Male Orbiters: Is She Disloyal, Or Just Young & Naive?

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  • čas přidán 6. 12. 2023
  • How to determine if your girlfriend is disloyal or just young and naive regarding her male orbiters that have interest.
    In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a 31 year old viewer who has been dating his 24 year old girlfriend for a year. He’s read 3% Man, 15 times and has been following my work for 5 years. He says she has been exhibiting some disappointing behavior lately. She is still in contact with a male orbiter who she briefly dated, but said they only kissed once and she friend zoned him. He found out it went further than just kissing and she has lied multiple times directly to his face about the guy who still contacts her. He asks my opinion.
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Komentáře • 63

  • @user-dv2hc8zt3o
    @user-dv2hc8zt3o Před 7 měsíci +49

    Women are never naive when it comes to their orbiters.

  • @jacobkennedy1065
    @jacobkennedy1065 Před 7 měsíci +95

    If she is hiding or lying about something, especially because she knows you won't like what you see, she is not naïve. She knows exactly what she is doing.

    • @LulaRoberts
      @LulaRoberts Před 7 měsíci +7

      🤔💯👍

    • @Pistonhammer
      @Pistonhammer Před 7 měsíci +2

      Thank you for this piece of information Jacob !! Stay strong out there my bretherens !! Good luck !!

    • @MrBrandonLau
      @MrBrandonLau Před 7 měsíci +3

      Yep. On to the next one(s)

    • @reeenareeena
      @reeenareeena Před 7 měsíci

      of course she does but the fact that corey thinks she might just be naive shows how naive he is LOL

    • @MrBrandonLau
      @MrBrandonLau Před 7 měsíci +1

      Some young women are definitely naive, especially under 25

  • @Jervdbur
    @Jervdbur Před 7 měsíci +54

    Dump that girl. She wouldn’t change. It’s disrespectful and you should give her the Christmas gift of missing you.

    • @reeenareeena
      @reeenareeena Před 7 měsíci

      no girl changes just because u sit her down and ask her to lmfao why do beta males keep making this hilarious mistake. if your girl is being disloyal she's disloyal and always will be. no amount of talking to her about that changes anything in fact it makes it worse hahhaha

  • @jakano80
    @jakano80 Před 7 měsíci +42

    I told my lady UPFRONT about male orbiter,exes lurking in the background , communicating with guys in your DM is a deal breaker for me or we will NOT be in a relationship. I laid out my boundaries right at the beginning. She tested me to see if I would renege on my word and I corrected the situation immediately. She is beautiful great and turns men away consistently. Guys if she calls you insecure dump her immediately

    • @jakano80
      @jakano80 Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@Jervdbur got me wrapped? Huh? Did you not read ? Go back and read my comments. I am in control of my relationship

    • @jakano80
      @jakano80 Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@RarelyCheck he must have gone to an American public school

    • @Jervdbur
      @Jervdbur Před 7 měsíci

      @@jakano80 my fault. English is not my native language.

    • @Jervdbur
      @Jervdbur Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@jakano80 yes, I went to a school in the Europe. I speak 4 languages what about you?

    • @LulaRoberts
      @LulaRoberts Před 7 měsíci +3

      🤔💯👍👌

  • @DivineLogos
    @DivineLogos Před 7 měsíci +37

    If they kissed she can't be naive anymore.
    She knows her orbiter wants her.

  • @codeblack829
    @codeblack829 Před 7 měsíci +54

    She’s only loyal to herself. You should learn from her

  • @LulaRoberts
    @LulaRoberts Před 7 měsíci +32

    It's really getting worse and worse each and every day in the dating scene. There is no end to this 😮😳.

    • @simonthepukkapieman1387
      @simonthepukkapieman1387 Před 7 měsíci +10

      Not necessarily, there are good people out there and lots of useful information.
      The more we study and apply the work of life coaches like Corey the better our ability to spot the negative traits that could lead to potential problems in the future.
      The work also helps us to become better people to enable us to attract like kind.

    • @LulaRoberts
      @LulaRoberts Před 7 měsíci +2

      ​@simonthepukkapieman1387 You are right, especially when you read and study Mr. Wayne teaching, you avoid the bad ones 👍.

    • @reeenareeena
      @reeenareeena Před 7 měsíci

      well duh lol this is what happens when you allow your girl to have male "friends" they cheat every time.

    • @JohnADuerk
      @JohnADuerk Před 3 měsíci

      @@simonthepukkapieman1387 Well put!

  • @jonathankalyniuk7017
    @jonathankalyniuk7017 Před 7 měsíci +8

    I have zero respect for male orbiters or the girls who entertain them, They both have the same amount of integrity.

  • @cjvasquezp
    @cjvasquezp Před 7 měsíci +11

    Bro is in his feelings. That’s why he doesn’t see it as clear as the coach

  • @notayoutuber09
    @notayoutuber09 Před 7 měsíci +18

    If you ever talk to a woman about this and she plays stupid, end it and move on. Shes probably narcasstic/toxic. Dont think theyre naive, they just want their cake and eat it too.

    • @michaelgrijak8623
      @michaelgrijak8623 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Any reasonably attractive and socially aware woman knows whenever a guy is into her. She can't play dumb with this. She knows exactly how many guys in her phone contact list want to bang pelvises with her. She knows WELL. If she's a smoke show, then multiply that awareness by a factor of 10. Really attractive a fit women live for male attention and adoration, even if they have absolutely no intention in reciprocating that attention. They will take it anyway and have all these orbiters believing that they have a legitimate shot at her.

  • @kevinortegel7643
    @kevinortegel7643 Před 7 měsíci +8

    If the orbiter can pull the girl and the boyfriend doesn't know what to do, then I don't think the beta is the orbiter.

  • @garden6300
    @garden6300 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Women like to be told its not okay, especially you do it in a calm masculine manner.

  • @giovannipantorno884
    @giovannipantorno884 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Some girl i date for 10 months admits to me she still friends with her ex. She asked if i wanted monogomy meanwhile guys are still orbiting around her. No shock a few weeks later now she stopped seeing me after i said cut him off. Wat a surprise!!!!!!

  • @Cadavu2
    @Cadavu2 Před 7 měsíci +1

    After all these years you are still going strong. I just wanted to check on you mate after helping me though my rough first breakup 12 years ago. And you are still here helping men. My absolute respect to you. Without your help I would be a different man. Greatings from Hungary, Europe and even after all this time I can say only one thing: Read the damn book 10- 15 times! 😂

  • @bharper1816b
    @bharper1816b Před 7 měsíci +6

    That other dude's name should be Gatsby, her name Daisy, and the boyfriend is Mr. Buchanan.

    • @viviennedunbar3374
      @viviennedunbar3374 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Well no, because Daisy and Tom Buchanan are married, so not a good analogy. The girlfriend could leave at anytime without needing a divorce, and she doesn’t sound invested in this relationship. I think the boyfriend should move on if she likes the attention of other men and encourages it.

    • @bharper1816b
      @bharper1816b Před 7 měsíci

      @@viviennedunbar3374 That's what I meant yes, I meant, "that dude", not "other dude".

  • @papichulo9107
    @papichulo9107 Před 7 měsíci +2

    Be firm and clear about boundaries. If she doesn't respect them, then she doesn't love you OR the relationship "enough". Especially if their is past history there.

  • @tomryan662
    @tomryan662 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Streets

  • @sphony
    @sphony Před 7 měsíci +8

    She’s for the streets bruh. 😂

  • @CoachSteveJandS
    @CoachSteveJandS Před 7 měsíci +1

    "tis a tangled web we weave, when we practice to deceive..."

  • @FashionFramez
    @FashionFramez Před 7 měsíci +8

    So in bed last night my girl starts complaining about two orbiters at work. I told her to cut contact with them as long as she is with me. She did so. But now she’s was complaining how she hates having to ignore people at work. And she was all upset that the one guy now takes his break early to avoid having to see her now. She was all in a tizzy about it and I asked “why do you even care?” …. What should I do? She’s rejected this guy multiple times even before we started dating etc. I called her out and said you just like his attention , you know what he wants etc … kind of pissed me off tho ngl… should I say something again or ignore it.. thoughts?

    • @giovannipantorno884
      @giovannipantorno884 Před 7 měsíci +1

      She will use this to piss u off. Sooner or later

    • @giovannipantorno884
      @giovannipantorno884 Před 7 měsíci

      @@RarelyCheck women will be women. All we can do is watch our back

    • @rjskum688
      @rjskum688 Před 4 měsíci

      @@giovannipantorno884don’t listen to what they say, watch what they do.

  • @evankolar8957
    @evankolar8957 Před 7 měsíci +6

    Question for you Corey. Obviously when you talk about your ex’s you say how you don’t want to be friends with them. However as you are in the studio with the women you mentioned that you do see many of your old ex’s from time to time and they are amazing women and you have a great time together and will probably always be in your life. So my question is. Did you accept friendship with them? Or since they’re older relationships did you all just say fuck it and y’all just friends with benefits? Lmao. Was just curious

    • @LulaRoberts
      @LulaRoberts Před 7 měsíci +2

      😮😳🤔👍

    • @landonp.4073
      @landonp.4073 Před 7 měsíci +1

      It’s a negotiation. If you both want to be friends then great. If you want to be more than friends then never accept a friendship.

  • @QuarterOnTheLoose
    @QuarterOnTheLoose Před 7 měsíci +4

    Hey

  • @Revolusionist321
    @Revolusionist321 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Ye id kick her out of my life

  • @eckstein3rdfret
    @eckstein3rdfret Před 7 měsíci

    All these people in these videos saying they have read it 20+ times...YEA RIGHT!!!!!

  • @ZadeRecordz
    @ZadeRecordz Před 7 měsíci +1

    7:10 😂

  • @christopher-yi3rm
    @christopher-yi3rm Před 7 měsíci

    she is getting attention all the time from the other guy that still wants her to leave her boyfriend and she wants to use the other guy for more than just attention .her current boyfriend cant give her. how does he know this other guy is not her side guy for secret hookups.

  • @jakeb934
    @jakeb934 Před 7 měsíci

    Corey I dont even know why you entertain emails like this, his behavior is beyond fixing

    • @coreylavars6274
      @coreylavars6274 Před 4 měsíci

      Because people pay him thousands of dollars. It’s a business. Can’t have a business if you choose not to take a paid email coaching. If it was a free email he read then he’s doing it for the VIEWER so we can see both sides and learn from it.

  • @haroldmesina5623
    @haroldmesina5623 Před 7 měsíci +3

    First

    • @John-cq3hk
      @John-cq3hk Před 7 měsíci

      Pretty fucking fast but I'll get you next time!!! 🎉

    • @FelipeEscobar86
      @FelipeEscobar86 Před 7 měsíci

      ?

    • @John-cq3hk
      @John-cq3hk Před 7 měsíci

      @@FelipeEscobar86 You don't remember in fifth grade when everybody would run to line up?

  • @garden6300
    @garden6300 Před 7 měsíci +5

    Women like to be told its not okay, especially you do it in a calm masculine manner.