi bolengy hum other beliefs walo ko
To na bol bc.
agree
😂😂 tumhare na bolne se kya hoga ? Yahi hoga ke people around the world will get to know you that you are pathetic and stone aged minded
Behetreen content. But please, don't use abusive language.