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00:00 - Intro
03:58 - Promiscuous Past but Bright Future
28:07 - Public Spaces Entertainment for Women.
01:05:19 - Outro
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Story 1: Never compromise. Better be alone than be with someone who’s already abusive
hell yeah!
@nosheenthinks
True
Ap jo keh rhe hain wo sunnay me bht acha hain par practical nhe hai
Anything abusive even before marriage that relationship needs to be discontinued. Being single is far better then being in abusive relationship.
Female mobility is a big issue in Pakistan. Is k Waja sai hamari mothers and sisters have become nafsiyati mareez because they have no where to go. Parks Jana bhi ek jang hai. is k Waja se hamay gharon Mai arguments Hotay Hain because everyone is miserable.
I was stuck in Karachi during COVID and it was hell as I couldn't even go for a walk and I am a male. When locked down lifted I rushed back to UK jaisay prison sai escape Mila hai. Its so sad. My heart goes out for our mothers and sisters.
Yup. in lockdown nothing changed for me, as it was our routine.
@@MUSAFIRBEFIQR Thanks for the comment. How do you deal with mobility issues in Pakistan? What do you do in your spare time?
Also remember the issue you are referring to as mobility issues.
This maybe not an issue as many parents try to protect their children from dangers of outside world so they don't allow their children to just go and roam around outside.
Agreed
My advice: Never get married to the next person unless you are okay with your son/daughter as their mini version.
Hahahhaah well said
. Uff golden words
@@missahmed2220l😊😊😊
@11:00 "left overs" is not something they call them in korea, it's in China... i live here in korea and everybody usually gets married very late, people are very open minded!
Junaid Bahi very correct . No name or cuss calling . You are right it starts with abuse from mouth and always ends in physical. STD is bad definitely get checked . You are so correct Junaid Bahi 100%
i can understand the desperation of the girl who is 29 and wants to get married but it doesn't mean u marry a jerk, com'on, there r other things in life which are also important, don't take any decisions in ur life out of desperation. Watever he told u about himself may not be true and there could be other truths hidden from u, the way u hav explained him, he has no positive vibe.
I think this is a cultural issue because in India, we have concert-type gatherings and functions in small and big colleges and schools every year. So, people tend to behave well in big events and concerts. However, in Bihar and Uttar Pradesh, some men behave badly. Also, staring at women is a South Asian issue. Nonetheless, there is improvement in the new generation, as they want to be sophisticated. At least in India, I see Gen Z behaving well
Yes whn I listen to such things I thank my stars to be born in India…been living in a city like Delhi which has a bad reputation still I’ve been commuting alone in public transport…have also gone to several concerts n events with a grp of frns we even go out fr late night parties to clubs..though thr have been few incidents of guy’s approaching us but none have misbehaved…I agree India is evolving rapidly…women mobility is getting easier day by day..
@@DoomSlayerTheGamer12. delhi metro is boon for delhi
Even better than many European countries's public transport
These desi people will never change. I live in Toronto and in 2015 I went to Rahat Fatha Ali Khan concert that was in paramount center and it was disaster. As desi rawaj he was late and finally the concert started with horrible musical band. After 1 and half hr they told us that its 30mins break, that end up to be 1 and half hour break by that time it was 10:30pm. Concert was till 11pm... sorry for such a long comment but this thing was heavy on my heart. And we paid good amount for this Concert. Never again.
Who told you to go for it
At first place
Always avoid concert and stuff
Coz it's hell of a boring
Anyways Enjoy your life
Never ever go to any pak concert or pak artist concert. Fuking chutiya pako log ha
A great episode as always. Keep them coming
12:30 reference
Hazrat Ali "رب قول انفذ من صول"
'some words can be more piercing than the blow of an arrow.'
Junaid bhai. Allah hidayat dega hamari Qaum ko inshallah Jald. Ap lage raho, keep educating and keep spreading positive and awareness content like this. Support from Karachi.
First Emailer Big NO , When you have more than 3 issues to discuss someone about your potential spouse NO my dear please! Save yourself .
Beautiful start.
Junaid Bhai for your Happiness, In our area, it is basically a rural area and you will see every 3rd or maybe 4th bike is Ridden by ladies. ♥♥
42:00 I'm living in Karachi and went to Islamabad recently after 4 years and It was really disturbing to experience thirsty stares from almost every other man there as if they had never seen a girl before
*stares
But do u have big mama
@@ogsilverback1820 Are you ok? Imagine your mother or sister or daughter seeing this comment of yours. Have some decency brother.
I don’t know if you’re Muslim or not but imagine if Prophet PBUH saw you posting this how would he feel! And remember that Allah always sees all what we are doing.
And whatever we do comes back to us.
I would expect better from a Muslim brother.
In India you will see many women and girls even boys driving scooty and honda qctiva is a very famous scooty in India
Salam junaid bhai
I'm your regular viewer and working my way out of pakistan ASAP
In sha ALLAH....
First comment 😊😊
The gated communities he is talking about is Askari and Naval Housing. Jab main pheli baar gaya tha Naval housing Zamzama main tou kuch secs ke liye tou heraan reh gaya tha aur main dost se keh rha tha ke ye hum kahan agaye? Guys believe me aapko lagega aap America main agaye ho. Waise main bhi paidal ghoomta hoon Seaview par Junaid bhai aap bhi jaya karain wahan itna masla nahi.
Jinn Stories PART 4!!
For 1st question: I have mostly been with those who cuss or swear over everything. But I've never developed the habit of abusing someone which would question their respect
True. I know very well where to use abusive language and where to keep your mouth shut.
Honestly in country like ours, if you don't have that skill even after 32 years of age. Well.
Well he is honest . But no name calling . Cuss is bad . No money can replace cuss . If he can’t control his cuss and name calling . Just leave him . He can’t stay with no one . He us absolutely waste of time . Can he change . Since kids don’t want name calling or cuss . It’s psychological bad for future and kids . Good luck . Those who abuse with mouth they abuse with hand too . In USA no abuse allowed in any kind by even mouth
True 👍
Everyone is judged be it male of female. Some for their status and earnings some for their looks and age..
Mein Australia mein hon aur nahi bach paya. Aur mujh se nashay bhi nahi sanbhal rahay !!
"Hope you had a lot of fun during Eid"
Meanwhile exams and CAIE's..
Skill issue.
I feel you I gave my As exams as well
lol
Young stunners ki baat ho rahi hai
regarding yahan k nashay - yahan pr aik ajeb falsafa hai, sharaab ki botal khatam krni hai har haal ma, chahiye dil cha raha ho penay ka ya nahi. This is absurd because whenever I drink, I only drink til I feel a little buzz. aur agar dil na kray, tau ma, aur mere friends, discard kr dete hain.
I would say there have been a payment dispute between Y.S. and management, if she is talking about 'rhythm fest' then I can confirm they went to venue. Umair Tahir their producer who seldom manages sound had shared or reshared a story of himself from the venue(Alhamrah theatre) that evening. Umair and Y.S. always travel together.
Best episode ever.Seems like i m speaking..Thats sensitive part.
For first question:
That guy is extremely honest and told his past in detail to the girl. She certainly can judge him on those facts but such past is not unusual for lot of men of his age, they are never honest and most of time get very nice “arranged“ rishta….lot of them keep hiding such past for the rest of life with their partners…some don’t change their habits and happen to have devastating marriage….few of them would genuinely repent and openly discuss with wife ….I suspect this guy could be of the last type
When you have 6 of them. Its not easy to hide everything forever.
One of them will come out, out of spite , jealousy, revenge or whatever and tell her everything.
Especially to "hide" your Thailand trips is impossible if someone is investigating. His intentions for telling her everything beforehand seems for his expection to control the future, that she could never hold him responsible in future for literally anything.
@@explucto Absolutely. He's acting as if " It's okayy and everyone is into it". I doubt he would ever change with this attitude.
The first guy is a freaking red carpet not a red flag!
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As per the intro
Whoever have promiscuous past wether it's a man or women.
Don't consider it at all
It can be problematic
Junaid bhai ksa mai bhi rule hai ki marrage se phely medical test important hai
Nice Shirt
First Q in uae local marriages thelesemia and hiv and Hepatitis bB is done
13:15 Zindagi me rules banaye thay pr yaad nai kya thay😂
editor should put caption of things that Junaid Akram forget on the spot
Great intro- Overseas pakistani in London
To junaid’s 2 nation theory: it’s really true, I live in one of these and the main gates are half the size of am average human being. It may be an alien thing to many but it’s true
People in Pakistan might think that Sari is a Hindu dress but Sheikh Hasina, PM of Pakistan doesn’t. I even saw an interview if your former COAS Musharraf and his wife. She said she liked him best in suits and he said he liked her best in Saris. In the Pakistani serials of 1980s, it was quite common for women to wear Saris. Your Mallika e Tarannum Noor Jehan only wore Saris. So this religious categorization of dress is a recent one - by which I mean last 30-40 years.
Certainly girls in India aren’t told that Salwar kameez is Muslim, nor are they discouraged from wearing it.
For the first girl, the past of the guy is not that big a deal in my opinion, As long as of course, he gets tested and she gets to see the results of every STD test known to man.
The reason I would say TELL this girl to run for the hills is the abuse. It's much better for her to spend some money, travel to amsterdam or holland and hire a stunning Male prostitute for herself, and take care of her physical urges. Also, invest in a very good vibrator rather than be with the person who is verbally abusive.
One sure, short way to get rid of the loser is to tell him that you have also been sleeping with male prostitutes for a long time. And now you are completely reformed and will never do it again period he will run before you can say Jack Robinson..
LOve you junaid bhai❤️
Time pe koe event nahi hotaa, bhaee yahan sb se zyada hone wali cheez SHADI wo time pe nahi hoti, i miss that covid Restrictions 7-10 was best, yahan koe time pe nahi ataa, tiem pe anay janay wal bandaa bs khuwar hi hotaa hai hr jaga. mere sb dost late lateef hain 15 20 min bhi nahi 1 1 ghanta and they dont give Fuck that someone is waiting for them outside. so now I stopped meeting and hanging out with them.
Abay khalli walli table pe doreamon ne dil jeet lia
1st qs: don’t marry him, he will never change, it will only get worse. Apologize karne se koi sudharta nahi hai. Don’t get greedy for Australia. Wait for the right person.
Wdym wait for the right person?😂😂 shes pusing 30 no one is waiting for her at the finish line. The guy made mistakes but his 100% honesty shows hes a better person. Plz dont give shitty advice
@omarnasir8203 be quiet please 💗
@@westwoodstreet ok please🤎
Junaid Bhai I’m from India & I’ve been following your content for the last 2-3 years. Please make a dedicated on desi community moving to Alberta, Canada 🇨🇦
Alberta is experiencing the highest influx in terms of immigrants. I’m scared if the situation becomes exactly like Ontario, where there’s no work & high expenses. I’m a civil engineer by profession and have chosen project management and supply chain management courses in Calgary.
I am in Ontario imagine the stress levels I have. Coincidently I am a civil engineer too 😂
@@muhammadhayat86 I have experience in supply chain management and project management and have 3 years work experience is there chance for me to get job in Calgary
Saying "bc" word sometimes during a random conversation isn't verbal abuse (it's not a good thing) but if we tolerate the west "sh*t" and "fu*k" or "motherfuc*er" sometimes we can tolerate Urdu galiyan too if used like " " " Arey nai kar bc itna bara seen hogya "
Same thing just not English tolerate it
Just like Junaid Bhai did at 20:16 it's not a Gali
Raza Samo ki baat kr rhe hen
yes starring is common issue among the ppl sach mai it's very pathetic like koi alien jaraha ho female ha sirf insan ha
Gated community Wapda town Lahore in 2004 mein almost we got away being robbed by biker. Women and children only. Childhood trauma from pakistan. Hence I always keep my guard up even overseas. Never leaves you away
Next time new Zealand tour
Ganji bhai ki tind itni chamakti kaise hai😮
Hello
❤
I really want to meet you man
bring back the piano
Literally, pot calling the kettle. 😬
I have been in 2 events un Islamabad worse ever therebwere fights drugs going on it was worse like i am in zoo jahil.jangli log ha hmare mulk me😅😅😅
Single life is a curse marriage life is a happy life especially after 40 if you are alone either man or women your life become bored and miserable .
10:00 I've a pure sindhi name, on top of that I wore bindi in a uni event and someone asked me, "why do you wear hijab if you're a hindu" like what?😂😂😂
Unhappy marriage bohat khrab cheez hai is mulk mai. Loag toxic marriage ko sirf is wajah se chalate hain ke loag kya kahange.
WTF 🤣😂😂 - Just don't let him go to Thailand after marriage LOL
Mein ne sirf SAREE pehennay k liay shadi ki hai !!
Q1: This dude is literally the opposite of what a gentleman should be. What kind of a gentleman abuses his woman let alone hooking up with random escorts. She should definitely leave him!
Red flag
My Idol Junaid Bhai❤️❣️
Ganja ky upr light kis ny notice ki 🤣😂🤣😛
A man who doesnt even live with his own wife and kids giving others relationship and marital advice wow
Manjan sirf isi awam ko becha jaa skta hai bro
itna sach bhi ni bolna tha lol
Ooooof emotional damage.
He’a still in a relationship and its harder because its long distance. Your point is completely invalid lol
@@Aliillustrations its actually not he practically lives like a bachelor but of course u wudnt know any better
The men in the comments showing their aukaat 🤡🤡🤡
Same to you
tbh it's so weird
Yay us banday ko bhe ja kar bolo jiskay tatto kay sharbat ki padaish ho tum
Just PASS him
Don’t waste your time
Such a sorry state of our country :-(
Junaid bhai yr nikal aien in gr k maslo sa hmari b mail pr lien
Question #2 Women should not go to concerts for entertainment. They should pray 5 times a day which should be their entertainment. Concerts are Haram in Islam..
Story 2 conclusion - Zahil country
Girl don't marry that guy. He looks shaddy
PASS PASS PASS
Shout out to me Bhai please ❤❤❤
To the concert girl, haraam is haraam (please don't indulge in haraam activities)
Ye kaunsi duniya ki baate ho rhi h samjh nahi aata . Paidal chalna toh bahut normal cheej h
By the way big fan of Junaid bhai
Love from 🇮🇳
Bhai India main bhi ladki ka paidal chalna itna safe ni h 😅
I don't think so. It is not an issue.
~perspective of a girl from new delhi
@@gargimeena6205 the same Delhi, which is known as rape capital of India
@@shekhartripathi4300 true that..once i went for an evening walk with my mother and the a guy in his scooty came from behind and spanked me..i cried out loud out of helplessness and frustration but couldnt do anything. This $hit is very common in India.
@@minnie6468 exactly, same happens in tier-1,2 cities but nobody wants to confess things, instead portray an image of Vishwaguru bharat !
Islam me zina haram hai to phir isne itna kaise kar liya😂
Q k har koi rules follow nhi krta. Just like boht se log kisi country, institution etc k rules follow nhi krty bilkul wese hi religion k bhi nhi krty aksar.
Shouldn't be that hard to understand
Plus we don't even know k wo bnda muslim hai b ya nhi cuz uska religion to mention hi nhi hua
Europe ul firdos 😂
Main problem with people in Pakistan and to a lesser extent India entertainment is demonized.. Especially women having fun and enjoying themselves is considered the greatest sin they can commit.. Pakistan has a long tradition of calling music dance or any form of entertainment haram.. And then sitting at home consuming one of the highest amounts of porn in the world... So hypocrisy is inbuilt in our souls(south east asians) . We can't help it.. We will judge others while doing the same things or worse
i have taken same from Aer Lingus 36:51. Free Ireland trip of 3 weeks. Yes 2 days were a nightmare on Schipol airport but in Europe there are many rights even better than UK. While in Pakistan I faced daily loss in construction in business due to vendor/labour taking money, supplying bad material etc not on time, and I have to get back money or material by police threats and repeated visits to the shops. This is level of ghatiyan pan in pakistan (islamic hai jee yeh sab lanat)
More Sad Tales from The Land of Perpetual Sorrows aka Pakistani. Sickening
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P
Ppp
I'm unable to wrap my head around how a man so highly educated as Junaid can't acknowledge the simple fact that a woman's worth falls in the dating/ marital market as she ages. It's common sensical, and a straightforward biologial matter of fact. I feel sorry for the women who take his advice seriously, and end up risking never getting married, choosing to be doomed to a lonely old age.
Can't blame him lol. Gotta keep his audience happy.
I'm sure he knows it but he'll never accept it.
So you believe women are only meant for breeding kids ? And they aren’t worth anything if they don’t birth / unable to children ?
He has said exactly that dozens of times in the past episodes.
Marriage mai bhi insan lonely hi hota hai agar mard ya aurat ko sahi partner na mile. Old loagon ka haal dekho Pakistan mai unhappy marriages mai faltu furnutire hi ki tarah hai. Bas is baat ko moo se koi nahi admit karta.
Come on that's a load of horseshit. If you can't find a good partner that doesn't mean your value (charm) has ended. It's just in our society that it is a problem. Not in the other part of the world. In the West, I have seen people get married very late in their life.
54:23 this is a fact.
Hence why the rule for men and women to lower their gaze was given by us in our religion, this issue is such a Pakistani/ South East Asian cuz even when you go to Arab countries and the only stares you get will be from these people.
But yeah when you go to European countries it’s such a unique experience that you won’t get any bloody stares (my personal experience).
59:00 facts.
59:34 how is this two nations theory?