Girlfriends Male Orbiters - How To Stay The Prize?
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- čas přidán 1. 09. 2020
- What you should do and what it means when your girlfriend has male orbiters who like her and that she talks to frequently so you can stay the prize in your relationship.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a guy who says that his girlfriend has several guy friends who blow up her phone all day and every day. This happened with his previous girlfriend who eventually cheated on him with one of these guys. He admits that the presence of these male orbiters with his previous girlfriend caused him to lose his center and be very jealous and insecure and was a contributing factor to her cheating. His current girlfriend is doing the same thing, but he has maintained his composure. It still bothers him and lately their conversations get dull and boring very quickly. He asks how he should handle the situation.
“Men tend to value loyalty above all else in relationships. They don’t like it when their girlfriend, wife or women they’re dating is carrying on conversations with male orbiters during their relationship. Women who behave this way usually have daddy and abandonment issues and crave attention from other men due to their own insecurities and lack of integrity. It also shows a lack of respect for and interest in their current boyfriend, husband or guy they are dating. The quickest way to get someone’s attention is to remove yours. If your woman has many male orbiters, ask her how she would feel if several women were constantly texting you, some of which you have slept with in the past. If she wouldn’t like that then she should stop doing it to you. Love cannot exist where there is no trust. If she is unwilling to correct this disrespectful behavior, you should give her the gift of missing you permanently and find a woman who values loyalty, communication and commitment. Women who constantly need attention and validation from other men will simply cheat with one of them when they become unhappy enough with their current man before leaving and feel zero remorse for it.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne
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I’m 42. I’ve been married, divorced and have had children. I’ve literally dated hundreds of women and I’ve had a few long term girlfriends. When it comes to dating and marriage I’ve done it all. If I could give you all three pieces of advice it’s this: 1. Get comfortable with being alone and be self reliant (this is so important. As men we grow during times of solitude) 2. Walk away from people and situations that do not serve you. 3. Trust your gut instincts. Do not ignore that nagging feeling in your gut that something is wrong. Your intuiting is there to guide you. If you ignore it, you will pay a heavy price.
I’m 48, have a pretty respectable notch count, but haven’t spent many years in relationships. I’ve an interesting situation playing out at the moment. Recently met a 29 year-old Arabian/Muslim woman from Jordan who still lives with her parents. We first met on Christmas Day in Cyprus, had a few dates. Just over three months later she flies back out to Cyprus to stay with me for a month. She asks me to take her virginity - her hymen was clearly visible. Asks me to be her boyfriend on our last night. Texts me this evening saying she’s out with a male friend from work and sends me photo.
I’m completely in the middle with this one. On the one hand I agree with Corey, be her best option, don’t show insecurity/jealously as it comes off weak and she loses attraction. If, she’s into you she will go out of her way to tell you what she’s getting up to (the photo?), so she doesn’t want you to worry.
On the other hand, I set my boundaries and tell her I’m not comfortable with her seeing another dude 1:1, it’s about respecting myself, her respecting me and her getting attention from another dude isn’t acceptable/appropriate if we’re exclusive. She gains respect because I’m setting boundaries, or loses it and accuses me of being controlling and it comes off as weak. Then also you take into account, regardless of whether she sees it as platonic, women are emotionally wired. When they talk, they bond. Throw alcohol into the mix and things can easily cross into inappropriate conversations/behaviours. And do we seriously believe any man just wants to be friends with a woman, offered it on a plate would he turn it down. No. So, he’s just waiting for his chance.
Talk about being stuck between a rock and a hard place I think this is one of the most difficult things to broach in dating/relationships.
Thoughts?
Sweet I'm 26 and already know these three things and practice them in my life daily
@@VoiceOfThe I had this same problem, told her I didn't want her getting guys numbers and meeting with them 1 on 1 she has bpd so she went crazy about it and ended up texting this guy and video chatting him while I was at work lol
Damn good advice.
@VoiceOfTheSoul what happened?
My principle is simple. I show respect to the relationship by not involving women in my close friends circle. I expect the same from my partner.
My ex dared to do this, after she got all used up by guys she wanted to come back after seeing they “don’t get it”. Deleted everyone on her snap asking that she wanted to see mine to trust me that we should date, she’s serious now for me to give her another chance, saying how she really loves me. Bunch of bullshit I can’t believe I put my self through all that trauma to not even be attracted to a girl who does this shit. That’s so disrespectful never settle for shit like that boys, she’s a solid 9 but looks don’t keep you in. I’m not even stressed it’s not my job to be fixing damaged people now I met a bunch of girls that are currently serving themselves on a silver platter for me to enjoy without all the stupid stress. Thanks for the book coach been reading daily, shit works.
Stay the fuck away been in the exact same situation but kept letting her back in because her apologises seemed so genuine. Every time after a week or so she’d slip back into her narcissistic immature nature no matter how much I composed and maintained my masculine frame. Some girls and their morals are just fubar! Delete her from your mind and leave her to scurry around in the sewers. Every lad she’s been with has had the same outcome and curved her in the end. It will all catch up with her when her looks start to fade.
If it is a real narcissistic ex, just pump and dump her everytime she reaches out. Yeah she'll go into narcissistic rage but who cares, she will anyway. And she'll come back when nobody else gives her supply. So if she's hot enough and a narc, and you can emotionally handle it, pump and dump, dont respond. Wait 3 months, play a night, repeat. It's one of the many ways to have fun with Narcs IF you stay detached.
@@BalticLab thanks :)
Broke up with my GF last night for this exact thing, caught her in a ton of lies, has ton of male friends who she has kissed. She texts and hangouts with them everyday. Don't find it shocking she doesn't have a good relationship with her dad and has daddy issues..... Word for word what Corey says. Don't even want to stay friends with benefits as brings too much drama. Funny he posted this today.
Good work.
Make sure you are working on yourself too bro so you don't attract this type of women again. Law of attraction is good and shitty thing too.
@@MrSilverfish12 Always
Dangerous if you stay friends with benefits my guy. Imagine knocking her up and being tied to her for the rest of your living days. Let that sink in.
You stay the prize by VALUING YOURSELF. You can't control how others treat you. But you damn sure can choose how you allow them to.
When you dont pursue her , she will talk to those guys but she will think about you.
I like this one, imma get busy and respond to her tomorrow beta orbiters can get the pussy ready for me.
Very true!
@@noxan1487 you the goat for that comment bro
And whats the point of her only thinking about you but talking to other guys?
@@nedeljko1218As long as she's not out there spreading it left and right getting DNA deposits. Then this will lead her to see the other guys as less of a challenge And she will probably friendzone them and pine for you. Keep being a challenge you win.
My men, if you have to preach to her why loyalty is important, she's out. Been there, had the talk, got the t-shirt and the situation worsened. It's time to move on. Solid video as always, Corey.
Excellent point! It even shouldn’t be a topic.
@@Nick-ue9of Hey mate. It's just a way of saying that I had this experience. Like when you travel to Milan and you get a T-Shirt with "I love Italy" or something like that. Just a bad metaphor :)
so its not even worth it to speak out and say stop with the BS trying to get attention from other dudes and just bounce_?
@@funkywarrior3906 stopping with that should be common sense since she wanted you to become exclusive. However if she doesn't on her own, you say it once and be very specific about it. Corey has this method of saying "would you be happy if I did such and such e.g. texting other girls on Instagram or reacting to their pictures or talking to the hot girls from job whatever etc." She will reply no. Then you can say that her getting attention from other dudes feels the same to you. If she's a good women she will understand and will stop.
@@funkywarrior3906 However, from my experience - every time you need to have this talk and explain her why entertaining attention from dudes while exclusive is wrong the result is the same. She pretends to understand and falls back into the same routine until the next time you catch her. It's not worth it. They are low value women and will never change.
Biggest red flag is the old guy friends thing, you can date have fun but you cannot fall for that situation that’s a road to disaster. Any disrespect or uneasy feelings about these guys cut it off fellas, that’s not for you chief!
Guys gotta stop getting in the habit of collecting red flags.
and just have fun and live your life on your own terms.
@@robinmattias true
Omg. Such a true statement! Gotta remind myself of this. Makes for a great shirt slogan !!!!
guys i have a question i hope you can help me out, my girlfriend would pick a up a fight call me a lier for not answering her texts or not texting her, and when i tell her the reaosn why i didn't she will not take it even tho she knows it's true but, 10m later she would say sorry, she would do that a lot where pick fights and say sorry after 30m or an hour what should i do when she says sorry? do i just accept it and say okay or ignore her?
@@arths10 she's too insecure, dump her bruh...
Something I remembered Corey saying back in the day is that if a woman is a cheater there’s not really anything you can do about that but be an observer. Which is part of why you date for about 2 years before getting serious
These kind of women will never comply longterm.
Even if you do everything right there is no way you will not slip up at least once or get complacent for some period of time, and then they will instantly return to their orbiters searching for the next better package.
I been there and learned the hard way. Never date women with these signs, as Corey says they have no value in being loyal and just aimlessly give up their body to random alpha moves.
Who would want a person like this in their life that cant form a proper connection. They will only hurt you in the long run.
Coach Corey is a gift to the modern day man. 5 years ago, I screwed up with a beautiful woman because I treated her like a celebrity and chased, texting and calling her all the time, after the first date I called her a few days later to make the second date, she replied with 'we'll see'. I never saw her again. I found coach and learnt so much and I've never chased again, my priority is my purpose. Coach has inspired me to follow my dreams and start my own CZcams channel and I'm loving every second of it!
All the feminists told us that if a man doesn’t like you having guy friends then you are jealous and insecure. Tots BS. Men of the past would never put up with this crap.
Women are significantly more emotionally intelligent than us men. They will say orbiters are just friends or harmless but make no mistake she is well aware of her orbiters and how it makes you feel. She either wants to make you insecure or have you fight the orbiters over her.
The solution to the problem is to remove yourself from the game. For example, if she's being orbited on social media defriend her or stop interacting with her posts. Don't attack her personally but tell her in your eyes the orbiting looks desperate and you don't want to see it. If she accuses you of being controlling, say "I have no problem with your orbiters, I'm not telling you stop but I refuse to look at it on a public website".
She will either go crazy or say "fine" and sulk for a week. Whatever happens, stand your ground. For added effect, make sure you interact with her female friends on social media. Don't flirt, but make frequent interactions. If her friends attempt to flirt with you you've hit the jack pot.
You have to remember in relationships the controlling person can easily be the women, us men don't spot these nuances therefore we don't realise we are being controlled. Men used to control women with violence and aggression. That's not acceptable in todays society and women have the upper hand on emotional intelligence, therefore as a man you need to mindful of this.
A similar analogy would be if a wrestling champion wanted to arm wrestle and you was a 150lb ectomorph. You wouldn't rise to the challenge because you already know it's not a fair match. When it comes to emotional intelligence, the woman is always the wrestler. This is why the world is now full of beta males. The key is to not be in the game, that doesn't mean you should avoid women, it simply means that you stick to your guns no matter how much emotional abuse you get from her and her friends. A little bit of emotional abuse is much better than a life of mental torture.
She knows exactly what she’s doing
Coach definitely changed his mind when it comes to this topic when you watch his earlier videos,This is definitely the proper way to handle this situation,You have to call out the disrespect and give them the opportunity to change the behavior,In a committed exclusive relationship you’re partner does not have the freedom of acting single and exploring other options it’s disrespectful and not attractive at all ,if they wanna act single let them be single,It’s not needy or insecure when your completely willing to walk away and never look back ,It’s self worth and knowing your value and coming from a abundance mind set ,Pushing it under the rug is inviting them to do the same thing over and over and it’s rewarding bad behavior that’s not worth your time in my opinion .let her be with the the orbiters and find someone with integrity
I also want to say , you are the original trend starter of men coaching and dating . I’ve seen so many channels pop up now, A LOT OF THEM piggy back of you fundamentals . Even AlphaM tries ur fundamentals and change it to his own ......... you are the Father and OG
The least they could do is give me credit instead of dishonestly passing it off as their own original material.
@@CoachCoreyWayne Coach I love your stuff, but something I wonder, on this topic.. The "two steps forward, one step back", did you learn it from David D?
They can copy his content but cannot emulate his style my friend!!
@@Carloss86py he states who he has learn't from in his book. David Deida is definitely one of them and Doc love. He gives credit where credit is due.
He needs to do the same thing she does its not always the guys fault she just wants all the guys attention cause she is a female player PERIOD
He just needs to drop her
@jacob No he won't. A confident alpha carries himself in a way that makes it obvious he can replace any woman.
@Rational Media Actually, I'm not really big on throwing that word around. I was simply using it within the context of this video. Not sure why you chose "2014" as the year to prove your point. You're probably young enough to where 2014 seems like a long time ago. When you get older, six years is like the day before yesterday.
Beautiful advice. My EX-girlfriend had a friend since the beginning. In the end, I told her that since she never gave up her friend for years, I would also need to have friends from the opposite sex ...... end of story. NO DRAMA ALLOWED !!
Exactly !! Preach !! It goes both ways , enough with the hypocrisy
He just needs to concentrate on improving himself. If she's worth anything, she'll want to be on the ride. If not, next!
If she needs to have these other dudes in her life move on. There’s a billion more in the pond
The problem is there's too many simps out there as well ready to bend over backwards for women.
Corey, you are absolutely right he’s definitely pursing too much. I bought your book for my 22 year old son a few months ago. 🙏🏽
@Rational Media deaad LOL
Great Mum. Also pretty hot for a Mum!
@@christopherodonnell7718 😒
u are a great mother
This dating is ridiculous. It's a terrible game and when you think you have a good/decent relationship something goes wrong. I really am going to put the big blame on social media and society telling how we should be.
I'm 35 and never had a girlfriend due to shyness and social anxiety my whole life. I have been searching up red pill content, hypergamy, monkey branching, etc. (Sigh) It all seems like a Herculean task to not only find a good woman, but to keep her as well. What a sad world.
Coach out here saving men's lives with one "come on,man" at a time! 💯
Its almost like she testing your leadership potential for her own life and her potential offspring. Empathy is key at all times.
Joke around her. Don't take her serious when she's testing you, take her serious when she really have a point. Don't crumble under pressure. When she's being ridiculous or trying to make you behave like her, do not take her siriously, mantain your masculinity. If she says something like ''you're stupid'', just say: ''Yeah I'm stupid. That's why I chose you. You're smart. And you chose me! :)
''
"You sure about that bro"? 😂
If she has social media,she has orbiters,just a fact of life.
It’s not the same thing. When it’s texting on a daily basis and she feeding these orbiters, it’s very different.
@@toejamr1 I disagree sorry
@@toejamr1 i disagree aswell man, it’s black or white (no grey area when it comes to this subject)
dude...i've been following you since the beginning of your youtube videos, i read your book 10+ times and been following the principles since then...my whole game changed incredibly. I'm glad to see you are still here going strong and giving kickass advice. Thank you 🙏...i need to binge watch all your videos.
Corey I have been watching your videos from day 1. There isn’t another guy like you who gives such great advice. Keep up the great work and god bless you
I had one girl without integrity give me her number right after her bf who I was chatting with headed to the bathroom. She turned and said don't worry he is about gone anyway ... I never called her 🙄. I was Soo close to telling the bf in the bathroom to leave the whore and felt bad for him
Could have saved him years of misery...hard call
always do the community service.
I don't care what anybody says, I would've snitched, why waste someone elses time, effort & most importantly money if you ain't serious
Great vid again coach!
Thanks to your work i'm in a better position now after my girlfriend left me 1,5 months ago. By focusing on myself i pretty quickly got over her and i have to say: not giving a sh*t about what she thinks feels so powerful. Greetings from the Netherlands!!
Coach always posts when I need his knowledge most. Coincidence? I think not.
YOU JUST DESCRIBED MY PAST RELATIONSHIP WITH MY DAUGHTERS MOM AND HOW SHE THINKS AND ACTS PERFECTLY!! And everything you said to do is exactly correct and that’s exactly how I handled it she’s just not good girlfriend material untrustworthy and has no integrity or respect so I got rid of her. I can’t stand when women act like that because now you’re wasting my time that I could be spending with someone that isn’t going to treat me like that. Thanks Corey your an absolute GENIUS!! Keep up the great work!
Absolutely 100%. Totally agree. Wise words here guys. Been there and I have the t shirt! Thanks Cory.
If I have to compete with other guys she's not worth it "the other guy" or "guys" can have her bye👋felicia!
I been watching Coach Corey Wayne since I was a little Mustache
On your way to become next Corey
Have you and your mustache read the book 10-15 times ?
@@mrlocolugo I have written this for little Mustache since I have just started seeing this videos and has read this book only once
Corey Wayne thank you so much for making me the man I am today.... I know it might not mean much but reading ur book and watching some of ur videos has defined me into a different person
I'll be damned. Speaking from experience here. This *just* happened to me. The b***h had several orbiters around, and I thought I was being cool not giving her shit for having other guys hanging around, but you hit the nail on the head here. She cheated on me. And just as it was said in the video, it took her several months to finally decide to be exclusive with me. It's like... textbook. Unreal.
Coach Corey Wayne thank you for you hard work and dedication. I have read how to be a 3% over six times and now I’m currently reading mastering yourself. Thank you so much! You have helped me become a better man!
Again, amazing timing, Coach 💪🏼😎
This is the Corey Wayne I know. He is back on his game working hard to give us groundbreaking content. The 🐐.
joelchummel I’ve already read it dodo bird.
Such a great way to answer this, awesome as always coach!
If you suspect that someone is a narcissist. Never tell them that they are one. You will give them the upper hand
Why is that exactly?
I loved the hypothetical schpeel you gave the girl. Amazingly well-said.
First one here let's gooooo. Love this guy
Excellent speech! You must include it in your third edition of your book.
the final piece given is golden.. thanks sir!
I have to say... No one has taught me more about life than Coach... Corey...Thank you for what you do... I could never find the right words to give you the full props due my friend
Coach i love that you keep reminding us to reed the book 10 to 15 times ...right here right now im struggling with a girl ive just start dating with .. she already saying to me she dont whant to invest in a relationship bla bla bla , Ive read the book only 4 time and ive been following you since 2017 ( yes i know , come on man ) But the best part is that i exactly know where i fucked up .. the texting game ... ive text this girl too much too soon ... beginer mistake yess ... i am now backing off as i should .. only 24 hour later she start blowing my phone again with text messages witch i didint reply yet ( cuz im a buissy man ) .
BTW i just what to thank you coach !
Since 2017 ive been able to aproach many jaw dropping wommen and slept with them effortles . Thank you
Keep teaching them up Corey
Thank you coach for everything you do.
Good job coach keep going!
Best Coach 💯💪🏾
Just move on bro. Not worth it. Tell her if you dont cut off your male friends im gone period. Do not look back.
@ross from britain who f cares? She wants to think im insecure go think whatever you want.
I really feel for anyone guy or girl in the situation. Knowledge set me free, listen to this man, he has some good knowledge he's giving.... And for free.
EXCELLENT EXCELLENT video! I just wish that this was produced months ago when I was going through the same thing with my ex. Oh well...
Y’all need to read.
“What every body is saying” by Joe Navarro. It’s written by an ex FBI agent. It has an excellent way of deciphering people’s body language. A must read. Find it on amazon.
Amanda Schwartz
I’ve got his ‘Dangerous Personalities’ to read...
If she's your dedicated GF and you see any evidence of her texting/chatting up other dudes then you need to shut that shit down. Tell her that as long as she is your girl, she will not be chatting up other dudes all day long. If she refuses then you walk away, remove your commitment and go see other women. When she decides to comply then you make her earn your commitment. If not, then she belongs to the streets.
yes beautifully put Corey
My long distance ex-girlfriend used to have a lot of orbiters. She wasn't the brightest and this was during the early days of social media, so I managed to figure out who she was talking to.
She ended up hanging out a lot with this total nice guy which never went anywhere and also dated and kissed another guy who I apparently had no reason to worry about. The best part was when I got an STD from her a few months later when we saw eachother.
I broke up with her 2 months later and within a few weeks she already had a relationship with another guy. What a mess that relationship was. That was 11 years ago and she's since married a guy.
Funnily enough she randomly messaged one of my siblings asking how I was a couple of months ago. Happily single and applying Corey's teachings so I don't end up with another one like her!
Thank You for advices, they helped alot.:)
With all the negativity and pessimism coming from the red pill comunity, its refreshing to see a more balanced, hopefull and optimistic point of view.
An 18 year old girl with hormones raging... He needs to let her go. She WILL cheat on him eventually. And he needs to get his own Harem.
About the dislikes: What the f--k did Corey say that was wrong in this video? Everything he said is having self respect and to not accept to be a girl's doormat. Thanks coach for telling us men the truth and continue with what you are doing, we are many who appreciate your wise advise.
@10:30 Because friends always sleep with each other...
For all you business guys out there: Would you be ok with a company with whom you have an exclusive deal, does the same business with 5 other companies?! I don't think so! Would Spotify be OK with Joe Rogan plastering his podcast all over other platforms until 2030 after signing his exclusive deal?!
For this guy to have this advice at his age is so valuable!! I feel good that he knows what to do and has this kind of experience.
Well put
Great advice!!👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
Love you coach!!!!
This is such a blessing. I found out my ex was a Mistress for over 10 years and I didn’t know. This shit fucked my brain. This is so much power! On 3rd read!
Mistress?
I have the urge to send this to my newly made ex . The opening quote could NOT BE MORE DEAD -ON !
it's mind blowing !!!
send it.
Intro is back hell yea
I told my ex the only way I would break up with you is if you cheat on me. She did that and I was out. Dont let them back in or give them another chance. They will say everything to get you back.
You are awesome man , I just broke up with my girlfriend because of this . It was hard but had to do it.
Me too brother. Just walk away!..
You are a beast!
Love it! But these kids are young, is not gonna work for them. He had to kill this monster when it was little and unfortunately some women like to be treated like garbage (every once in a while) they like to know that your a beast but that you have the beast under control. I just got off the subject but if he does not like her texting som much maybe he should start texting as well and see how she reacts. If she has nothing to hide she shouldn't have a problem if she does then it can be addressed (that might be the end of the relationship) but I like your approach, really, really like it. On another note, this kid is 20 years young, it is illegal to be monogamous at 20! You don't know what you really want! Have multiple relationships, figure out what you want before you get serious! You are in your prime.
Also, if this guy brings up her male orbiters like CCW suggested, all she'll say is "you're being paranoid, I'm not doing anything with those guys, you don't trust me," flip it on him and gaslight him, like clockwork. This woman isn't worth hanging on to IMO.
This came out just in time coach I’m currently going through this with my girl and her ex, she recently blocked him but got upset when she saw I was looking at her Facebook messaging exchange with him. That’s how I found out she blocked him in the first place.
Hey Corey,
I’m deeply bothered by Joe Biden stealing your “C’mon man”.
😂 this is true, but the way Corey says it it’s much better!
coach is on fire, uploading 2 video in 2 days..
based on my experience, personally i wouldn't want to date girl who monkey branching.. not because insecurity but that girl lacks attention from the father and the father mostly is so weak. in the end, find someone else
This guy is gold
A woman like that you should definitely walk away from. disrespectful and a problem from the start. Not worth it. She needs to go away and work on herself. Thats not your problem. Go check other girls.
Coach has funny term “pusswaa” 😂
The pusswaaa
Corey is the man!!!
Hey I was just a little confused on something. Coach Corey you are still friends with many of you ex's because they are the type of people you want in your life, but when does it become an issue when a woman is friend with her ex's. What red flags should I be looking out for? Would it be frequency that they talk to their ex's or something else? Thank you so much!
Coach what happens if she says she wouldn’t mind if you hung out / talked to ex’s and other girls? I had this conversation with the last girlfriend and got that response. I ended up leaving as I didn’t want to deal with it and didn’t feel comfortable.
I will buy the audio book and listen 100 times
Hey coach!!!
No one:
Corey Wayne for his intros: Girlfriends Male Orbiteeeeeeeeers - How to Stay the Priiiiiiize?
I love coach u the greatest
He's right on so many levels....
Kinda going thru this … recently got involved w a co-worker and I can tell she really likes me, but there are other co-workers that flirt w her, tease and make it obvious they like her, but I just need to stay cool and realize that at the end of the day, she’s w me and I should stay the prize cause I’m a fucking catch. Keep ya head up homies, we got this 🤘🏽
It'll drive you nuts on the long run. Better to choose a less attention hungry girl. Curious to know how this one turned out.
You are the flavor of the week. Then her attention will shift to one of the other guys when she gets bored of you.
Yep, as Jay T mentioned Corey, you're the Father and the OG.
Never even bother arguing or reasoning with her about it. Had a girl who held contact with ex affairs and had many orbiters. Everytime that was mentioned, I was called controlling, abusive, the whole nine yards. There was always some sort of bs excuse why I am overreacting. That same female would get extremely upset and go into rage fits when a female literally just smiled at me. Ex lover telling her he'd like to wat her kitty, I am overreacting because it doesnt matter what he wants as long she doesnt want it. I am overreacting and controlling, everyone else sees it that way allegedly, too, except me cause I am an emotional abuser. Me talking to a female friend indeed just superficial? Boom goes the dynamite, I just be cheating on her! Turns out she's a serial cheater, always has multiple guys going and even triangulates them against each other. She'd start giving away obvious clues. Like I'd just ask how work was and she'd blow up in a rage and ask what I am accusing her of. Well, that must have been because she was sleeping with a coworker. I talked to some affairs. Turns out everyone thought they were the main guy and she would actually send the same messages to all of us, tell us the same things and send us the same pictures at the same time. Oh, did I mention that according to her, she's a poor damsel in distress and all her affairs / exes turned out to be narcissists and just took advantage of her, constantly cheating on her? She's projecting. When you listen to her telling what wicked things their exes allegedly did to her, she tells her stories. 3 of us talked and went no contact at the exact same time. Google narcissistic collapse. Obviously her 3 primary sources of attention going no contact at the same time will make a narcissist loose their mind. Which was good. She slipped up, couldnt get her stories straight, became an alcoholic, which got child protective services involved in her life (she's a single mom), she tried to put BS charges on all 3 of us in her rage but slipped up so bad that she was prosecuted for filing false reports. Her downward spiral went pretty low quickly. Her only asset was her looks. She was a 10/10. At the time she was under 30. Now she's 33, became fat and not even the pump and dump guys that would come back every once in a while are gone. Yes, I know all this because I kept track of it for too long. You'd have to experience to understand how you're just trying to figure out what unimaginable evil has happened to you. It's the best thing that has happened to me though. It got me into researching female nature and the results of narcissistic abuse. Silent treatment is a big indicator of Borderline / Narcissistic. Run. As fast as you can. What keeps you there is Trauma Bonding. Research it. Its not love you feel for her. It's a problem.
This exact situation happened to me almost word for word. It is scary how narcisstic personalities act in the exact same ways and how easily us guys will fall for it because she is beautiful
@@kevinkapowski You're right. You can exchange one narcissist with a different one and it's like the same person all over. I think what's particularly parculiar is how they use the exact same words, phrases and manipulations as if they all together attended a class for it. It's such a precise repetition in all if them that it's scary. Though once you realize that, it's easy to spot them. And their ways apparently have never adapted to the modern world. Like their most favorite "I never said that, you just remember it wrong!" line. They developed that method before messaging apps. They will say this line literally 3 sentences after saying what they now deny every saying in a messaging app. When made aware of it, mine would always say "Oh, I forgot, you know I forget quickly". Usually followed by remembering something I said 3 weeks ago. Also one of their standard games. Their memory is very sharp when it suits them. But they'll claim not remembering what they did 2 minutes ago otherwise. Mine once insisted her not telling me she made out with a guy was because she forgot. She mentioned exceptional details about what they ate, figures and numbers about his job but forgot they made out. Sorry for the rant... Again anyone who has ever experienced that knows one is glad when they can rant about this insanity.
@@BalticLab yup sounds like my ex to a T,no accountability at all for her action or if I called her out on things.then I was the bad guy and had no say and if I did she would tell me i was getting defensive and didn't like my attitude.rwally shows on her why she has gone thourgh two marriages and numerous lost relationships.
Tons of red flags I I ignored in the beginning thinking it would
Get better but it did not.sad when she tells me what her ex seen in her and I seen the same that tells you a lot.
Total damaged goods and toxic, manipulater,and her track records shows.total shit show when it came to her telling me about her sexual past,like I really wanna hear you tell me about your hook ups after your marriages. One just blows my mind that she told me of her and ex sister in law who liked the same guy so they had a threesome.then I find out when I met her that she was fucking somebody else online and she did not tell me thinking I will be dating her.then a month in she dumps me for the other guy but use the excuse that she can't handle it because she just got out of her marriage.reason why she could not handle it because she was swallowing my load and his.then like a fool I took her back a month later because she got dumped by him,I found out this about year and half into the relationship.
Shes just a user and taker,never initiated any thing from phone calls and sex,and was lucky if I got that gave numerous excuses not to have it.
She told me if I didn't like it to go get a 30 year old,I should have walked out the door that day and never looked backed.she was totally different around me then her friends,hot and cold and different person to me very day.no respect for me at all and a loud mouth and deviant skank.like her friends have great relationships and shes the runt of the litter who will be always looking in from the outside.
Then to boot she wants to be friends with me,she says just in case we need each other I laughed to myself.🤣
I have kept in contacted with her but only if she messages me and ya only if she needs to tell me something really important or needs help.have not chatted with her since August 18th.but if she tries I'm going to ghost her now.shes 52 and still a grown child with her mom and daughter living with her good luck to her on that (Good riddance you skank.)
@@BalticLab So true, only those who been through it understand! Very comforting to know I am not the only one, but on the bright side as you noted, we can never fall for it again!
@KF50BS: going through something similar , is there a way I could talk to you via email or any other medium?
I ended up getting the girl of my dreams 3 years ago thanks to this man BUT she turned out to be the kind of girl to avoid because of how messed up she is.. she leaves for 4 months.. I let her go.. she comes back.. we date for 4-7 months.. she leaves.. literally 3 time cycle already.. she never has a reason to leave she just never felt like she was “in love” with me.. she’s gone again.. the shit is getting old. So toxic, but man do I love her.
I always keep my phone's screen down so if anything fall, the screen doesn't break.
Staying the prize is great but I wouldn't tolerate male orbitirs if im in an exclusive relationship
Combination of bruce wayne and johnn wayne. Buy the book and watch Janes Bond movies. Do you agree mr corey wayme. Btw thabk you for all your dead on correct advice
Oh good a creepy Bobby Reo ad to start with! 😂 Now heeeeeeeres Corey!
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The Goat Tree Hahahaha. Bobby “Scrambler” Rio 😩
How do you respond when she say's " They're just my friends"?
Been watching CCW for a while since I re-entered the dating scene after a 13 year marriage ended by a brutal divorce. Girl I've been dating for about 8 months shows similar faults. Has girl friends but has a bunch of orbiters. At least one she's acknowledged she slept with. Not sure if I should ignore and dish her some of her own medicine ( show text notifications from some of my "friends"), confront her like Coach says in the video, or other....Not sure how much of an issue it is since I haven't checked her phone ( I'm not really interested in it ) but I do see the occasional notification on her phone but more importantly she's very protective of her phone and always has the screen away and if I approach her while she's on the phone she'll close the app or switch to another.
guys i have a question i hope you can help me out, my girlfriend would pick a up a fight call me a lier for not answering her texts or not texting her, and when i tell her the reaosn why i didn't she will not take it even tho she knows it's true but, 10m later she would say sorry, she would do that a lot where pick fights and say sorry after 30m or an hour what should i do when she says sorry? do i just accept it and say okay or ignore her?
Step 1- don’t date girls like that
Long story short, I have been thru all the phone hiding, the lies etc. I should've had enough self respect to walk away the FIRST time, because no matter how much we worked on things, even including being broken up for 3 years and then reconciling and trying again, she NEVER changed.
The book and videos are so helpful with getting women but theres so much effort you have to put into these which women which he says it should be effortless but if women are constantly going to test you its never going to be effortless to me it says being in a relationship is not worth the time when theres so much else we can be focused on
IDK. I saw a lot of chatting growing up. There was no trashy stuff, just philosophy and psychology, jokes, recipes, anecdotes, etc. There's a difference between a hot and heavy attraction versus neighborly conversations.