"I Don't Want Children" | Ask Ganjiswag #97
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00:00 Intro
03:36 Contemplating about not having children.
24:02 Power of Pakistani passport.
42:35 Outro
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Having children don't mean that you can't care or live other children who need love,I married a widower with 3 kids because Dr said I can't have children in my previous marriage,I love them as my own and then within a year I had my daughter but I believe it happened only because I took them in and my daughter is loved more by them then I love and care about her,having children is like finding a motive for your life and when your children are happy you feel happy and your children love you that is the very good feeling
In my opinion, having or not having children is a choice that a person is allowed to make. While selecting partners, this thing should be discussed. If a woman or a man doesn't want to have children in future, then its ok. Forcing these individuals to have kids will only result in broken families and children in therapy. Only those people should have kids that are physically and mentally prepared for the highs and lows.
You seem to be a smart person, when are you leaving pak?
Mujhe es Dunya Mein dusra barra shock tab laga jab pata chala Indians indonesia mein without visa ja sakte hain aur hum nhi.♻
8:39 - 8:50 - Quaid-e-Azam was never divorced - both his wives died before him - his first wife died while he was in UK (1890s) while his second wife, Ruttie Jinnah, who was the mother of his daughter, Dina died in 1929 and is buried in Khoja cemetery in Mumbai.
Bro I just love this guy he’s not even caring 1 bit for his revenue and just about people love u sir hats off to you❤
Read that again, and think again. Lol
Love you boy
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@@good8bp17 Kaun sa Nasha kiya hai bhai? 🤣🤣🤣🤣
People try to find happiness from their kids, sad life.
Well you can remain happy from your own nature and actions.
Loving the daily videos that you are putting up. Please keep it going.
My dad left me when I was a kid but I still want to raise a family
Love you for your honesty and consistency!
Its not important to have kids, if you don’t want em enjoy that life. Simple
The best part of having children is that you got to live your childhood again, with your child🥰
Exactly but not all peoples are able to get that,if we are blessed from god it's doesn't mean everyone had that,we are living in a poor country iam talking about majority where some people works thier whole day to feed their family.
@@hassanmalik7331 You have to got complete trust in Allah that He is the sustainer of all. He will provide you the means to look after your children.
At the same time, you shouldn't have a carefree & careless attitude by producing a whole cricket team😄. Start with at least one & move up the ladder 🪜 if it's convenient for both of you (as parent's).
Can you guys give me some context over here? Let me explain first where I’m coming from. Im a 19 year old from Pakistan. I have the opinion that children are not important and it’s fine not to have children. Not only this I even think that marriage is not important even though I know that it’s obligatory to get married in Islam. So you might think why I have this perspective. You see my whole ive seen couples fight. I’ve not seen couples going on dates while they have children. Like what i mean is that
I’ve not seen the love there should be between couples after marriage. I’ve only seen the opposite that is fights, arguments etc. hence my perspective. Would love to have your opinion.
@@hadihassan_ Just because you haven't witnessed love between married couples doesn't mean it does not exists. May be you should explore the world more & travel frequently.
Ultimately, it's your life & it's your choice.
@@hadihassan_ It's not obligatory to get married in Islam. It's recommend. Get ur facts straight bro. You're just complicating ur own life
Thank you for sharing your experience ❣️
Children are a blessing. Trouble starts when folks have too many kids they can't afford. Some planning and education go a long way. Not everyone needs an entire cricket team at home
I love your program. I will suggest along these videos you can combine these videos and make one giant video every week.
Regressive Pakistani society will not let you live if you are a girl or even a guy and decide to not to have children.Its such a taboo and rare thing in our society, Although I think without children life will be empty and a little lonely but if you really don't want them, don't have them
In our relatives..most of them HV one kid just to get out of the pressure that you don't have kids. Nano was like chalo Allah ka shukar hai aik to bacha diaa hai. Kuch kai to vo bhi nahi hotai.
@@zuhairfan2490 imagine that child be girl 👶
@@multiplewaya-qk7uq Not a big deal!...These issues exist in Rural areas.
Living in Australia and I am trying to to go Indonesia on Pakistani Passport. They ask alot of paper work and guarantee from my work that I won't slip in Indonesia.
Loving the effort you are putting in this channel 🤩
Great episode, I think the song you mentioned is "Cat's in the cradle" - Harry Chapin
Loving daily dose!
Thanks for the content
I went Egypt in august, i got visa in 3 days! but yes you are also saying right about our passport.
I feel sad for those people who don't know you or your this channel,in my opinion they're missing something great everyday 💯
Absolutely right
💯 right bro
Thanks for daily video..
While travelling in Europe, the passport is used as an identification document i.e. to identify that it is the same person as it says on ticket etc. Passport is not stamped as Junaid bhai mentioned but he was not able to explain the former part of this paragraph as to why passport is required. Great work as always Junaid bhai
Bhai ye Identification document ke liya itna nhi jitna Singapore Ka visa lene ke kaam atay hai. Samjhay kiya?
@@manu.ba374 I have an Australian passport so I know brother.
You’re right, mostly resident permits hi chaltey hey Europe mey and tbh most of the places they don’t even check the passport sometimes.
I listen on daily basis when we listen full episode hmein bhi kafi help milti hai please continue
Great SHOW
It’s so much fun watching it daily
You have great knowledge 🙂🥰
Interesting topic and well handled with your own experience. Although I did have a good laugh at "tickling" time bomb 😄😄😄
I am also not into having kids bcz for me it's worthless but maybe in future I may change my mind so that's why before marrying someone you should make your mind either you wanna have children or not and tell your partner too
God bless you junaid cheers
Junaid bhai ye sahi hai 2 emails per video . Btw I love your content
Bhai mujhe ye Passport,Gdp,Cleaness wali video bahoot achi lagti hain.En Topics par zyada banaya karo.Baqi sab ko khalli valli karo🤘😁
i went to Pakistani embassy in the UAE to renew my passport, itna sarya hey in logo ki gardan mein, koi sedhay moun bat bhi nahi karta, i pray mjhy dobara koi kam na parey embassy mein, zara brabar tameez nahi in logo ko
Love ur show
In EUROPE, you only carry your citizen card, you tap it like a metro card and enter any EU country, you don't need your passport.
Admiring all your efforts doing to sudhar this nation.... 👌💯❤️
may allah bless you sir for giving us your precious time.
Asian countries ko be EU Jasi Foundation bnai chey, aur Schengen visa jasa Visa Hona cheyy. jha Asian visa wala bnda us countries ko visit kr skty Jo Is foundation Ka part han
0:26 thank u for the tip for creators. Can we have full episode on your youtube journey, any tips for content creators and everything - on any of your channel? That would be great. You may have a lot of insights on being successful creator. Many small creators from Pakistan may need that insight. Like I have been creating content from last 3 years but I am still not successful and no where to be seen. Thank you junaid bhai.
21:04 Women can opt for egg freezing as well nowadays but there's not enough talk about that. I don't think one should get married just for the sake of time running off.
Stamps on passport sirf non-EU countries mey lagti hey. Like if you’re living in Germany, your passport would be stamped if you go to Romania if you have a third world country passport (such as humara, Pakistani passport)
after listening your personal story i really feel more respected towards you ❤
London se thi divorced isliye krli with step childern. agar karachi ke kisi gareeb elaqy ki larki hoti divorced to na krty. FACT!
wah bhai wah kia soch h teri
You are a great guy I watch it your video spend many time but I give a lot of information and inshallah you will see one time you are a million of CZcamsrs 🤲🏻🇵🇰👍
Thank you for being consistant
Agree Pakistan embassy everywhere must help good and hard working students to find jobs in respective countries after their studies.
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Within Europe it is considered a domestic flight and you DON'T even have to go through passport controle for these flights
Am happy at daily videos.
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The moment I heard him sing The Cats in The Cradle, I knew I wasn't alone in listening to that! Just a recommendation Junaid, Listen to The Breath You Take by George Strait, i am sure you will love it!!!
30:25 - Yes, I have been to Turkey 2x times this year and they didn't checked my evisa. I don't know how it works.
Km say km 1 bacha to Hona chahea Verna Shayad sari zindagi pachtava rahy
"Kyon aisa he hai Bhai?" Confirmation 😁
Present ♥️
bro tell me vo children birth in africa to get nationailty,Kindly tell me i cant find your taht video
Chinese peoples are the most populated nation in the world but still poverty rate is much lower than countries with less population,thier GDP and economy is now leading the world, it's all about the system of a country how they control and treat their peoples, their population is the reason of having largest number of active military forces, American army is suffering from shortage of soldiers, after some years these numbers will increase to 20%, also Japanese is suffering from less population, if we are able to provide employment to young peoples these ratio will decreased to lower percentage so instant of blaming the population blame the system.
*if we are able to*
Finally aj ka dose aa Gaya
thank you bhai very informative video, as Computer Science I can verify that Pakistan is far behind in tech lot of my batch mates do not know about metaverse or other advanced technologies.
sirf pakistan ma he nahi poori duniya ma aisa students hota ha
How do we write an email to you ......
Junaid, you need to drop the topic from your video title, just put the ep #
Bhai, when are you coming to Qatar?
Can I know your whereabouts in Qatar?
Europen citizen ka lea zaroori nai passport pas rakhna ,
Europe ma travel karna ka lea .
You’re looking good today.
Sir, i've a question that you said in one of your video or in a story that you are not earning enough from youtube so how do you afford such expensive equipment?.
I'm not passing any negative remarks, it's just that i wanted to know that do you've a side business or any other source of income to afford such equipments?
Patreon n brand deals
OBS studio would be good for live stream
12:08 mockin bird is also based on the same things I guess
Painting in the background.......❤
Hello Mr. Junaid.
If you need to get assistance for your game streaming and recording.
i can provide you guidance (all the specific gadget and software to get it done with absolutely no delay or latency)
We can discuss it further in PM, if you wish so.
Thanks
Slaam!
Thanks
Bro how you are so much clear about life ?
Liking the blue theme. Dark color shirts suits you better and looks smart. 💯.
It's mind boggling to hear some of the issues liberal and non-traditionalist people in our society are facing when it comes to marriage. Feel sorry for them.
I personally like the long episodes.
free rehti ho kia
@@munirlatif1126 does it bother u? Some ppl can multitask while listening to this episode n doing other office work .
@@maryama.8084 nahe mujhy koi masla nahe h
@@maryama.8084 wesy ap ny apni bhot achy sy taref ki h
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I myself never wanted children. I helped raise mnephews's and nieces , and that was enough for me. However, I do say that for people for whom having a kid is a non-negotiable item in a marriage, they should get themselves tested, and they should get their future prospective partner tested medically to ensure that both could have kids rather than face nonsensical drama later.
I don't know what is so special about producing a child of your own when there are so many children around the world who need a home. But to each his own. When the sole reason for getting married in your life is having children, then you should ensure the biological possibility of that before the marriage for both partners.
As I said earlier in one comment about making separate will not be a good choice, and now proved by your analytics 😀👍
I'm glad I was right, because this is good for my experience. Not flexing.!!
I also don't want children beacuse i am not really fascinated by the idea of having kids ... motherhood is not my cup of tea.....once i told my mom and she said "Beta shadi k bad apka khud he mind ban jayega" Lol i am a frekin 23 year old girl yehi reason hai that i am rejecting Rishtas beacuse ye bat mind mein rakhni hogi life partner choose krty hoye.....i'll definitely choose a partner outside Pakistan i am an Entrepreneur Alhamdullilah financially independent myself and now planning to move out of this country......It's completely normal to not having kids
what about your duties of being Muslim, I am not taunting you but you should learn about your responsibilities as a Muslim being. If you are independent that good but still you are a creation of god then you must have to obey him.
Your mother was speaking about baby fever. It happens!
@@AliRehman-ie4xj parenthood is a choice even in Islam .... ye koi compulsion nhi hai or na he ye koi gunnah hai from islamic point of view.....i just cannot live my life with borrowed mindset of society
@@zuhairfan2490 i am talking about the idea of not having kids...it's not a fear it's something i choose for myself
@@anamkhan4951 Ys!..☺️ Best of luck for your future.
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Sawad aa gya
European boht kam passport rakhty hein ,I'd card hi use krty bass
I disagree.
All you said is what is good for a parent to have a child.
But what is good for a child to come to existence?
For all the suffering the sentient being has to go through in life due a decision made by parent. He did not give consent to.
#Antinatalism
Junaid bro tooday formal mey shirt phenty nice look ho jaata
On your 2nd question, Pakistan is going down the gutter and prospects are very bleak and you can thank corrupt politicians and army for that...and stop comparing against India. India is a superpower in every sense of the word and Pakistan is no match !!!!
Bruh not a super power,😅 India have lots of problem too even more than Pakistan but the fact they are growing every day in every field
Pakistan tw peeche hi jata hai agey tw door ki baat
@@BizBytesTVs india ki only 1 state Maharashtra ki GDP pure pakistan ki gdp se almost double hai .abhi pakistaniyo ne india dekha hi nahi hai due to visa difficulties.. and pakistan se jyada musalman india me hai 25 crore se bhi jyada and pure world me sabse jyada masjide india me hai 3 lakh se bhi jyada fact check kar lijiye
Aoa. U r doing well but what i judge is k ap koi emails etc ka jawab nai dety . Ap khud se topic choose kar k usi ka question bana k us pe bat karty hain bcz too many things to note...
Sari mails english mai
Sari mails lambi😂
Sari mails ap k acoording
Sari mails on current issues..
True or not but did you learn something ? The only thing, that matters the most.
But here we Cant drive anything below vigo😡
Watch the movie lunch box.
To understand one aspect of this situation.
Junaid bhai agar apko Sindh ke kisi gareeb gaaon se divorced larki se shadi krna prti to ap krty? as i know wo london se thi isliye to ni ki?
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Bhai hamain Daily dose main maza Ata hy
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Given the amount of religious blackmail i get in my country i am thinking of pretending to be an athiest. Can't remind me of the fear of god if i don't have any. :P
left par apni wall dekho yaar looking very horrible itna seepage on the walll get it fixed set looking bad due to this
Here is the song.
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Quaid divorced his second wife ? Never heard of that. They separated , Yes but never divorced.
Swedish house mafia - dont you worry child!
Junaid Bhai Pakistan is the 5th largest country by population.
Visa isilie nahi dete
They fear koi bhi Jake fat jaega .
Jokes apart ,
india ka passport bhi jada kuch khas nahi hai.
Mentally sick
i have the same opinion as that guy i dont want to have children because i see my parents and what they do all day to provide us and i just hate that
Junaid if anyone is looking to get a UK visa through investment then they can get in touch with me.
Why momina want kafirs visa?
@@xman6267 when the same kafir opens free visa option you will stand in front of the line.
8 billion hogaye bhai bs karo
Chinese peoples are the most populated nation in the world but still poverty rate is much lower than countries with less population,thier GDP and economy is now leading the world, it's all about the system of a country how they control and treat their peoples, their population is the reason of having largest number of active military forces, American army is suffering from shortage of soldiers, after some years these numbers will increase to 20%, also Japanese is suffering from less population, if we are able to provide employment to young peoples these ratio will decreased to lower percentage,so instant of blaming the population blame the system.
@@hassanmalik7331 Yeah chotiya propaganda copy paste kar ke kahan se chori kiya?😂
Shadi he nai krni chiyee jb ham khud kesi ko itni attention nahi de skty so shadi na kro is the best dunya jo bolti ha bolti rahy