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00:00 - Intro
04:24 - Toxic Relationship and Regret.
09:53 - The Career Triangle.
17:11 - Thank you Junaid Bhai.
49:04 - The Patrons Question
01:00:21 - Outro
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38:20 no ducky bhai was harm 😂
Also maaz safdar too
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The tears in eyes while answering in second question, clearly clarifies that how we matters for him❤️
Alhamdulillah I'm single
And having no chikh chikh and argument in my life
Its so worth to live single in today's time as what I see around is like disgusting to see
Alhamdulillah life is so peaceful
Don't you feel down then? That couples enjoy their relationship and you are single?
I'm not asking to tease you but just want to know your opinion
I always mention in comments section that he is the teacher I never had in my school/college or university. He is that amazing person Masha Allah.
Patron question: Same happen with me in Australia. I was studing BIT and met Pakistani professor who mentioned that won't be able to get job after degree. After considering his thoughts and underlined the fact that why he is then wasting his time in this field by teaching us. Anyway, after finishing my degree I got job as software engineer. I wont say that it was piece of cake to acquire job, but you have to do some extra work e.g: self paced projects, open source contributions while studying which will add in to your portfolio and when you will apply in companies. It will attract them. Best of luck with your future.
Tips: create linkedin and connect with people who are in this field and see what's going in market to compete with others.
If u want to judge a man's character give him power.
Ganji swag zindabad.
To Australia walay bhai,
I came here just like you now working as I.T which I wanted to be.
I was surrounded with those people who focus on money.
I advise you to leave your people and start leaving with people who are not from country atleast.
It will help you to understand the environment around you and it help you to be humble.
Second thing, if you can try to find small I.T company who can hire you on part time or casual basis atleast. It will help you to get job in I.T or cybersecurity after 1 year. I have done the same thing, the first company I was working with they only hire me on casual basis.
Last thing Never ever work with Desi people. They never give you money and abuse you.
Best youtuber around the globe whose representing Pakistan in a better way
A man who spread positivity love from Hyderabad
Such an inspirational episode. Junaid sir is the best mentor for millions 🔥🔥
110k subscribers hain baji, millions inspired kesay hogaey lol
@@waqasansariteap jaisay logon ki he baat horahi hoti hay yehan per.... kuch tu socha karo Comment likhnay se pehlay...
@@waqasansarite kya lanter type aadmi hai bhai tu
this episode had me in tears, ABSOLUTELY AMAZING TO SEE THE CHANGING LIVES LITERALLY
Facebook monitization is something every person from Pakistan can do 👍🏻 This would be a great opportunity to give back to the world
Junaid, you deserve a lot of credit, you are an inspiration to so many!!
let me correct you here regarding Australia. I have spent 20 years here. Did my bachelor's, and master's in accounting, followed by a professional year finished in 2013. Since then I never got a professional job as this is the most racist in the world. Google racism in Australia. All Indian Pakistanis are left out with poor jobs such as driving uber, security guards, and taxis. It is very common in this country if you apply for 100 jobs you will never get a call if your name sounds south Asian. I personally know Ph.D. holders, and engineers driving taxis who all graduated from Australia not overseas. Australia is a transit country now where highly educated people from the middle east of Pakistani background stay on pr visas for 5 years, do blue color jobs for 5 years then take their blue passports then do a job in the middle east on a high pay scale. Australia has the most difficult immigration system, which takes at least 7 to 10 years. It's easy to get any job only if your skin color is white. End of 1970 they had this policy where only white skin colored people were allowed in this country and still today it reflects in this society. Just like in Pakistan everyone is corrupt. Australia is the same where everyone discriminates. I can bet with you can never get a cashier job at a Woolworth store in Australia. That's why all these young students who came up with so many dreams in this country are now lost. Your answer is based on two days tour near the beach. In fact, you don't have any practical living experience in western countries. On the contrary USA, Canada, Uk welcomes hardworking people and rewards them more than Australia. In our cases we are just stuck and struggling,dont see a career however bills are being paid. we call this life now.
Allah aap k saare takleef khatam kare ameen.allah aap ko kamyab kare.so sad 😢.
Holy shit! Find a job in the middle east as of now, then move to US, UK or Canada.
@Saim Rana Yes, that's the next plan, probably Middle East. However, the way junaid is showing west green grass, that's not always the case. i am not finding any research based answers to people's queries. no wonder he ends up with typical questions. It's cause due to his selection process .
@@0431444759 bhai what's your view about New Zealand regarding jobs and all this white Supremacist Xenophobic Racist attitude for Desi Community.. Is it the same there or New Zealand is better than this.. Kindly give your feedback
@@truehuman6553 Newzealand is pretty similar to Australia. both these countries have been in isolation for many years. 80% of immigrants have pretty similar experience. Browse few forums you will get more information. Thanks
Wow that email was truly so beautiful. You have such a strong and important impression on everyone Junaid Bhai
Sure Junaid bhai please start the Facebook session, InshaAllah we will try our best to contribute in this great cause, love and respect for You and Your Team, JazakAllah ❤❤❤
Interesting and unique perspective I never thought that a good deed changes the life of multiple generations. ❤❤❤❤❤
inspirational episode, enjoyed it.
Ye sirf yahan hi hota hai. I saw a couple in Iran at the most holiest of shrines with a man lying on the lap of his wife. It is simple non-sexual intimacy which should be allowed in any Islamic nation.
Time stamp?
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@@muhammadabbas5226 are u talking about that iran in which women are protesting for their freedom??
@@anees419 yup the same iran. I have no allegiance with the political parties of IRAN. I am just talking about the idea of showing non-sexual physical intimacy in public. Peace ❤
Its the HEIGHT OF CHEAPNESS. That man should have f off to a room. CHEAP is an understatement.
Eagerly waiting for it.
Great idea, kindly start working on this. I want to help in the best of my abilities.
For the first guy,
If he was okay with his girlfriend texting & having other male friends...only then he can complain about her not letting him have female friends..
I know i won't like my girl to have other male friends, so i won't mind if she expects the same from me!
@@ahmd.wsu1Maybe it's toxic for you, but if the girl & her man agrees on this point, it becomes a green flag for them. The point is equality and equal expectations in a relationship.
thanks junaid bhai
excellent podcast
Very nice response to the toxic relationship question
You are always right, only you can teach our youth how to improve ourselves otherwise bakio ny to kasam uthai ha zindgi haram rkhny ki.
Answering to the Australian question: In this age of information available online and hacking threats, cyber security is definitely important. If you’re unsure, I would suggest try doing a dual degree.
To the female who left Pakistan for US: Congratulations! It is extremely sad Pakistan has become one of the most “women-suppressing” countries in the world. A time will come when those who uphold patriarchy and male supremacy will pay.
Junaid bhai - that thank you note was heart warming indeed. I started listening to you as a comedian. Today i listen to understand multiple points of view that you share. I live out of pakistan and sadly a lot of people say that you are negative. But i always think you're a realist. You try to show a way, rather than living in Denial. I hear you on Google but i had to watch this video as this was very warming
Yaar the third question literally gave me goosebumps
Yes junaid bhai, please go for the group, id love to join and meet you. Last time we met was in 2020 Loved it 🎉
Same route as mine 17:00 Junaid. Great minds think alike. :)
Sir You are Love..❤️😍
Junaid bhai, ek hi dil hai, kitni baar jeetoge? 😍🇮🇳
Thanks 👍🏼
well said
Regarding Australian student visa it's already starting showing its affects as this year a lot of students faced rejection whereas as compare to previous year before covid it was relatively easy to get student visa in Australia
Yep. The government is definitely catching on. I know alot of people that were rejected this year. Wasn’t this hard to get visa before
why are they getting rejected from Australia, any information about Italy? i have completed my BS in Aerospace Engineering this year and i am planning to apply for an Italy student visa to pursue MS in Aerospace Engineering
What a man !!
Uncle that's the right word
When you are steady and honest to what ever you do in life, universe will open and offer immensely ❤.
Question no. 1.
The girl is having her own issues. No relationship can amend her, since her help is dependent on her own mindset.
Why the relationship becomes toxic ???? In a relationship when one of the person in two is more serious than his opposite partner, it's very simple they should not be together otherwise its an jail even your partner doesn't want you to loose ..
Toxicity is not about seriousness, it’s about controlling another person
@@basicbase749 That is a different situation , The guy who send the mail actually he was not as sincere as the girl is, When you love someone u expect same treatment as you do, Its the human nature , If you love someone or give attention and in reply, you will not get same as you did, you will definitely be got hurt, The better is find someone who has same feeling as you
have otherwise no chance for better future
Bat sirf mind ke Hai? Matlb ya jab tak dil ko acha Lagoo GA to thk, otherwise jha tum sa bhtr Mila dil ko koi or acha laga wahe sa game change, ya pyar nhi time paas hota Hai or aj Kal aias he Hai Saab jhoot, Ap bas kese sa bh umeed na rhko bas phir dhko zindge sakoon ma ho jy Ge INSALLAH.
Right 🍂
Yes we are interested in this Facebook group
Group is a good idea 👍🏼
The facebook group is a great idea!
I’d love to join
Thanks you junaid bhai... You are great and every sensible man.. i ever listen or seen... Love from🇮🇳 India bhopal.. watch out your every podcast and you video... Wanted to see more walking tales and driving tales😂
Aj maza Aya 2nd E.mail sun ka 😁😁😁😁😁😁😁😁❤️❤️❤️
Thumbs up for the Facebook group idea. It should be there.
Can't believe an intermediate student in more worried about his relationship than his career 😬
I am also an international student and my analysis is man durost ur qibla.
" Durust Ur Qibla" 😂😂😂😂
@@MUSAFIRBEFIQR 😁😁😁 English ma Urdu likhna ma Mai weak houn
mujhe achcha laga sun ke aapko thanks
must avoid toxic relationship
Wese Junaid Bhai, yeh Fallen Angel Cherub Lucifer kay portrait ka ‘Toxic Relationships’ kay topic kay saath kya connection hay?
Slaam!
Thanks
S4 was love
Needed that talk in the first mail XD
Wow what an awesome 3rd email
This channel's comment section is where any religion shit is not occur. i mean ki koi hindu Muslim chutiyap nahi hai. that's the thing I like most
00:40:00
@2:18, saare mill ke bolooooo, security overrr...developmennnnnnt.
Please tell me which movies I may watch for improving spoken English.
Is larki ne bhtt behtreen email likhi hai ek proper script k manind. Thandi hawien chal rahi hai, mai beach mai lait kar sitare dekh rahi hu, khusbo a rahi hai. Her story sounded like a well written script . In reality khuwahishat kabhi khatam ni hoti to jo hai us mai kush rehna sekho and always strive for better but do remember khuwahishat marti ni
Furthermore. Yahan bura haal tha to America chale jae kisi tarha. America chale jae to ache uni mai hojae. Achi uni mai hojae to achi jaga job hojae. Nationality mil jae. Green card mil jae, life partner acha mil jae. Apna ghr hona chae ab. Is area mai ni us area mai rehna chae. Is city mai ni us city mai rehna chae , us city mai mai ni new country kai mansion hona chae. Bari cars phr bache.! Gore bache. Lambe bache. Phr larke. In short your khuwahishat never diess
for the business guy he should go abroad pursuing his masters and he should also do some freelancing there.
Facebook group is appreciated idea 👍🏻
14:39 Sad truth !
Suggestion for Career Triangle:
Since you are a business analyst with a capacity of doing Masters from abroad- Go for it, no doubts about it. The market for BAs is huge in US and Canada, get in touch with me after your Masters if you have trouble finding a job (aur kya chahye?)
As JA said, start your business in the meantime.
Junaid bhai order k chakar mai hamain khali wali kara gye. LOL
Idea of Facebook group is great. Please work on it
Junaid, the reason for lack of ambition in Australian migrants is due to her focus on work-life balance. Ambitious people take about a few years to become relaxed and part of the Australian lifestyle.
The other reason is that there is no clear pathway from student visa to work visa. I have seen many people from different countries taking the job or other paths to take residency.
457 visa are available to Chinese, Indian and European individuals due to the presence of companies from those regions.
And yes, we are to blame as well. When I came to Australia, I made a point to avoid Pakistanis for a few years.
As for the kid wanting to do cybersecurity, go for it. The industry is big. Best to start learning, create your tech youtube videos, and learn how to write and speak. The current and next age is of evangelists, be it tech or tech security.
Yes, it would be an issue to work while on a student visa. It would be best to do OSCP, do independent research, and give talks at local conferences.
You have to stand out; no free lunches in life, my friend.
On the contrary UK student visa is the easiest. Regardless of that I agree that this is a big problem in Australia.
Ganji bhai it seems you are also going through this phase... My sympathies are with u
Really? what happened? He got divorced?
@@taym2720 Nhi bhaii Kuch nhi hua
He's happy brother 👀♥️
@@taym2720 kuch bhi ni huwa چ bana raha hay.
@@taym2720 hehehe Tujhe bohut shook hai uc keah divorce kerwane mai
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LOVE YOU JUNAID BHAAAAAAAAI :')
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Wah editor wah
Facebook income idea is nice
Have to disagree on last question regarding Australian community, I've spent many years in UK and the situation is worlds apart, with aimless students stuffed in small houses just wanting to stay under the radar and get immigration through the 14 year 'illegal route', visit any community in East London to see my point. Most of the Australian community is actually on professional or skilled visas. The amount of students going aimless just to drive taxis and work in dollar stores to simply earn money I can bet is much much smaller by ratio. Maybe you ran into a group that would have been doing that but it doesn't add up. In the UK a day didn't go by when I met someone who wasn't a struggling student overstaying their visa and getting into dodgy shit. I think u seem to have small bias with Australia (since maybe its your first time and you only spent 10 days there), there are plenty of amazing people living and working here from the Pakistani community, perhaps you needed to do more research into connecting with them since you were there just for the cricket primarily. In fact this reputational damage you speak of over generations has primarily been done by US and UK expat communities to be begin with. This isn't to disagree with your points but to address a bias that is a bit unfair, also remember Australia is a v young nation with a very new destination for Pakistani students. There are excellent high achieving students, academics, doctors, businessmen and IT processionals in Aus doing great things but I guess they don't have a voice so they are getting unfairly smeared, please do not paint the entire community with the same brush. Just a disagreement as I have lived in both communities not anything personal against you, keep up the great work Junaid bhai!
FOR ALL THOSE WANTING TO GET INTO CYBER SECURITY: Australia actually has huge demand for cyber sec professionals, in fact I can bet it will be on the CSOL (Critical Skill Occupation List) so definitely a great area to pursue a rewarding career, if that's where your interest is then definitely pursue it. Plenty of jobs in this sector.
FOR PROSPECTIVE STUDENTS: Make sure your degree QUALIFIES to allow you to apply for PR via the degree route BEFORE you choose. Don't apply blindly or based on some half assed advice. Australia has restricted a lot of courses lately but if your Degree is aligned to the Shortage List you will have a much better and easier entry to the work force without having to rely on 'do numbri' ways
What about mosques and halal food, which the uk has a lot of.
@@razamughal4582 U will be surprised how much halal food and meat is available in Aus, plenty of mosques too but of course at the moment only in big cities like Melbourne, Sydney and Brisbane, in smaller towns it will be a bit less but even there you might find small pockets of muslim communities. Concentration is not as much as UK though u r right because it is a small country compared to Aus area wise, here we are a bit spread out.
So much love i want to meet you once ❤️
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Surf kha Liya us nay 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Mujhe samjh nhi aata pakistan me bas relationship se related hi problem hai kya
Career related questions toh bohot Kam hi sune hai
Aur brain storming wale questions bhi nhi hote jaise socio economic issues kyuki Junaid spend much of the time in abroad and different perspective jisse help ho skti hai
Ya toh ye ho skta ki Junaid ko sunne Wale log sab successful hai(except me)
Bro priorities matter
Unki priorities yahi sab hongi isliye vo ye sab puchte honge.
@@Real_TaylorSwift Ha shi kaha sab humari tarah single nhi hote😅😅
@@Real_TaylorSwift Correct bro
Dr affan Qaiser ko bulaya tha kia Multan say
Can you see this sir?
fifa football story please 👀
Hi what’s your email ? If I wana write to you. Your links in description does not have your email address
yes Please One Dollar
As an Indian You are right about pakistani students in Australia. I studied there for 4 years. We had 5 pakistani students mostly from Karachi, one was from Punjab Pakistan. Karachites were alway by themselves, never interacted with anyone. They thought Indian students were inferior of them so that’s why they can’t be friends with them. Punjabi student was very polite and friendly ( just bc we had same mother tongue). They always tried to cheat in exam. Missed classes for work. They openly said that they were there just for citizenship and had no interest in studies.
Its true, i was in melbourne from 2017 to 2019 for my masters, in my own home my pakistani homies work thier ass off for money but didnt study at all...
Ge aap to pavitr education lekr wapis chlyjy gy
@@muhammadehteshamasghar2294you are right bro
@junaidAkram21 Dear Junaid bhai, how can we send email or message to you regarding our issue to share with you?
@@MuhammadAhmad-cp1np bhai main kya ly kr aya kya nae ap ko tension nae honi chaiyay, ap apni studies pori karain.
39:36 Im a huge fan of your channel and i am very inspired by the content you make but I disagree on the point that the people who watch vlogs have lot of time on their hands although you might be true in some aspect but i think as everyone is not living the life they deeply want or desire and have anxiety because of that just want to watch those vlogs so that they can for a few minutes in there life be free from that anxiety.
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52:00 you havent met me in London Junaid. Would love to meet you since if you remember I have communicated with via email regarding a business plan. Hence, it would be great to connect when you are here visiting your family in East London
Junaid Bhai I am your big fan.i noticed one thing of travellers those visited Pakistan ,they lacks the real information about the true image of Pakistan ,you don't think there will be some platforms to facilitate the visitors by good places and there will be some families not families only everyone who can afford must invited them for dinners and ect to welcome them,please have some light on this topic
Kis khushi ma?
Junaid bhai make that video about that australian pakistani student that scammed the uni
56:37 it was just a rumor corrected by khaleej times
lol first question. Issue is sabar nahin hota Pakistanis se tharak pun ka next level pro
Fuck other people minds i love that line junaid bhi ,
I assume one thing in my life
Minds are everythinh thing your mind make u belief so be on ur mind and beleif
love you junaid bhai apsay milu ga
The idea of creating a community is good, a closed community. ❤❤❤❤❤
Is it possible that u replied to message on email instead of reading it in a video ??????
Podcast with shahid anwer
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Junaid bhai aapki hati hoi lag rahi hai is episode mein😊