Can I Get Married to My Real Aunt? | Ask Ganjiswag
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Time Stamps:
0:00 - Intro
01:18 - Can I get Married to My Real Aunt?
15:01 - Badtameez Larki
34:42 - 18+ Struggles Of 18 Years Old
56:01 - Ideal Husband But in Private
01:13:45 - Outro
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Junaid ji! you won my heart when you said... bachho ka adab karna padta hai, bado ko EARN karna padta hai !
Replying to the Ideal Husband But In Private: Your husband respects you in private which indicates that he actually respects you but behaves differently in public because of the cultural conditioning. I love and respect my wife even more in public so that she feels secure and I like doing it but I am able to do this because my family celebrates that I love her so much.
Maybe the issue is not your husband but his family or his friends, talk to him about it that this behaviour is hurting you.
I am sure he will try to fix it.
Qur'an: Sura Nisa (Women)
Chapter 4 Verse 23
˹Also˺ forbidden to you for marriage are your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your paternal and maternal aunts, your brother’s daughters, your sister’s daughters, your foster-mothers, your foster-sisters, your mothers-in-law, your stepdaughters under your guardianship if you have consummated marriage with their mothers-but if you have not, then you can marry them-nor the wives of your own sons, nor two sisters together at the same time-except what was done previously. Surely Allah is All-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
Don't listen to such idiotic mullahs unless this is your own twisted thinking
Qur'an: Sura Nisa (Women)
Chapter 4 Verse 23
Just follow the Qur'an and it's forbidden in the Qur'an to have such a relation or having such sick intentions
Correct
Great content. Keep up the great work !
This guy knows what Pakistani people like to hear. 😂 Spicy topics sells
Though problems r real
Smart businessman mind
Or may be he's like those tharki types
yes correct ... plus look at his thumbnails 😅 😅 .... the real question is, is he really an expert? why he's here talking about all these issues ... giving us his opinion ... i mean on what grounds? who is he? a professional or something ... or just cashing in?
@@mbilalsid How about someone who has developed enough of people's trust in him by doing these videos and giving good advice for a long time for people to discuss their private matters with him. He has clearly stated that all of the opinions are personal advice and not professional. Also about the thumbnail and the title, name one famous CZcamsr who don't use carefully curated thumbnails and titles to attract audiences. As for the money, CZcams adsense doesn't pay jackshit to people in Pakistan who have such relatively small channels like this one.
Bro, you are open, and really help in opening minds. Thanks for standing in Pakistan! I learn a lot from you. thank you
For 18 + men go to gym
and read Quran with translation full and go for walk after praying everything day
No walking on the roads. You don't want to get mugged or shot
@@Sandman9811har banda Karachi se nai hota😅
@@SalmanNasir359 Petty crimes are happening all over the country and not just in Khi. Inflation is the biggest reason for these crimes. Who else would you blame? 😉
Nice way of crying , i live in Karachi and i go to Walk after praying in morning.. Don't listen to that shit voice in Head
What has reading the quran got to do with gym lol
Thank you for healing our pains🖤
Your knowledge is great, thank you for sharing it
Narcisistic parents are jealous of their children also😢
For 18 years old, say أعوذ بالله من شرور أنفسنا و من سيآت Everytime a bad thought comes. It will take a few days but you will get rid of this. اعمالنا
I'll die peacefully the day when an episode dealing with no maidens/ bitches case arrives.
yes
No bitches = no views
No nadir ali was harmed in this videi😂😂 25:31
18:01 Badtameez Ladki: Girl your story is similar to my partner's. She became my friend on social media. I wrote about such issues in society and she also had problems with getting married. She is outspoken and even fought with her parents to go for graduation with respect to getting married... At first, both of us has the same thoughts to avoid marriage as much as we can (because I even didn't want a girl who don’t think of her own). We talked a lot about each bullshit in this misbalance society. With time become best friends and fall in love with each other. I support her rights and she supports mine. The amazing thing is I love her outspoken nature, not being submissive to males, and trying to be strong as us (male)... being her partner I am always behind her no matter what she wants to do and she is also my best support...
You became friends with your wife on social media. But this girl clearly has abandonment issues. I can relate to her if i were in her shoes i would never approach anyone either or vice versa. Your wife is lucky, i hardly doubt this kind of situation is possible with an arranged marriage.
@@Fareha201 You are completely right! Neither I approached any girl or my partner nor she approached me. It was a long story of around more than 2 or 3 years. Where, I was writing on social media, and she was also. I find her posts accidentally and commented without receiving any response (not I was expecting). The only thing between us was our similarities in content consuming and commenting on them. From where we started noticing each other and then commenting, DM, sharing numbers, and talking for like a year every day but was still a friend because of our fears. Finally, I proposed her. The thing is that you have to be sure about the boundaries of each relationship as I said that I am ashamed that I failed you by being a friend and falling in love with you. Because friendship means friendship it is difficult to understand in this society where such friendships between opposite gender are rare... Therefore, I can understand and hate it... So you are right and I just can wish the best for you in your plans...
If even 40% Pakistani mens start thinking like you our society become alotttt better
I think "HomeMaker" is the best word for women pursuing Family as a goal. Not domesticated or housewife.
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what? family ya housemaker bhi goal hota hai Aaj kal ke zamane me
@@Santosh10mane I can reply to that, But lemme know if u are a guy or gal first?
@@WasifKhizari don't know him but i am a guy reply me..
What about "Nation Builder"
heyy how can i reach out to you for question?
I don't understand why would you ask a random CZcamsr who you should marry or not? Just beyond me.
For the gold medalist girl, please apply for all the scholarships you think you have a good shot at. Apply for any country you can realistically move to (have the scores and funding secured for that). You don’t need your parent’s permission for that.
I understand being raised by narcissistic parents is hard (first hand experience😉), but right now you gotta stay focused on only one thing: survival. Only way to do that without being a walking dead body is to escape Pakistan.
So what do you need to make that happen? Marriage is clearly out of the question. It’s not gonna work before you are healed. And you can’t heal when you’re still living with your narcissistic parents. So the only option left is to leave Pakistan for a job or further studies. Please apply for jobs in Germany (plus other neighboring countries). Feed your narcissistic parents’ ego so they can let you leave once you have everything sorted. Like tempt them with the amount of praise they will get ;) and tell them how amazing of parents they are and you are everything because of them bla bla (play their game, again it’s not deception, it’s survival). Once you’re out of Pakistan, don’t ever go back! Focus on your mental health and healing and create your own life and happiness, away from all that shit.
I escaped 5 years ago, been in therapy for 3.5 years. Long way to fully heal but I’m happier and fully detached from them now. They don’t have that power over me anymore. :) I’m living my best life with freedom, 6 figure salary in euros and being surrounded by people who actually care for me. :) Btw, I got my education from Pakistan (Lums). If I can do it, you for sure can do it better than me. I wasn’t a gold medalist like you and only learnt about narcissism 3 years ago. You’re smart, you’re amazing and you deserve all great things life has to offer! I’m cheering for you! :)
Applying for scholarships and leaving the country is sadly the only way out for her. Good advice 👍🏽
Can moving out be an option if she doesn't have enough money to leave the country yet?
Can a single woman live alone in Pakistan while the law protects her against her family?
Love your advice to that girl. Tho i fo have a question can a person in that much toxicity have enough self-confidence to apply anywhere at all. Or leave such relationships cause in this country anyone thinking of leaving their parents is commiting a major hellworthy sin in the eyes of ppl
@@Fareha201 She can.
My self-confidence was zero a year ago but I slowly built it by focusing on myself and building up evidence of how capable I am
like having friends who support you and tell you you are doing great and when I started working online and building my career, it gave me immense confidence.
In the start it was very difficult I was always doubting myself but with time it got easier and that's how you build confidence.
Also if your parents are toxic, don't take their words seriously they don't know who you truly are. I know it's easier said than done but eventually you will rise above that toxicity.
I now aim to apply abroad too and I don't care about society.
Like Junaid says 'Zulm sehna gunah hai'. I don't think leaving such families is a sin.
Bravo...
Waiting for next
Good job.
JUNAID BHAI WE ALL LOVE YOU FOR THE SAKE OF ALLAH! YOU ARE AMAZING ALLAHUMMA BARIK!
Where can we send questions to Junaid bhai?
when u talk u dont know u are healing many people hearts and mind Allah bless u big fan love u
Please invite sahil adeem to your podcast
who's that nigga
Junaid bhai ♥️
How to ask him questions ?? Where to send
I can relate with this badtameez larki coz I'm suffering the same. Pakistani men can't handle strong opinionated girl.
We can understand but there is a way to discuss it with someone I also suffering from the girl side so tell me what should I do? that's not the gender opinion.
They can. I get why women are pressed but generalizing ALL men is not fair. These women mostly believe koi bahir ka miljae wo behtar hoga, as if understanding men dont even exist in Pak.
Thanks
He is good to listen to, but don't believe everything he is saying. Many aspects of his responses to these questions need open discussion, as said Critical thinking helps a lot!
Awesome video😎😎👍👍
"Since few decades" what kinda English is that, Its either "For a few decades OR since 2003".
Please guys work on basic English concepts.
What kind of*
Or are you a wannabe hood american
My relative is also unemployed (he actually don,t want to work) but he have childrens, his wife and daughters are working in peoples houses to make living
The false messages patriarchy gives to adults 😒
Badtameez larki wali email is literally my female version 💀
You at least have the advantage of being a guy. If you threaten your parents that you will leave them if they don't take your wishes seriously, then they will take your opinion seriously. But that won't work if you are a gal.
@@statesman01 exactly! It’s sad to admit but truth is that my gender makes my situation less worse then hers. Threatening my parents wouldn’t work rn, since they know that I’m too young and financially dependent on them. In future I can leave my parents house and live on my own. but in her case she can’t leave her parents house, even if she does leave her parents house tou pher puri zindagi logo ki baate suni parey gi, a person can’t remain strong for their entire life.
sleep cycle do fix alot of things even mental health
It's title is like the drama you criticized ''Razai bhai behn"
Chalo koi interesting question dala hai thumbnail mei
Badtamiz Larki ❤ 18:01
Hain na moiz yeah yeah sir u r right - han moiz aesa hi hai ( bilkul sir aesa hi hai 😊)
Nadir ali pwned @ 25:35
Junaid, please invite Sadia from Sadia Psychology in your podcast.
Thank you.
@AliHassan-py8zl well, Junaid can speak English.. can't he?
I've seen him doing podcasts in English before.
About People sharing their financial struggles expecting a handout, How do you deal with such people?
junaid bhai whats moiz doing back there that u have to say his name again and again😆
39:15 same problem with me aswell but got away with the help of Allah Almighty, I joined gym and after 10 months got bodybuilding title aswell.
I also got some help from books as;
* Secrets Of Divine Love A. Helwa
* Beyond good and evil F.Nitche
* Meditations M. Arelius
* Notes from Undergroud F.Dvski
A few more as well.
InshaAllah, Aagy Allah Behtr Kry Ga.
Badtameez Larki...is so me. Many of us actually
W society
by seeing ganji swag me a 19 year old has decided to not have kids in my life
@@MuhammadUmar-dx3el😂
pleasse masail mufti sahiban se pucha karen
I don't no but i agree all point i don't no why ❤❤
Kuch bi - Aunty ka support karna ha oska bacho ka parhao that it - ya koi uncle dhondo
Can someone explain ki puppi aur khala se kyun nahi kar sakte shaadi when you guys can marry your first cousins or cousins woh bhi toh ghar ke hi hain yaa Junaid bhai galat bol rahe hain???
It is a ruling in QURAN that you cannot marry your real phuphi and khala.
@@rayanahmad4529 but you can marry your Cousin
@@rohitjaiswal999 yes
sorry to view this video after a while but this first guy watched too much for Game ot thrones that he want to marry his aunt. :P
20 00. UK bhi yehi halat hain bhai. Yahein ae culture aya hai humara bera gharak kar rakh dya 200 saal kay rule ne. Is par bhi baat karein. I have lived in both countries and now understand where this culture of ours came from
29:10 this shit i still remeber i went to mosque in first row they put me in last and i still remeeber being angry
Yess ab me sukun se khana kha sakta hun nayi video agai
Us bhai us 😂
Bhai you are very sensible and sensitive man - unfortunately we are having Patriarchy society with shame & Honor
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Optician se glasses Ki setting karwa lo bhai
husband in public is your mirror...
Bro Madrid Is The Best❤
It is disgusting that people are looking to marry aunt..I dont care if it is allowed or not in Islam. There are lot of ways to support a person and their kids without marriage. Imagine having intimate relationship with your aunt. But incest is quite common in Pakistan
Bro marrying your chacha's wife isn't incest.............and it isn't disgusting when you are helping those kids of her........
@@faheemhassan8820yeah this is the only progress Pakistani men are coming up.
@@laibanasir3498
Ok
@@laibanasir3498
Tery Sy pucha Kisi ny ?
@@laibanasir3498
Tu aur apny baap ko mention Kiya tha ! .cheap
Ganji sameena pirzada answering bongay questions
Bhai pakistani log abhi bhi is tarh ki soch rakhatey hai 😮, lagta hai partition sahi hi huaa tha, agar nhi hota toh hm indians ko bhi hawasi logo (mulla molana) ke sath hmare pdos me rehna pdta.
Soch ke hi ghinn aa rhi hai aunty se koi kese shadi kr skta hai, or Pakistani log is baare me bhi soch the hai.
Waah tussi great ho...
Marvel Scripts❌
DC Scripts❌
Christopher Nolan Scripts❌
Scripts sent to ASK GANJISWAG✅✅✅
Spiderman b to aunt may pe flat hai
Lekin Chachi ya Tai to almost mummy ki age ke barabar hogi,
How it gonna work?? 🙄🙄
Not necessary. My father was born when his mother was 16 years old. My youngest chacha is 22 years younger than my father. My chacha married a woman 9 years younger than him. So my chachi is exactly the same age as my older sister i.e. six years older than me.
@@statesman01 so ur mom married before 16, ur Chachi married around 13,
Something is wrong within ur family, so don't compare it with others
@@statesman01😮😮how just how your father married a 16 yr girl.That a crime brother....
@@ommprakash1177 Damn... learn to read English properly.
"My father was born when HIS mother was 16 years old."
That means my father was born in 1942 when my Dadi was 16 years old.
My chacha was born when my Dadi was 38 years old.
So there is a 22 year age gap between my father and my chacha.
When my father got married to my mother, he was 30 and she was 20.
At that time my chacha was just 8 years old.
My sister was born the next year so my chacha is only 9 years older than my sister.
My chacha got married at the age of 30 and my chachi was 9 years younger than him.
So she was 21 years old, the same age as my older sister.
@@user-ql9so7eb4u Damn... learn to read English properly.
"My father was born when HIS mother was 16 years old."
That means my father was born in 1942 when my Dadi was 16 years old.
My chacha was born when my Dadi was 38 years old.
So there is a 22 year age gap between my father and my chacha.
When my father got married to my mother, he was 30 and she was 20.
At that time my chacha was just 8 years old.
My sister was born the next year so my chacha is only 9 years older than my sister.
My chacha got married at the age of 30 and my chachi was 9 years younger than him.
So she was 21 years old, the same age as my older sister.
Please help.. how to ask ganjiswag a question? Whats the email address? It’s urgent please!
No sanskar.....😢
Ammi se bhi sadhi kar sakte hai Islam me 😅😅😅😅😅
Please behave in sense
As an Indian mujhe pata nahi tha ki pakistane me itne common baate problem hai agar zindagi to ye solve karne chali jayegi, yahan bhi kai toxic parents hote hai par usco education me humesha aage badhne ke liye kehte hai aur support bhi karte hai pata nhi log religion ko sar par Chadha ke kyon pakistan me, mere Ghar me subah ek Puja Hui to bhagwan ya religion ko baat bilkul nahi hoti
You don't know Pakistani man are very toxic I don't want too marry in Pakistan I wish I can marry outside of Pakistan 😢
*KHUL K AYEN AGER SOCIETY KA LOOP HOLE RAISE KRTY HYN TOW (MOB LYNCHING) APPLY HOTA*
Bs title py Trappe hu giya
9:17 thats the real problem. Na mazhab follow karta na cultures aur bas confuse
Junaid bhai please some indian email 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳 please bhaiii.....
Ju larki poch rhi thi us ka husband joke karta h mazaq karta h usy chayi us c bith k bat kary k jisy tum akily m izat karty hu visy hi mehfil m b karo agr yhi joke ya mazaq ap ki family k samny m karo bezti wala to kisa lgy ga .. So ap us c bith k bat kary inshAllah theek hu jay ga. Meri bhen ki shadii hui us ka husband ki adat thi shadii c pihly gali deny ki to meri bhen bola apny husband c baqi sab theek h aik ghar m mujy ni kisi ko b gali ni dina or dosra mery abu ami ki family ki bary m kbi b buri bat ni karna aik sal huny ko h Allah ka shukar h us n kbi yi 2 km ni kia .. Ap b bat kary husband c umeed h theek hu jay
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How to approach you junaid bhai any email?
Email is in the description
5min video daikhni thi junaid bhai puri daikh li..
Junaid bhai ki baat sensible hoti Hain.
Look at his headline or thumbnail. Such a low humpty dumpty just to get more view.
he is a greedy person and is a bit dumb
ye kya chal raha is golay par bhai, me khud ko harami samjhta tha
lekin ye sub sunne k baad me tow bhut massom hun
People complaining about questions
guys my mans gonna answer the question which he recieves so i dont see anything wrong here.
sorry GHALAT NISHAN BAN GAYA🤣
Ganjiswag sahab ko gande controversial topics uchalne ka bara shoq hai. Bhai apke pass jo knowledge ka khazana hai usko ache kamon ke liye bacha ke rakho. Warna ye tharki awam apko kahin ka nahin chore gi!!!
ye badtameez larki to mai nikli xD
I mean I can relate to her
People marrying there Aunt!! Wtf
Junaid bhai lagta hay jawani me ladies killer thay thook ke hisaab se larkion se doosti thi.
Pakistan me casual incest common hai kya?
Yeah I mean cousin marriage is quite common
Bhaii kooo Majmaa Laganaaa aattaa hiii. Lol . Getting Married with Aunty. Pehlayy boyss kharabb hotay thayy aaj kall Aunties kharab hain....
Kyon aisa he hai?
I have observed Junaid many times has mentioned that Pakistani culture is ' adopted ' and somehow he shows his disdain to his native culture ( Indian culture/ hindu culture) which is Mushrik acording to many Muslims and he puts middle eastern culture in pedestal.
Not giving equal share of your property to your daughter is ' Muslim' culture and comes under Shariyat.
Telling your women to put Abaya, Burqa and Hijab because men can get attracted is ' Muslim' culture.
These are very misogynist ideologies. Work on that part. Muslims are patriarchal and Misogynist
brother humaare yaha to ladki ko bilkul bhi nahi milta tha, wo to government ne force kiya tha tab logo ne maana tha. ha lekin humaare yaha ye baat to hai ki log apne dharm se hatkar government ki baat maan lete hain.
@@viratyadav2213Par diya na , Sar tan se juda bolke jahalat to nhi dikhayi !
@@divyanshusingh2145 wahi main keh raha hu kuch alag nahi kaha
@@mekhan92 bruh, what do you mean "mindset"? are you implying we are inferior to the superior Muslims? tf do you mean? Also, bruh, in india the daughter can ask for equal inheritence if she wants to. Besides, your ancestors didn't adopt Hindu culture, it's more like they were Hindus themselves and they couldn't completely eradicate hindu culture even after converting to islam.
these are mostly pakistani ideoligies you have mentioned, forcing someone to wear hijab, burqa etc is banned in Islam and the Quran itself goes against it, Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) married a divorcee that was also the main breadwinner in the house, so the stigma that "Women are Slaves in Islam" is false, women are slaves in Pakistan according to our culture, not due to our religion. The verse that tells women to cover themselves up modestly tells men to lower their gaze down before all that, please take your time and do your own research instead of spewing out the spoonfed propaganda next time
Bhai don't talk about the 1st topic on the internet, muslims and specially us Muslims In India have to go thru the stereotype and shame.
To baat karogy tbhi to stereotypes khatam hongy
Also if anyone thinks it is taboo, uss ki maa ka bharosa
@alimasood7116 it's a shame that these things are true in our community in the first place, I mean if we use our common sense we know it's wrong to marry our cousins leave alone Aunts 🤣
@@NadeemKhan.9great bro! Good to know Indian Muslims sorted thoughts!
So according to you, the solution is NOT to openly discuss and change the wrong beliefs in our own community that have led to the stereotype. Instead the solution is that we stop talking about it and hide the problems in our community.
So basically, you want to close your eyes and pretend that a problem does not exist.
Badtameez ladki: don’t get married. The only way to thrive is get independent and grow as an individual. Must fight for it. No person or love relationship can help you. You have to help yourself. Stay strong! You’re not made for this society bullshit. I fought for mine, and I am proud of not settling for nonsense.
Junaid bhai please hasband wife sa Nikal aye
It's getting bored content
Ap na sunain
Ganja ku bata hai . Yeh sabse bziyada chalte hai. Isliya thumbnail bhibwahi laga tha hai.
1st question is sponsored by Naughty America 😂😂
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O Bhai ye gande topics apse hi puchte Hein log
Junaid bhai your to good and your program is great but onething i will tel you ap pakistani ho kamatay yahan hoo aj ap jo bhi due to pakistan and pakistanion ki waja say ho but is main apki bhi mehnat hai yar ap pakistan ki bht burai karty hoo
aj b masjid mein budhey aa k bachon ko namaz parhty huay pakr k pechey khara krdety hen
Junaid akarma is not intelligent don't ask him he is wrong
Pakistan me masle hi alag chal rahe hai😂😂😂
har masla ki jar me paisa chupa he if you critically analyze
@@MuhammadUmar-dx3el nope, it's just Pakistan as a nation is failed country with zero morals, ethics, hardwork and glory.
@@MuhammadUmar-dx3eland religion too
@@laibanasir3498 religion bhi chandon ki wajah se kharab hoa he that's why we see a lot of sects today. if you read Quran and hadith on your own you will surely know
@@MuhammadUmar-dx3el I've read Quran with translation but many haven't & you're so wrong k religion Chand logon ki wajah s kharab hua h. No, religious in 🇵🇰is just for others to follow, personal introspection is not a thing here. People just want others to be religious just to manipulate them. I was a conservative Muslim but now I'm a liberal person & to me religious persons now are worse than swines. Honesty is also a crime in Islamic society. I've seen namazis indulging in bribes & what not. They'll just do everything for their benefits but offer Salah & think it has washed the dirt. I'm at the verge where I just believe in God but I've stopped practicing it. Sometimes I question this phrase "Jo mushkil bhi ati h apne amaal ki wajah s ati h" meanwhile I see honest & upright going thru hell & criminals & others who don't care abt others just enjoy life.
All made up stories and get the views
I have toxic parents too 😕